My Big Fat Obnoxious Fiancé...

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  • Опубликовано: 12 янв 2025

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  • @CodyKo
    @CodyKo  10 месяцев назад +397

    hoodie drops tomorrow!!: codysrunclub.com

    • @klymothe
      @klymothe 10 месяцев назад +5

      YAS

    • @ghotiman6053
      @ghotiman6053 10 месяцев назад +9

      Cody you are glowing. Maybe its new set up maybe its fatherhood.

    • @adventurzwithiain
      @adventurzwithiain 10 месяцев назад +1

      Who let me have fun????

    • @melmelbry5754
      @melmelbry5754 10 месяцев назад +1

      Can you ever stop talking so we can watch the freaking show??? Pausing every TWO SECONDS is not okay

    • @haiIeyy
      @haiIeyy 10 месяцев назад

      @@melmelbry5754This is a commentary channel… Go watch the show if you don’t want to see his reactions.

  • @maddiesaster
    @maddiesaster 10 месяцев назад +14935

    the horror violins as he walked out as just… a regular guy is WILD

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 10 месяцев назад +649

      OMG HE'S ... an average guy 🧍‍♂

    • @herm574
      @herm574 10 месяцев назад +486

      And the setup with the dudes beforehand, evil, pure evil

    • @themusicaljunkie37
      @themusicaljunkie37 10 месяцев назад +26

      I know.....

    • @2ndos1
      @2ndos1 10 месяцев назад +194

      that shit was so mean😭😭

    • @Kingbimmy
      @Kingbimmy 10 месяцев назад +287

      The early 2000’s was crazy, especially about weight/looks. If you’re not a twig woman with perfect hair and makeup, or a dude with crazy abs and cool, crisp styled hair, you’re seen as a hideous ass beast 💀
      Thank got I was REALLY young and not yet subjected to it as bad 😮‍💨

  • @cambridgehathaway3367
    @cambridgehathaway3367 10 месяцев назад +8025

    "Next on _My Small, Short GOBLIN Fiancé_ , Kelsey will have to marry the weirdest little freak of a man she's ever seen, AND convince her family that he's not having fun"

  • @xXsnowberrieXx
    @xXsnowberrieXx 10 месяцев назад +3166

    tbh if I was in her place, I'd be scared shitless. Basically a stranger acts like a creep, tried show his junk, then walked through the house 'drunk' screaming, and we have to pretend we're engaged?? I'll hold together for the money, but I'd be sleeping with the doors triple locked and a knife under my pillow.

    • @deannaw9128
      @deannaw9128 10 месяцев назад +133

      Extremely uncomfortable

    • @rio6653
      @rio6653 10 месяцев назад +125

      she might be but the camera crew probably helps a lot

    • @bryangrassguy4111
      @bryangrassguy4111 10 месяцев назад +16

      Or don't sign up for a show like this and ruin your public image in front of the country 🤣

    • @FreeeJ
      @FreeeJ 10 месяцев назад +8

      scared shitless? really? have you ever experienced any type of discomfort in life because what is scary about a guy playing a character clearly for a tv show

    • @rio6653
      @rio6653 10 месяцев назад +115

      @@FreeeJ hey have u ever paid attention to anything? the show made it very clear that she has no clue that he’s acting

  • @martispartis05
    @martispartis05 10 месяцев назад +2816

    The craziest thing is them reacting like they just saw him murder someone before coming out,,, when he’s just….chubby?

    • @charlotteleblanc2803
      @charlotteleblanc2803 10 месяцев назад +138

      I was chubby in the 2000s. That’s how chubby people were treated 😂

    • @CuteAnimalVideos2580
      @CuteAnimalVideos2580 10 месяцев назад +33

      he looks like Jack Black's big bro

    • @daniyah5613
      @daniyah5613 10 месяцев назад

      @mattm6200 ☝🤓

    • @martispartis05
      @martispartis05 10 месяцев назад +54

      @mattm6200 the people back then were being publicly shamed for their weight, getting sick from diet pills, starving themselves, bullying others to ending their life over their body and that was seen as completely normal. I don’t believe in body positivity, I believe in body neutrality. If he’s happy then that’s all that matters, the only person who gets to discuss your weight with you is your doctor, unless consented by you. The same way skinny people often have it in their genes, so do bigger people. I need people like you to understand that being overweight isn’t because you ate a bunch of cake for 10 years, there’s so much more to it. Genetics, mental health, disabilities, health conditions, eating disorders and more. Unless you are someone’s medical professional, you have no right to tell them what to do or take a stance against them. Go enjoy your kale salad and mind your business

    • @devon301f
      @devon301f 10 месяцев назад +35

      @mattm6200I love when people say shit like this as if they have any education on the history of fatness and the medical system. Fat people have always existed and always will. There is no data showing a direct correlation between fatness and poor medical outcomes- there is only data showing fat people who get discriminated against and ignored by doctors leading to malpractice and a lack of care.

  • @dinosuarzr0ck827
    @dinosuarzr0ck827 10 месяцев назад +4622

    Cody apologizing for the Canadian "sorry" with a valley girl "sorry" is killing me

    • @rurii1i
      @rurii1i 10 месяцев назад +23

      LMFAOO fr😭😭

    • @shrimpedup
      @shrimpedup 10 месяцев назад +4

      Time stamp?

    • @courtspeachie
      @courtspeachie 10 месяцев назад +24

      26:05@@shrimpedup

    • @JoanneJamieson
      @JoanneJamieson 10 месяцев назад +3

      His Canadian was coming through🤣

    • @jmz2144
      @jmz2144 10 месяцев назад

      Is Cody Canadian?

  • @jazmines4324
    @jazmines4324 10 месяцев назад +1303

    Her saying he "flopped on out" was absolutely insane. Literally even the way you enter a room changes in others perspective just cause you're overweight. Like damn.

    • @naariznica3133
      @naariznica3133 10 месяцев назад +19

      well of course, that’s the first thing they’ll notice

    • @blondie9422
      @blondie9422 10 месяцев назад +14

      “FLOPPED RIGHT OUT” hahaha 😂😂😂

    • @Plplj164
      @Plplj164 9 месяцев назад

      And

    • @ghoultooth
      @ghoultooth 9 месяцев назад +5

      @@Plplj164Yes, “and” is a great word, Kelsey.

    • @lili-cl1zx
      @lili-cl1zx 8 месяцев назад

      honestly, that's so mean

  • @MVMB128
    @MVMB128 10 месяцев назад +2840

    Regular ass man with the horror backing music is wild

    • @cynthiaxwangcomedy
      @cynthiaxwangcomedy 10 месяцев назад +106

      right? this is just your 7th grade social studies teacher and they are acting like he is some kind of ogre

    • @solus8685
      @solus8685 10 месяцев назад +76

      And like he's not even ugly, he's just overweight lol

    • @annarosen9706
      @annarosen9706 10 месяцев назад

      🤣

    • @solus8685
      @solus8685 10 месяцев назад +3

      @WinWinWoo I was thinking the same, he prolly would've even been better looking than some of the other guys

    • @mitzara25
      @mitzara25 9 месяцев назад +3

      ​@WinWinWoohe is really good looking just a bit chubby

  • @hayhay4774
    @hayhay4774 10 месяцев назад +3800

    Imagine winning the cash and then it turns out the marriage is real and then having to spend it all on the divorce

    • @Alexandra-wp2qo
      @Alexandra-wp2qo 10 месяцев назад

      =)))

    • @Duckduckobtusegoose
      @Duckduckobtusegoose 10 месяцев назад +86

      A divorce is not a quarter of a million dollars lol. If two people want to sign it then the fees are minimal

    • @Kizzabell
      @Kizzabell 10 месяцев назад +23

      You could probably get an annulment

    • @marthastewwart
      @marthastewwart 10 месяцев назад +12

      ​​@@DuckduckobtusegooseAssuming it's all real, and the scenario is as fhe O.P stated, then the ½million would have been earned together. Therefore, It would be split 50/50 (if no prenuptial in place). So yea, I'm not really sure what you're trying to say

    • @mavlanzerotti8012
      @mavlanzerotti8012 10 месяцев назад +1

      As long as you don't have sex, the marriage is never consummated. No?

  • @bosakrr1979
    @bosakrr1979 10 месяцев назад +1844

    I worked crew on this gem of a show I thought I'd paint some color here on a few things. I think it's really important to know this was created by the same team that did the Joe Schmo Show (which if you haven't seen you should add it to your list, fantastic early reality TV). Their whole concept is real people in crazy situations with actors. Randy is 100% real. She was in the dark the whole time until the end of the show. It was actually pretty awesome to watch in real time.
    I know you're just joking about the house thing but.... the house that every reality show is shot in is in Silverlake. This was a mansion we rented in Thousand Oaks that was owned by Nikki Sixx of Motley Crue. The house you're referring to had another production going on at that time.
    Steve is an awesome, hilarious, super nice, and talented comedian. You've probably seen him in lots of commercials and other bit TV parts since this. He's 100% shooting for reactions here.
    The other big twist on this show is in this episode Randy thinks she's only playing for $500k. That's because she thinks that Steve is also playing for $500k. What she doesn't know if that she gets through with the whole things she actually wins all of the money. Hope you watch the rest of it. It gets wild!

    • @LeahValentine-x2v
      @LeahValentine-x2v 10 месяцев назад +38

      why WHY WOULD YOU (somewhat) SPOIL THE ENDING

    • @Dankflamio
      @Dankflamio 10 месяцев назад +153

      @@LeahValentine-x2vthis is very much not a new show. I think less than mild spoilers this long after on anything is totally acceptable 😂

    • @oliviamadera2256
      @oliviamadera2256 10 месяцев назад

      @@LeahValentine-x2v This video literally told us at the beginning that the girl will get $1 million if she wins lol you may have missed it

    • @elusivemayfly7534
      @elusivemayfly7534 10 месяцев назад +73

      This was so interesting to read! Thank you for sharing it 😊

    • @bosakrr1979
      @bosakrr1979 10 месяцев назад +80

      @@LeahValentine-x2v Didn't tell you how it ends. Just the set up.

  • @crux9742
    @crux9742 10 месяцев назад +5704

    "Thats your openly racist fiancé, enjoyy" KILLS ME 😭😭

    • @sfr2107
      @sfr2107 10 месяцев назад +8

      Fr 😂😂😂

  • @erinj3470
    @erinj3470 10 месяцев назад +2471

    Every time I watch old media I understand why my parents have eating disorders a little more

    • @a1ntcry1noveru
      @a1ntcry1noveru 10 месяцев назад +14

      Hmm, how old are they or you ? Not to be nosy (but proceeds to be nosy). But seriously, only asking because I can’t picture someone who grew up watching 2000s reality shows (like me) being old enough to have a kid who watches Cody lol 😂 But I just assume everyone who watches Cody is my age (early 30s) since Cody is my age, and I know that isn’t true!

    • @cooliostarstache5474
      @cooliostarstache5474 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@a1ntcry1noveru I'm 19

    • @_WYNGZ_
      @_WYNGZ_ 10 месяцев назад +18

      ​@@a1ntcry1noveru i mean i love cody's content and im in my teens

    • @meghanm.5486
      @meghanm.5486 10 месяцев назад +41

      No that’s so real, I was born in 2000 so I don’t remember a lot but the fatphobic TLC shows were RAMPANT not to mention I was watching Wipeout for the first time in years the other day and the amount of ugly/fat/woman jokes they made were shocking! like this was a family friendly show LOL

    • @gavinderulo12
      @gavinderulo12 10 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@_WYNGZ_that doesn't answer their question lol

  • @kjenkers
    @kjenkers 10 месяцев назад +3467

    yoooo the Steve dude actually went on to have a recurring role over many seasons of greys anatomy!!! as a universally loved character! he was the bartender at the bar all the surgeons hangout with and they all donate to save his life at one point!

    • @rcubes18
      @rcubes18 10 месяцев назад +358

      He also was on season 2 of You. Dude cut Joe's finger off cause he didn't pay him enough money 😂

    • @superDkmans
      @superDkmans 10 месяцев назад +123

      I was thinking of what character he reminds me of, thank you I didn't remember him

    • @arcadiarose3775
      @arcadiarose3775 10 месяцев назад +134

      HOLY SHIT THATS JOE ???? HOW DID I NOT RECOGNIZE HIM OMFG

    • @laurapronk9967
      @laurapronk9967 10 месяцев назад +8

      ​@@rcubes18 Holy shit, you're right!!

    • @rebeccaellers5309
      @rebeccaellers5309 10 месяцев назад +43

      I knew I’ve seen him on something!! That is definitely joe

  • @dellar.6082
    @dellar.6082 10 месяцев назад +3777

    I don’t think it’s fake. The look of disappointment on her face when he came out and the way she changed from being like “idk what’s going on I’m so excited” to “this guy comes waddling out” with a straight face was too real.

    • @frankieee1204
      @frankieee1204 10 месяцев назад +92

      It’s definitely fake! The guy is an actor (like many people on reality shows) and he was the bartender in Greys Anatomy lol

    • @evita1643
      @evita1643 10 месяцев назад +616

      ​@@frankieee1204 him being an actor is the point of the show, the hostess even points out that he is an actor. The question is whether Randi is an actor too

    • @RiriRuruu
      @RiriRuruu 10 месяцев назад +176

      @@frankieee1204yes HE is, while the girl is not. Those reactions are too real 😂

    • @gavinderulo12
      @gavinderulo12 10 месяцев назад +82

      ​@@frankieee1204that's a 500 IQ comment.

    • @careyaddis2809
      @careyaddis2809 10 месяцев назад +4

      He is a professional actor

  • @Kellyeeeee
    @Kellyeeeee 10 месяцев назад +3195

    The stark difference between the bad acting and the beginning and her demeanor by the end makes me think this was real. Plus reality shows from back then were known to just mentally torture people.

    • @sfr2107
      @sfr2107 10 месяцев назад +112

      Yeah it looks like it was from the era when reality TV wasn't faked. At least mostly unscripted

    • @Sylver_Echo2923
      @Sylver_Echo2923 10 месяцев назад

      It was a whole thing when people realized reality tv wasn't unscripted. Plus the guy acting as her husband is the bartender in Grey's.

    • @sfr2107
      @sfr2107 10 месяцев назад +17

      @@Sylver_Echo2923 yeah but they admitted that he was a hired actor from the beginning lol. His whole family was hired actors. Herself and her family were the ones actually getting pranked

  • @mitchellgosche
    @mitchellgosche 10 месяцев назад +309

    Steve is honestly an incredible actor. He was so perfectly doing the absolute least appropriate thing he could do in any situation at all times. Like his character flip-flopped between being shy and awkward to obnoxious and bombastic depending on what would make the moment the most uncomfortable.

  • @乂
    @乂 10 месяцев назад +2858

    just took my phone out the microwave

    • @MostlyToastyGhosty
      @MostlyToastyGhosty 10 месяцев назад +104

      Chomping on the SIM card as we speak

    • @jemball1880
      @jemball1880 10 месяцев назад +62

      Drink the battery juice, so good

    • @AzothDee
      @AzothDee 10 месяцев назад +5

      😂

    • @dunno-19
      @dunno-19 10 месяцев назад +20

      injecting the charging cable is a lot easier ya'll. all the essential nutrients right into the bloodstream

    • @halfadecade4770
      @halfadecade4770 10 месяцев назад +2

      Ha nice

  • @stayupbeat3193
    @stayupbeat3193 10 месяцев назад +2199

    Cody dropping the “I’ve cut out the fat” at the beginning and not laughing and turning it into a dad joke is a missed opportunity

    • @xlovexaxlotx1626
      @xlovexaxlotx1626 10 месяцев назад +52

      i instantly said "so now its just 'My big obnoxious fiancé' great!'

    • @Blathugi
      @Blathugi 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@xlovexaxlotx1626I love ya for that

    • @stillwrendering
      @stillwrendering 10 месяцев назад +22

      He’s new to dad jokes give him time

    • @anovi1031
      @anovi1031 10 месяцев назад

      where is the dad joke?

  • @normalguy246
    @normalguy246 10 месяцев назад +134

    26:07 cody accidentally revealing that he hides his real accent has changed me on a spiritual level

  • @cierralowery7096
    @cierralowery7096 10 месяцев назад +7597

    Steve is an actor on Gray’s Anatomy, he is Joe the bartender!

    • @rachaelsolinger4184
      @rachaelsolinger4184 10 месяцев назад +157

      Yesssssssssss

    • @peachyp1um
      @peachyp1um 10 месяцев назад +217

      He's also in NCIS!!

    • @sayan9566
      @sayan9566 10 месяцев назад +555

      I knew he looked so familiar! Couldn’t pinpoint it

    • @bridgetc8251
      @bridgetc8251 10 месяцев назад +237

      God thank you for this comment it was gonna haunt me till I figured out where I knew him from😅

    • @Swa069
      @Swa069 10 месяцев назад +31

      YESSS I Ws wondering who he was from

  • @Random-sk6hm
    @Random-sk6hm 10 месяцев назад +7550

    The fat-shaming in 2000s shows will never cease to amaze me. An entire generation's self-esteem ruined 😍

    • @themusicaljunkie37
      @themusicaljunkie37 10 месяцев назад +233

      Yeah and people wonder why there are so many people that are insecure about their looks... It's watching stuff like this when we were growing up.

    • @newp0rt
      @newp0rt 10 месяцев назад

      @@themusicaljunkie37 better than an entire nation of fatties. being fat generally isnt healthy.

    • @erinj3470
      @erinj3470 10 месяцев назад +88

      No like I was 5 when this show came out… I can’t imagine seeing this at like 15???? 😫

    • @MadDunhill
      @MadDunhill 10 месяцев назад +140

      it's crazy how it wasn't just fat-shaming on occasion or just when opportunities arose but people went out out of their way to actively fat-shame everyone all the time. including in fiction. it was like a sport or something.

    • @newp0rt
      @newp0rt 10 месяцев назад +56

      @@themusicaljunkie37 promoting being fat doesnt really support a healthy collective. theres a reason insulin is getting harder and harder to get. diabetes is a straight epidemic but ya lets promote fatties all over.

  • @IRanOutOfPhrases
    @IRanOutOfPhrases 10 месяцев назад +844

    Steve wasn't bad at all until he was "drinking" and wanted to be in the hot tub. I can see that actually being a bit of a scary situation for Randy as well, since 1) she doesn't know Steve whatsoever and 2) she doesn't know he's just acting. She's totally right to be frightened in that spot.

    • @Vault-Born
      @Vault-Born 10 месяцев назад

      and hours before he was trynig to show her his naked penis and not taking no for an answer until she just waited it out.

    • @deannaw9128
      @deannaw9128 10 месяцев назад +55

      Omg WOW. That whole creepy vibe with the "naked dance"??? Jesus christ

    • @IRanOutOfPhrases
      @IRanOutOfPhrases 10 месяцев назад +18

      @@deannaw9128 That was certainly pushing the boundary, although I'd say there was still an element of 'humor' in that. While was persistent in making it work, it was far less aggressive and more of a, "See? I'm just being silly!" feel.

    • @zuboragabora8966
      @zuboragabora8966 10 месяцев назад +73

      A stranger stripping down, blocking your only way out and repeatedly yelling at you to come out and look at him naked (despite being repeatedly told no) definitely does not fall into the category of “Not bad at all”

    • @IRanOutOfPhrases
      @IRanOutOfPhrases 10 месяцев назад +5

      @@zuboragabora8966 I acknowledged that one was "certainly pushing the boundary" which is different from "not bad at all"

  • @strawbsbloobs
    @strawbsbloobs 10 месяцев назад +600

    but imagine this show with one of the model guys, but they still behave like the worst tool ever
    we'd get to see just what people will tolerate for the sake of good looks

    • @neontate413
      @neontate413 10 месяцев назад +29

      i’d watch that

    • @P1-ne9cs
      @P1-ne9cs 10 месяцев назад +19

      It’s what dating apps feels like already, we were all living it lol

    • @TheBridgettommo
      @TheBridgettommo 10 месяцев назад +1

      YES

    • @foxemartin
      @foxemartin 9 месяцев назад +1

      Yupppp. I want the juxtaposition.

    • @HoneyB93
      @HoneyB93 9 месяцев назад +1

      Haha great idea! Kinda reminds me of love is blind 😄

  • @totalkatastrophe
    @totalkatastrophe 10 месяцев назад +1040

    the slasher music when he comes out is INSANE

    • @bruh-q1g
      @bruh-q1g 10 месяцев назад +31

      PLS I LAUGHED SO HARD HES JUST THE MOST REGULAR GUY 😭😭 I even thought he was kinda attractive, so crazy lmfaooo

    • @deannas2778
      @deannas2778 10 месяцев назад +12

      Lmao I busted out laughing. The early 2000s we're wild.

  • @sheskiwiw
    @sheskiwiw 10 месяцев назад +103

    this started as a commentary about prejudice and then low key turned into a woman being sexual harassed for 1,000,000 dollars

  • @Camjidi
    @Camjidi 10 месяцев назад +1105

    we need a new version of this with Kelsey as the beautiful bride-to-be, and Cody as the horrific fiancé

    • @lydipie
      @lydipie 10 месяцев назад +31

      she would probably still fall for him 😆❤

    • @miabennett04
      @miabennett04 10 месяцев назад +2

      him and kelsey have been married for a year

    • @zzz7408
      @zzz7408 10 месяцев назад +4

      how exactly would that work?

    • @radhiadeedou8286
      @radhiadeedou8286 10 месяцев назад +3

      But Cody looks good

  • @maemaesumm0708
    @maemaesumm0708 10 месяцев назад +5741

    She was my first grade teacher!! Too many parents complained about her being on this show so she sadly got fired but I think about her all the time and I hope she’s doing well

    • @doomnoises
      @doomnoises 10 месяцев назад +355

      Randy? Shame she seems decent so far

    • @frankieee1204
      @frankieee1204 10 месяцев назад +172

      lol that’s so crazy

    • @AYVYN
      @AYVYN 10 месяцев назад +235

      Must have been the moms

    • @caseyw.6550
      @caseyw.6550 10 месяцев назад +812

      Omg women really can't do anything. That is so pathetic. I hope she's doing well!

    • @unknownrocketeer9289
      @unknownrocketeer9289 10 месяцев назад +304

      so ridiculous she got fired no way.

  • @mrsmaggiekoch
    @mrsmaggiekoch 10 месяцев назад +184

    I feel like this concept would work even BETTER now. There is so many different streaming services and dating shows that it would be pretty believable to have one that friends/family never heard of. And it would weirdly be more honest than a lot of dating shows, as it's a lie from the get-go.

  • @therearenocowshere
    @therearenocowshere 10 месяцев назад +1612

    He's genuinely a good actor though which is so funny like if I met this guy in character I would 100% believe it. I'm sure they give him some lines but like improv king.

    • @chloekhamxox
      @chloekhamxox 10 месяцев назад +61

      Hes genuinely so cute lol

    • @dead_yogi
      @dead_yogi 10 месяцев назад +134

      He’s a real actor! He’s Joe the bartender in Greys Anatomy and has been on NCIS and other shows

    • @CosmicAnchor
      @CosmicAnchor 10 месяцев назад +26

      Bro giving Brendan Fraiser energy, thats awesome

    • @wawaicedcoffee
      @wawaicedcoffee 10 месяцев назад +10

      @@dead_yogioh my god that’s why he looks familiar!!! He’s Joe!

    • @pissapocalypse
      @pissapocalypse 10 месяцев назад +9

      ​@@chloekhamxox I know right like he's just a regular cute guy. Can't believe this TV show is doing him dirty like this

  • @gab.bee123
    @gab.bee123 10 месяцев назад +1269

    it's crazy that this was an outlandish idea of what a couple "should" look like by 00s standards when i can probably go to target today and find half a dozen of their doppelgangers who have been together for years, married, happy, and probably pushing a cart with a kid in it

    • @miriammusembwa
      @miriammusembwa 10 месяцев назад +15

      Faaacts

    • @violett874
      @violett874 10 месяцев назад +96

      Back then the thought of being a real fat person on tv that wasn't completely ashamed of themselves was the outlandish part imo. If he was thin, I doubt the personality would've been as much of an issue.

    • @grace-ef9mj
      @grace-ef9mj 10 месяцев назад +7

      right thats exactly what i thought

    • @Mashy8722
      @Mashy8722 10 месяцев назад +14

      Exactly!! 😂😂 that’s what I’m thinkin too lol I’m like uhh…they literally just looks like a regular couple u see passing you in the grocery store or sumthng lol

    • @elusivemayfly7534
      @elusivemayfly7534 10 месяцев назад +1

      💯💯💯

  • @4684peter
    @4684peter 10 месяцев назад +149

    I think the best way to do this would be to play along and go overboard with him. It would be easier to convince other people that you've changed or that a person brings out a different side of you than trying to contain the actor-fiance from embarrassing you. Get drunk every day for a week and go wild.

    • @bararobberbaron859
      @bararobberbaron859 8 месяцев назад +4

      Would be a great idea, if he hadn't suggested to show his naked body to her. I have to imagine after that she'd want to always remain in control of her faculties.

  • @Ellisif333
    @Ellisif333 10 месяцев назад +1322

    I don't think this is fake. This is EXACTLY the behavior of a woman who feels trapped into doing something. It's so accurate that it's not even a reflection on him, his behavior could be perfection and the fact that the whole thing was sprung on her would cause her to act this way. Just look how when react on married at first sight, and these girls know what they are getting into! So either it's real, or she's the best actress EVER.

    • @romanmay2867
      @romanmay2867 10 месяцев назад +3

      maybe but i think if it was one of the guys at the start and acted normally it would be ok

    • @kiiturii
      @kiiturii 10 месяцев назад +3

      idk she's way too into the "this guy is terrible" bit, if she was truly out of the loop she would try to salvage the situation for the million bones. There's no way on day fucking two she's already giving up and crying about it

    • @ajeenius7437
      @ajeenius7437 10 месяцев назад

      @@romanmay2867 So if it was someone that didn't act like Steve does it would be okay? Yeah no shit sherlock. Trying to make it seem like a looks-thing only to debunk yourself right after is real silly.

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 10 месяцев назад +15

      Update: she's not an actress, she was actually a teacher but got fired cos parents complained after the show came out

    • @romanmay2867
      @romanmay2867 10 месяцев назад +10

      @@Random-sk6hm that actually sucks for her that’s messed up

  • @aannarichner3370
    @aannarichner3370 10 месяцев назад +629

    Cody went full dad mode and is chilling in the garage

  • @bluegreen9799
    @bluegreen9799 10 месяцев назад +51

    2000 shows were just like “wow even though you’re an average looking person we’re gonna make you feel super disgusting, ugly, and unloveable because that’s what average means to us, and we will proceed to take zero responsibility for the consequences of self perception on future generations.”

  • @LilaGraceRogers
    @LilaGraceRogers 10 месяцев назад +755

    I lost it when Randy was crying and Steve was just bobbing up and down in the hot tub lmao.

    • @xxlethal_leexx
      @xxlethal_leexx 10 месяцев назад +12

      especially it being right after she says she doesn't know what to do lmaoooo

  • @lindseyp9131
    @lindseyp9131 10 месяцев назад +817

    imo she seemed totally real, not acting at all. I think that's how I would respond too. She just looked done before it even began. Like, this is gonna suck

    • @birdie7910
      @birdie7910 10 месяцев назад +95

      Lmaoo right I think she was also dissociating a little too like « wtf is this hehe😀 »

    • @leighann19831
      @leighann19831 10 месяцев назад +13

      I agree...I remember watching this when it came out on tv, really good if you're looking for some laughs. It seemed real to me idk lol.

    • @Duckduckobtusegoose
      @Duckduckobtusegoose 10 месяцев назад +4

      Fr shes like a half a million dollars for 2 weeks or bullshit? 🥲🥲 ok I’ll do it😩🙃

    • @alison9189
      @alison9189 10 месяцев назад

      Yeah, idk thr fact she chose the 3 guys so confidently/calmly kinda raised flags

    • @ImaEatChuu
      @ImaEatChuu 10 месяцев назад +4

      Its crazy that some men in the comments are already being like "well shes laughing and giggly" as if that's not a defense mechanism of every woman out there who doesn't like creepy guys but don't wanna piss them off

  • @robbiesteele9552
    @robbiesteele9552 10 месяцев назад +53

    That dude was killing it, they told him to play a part, and he's playing it masterfully

  • @annaroseperron5833
    @annaroseperron5833 10 месяцев назад +4244

    just took my lunch out the microwave

    • @evtv304
      @evtv304 10 месяцев назад +20

      same 😭

    • @PwandaWanda
      @PwandaWanda 10 месяцев назад +4

      😂

    • @skylarea
      @skylarea 10 месяцев назад +4

      hype

    • @bellab2662
      @bellab2662 10 месяцев назад +14

      My dad just came back with takeout

    • @oliverhancock2254
      @oliverhancock2254 10 месяцев назад +7

      What r u eating

  • @HeyLookImGerman
    @HeyLookImGerman 10 месяцев назад +439

    *Slasher film music plays*
    A totally normal dude comes out.

  • @UncleKikiOfficial
    @UncleKikiOfficial 10 месяцев назад +172

    All jokes aside, I would’ve been terrified in her position 😩 not knowing it was fake, being in a home with an unhinged stranger, trying to coerce me into seeing his junk/kiss/join him in the hot tub.. I wouldn’t sleep 😭🥲 .. poor Randy

  • @sofiaw4509
    @sofiaw4509 10 месяцев назад +708

    They dont look that crazy together 🤷‍♀️ like if I saw them holding hands in public i wouldn't be shocked
    He's tall, has nice eyes and eyebrows and great hair

    • @jessjess23brooks89
      @jessjess23brooks89 10 месяцев назад +70

      Right. Great hair, nice smile, beautiful eyes. A total bear, big boi energy. I think the horror from this show comes from his acting. If I remember correctly, it gets pretty wild.

    • @fawnieee
      @fawnieee 7 месяцев назад +2

      He's very cute! And people with senses of humour are great!

  • @KreeZafi
    @KreeZafi 10 месяцев назад +533

    I kinda like that they didn't just go for an overtly horrible person (though perhaps it'll get worse later?) but rather just cringe and annoying for the most part, aside from the creepiness. That makes it more believable, imo.

    • @cc-x3
      @cc-x3 10 месяцев назад +33

      Agreed, but I wish they had told him not to try to cross her physical boundaries. That was terrible

    • @Melmaster3
      @Melmaster3 10 месяцев назад +11

      @@cc-x3I think it’s one thing to say stuff like that to make her uncomfortable for the effect of the challenge. You’re making it sound like he was groping her. Definitely was being a creep like Cody said, but not like that

  • @byrontheusurper6505
    @byrontheusurper6505 10 месяцев назад +45

    The horror movie at the reveal of a slightly chubby guy is grotesque

  • @Kudeshka
    @Kudeshka 10 месяцев назад +1845

    TV shows like this made everyone feel so insecure no wonder we have body image issues as adults now . Specially when Tyra Banks kept saying this girl was plus just because she had a bigger chest and didn’t look completely starved.

    • @danidarkoxo
      @danidarkoxo 10 месяцев назад +86

      That show literally motivated me to starve myself as a kid.

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 10 месяцев назад +42

      Fr they ruined an entire generation

    • @alyrock257
      @alyrock257 10 месяцев назад +36

      I came to the same realization watching this, I'm now discovering a lot of my insecurity when I was younger came from watching mtv

    • @okyep
      @okyep 10 месяцев назад +11

      You ever thought about not watching the shit. Just a thought no shade

    • @manuelmialdea5127
      @manuelmialdea5127 10 месяцев назад +15

      And then you have to suffer interacting with the audience of shows like this one.
      People who think they have the right to make your life miserable because it's "just a joke bro".

  • @haydenjohnson481
    @haydenjohnson481 10 месяцев назад +608

    The bit about an opposite show where they have to convince their family they actually pulled the hot guy had me dead 😂🤣

  • @harmonyquinn2557
    @harmonyquinn2557 10 месяцев назад +152

    Cody avoiding saying ‘sorry’ after his Canadian comes out is laughable 😂

  • @keili7777
    @keili7777 10 месяцев назад +622

    cody calling out "nice eyes" as the worst compliment when Jimmy told "megan fox" on LIB that the first thing he noticed was "nice teeth"

    • @GiGi-yk4xn
      @GiGi-yk4xn 10 месяцев назад +135

      “Big white square teeth” 💀

    • @andrea69x
      @andrea69x 10 месяцев назад +63

      @@GiGi-yk4xnLMFAOOOOO he somehow kept making the compliment worse 💀

    • @SmellMyKnee15
      @SmellMyKnee15 9 месяцев назад +1

      I don’t think that was a bad compliment at all actually. She does have nice teeth. And that’s about it. 😂😂😂

  • @intothemystic5223
    @intothemystic5223 10 месяцев назад +411

    Googled this and found out Randi was forced to resign as a teacher due to this show. The principal said she had to choose between promoting the show or teaching and she chose the show.

    • @hannahluden2245
      @hannahluden2245 10 месяцев назад +109

      Honestly teachers are treated horribly in the US, I don't really blame her that much for leaving that career

    • @intothemystic5223
      @intothemystic5223 10 месяцев назад

      @@hannahluden2245 same

    • @lizzyblitz07
      @lizzyblitz07 10 месяцев назад +26

      ​​@@hannahluden2245 I would also imagine she was contractually obligated to promote the show (outside of school). So she could keep her job and let this horrible experience have been for nothing, or leave and keep her $. It would've been absolutely insane to chose the job. I'm sure after a year or so she could find work no problem. These shows were everywhere

  • @josiea.3855
    @josiea.3855 10 месяцев назад +74

    The horror music as the fiance walked out was actually insane 😭😭

    • @Noname-iq1gz
      @Noname-iq1gz 8 месяцев назад +1

      Makes the show 10x better tbh

  • @morgo357
    @morgo357 10 месяцев назад +901

    i couldn’t figure out why steve looked so familiar that’s JOE FROM GREYS ANATOMY

    • @yiggzy5766
      @yiggzy5766 10 месяцев назад +12

      THANK YOU i was trying to figure that out lol

    • @rsparkles
      @rsparkles 10 месяцев назад +18

      THANK YOU. I was like "I swear this guy is a famous actor" but I couldn't put my finger on who he was.

    • @kissessmooches
      @kissessmooches 10 месяцев назад +2

      yes thank you!!!! cuz i was going crazy

    • @drewhempwood2113
      @drewhempwood2113 10 месяцев назад +11

      I thought he just looks like brenan frasier afterthe divorce

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 10 месяцев назад +5

      I've seen him in so many things but this is it TY. Damn he went on to bigger and better things

  • @corrinnesnyder
    @corrinnesnyder 10 месяцев назад +856

    i genuinely think he’s a handsome guy!! especially because he’s really nice and funny and because i see him as joe the bartender from grey’s who is such a good character

    • @Iloveelliptsmith
      @Iloveelliptsmith 10 месяцев назад +45

      I used to have a crush on him when he was on greys anatomy lol

    • @chimppower2748
      @chimppower2748 10 месяцев назад +24

      @@Iloveelliptsmithit should have been you! It should have been you and not her!!

    • @fatimawaheed3028
      @fatimawaheed3028 10 месяцев назад

      @@chimppower2748bro💀💀💀

  • @sarahriley2481
    @sarahriley2481 10 месяцев назад +44

    Imagine this concept again but both people think they are trying to be the annoying partner. Just two people being as annoying as possible trying to cringe the other out. Tell them if the other person calls them out then they will not get the money. And to top it off have them have to be in front of their friends and family the entire time.

    • @vogelvrouw
      @vogelvrouw 9 месяцев назад +4

      Yessss!! Like playing marriage chicken, whoever chickens out loses

  • @alexkenzagi6321
    @alexkenzagi6321 10 месяцев назад +881

    hornestly, i love this xD i feel bad that he has to pretend being an asshole, but i also just love the clips where they have pulled him to the side and he just seems like such a nice and funny guy lol i love the fact that he's an actor without her knowing

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 10 месяцев назад +18

      He's Joe the Bartender from Grey's Anatomy

    • @stevengrant9198
      @stevengrant9198 10 месяцев назад +4

      Hornestly?!?

    • @tayandky9601
      @tayandky9601 3 месяца назад

      sucks that he really is an asshole and a phile

  • @lailacassidy9276
    @lailacassidy9276 10 месяцев назад +514

    “Fart Randy” had me cacklingggg when he realized he mixed up the names

  • @Ackermoon13
    @Ackermoon13 10 месяцев назад +30

    Im so glad we can see his interviews, because we get to see "the real Steve", and I must say he seem so damn charming and is also such a fantastic actor! I really hope he is doing well in life

  • @abbsk.1
    @abbsk.1 10 месяцев назад +241

    So nice of Otis to let his dad have this much fun

  • @Yepelinda
    @Yepelinda 10 месяцев назад +1029

    Just finished lunch but I’ll serve myself some more just to enjoy this video the way it’s meant to be

  • @Ardo2327
    @Ardo2327 10 месяцев назад +62

    Putting the fact that he's supposed to be an awful person aside, steve's just...the most regular looking guy ever

  • @Mng421
    @Mng421 10 месяцев назад +175

    As someone who grew up watching early 2000s reality tv, I feel like the 2000s were just a particularly cruel time for anyone who wasn’t a size 2 (and whatever the male equivalent of that is) lol

  • @kaylamatters
    @kaylamatters 10 месяцев назад +210

    Honestly, I'm known for having less conventional taste in men, but I'd rather have been paired with Steve/Joe the bartender from Grey's Anatomy than any of those megachads she was originally shown. He's adorable, and from what I've seen of him on Grey's a fantastic actor! And the clips of him not in character he seems like a lovely person! And we wonder why beauty expectations have become so insanely unrealistic...

  • @shadowscribbler6100
    @shadowscribbler6100 10 месяцев назад +34

    I was a guest on a reality show once upon a time. They absolutely do set you up in awkward situations like this... and it's to get a genuine and often rude reaction out of people.

  • @emmad4693
    @emmad4693 10 месяцев назад +283

    “Who let me have fun?” Is my favorite thing he says every video

  • @harmonyquinn2557
    @harmonyquinn2557 10 месяцев назад +423

    It’s hilarious to me bc I think “Steve” Is genuinely attractive. I love beautiful eyes that light you with a smile.

    • @elisemurray5263
      @elisemurray5263 10 месяцев назад +70

      he is so attractive!! really hope he's doing okay and realizes how absolutely stupid and wrong (in all definitions of the word) the show and its title is. he seems like a clever guy so i'm betting he does!!

    • @lemongarycactus
      @lemongarycactus 10 месяцев назад +71

      if i was the bride i literally would've said "oh he's actually cute!" and accidentally have ruined the premise of the show

    • @Am1naaaaaa
      @Am1naaaaaa 10 месяцев назад +6

      Steve is so cute

    • @elisemurray5263
      @elisemurray5263 10 месяцев назад +13

      @@lemongarycactus no fr tho!! not that i'd wanna be on a show like this in the first place but if for some god damn crazy ass reason i was there i'd be like?????? he's supposed to be ugly???? he's not even that overweight either i don't get it!

    • @georgie9755
      @georgie9755 10 месяцев назад +17

      Lookalike Brandon Fraser

  • @careyaddis2809
    @careyaddis2809 10 месяцев назад +86

    I ran into Steve once. He was leaving a nursing home in IL. He was visiting his grandma. He was very sweaty, but nice.

    • @blondie9422
      @blondie9422 10 месяцев назад +12

      “Sweaty but nice” hahaha

    • @vogelvrouw
      @vogelvrouw 9 месяцев назад +2

      That's relatable tbh

  • @blobbybaby
    @blobbybaby 10 месяцев назад +717

    He is actually a really handsome guy. It’s so sad that people don’t even give bigger people a chance. People should judge people for their actions.

    • @caseyw.6550
      @caseyw.6550 10 месяцев назад +86

      He's not bad looking at all.

    • @munchkint
      @munchkint 10 месяцев назад +24

      god forbid anyone has a type lol

    • @caseyw.6550
      @caseyw.6550 10 месяцев назад +40

      @@munchkint That's what everyone tells people they find unattractive. "You're just not my type." Lol! If you don't like overweight people just say that.

    • @munchkint
      @munchkint 10 месяцев назад +56

      @@caseyw.6550 i don't like overweight people.

    • @caseyw.6550
      @caseyw.6550 10 месяцев назад +31

      @@munchkint and that's how to speak honestly without beating around the bush. Congrats I guess.

  • @hard.g0re
    @hard.g0re 10 месяцев назад +271

    Steven is a fantastic actor bro, he was on community, buffy, and even recently 'you.' I fuckin love that guy!

    • @missfrizzler
      @missfrizzler 10 месяцев назад +23

      greys anatomy too!!

    • @Subsistence69
      @Subsistence69 10 месяцев назад +5

      Who was he in Community??

    • @hard.g0re
      @hard.g0re 10 месяцев назад +10

      @@Subsistence69 he was the janitor

    • @shnosmas
      @shnosmas 10 месяцев назад +4

      Randi could wish for a guy like him

    • @YoMahamad
      @YoMahamad 10 месяцев назад +15

      OH YEAH He's the guy Annie repeatedly chloroforms

  • @DinnaQ
    @DinnaQ 9 месяцев назад +4

    This was like the instagram posts of " Would you live in a mansion with your first @ " or "would you marry a rich guy you don't love or a poor man you love ".

  • @Phroggie_pharts
    @Phroggie_pharts 10 месяцев назад +374

    I’m hooked on this… PART 2

    • @lisao7600
      @lisao7600 10 месяцев назад +18

      Right, I want to see the whole thing. I'm about to go look up where I can watch this show.
      I remember seeing it advertised on tv back then but I never watched it.
      The guy playing Steve is great, so funny.

    • @lilyrolyat6726
      @lilyrolyat6726 10 месяцев назад

      @@lisao7600lmk if you find out where to watch cause I was thinking the same thing

  • @BigAlexgator
    @BigAlexgator 10 месяцев назад +67

    15:20 the musical stings for Steve are absolutely insane lol. I feel bad for him. He hasn’t even acted awful yet

  • @angelicaleipert1031
    @angelicaleipert1031 10 месяцев назад +15

    Your Canadian “sorry” sounds exactly like Kurtis Conner & I love that for our Canadian Mayor

  • @madebysilas
    @madebysilas 10 месяцев назад +82

    The hosts look is so 2000s I love it so much

    • @ALEXLKA
      @ALEXLKA 10 месяцев назад

      maybe bc it was 2004 ig idk

  • @lena0blk
    @lena0blk 10 месяцев назад +54

    I love how all it takes is one sorry for Cody to go back to his canadian accent

  • @YouriIsEenBanaan
    @YouriIsEenBanaan 10 месяцев назад +17

    I remember watching the Dutch version of this as a kid in 2005. It was also called by dirty, fat, annoying fiancé and about the whole country was watching it at that time. The cash price was only €50K too.

    • @emkay2757
      @emkay2757 10 месяцев назад

      Met Laura ponticorvo toch

  • @Sarah-re7cg
    @Sarah-re7cg 10 месяцев назад +290

    Aw, whoever made that comment about paternity leave is rude and flat out wrong. I wouldn’t care if you pooped your pants for a living, this is crucial bonding time for parents and baby. Congratulations on baby by the way! Hope your wife is doing well with recovering ❤️‍🩹

    • @malwina5586
      @malwina5586 10 месяцев назад +16

      That is such a sweet comment. Have a nice day!

  • @Trafficconeboy
    @Trafficconeboy 10 месяцев назад +67

    Ok wait, Steve doesn’t even look at that bad 😭 rip
    Ok he’s literally so sweet when he’s not acting

  • @smileyreilly7132
    @smileyreilly7132 10 месяцев назад +14

    Need a part two more than Dune needed one

  • @CazzaMcSpazza
    @CazzaMcSpazza 10 месяцев назад +34

    I hope the actor got at least a million for this gig.

  • @chriswake5214
    @chriswake5214 10 месяцев назад +67

    “This is actually where Pimp my ride was filmed” 😂😂😂😂 not a garage but a mansion 😅😅 🤣

  • @meowtheap2483
    @meowtheap2483 10 месяцев назад +16

    her discomfort it’s so real

  • @TriedRefusedProductions
    @TriedRefusedProductions 10 месяцев назад +278

    Cody this is one of your funniest reactions 😭

    • @peacewisewealth
      @peacewisewealth 10 месяцев назад +8

      omg Jammy! didnt know you were a cody fan! love your vids man

    • @sanninlegends1843
      @sanninlegends1843 10 месяцев назад +8

      Jammy what! Didn't expect to see you here!

    • @vypanchy
      @vypanchy 10 месяцев назад +9

      My worlds are colliding!!

  • @sarar4270
    @sarar4270 10 месяцев назад +12

    that "sorry" thanks for reminding me you're Canadian

  • @yandiego96
    @yandiego96 10 месяцев назад +32

    Let’s goooo more episodes! also always wanted back hair since my grandpa who I think is the most badass person ever has it - I wanted to be like him but never grew in that back hair so, I envy you Cody and Steve as well lol

    • @Queeziii
      @Queeziii 10 месяцев назад +3

      Aww

  • @misselleb2004
    @misselleb2004 10 месяцев назад +15

    We need the full season!

  • @theovolz3073
    @theovolz3073 10 месяцев назад +6

    - asked to put on wedding dress.
    - told she’s about to be engaged.
    - surprised Pikachu face.

  • @BlackyPotter
    @BlackyPotter 10 месяцев назад +50

    I like how the "crazy/wild" concept of this show is literally the concept of Love is Blind

  • @the.dirt.man.
    @the.dirt.man. 10 месяцев назад +228

    3:38 she quarantined before it was cool

    • @Bree_999
      @Bree_999 10 месяцев назад +6

      And for two weeks too! 😂

    • @hmmm_welll889
      @hmmm_welll889 10 месяцев назад +9

      "before it was cool" 😭😭

    • @botanicalitus4194
      @botanicalitus4194 10 месяцев назад +18

      she single handedly prevented covid-18 from happening . What a queen 💅

  • @AM-jk6vt
    @AM-jk6vt 7 месяцев назад +1

    I'm just watching this now and I wanna say props to you for taking paternity leave. People consider making videos easy but no one can deny it's time consuming and I'm sure Kelsey appreciates your help greatly. Been following you for long and I'm so glad to see your little family gained a new member💘

  • @Mono_13_
    @Mono_13_ 10 месяцев назад +6

    Dude YES please do more this is an UNHINGED concept for a reality show

  • @jayr.7736
    @jayr.7736 10 месяцев назад +12

    trying to financially support the baby with interaction 😤

  • @phlosen7854
    @phlosen7854 9 месяцев назад +1

    32:40 Biggest respect for that dude. He's a actor playing this persona. I couldn't do that in private. The fact that he is doing that on TV...

  • @mitchellgdyer
    @mitchellgdyer 10 месяцев назад +10

    Totally locked in for this journey!!!

  • @rileybifulk4243
    @rileybifulk4243 10 месяцев назад +15

    So happy for you and Kelsey ❤ Baby Otis is adorable and I hope parenthood treats you well

  • @beemadafka112
    @beemadafka112 6 месяцев назад +1

    I randomly watched this show when I was a child and I didn't known its name but I remember how shocked I was that I convinced myself it's a fever dream and every time I talked about it no one knew what I'm talking about but it always itched my mind. Cody you doing God's job

  • @adorablepandaring1975
    @adorablepandaring1975 10 месяцев назад +153

    a cody video comes on just as i’m doing homework🙏🙏

    • @Digitalgirl.mp3
      @Digitalgirl.mp3 10 месяцев назад +1

      homework tiiimmmeee. Same

    • @adamwarrington2054
      @adamwarrington2054 10 месяцев назад +1

      As far as I’m concerned this is his second chanel

    • @Peptobizzy
      @Peptobizzy 10 месяцев назад

      Me too!

    • @apexsyndicate10
      @apexsyndicate10 10 месяцев назад +1

      As I’m taking my midterm, bless up

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 10 месяцев назад

      Imagine not plagiarising 🙄 - Lele Pons

  • @ryanmurphy2089
    @ryanmurphy2089 10 месяцев назад +5

    Cody deserves an award for most consistent youtuber

  • @Pepperjack1986
    @Pepperjack1986 7 месяцев назад +1

    The white dress Randi was wearing when she first met Steve is the exact same dress I wore to my high school graduation, also in 2004. This show is so nostalgic, lol.

  • @pancreaticlemons7069
    @pancreaticlemons7069 10 месяцев назад +16

    steve is an actor in greys anatomy and plays the bar owner Joe

  • @zachmartinez6260
    @zachmartinez6260 10 месяцев назад +16

    This is awesome!Post more of these lmao let's finish this 6 video series!We needed these longer videos

  • @TheAndyread
    @TheAndyread 7 месяцев назад +2

    PLEASE! if there are more episodes of this, do more!!!
    I had no idea this existed, and now I'm hooked.... omfg, I LOVE THIS SHOWWWW!!!! 😂😂😂
    This is INSANE! the early 00s was a wild, lawless place, for real 😂

  • @imaplumbun
    @imaplumbun 10 месяцев назад +4

    Cody, other Canadians, say "sorry" however you want. Don't hide who you are.