I actually admire Casey for never discussing the breakup of Neistat brother in details. This was a story that Van should have told. And I admire Van for being so open and honest about it all. Love you too
@@hello50881 yo no mean to disrespect, but if your introduction to Heraclitus is through Peterson, your formal education is lacking in tremendous ways.
There’s a raw, authentic beauty in your story of redemption and personal growth that captures the human experience so well here. It takes a spirited man to “go through it all to understand the significance of going through it all.” Quality Neistat storytelling. Thank you for sharing this.
Casey mentioned in Flagrant that while he focused more on the commercial aspect of film making, he mentioned that you opted to focus more on the art. At the time both of you were at different parts of the artistic vision but there was no mistakes in the path you took because it took those paths to where you both are today. It always gave me delight to see stories of you two like a prequel to who Casey was before he made the daily vlogs the more I appreciate that the both of you are on this platform, this fulfilled man appreciates this story from the spirited man.
"I had to go through it all to understand the significance of going through it all." This really hit home for me. Self reflection is important to aid us in navigating the future based on issues in the past.
I know Van doesn't read these comments, but Isabel if you see this--I just want to express that not all of us have fathers or parents that are willing to be open and honest about the bad, the ugly, the regrets, the mistakes of their lives. Van is that person for me, and he probably is for a lot of the people here. I just want Van to understand how appreciative we all are of what he's creating, and how impactful a video like this can be.
THIS, is the stuff im subscribed to the channel for. Life lessons I can learn from others, me being a few months away from 18 I've started getting in the habit of asking adult peers for life advice, and this has been one of my main sources for how to navigate the world.
I got sober at the age of 39! I couldn't do it before! It took me so long to reach rock bottom! Eightteen and a half years later, I am an old, sober guy, alive and enjoying most days!
Van’s honesty is the perfect way to illustrate the full circle moment of his various paths on the Hero’s Journey. It was really fantastic. It made me reflect on past partnerships that have failed due to ego - both mine and others. I remember when Casey did a video to support Van after the launch of this channel - when clearly he didn’t need to - what an incredible act of kindness to help his brother. Van is a thoughtful creator that really puts his heart and soul into each video and I so appreciate that. I glad he’s let us all in with just a glimmer of what went wrong and let him to the path he is on now. For him to acknowledge and admit is part in the breakup of the deal (show cancelled) and the business (partnership with Casey and the investor) is a fantastic lesson in humility and acceptance.
Fun fact: I found an email for you guys during the HBO series and wrote you guys. I can't remember what I said, but I got a bootleg dvd of the show sent to me by someone. I still have it.
We tend to admire others for who they are and what they do - forgetting all too easily that each of us has our own demons to conquer, regardless of whether someone is famous or average. Thanks Van for sharing. I didn't know the story but i learnt a lot from your telling!
As a German, I absolutely value the accuracy of the words used. Such a beautiful example of precise expression and the associated distinctiveness. Great video as always. Greetings from the poets and thinkers
It’s remarkable how you and Casey can tell a story from 15-20 years ago and have archival footage to tell it. Few people could do that. You really had a moment with that show. I watched every episode. Addiction ruins lives. I am glad you got help and are in recovery. I am glad it did not take down Casey as well.
I think I can say honestly that I’m currently paralyzed by regret and fear of further failure and recognition. Thanks for talking about it so thoroughly.
I've been refusing the call for too long. For fear of living, of moving through time in a way that acknowledges my mortality. This film is important. Thank you.
Very interesting to see the talking to camera shots of Van in white sunglasses along with hearing the disclosure of their significance, since Casey in white sunglasses talking to camera became such a signature image in his own videos.
Van, what a wonderful, personal video to create. You and your brother Casey have both been a great source of inspiration to me - your process oriented fast cutting sequences, and Casey's dynamic cut to the beat visuals. I’ve recently become a father myself, and your videos have encouraged me to start my own RUclips channel. Sending my best from across the Atlantic! ✌
This seems crazy... I just started my "Shadow Work" and have begun a new journey and the synchronicities are stacking up like crazy! I feel like I'm in a video game, I know the objective of my mission and I meet people along the way that have a jewel or a tool that I'll be needing to accomplish my goal and I keep adding to my arsenal. I know you don't read YT comments, I do support you on patreon, and will probably copy paste this message there too. VAN, THANK YOU! -The Stoic Man
Your disclosures - like this video - of your “failures” are more powerful than your tales of triumph. Keep coming back brother. God bless you and yours.
This one hits exceptionally hard. Starting down the path of my own 12 Step Program hero's journey. Al Anon is a great blessing to help me understand the role I played in my qualifier's alcoholism, and I'm hoping and praying it leads to something beautiful. Congrats on your sobriety ❤
What an open and intimate movie this is.... Another banger from Van... after the studio video last week.... I'm soo happy we are getting "our Van" back... slowly but surely ! :) Thank you Van for sharing this with us... Bearing the heart out especially when we are at the wrong takes a lot of courage and confidence ! None of us here think that this was easy for you to put out., hence we truly appreciate this ! Respect !
This is one of the best videos I watched on youtube. I have no words to express how much of a great understated artist this man is. Excellent content and excellent execution. It is unique, creative and moving at the same time. Thank you Van Neistat.
Dear Van- From the Context of Sachs, you Extracted and Formed an exceptionally pure Essence of the Creative Process. It felt new, and it was inward-facing. When I saw Casey launch on RUclips by continuously Electrifying this Essence similar to Jobs Electrifying the Essence of Wozniak, I was left admiring with some feeling of discordance. An incomplete story is not a true one. Let me just say thank you for the inspiration you convey from your Creations and Courage both. You and your brothers make quite the tale.
Now. This is honest. To date, I have been annoyed by your glasses and smug attitude (my error in mis-judging you) . Really honest and candid. I respect you now. I am sorry if I have posted snarky and smart-assed comments in the past. They were not commented on but they were wrong. My failure.
This is the episode of the spirited man that made me actually go back and watch the HBO show (its on YT), it was so endearing and I think it was ahead of its time.
Following you and your brothers for a while now and always wondered what really happened. I come from a family that is very distant due to mistakes, failure and regret. This is powerful stuff that you shared Van and I appreciate the courage it took to create this video and share the tough parts of your life. Thank you for being real!
The hero's journey strongly reminds me of the stages of change. Precontemplation, contemplation, preparation, action, and maintenance. Lot of us get stuck in contemplation and preparation. I'm happy to see this work for you, Van. Growth and owning one's action without relentless self judgment.
I definitely focus too much on regret. But I have to remind myself that if I didn't make so many mistakes, I wouldn't be the person I am because I wouldn't have learned those lessons. It's always going to be a struggle but I'm trying.
One of the best episodes you made so far Van at least in my opinion. Thanks so much for sharing, you a strong one!!! Not anyone could share their hurt and loss story, not even close at what you did. You do more than cinema, you touch people through your past and present experiences. Thank you Van blessings from Barcelona.
It's amazing seeing you looking back and having clarity and taking responsibility. I think we all have our version of this. Congrats on your new found success. Thanks for being vulnerable. I hope this makes other people even save a day of realizing this for themselves.
You have made so many outstanding movies, blogs - whatever you like to call them - but this might be one of your finest. It also helped to amplify what a mature, stable creative genius and what an incredible brother you have in Casey, Hugs.
Glad this video came in at the perfect time. Quit my old job climbing a corporate ladder I didn't want to, tried my hand at something i've been working towards and failed. But I failed in something I want to be in, and the only regret would have been not trying. Learned that I haven't put in the work to succeed. Won't quit till I'm successful. Thank you!
Thank you. Very interesting. I did not go through this myself but I know people who suffered with addiction and this helps me understand. Good for you in realizing your situation and changing in a positive way and having success at this time.
Thanks for this. It’s interesting that this video is one of the most impactful and you were only able to make it through this path. It makes me think about all the great artists that had trouble with substance abuse and how without their teams we don’t get the work. Or all the artists that were troubled when they were alive and their work only gets discovered after they die. We’re able to admire that kind of work and not face ourselves as closely in the process maybe. through you powering your own outlet real time you are able to reflect in a way that brings new facets to light. Makes me think of an artist that is troubled and barely send the work to a bunch of galleries. They get a show and we go to reflect on the work and ourselves. Rarely do I feel like making a big change in my life after going to a gallery showing. After this I have a lot to think about. Not saying this is always the case. But interesting. Almost like the music game. Good band troubled by substance abuse gets picked up by management - band gets their outlet but is still troubled, gains fame, sometimes meets death or struggle.
Van, this video really hit home. It’s incredible how you’ve turned your past mistakes into powerful lessons. It’s a reminder that our biggest setbacks can become the foundation for our greatest growth. Thanks for sharing your journey with such raw honesty-it’s truly inspiring.
@@Rockmaster867 well It's easy to focus on the surface, but the real lessons are found in the depth of what was shared. Maybe it's worth reflecting on what truly matters here
I actually admire Casey for never discussing the breakup of Neistat brother in details. This was a story that Van should have told. And I admire Van for being so open and honest about it all. Love you too
It's the loving and loyal little brother in Casey .
Reminds me of my little brother's love and respect.
i was going to comment the samething
exactly
100% Agree. That’s brotherhood right there
“No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.” -Heraclitus
Someone been on Peterson Academy?
bars
@@hello50881 yo no mean to disrespect, but if your introduction to Heraclitus is through Peterson, your formal education is lacking in tremendous ways.
@@souslesbombes I'm sure you're fun at parties. Let people come to knowledge how they do, no need to be a snob about it
@@Jdog1681You deserve a lifetime of parties with Jordan Peterson fanboys. They're all fun at parties. Enjoy.
This is the MOST Honest RUclips video I’ve seen in a long, long time. Takes a lot of guts to admit these things publicly.
A man of experience once told me, "Regret, if carried too long, can become a self-inflicted tragedy". Thanks, Van.
Failure is either running out of time, or quitting before you’re successful ***
❤ I love it perfect timing
How about the Neistat Brothers reunion in one limited special series? That would be amazing, both of you in a mature season of your own lives.
agree 💯
You can never go home again.
There’s a raw, authentic beauty in your story of redemption and personal growth that captures the human experience so well here. It takes a spirited man to “go through it all to understand the significance of going through it all.” Quality Neistat storytelling. Thank you for sharing this.
Casey mentioned in Flagrant that while he focused more on the commercial aspect of film making, he mentioned that you opted to focus more on the art. At the time both of you were at different parts of the artistic vision but there was no mistakes in the path you took because it took those paths to where you both are today. It always gave me delight to see stories of you two like a prequel to who Casey was before he made the daily vlogs the more I appreciate that the both of you are on this platform, this fulfilled man appreciates this story from the spirited man.
I agree with you. The creativity in both brothers is inspiring.
Yes! Exactly ❤ Love and appreciate them both, but really like how they have their own uniqueness vision and style!
"I had to go through it all to understand the significance of going through it all."
This really hit home for me. Self reflection is important to aid us in navigating the future based on issues in the past.
I know Van doesn't read these comments, but Isabel if you see this--I just want to express that not all of us have fathers or parents that are willing to be open and honest about the bad, the ugly, the regrets, the mistakes of their lives. Van is that person for me, and he probably is for a lot of the people here. I just want Van to understand how appreciative we all are of what he's creating, and how impactful a video like this can be.
🙋🏽♂️ I second this
🥹
If you become a patron he will respond to messages.
same
He has become an important part of my small boring life.
I definitely needed to see this right now. Thanks for being so open about this part of your life
6:48 was a nice edit walking into HBO with said glasses. One day at a time. Thank you for sharing this
How often do people mistake your name for Eric Vancouver?
@@Notdeepakchopra Whatever that number is, add 1 for me
THIS, is the stuff im subscribed to the channel for. Life lessons I can learn from others, me being a few months away from 18 I've started getting in the habit of asking adult peers for life advice, and this has been one of my main sources for how to navigate the world.
Taking so much courage and humbleness to get in-front of the camera and be so transparent with one's self...this is so valuable Van!
I got sober at the age of 39! I couldn't do it before! It took me so long to reach rock bottom! Eightteen and a half years later, I am an old, sober guy, alive and enjoying most days!
Van’s honesty is the perfect way to illustrate the full circle moment of his various paths on the Hero’s Journey. It was really fantastic. It made me reflect on past partnerships that have failed due to ego - both mine and others.
I remember when Casey did a video to support Van after the launch of this channel - when clearly he didn’t need to - what an incredible act of kindness to help his brother.
Van is a thoughtful creator that really puts his heart and soul into each video and I so appreciate that. I glad he’s let us all in with just a glimmer of what went wrong and let him to the path he is on now. For him to acknowledge and admit is part in the breakup of the deal (show cancelled) and the business (partnership with Casey and the investor) is a fantastic lesson in humility and acceptance.
Fun fact: I found an email for you guys during the HBO series and wrote you guys. I can't remember what I said, but I got a bootleg dvd of the show sent to me by someone. I still have it.
“You just haven’t earned it yet, baby” 💯 🎯
Every video needs a Smiths easter egg from now on
Yep. Loved that
An honest and sincere guy and a great story teller. Indeed, 'The Spirited Man'. Thank you Van!
Thank you for opening up this way. I feel like I’m facing a lot of failures. This was a good watch :)
„Failure is quitting before you’re successful“
Damn
Was für ein berührendes Video. So schonungslos offen und voller Herz. Danke Van, das kam zur rechten Zeit! ❤
I’ve been waiting 14 years to see this video. Props to Casey for letting Van tell this story in his own time.
We tend to admire others for who they are and what they do - forgetting all too easily that each of us has our own demons to conquer, regardless of whether someone is famous or average. Thanks Van for sharing. I didn't know the story but i learnt a lot from your telling!
I found this profound & meaningful. Thank you, Van Neistat.
As a German, I absolutely value the accuracy of the words used. Such a beautiful example of precise expression and the associated distinctiveness. Great video as always. Greetings from the poets and thinkers
True :)
As an asshole no one cares about your precise German opinion.
@@stefan-bayer "As a German"
That took honesty, vulnerability and courage. Well done. You did great work with your brother.
Peace and Power, Van! 🎉
It’s remarkable how you and Casey can tell a story from 15-20 years ago and have archival footage to tell it. Few people could do that. You really had a moment with that show. I watched every episode. Addiction ruins lives. I am glad you got help and are in recovery. I am glad it did not take down Casey as well.
I get so excited every time you upload Van. You are definetly my favorite youtuber:)
The spirited man from Denmark
I think I can say honestly that I’m currently paralyzed by regret and fear of further failure and recognition. Thanks for talking about it so thoroughly.
likewise
Never submit to fear. You owe it no allegiance.
i love this so much. The truth that speaks from this story is beautiful ❤
really beautiful to see this.
not only does it provide insight into a genius duo but really shows how much character you guys have.
I've been refusing the call for too long. For fear of living, of moving through time in a way that acknowledges my mortality. This film is important. Thank you.
Wow, thanks for making this.
I appreciate you sharing your story, Van. I am always happy to see a new upload and story from you. Cheers!
Thank you, this must of been difficult to admit. I hope all the viewer take note.
Wow. This must’ve been hard to make. Kudos. Love you both. ❤
Very interesting to see the talking to camera shots of Van in white sunglasses along with hearing the disclosure of their significance, since Casey in white sunglasses talking to camera became such a signature image in his own videos.
Van I love what you are doing. This may be the only channel I stay with until the end of the video.
One of the best videos you've ever put out, a masterpiece of story telling
Dude please do a video on how you’ve been able to keep up with so much archival footage!! It’s truly astonishing
Van, what a wonderful, personal video to create. You and your brother Casey have both been a great source of inspiration to me - your process oriented fast cutting sequences, and Casey's dynamic cut to the beat visuals. I’ve recently become a father myself, and your videos have encouraged me to start my own RUclips channel. Sending my best from across the Atlantic! ✌
Growth is so beautiful. I just spoke with a friend who had screwed his opportunity with a band - at least he learned, as did you, as did I.
Generally, I don't watch videos through until the end. But, I needed this one. Good on you. ❤
That’s one of my favorite episodes Van. It takes real courage to put something like that out in the world.
This seems crazy... I just started my "Shadow Work" and have begun a new journey and the synchronicities are stacking up like crazy! I feel like I'm in a video game, I know the objective of my mission and I meet people along the way that have a jewel or a tool that I'll be needing to accomplish my goal and I keep adding to my arsenal. I know you don't read YT comments, I do support you on patreon, and will probably copy paste this message there too. VAN, THANK YOU!
-The Stoic Man
Van your chanel has exploded and I can’t think of anyone more deserving… ❤ HUGE TALENT!
Great video showing the history of the NEISTAT BROS. Do more of your history. Love this content. 🧨🧨
Your disclosures - like this video - of your “failures” are more powerful than your tales of triumph. Keep coming back brother. God bless you and yours.
This one hits exceptionally hard. Starting down the path of my own 12 Step Program hero's journey. Al Anon is a great blessing to help me understand the role I played in my qualifier's alcoholism, and I'm hoping and praying it leads to something beautiful. Congrats on your sobriety ❤
Thank you for sharing this, the introspection and honesty is beautiful.
What an open and intimate movie this is.... Another banger from Van... after the studio video last week.... I'm soo happy we are getting "our Van" back... slowly but surely ! :) Thank you Van for sharing this with us... Bearing the heart out especially when we are at the wrong takes a lot of courage and confidence ! None of us here think that this was easy for you to put out., hence we truly appreciate this ! Respect !
Easily one of the most underrated youtube channels. Please never leave
Loved this one. Love the transparency and authenticity.
Good luck this hero’s journey of yours! Excited to follow and learn
This answers so many questions I've had after following the Neistats for years. I appreciate the transparency.
This is one of the best videos I watched on youtube. I have no words to express how much of a great understated artist this man is. Excellent content and excellent execution. It is unique, creative and moving at the same time. Thank you Van Neistat.
Some of vans quotes are like little gems I remember and write down, that help me
with my sobriety....thanks van
Learning from your life lessons so that we might not have to go through it ourselves is a special value that I get out of your channel. Thank you Van!
the Neistat Brothers 2 will win an oscar.
Exceptional content for the stage I'm in right now. Thanks van. From Brazil. ❤
This was for me. Thankyou for putting this together Van!
What a vulnerable video. Loved it. For what’s it worth, Also loved the original HBO show ❤
That you for the transparency, it helps me in my struggles and gives me hope for growth!
Man I love Both the Neistat Brother's so so much!
being from Mexico, this content inspires word by word, this is my new dose of good quality content!
Dear Van- From the Context of Sachs, you Extracted and Formed an exceptionally pure Essence of the Creative Process. It felt new, and it was inward-facing. When I saw Casey launch on RUclips by continuously Electrifying this Essence similar to Jobs Electrifying the Essence of Wozniak, I was left admiring with some feeling of discordance. An incomplete story is not a true one. Let me just say thank you for the inspiration you convey from your Creations and Courage both. You and your brothers make quite the tale.
Very mature insight. I wish you and your brother nothing but the best, very talented family
Now. This is honest. To date, I have been annoyed by your glasses and smug attitude (my error in mis-judging you) . Really honest and candid. I respect you now. I am sorry if I have posted snarky and smart-assed comments in the past. They were not commented on but they were wrong. My failure.
Awesome video. Retrospective, honest, humble, and real.
This is the episode of the spirited man that made me actually go back and watch the HBO show (its on YT), it was so endearing and I think it was ahead of its time.
This was by far Van's best piece. Such great insight.
I just realized your logo is similar to the Smith & Wesson logo. I like it. And great honest video, thanks for sharing.
Following you and your brothers for a while now and always wondered what really happened. I come from a family that is very distant due to mistakes, failure and regret. This is powerful stuff that you shared Van and I appreciate the courage it took to create this video and share the tough parts of your life. Thank you for being real!
This video is such an inspiration for me, Thank you Van.
The hero's journey strongly reminds me of the stages of change. Precontemplation, contemplation, preparation, action, and maintenance. Lot of us get stuck in contemplation and preparation. I'm happy to see this work for you, Van. Growth and owning one's action without relentless self judgment.
I definitely focus too much on regret. But I have to remind myself that if I didn't make so many mistakes, I wouldn't be the person I am because I wouldn't have learned those lessons. It's always going to be a struggle but I'm trying.
I’m excited for this one ! ❤
The spirited woman
Waited years to hear can say what went on , great video Van and it’s what makes you great and the man you are
One of the best episodes you made so far Van at least in my opinion. Thanks so much for sharing, you a strong one!!! Not anyone could share their hurt and loss story, not even close at what you did. You do more than cinema, you touch people through your past and present experiences. Thank you Van blessings from Barcelona.
Thx for being so vulnerable…loved your show. You are making your own path now…keep crushing 🤜🏼🤛🏼
It's amazing seeing you looking back and having clarity and taking responsibility. I think we all have our version of this. Congrats on your new found success. Thanks for being vulnerable. I hope this makes other people even save a day of realizing this for themselves.
I could not love this video more. Thank you van.
This is so honest. I appreciate this, as an artist and business soul.
You have made so many outstanding movies, blogs - whatever you like to call them - but this might be one of your finest. It also helped to amplify what a mature, stable creative genius and what an incredible brother you have in Casey, Hugs.
this vid make me think about my past and my future in a different way. THX VAN
Glad this video came in at the perfect time. Quit my old job climbing a corporate ladder I didn't want to, tried my hand at something i've been working towards and failed. But I failed in something I want to be in, and the only regret would have been not trying. Learned that I haven't put in the work to succeed. Won't quit till I'm successful. Thank you!
Thanks for sharing, great video. I didn't realize that you also make the music now. Sounds cool!
Thank you. Very interesting. I did not go through this myself but I know people who suffered with addiction and this helps me understand. Good for you in realizing your situation and changing in a positive way and having success at this time.
The richness of every video still remains tangible after these past few years on youtube. Thanks van. This rips.
Thanks for this. It’s interesting that this video is one of the most impactful and you were only able to make it through this path. It makes me think about all the great artists that had trouble with substance abuse and how without their teams we don’t get the work. Or all the artists that were troubled when they were alive and their work only gets discovered after they die. We’re able to admire that kind of work and not face ourselves as closely in the process maybe. through you powering your own outlet real time you are able to reflect in a way that brings new facets to light.
Makes me think of an artist that is troubled and barely send the work to a bunch of galleries. They get a show and we go to reflect on the work and ourselves. Rarely do I feel like making a big change in my life after going to a gallery showing. After this I have a lot to think about.
Not saying this is always the case. But interesting.
Almost like the music game. Good band troubled by substance abuse gets picked up by management - band gets their outlet but is still troubled, gains fame, sometimes meets death or struggle.
I rarely comment on videos but this was very powerful and I think what I needed right now. Thank you
this is a master class in being a class act! Thanks as always Van ❤️
Loved every episode of that show, and the absolutely amazing piano track that was the theme
This may just be your best video yet. Thank you.
Van, this video really hit home. It’s incredible how you’ve turned your past mistakes into powerful lessons. It’s a reminder that our biggest setbacks can become the foundation for our greatest growth. Thanks for sharing your journey with such raw honesty-it’s truly inspiring.
Still promoting better help
@@Rockmaster867 well It's easy to focus on the surface, but the real lessons are found in the depth of what was shared. Maybe it's worth reflecting on what truly matters here
Thanks Van for the honesty. It encourages me to do the same. I appreciate how much you are willing to share.
Great video Van.
I’ve never came close to crying after watching a RUclips video before, but I was close after watching this one. Thank you for the vulnerability.