I Decentered Myself for a Day and It Was LIFE CHANGING

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  • Опубликовано: 18 янв 2025

Комментарии • 28

  • @TopG1rlAdz
    @TopG1rlAdz Месяц назад +7

    Loved the vlog bestie! Super interesting topic of discussion. We live in our heads so much it’s so peaceful to just live in the world outside of ourselves.

    • @nothingaesthetical
      @nothingaesthetical  Месяц назад +3

      Thanks for the love sis 💛 and absolutely sometimes you just need a day out living life !

  • @aishawaterman492
    @aishawaterman492 Месяц назад +4

    This was such a lovely reminder of why we need art, it takes us outside of ourselves so that we can connect with each other. Also really loved reading 7 days in June, hope you like it!

    • @nothingaesthetical
      @nothingaesthetical  Месяц назад +1

      I totally agree and with thing getting more digital (the stronger presence ai will play in our lives) we’re going to NEED art. I’ve been enjoying reading it so far 💕💕

  • @dibbless2145
    @dibbless2145 Месяц назад +12

    I would highly recommend reading diaries of people. It decenters you in the ways you expressed you wanted to experience that. There is something so anchoring in reading someone else from ages ago go through the same motions of life. Super enjoyed this video and it gave me something to think about. Tyyy xxxx ❤

    • @nothingaesthetical
      @nothingaesthetical  Месяц назад

      Thank you for this comment. I will definitely look into it. I appreciate your kind words 💛💛

  • @rosieroise5870
    @rosieroise5870 Месяц назад +25

    read essays instead of self help books! or memoirs! i think those give you more insight and value than self help books

    • @nothingaesthetical
      @nothingaesthetical  Месяц назад

      I have been trying, found some great essays on substack which I have been enjoying. Will defo give some memoirs a try, thank you 💛

  • @exteriorarchives
    @exteriorarchives Месяц назад +4

    i absolutely adore this video. this is something im reckoning with myself and seeing it in video form is so so cool. sending you sm love 💌

    • @nothingaesthetical
      @nothingaesthetical  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you for your comment. I really appreciate it, sending love your way too 💕

  • @emilybudinger5491
    @emilybudinger5491 Месяц назад +8

    I love this kind of content and I guess that's why RUclips recommended me this video! I've subscribed because as another young Muslim girl I love to see authentic and genuinely 'made with love/ passion' video topics. I love when you speak about looking at people's shoes making a commute less boring, 100% gonna try that on my uni commute cos otherwise I'm just blasting music and scrolling for two hours a day which is probably not great mentally haha. Anyway I can't wait to see more of your videos

    • @nothingaesthetical
      @nothingaesthetical  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you so much for this lovely comment. It’s nice to know people share the same sentiment. Thanks for the support 💛💛💛

  • @whaiacaton6510
    @whaiacaton6510 Месяц назад +3

    When the music came in on the shot in the train, it created a feeling of connection because I have always looked at people's shoes, especially on the train. Great music choice for this scene as well. I'm glad I found this video :)

    • @nothingaesthetical
      @nothingaesthetical  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you for this! I’m really trying to get better at editing. Glad you enjoyed it💕

  • @Noriko23
    @Noriko23 Месяц назад +3

    I definitely relate to wanting to decenter! It’s hard to put my finger on but I think those concepts you mentioned like “main character”, “it girl” etc do have a dark side to them. I want to be a more selfless and considerate person.

    • @nothingaesthetical
      @nothingaesthetical  Месяц назад +2

      I think they start off with good intentions, but like many things on the internet become slightly toxic. Yeah I think sometimes we need a break from ourselves tbh 😂😂😂 I know I do x

  • @tripleaaaale
    @tripleaaaale 28 дней назад +1

    This video was beautiful, and so are you! I have been impacted by yours words and experience 💕✨

    • @nothingaesthetical
      @nothingaesthetical  28 дней назад

      Thank you that is so kind 💛 glad you enjoyed the video x

  • @leonayy
    @leonayy 20 дней назад +1

    I really like your videos!

  • @mariagladkaya1994
    @mariagladkaya1994 17 дней назад +1

    Watching it on the 1st of January and love love love it! Also, just checked a local museum is open today and going there right after finishing this video, thanks for the inspo (and thoughts for the future) ❤

    • @nothingaesthetical
      @nothingaesthetical  17 дней назад

      Thank you for this kind comment, I hope you have an amazing time at the museum xx

  • @edominguez8999
    @edominguez8999 Месяц назад +1

    love thissss!! subscribed! 💕

  • @bluengrey
    @bluengrey 18 дней назад +1

    I feel like the word shouldn’t be narcissistic but conceited, egoistic and selfish

    • @nothingaesthetical
      @nothingaesthetical  18 дней назад

      I agree, although I think narcissism is a spectrum (not always extreme). But yeah, an overall self-centredness that doesn’t leave space for others or their feelings

  • @stopdragginaround
    @stopdragginaround Месяц назад +6

    Preach my girl, preach!

    • @nothingaesthetical
      @nothingaesthetical  Месяц назад +1

      Glad to know I'm not the only one that feels this way !