I used to say she was good for him cause she's supportive and patient, but you can't put so much pressure on someone and expect them to always act that way, people get tired of dealing with certain things and it's fine, I hope she's doing what's best for her
This! And/or she got what she ultimately wanted from him which was his kid. 🤷♀️ regardless of how it plays out, they’re tied for life through their baby.
Obviously, not for the better, you never see her with her child, except for photo ops like her Jenner friends. What mother goes on vacation and party set up with her friends leaving a four month old behind.🙄
She did want him he just ruined it, you don’t need stick beside a man to prove you want him, if he’s not treating you well then all the want and love goes out the window. Women need to learn to love and respect themselves, that should come first always
In her defense, they dated when they were in their early 20s(?) and that kind of personality is tolerated until parenthood comes in. What pains me is how he's self aware about himself and not wanting to do anything to change. Not for her, not him, not for anyone
@@newwave-tl9ds I still didn’t forget Justin Bieber saying on ig live “if you weren’t pretty I would’ve gotten rid of you a long time ago”, how can she fall in love with that lmao. he clearly liked the idea of her too, they both started the relationship on the wrong foot. Stop putting all the blame on women
He is traumatised to the core bc of Diddy. He needs to heal, but it's too much to him. It's up to him to want to heal. She needs to walk away from him. He needs time alone, see himself, heal, otherwise he will hurt people bc he is hurt. That's hard pill to swallow
As an underaged kid yes he was tied to Diddy/Jay Z. But we don't blame underage youth for the actions committed by adults, nor do we blame underage youths for being sexually assaulted by adults.
Transit Saturn is over his sun sign so I wonder how that’s manifesting. Sun representing father figures, maybe a coming to terms or reality of harsh truths about father/male figures and the toxicity of the patriarchy. Learning to become his own father maybe
You predicted Hailey would put her foot down after having a baby! Also this couple is so exhausting, their energy is never positive or romantic but I think Hailey is too prideful to let Justin go. In her mind she’s already invested so much. And then Justin is under the good Christians don’t divorce or whatever 🤦♀️ free the both of them honestly
i’d say they’re both too prideful to let each other go. Everyone was telling them how bad of an idea this was, especially given justin’s past. I wonder if seeing selena genuinely happy and carefree made her realize she isn’t actually happy “winning”.
Or are you just end up neglecting or abusing your child because you were forced to carry something you never wanted and felt like you had to have a child because society tells you that it’s your job
Girl she needs to leave that man, she is so worried about people’s perception and sticking it to the public that she willing to be unhappy with this man, so I don’t feel bad for her, that is immature thinking and shows low self esteem. Come on girly you can get your happy ending with a good man.
I think the reason ppl don't feel bad for Hailey is because she stalked that man while he was with Selena. She did everything and did some bad shii to get with him. Now she has what she wanted😂 she got him a manipulative way now karma is on her arse.
You’re forgetting the machinations of Stephen Baldwin (possibly in cahoots with Lou Taylor) who I think honestly programmed his daughter to entrap someone he saw as a cash cow. Those early videos are so weird, and in the first one where he takes Hailey to see Justin, he admits it’s him who’s a Bieber fan and not so much Hailey. Hollywood families and their strategising is always on a 10, 20 year plan - they don’t think like us. I wonder if Hailey may be waking up from that spell too. Everyone involved deserves better honestly - I heard Justin was recently rinsed for a massive chunk of everything he’s earned by his accounting/management team which could be a threat NOT to testify, or a way of trying to put him under so much pressure he’s not around to testify, whether he’s incarcerated somewhere or otherwise. There are a lot of horrible moving parts here and Hailey is possibly more sinned against than sinning. Only my alleged opinions/thoughts. I think people can have their lives so well engineered they don’t realise how much of it was all planned out for them.
Good for her. I’m so over men. And Justin is giving that guy you meet on tinder and you go to the bar and have a few drinks and he trauma dumps on you on the first date.
He was r worded by men and made to give them oral pleasure in front of others. He's full of rage, pain, self-hatred and is even mad at God. I get it. He's hurting and full of shame. Let's be as compassionate as we can.
I think she pursued him for years thinking she could change him. Justin needs to heal. There's a part of the that journey he has to go through on his own.
I remember Justin stating on an interview, that he thought getting married was going to resolve all his issues and he said that wasn’t the case. That says a lot. And the fact I’ve never seen him wear his wedding ring on social media posts??? Yet Hailey wears hers 😢
Come on, they don't have pressures like normal ppl. They don't have to worry about money. I also think she knows she has her hooks in him, with having a child.
Unpopular opinion apparently but I feel bad for her, motherhood and (possible) divorce is difficult enough, add the fact that she gets clowned constantly on the internet. I wouldn’t blame her if she starts cursing ppl out tbh!
I go through waves of empathy with her 😂😂😅 because she in her right mind has made some clownish decisions imo. You can only blame a girl so much though, and ultimately they both chose to have a child while not fully healed from past/current traumas & have been under tense relations with one another (allegedly)
@@celticgirl8882but we don’t know if they purposely had a baby to fix their marriage. Keep in mind, Justin always spoke about wanting to be a father & Hailey was the one that wanted to wait… regardless. I do hope the best for the baby.
Ant, I look at Hailey and the word that comes to my head is "denial". I think she is going to keep the act for as long as possible until Justin does something really embarrassing with no coming back from.
Besides the misogyny, what has confused me about people being so p*ssed at Hailey for trying to make their relationship look perfect in the public eye is that…like…aren’t ALL your faves doing the exact same thing with their man? You can’t tell me everything is good with Selena and Benny, Travis and Taylor, Bey and Jay-Z, even Charli XCX and her man. Like, let’s not split hairs here, it’s part of the industry.
I think it's because their team is not good at their PR. Like taylor and travis for example, they dont look miserable in every single public picture we get from them. It's like justin and hailey dont really play the part
I think because they put in so in your face (like intimate photos and online chatter about their $3x). Also, they timed so many of their moments when Selena had big things happening so that created a fan base war. And example of this is Hailey showing up to the Rare release party and even this drama coming up right after Selena announces her engagement...its like clockwork. People are annoyed with the gas lighting, other celebs aren't as in your face about it and then cry wolf.
If one has been a victim of SA, then becoming a new parent is very TRIGGERING. He has a shit ton of unresolved trauma and had no business getting married and starting a family until he heals. I really am worried for that boy. As for her, well, you get what you pay for i guess- as the saying goes.
@@katteresa6174 Diddy said when he and Justin were on Jimmy Kimmel some years ago that “Justin wasn’t to speak of what he and his big brother Puff do behind-the-scenes” he literally admitted it right there 😭😭😭😭
Justin Bieber thinking nobody can make Selena Gomez happy because they were childhood stars. Feeling like Selena is forever broken. Just like a narcissist would think, yeah. Benny Blanco isn't the only source of Selena' Gomez happiness
I'm going to be honest. Parenthood amplifies each person and the dynamics in between. Its an incredibly vulnerable time. I hope she knows she has the rest of her life to be happy. There are people who will love her for her. Same for him .
I think he is a man child and she liked to mother him and take care of him, but now she has a real baby that needs care and attention from her that she is exhausted.. he probably throwing tantrums and she is ignoring him
She was obsessed with the polished product of him, but the reality is that he was broken by the industry and Diddy. She preyed on him just like everyone else and he knows it and that’s why he doesn’t respect her. The world wanted a piece of him and he will always be that wounded dog in a corner not trusting anyone until he really heals. I think he can. He doesn’t have to become a sad statistic like Aaron Carter. I have some faith in him.
He can't cope with the baby...what does he do anyways? He can't even dress properly. She on the other hand decided to have a baby with a baby...girl bye. Imagine those people living in the real world.
Sloan Bella psychic said it a few months ago. Justin is at risk of unaliving himself. N that it'll clearly be seen or come out by Feb next year(2025).. Hopefully nothing like that happens
All this stuff has been coming out about Diddy being a PDF FILE, around the same time his son was born. I would be shocked if this wasn’t causing him to having a breakdown. Especially with that clip going around from when Justin was alone with Diddy for a 48 hour “sleepover.” He’s probably getting flooded with bad memories and at the same time he has a new child, that’s a lot to deal with and it’s probably triggering his unhealed childhood trauma in some way. Genuinely hope he gets professional help, but ofc you can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped.
beautiful reading. I totally get it, when I became a mother, I can't stand many things about my partner anymore. It's just part of being a mother, you NEED HELP MORE THAN EVER. not a sad guy just think about himself all the time. I know it is not his fault but he needs to face his own shadow and grow... because she grows
Why on gods earth would they bring a human into this world if one of them are mentally suitable 🤦🏻♀️🙄 That was just reckless! She’s out partying it up when this baby is only 4 months old 🤦🏻♀️ these moments are the most crucial and precious. But overall it’s just immature of both!
If all parents had to be mentally stable (as well as financially, etc.) before bringing children into the world half of us probably wouldn't be here. 😆
People need to make mistakes because that's how we learn. She might party because she thinks she's missing out on something but i bet she'll realize pretty quick that loving that baby is way better than any party could be. 🤞🤍🙏
I think a lot of these celebrities don't know who they truly are and have lost their sense of self. They both have lots of healing to go through like most people. Bringing a child into this entertainment world and this toxic relationship never ends well. I hope 2025 brings epiphany and major changes for everyone
It's sad because this dynamic is more common than you might think. Many women are holding their husbands up, and those men would barely be able to function properly without their wives. This is why so many men marry young and quickly. Once a woman has a child and can no longer take care of both a grown man and a baby, the dynamic shifts. She loses herself even more, and the man often becomes resentful. Every woman I've spoken to has said that having a child changed their relationship and in most cases, it exacerbated any existing unhealthy dynamics. Check in with your married friends, people, they’re often like Hayley, it’s all about the portrayal but really smoke and mirrors. Research shows that Men really benefit the most from marriage.
That's what happened with my parents. They married young and were together for 7 years before having me and my sister. My dad grew resentful and jealous that all my moms energy was suddenly directed twords us and not him. My dad would often take his anger and frustration out on us.
@@missDiamondgirl55 😂 Lol 2, actually consent separation is good for them both as well as for little Jack~ 💫 LOVE N GOLDEN LIGHT TO ALL CHILDREN N THE INNOCENTS 💛
When I was in a relationship with a narcissist, I was trying my best to keep it going. When I found out that I was pregnant, it was game over. My child came first.
@@hollystiener16 Yes (a lot of people don’t understand this, but I do) I think he never properly healed from the Diddy stuff so it’s possible that with what’s going on with Diddy now is trauma from that is resurfacing (if you know what I mean)
@@hollystiener16 And to add to your comment, I’m glad you mentioned NPD because the people using the words “narcissist” and “narcissistic” I’m not completely sure that they understand that it comes from an actual personality disorder (being NPD) and while people can be narcissistic not just anyone can be NPD
@@hollystiener16 He probably has CPTSD (complex post traumatic stress disorder) because of the things he went through in his life I can’t imagine how difficult this would be (I have PTSD, but CPTSD is on a whole other level) 🤧🤧🤧🤧
“She got her fire back” GOOD! Maybe this will be the kick he needs to get his shit together 🤷🏻♀️ he wants independence but acts like a man-baby all the time
I think Justin is used to being babied by her, and now that Hailey is a real mother with a real baby to care for, she's over it. She is tired of carrying everything emotionally.
Having a baby will change most women, my daughter had a baby girl 30/08/2024 and when I say my party daughter did a complete 360! She’s like a different woman. She’s a great mum and fully invested in my granddaughter. I hope She works out what important for her.
I think Justin has reason to be like he is. He was graped by several men in the industry. Blaming him for being mopey is tone deaf. People point him to religion as opposed to therapy. He needs therapy not religion and someone who doesn't make him their cash cow. He's been used more in many yucky ways
Motherhood is such a wild ride. It made me feel like I went into childbirth as one person and came out another. More power to her. You're absolutely right in that if she doesn't honest, he will make her take the fall and look like a bad mom.
Everyone gets this one type of relationship in their life, we put ourselves in it. Then the wake up call happens, and the fallout is really hard and damaging. Healing takes a really long time. But, we did it to ourselves and theres the growth
My daughter's father was a Justin. When Daughter arrived, I saw everything with new eyes - you cannot mother someone to health, they have to heal themselves. I had been holding him together for ten years at the time - and when I needed him to support us, he didn't step up. And you can't do it for them. And there is something about bringing a new life into the world (and all the pain and stress and craziness that comes with it) that throws all the relationship issues into sharp relief. And you become someone stronger, someone who no longer puts up with the bullshit. I ended up leaving my daughter's father - it was horrendous, it was not how I saw my life going, but I didn't want my child to grow up thinking his behaviour was acceptable or what she should grow up living with or accept from her future partners. Justin seems to put band aids on his trauma - faith, his wife, etc etc. He is a child mentally and has suffered untold trauma and he's surrounded by enablers. And shadow work requires so much inward looking and pain and you can't do that in a position of celebrity. And god love her, Hailey has tried so hard to help him (despite all the crazy hate against her), gotten NO credit for it and it's not up to her to carry this - I knew this would happen as soon as she announced her pregnancy. No woman can mother both her partner and her child. Go Hailey girl - you've got this. 🖤 Edit: Sorry, this reading hit aaaaaaall my trigger points while I'm 3 margaritas deep on holiday 😅 Please don't come for me x
Justin probably thought that marriage and kids would simply make his traumas and issues disappear, but now he sees that it's not the case. As for Hailey, in my opinion she agreed to marry him because she thought that she could fix his problems, but now she has a baby who needs her and she can't keep making excuses for Justin anymore. They married way to soon, without building a proper relationship first and now the consequences are finally there...
No one should ever get married without dating that person for long, when I was younger I used to jump into a relationship only after a few days of talking to someone but I got hurt that way now I’ve learned you have to take time to get to know someone before dating that person (much less marrying them) 😩
@@abbied She did chased him for years, but I do believe that she truly loves him, I mean.. it's obvious that she has to put up with a lot in order to make the marriage work. But now they have a baby who needs her, so let's see for how long she will be able to put it up with him because it's obvious that something has changed on her since the baby arrived. Whatever happens, I do hope that they can be good parents, even if they decide to go separate ways, because the baby needs to come first now...
@@abbied Lol I know, but I'm assuming that either Justin or a nanny was with him ( most likely the nanny lol), while she was gone. But the fact that Justin didn't really seem bothered that she left, tells me that things aren't really working out between them...they seriously need to get their shit together for the sake of their baby..
I can’t feel sorry for Hailey (sorry Ant Spirit doesn’t let me 😅) because she knew what she was getting into w Justin and to still bring a child into this relationship, nah and now she is empowered well YEAH a child is here but no if anything she got with Justin in a vulnerable state (who’s still in a vulnerable state) and I just personally think that she’s not on Justin’s side and never has been. Vibes don’t lie they don’t have genuine love idc what narratives are pushed out now. As far as their relationship goes I’ll never side w her, FREE JUSTIN. PS. She won’t want to show the world they broke up (when they do) because she doesn’t want to hear that we told you so, not cuz we’re malicious but because ENERGY doesn’t lie.❤🤷🏽♀️
Seems like she got her means to take what she wants from Justin, years of marriage and a baby she has the means to get what she wants from him! She used him that’s what I seems like they never were happy it was a pitty relationship
Motherhood got me out of a toxic abusive relationship! I couldn’t raise a son and mother a grown man! It does change you and for the better! Good for her.
@ and I know people say “why did you have a baby with this person” I hate that question but number 1 it’s not easy to leave when you’re in a relationship like that for many reasons, 2 you would think that just like we do as mothers we grow up real quick and our whole life changes for the baby we expect our partner to do the same and when they don’t or don’t even try you have to leave.
As a mom of an almost 2 year old, I can absolutely confirm that you change as soon as that baby is born. Every single priority in your life shifts and you truly discover the meaning of “these men ain’t 💩”
10:19 I have to say from experience. Being self aware doesn’t make it any easier to change!! I say this all the time because I’m SUPER EXTRA self aware but I can’t figure out how to change the things I wanna change. It’s not that simple. We’re damaged and knowing we’re damaged doesn’t make us any less damaged. Does that make sense??
No one could ever convince me their relationship is healthy
Me either and they probably thought a baby would change things.
I used to say she was good for him cause she's supportive and patient, but you can't put so much pressure on someone and expect them to always act that way, people get tired of dealing with certain things and it's fine, I hope she's doing what's best for her
@SnapeArgento plus once you're a mum, you need to support and have patience with your child. You don't need a man child also acting like a baby.
Big mistake, poor baby@aleesharenea1334
She's the only one keeping this relationship afloat
He's no longer the baby , she has to focus her energies on their child her actual baby. Motherhood has leveled up.🎯
period omg
This happens a lot with women who have enabled emotionally immature men. The man usually can’t handle the idea of the focus not being on him anymore.
Its sad how many men don't change after having children. What's worse is that they are SELF AWARE yet not wanting to change. Like what???
@@ranga1catreminds me of Pamela and Tommy
@@ranga1cat this!
She’s finally realized that the man she was chasing was never worth the headaches and baggage he carries.
This! And/or she got what she ultimately wanted from him which was his kid. 🤷♀️ regardless of how it plays out, they’re tied for life through their baby.
Diddy also really messed him up.
She never would’ve bothered with Justin if it wasn’t for the same attention and money.
a lot of women have to find it out the hard way
Than why have his baby
Oh, l remember when Ant said in previous reading about them that she will change with motherhood.
Right. I remember
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Good for her, honestly.
Yes!!
i mean motherhood is very life altering of course she was gonna change
Obviously, not for the better, you never see her with her child, except for photo ops like her Jenner friends. What mother goes on vacation and party set up with her friends leaving a four month old behind.🙄
The biebers have always been sooooo publicly unhappy. It’s sad honestly.
well with the Diddy thing, how can he not be?
@@hollystiener16never had anything to do with that. Like at all
@@marinaluna2799 He was, sadly, a victim
@@hollystiener16 uh yeah I know that. That has nothing to do why they don’t work or love eachother. That comes from a different place. No correlation
I don't think he was ever in love with her. He loved her as in he needed her but not as a man should love a woman.
I don't think Justin loved anyone. Not himself either
Exactly 💯
Yeah, I think he also loved what she did for him
Set she always knew she was second choice, that’s why she acts the way she is. Aside from being just like her crazy father that she looks like.
Maybe H was someone to just take care of him for a change because he wasn't getting that from his mother when he needed it??
i think hollywood broke justin at a young age and hes finally coming to terms with it. i would love to see him finally get the help he needs.
JB and dozens of other artists ... bend over or no contract syndrome ...
P Ditty Allegedly did something to him imho. 😢that stuff messes people up if they don’t go to counseling.
Talk about 1D boys!! 😢
I don't think he is coming to terms with it. It feels like he can't run from the reality of what happened and this is the result.
@@meme-bu8qu But I don’t think anyone can actually “run” from it (can they?)
She did all that stalking in the beginning just to end up with a man she didn’t really want.
I think what she thought compared to what she got is completely different!!! He's still human!!
She did want him he just ruined it, you don’t need stick beside a man to prove you want him, if he’s not treating you well then all the want and love goes out the window. Women need to learn to love and respect themselves, that should come first always
In her defense, they dated when they were in their early 20s(?) and that kind of personality is tolerated until parenthood comes in.
What pains me is how he's self aware about himself and not wanting to do anything to change. Not for her, not him, not for anyone
@@Lila17_ She never wanted him, she just wanted the idea of him. It’s all about control
@@newwave-tl9ds I still didn’t forget Justin Bieber saying on ig live “if you weren’t pretty I would’ve gotten rid of you a long time ago”, how can she fall in love with that lmao. he clearly liked the idea of her too, they both started the relationship on the wrong foot. Stop putting all the blame on women
Not gonna lie I think 2025 is going to be a hard year for Justin. The Diddy/Jay Z stuff isn't going away and he's hooked into that mess energetically.
He is traumatised to the core bc of Diddy. He needs to heal, but it's too much to him. It's up to him to want to heal.
She needs to walk away from him. He needs time alone, see himself, heal, otherwise he will hurt people bc he is hurt. That's hard pill to swallow
honestly I wish him the best :/ his childhood was so different from everyone else, and I think it's safe to assume he went through a lot of bad things
As an underaged kid yes he was tied to Diddy/Jay Z. But we don't blame underage youth for the actions committed by adults, nor do we blame underage youths for being sexually assaulted by adults.
Transit Saturn is over his sun sign so I wonder how that’s manifesting. Sun representing father figures, maybe a coming to terms or reality of harsh truths about father/male figures and the toxicity of the patriarchy. Learning to become his own father maybe
time and time again the universe confirms the same lesson: never chase a man
💯
So true ❤
Never chase anything in fact. If you chase, it is running away from you.
That's what cheap women do. Hiley is cheap from the beginning
Her father set her up…he’s such a loser
You predicted Hailey would put her foot down after having a baby! Also this couple is so exhausting, their energy is never positive or romantic but I think Hailey is too prideful to let Justin go. In her mind she’s already invested so much. And then Justin is under the good Christians don’t divorce or whatever 🤦♀️ free the both of them honestly
i’d say they’re both too prideful to let each other go. Everyone was telling them how bad of an idea this was, especially given justin’s past. I wonder if seeing selena genuinely happy and carefree made her realize she isn’t actually happy “winning”.
Uh…the “ good” Christian’s😂😂😂😂😂🙄
@@Ali-x4h6e hey I’m just saying that’s probably what he thinks
Could you please do a reading on Aaron Taylor Johnson and his wife?
I second this, I don’t buy that relationship being healthy either
That whole situation gives me the biggest ick 🤢
I feel so badly for him.
2nd this request!
YES ANT PLEASE
Becoming a mother changes you 💯 you find your inner roar
💯
lol
Doesn't seem to have changed her yet
That's enough that your father is putting out weird cryptic messages... I hope 2025 isn't a crazy year like last year.
Or are you just end up neglecting or abusing your child because you were forced to carry something you never wanted and felt like you had to have a child because society tells you that it’s your job
everytime u read this couple its been the same depressing energy for years
"It's like a ruined orgasm" I- ANT YOU CRACK ME UP GIRL 😂
I was like tf lmao 😭😭
Lmao I think the term he was looking for was ‘a turn off’ 😂
@@greatestever247no, they’re different, but sometimes go together
@@abcefg4504 ❤ your honesty.
I mean, we’ve been knowing that this was not gonna work out, let’s be real
ANTPHRODITE LYNN SAILOR MOON SPEARS! You didn’t have to read Justin like that.. 😂😂
my new government name has just arrived
@ I’m screaminggggg!! 🤣🩷🩷
🤣🤣🤣
@@antphrodite😂😂😂😂
PLEASE 😂😂😂😂😂
I hope Justin finds healing, he’s been struggling a really long time, and I hope Hailey finds peace and strength.
Girl she needs to leave that man, she is so worried about people’s perception and sticking it to the public that she willing to be unhappy with this man, so I don’t feel bad for her, that is immature thinking and shows low self esteem. Come on girly you can get your happy ending with a good man.
This
This and she willingly brought a child into this depressing mess
I think the reason ppl don't feel bad for Hailey is because she stalked that man while he was with Selena. She did everything and did some bad shii to get with him. Now she has what she wanted😂 she got him a manipulative way now karma is on her arse.
100%
Yes, be careful what you wish for, you might get it and it's shite
You’re forgetting the machinations of Stephen Baldwin (possibly in cahoots with Lou Taylor) who I think honestly programmed his daughter to entrap someone he saw as a cash cow. Those early videos are so weird, and in the first one where he takes Hailey to see Justin, he admits it’s him who’s a Bieber fan and not so much Hailey. Hollywood families and their strategising is always on a 10, 20 year plan - they don’t think like us. I wonder if Hailey may be waking up from that spell too. Everyone involved deserves better honestly - I heard Justin was recently rinsed for a massive chunk of everything he’s earned by his accounting/management team which could be a threat NOT to testify, or a way of trying to put him under so much pressure he’s not around to testify, whether he’s incarcerated somewhere or otherwise. There are a lot of horrible moving parts here and Hailey is possibly more sinned against than sinning. Only my alleged opinions/thoughts. I think people can have their lives so well engineered they don’t realise how much of it was all planned out for them.
Holier than thou people like you are the worst
@@WRLDofHRT💯 the industry is awful
It's sad that they knew things were bad and yet brought a child into the world. Now they are link forever.
Good for her. I’m so over men. And Justin is giving that guy you meet on tinder and you go to the bar and have a few drinks and he trauma dumps on you on the first date.
And I would love to be on the other end of that 😂❤
That’s the energy I get from him. Very mopey. I couldn’t.
He was r worded by men and made to give them oral pleasure in front of others.
He's full of rage, pain, self-hatred and is even mad at God.
I get it. He's hurting and full of shame. Let's be as compassionate as we can.
Try a bubble tea date in broad daylight and the guy trauma dumps within the first 15 minutes 💀 person who did this was also a water sun - scorpio
Ew lol
I think she pursued him for years thinking she could change him. Justin needs to heal. There's a part of the that journey he has to go through on his own.
He has to do the work on his own exactly
What a way to start the 2025 readings😂
From now i need a monthly update on these two, that was sooo entertaining to watch. Like the drama is boiling hot.
I remember Justin stating on an interview, that he thought getting married was going to resolve all his issues and he said that wasn’t the case. That says a lot. And the fact I’ve never seen him wear his wedding ring on social media posts??? Yet Hailey wears hers 😢
That should have been a huge red flag, that's like saying having a baby will fix a marriage. it won't.
I mean so many people have issues with their self worth (although they don't realize it) so it truly isn't surprising
Literally why would he even say that lmao
The first year of being new parents puts a lot of stress on most marriages. It is not uncommon for couples to split up soon after having children
Yes! The dynamic of a marriage changes after having a baby.
Definitely and more so if the relationship is not emotionally mature.
Bandaid babies do not save broken marriages. They expedite them to their ending.
Yes,but if the marriage had already problems, becomes more easy.
Come on, they don't have pressures like normal ppl. They don't have to worry about money.
I also think she knows she has her hooks in him, with having a child.
Unpopular opinion apparently but I feel bad for her, motherhood and (possible) divorce is difficult enough, add the fact that she gets clowned constantly on the internet. I wouldn’t blame her if she starts cursing ppl out tbh!
having a baby to fix a relationship will never turn out for the better ...
I go through waves of empathy with her 😂😂😅 because she in her right mind has made some clownish decisions imo. You can only blame a girl so much though, and ultimately they both chose to have a child while not fully healed from past/current traumas & have been under tense relations with one another (allegedly)
and people will always come for her completely unnecessarily
@@celticgirl8882but we don’t know if they purposely had a baby to fix their marriage. Keep in mind, Justin always spoke about wanting to be a father & Hailey was the one that wanted to wait… regardless. I do hope the best for the baby.
“Im not saying she deserved it, but I’m saying gods timing is always riiIGhGhT” then why is she and Kendall allowed to clown Selena?
Ant, I look at Hailey and the word that comes to my head is "denial". I think she is going to keep the act for as long as possible until Justin does something really embarrassing with no coming back from.
She literally was his super fan from childhood…. And her rich daddy bought justin to be with her. It was never true love, just contractual!!
Besides the misogyny, what has confused me about people being so p*ssed at Hailey for trying to make their relationship look perfect in the public eye is that…like…aren’t ALL your faves doing the exact same thing with their man? You can’t tell me everything is good with Selena and Benny, Travis and Taylor, Bey and Jay-Z, even Charli XCX and her man. Like, let’s not split hairs here, it’s part of the industry.
I think it's because their team is not good at their PR. Like taylor and travis for example, they dont look miserable in every single public picture we get from them. It's like justin and hailey dont really play the part
@@camilaalgaranaz2801 I mean…the PR for stars in general has been showing a few too many cracks, imo. But I get that
tbh selena and benny seem really good they just got engaged and selenas acting and business careers are peaking
@ I genuinely hope you’re right. My cynical self thinks, “Good PR.”
I think because they put in so in your face (like intimate photos and online chatter about their $3x). Also, they timed so many of their moments when Selena had big things happening so that created a fan base war. And example of this is Hailey showing up to the Rare release party and even this drama coming up right after Selena announces her engagement...its like clockwork. People are annoyed with the gas lighting, other celebs aren't as in your face about it and then cry wolf.
If one has been a victim of SA, then becoming a new parent is very TRIGGERING. He has a shit ton of unresolved trauma and had no business getting married and starting a family until he heals. I really am worried for that boy. As for her, well, you get what you pay for i guess- as the saying goes.
exactly. i wish Ant would've brought this up. Huge part of it all
@@hollystiener16 What’s a huge part of it all though you mean?
@@abbiedprobably his potential SA. But it’s alleged at this point, I suppose (I def believe Justin was SA’d ): )
@@katteresa6174 Diddy said when he and Justin were on Jimmy Kimmel some years ago that “Justin wasn’t to speak of what he and his big brother Puff do behind-the-scenes” he literally admitted it right there 😭😭😭😭
They are each other's Karma!
And they both have to deal with it, and heal them self.
Justin Bieber thinking nobody can make Selena Gomez happy because they were childhood stars. Feeling like Selena is forever broken. Just like a narcissist would think, yeah. Benny Blanco isn't the only source of Selena' Gomez happiness
9:55 "we're damaged ppl" sooo truee wishing for healing for them both they went thru a lot being child stars
I'm going to be honest. Parenthood amplifies each person and the dynamics in between. Its an incredibly vulnerable time.
I hope she knows she has the rest of her life to be happy. There are people who will love her for her. Same for him .
I think he is a man child and she liked to mother him and take care of him, but now she has a real baby that needs care and attention from her that she is exhausted.. he probably throwing tantrums and she is ignoring him
Agree. He needed a parent, his own failed him badly
This. A tale as old as time.
@@Ava-wm6cv Both did (both of his parents are horrible to my understanding)
“Everybody wants to be with him…” do they? DO they?!?! 😅
“It’s like a ruined orgasm” LMAOOOOOOOO
It's like how these gen alphas be saying "you're giving negative AuRA"
Omg, I screamed laughing! 😂😂😂
Me talking about my ex 🤣
She was obsessed with the polished product of him, but the reality is that he was broken by the industry and Diddy. She preyed on him just like everyone else and he knows it and that’s why he doesn’t respect her. The world wanted a piece of him and he will always be that wounded dog in a corner not trusting anyone until he really heals. I think he can. He doesn’t have to become a sad statistic like Aaron Carter. I have some faith in him.
When you become a parent it forces you to re-evaluate your own childhood and parents. You start to remember things in a different way.
PLEASSEEEE do a reading on blake lively , ryan and justin !!!! the whole situation is MESSY
I think he already has if I’m not mistaken.
He did a poll on twitter asking if people wanted this or another Blake/justin and people chose this
@@marym1093because we all know the BL/RR/JB shit show will be blasted in public for all to see.
@@marym1093 oh okayyy
He can't cope with the baby...what does he do anyways? He can't even dress properly. She on the other hand decided to have a baby with a baby...girl bye.
Imagine those people living in the real world.
Justin is living off the money of selling his catalog. He's done a few songs, but nothing has been successful...
@@severine14 they wouldn’t be together in the real world. Believe me. She wouldn’t have cared about him.
Yeah if these people had money/housing/working class issues like the rest of us they would’ve never even made it to the altar.
@@Imagininginmymind I believe that too. She's worse than him.
@@Wraiven22 exactly! 💯
I think it’s their way of staying in the public eye.
Staying in the public eye means money, status and opportunity.
honestly, that’s probably why he picked her in the first place, cause she didn’t have a backbone to begin with.
Sloan Bella psychic said it a few months ago. Justin is at risk of unaliving himself. N that it'll clearly be seen or come out by Feb next year(2025).. Hopefully nothing like that happens
Love Sloan Bella ❤😊
Love Sloan she’s amazing
I know I saw that, she’s amazing, I’m praying for Justin
@@bhavnaganiga6272 I love Sloan Bella
Yep need to not put the negative energy out there and send positive energy to him
All this stuff has been coming out about Diddy being a PDF FILE, around the same time his son was born. I would be shocked if this wasn’t causing him to having a breakdown. Especially with that clip going around from when Justin was alone with Diddy for a 48 hour “sleepover.” He’s probably getting flooded with bad memories and at the same time he has a new child, that’s a lot to deal with and it’s probably triggering his unhealed childhood trauma in some way. Genuinely hope he gets professional help, but ofc you can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped.
beautiful reading. I totally get it, when I became a mother, I can't stand many things about my partner anymore. It's just part of being a mother, you NEED HELP MORE THAN EVER. not a sad guy just think about himself all the time. I know it is not his fault but he needs to face his own shadow and grow... because she grows
Why on gods earth would they bring a human into this world if one of them are mentally suitable 🤦🏻♀️🙄 That was just reckless! She’s out partying it up when this baby is only 4 months old 🤦🏻♀️ these moments are the most crucial and precious. But overall it’s just immature of both!
If all parents had to be mentally stable (as well as financially, etc.) before bringing children into the world half of us probably wouldn't be here. 😆
People need to make mistakes because that's how we learn.
She might party because she thinks she's missing out on something but i bet she'll realize pretty quick that loving that baby is way better than any party could be. 🤞🤍🙏
@@jazzyg530 So true 😂
If everyone who had kids had to be mentally stable, there’d be no babies born!
@@jazzyg530good. It ruins lives, you shouldn’t have kids if you’re not mentally stable. Period. It’s reckless, and selfish
I think a lot of these celebrities don't know who they truly are and have lost their sense of self. They both have lots of healing to go through like most people. Bringing a child into this entertainment world and this toxic relationship never ends well. I hope 2025 brings epiphany and major changes for everyone
When a super fan marries their celebrity crush who is troubled from being a child star, what do you think was gonna happen?
The stalker is fed up lol😅
Be careful what you wish for. 😊
Ask Meghan Markle 😂😂😂😂
Stop calling her a stalker. That's his wife.
She did stalk him though@@bohlalenchabeleng1370
Stalker Wife lol 😂
Just got cramps from how hard i RAN HERE
It's sad because this dynamic is more common than you might think. Many women are holding their husbands up, and those men would barely be able to function properly without their wives. This is why so many men marry young and quickly. Once a woman has a child and can no longer take care of both a grown man and a baby, the dynamic shifts. She loses herself even more, and the man often becomes resentful. Every woman I've spoken to has said that having a child changed their relationship and in most cases, it exacerbated any existing unhealthy dynamics. Check in with your married friends, people, they’re often like Hayley, it’s all about the portrayal but really smoke and mirrors. Research shows that Men really benefit the most from marriage.
That's what happened with my parents. They married young and were together for 7 years before having me and my sister. My dad grew resentful and jealous that all my moms energy was suddenly directed twords us and not him. My dad would often take his anger and frustration out on us.
Their relationship is what happens when my intuition about them screams toxic codependency but their social media screams “we’re happy”
Shes been married 5 years AND had his child. She now qualifies for a good payout when she leaves.
Bingo, the snake has been going after money n fame with all the calculations since day 1 n why she tolerated for being an underdog until now
@@missDiamondgirl55 😂 Lol 2, actually consent separation is good for them both as well as for little Jack~
💫 LOVE N GOLDEN LIGHT TO ALL CHILDREN N THE INNOCENTS 💛
Isnt he broke?
@@woofwoofloverisn’t she a Baldwin?? She’s not a gold digger just a creepy stalker fan
@@kitcatkit6240 Not the rich side of the Baldwins… her dad is broke
When I was in a relationship with a narcissist, I was trying my best to keep it going. When I found out that I was pregnant, it was game over. My child came first.
I am not so sure he has NPD. He has serious trauma from Diddy and that situation.
@@hollystiener16 Yes (a lot of people don’t understand this, but I do) I think he never properly healed from the Diddy stuff so it’s possible that with what’s going on with Diddy now is trauma from that is resurfacing (if you know what I mean)
@@hollystiener16 And to add to your comment, I’m glad you mentioned NPD because the people using the words “narcissist” and “narcissistic” I’m not completely sure that they understand that it comes from an actual personality disorder (being NPD) and while people can be narcissistic not just anyone can be NPD
@@hollystiener16 He probably has CPTSD (complex post traumatic stress disorder) because of the things he went through in his life I can’t imagine how difficult this would be (I have PTSD, but CPTSD is on a whole other level) 🤧🤧🤧🤧
@@abbied Right, people think it is just a conceited jerk, when it is so much deeper and so much more complex
, as well as darker
The way I RAN
Girll samee!!!!
When you have a baby it forces you to wake up. Tolerating shit behavior means you’re subjecting your kids to that behavior as well.
Not Hailey GASLIGHTING the entire public 😂😂
I came to comment this lol
@@nkarlstromer she seems to be good at that.
“She got her fire back”
GOOD! Maybe this will be the kick he needs to get his shit together 🤷🏻♀️ he wants independence but acts like a man-baby all the time
She knew what she was sign in for !!!
It is difficult to build happiness at the expense of other people's tragedy.
hes so traumatized and doesn't know how to break free from it. he may also see himself in his child. probably afraid his kid will be harmed.
Btw not his first child either though
Sloan also called they would divorce and that he would have 3 other kids with someone else.
Do robert pattinson & Suki warehouse. Allegedly Robert is not happy with the child & its just a public relationship.
Damn wth
What?!? I uses to wonder why he a FKA Twigs broke up. His stans were incredibly racist towards her.
LMFAO Not Warehouse 😂😂
it's suki waterhouse 😭
Hailey looks glowing being a mother while he just looks miserable as ever.
Seriously 😂😂 Hailey stalk that guy and get married to him in two months after a breakup karma Hailey honey 😅
“I don’t think anyone else would want him” the way I GAGGED lmao
The way the entertainment industry gives stars their 15 minutes of fame then chews and spits them out 😭😭😭
Can’t expect love by someone who doesn’t love themselves first! It’s a shame..I hope they can both receive some healing ❤
I still remember Ant laughing on twitch at the beiberhailey fans truly thinking this would never happen 😭
She got exactly what she asked for. She knew who he was before the baby and the marriage.
Idk whose decision it was to miss the babies 1st Christmas, but yeah that wouldn’t fly with me.
I think Justin is used to being babied by her, and now that Hailey is a real mother with a real baby to care for, she's over it. She is tired of carrying everything emotionally.
I just got my private reading and I absolutely love it! Thank you so much Ant❤
Yay that makes me so happy to hear
I could definitely see them putting up with it just for the sake of their image for a while too
Having a baby will change most women, my daughter had a baby girl 30/08/2024 and when I say my party daughter did a complete 360! She’s like a different woman. She’s a great mum and fully invested in my granddaughter. I hope She works out what important for her.
That’s a great thing. I bet she’s an amazing mother.
idk if is yout first grandson but congrats!!
Hes going through so much right now......
This just really isnt a good time for this to happen. He needs his family around.
Well, I wouldn't be surprised if they split, i feel sorry for the poor baby. Fascinating reading as always
Hearing justin’s and selena’s readings respectively, it is crazy that their partners are the only ones that want them.
True lol
What does this even mean
@@marinaluna2799 therapy
It's that Pisces man - Scorpio woman bond, like a whirlpool of emotion. Run, girl
I thought she was an aquarius?
Pisces men seem like they have communication issues.
she’s a sag.
She's a Sag Sun, Aries Moon
I think Justin has reason to be like he is. He was graped by several men in the industry. Blaming him for being mopey is tone deaf. People point him to religion as opposed to therapy. He needs therapy not religion and someone who doesn't make him their cash cow. He's been used more in many yucky ways
Well said!! Couldn’t agree more!
Motherhood is such a wild ride. It made me feel like I went into childbirth as one person and came out another. More power to her. You're absolutely right in that if she doesn't honest, he will make her take the fall and look like a bad mom.
What a load of crap !!! She’s been draining him stupid and trying to control him since day one !!!
Everyone gets this one type of relationship in their life, we put ourselves in it. Then the wake up call happens, and the fallout is really hard and damaging. Healing takes a really long time. But, we did it to ourselves and theres the growth
My daughter's father was a Justin. When Daughter arrived, I saw everything with new eyes - you cannot mother someone to health, they have to heal themselves. I had been holding him together for ten years at the time - and when I needed him to support us, he didn't step up. And you can't do it for them. And there is something about bringing a new life into the world (and all the pain and stress and craziness that comes with it) that throws all the relationship issues into sharp relief. And you become someone stronger, someone who no longer puts up with the bullshit.
I ended up leaving my daughter's father - it was horrendous, it was not how I saw my life going, but I didn't want my child to grow up thinking his behaviour was acceptable or what she should grow up living with or accept from her future partners.
Justin seems to put band aids on his trauma - faith, his wife, etc etc. He is a child mentally and has suffered untold trauma and he's surrounded by enablers. And shadow work requires so much inward looking and pain and you can't do that in a position of celebrity.
And god love her, Hailey has tried so hard to help him (despite all the crazy hate against her), gotten NO credit for it and it's not up to her to carry this - I knew this would happen as soon as she announced her pregnancy. No woman can mother both her partner and her child.
Go Hailey girl - you've got this. 🖤
Edit: Sorry, this reading hit aaaaaaall my trigger points while I'm 3 margaritas deep on holiday 😅 Please don't come for me x
She sealed the deal with a child and now shes got a voice 😂
Facts😂😂😂😂
Let's be ffr ...She eats up the drama 🎭 & attention AND knew what she signing up for, in exchange for the fame & money🙄!
Justin probably thought that marriage and kids would simply make his traumas and issues disappear, but now he sees that it's not the case. As for Hailey, in my opinion she agreed to marry him because she thought that she could fix his problems, but now she has a baby who needs her and she can't keep making excuses for Justin anymore. They married way to soon, without building a proper relationship first and now the consequences are finally there...
No one should ever get married without dating that person for long, when I was younger I used to jump into a relationship only after a few days of talking to someone but I got hurt that way now I’ve learned you have to take time to get to know someone before dating that person (much less marrying them) 😩
Although I know this was a unique situation, she and her father had been chasing Justin for years (so it’s slightly different)
@@abbied She did chased him for years, but I do believe that she truly loves him, I mean.. it's obvious that she has to put up with a lot in order to make the marriage work. But now they have a baby who needs her, so let's see for how long she will be able to put it up with him because it's obvious that something has changed on her since the baby arrived. Whatever happens, I do hope that they can be good parents, even if they decide to go separate ways, because the baby needs to come first now...
@@redslilith94 She literally went on a girl’s trip for the baby’s first Christmas (how is that good?) 😭😭😭😭
@@abbied Lol I know, but I'm assuming that either Justin or a nanny was with him ( most likely the nanny lol), while she was gone. But the fact that Justin didn't really seem bothered that she left, tells me that things aren't really working out between them...they seriously need to get their shit together for the sake of their baby..
I think she has a joy now that she refuses to let anyone steal away
Even Justin.
❤️🔥
I can’t feel sorry for Hailey (sorry Ant Spirit doesn’t let me 😅) because she knew what she was getting into w Justin and to still bring a child into this relationship, nah and now she is empowered well YEAH a child is here but no
if anything she got with Justin in a vulnerable state (who’s still in a vulnerable state) and I just personally think that she’s not on Justin’s side and never has been. Vibes don’t lie they don’t have genuine love idc what narratives are pushed out now. As far as their relationship goes I’ll never side w her, FREE JUSTIN. PS. She won’t want to show the world they broke up (when they do) because she doesn’t want to hear that we told you so, not cuz we’re malicious but because ENERGY doesn’t lie.❤🤷🏽♀️
Exactly. Energy doesn't lie. But many of the fake PR videos of their happiness with a baby that keeps changing in looks and size does.
Seems like she got her means to take what she wants from Justin, years of marriage and a baby she has the means to get what she wants from him!
She used him that’s what I seems like they never were happy it was a pitty relationship
I agree with you on the Kindness.
I love this break up for him. He has not been happy with her. He needs time to find himself again and be single.
some connections like theirs last because there isnt anything to it. When there is no love there are no triggers.
I love that you said Stella is getting her groove back. It's too cool and too funny!
Motherhood got me out of a toxic abusive relationship! I couldn’t raise a son and mother a grown man! It does change you and for the better! Good for her.
Period!!! Samesies
@ and I know people say “why did you have a baby with this person” I hate that question but number 1 it’s not easy to leave when you’re in a relationship like that for many reasons, 2 you would think that just like we do as mothers we grow up real quick and our whole life changes for the baby we expect our partner to do the same and when they don’t or don’t even try you have to leave.
When I had son i was triggered badly so doesn't surprise me that he feels like this tbh if you have stuff to heal then deal with it
Right it brings up all childhood and any trauma.
As a mom of an almost 2 year old, I can absolutely confirm that you change as soon as that baby is born. Every single priority in your life shifts and you truly discover the meaning of “these men ain’t 💩”
10:19 I have to say from experience. Being self aware doesn’t make it any easier to change!! I say this all the time because I’m SUPER EXTRA self aware but I can’t figure out how to change the things I wanna change. It’s not that simple. We’re damaged and knowing we’re damaged doesn’t make us any less damaged. Does that make sense??
When I tell you motherhood changed me. It’s such an understatement. I completely evolved as a person.