For sure! Also Jr is way more into her than she is him. I see uncomfort in her face often around him but maybe it's because she trying to hide in front of cameras
Scotty is really scary to me. He is an abusive man. After the way he spoke to Aria at the first mixer, I saw the mask slip and everything after that was a confirmation of him being a dangerous man. He reminds me of my father. I hope Aria gets away from him!
I wanna add: I also think something switched in Sandy after they went back to their og partners, Jr was like: "so what we had was nothing???" And Sandy was like: "no...... it's not that, pshhh, noo...." 😂😅
I think they removed the hidden cameras from the bedrooms, because this is the only season where we have no hidden bedroom footage. They keep it even for late-night conversations and they didn’t this season.
I thought it was super unfair that Nick and Mariah had to do the whole experiment alone while their partners were living with someone else. Honestly the season should have been scrapped if 4 people dropped out
Or they should have just paired together like April had to. Sure they didnt pick each other but they could have learnt something and at least not been alone. Maybe he was also too much of a risk though to do that.
SOCTTY IS SCCCAAARRRYYY!!! The way he was looking at zaina after the boys night, I was like he’s so scary! The way he gaslights and manipulates and plays victim 😮 he’s literally like my dad. Toxic af
Caleb says he answered all of Mariah's questions night 1 and the questions kept coming. That is exhausting. And Caleb says she does this about everything not just in this situation. Nobody wants to be critiqued everyday. Mariah and Caleb should great up. They looked miserable almost everyday. One fishing scene is not enough to keep putting up with years of that. The Aria/Caleb was producer pushed because Aria is in fact confirming her feeling. Caleb won't completely confirm because of Mariah.
this is completely unfair on mariah's part. caleb actively has been holding back from her, and most of us can see that. a period of distress in a relationship doesn't mean the whole relationship is misery.
@@raeraemillstone He’s all talk. I hope Sandy goes home alone. I thought it was interesting she told him she’s been w a guy who cheated on his gf with her and he ended up leaving the gf and cheating on her.
I'm pretty sure Zaina and JR are a fake couple. Their Instagram's have no proof of a relationship compared to all the other couples and in any tagged photos they aren't together either. Zaina is also friends with a someone from Teen mom. Nick needs mental health help, he has some indicators of really difficult mental health disorders to navigate. Being around a people pleaser that consistently lies to you will make you spiral more. I've had a roommate like Sandy and without prior mental issue being around someone like that is already difficult
JR and Sandy hooked up 100%, it was shown at the end of episode 4! Just after the hot tub scene, there was a shot of JR naked, closing the door to their bedroom and Sandy was laying on the bed. Please rewatch it! I can’t believe Im the only one who saw that 😂
Just checked it out, he appears to still have his shorts on though. He does close the door behind him and it does leave a lot to the imagination of what could have happened.
I really appreciated your perspectives in this episode! I feel like it was very compassionate and also very perceptive . It was a great balance between calling out bad behavior and also being compassionate and noting the peoples good qualities and what they’ve been through.
Natalie said "when I was on Hinge" it sounded like "when i was unhinged" proceeds to say she sent voice messages to let them know she speaks English. Pretty much on brand lol
a part of me doesn’t think zaina and jr are in a relationship because they did not care about each others trial marriages or the kisses in question. like girl i would have lost my shit like you did what?!!!! lmao and scotty has a psychotic stare that is so chilling.
definitely feel that Sandy was playing both JR and Nick, making sure to keep Nick "secured" in case she wasn´t convinced by JR.. that constant crying with Nick after being with JR definitely guilt tears. I can almost guarantee that this was THEE excuse JR and Sandy were looking to stray from their relationships
My bet is on, they are keeping the tapes from the bedroom for the reunion to put them on the spot. Unless they don’t show anything then I may change my mind.
I actually didn’t think it was possible for me to dislike any reality tv character more than Hannah from LIB, and turns out it is possible. Because JR is the WORST type of human.
I don’t get why they didn’t put Mariah and Nick together… I feel like they kept them separate to make Nick go crazy, which feels super unethical not to mention the fact that it completely goes against the premise of the show.
43:00 Did she really get upset, though? That scene where she cried in the kitchen felt SOOOOO fake to me! I felt like she was trying to fake-cry and failing miserably, even saw a smile escape there 😂
I wish they put the pictures of the people they are talking about. Even though I watched the show it’s hard to keep track of who they are talking about a lot of times
The only thing that put me off about Caleb was when he said he has so many flaws. Like what flaws? Why don’t we get to see them? Is he imagining or hiding? And Scotty is plain horrible. Simply a bad person, you can’t convince me otherwise.
I truly think Sandy is lying because she’s afraid of how Nick will react. When someone can’t regulate their emotions as we’ve seen with Nick it’s very easy to excuse a couple lies to ensure that he isn’t going off on you again. I think one important thing to note is it seems like when Nick is very frustrated he takes away any sort of affection. So I think she tries to avoid that and that’s why they’re also so cuddly and lovey this set of episodes.
48:28 scotty seems extremely dangerous especially towards women. he had all the smoke for JR but couldn’t get a word out infront of him but took it all out on zaina like a vicious bully. he should be examined because it’s giving dv & ab*ser energy 🤢
I live in Sydney and New Years is the WORST TIME OF THE YEAR! 😅 I absolutely hate going to see the fireworks with all the crowd and I get anxiety just to think about how I’m gonna go back home on those crowded trains… it’s awful. My bf loves to go so we made a commitment: be there very very late at night and then scape to a quieter place until everyone’s gone (at least two hours) and then catch the train back home 😂
Dang the 2 to 5 ratio is WILD. Lol some people drain energy so quick! They are like mosquitoes sucking the life out of you & if that's the case get out of that relationship GOD SPEED! 😵💫
I definitely think J.R and Sandy hooked up. I feel that J.R loves Zaina but he’s not inlove with her therefore he’s teeter tottering between her and Sandy. I think he feels that the grass is greener on the other side. And Sandy doesn’t like Nick, she’s tolerating him!
After girls/guys night when Sandy was crying over the Nick situation, I think that's when JR started having it out for Nick. Sandy was literally sobbing and all he did was mutter an occasional "yeah.... Mhm," and rubbed on her leg. He didn't like Nick because he wanted Sandy. Also, JR and Sandy, I feel, used this experiment to justify cheating on their partners 😅
I feel sandy was way more dressed up when she was with JR then when she's with Nick. She is in more comfy clothing with Nick and way more sexy with JR.
My take on JR. He knows Zaina is a good woman. Good wife material and all. But JR doesn’t care. Maybe he cares a little bit because she’s clearly a good person, but he cares more about the thought that the grass is greener on the other side. That what if there’s someone better/hotter/more sexually stimulating for him. Sandy was clearly sexually stimulating in his eyes. And he likes it. He cares more about having more options and the practice of being involved with someone without having the obligation to be tied to them via marriage or a relationship. He’s never going to admit “yeah I know zaina is a good woman but I prefer to have variety because I know I can get it like that”. So he will hide behind his excuses that he’s scared of marriage because of his past.
It felt like he was using all the women for clout LMAO. Why else would he propose to Shaina if their core values clashed. Man would cling to nothing and anything to have a relevant storyline.
Deepti and I have the same RUclips feed. I watched tht podcast last Friday and she mentioned it! Also fun fact being and introvert and extrovert are just labels created in psychology but no one adheres to the categories most of the time. We are extroverts in some areas of life at a time n introverts other times .
You guys make me feel like a clothing slob😅 But not really, actually at this point my closet works in such a way that pretty much all bottoms match all tops so I don't think in terms of outfits at all. Also I don't go to any events because I live in the countryside and have kids. And having settled on oversised being my best style being bloated is no longer an issue🤗
I loved both of y'all on Love is Blind. However, you both are giving Sandy too much credit. If a man behaved this way you would be calling him a narcissist and dragging him. Calling her a people pleaser is a stretch- she is flat out lying.
🥴 Natalie let's be honest for a second. You said you don't see what Zania sees in JR but Shayne is a worse version of JR and you loved him. 🙃 You can't help who you love. Let's try to be a bit more fair in these discussions. 🤷♀️
Isn’t it sad how we’re all becoming more and more introverted or ambiverted, (new word I learned today lol) but it’s so true I was always a people person..I work in the service industry and can connect with literally anyone, but as I get older I prefer being a homebody and keeping my circle small. I had a wedding to go to this past weekend and I Irish exited 2 hrs early 😬 I ended up feeling so terrible after. I enjoyed myself for 3 hrs that was my limit lol
To add lol I have a holiday party this weekend which my best friend throws every year but she is total opposite, always has the more the merrier mindset and I’m already dreading it. It’s pure chaos, everyone brings their kids (incl me) and it’s loud and chaotic the entire night. But if I skipped it she would never understand 😢
@@nikkij55 I’m not sure what it is.. maybe the pandemic played a part in this 🤷♀️ and perhaps social media? Like we all lost our ability & desire to socialize in person lol I’m not sure. But it seems so many of us feel this way!!
I thinks it’s frustrating she’s not able to criticize people (m & f) without saying “oh but their past” “but they were nice when” “love them still and wish them the best” or stretch and say “I can see maybe how” like I want her to hold her ground more.
Deeps can have good takes but she plays devils advocate a lot-I don’t GIVE A FUCk about JR’s past. That man weaponizes his sympathy card, and he doesn’t deserve to pass at hurting others.
Something i was confused about maybe someone can explain to me. Didn't JR say he was a pastors kid but then he said they went hungry? Not saying kts not possible just seem loke unreliable narration
Honestly I'm watching this show for the first time just to be able to understand what you guys debrief about 😂 It's such a bad show... The men are horrible characters. Scotty is so aggressive and manipulative. Aria won't say yes I think, many times she mentions things that make me think she will stop the relationship, especially after a positive and respectful experience with Caleb. JR's not posting girlfriends on social media is just to keep the DMS coming, who's blind enough not to understand that? And Nick's emotions need a therapy process. This guy is so unstable he must have been through a lot of weird stuff in his life. My expectation is Caleb and Mariah engaged, the rest not and Sandy and JR on perfect match 😂😂
Natalie mentioned going back to work last year. Deepti is just doing social media. They also have consistent sponsorships so subscribers are probably not the most accurate metric of the podcast analyst
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DEEEPTI!!!+ YES 100% JR AND SANDY HOOKED UP!!!
1000% lol and Jr has feelings, I’m not sure if Sandy cares that much 😂
Right!?? I was so confused when they said they only kissed twice
It was written all over their faces
Also can we comment about her hickey on the changeover?????? 😅😅😅
For sure! Also Jr is way more into her than she is him. I see uncomfort in her face often around him but maybe it's because she trying to hide in front of cameras
Scotty is really scary to me. He is an abusive man. After the way he spoke to Aria at the first mixer, I saw the mask slip and everything after that was a confirmation of him being a dangerous man. He reminds me of my father. I hope Aria gets away from him!
Omg I said the same thing!! Def reminds me of my father as well!! Scary af
35:19 CLOCK IT DEEPS!!!! i thought the exact same thing: the reason sandy was crying was bc she felt guilty she did all that with JR, periodt 🤝🏼
I agree, especially because she decided to not be physical with Nick afterwards.
I wanna add: I also think something switched in Sandy after they went back to their og partners, Jr was like: "so what we had was nothing???" And Sandy was like: "no...... it's not that, pshhh, noo...." 😂😅
I think they removed the hidden cameras from the bedrooms, because this is the only season where we have no hidden bedroom footage. They keep it even for late-night conversations and they didn’t this season.
I thought it was super unfair that Nick and Mariah had to do the whole experiment alone while their partners were living with someone else. Honestly the season should have been scrapped if 4 people dropped out
Or they should have just paired together like April had to. Sure they didnt pick each other but they could have learnt something and at least not been alone. Maybe he was also too much of a risk though to do that.
As someone whose experienced Scorpio on Scorpio toxicity. That shits on another level. jr and sandy are crazy.
@@thatgirlcas 🤣🤣🤣🤣
SOCTTY IS SCCCAAARRRYYY!!! The way he was looking at zaina after the boys night, I was like he’s so scary! The way he gaslights and manipulates and plays victim 😮 he’s literally like my dad. Toxic af
Caleb says he answered all of Mariah's questions night 1 and the questions kept coming. That is exhausting. And Caleb says she does this about everything not just in this situation. Nobody wants to be critiqued everyday. Mariah and Caleb should great up. They looked miserable almost everyday. One fishing scene is not enough to keep putting up with years of that. The Aria/Caleb was producer pushed because Aria is in fact confirming her feeling. Caleb won't completely confirm because of Mariah.
this is completely unfair on mariah's part. caleb actively has been holding back from her, and most of us can see that. a period of distress in a relationship doesn't mean the whole relationship is misery.
It's hard to be in a relationship when your partner doesn't give much back in a response.
he takes nonchalant to another level dude
I’m surprised they didn’t really talk about it more because Caleb is not being truthful
I bet JR doesn’t post his gfs because he’s afraid ppl will dm them and expose him for cheating or acting out-the “protect my wife” thing is such BS.
I caught onto that as well
Yes! I don't believe a word that escapes his lips
@@raeraemillstone He’s all talk. I hope Sandy goes home alone. I thought it was interesting she told him she’s been w a guy who cheated on his gf with her and he ended up leaving the gf and cheating on her.
I'm pretty sure Zaina and JR are a fake couple. Their Instagram's have no proof of a relationship compared to all the other couples and in any tagged photos they aren't together either. Zaina is also friends with a someone from Teen mom.
Nick needs mental health help, he has some indicators of really difficult mental health disorders to navigate. Being around a people pleaser that consistently lies to you will make you spiral more. I've had a roommate like Sandy and without prior mental issue being around someone like that is already difficult
JR and Sandy hooked up 100%, it was shown at the end of episode 4! Just after the hot tub scene, there was a shot of JR naked, closing the door to their bedroom and Sandy was laying on the bed. Please rewatch it! I can’t believe Im the only one who saw that 😂
Just checked it out, he appears to still have his shorts on though. He does close the door behind him and it does leave a lot to the imagination of what could have happened.
I noticed that too
I agree I think they hooked up more than once. And decided to just talk about the kiss if they have to. Lol
They are saving it for the reunion. The fact that Sandy said she was waiting for filming to end tells it all.
@@gracemukai5508 good point!
I really appreciated your perspectives in this episode! I feel like it was very compassionate and also very perceptive . It was a great balance between calling out bad behavior and also being compassionate and noting the peoples good qualities and what they’ve been through.
Natalie said "when I was on Hinge" it sounded like "when i was unhinged" proceeds to say she sent voice messages to let them know she speaks English. Pretty much on brand lol
😂😂😂
I love the friendship between you two ❤
a part of me doesn’t think zaina and jr are in a relationship because they did not care about each others trial marriages or the kisses in question. like girl i would have lost my shit like you did what?!!!! lmao and scotty has a psychotic stare that is so chilling.
definitely feel that Sandy was playing both JR and Nick, making sure to keep Nick "secured" in case she wasn´t convinced by JR.. that constant crying with Nick after being with JR definitely guilt tears. I can almost guarantee that this was THEE excuse JR and Sandy were looking to stray from their relationships
My bet is on, they are keeping the tapes from the bedroom for the reunion to put them on the spot. Unless they don’t show anything then I may change my mind.
I doubt it one of them is on perfect match
12:30 i am Deepti, Deepti is me lol
15:50 i am Natalie, Natalie is me lol
I actually didn’t think it was possible for me to dislike any reality tv character more than Hannah from LIB, and turns out it is possible. Because JR is the WORST type of human.
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I just love yall and I like that you guys go on tangents before and in between the tea it’s great!!!!
And people watch love is blind everywhere deepti and you were iconic they definitely will recognize you ANYWHERE lol.
I don’t get why they didn’t put Mariah and Nick together… I feel like they kept them separate to make Nick go crazy, which feels super unethical not to mention the fact that it completely goes against the premise of the show.
43:00 Did she really get upset, though? That scene where she cried in the kitchen felt SOOOOO fake to me! I felt like she was trying to fake-cry and failing miserably, even saw a smile escape there 😂
I wish they put the pictures of the people they are talking about. Even though I watched the show it’s hard to keep track of who they are talking about a lot of times
The only thing that put me off about Caleb was when he said he has so many flaws. Like what flaws? Why don’t we get to see them? Is he imagining or hiding?
And Scotty is plain horrible. Simply a bad person, you can’t convince me otherwise.
I think Caleb doesn't wanna marry and he's using that as an excuse.
It’s always fun 🤩 to get a 🆓 engagement ring 💍 and get engaged on a reality tv 📺 show 🤣🙃🤣
Never realized Sandy is a people pleaser….so true
I truly think Sandy is lying because she’s afraid of how Nick will react. When someone can’t regulate their emotions as we’ve seen with Nick it’s very easy to excuse a couple lies to ensure that he isn’t going off on you again. I think one important thing to note is it seems like when Nick is very frustrated he takes away any sort of affection. So I think she tries to avoid that and that’s why they’re also so cuddly and lovey this set of episodes.
48:28 scotty seems extremely dangerous especially towards women. he had all the smoke for JR but couldn’t get a word out infront of him but took it all out on zaina like a vicious bully. he should be examined because it’s giving dv & ab*ser energy 🤢
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I live in Sydney and New Years is the WORST TIME OF THE YEAR! 😅 I absolutely hate going to see the fireworks with all the crowd and I get anxiety just to think about how I’m gonna go back home on those crowded trains… it’s awful. My bf loves to go so we made a commitment: be there very very late at night and then scape to a quieter place until everyone’s gone (at least two hours) and then catch the train back home 😂
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Deepti we are Aquarians we can't expect others to understand us. lmao 😂😂😂
Deeps packing routine is so stressful!!!
Dang the 2 to 5 ratio is WILD. Lol some people drain energy so quick! They are like mosquitoes sucking the life out of you & if that's the case get out of that relationship GOD SPEED! 😵💫
Deepti laughing in this podcast 90% of the time she spoke lol
Omg, I’m here on a mondayyy 🫶🏼
I definitely think J.R and Sandy hooked up. I feel that J.R loves Zaina but he’s not inlove with her therefore he’s teeter tottering between her and Sandy. I think he feels that the grass is greener on the other side. And Sandy doesn’t like Nick, she’s tolerating him!
I think that Scotty is not gonna proposed, to assert his "dominance" even though he issued the ultimatum
Are We Dating The Same Guy groups have saved lives I'm sure 🙏🏾
After girls/guys night when Sandy was crying over the Nick situation, I think that's when JR started having it out for Nick. Sandy was literally sobbing and all he did was mutter an occasional "yeah.... Mhm," and rubbed on her leg. He didn't like Nick because he wanted Sandy. Also, JR and Sandy, I feel, used this experiment to justify cheating on their partners 😅
The Nick tattoo mistake is total BS it was so uncomfortable to watch like the cringe was real
I feel sandy was way more dressed up when she was with JR then when she's with Nick. She is in more comfy clothing with Nick and way more sexy with JR.
My take on JR. He knows Zaina is a good woman. Good wife material and all. But JR doesn’t care. Maybe he cares a little bit because she’s clearly a good person, but he cares more about the thought that the grass is greener on the other side. That what if there’s someone better/hotter/more sexually stimulating for him. Sandy was clearly sexually stimulating in his eyes. And he likes it. He cares more about having more options and the practice of being involved with someone without having the obligation to be tied to them via marriage or a relationship. He’s never going to admit “yeah I know zaina is a good woman but I prefer to have variety because I know I can get it like that”. So he will hide behind his excuses that he’s scared of marriage because of his past.
100% they hooked up, and zaina was just on vial files saying they DID NOT have cameras in bedroom
Kyle always seem fake to me, he was definitely using Deepti for clout. I didn't buy he was into her for real.
It felt like he was using all the women for clout LMAO. Why else would he propose to Shaina if their core values clashed. Man would cling to nothing and anything to have a relevant storyline.
Deepti and I have the same RUclips feed. I watched tht podcast last Friday and she mentioned it! Also fun fact being and introvert and extrovert are just labels created in psychology but no one adheres to the categories most of the time. We are extroverts in some areas of life at a time n introverts other times .
I can’t wait for the next episode (and your reactions on the podcast)! I think JR and Sandy are leaving together 🫣
Ummmm writing from Denver and we all definitely watch love is blind 😅
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I like your voices ❤
You guys make me feel like a clothing slob😅 But not really, actually at this point my closet works in such a way that pretty much all bottoms match all tops so I don't think in terms of outfits at all. Also I don't go to any events because I live in the countryside and have kids. And having settled on oversised being my best style being bloated is no longer an issue🤗
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I loved both of y'all on Love is Blind. However, you both are giving Sandy too much credit. If a man behaved this way you would be calling him a narcissist and dragging him. Calling her a people pleaser is a stretch- she is flat out lying.
this just made me search your headshots
girls I started laughing out loud when they said they kissed 2 times. I knowww more happened
There are no cameras in the bedrooms
🥴 Natalie let's be honest for a second. You said you don't see what Zania sees in JR but Shayne is a worse version of JR and you loved him. 🙃 You can't help who you love. Let's try to be a bit more fair in these discussions. 🤷♀️
Agreed, Shayne was a walking, talking, embodiment of a red flag lol.
LOL touche
Isn’t it sad how we’re all becoming more and more introverted or ambiverted, (new word I learned today lol) but it’s so true I was always a people person..I work in the service industry and can connect with literally anyone, but as I get older I prefer being a homebody and keeping my circle small. I had a wedding to go to this past weekend and I Irish exited 2 hrs early 😬 I ended up feeling so terrible after. I enjoyed myself for 3 hrs that was my limit lol
To add lol
I have a holiday party this weekend which my best friend throws every year but she is total opposite, always has the more the merrier mindset and I’m already dreading it. It’s pure chaos, everyone brings their kids (incl me) and it’s loud and chaotic the entire night. But if I skipped it she would never understand 😢
@@kristabelle43 same girl, same
@@nikkij55 I’m not sure what it is.. maybe the pandemic played a part in this 🤷♀️ and perhaps social media? Like we all lost our ability & desire to socialize in person lol I’m not sure. But it seems so many of us feel this way!!
I’m sorry, but Deepti really gives pushover vibes like WHY are you defending these horrible men all the time
I thinks it’s frustrating she’s not able to criticize people (m & f) without saying “oh but their past” “but they were nice when” “love them still and wish them the best” or stretch and say “I can see maybe how” like I want her to hold her ground more.
Deeps can have good takes but she plays devils advocate a lot-I don’t GIVE A FUCk about JR’s past. That man weaponizes his sympathy card, and he doesn’t deserve to pass at hurting others.
Something i was confused about maybe someone can explain to me. Didn't JR say he was a pastors kid but then he said they went hungry? Not saying kts not possible just seem loke unreliable narration
Honestly I'm watching this show for the first time just to be able to understand what you guys debrief about 😂 It's such a bad show... The men are horrible characters. Scotty is so aggressive and manipulative. Aria won't say yes I think, many times she mentions things that make me think she will stop the relationship, especially after a positive and respectful experience with Caleb. JR's not posting girlfriends on social media is just to keep the DMS coming, who's blind enough not to understand that? And Nick's emotions need a therapy process. This guy is so unstable he must have been through a lot of weird stuff in his life. My expectation is Caleb and Mariah engaged, the rest not and Sandy and JR on perfect match 😂😂
They definitely hooked up! That’s why she didn’t want to have sex with Nick. He would for sure know.
34:53 I agree!!!!!
Night shift 😅🥲
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FIRST COMMENT ! Hi guys !!!
Do you guys still have a real job? because I doubt you can survive both on 50k subscribers just curious
Erm influencing on Instagram and other social media
What does this information do for you? How will it improve your life to know?
Natalie mentioned going back to work last year. Deepti is just doing social media. They also have consistent sponsorships so subscribers are probably not the most accurate metric of the podcast analyst
You didn’t notice the multiple paid sponsorships they have in every episode. They did a whole podcast about how they made their first million dollars.
They make shit loads of money influencing. Deepti said in an interview she makes $800k doing this, and she made like $400k at her job before.
I love the friendship between you two ❤