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As an Asian, I know the difficulty of saying, "I love you,” to my parents. As you can see, the parents also don't know how to react to such a statement. They downplay it or say thank you. It's not that there's no love, but it's quite hard!
In Brazil, where I'm from, it's different. Parents here (most) are loving. If you tell them you love them, chances are they'll make an even sweeter statement. If I mentioned this to my mother or father, they would shower me with loving words. This is just one of many cultural differences.
Is very interesting for me to see this perspective. As a Mexican, I can say that most of us are very warm and affectionate. I’ve never said a “goodbye” to my parents without an “I love you”. I call them every now and then to just see how are they doing and tell them that I love them. There’s not a day that goes by without my father sending me a text and telling me that he loves me. This makes me feel so grateful for all the love I have received from my parents and the confidence I have to go and give them a big hug anytime ❤
Keep trying to reach to your parents dont let their reaction be a break to your relationship because life is too short to be wishy washy in showering your parents with love even if its embarrassing lol
Here in latin america, I think that people are warmer and affective 😅 I say "I love you" to my parents almost every days and I hug them. Are cultural differences
I never say it face to face....it's so weird...and after all my parents don't say it to my too lol😂 but i want know whats we feel when we say 'ily' Sry for my English broken *~*
I’m American so saying “I love you” to my parents and my kids is an everyday thing, but my ex husband is Asian and always had a hard time saying it, but showed love in other ways. I can see how it makes the phrase “I love you” feel that much more special and touching when it is finally said ❤
I don’t know. Despite it being said all the time, I still feel that it’s very touching and special to say “I love you” to my loved ones. I don’t share that bond with anyone else but them.
I'm American but this is the opposite for me, haha. We do say "I love you" sometimes but not every day. Idk, maybe it's just my family haha but for us, it's a phrase that is more special and important for us and holds a lot of importance in our family. But on the other hand, I never heard my friends say it to their families either so maybe it's just where I'm from? Hahaha
Making I love you sentence so normal will not left with much value as before so yes we asian have a great value to this sentence we can't say randomly to anyone not even a close friend
Dear parents, just because your child is smiling at their phone, doesn't mean they have boyfriend or girlfriend, they are just watching this masterpiece
I’m not even suicidal or anything like that but I just took the train alone after a disagreement with my dad and he thought I had jumped (he had literally talked to police in the area), so I wonder what this would do to him
I love that so many of the parents respond with, “thank you my child”, or, “make sure you eat/rest,” that’s just how they know how to say, “I love you too.”
3:45 The nervous laugh after “I love you” tells you it’s not expressed often how much she loves her.. sad but also happy moment. Gotta Cherish our loved ones❤️
Yeah. We don't usually say "I love you" to show our love. We show it with our actions and how we care and treasure each other. I can't say I LOVE YOU when I really love someone (parent, friend, partner) not because I'm shy, in fact it's not my love language. I show them with my actions.
Same. Words are good but actions are better. Of course saying "I love you" to the people we care for is also good. Since it makes people happy to hear those words from the one they love as well. By the way, did you guys eat yet? Make sure to eat and don't skip meals, take care of yourselves especially these times of pandemic :>
As an American I do find it very sweet how the parents respond by SHOWING their love in some way. It seems to me that a lot of Asian cultures value acts that demonstrate love more than verbally saying it. Several of the parents made sure their kid had food to eat, asked if they were okay, or offered money, said "Make sure you come home early to be safe," or some other way to show their affection. They were saying "I love you" back, in their way.
@@pwills122 because of our culture, of course we love our parents and our parents know that very well so we don’t have say it. It’s like saying “sky is blue” to your parent, it’s sound very wired right?haha
It's sad that the children were hoping that their parents would say ' I love you' back yet only a very few actually did🥺 You could tell many of them were disappointed to not here that response.
It’s not that they don’t love them back it just that they can’t express. But their love is more deep then we can ever think. Parents love are unconditional
Yeah, same happened in the parents saying I love you to their children video. I think because they feel awkward since it never happened before and they dont know how to respond.
Not for me... I tell my mom I love her everyday and Hug her mostly everyday and not she’s soo annoyed of it and sometimes she just yell at me for hugging or saying I love you 🤦🏻♀️
It’s so hard for me to tell my parents that i love them, which i really do. Feels like you’re stuck in between, to tell them and feel awkward or to shut up and feel sorry for not telling them. Worst feeling ever
Me sorprende que no sea común que entre familiares se digan “Te amo” en Asia, yo cada vez que veo a mis padres y familiares no paro de repetirles que los amo, hay que aprovechar a las personas cuando las tenemos, no sabemos cuándo será la última vez que les diremos “Te amo” que hermoso video, lo admito derrame un par de lagrimas :’)
Si no es común escucharlo al igual que no hay mucho afecto por eso es que hay muchos suicidios, pero claro si hay personas que son afectuosos y dicen lo que sienten..
Мне кажется это у всех так. Кто-то может легко сказать своим близким людям, а кто-то просто стесняется. Я вот тоже стесняюсь говорить маме и папе, что люблю их. Я это ни кому не говорю. Кроме своим домашним питомцам и своим племянникам. А так я стесняюсь говорить : я люблю тебя. Но среди моих знакомых, есть те кто не стесняется говорить. Их большинство. Когда я говорю, что люблю своим родителям. Они думают, что мне что нибудь нужно. Деньги примеру. (хотя я каждую неделю их получаю и не нуждаюсь в них).
Desde chiquita me acostumbré a solo decir "te quiero" ahora que soy adolescente aún no se me quita esa mala costumbre, no es que no los ame es solo que si digo "te amo" van a pensar que estoy híper dramática :(
When I read your comment I was like "yeah it's almost in the end and I didn't cry but it was cute" THEN the next videos came and you know what happened
The girl crying after telling her mom she loves her made me emotional. It’s kind of heartbreaking that Asians rarely say that to their parents/kids. I know love is shown in other ways but sometimes it so refreshing to actually hear those words from the people you love and vice versa.
“Asians” is a very broad term. This is Chinese culture. Many south East Asian countries tell their parents they love them just as much if not more than western countries.
@@bellaaaahhh I am a Asian too and I kid you not I haven't nor my parents say that we love each other if I say them this they will think I am about to die or in danger something
@@bellaaaahhh your statement is kinda ironic cuz "Southeast Asia" is also a broad term. Cuz I'm from Southeast Asia and I know many families who don't say I love u to each other lol
@@goodlife1302 yeah I'm fine too. I am glad you're okay. I lost my dad when I was 3, barely remember anything from that time. So idk how it is like to lose a parent. Though, I can see the pain in my elder brother's eyes cause he was around 10 so he knows it much better. Idk what I would do if i lose my mom. Since we are Christians, we get message From God while praying and He said that our family must pray cause mom's life is short. We are constantly praying that God prolongs her life . I am keeping my faith that God will not make me an orphan right now.
THEY DON'T HAVE TO. Because they already did every single second for years and years and years.... when they gave you birth, when they fed you, when they admitted you to school, when they took you to the park, when they gave you safe shelter to live, when they bought you a toy, when they took you to the doctor when you were sick...... That's "Love" . Everyday. Every second.
Indeed the words that are difficult to express are "I love you" to our parents, I cried seeing this because I never said those words to my parents too;
If you’ve never said ily to your parents say it to them now and if you find it weird just text them no matter what they’re your parents and they are the reason you exist so even if they hate you they still are your parents. T-T
@ARMY AN BLINK Don't worry, those words will be with you if you or should you ever have children. Raise them well and fill them with the love you missed, one day, you'll be on the receiving end of those words.
2nd gen Chinese American here. No problem saying "I love you" in English and my folks will say it back. Would never consider saying it in Chinese haha. It just feels weird.
The way the parents suddenly goes silent for a moment after hearing the “I love you “ word means that they really not used to hear it more often and didn’t really expect it,but you can hear their cheerful voice after hearing it.
we express "i love you" in a different ways. like asking "have you eaten?", "do you want me to buy you something?" , "you want money?". it just weird to say directly "i love you" in mostly asian country as it means i love you as sexually. so yeah we express our love with action not by words that speak louder than action.
I never said to my parents that word but deep inside, I'm afraid to lose them. I love them from the bottom of my heart even though I know that I am not a perfect child for them.
You know I'm too shy. We always have conflict in our relationship and.. it's not easy for me. But thank you TREEMAN for this heartwarming videos! Soon I will visit China ☺sending all my support and love from Philippines!
u dont have to be shy to say "I love you" to the people who took care , bought u food , gave u everything that u needed and loved u with their whole heart , I hope u say I love you to them , They'll like it a lot
It’s interesting to see the Asian culture and the dynamic they have with their parents surrounding emotional vulnerability. This video was beautiful. You can tell it’s not something that’s said a lot and in that moment, both child and parent will always remember that call .
hm, I think a lot of Asian families do have emotional vulnerability. It's just that the specific phrase "I love you" is rare and not said nearly as much as it is in some other cultures.
@@angelinaz7292 of course … I’m not saying they don’t have emotional vulnerability, I’m saying i find the dynamic interesting. “I love you” isn’t said often which is interesting
As an Asian American, “I love you” isn’t normally spoken in an average Asian American household unless they are extremely close or it’s directed to or from your grandparents. Since saying “I love you” isn’t a norm, Asian parents assume their child is in some sort of trouble or is in need of some cash when they receive this three lettered phrase. This doesn’t usually apply to younger ages. My mother and I used to have a thing where we just randomly say I love you and then respond I love you more and so forth. I was like 6 though. This is for anyone that doesn’t understand why these people are sort of cringing before saying it.
That is so true. In Asia we express our love by doing stuff for others n not saying stuff. Maybe that is why I felt so awkward while the entire video was going on
Asians (parents) do not easily, readily show/ express their love to children... and we were never taught how to 'reciprocate' such love. This is priceless 😌
@@truelovewontwait ummm wtf that really pisses me off like what’s the point in even having kids if you can’t provide enough love for them. Like the whole idea of even having a child is to provide it with enough emotional and mental as well as discipline ofc but love must always be the number one thing in the family or otherwise it won’t work. Like how tf do you expect children to become stable adults if they never had that parental love. I swear my advice to ppl who have “difficulties expressing their love for their children” (which btw is inexcusable like stop trying to be the victim in this situation cuz that’s just basically neglect and you’re just making yourself look stupid) is that if you don’t know how to show love to your kids then you’re obviously not mature enough to have them given the fact that you’re acting like a child yourself
@@its_just_me6183 well to be fair, parents show love in many ways. Especially when it comes to Asian parents, it’s in their actions. But yeah, nevertheless, words are powerful, and it would be so much better if parents knew how to verbally send the message across as well. It makes a huge difference
Honestly, if your parents don't teach you to say "I love you" since very young, it's so hard to do it when you grew up. It's not only Asians but people all around the world.
I mean it's not like they didn't teach me but it's just so hard like i would start tearing up and that is NOT what I want (I hate crying so i try to avoid it as much as I can lol)
Its not like a thing to teach . In asia we show our love through acts . Its like saying blood is red . You already know that they love you and they know that you love them . parents also say i love you rarely .
As an American, I say, "I love you" to my parents all the time, and seeing how much courage it takes to say the same thing in another country, it makes me sad
maybe because ily is a big word for us and we prefer to express love in many ways instead of saying those three words verbally,,, and we do have the thought that if 'i love you' is normalized it would lack the meaning of it over time, its a very sacred word for us
I’m Asian, I called my mom to do this. It went like this. Me: “Hi mom.” Mom: “Yes?” Me: “am I disturbing you right now?” Mom: “No, I was making lunch. What do you want?” Me: “I wanted to say I love you” Mom: “Ok what’s wrong?” Me: “Nothing, I just wanted to tell you” Mom: “Don’t lie, what’s going on *switches languages*” Me: “Nothing- I just wanted to tell you 😭” Mom: ”If you say so, you better not be lying. Don’t forget to come home and do your chores and homework” Me: “Yes ma’am 😭😂”
A very different cultural feel 💚 brought me to tears. I tell my parents often how much I love and appreciate them. Both of them lost their parents as young adults and I want to make sure they know how loved they are.
For me (a Mexican who live in Mexico) is totally normal say to my mom and dad “I love you” or give they hugs every day. I don’t know why for someone’s it’s really difficult say “I love you” to her parents
The kids responds to the question ( Have you said" i love you" to your parents ) "No ,never " "I have not said it in years " "I only said it once " " No " "I should but I never say it " Parents need to hear that quite often 😔
FYI Asian parents and western parents kinda different though it might be normal for the western cultures but in asian cultures we didn’t say this often and if we said it both of us might be suspect to each other something must have happen
@@mishima433 not that different, some people think that it might be wierd or that they want something , and I get why . It's the same actually depends on the people tho😊
It's not actually like that. Even if we don't say "I love you" both parents and children know how much we love each other. We express it with our action. But when we express it with words it just becomes more meaningful and emotional
Me: *calls mom* Mom: “yeah hello?” Me: “I love you” Mom: “what do you mean what’s going on are you gonna hurt yourself please don’t do this it’s not the answer don’t you hang up on me keep me on call-“ Me: “I just wanted to say I love you I’m okay-“ Mom: “oh okay love you too”
Their phrases like eat more,come early,dont u need a money all of these are their love expression. They use it but,when we hear the in main words like "I love you" is so deep and heartouching
Instead of saying I love you back the parents also say come back home early or its cold outside.. Just because they dont say it doesn't mean they dont love them.. They obviously care and the love is within that
Saying “I love you too” isn’t the only way to express your love for people you know?? I told my mom that I love her one time and I haven’t said it in a while to her before that. She just laughed cuz she felt embarrassed since it’s been a long time since I told her that lol. Maybe the other parents were feeling the same way. Idk 🤷♀️ just a hunch.
i'm 15 and my mom died last year. until now, i have this feeling of regret of not saying i love you to her often. and i honestly can see that i'll bring this regret until i aged.
As someone who always felt uneasy around their parents and doesn't really know how to reciprocate affection, this made my cereal bowl full of tears instead of milk.
Saying I love you to asian parents be like: "Are you drunk?" "You need money?" "What do you want this time?" "You did something wrong?" "Are you okay? You're not suicidal right?" "Are you sick?" "Is this a prank?" "It's a lie. You better talk gracefully to me, do your chores if you really love me, your room is a mess! *endless lecture*"
How insecure are we, or how little confidence do we have that it costs us so much to say "I love you" to our parents? I also have a hard time saying it, and every time I do, I cry a little
i think because the simple word is so powerful and genuine and also because some ppl don't said it often but more than anything i think that many people around the world have problems with showing their feelings towards others because they are not taught from home how to be affectionate.
I think more than anything actions speaks louder than words. Likewise, that person will know that you truly love them even if you don't openly express it through words if you show it through your actions. I don't think it's necessarily being insecure but more of one's culture or how they are brought up. Doesn't mean that they don't say "I love you" or it's not a common thing to do but more on the fact there are other ways to show you love someone. Saying "I love you" in my opinion is just a simpler way to express how you feel about someone.
I’ve been living in this world for 18 years and in my memories there’s not even a single time I said ily to my mom and vice versa. Idk it’s just too hard and awkward to say it. But we both know we love and care for each other deeply
This made me cry. As an American usually I love you is reserved for family, however said more frequently than the Japanese culture. My mother died suddenly when I was a child. My family never leaves each other or hangs up the phone without saying I love you. I even tell my brother and sister in law I love you. Life is short.
Middle eastern and Asian don’t say “I love you” as much as Western parents, but they show it in actions. Carrying me for 9 long months inside her womb, a painful birth is “I love you”. Nights my mom took night shift to buy me things I wanted is “I love you”. Cooking for me in the middle of the night because I craved something is “I love you”. Giving food off her own spoon because I was still hungry is “I love you”. Small things they do everyday for you is “I love you”.
Watching this and looking back at the disrespectful things I’ve said to my mom is making me regret and cry but I still don’t have the courage to get up and open the door and walk two feet to my moms room and hug her. I know I’ll one day regret it but I don’t know what to do rn it’s just so hard
@@tangeriness I regret many things I did, when I realized I asked my mother for forgiveness and I said how much I love her and I think she is better now and I do too. Tell her how you feel, it's better to regret what you did than what you didn't.
I've always said "I love you" throughout my life. My mother and father also responded, and they showed it with their actions. I'm proud of myself for changing my parents' behavior
Must be nice to not be neglected in your childhood, beat on, yelled at and come out traumatized and fucked up with negative adulthood traits. I am severely jealous of people with parents who love them and support them and are there for them when they need it most. You must be doing so well in life...you probably have good social skills, a car,home,married,children, probably mature emotionally and no mental illness caused by childhood abuse. It hurts. Everything I lack.
@@BiggestHaterEVER there’s no need to trauma dump on someone bro. I’m sorry you’re going through that but talk to a therapist about it not a commenter on the internet
@@BiggestHaterEVER The day I saw this message, my face was purple. I get beaten up every time by my sister and I am always the one who is wronged by my family. But that still doesn't stop me from saying "I love you" to them, and they respond too. ( This does not apply to my sister , the only thing that binds her to me is that our parents are the same. ) moreover I am 16 years old. I don't own my car, my house, my kids, or anything for adults. Best regards, Aura.
@@BiggestHaterEVER yeah well not everyone’s life is good. I was never good enough for my parents hitting smacking screaming crying *dying* = my childhood. They are proud they changed there parents no need to tell them everything you’ve been through I’m sorry for your trauma things will hopefully get better as a person who experienced this I tend to stay on the bright side. You should too tho may be hard.
I noticed that even though a lot of parents didn't necessarily say the words "I love you" back, they said it in different ways like "have you eaten?" or "get home early tonight." Saying it in the best ways they know how.
Sometimes it's cultural. I grew up in west Africa where it's not the norm to say it like we see people saying in the west. We just knew our parents loved us based on what they did; the fact they they called and asked if we'd eaten or checked on us before they went to bed, paid tuition, fed, clothed and housed us...that's their way of saying it. Especially among men. I can't even picture a west african dad saying that to his son (or son to dad) the time I was growing up which was not long ago (millennial here). Tbh even now, I don't think it's common.
every asian kids to their parents: "I love you" also every asian parents after heard that: "how much money do you want?" . funny but this is so realistic lmao
hi i have something to tell you that you have to do. just say i love you to your parents and hug them and the more you say it the more they will think about you and know how much you love them and its really touching to them. mostly for the people who arent loved a lot, if their child says it every single day. you dont know how happy they will be. and how awarding it will be for you at the end. its all worth it.
For Asian cultures, I think it's sad that we can't even say I Love You casually. But that, in its way, is also why when it is said between parents and their children, it means so much more
Yesss! Though i am east asian, me and my parents do say “i love you” lots so i cant relate to lots of this. However i do know that we express love through different things! for example; food this may just be me i dunno
I disagree. On the opposite, I don't like those: "I love you, mom" "love you, too. Bye" kinda talks. "I love you" to me is supposed to be a very very very strong and serious expression because of the meanings and responsibilities behind it. I don't like people just use it like "hello" types of expression. Similar to, in a relationship, I would use "I like you" instead of "I love you" in most cases, unless I really think the girl in front of me is "the one".
As an Asian I think it's sad that parents in the west don't smack their kids when the kids do something wrong. Just saying.... the cultural difference doesn't mean it's good or bad. So when it comes to these kind of things, there's nothing to be "sad" about really :)
I've lost my both parents, my mom recently. I never say I love you to them. We always showed our love by loyalty, forgiveness and acts. They were always caring for me while I was growing. We were always trying to be happy. I'm still a student and it is difficult to know i have to continue without them. I hope you will enjoy every moment with your parents, because they will always be proud of you.
Stay strong, they are with you in every step that you do! Make them proud by rewarding them for all the LOVE, hard work and sacrifice they made for YOU! I know you can do it!
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4:07 我哭了。。。 谢谢大树君的影片给了我们尤其是在外地工作的游子们一丝丝的温暖～老实说，由于新冠肺炎在马来西亚爆发，所以春节到现在我都还没回过家，一直在城市打拼，真的很差想念爸爸妈妈，那天听爸爸说妈妈的膝盖又痛了，我突然觉得很无助，帮不到妈妈什么也做不了什么。。。
这支影片给了我力量打电话回家跟妈妈表达我对她的想念～希望大家都能好好的。
其实什么名气钱财都不必家人健康来得重要♥️
Animal cruelty might be a good topic.
I am a mother and my father that they are treated with a harsh and destroyed, and I will always be sick.
If I said "I love you" to my parents, they would think I was leaving this world
You made me wheeze while crying 😂😂😂😭
True👍
Hahaha really
if i said "i love you" to my parents, they would think i was leaving this world
Now I'm crying while laughing silly you
I tell my mom I love her almost everyday she got sick of hearing it 😂
Your mom must be very happy even though she doesn't show it.
@@TreeMan yeah to you are right
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same 😂😂
my mom would be like "who wouldnt love me? , anyway get lost" 😂😂
Omg same. She always get sick of it 😂
"dad, i love you"
"Ah, u short of money again"
THAT'S MY DAD
Same 😂😂
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Sameee 😂😂😂😂
same 😭😭😭
Except i dont have a father
As an Asian, I know the difficulty of saying, "I love you,” to my parents. As you can see, the parents also don't know how to react to such a statement. They downplay it or say thank you. It's not that there's no love, but it's quite hard!
Arab parents too
In Brazil, where I'm from, it's different. Parents here (most) are loving. If you tell them you love them, chances are they'll make an even sweeter statement. If I mentioned this to my mother or father, they would shower me with loving words. This is just one of many cultural differences.
Is very interesting for me to see this perspective. As a Mexican, I can say that most of us are very warm and affectionate. I’ve never said a “goodbye” to my parents without an “I love you”. I call them every now and then to just see how are they doing and tell them that I love them. There’s not a day that goes by without my father sending me a text and telling me that he loves me. This makes me feel so grateful for all the love I have received from my parents and the confidence I have to go and give them a big hug anytime ❤
Keep trying to reach to your parents dont let their reaction be a break to your relationship because life is too short to be wishy washy in showering your parents with love even if its embarrassing lol
Here in latin america, I think that people are warmer and affective 😅 I say "I love you" to my parents almost every days and I hug them. Are cultural differences
Asian parents’ way of saying “I love you” to their children:
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Yaaa expecially after they scold you 😂 always like that
Being an Asian, I can feel that how hard to say "I love you" to your parents.
Not just asia all the world 😩
Actually we don't show by saying, we show by showing.
yesss i can agree with you, i never actually got to say it directly
I never say it face to face....it's so weird...and after all my parents don't say it to my too lol😂 but i want know whats we feel when we say 'ily'
Sry for my English broken *~*
As an asian i used to only say it till i was 5 years old :")
“It’s cold outside” “what have you eaten” “do you need money?” I think it all translates to “I love you.”
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Exactlyyyy
they are barely to say i love you to their own child it's so sad
I’m American so saying “I love you” to my parents and my kids is an everyday thing, but my ex husband is Asian and always had a hard time saying it, but showed love in other ways. I can see how it makes the phrase “I love you” feel that much more special and touching when it is finally said ❤
I don’t know. Despite it being said all the time, I still feel that it’s very touching and special to say “I love you” to my loved ones. I don’t share that bond with anyone else but them.
I think since it's like the norm in America it doesn't hold as much meaning most of the time, in my family it's just how we say good bye lol
I'm American but this is the opposite for me, haha. We do say "I love you" sometimes but not every day. Idk, maybe it's just my family haha but for us, it's a phrase that is more special and important for us and holds a lot of importance in our family. But on the other hand, I never heard my friends say it to their families either so maybe it's just where I'm from? Hahaha
Making I love you sentence so normal will not left with much value as before so yes we asian have a great value to this sentence we can't say randomly to anyone not even a close friend
Im european. Dont say that to my parents either. Only americans says that.
The kids: i love you.
The parent's response:
come back early.
it's cold outside.
buy some food.
they showed their love with full of their heart.
Don’t forget: do you need money?
@@borderlinenocturnal6195 I think that’s also because they are worried about them.
lisa beautiful 🥰🥰😘😘
nah u just love my money.
I have not said i love you to anyone but they know I love them.
Dear parents, just because your child is smiling at their phone, doesn't mean they have boyfriend or girlfriend, they are just watching this masterpiece
What smile do you talk about... It's a broken tears😭😭😭😂
i feel the sentence so much! haha that is what my mom would think of me
I'm actually crying my parents would thought i broke up or got my heart broken 😭
I was crying but smiling tooo
But i'm crying😭😭💕
the father went like " are you out of money?"
and then when she insisted she loves him, he changed his tone and said " are you sure you have enough?"
Its was cute but sad tho😔
Sending money is another way to care for us and that means to show love, isn't it?
ikr :(
Thats how fatherly love too.huhu
@@heaven5154 I feel like he just wanted to send her money - maybe it's his way of showing care
3:43 when she laughs but it's to conceal that strong emotion and urge to cry, you can see it in her eyes~
she might be sad that her mom didn't reply back with "i love you, too"
if I suddenly call my parents out of nowhere and tell them "I love you" they will think I'm close to committing suicide...
Exactly 😅😅😅
I’m not even suicidal or anything like that but I just took the train alone after a disagreement with my dad and he thought I had jumped (he had literally talked to police in the area), so I wonder what this would do to him
exactly my thoughts hskajsjaja
😂
me too😂
Asian Kids: “I love you!”
Asian Parents: “Are you high?”
😂 It be like that
Oi deadass HAHAHAHA
All parents
I can relate xD
are you H.I.G.H?!
Maybe some people aren't comfortable in saying "I love you" to their parents is because their parents don't say that often to them.
yeah and sometimes they have a hard time expressing love and affection to someone
Sometimes in other languages the expression “I love you” can only be used in a romantic sense so there’s no way to say it to a parent
yes true
No matter what, you guys always blame the parents, incredible
@@yeyosilver7067 thats who their kids learn this shit from. Nice try tho
I love that so many of the parents respond with, “thank you my child”, or, “make sure you eat/rest,”
that’s just how they know how to say, “I love you too.”
Their childrens: "I love you"
The parents: "want my money?"
:(
I’m lucky it’s not like that they’d just say i love u too 💗
@@daisymemes2168 lucky you.. and not me;)
Im related 😑
It's Asian parents way to say I love you too 😂
Kids: "I love you"
Parents: "What happened?"
"Did you do something wrong?"
"Do you need something?"
HAHHAHAHAHA
🤧🤣pls , My parent either think this or i want money
That would be my parents as if I did something wrong or I needed something from them LMAO 😂
Damn its true
I agree with everyone
😂😂😂dont forget
Do u need money?
Are u short on money?😂
A child: "I love you"
Parents: "Ohh you need money"
But for me...
Me:.... I love you....
Mom: WHY WHAT HAPPENED DID A CAR HIT YOU OVER ARE YOU BLEEDING OUT SOMEWHERE OMG
@@astarleah4367 Hahahaa my filipino mom be like: do you have fever?
@@astarleah4367 my Indian mom - "are you sure you slept well last night??"
Hahahaha u right 😭😂😂
en mi caso ella diría: que paso, todo bien???, si estas en casa, no??. djaskdjaskdkas
3:45 The nervous laugh after “I love you” tells you it’s not expressed often how much she loves her.. sad but also happy moment. Gotta Cherish our loved ones❤️
How Asians say I love you:
"Did you eat yet?"
"Make sure you eat."
"Wanna eat?"
Yeah. We don't usually say "I love you" to show our love. We show it with our actions and how we care and treasure each other. I can't say I LOVE YOU when I really love someone (parent, friend, partner) not because I'm shy, in fact it's not my love language. I show them with my actions.
@@niloofarnavaei3752 same here
Don't why tears are welling up……
Same. Words are good but actions are better. Of course saying "I love you" to the people we care for is also good. Since it makes people happy to hear those words from the one they love as well. By the way, did you guys eat yet? Make sure to eat and don't skip meals, take care of yourselves especially these times of pandemic :>
@@niloofarnavaei3752 I always said it as a kid to my Asian parents
The parents asking if their children had eaten is definitely their way of saying “I love you” without actually saying the words lol
True!
Also when they ask if they need money.
True, there are many ways to show and say I love you.
True sometimes actions can express your love more than words can
I know the “I love you” was sweet, but for me it was the “come home early today” that warmed my heart.
yeah like she felt something could be wrong with her baby ❤
👍👍👍👍
What minute ??
@@katherineval9213 2:14. 4:33
As an American I do find it very sweet how the parents respond by SHOWING their love in some way. It seems to me that a lot of Asian cultures value acts that demonstrate love more than verbally saying it. Several of the parents made sure their kid had food to eat, asked if they were okay, or offered money, said "Make sure you come home early to be safe," or some other way to show their affection. They were saying "I love you" back, in their way.
Very accurate! ❤
You got it
"The wind hurt my eyes"
Its okay, the wind also reach my room. My eyes is hurt now
Me too !
@@1HUFFMAN same here😭
ª Xiao Zhan it's in your profile ?
@@leslyerodriguez5728 yes
Omg same
Saying I love you to your parent as Asian kids is not easy, I even got nervous by watching this.
just wondering, why is it hard? (genuinely asking)
@@pwills122 because of our culture, of course we love our parents and our parents know that very well so we don’t have say it.
It’s like saying “sky is blue” to your parent, it’s sound very wired right?haha
@@roseluca8352 thank you for explaining!
ikr
@@roseluca8352 true man 😕
Idk why but we asians fell really nervous
Fun fact- Most of the Asian kids never say I love you to their parents.Also parents never say ily to their kids. They show it using small gestures ❤
Made me think. I've actually never said ily to my parents and vice versa lol.
@@thentantt I love you.
True true
@@elizabethg2428 🥺🖤
@@thentantt it’s gonna be okay I promise I’m here for you. *hugs tightly*
Made me cry - so touching. All the parents saying get home early or make sure to get dinner is their way of saying they love them back.
" I love you "
" Oh, you are short of money , are you? "
Asian's parents type
actually every parent on earth 😂😂 i’m from france and they just the same lol
everyone's parents are like that xD
All parent types 🥺🤧
That means I love you too
@@Mangapassion6 so true !!!! i'm from france too
It's sad that the children were hoping that their parents would say ' I love you' back yet only a very few actually did🥺 You could tell many of them were disappointed to not here that response.
Parents were taken aback so they automatically functioned in a mode they would usually respond
It’s not that they don’t love them back it just that they can’t express. But their love is more deep then we can ever think. Parents love are unconditional
@@james5717 I can confirm too. Having asian parents, it's very hard for them to express themselves
Yeah, same happened in the parents saying I love you to their children video. I think because they feel awkward since it never happened before and they dont know how to respond.
Because it's like out of the blue
if I said I love you randomly over a call my parents would probably think im disappearing forever sksjsjd
Yea true, they would just start asking me "are you okay?".
@@aestaetic1108 yupppp
Yeah hahahhaah related
Usually the movies people say this before they die😐
Sameeee
「愛してるよ」って言われて、お金のこととか何も聞かずにまずは「私も愛してるよ」って返す親になろうと思った。
「何が足りない」は親の言っ方「愛してる」と思ういます
So glad a video like this is made!
Omg I really love your content really help me when I'm in depression
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This is my 2nd account TwT
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Every asian parent ever
“Do u need money?”
“Do you need something?”
“What happened?”
Yeah 🙂😌
Not really, I’m Asian. 🙄
Not for me... I tell my mom I love her everyday and Hug her mostly everyday and not she’s soo annoyed of it and sometimes she just yell at me for hugging or saying I love you 🤦🏻♀️
For my asian mom i think she wont say that cus she dont say those words and i dont said the word ily to them
Low-Key sad
It’s so hard for me to tell my parents that i love them, which i really do. Feels like you’re stuck in between, to tell them and feel awkward or to shut up and feel sorry for not telling them. Worst feeling ever
What can we do to prevent this 😭🤧😌
That’s facts
So true
Better to feel awkward and tell your parents you love them, than to never have the chance to say you love them when their gone 😭
Tbh, same.
Me sorprende que no sea común que entre familiares se digan “Te amo” en Asia, yo cada vez que veo a mis padres y familiares no paro de repetirles que los amo, hay que aprovechar a las personas cuando las tenemos, no sabemos cuándo será la última vez que les diremos “Te amo” que hermoso video, lo admito derrame un par de lagrimas :’)
X2 aunque casi no me se expresar siempre le digo a mi familia que los amo
Si no es común escucharlo al igual que no hay mucho afecto por eso es que hay muchos suicidios, pero claro si hay personas que son afectuosos y dicen lo que sienten..
Мне кажется это у всех так. Кто-то может легко сказать своим близким людям, а кто-то просто стесняется. Я вот тоже стесняюсь говорить маме и папе, что люблю их. Я это ни кому не говорю. Кроме своим домашним питомцам и своим племянникам. А так я стесняюсь говорить : я люблю тебя.
Но среди моих знакомых, есть те кто не стесняется говорить. Их большинство.
Когда я говорю, что люблю своим родителям. Они думают, что мне что нибудь нужно. Деньги примеру. (хотя я каждую неделю их получаю и не нуждаюсь в них).
Creo que depende mas de la persona, yo solo le he dicho a mi mamá y a mi hermana que las quiero y se me hizo muy difícil hacerlo
Desde chiquita me acostumbré a solo decir "te quiero" ahora que soy adolescente aún no se me quita esa mala costumbre, no es que no los ame es solo que si digo "te amo" van a pensar que estoy híper dramática :(
This video was so light hearted to begin and then I started crying towards the end 😭😭
I am first replyer to your comment and second to like you're comment
same it was so light hearted 💔
When I read your comment I was like "yeah it's almost in the end and I didn't cry but it was cute" THEN the next videos came and you know what happened
You here bro?
Whats the title of music in 3:14
The girl crying after telling her mom she loves her made me emotional. It’s kind of heartbreaking that Asians rarely say that to their parents/kids. I know love is shown in other ways but sometimes it so refreshing to actually hear those words from the people you love and vice versa.
“Asians” is a very broad term. This is Chinese culture. Many south East Asian countries tell their parents they love them just as much if not more than western countries.
@@bellaaaahhh hate to break it to you but Asians parents don't say that they love their kids, but instead they show it
@@bellaaaahhh I am a Asian too and I kid you not I haven't nor my parents say that we love each other if I say them this they will think I am about to die or in danger something
@@bellaaaahhh your statement is kinda ironic cuz "Southeast Asia" is also a broad term. Cuz I'm from Southeast Asia and I know many families who don't say I love u to each other lol
@@bellaaaahhh sorry to break it to u but as someone from south east Asia, I haven’t said the phrase “I love u” to my parents in a few years
Me : "I love you"
My parent :
"Do you need money?"
"Did you do a mistake?"
"You're not sick, are you?"
"Wait, do you lose my Tupperware?"
+"Are you dying?"
the tupperware thingy made me laugh😂 Mother loves tupperware more then me😂
Not the tupperware 😭
parents: are you H.I.G.H.?!
+ "Are you pregnant?"
"The wind makes my eyes hurt"
Actually she was thrilled ❤️
I wish I could've said "I love you" to my mom before she left this world.
Condolences
How are you now? I can understand you as I am in the same situation
@@goodlife1302 man..I hope you're doing good rn
@@ooogabooogaa I am fine. Life is going on. Let's see what happens. Thanks a lot for asking my friend. I hope you are fine too
@@goodlife1302 yeah I'm fine too. I am glad you're okay. I lost my dad when I was 3, barely remember anything from that time. So idk how it is like to lose a parent. Though, I can see the pain in my elder brother's eyes cause he was around 10 so he knows it much better. Idk what I would do if i lose my mom. Since we are Christians, we get message From God while praying and He said that our family must pray cause mom's life is short. We are constantly praying that God prolongs her life . I am keeping my faith that God will not make me an orphan right now.
The fact that not all of the parents said “I love you” back.
Asian parents might now say it back but that doesn’t mean they don’t love their kids
they dont need to
Having a hard time saying it probably
THEY DON'T HAVE TO. Because they already did every single second for years and years and years.... when they gave you birth, when they fed you, when they admitted you to school, when they took you to the park, when they gave you safe shelter to live, when they bought you a toy, when they took you to the doctor when you were sick...... That's "Love" . Everyday. Every second.
You don't need words to show your love to your child
Indeed the words that are difficult to express are "I love you" to our parents, I cried seeing this because I never said those words to my parents too;
It's good that I'm not alone crying 😂
I’m crying too lol for that same reason ;; i feel like an idiot because it should be so easy to say, but i’ve never said it to my dad before
If you’ve never said ily to your parents say it to them now and if you find it weird just text them no matter what they’re your parents and they are the reason you exist so even if they hate you they still are your parents. T-T
@ARMY AN BLINK Don't worry, those words will be with you if you or should you ever have children. Raise them well and fill them with the love you missed, one day, you'll be on the receiving end of those words.
I never did to my dad T_T
Meanwhile, I tell my parents and siblings that I love them every time I see or speak to them. What a different world we live in.
People have different relationships with their parents, some are distant.
@MariM I'm referring to this video. From the looks of it, this is the whole country of Japan that doesn't say "I love you" very often or at all.
2nd gen Chinese American here. No problem saying "I love you" in English and my folks will say it back. Would never consider saying it in Chinese haha. It just feels weird.
@HiIeric117 that's very interesting! I wonder what makes it so different when saying it in English than Chinese. These differences fascinate me!
@@THE_CRYPT0_C0LLECT0R I suppose its just rarely hearing those words in Chinese that makes it sound so strange haha.
I never said “I love you” to my parents, I feel embarrassed to say it and I don’t know how to over come this feeling💔
It's alright, we all have same feelings
You don't need a special occasion, you can just burst it out at anytime to them. They love it when they can hear that from their children
Daaaamn you're toxic
I feel the same. I try to say it and some times it works and I say "Iloveuuu~~", so shy hahahaha
I feel you
The way the parents suddenly goes silent for a moment after hearing the “I love you “ word means that they really not used to hear it more often and didn’t really expect it,but you can hear their cheerful voice after hearing it.
Agree
If it was my parents they just say it back😁 we are honestly used to it-
3:50 She literally turned red and her eyes filled with tears.
Yep,i saw that 😔
This made me so sad. I tell my kids I love them every day. I cannot imagine not letting the people you love know that.
we express "i love you" in a different ways. like asking "have you eaten?", "do you want me to buy you something?" , "you want money?". it just weird to say directly "i love you" in mostly asian country as it means i love you as sexually. so yeah we express our love with action not by words that speak louder than action.
I never said to my parents that word but deep inside, I'm afraid to lose them. I love them from the bottom of my heart even though I know that I am not a perfect child for them.
Why not say it once now?
You know I'm too shy. We always have conflict in our relationship and.. it's not easy for me. But thank you TREEMAN for this heartwarming videos! Soon I will visit China ☺sending all my support and love from Philippines!
Same here...... let's say them we love them.....:)
@@tiff5590 same I am also too shy to tell them 😅😅
u dont have to be shy to say "I love you" to the people who took care , bought u food , gave u everything that u needed and loved u with their whole heart , I hope u say I love you to them , They'll like it a lot
It’s interesting to see the Asian culture and the dynamic they have with their parents surrounding emotional vulnerability. This video was beautiful. You can tell it’s not something that’s said a lot and in that moment, both child and parent will always remember that call .
hm, I think a lot of Asian families do have emotional vulnerability. It's just that the specific phrase "I love you" is rare and not said nearly as much as it is in some other cultures.
@@angelinaz7292 of course … I’m not saying they don’t have emotional vulnerability, I’m saying i find the dynamic interesting. “I love you” isn’t said often which is interesting
As an Asian I do not say “I love you” to my parents.
I started crying in this video
The could use some change zand not adapt to Western Values, but simply showing love and compassion to kids.
They're trying to hide their true sincerity by laughing.
And I think I'd also do the same if ever I happen to encounter the same situation.
驚人的！多年來從未對父母說過“我愛你”，真是令人印象深刻！
Saying "I love you" to your parents is harder than saying that to your crush.
Edit: To be honest, I don't have a crush, but thanks for all the likes 🙂
Lmfaooooo
Exactly
@@جمانة-غ8ك not all
Yes😣
🤣 yes bcz my parents be like u want money now
I've never say I Love You to my parents... Actually I feel shy to say it...
As long as you say it once, you won't feel shy anymore.
@@TreeMan yes thank u☺
Same but i try to say it as much as posible
Me too 🥺🐥💔
Today was my exam result
As an Asian American, “I love you” isn’t normally spoken in an average Asian American household unless they are extremely close or it’s directed to or from your grandparents. Since saying “I love you” isn’t a norm, Asian parents assume their child is in some sort of trouble or is in need of some cash when they receive this three lettered phrase. This doesn’t usually apply to younger ages. My mother and I used to have a thing where we just randomly say I love you and then respond I love you more and so forth. I was like 6 though. This is for anyone that doesn’t understand why these people are sort of cringing before saying it.
That is so true. In Asia we express our love by doing stuff for others n not saying stuff. Maybe that is why I felt so awkward while the entire video was going on
@Emilio Franco no that's not how it is
Thank you for the explanation
This is true.
True, they show love by giving economic stability
Come home early - simple way to respond that you love the person and you care for them ❤️ touching.
Asians (parents) do not easily, readily show/ express their love to children... and we were never taught how to 'reciprocate' such love. This is priceless 😌
And we must try not to act the same way to our children. Start a new cycle
try
@@truelovewontwait correctly said!!
@@truelovewontwait ummm wtf that really pisses me off like what’s the point in even having kids if you can’t provide enough love for them. Like the whole idea of even having a child is to provide it with enough emotional and mental as well as discipline ofc but love must always be the number one thing in the family or otherwise it won’t work. Like how tf do you expect children to become stable adults if they never had that parental love. I swear my advice to ppl who have “difficulties expressing their love for their children” (which btw is inexcusable like stop trying to be the victim in this situation cuz that’s just basically neglect and you’re just making yourself look stupid) is that if you don’t know how to show love to your kids then you’re obviously not mature enough to have them given the fact that you’re acting like a child yourself
@@its_just_me6183 well to be fair, parents show love in many ways. Especially when it comes to Asian parents, it’s in their actions. But yeah, nevertheless, words are powerful, and it would be so much better if parents knew how to verbally send the message across as well. It makes a huge difference
Honestly, if your parents don't teach you to say "I love you" since very young, it's so hard to do it when you grew up. It's not only Asians but people all around the world.
That's a fact..😩💜💜
FACTS!
I mean it's not like they didn't teach me but it's just so hard like i would start tearing up and that is NOT what I want (I hate crying so i try to avoid it as much as I can lol)
@@alejandrar127 lol same
Its not like a thing to teach . In asia we show our love through acts . Its like saying blood is red . You already know that they love you and they know that you love them . parents also say i love you rarely .
Daughter: "Mama, I love you."
Mother: " Did you see any special scenes?"🤣
Yeah my mother will be also like this that's why I will not say 😁😁😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
In what minute?
@@rosaliabogado8848 4:18
As an American, I say, "I love you" to my parents all the time, and seeing how much courage it takes to say the same thing in another country, it makes me sad
maybe because ily is a big word for us and we prefer to express love in many ways instead of saying those three words verbally,,, and we do have the thought that if 'i love you' is normalized it would lack the meaning of it over time, its a very sacred word for us
its expressed differently worldwide. Not everyone is obviously going to follow American cultural norms.
Why
I think it is awsm ....
First girl: “I love you.”
Dad: “Are you short of money?”
Savage! Lmao! 🤣🤣
LOL 🤣
😂😂
“The wind makes my eyes hurt.” T_T How to deny you’re crying, blame the wind XD
lolllllll
Soft heart ❤️
same energy as roy mustang's scene in FMA
Shes being sarcastic lmaoo
It must've been the wind~
I’m Asian, I called my mom to do this. It went like this.
Me: “Hi mom.”
Mom: “Yes?”
Me: “am I disturbing you right now?”
Mom: “No, I was making lunch. What do you want?”
Me: “I wanted to say I love you”
Mom: “Ok what’s wrong?”
Me: “Nothing, I just wanted to tell you”
Mom: “Don’t lie, what’s going on *switches languages*”
Me: “Nothing- I just wanted to tell you 😭”
Mom: ”If you say so, you better not be lying. Don’t forget to come home and do your chores and homework”
Me: “Yes ma’am 😭😂”
When saying I love you to your mom turns into a lecture 😂
My mom would say “if you love me you’d have the house always clean” lol
Hhhh a bit real~
🤣🤣
✨😃✨
why do you have a cctv in my family lol
A very different cultural feel 💚 brought me to tears.
I tell my parents often how much I love and appreciate them.
Both of them lost their parents as young adults and I want to make sure they know how loved they are.
I'm not crying, you're crying
Yes I am crying!
Yeah I'm crying
For what?
@@patrickc.2171 for the video 😂
No you are!
Why is it so difficult to say I love you to our parents
Edit : why did I get so many likes? I don't deserve this :(
It's just awkward..Cause we don't say it enough i guess
Most of us asians don't usually say it. We just respect them as an act of our love to them.
For me (a Mexican who live in Mexico) is totally normal say to my mom and dad “I love you” or give they hugs every day. I don’t know why for someone’s it’s really difficult say “I love you” to her parents
@@peachkawai6947 in case of Asia it's the opposite I guess.. (Sri Lankan)
i dont know but its awkward
For someone who is not close with her parents, this made me cry😢
Just tell them "I love you"
i hate my mom
@@pog1864 why
@@Khushiiskhushh because she hates me :)
I feel u🎐
Aaaw this is so wholesome. The Japanese parents were much more taken aback than the Chinese parents, I loved it.
3:45 She is so beautiful when crying. She loves her mom a lot
The kids responds to the question
( Have you said" i love you" to your parents )
"No ,never "
"I have not said it in years "
"I only said it once "
" No "
"I should but I never say it "
Parents need to hear that quite often 😔
FYI Asian parents and western parents kinda different though it might be normal for the western cultures but in asian cultures we didn’t say this often and if we said it both of us might be suspect to each other something must have happen
@@mishima433 not that different, some people think that it might be wierd or that they want something , and I get why . It's the same actually depends on the people tho😊
Having an asian parent, oh my... it’s really hard to show ur affection towards them. I just go by cleaning our house! Haha
@@mishima433 That's true
It's not actually like that. Even if we don't say "I love you" both parents and children know how much we love each other. We express it with our action. But when we express it with words it just becomes more meaningful and emotional
Me: *calls mom*
Mom: “yeah hello?”
Me: “I love you”
Mom: “what do you mean what’s going on are you gonna hurt yourself please don’t do this it’s not the answer don’t you hang up on me keep me on call-“
Me: “I just wanted to say I love you I’m okay-“
Mom: “oh okay love you too”
same lmao
OMG LMAO
It’s the same for me! She asked if she should call the police…
I say it all the time, at the end of a phone call! Not the beginning.
LMAO
I think so
Their phrases like eat more,come early,dont u need a money all of these are their love expression. They use it but,when we hear the in main words like "I love you" is so deep and heartouching
I feel bad for the kids.. most of the parents didn’t say “I love you” back, they just say “thank you.” like your supposed to say “I love you too” 😕
Instead of saying I love you back the parents also say come back home early or its cold outside.. Just because they dont say it doesn't mean they dont love them.. They obviously care and the love is within that
I think some of the parents where confused or flustered half of them thought theur child did or wanted somethin
but they say thank you from the bottom of their heart....
sometimes they are very toxic to us but remember they love you so much...
Saying “I love you too” isn’t the only way to express your love for people you know?? I told my mom that I love her one time and I haven’t said it in a while to her before that. She just laughed cuz she felt embarrassed since it’s been a long time since I told her that lol. Maybe the other parents were feeling the same way. Idk 🤷♀️ just a hunch.
Maybe because they're confused or flustered and not often the kids say that to then
i'm 15 and my mom died last year. until now, i have this feeling of regret of not saying i love you to her often. and i honestly can see that i'll bring this regret until i aged.
I'm sorry for your lost... although I don't know your... I'll just say •⁰ I love you!💜✨🥺
I'm sure she's an angel now, stay strong and don't worry, I'm sure she loves u back and she knows that u love her 💜
I’m so sorry for your loss, I’m pretty sure she watches you from heaven and she knows you love her. 💕
@@arissadura7011 thank you so much 🥺 i guess you're an army? borahae ^^
@@hinataswifeu8445 means a lot, thank you so much 🥺
As someone who always felt uneasy around their parents and doesn't really know how to reciprocate affection, this made my cereal bowl full of tears instead of milk.
As an asian i know how difficult is saying your parents "i love you." that was truly wholesome.. This Made my day.. Don't know why i'm crying. .
I can't say "I love you" to my parents Because I'm too shy, but God knows how much I love them and I pray for them.
same
me too💖
at first, but you'ĺl get use to it..
say while they're still there...
Same but i love them so much🥺💜
@@arneilcarpio5190 Yeah, you're right ❤️
Saying I love you to asian parents be like:
"Are you drunk?"
"You need money?"
"What do you want this time?"
"You did something wrong?"
"Are you okay? You're not suicidal right?"
"Are you sick?"
"Is this a prank?"
"It's a lie. You better talk gracefully to me, do your chores if you really love me, your room is a mess! *endless lecture*"
Oh goddd 😂😂😂 if I will say to my Indian mom so she will also like this 😁😁😂😂
My Algerian Mom to 🤣
@@sarakim6861 😂
I'm portuguese but my Mother would be like the last xD and my father would ask me what my intentions are lol
@@6maria94 it's okay mine to 🤣 , they will insul me like my Mom will be like : Oh you daughter of b*tch what did you do ? 🤣
How insecure are we, or how little confidence do we have that it costs us so much to say "I love you" to our parents? I also have a hard time saying it, and every time I do, I cry a little
i think because the simple word is so powerful and genuine and also because some ppl don't said it often but more than anything i think that many people around the world have problems with showing their feelings towards others because they are not taught from home how to be affectionate.
I think more than anything actions speaks louder than words. Likewise, that person will know that you truly love them even if you don't openly express it through words if you show it through your actions. I don't think it's necessarily being insecure but more of one's culture or how they are brought up. Doesn't mean that they don't say "I love you" or it's not a common thing to do but more on the fact there are other ways to show you love someone. Saying "I love you" in my opinion is just a simpler way to express how you feel about someone.
Its not hard for me I say that to my dad because I know when he needs it because he is going through deppresion
这个视频让我哭了。我妈妈已经睡在我身边，我什至不能对她说“我爱你”，因为我不知道如何不哭。
我也哭了
我也是😭
Some parents think their children say this just to get money. This makes the children to not say it at all.
eh?
@Sei sorry if I offended anyone, I changed the comment now.
@Sei lol chill buddy
@̇ why would they do a research only for a comment lmao
@@chrqnos_ No need to change your comment just because someone disagree with you and no need to apologise because you haven't offended anyone .
I’ve been living in this world for 18 years and in my memories there’s not even a single time I said ily to my mom and vice versa. Idk it’s just too hard and awkward to say it. But we both know we love and care for each other deeply
SAMEEEE!!!
bRo samee IDK WHY
Same here w my parents :’>
I wish that was us but my mom gives no shots about me 😭😭
absolutely
This made me cry. As an American usually I love you is reserved for family, however said more frequently than the Japanese culture. My mother died suddenly when I was a child. My family never leaves each other or hangs up the phone without saying I love you. I even tell my brother and sister in law I love you. Life is short.
Middle eastern and Asian don’t say “I love you” as much as Western parents, but they show it in actions. Carrying me for 9 long months inside her womb, a painful birth is “I love you”. Nights my mom took night shift to buy me things I wanted is “I love you”. Cooking for me in the middle of the night because I craved something is “I love you”. Giving food off her own spoon because I was still hungry is “I love you”. Small things they do everyday for you is “I love you”.
Ha! That's what Swedish/Finnish people say!
No, i am Middle eastern and i almost say i love you everyday to my mom and she says i love you too even if i dont say i love you to her.
this made me tear up
Watching this and looking back at the disrespectful things I’ve said to my mom is making me regret and cry but I still don’t have the courage to get up and open the door and walk two feet to my moms room and hug her. I know I’ll one day regret it but I don’t know what to do rn it’s just so hard
@@tangeriness I regret many things I did, when I realized I asked my mother for forgiveness and I said how much I love her and I think she is better now and I do too. Tell her how you feel, it's better to regret what you did than what you didn't.
"Dad I love you"
"How much money do u need?"
😂😂💀✊
That'll be my dad😂😂
I felt it deep😂😂
Yup😂😂😂
My dad also be like that..many times when i just go and hug him, he asks it..😂😂
Typical Asian dad 😍😂
It literally made me cry....I am literally staying away for years from my home...
Bless u and ur family bro..
Its hard , I hope u see your family soon 💜
Best wishes for you and your family 💜
@@taketwo9623 idk why you deleted your comment but I also love your username 💜
@@blueside5181 I love your username 😂💜
I can't even describe how much i love this kind of videos!
I'd like to more videos like this in the future!
Me
"I love you mom. "
Mom
"IS EVERYTHING ALRIGHT?!? WHY ARE YOU SAYING I LOVE YOU?!? WHAT'S HAPPENING?"
Me
*"Tf.."*
Fr
Fr
Next day: *missing* or *dead*
@@tomie1429 Fr
@@nobi-xyz *actually thrown to Jupiter*
Me: “Daddy, I love you”
My dad: “Don’t call me again for this. I’m busy.”
Oh fuck
Bussy 😩🦄
@@orange-yx1ie Une française ! Vive la France !!
@@lucboursier7579 si
@@lucboursier7579 non. Viva islam!!
😓
I've always said "I love you" throughout my life. My mother and father also responded, and they showed it with their actions. I'm proud of myself for changing my parents' behavior
Must be nice to not be neglected in your childhood, beat on, yelled at and come out traumatized and fucked up with negative adulthood traits.
I am severely jealous of people with parents who love them and support them and are there for them when they need it most.
You must be doing so well in life...you probably have good social skills, a car,home,married,children, probably mature emotionally and no mental illness caused by childhood abuse. It hurts. Everything I lack.
@@BiggestHaterEVER there’s no need to trauma dump on someone bro. I’m sorry you’re going through that but talk to a therapist about it not a commenter on the internet
@@BiggestHaterEVER The day I saw this message, my face was purple. I get beaten up every time by my sister and I am always the one who is wronged by my family. But that still doesn't stop me from saying "I love you" to them, and they respond too. ( This does not apply to my sister , the only thing that binds her to me is that our parents are the same. ) moreover I am 16 years old. I don't own my car, my house, my kids, or anything for adults. Best regards, Aura.
@@PoltergeistHaunting2005 :)
@@BiggestHaterEVER yeah well not everyone’s life is good. I was never good enough for my parents hitting smacking screaming crying *dying* = my childhood. They are proud they changed there parents no need to tell them everything you’ve been through
I’m sorry for your trauma things will hopefully get better as a person who experienced this I tend to stay on the bright side. You should too tho may be hard.
I noticed that even though a lot of parents didn't necessarily say the words "I love you" back, they said it in different ways like "have you eaten?" or "get home early tonight." Saying it in the best ways they know how.
Totally agree 👍🏽
For me it’s hard to say “I love you” to my parents
same
Same bro
Tell them before it's over
Sometimes it's cultural. I grew up in west Africa where it's not the norm to say it like we see people saying in the west. We just knew our parents loved us based on what they did; the fact they they called and asked if we'd eaten or checked on us before they went to bed, paid tuition, fed, clothed and housed us...that's their way of saying it. Especially among men. I can't even picture a west african dad saying that to his son (or son to dad) the time I was growing up which was not long ago (millennial here). Tbh even now, I don't think it's common.
Armyyyy💜
Sons and daughters be like.
"I want to tell her I love her, but I can't."
I want to tell you that it's not that you can't do it, it's will you do it.
Hello
@Zai Sumairu sometimes you just need to open up your problems to other, cause you might not know someone can help you.
@Zai Sumairu Jusko pinoy ka naman pala, hirap kayanv mag spokening dalarz 😂😂😂😂
@Zai Sumairu nasanay kasi akong laging mag english eh, pano wala akong kaibigang pinoy
@Zai Sumairu meron pala kaya lang plastik
看了眼泪流出来了,我想百分之九十没对爸爸 妈妈说过我爱他们,太感动了
Children who grew up in China, do you guys know how much courage it takes to say to their parents “I love you?” It’s hard to express yourself.
But any reason ??
@@whosannieanyways5067 we don’t really express our feelings SO directly. It is pretty shy. Very shy.
@@shanshanzhu471 owwu cute. 🤭💕
Same here in India.
every asian kids to their parents: "I love you"
also every asian parents after heard that: "how much money do you want?"
.
funny but this is so realistic lmao
hi i have something to tell you that you have to do. just say i love you to your parents and hug them and the more you say it the more they will think about you and know how much you love them and its really touching to them. mostly for the people who arent loved a lot, if their child says it every single day. you dont know how happy they will be. and how awarding it will be for you at the end. its all worth it.
I'm jealous , I can't say those words to my parents. But I really really love them. 🥺
Same
X2 😭🥺
@@chaimaamoustoun8636 hey stay!
@@youredoneyouredone3644 Hey 😅
same
For Asian cultures, I think it's sad that we can't even say I Love You casually. But that, in its way, is also why when it is said between parents and their children, it means so much more
Yesss! Though i am east asian, me and my parents do say “i love you” lots so i cant relate to lots of this. However i do know that we express love through different things! for example; food
this may just be me i dunno
i get irritated when people throw ILY all over the place though. almost devaluing the phrase.
Same in Russian culture
I disagree. On the opposite, I don't like those:
"I love you, mom"
"love you, too. Bye"
kinda talks.
"I love you" to me is supposed to be a very very very strong and serious expression because of the meanings and responsibilities behind it. I don't like people just use it like "hello" types of expression. Similar to, in a relationship, I would use "I like you" instead of "I love you" in most cases, unless I really think the girl in front of me is "the one".
As an Asian I think it's sad that parents in the west don't smack their kids when the kids do something wrong. Just saying.... the cultural difference doesn't mean it's good or bad. So when it comes to these kind of things, there's nothing to be "sad" about really :)
I've lost my both parents, my mom recently. I never say I love you to them. We always showed our love by loyalty, forgiveness and acts. They were always caring for me while I was growing. We were always trying to be happy. I'm still a student and it is difficult to know i have to continue without them.
I hope you will enjoy every moment with your parents, because they will always be proud of you.
All the best for future..You'll do great and make them proud👍
I love you Argentblanc... Hear this words like your parents are saying. Smile😊
Sorry for ur loss
agree with you.
Stay strong, they are with you in every step that you do! Make them proud by rewarding them for all the LOVE, hard work and sacrifice they made for YOU! I know you can do it!