Hi olusola, i dont usually comment but i feel i should throw in my imput. First of all, no one is ever ready for things like this; marriage, childbirth etc you can only do your best and face it when it comes, i understand where you stand and i think you are just not ready for the responsibilities that comes with marriage which is very valid. The most important thing is to marry right and both of you will grow together. There is never a complete fellow, you both will have to compromise in marriage to make it work. Just know that when God says it time dont limit/ restrict yourself, its not by power or strength i hope you understand what i mean. I speak from experince If he give you the man he will supply grace and wisdom to pull through, its just for you to continually obey him. God will give you the right man in jesus name. Nevertheless keep developing youself but dont think you will ever be ready for marriage cos no one has.
I understand the point you are trying to make and how you are making it more of a faith topic, which is ok, as I personally believe in faith as well But however don't say NO ONE HAS EVER BEEN READY, people should learn to be realistic and not base everything on faith forgetting the works, readiness is very necessary in all things. There should be a level of READINESS, PLANS, PREPARATIONS and setting ones mind towards making such huge decisions in life. "Don't say you face it when it come" NO This is the reason people get depressed, frustrated, exhausted and giving up when they eventually get into these things without readiness, even those who were ready are still facing lots of challenges they what becomes of those who entered without readiness?? Of course is not by power or by might.......but one has to prepare their power and might down for these callings/ task because marriage, childbirth etc is not a joke GOD NEEDS OUR readiness in these things too, so we can be able to stand up while he moves and pushes us to go through it.
Hi Olusola, I recently got married as a 29 year old lady who’s been single for most of her 20s I was single for 7 years. Intentionally. And I can say clearly, GOD HAS SONS. GOOD SONS and I married 1. I clearly understand your sentiment. “I need to get it right, mentally, emotionally, no one should go into marriage with baggage”. However, isn’t that one of the reasons God instituted marriage? We don’t go to Christ whole. While in relationship with him, he fixes us. So is marriage. We fix each other. I have my issues my husband is helping me heal vice versa. I’m his female version, he’s my male version so we help each other be whole. There will always be things to work no matter how old we get because we’re humans. As long as he understands the value God has placed on you as his beloved daughter, I think you’re good. I understand your point of view and it should be respected however, I think you should check more with Holy Spirit ❤
Shola have followed you for a particular reason, you represent us covenant children well. Am married so I can share a bit of experience, marriage is demanding and it's more than a lady saw a man and instantly fell in love a lot need to be understood before entering into the institution you will never graduate from.
So yesterday I thought to my self lemy see if my kingdom sis finally got married not knowing youve posted then I see this.I dunno why I even thought of that but God knows best....
One thing I can say is, don't settle for less. Marriage is long-term and I can truly say you can not be FULLY prepared, but make sure you are working on yourself while you wait. God still has sons who will love you has Christ loves you❤❤. I see the rotating camera 😊😊.
Olusola one of the reasons sm xtians prefer to marry quickly to avoid living in sin' But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion' (1 Corinthians 7:9)...but the most important thn is u should b ready, and trust me the day whn u ready u will know!
But please what type of tripod are you using or was it someone re riding for you? Cause the way it rotates while you move is something to be understood
I think the issue is not your readiness,no one is completely ready in marriage.We grow in it,once you pray and expose yourself to information from ministers that have gone before you,you will be fine. My prayer for you is that you find the right person that you can grow with and all will be well in Jesus Name. I married in my thirties as well but I have no regrets cus I did not leave God behind and I am with a good man...we are in year 12 and still counting. So girl....gree for someone you can be friends forever with.It is not that complicated😊😊
Chai I forgot to comment on the shoes...to be honest, I think the high heel 👠 will look good on you with your steppings ..smiles ...buh the texture of the other one looks good so. 1. Either be patient to look for high heel 👠 with a good texture. 2. Or buy the high heel 👠...we want to see the steps ...okri
To be honest I think a lot of Christians have over complicated the process of choosing a spouse & marriage. And it has much to do with perceptions, even well meaning ones, from social media & the “idea of kingdom marriage” (which I feel people don’t even know what it means but it’s now a slogan thrown around so yeah..). Just like everything else in a believers life marriage should be a walk of faith. And choosing is NOT as complex as it is made to seem.
Pray that YAHWEH will connect you to the right people that will connect you to your kingdom spouse, I'm saying so for there was a time I watch one of your videos and it came to my mind. Work with RUACH HA-KODESH (Holy Spirit) in preparation for marriage and meeting your kingdom spouse. And most importantly,asked ADONAI to expose to you anything that is within you that is blocking or stopping you from getting married or meeting your kingdom spouse ,for you can see it on the aspect of readiness but it can be beyond that.
which one is kingdom marriage? marriage is marriage and that's it. How you decide to prepare for marriage does not change the precepts of marriage. You might just be complicating things for yourself. If you see someone genuinely interested in marrying you and has the qualities you desire, get married and start a family.
Dont ignore redflags as you are not the holyspirit to change man. At same time,even if you marry late doesnt absolve you from challenges and starting to know your spouse even if he is an angel.
Hahaha don't go and join people that said they are married to Jesus.oooo make you no go enter 40 years begin dey cry.that will not be your porson.may God by himself give you a good man ❤❤❤❤❤❤watching from Bangkok Thailand
90percent of women under-30 dont have the sense,patience and wisdom to handle marriage...at that age most of them at that age are extremely materialistic,controling and rude..age matters too..kudos ..its better to marry late and marry right once and for all..than run in and run out of marriage ..in the bible in Isreal untill u ar of certain age u ar can not do certain things like marriage for both male or female
Solly there is no wholeness before marriage and by that i mean no one can get to that place of total wholeness before marriage. The essence of marriage is to get a partner that will hold ur hand and together u both fulfill purpose. I feel u have not fallen in love yet when u do and by Gods grace the right person, all this grammar u are speaking will not hold water
Hi olusola, i dont usually comment but i feel i should throw in my imput. First of all, no one is ever ready for things like this; marriage, childbirth etc you can only do your best and face it when it comes, i understand where you stand and i think you are just not ready for the responsibilities that comes with marriage which is very valid. The most important thing is to marry right and both of you will grow together. There is never a complete fellow, you both will have to compromise in marriage to make it work. Just know that when God says it time dont limit/ restrict yourself, its not by power or strength i hope you understand what i mean. I speak from experince If he give you the man he will supply grace and wisdom to pull through, its just for you to continually obey him. God will give you the right man in jesus name. Nevertheless keep developing youself but dont think you will ever be ready for marriage cos no one has.
I understand the point you are trying to make and how you are making it more of a faith topic, which is ok, as I personally believe in faith as well
But however don't say NO ONE HAS EVER BEEN READY, people should learn to be realistic and not base everything on faith forgetting the works, readiness is very necessary in all things.
There should be a level of READINESS, PLANS, PREPARATIONS and setting ones mind towards making such huge decisions in life.
"Don't say you face it when it come" NO
This is the reason people get depressed, frustrated, exhausted and giving up when they eventually get into these things without readiness, even those who were ready are still facing lots of challenges they what becomes of those who entered without readiness??
Of course is not by power or by might.......but one has to prepare their power and might down for these callings/ task because marriage, childbirth etc is not a joke
GOD NEEDS OUR readiness in these things too, so we can be able to stand up while he moves and pushes us to go through it.
I agree, you have to be ready
Hi Olusola, I recently got married as a 29 year old lady who’s been single for most of her 20s I was single for 7 years. Intentionally. And I can say clearly, GOD HAS SONS. GOOD SONS and I married 1.
I clearly understand your sentiment. “I need to get it right, mentally, emotionally, no one should go into marriage with baggage”. However, isn’t that one of the reasons God instituted marriage? We don’t go to Christ whole. While in relationship with him, he fixes us. So is marriage. We fix each other. I have my issues my husband is helping me heal vice versa. I’m his female version, he’s my male version so we help each other be whole.
There will always be things to work no matter how old we get because we’re humans. As long as he understands the value God has placed on you as his beloved daughter, I think you’re good. I understand your point of view and it should be respected however, I think you should check more with Holy Spirit ❤
I can relate oh marriage is something we should prepared spiritually physically and emotionally mentally
Is important
I can relate!!!!… preparation ooooo preparation!!!!Marriage is an Assignment oooo
Shola have followed you for a particular reason, you represent us covenant children well. Am married so I can share a bit of experience, marriage is demanding and it's more than a lady saw a man and instantly fell in love a lot need to be understood before entering into the institution you will never graduate from.
That marry once and marry right preparation, waiting on God may God help us. Weldon sis 🥰 and happy Easter
God will order your steps. All the best
So yesterday I thought to my self lemy see if my kingdom sis finally got married not knowing youve posted then I see this.I dunno why I even thought of that but God knows best....
Profound. Really enjoyed this video😊
One thing I can say is, don't settle for less. Marriage is long-term and I can truly say you can not be FULLY prepared, but make sure you are working on yourself while you wait. God still has sons who will love you has Christ loves you❤❤.
I see the rotating camera 😊😊.
Olusola one of the reasons sm xtians prefer to marry quickly to avoid living in sin' But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion' (1 Corinthians 7:9)...but the most important thn is u should b ready, and trust me the day whn u ready u will know!
But please what type of tripod are you using or was it someone re riding for you? Cause the way it rotates while you move is something to be understood
I think the issue is not your readiness,no one is completely ready in marriage.We grow in it,once you pray and expose yourself to information from ministers that have gone before you,you will be fine.
My prayer for you is that you find the right person that you can grow with and all will be well in Jesus Name.
I married in my thirties as well but I have no regrets cus I did not leave God behind and I am with a good man...we are in year 12 and still counting.
So girl....gree for someone you can be friends forever with.It is not that complicated😊😊
Well said....in love with your mindset
Preparation meets opportunity….
Hey Olusola ❤
Thank you for this video
Please as a single person preparing for marriage I will like to ask is it good to have deal breakers
Yes there should be deal breakers. You know yourself n what you can cope with. Be realistic
Chai I forgot to comment on the shoes...to be honest, I think the high heel 👠 will look good on you with your steppings ..smiles ...buh the texture of the other one looks good so.
1. Either be patient to look for high heel 👠 with a good texture.
2. Or buy the high heel 👠...we want to see the steps ...okri
To be honest I think a lot of Christians have over complicated the process of choosing a spouse & marriage. And it has much to do with perceptions, even well meaning ones, from social media & the “idea of kingdom marriage” (which I feel people don’t even know what it means but it’s now a slogan thrown around so yeah..). Just like everything else in a believers life marriage should be a walk of faith. And choosing is NOT as complex as it is made to seem.
Great points marriage is not a prayer arena pray as singles N know. Decernment very important to know the season u are in as a kingdom woman
Pray that YAHWEH will connect you to the right people that will connect you to your kingdom spouse, I'm saying so for there was a time I watch one of your videos and it came to my mind.
Work with RUACH HA-KODESH (Holy Spirit) in preparation for marriage and meeting your kingdom spouse.
And most importantly,asked ADONAI to expose to you anything that is within you that is blocking or stopping you from getting married or meeting your kingdom spouse ,for you can see it on the aspect of readiness but it can be beyond that.
OMG girl you're too funny. I love your content, recap "(22:18) this is what I'll be wearing cause sometimes wig can be tiring thank you Jesus"😂😂😂
which one is kingdom marriage? marriage is marriage and that's it. How you decide to prepare for marriage does not change the precepts of marriage. You might just be complicating things for yourself. If you see someone genuinely interested in marrying you and has the qualities you desire, get married and start a family.
What you said is the truth 😊
My fellow people, help me talk to this babe. Am the one for her😮
Dont ignore redflags as you are not the holyspirit to change man. At same time,even if you marry late doesnt absolve you from challenges and starting to know your spouse even if he is an angel.
You look so beautiful. I really loved this vlog❤😊
Hahaha don't go and join people that said they are married to Jesus.oooo make you no go enter 40 years begin dey cry.that will not be your porson.may God by himself give you a good man ❤❤❤❤❤❤watching from Bangkok Thailand
90percent of women under-30 dont have the sense,patience and wisdom to handle marriage...at that age most of them at that age are extremely materialistic,controling and rude..age matters too..kudos ..its better to marry late and marry right once and for all..than run in and run out of marriage ..in the bible in Isreal untill u ar of certain age u ar can not do certain things like marriage for both male or female
Solly there is no wholeness before marriage and by that i mean no one can get to that place of total wholeness before marriage. The essence of marriage is to get a partner that will hold ur hand and together u both fulfill purpose. I feel u have not fallen in love yet when u do and by Gods grace the right person, all this grammar u are speaking will not hold water
Ok..oooo.....anyways the Lord qualifies the called eventually....
Marriage is more spiritual than physical.Marriage is a covenant between a man and a woman.
Sing that song again 😅
Abeg gree for one man and leave all these shenanigans, you know how long have been giving you greenlight 😅😅😅
Omo ilu mi
This girl...u r still living in lala land....don't worry...continue.
Your comment is uneccessary and insensitive, you for waka pass and let her leave her purpose
@@mapeauxnoire where d hell did u crawl out from...what's insensitive about my comment...if u've got no sense of humour, pls jog along...
@@e.u7778 sick sense of humor.. Run along with it
@@mapeauxnoire can u pls leave me alone...is it by force to b ur friend...? Failed Relationship rights activist...pls go away...
Grow up!
Boring as usual
Get a life
Hello 'we and we' Olushola, 😃 I echoed everything this person said, @seyiajekigbe8307...
May God answer our heart desires. ❤...