He wanted monogamy, she wanted to be a 304. She pesters him into "agreeing" to an open relationship, then loses the competition against a better woman. Consequences....
The moment you ask for an open relationship all respect for you is lost. Don’t expect things to be the same, after you give yourself to someone else! It’s ridiculous that these females do not see the irony of their terrible awful decisions. Most men are not down for this delusional request and why would they be? The ones who are ok with this are just passing through time with no serious thought or real commitment for a long lasting relationships.
I ask so many young people "What does marriage mean to you?" So so so many of them get it wrong. This lady is disgusting and to be honest her boyfriend is disgusting as well. If your spouse ask to cheat on you (open poly etc), the relationship is already over. You are now single again, and you need to move on.
A marriage, in the monogamous Western sense of the word, is a legal contract and a mechanism to automatically and predictably decide the order of succession. It means "when the father dies, the inheritance goes to the eldest son of the legitimately married wife. Bastards don't count". Everything else is people gaslighting one another into believing it's something more than that at heart. It's gaslighting in the same way that we gaslit one another into believing concepts like money or nation.
As soon as an open relationship spews from her mouth you END the relationships ASAP Gentlemen. She asked for it, he checked out of the relationship, got involved with someone else so she did this to her ignorant self.
These people with these stupid "Open relationships " deserve absolutely EVERY NEGATIVE thing that comes their way. If you want to be single, be single....
True--it's hard to fathom that people are this dumb (until you see/hear those in these stories) thinking that "open" garbage will work yet always ends in disaster. SMDH!!!!!!!
An open relationship is, in itself, a form of cheating. It’s pathetic that fools think they can make such relationships work. Getting physically close to another person and thinking there won’t be any consequences is just plain stupid. This is why marriage is limited to one man and one woman.
This woman's had $ex with (just?) 4 other men apart from her fiance in the last year? Nothing emotional, just physical she claims. But he reluctantly went along with the open relationship and has now found what he always wanted... a committed partner.
2nd story. Since you shut down the open relationship she requested now she’s just going to cheat instead. When and if you catch her she will just blame you for not opening the relationship.
I'm Betting the OP here wanted and Open Relationship. Probably had another Guy picked out. Or probably already Hooking up with another guy. But HE'S The Cheater. HE Broke the Rules EH!?? You Ruined this. He's Found True Love! Now Move on!
Theee are no rules in an open relationship just by the very nature of the relationship. An open relationship is just the first step in the process of divorce. Ok God, you guys do not belong being married.
Playing with feeling is like playing with fire - no matter how good you are, eventually you'll get burned. This open relationship idea is spreading through society like a virus - a virus that traditions had once immunized us against. But now that we have done away with traditions, the problems our ancestors once solved for us are reappearing.
If someone says monogamy is patriarchal then just say so is marriage. We shouldn’t be contractually enslaved to another. We should be free to be with whoever and whenever we want
😂😂😂😂😂😂 This relationship worked well before? Ok, then why aren't you with that last person? He ended your relationship when you said, "Let's sleep with other people."😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The whole idea of 2 parties having sex with random people with (0 Emotional) attachment is ludicrous. The woman writting this has no clue that this dude (at least subconsciously) checked out of the relationship as soon as she suggested the open marriage.
There's no way a guy can ever guarantee there won't be an emotional connection when they're spending time with someone else. This chick is delusional. I don't believe he wanted an OR. I wonder who brought it up in the first place. usually it's her.
Heres an idea everyone ,not only ladies, don't open your relationships and if either of you do end it or get over it. Its the same ole song and dance. Don't get married. Its a scam, a flimflam. People don't care about anyone anymore. Point blank. Who hurt me? Ill give you a guess
He wanted monogamy, she wanted to be a 304. She pesters him into "agreeing" to an open relationship, then loses the competition against a better woman. Consequences....
Geez, they keep asking for open relationships.Trash
The moment you ask for an open relationship all respect for you is lost. Don’t expect things to be the same, after you give yourself to someone else! It’s ridiculous that these females do not see the irony of their terrible awful decisions. Most men are not down for this delusional request and why would they be? The ones who are ok with this are just passing through time with no serious thought or real commitment for a long lasting relationships.
What she says: _I think an open relationship will be good for us._
What he hears: _I'm a FWB until you find what you're looking for._
I ask so many young people "What does marriage mean to you?" So so so many of them get it wrong. This lady is disgusting and to be honest her boyfriend is disgusting as well. If your spouse ask to cheat on you (open poly etc), the relationship is already over. You are now single again, and you need to move on.
A marriage, in the monogamous Western sense of the word, is a legal contract and a mechanism to automatically and predictably decide the order of succession. It means "when the father dies, the inheritance goes to the eldest son of the legitimately married wife. Bastards don't count".
Everything else is people gaslighting one another into believing it's something more than that at heart. It's gaslighting in the same way that we gaslit one another into believing concepts like money or nation.
As soon as an open relationship spews from her mouth you END the relationships ASAP Gentlemen. She asked for it, he checked out of the relationship, got involved with someone else so she did this to her ignorant self.
Only if you're married.
If you're just dating, now you're FWB till you find what you want.
@@jarrod752 If a person is in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship and that crap spews from their mouths end the relationship
If someone is in a relationship, that garbage spews from her mouth you end the relationship.
As soon as she asked for an open relationship, he checked out and worked on finding a new woman.
💯
Yep
That's all you have to do. Accept that the relationship is ipso facto over and shop around for her replacement.
These people with these stupid "Open relationships " deserve absolutely EVERY NEGATIVE thing that comes their way. If you want to be single, be single....
True--it's hard to fathom that people are this dumb (until you see/hear those in these stories) thinking that "open" garbage will work yet always ends in disaster. SMDH!!!!!!!
Exactly!
An open relationship is, in itself, a form of cheating. It’s pathetic that fools think they can make such relationships work. Getting physically close to another person and thinking there won’t be any consequences is just plain stupid. This is why marriage is limited to one man and one woman.
Open relationship, have sex with other people with NO EMOTIONS...SERIOUSLY, lol
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
“Open relationship” 😂 it’s like a diet that you can eat what you want whenever you want. That diet won’t work.
This woman's had $ex with (just?) 4 other men apart from her fiance in the last year? Nothing emotional, just physical she claims. But he reluctantly went along with the open relationship and has now found what he always wanted... a committed partner.
So it's obvious she asked for open relationship.
Women dont realize when a man is done. He is done
2nd story. Since you shut down the open relationship she requested now she’s just going to cheat instead. When and if you catch her she will just blame you for not opening the relationship.
I'm Betting the OP here wanted and Open Relationship. Probably had another Guy picked out. Or probably already Hooking up with another guy. But HE'S The Cheater. HE Broke the Rules EH!?? You Ruined this. He's Found True Love! Now Move on!
_We mutually agreed_ actually means _I decided and he saw his out._
Step #1: Play stupid games.
Step #2: Win stupid prizes.
Step #3: Cry to the internet about consequences.
People can’t just say I’m not going to catch feelings for someone and not catch feelings if they are a better fit for them.
Theee are no rules in an open relationship just by the very nature of the relationship. An open relationship is just the first step in the process of divorce. Ok God, you guys do not belong being married.
There’s a phrase for this: just deserts.
It's over lady just move on
Hot girl summer has ruined the woman's psyche.
Girlfriend need to build a chicken-coop because they've come home
Playing with feeling is like playing with fire - no matter how good you are, eventually you'll get burned.
This open relationship idea is spreading through society like a virus - a virus that traditions had once immunized us against. But now that we have done away with traditions, the problems our ancestors once solved for us are reappearing.
Once she opened the relationship, it was over.
". . . i'm still not sure to what extent"
answer: to the extent that he wants to dump you 😂
5:34 Wasn't she's the one who asked for an open relationship? Here she's shaming him what she wanted. Smh
If someone says monogamy is patriarchal then just say so is marriage. We shouldn’t be contractually enslaved to another. We should be free to be with whoever and whenever we want
Curious what others think here: is the use of toys for her and/or porn for you cheating?
Good video
While there are men who are into the whole open thing the majority of us are monogamous and just want one person to be with
So she proposed open marriage originally it took her a while to say that but she is the cause of all this
😂😂😂😂😂😂 This relationship worked well before? Ok, then why aren't you with that last person? He ended your relationship when you said, "Let's sleep with other people."😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The whole idea of 2 parties having sex with random people with (0 Emotional) attachment is ludicrous. The woman writting this has no clue that this dude (at least subconsciously) checked out of the relationship as soon as she suggested the open marriage.
"Agreed" = she forced it on him.
There's no way a guy can ever guarantee there won't be an emotional connection when they're spending time with someone else. This chick is delusional. I don't believe he wanted an OR. I wonder who brought it up in the first place. usually it's her.
These people bro…
Its done and over get over him, you ruined it, your jealous abd bitter
Not going to go in with this play stupid games you get stupid answers
Heres an idea everyone ,not only ladies, don't open your relationships and if either of you do end it or get over it.
Its the same ole song and dance. Don't get married. Its a scam, a flimflam. People don't care about anyone anymore. Point blank. Who hurt me? Ill give you a guess
Play stupid games. Win stupid prizes.
Open relationship is the prequel to a break up. If you're tired of your partner, just leave!
What is wrong with you?
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