Asymmetry doesn’t mean ugly: Chan is incredibly handsome, with makeup or without. And I’ve seen his curly hair in the Kingdom behind the scenes and it’s soooo lovely! I wish he had more confidence in his natural beauty; I wish the kpop training machine didn’t manufacture insecurities by nitpicking tiny details. I’m glad he feels comfortable being honest about these things but I also wish he didn’t struggle looking at his own face. That’s a very sad thing to hear him admit.
Frrrr he is soo pretty i hope he realizes thatt cuz it's frustrating seeing him like this i hope in the future he can love himself as much as stays love him
it does acually mean that ure genetically unhealthy asymmetry on an average person is unattractive hes just lucky he has higher facial attractiveness edit: he has higher facial definition above average jawline and decently defined facial features
@@virtualmorgue what? its called analysis of someones face the asymmetry thing that i said its a fact since there have been studies about it im sorry if it sounded rude...this isnt anything to be taboo about in fact there is a youtube channel that does beauty analysis i get my knowledge from there
@@virtualmorgue its important to note that everyone is asymmetrical but in savere cases it does indicate poor genetic health.... Bang Chan is completely fine since asymmetry is normal i hope i cleared it up:))
Fr, he doesn't quite fit into that box, and tbh I love him more for that. He sticks out but in a good way! Beauty comes in many forms, and his is just another one of the many ways.
I want to sit down with this guy, and tell him that having flaws is what makes one human. Our flaws are basically our differences; that is what make us unique. If everyone had the same features, uff what a dull world it'll become. Also, asymmetry is the natural occurrence in the world of living. Hardly anything living is perfectly symmetrical. My heart goes out to him because to own up your so called flaws in an industry that is hyperfocused on a very convoluted idea of perfection is an uphill task. I hope someone reminds this precious human being that he is enough, his body is enough, his being is enough.
You put it very correctly. Chan should see this comment and still understand that he is the most beautiful and precious person on the whole planet with all his advantages and disadvantages, whatever they may be
I love how Chan describes his complexes like they are HORRIFYING or something, but those are like those things that make me love him and makes him unique, have you seen how he looks when he smiles? He's like a little creature, he's the cutest leader to be honest 😭
"Sometimes we don't need advice, we just need to know we're not alone." Yep, I would 100% say Bang Chan fits the Mindset motto and absolutely NEEDS to be an artist on there. He lives their tagline, istg.
I know everyone is wishing Chan would see himself the way we see him, but if you've ever struggled with self esteem issues you know that it really is a personal journey. Even Chan who is loved and appreciated by millions of people struggles with insecurities. It just shows how much our internal value of ourselves really matters. I really hope that he can reach a place in life where he can take all our love and compliments to heart, and like what he sees in the mirror.
True honestly. No matter how much you tell anyone to feel better about their complex or smt like that bc it's not a flaw and whatnot, it's really up to them to actually start believing these words. So yeah we should keep encouraging him to feel better about his complexes but we can't tell him to just feel better or get over it quickly bc it doesn't happen like that, it needs time.
This make me so sad because Chan sees beauty in literally every living soul, he treats everyone with so much respect I wish he can do it for himself as well because he deserves it he's so pure he's definition of a perfect man i so can't with him 😭
Chris is such a genuine example of maturity, he’s so mature to open his heart like that, knowing there’s non stays also watching the live and probably just waiting for him to show up a bit of his insecurities to use that against him. He always says he’s insecure but i think he just don’t see how powerful he really is cuz he’s too humble, and honestly, that humbleness makes him reach this level of maturity
i love how he makes us feel comfortable and talks about everything with us. as a person with a lot of complexes, i feel so good after watching chan's vlive, i feel like i don't have complexes.he is the best😭😭 even tho it's so painful watching chan talking about HIS complexes i understand him😢😢 i wish he could see himself as we see him😣we love you so much channie💓💓💓😣😣😣
I love his aussie accent his: “you knour” was so cute, I love how comfy he is With this topic, letting stay know that he sometimes feels insecure about himself, and also advising or letting stay know that they’re special, this man is all I need.
I’m a baby STAY but after seeing this, I just love this guy so much. He is so honest and so real. I hope he knows how much we all love him, complexes and all!
Same same 😭 honestly after all these kinds of confessions I’ve seen from this guy, I might cry; he’s so pure and beautiful, inside and out, and I wish he would love himself and see how gorgeous he is in so many ways.
I can't get over this. Chris is literally one of the most beautiful men I've ever seen and he's sitting there picking his appearance apart. This, more than anything else, makes me realize that all of us are more beautiful than we realize. When we look at ourselves, we focus on our perceived flaws. I wish he could see himself through my eyes. I want him to have more confidence.
Bangchan is such an angel.🥺🤍 I really admire his courage and vulnerability to talk about his insecurities in front of thousands of people.. such a humble and sweet person.❤
he is so handsome and then he talks about his facial asymmetry..i honestly did not even notice any asymmetry on his face...but he is so good at making others feel good about themselves... we love him
i was literally saying, "WHAT" out loud every time he listed a new "flaw" because to me, he's perfect with or without make-up and to hear him say he dislikes himself hurts my heart SO MUCH
this is just another proof that k-pop idols are just humans, normal human beings like everybody else in the world. they go through the same struggles as everyone, they experience pain, insecurity, low self-esteem and self-love, they can have complexes and they also struggle to get over these problems. this means that if they receive bad comments and feedback about their appearance, they're gonna struggle and suffer even more, just like everyone else. that's why i think we fans should always try our best to make our precious idols feel loved, accepted and amazingly perfect as they are. they always try their best to reassure us and give us good advice/help, so we must do the same.
yeeeah, you’re completely right and i’m so proud of Channie that he says it out loud and he’s not afraid to admit it i really respect his honesty and sincerity 🥺
The thing is… not the makeup artists “make him him”, but those little things he just mentioned… All of them are completely normal, it’s a part of being a human. And with all those unique features millions of people fell in love with him 🥰 and his most important “feature” - his personality. It should tell you something, Channie 😉 You are glowing from within and spreading magic! You are beautiful and so you! Nobody else can be you for those millions of people ❤ And with that I’m going to paint you again 😊 every single unique feature of yours 😍
chan is our safe spot. i don't think he tells the other members too much about his worries or insecurities because he doesnt want them to worry or feel bad.... so stay, we are going to be here for bang chan and be his safe space. STAYS!!! ASSEMBLE!!!!
I love literally every complex he's complaining about, including his beautiful asymmetrical face. But what shocked me the most is when he talked about his smile. He has the most gorgeous smile I've ever seen. 😳 I also had a lot of complexes, but now I know I'm beautiful. I hope he'll soon see how incredibly handsome he is.
Daaaaamn, I wish he could see himself through our eyes, I understand that he has complexes, most people do, I just wish we could reassure him about how much we love his wonderful face.
Chan the things you mentioned as your complexes are the things that I love the most about you! Your face, cute smiley eyes, your curly hair, your eyebrows, nose literally everything!!! You're just so perfect and beautiful inside out! You don't know ow oww, you don't know you're beautiful! That's what makes you beautiful 🥺❤
It really is validating having the same insecurities as Chan. I’m also glad he takes the approach of being ok with feeling insecure because I feel like trying to pressure yourself into liking how you look almost never works out. I think it’s oddly comforting having the same complexities as your idol.
I really got into SKZ because of this human right here. He made me feel so comforted. Also his words "It's completely fine, you're probably better than me" just shows that the struggles idols face beyond that glam and beauty of being in the industry. I just want to have a good nice warm conversation with him so bad that's he's enough and we love him just the way he is.
Chan’s face is literally perfect 🥺 everything about Chan is perfect. And having “flaws” is what makes us human. He’s so pure and has such a big heart and that’s what really matters at the end of the day. Chan is so beautiful inside and out. I also love how open he is about his insecurities and he’s not scared to share about it. Chan, please don’t stress so much. You are perfect 💗
It makes me so sad to hear him talking about his complexes he is amazing and i wish he knows how amazing he is and how we see him i wish he is not stressed about him bc he is AMAZING 🥺💕i understand him but he is beautiful and cute and all good things and he deserves all the love on the world🥺💕and Stay try to give him all the love he deserves and even tho its not enough he deserves worlds love 💕💕💕😖
Chan is such a understanding standing person he is like a person who would listen our problem and will try to solve it and would give us his best advice that's the unique thing he has and that's what makes him soo damn special the one and only precious chan 💝❣
We all have complexes. Don't EVER think "Aw, but he's perfect. His complexes doens't count" cause that can be applied to you too. Everyone deals with their own personal complexes/anxieties the way they can. Just show yoursupport, don't rush them and if it's you, treat yourself with rescpect and patience. Everything is fine and it will eventually get better
It breaks my heart that he can't see how beautiful he actually is, if you look at pictures of him without makeup, YOU'LL definitely see how handsome he is! ❤❤❤
He can say whatever he wants, to me he’s still the definition of perfection. Not because of his looks but he’s such a kindhearted guy!! He’s so human, so down to earth, so loving… you don’t even need to be a fan of the group to notice that. He’s a sweetheart 🥹
ok lemme just- - face: my boy because of that "tilted" face of yours, you look like you're always smiling....it also makes it easier for you to wink and when i say i love your winks😔 - eyes: even if you have smaller eyes, they (again) make it seem like you have smiling eyes and honestly i love your eyes so much - eyebrows: THEY'RE YOUR FACE'S BEST PART CHRIS (including your dimples ofc)😭 they give your face SUCH a sympathetic look, such a calming look...because of them your face has the vibe that yes, this is my home, my comfort - arms: "this is normal, but this is not normal" you literally have an album called Oddinary it's completely okay to be not normal😭 a childhood friend of mine had those arms too, and my 7 year old self used to be envious that i couldnt do that with my arms - feet: yOu kNOw WhaT ElS- ahem i mean, having flat feet isnt bad either (except u might have pains and get tired feet faster than others) - hair: CURLYHAIRCHANCURLYHAIRCHANCURLYHAIRCH- *SO **_FLUFFAE_* CHRISTOPHER YOU ARE ADORABLE AND WE LOVE YOU JUST THE WAY YOU AREEEE
2:20 I do the same thing- And Chan, don’t worry, your face is perfect, and your hair is perfect too. And you’re beautiful with curly hair! And- not just that! YOU are just perfect.
i'm happy that we can always talk about something like this with him, being vulnerable together and sharing the same concerns, it really does feel like talking to a person who you can trust a lot
I literlly cried while watching this. This make me feel that I'm not the only person who is kinda with complexes and I'm really thankful to Chan that he is not scared to show his "real him " - if you know what I mean. But he is really good person and I smiled so much when he say that about his arms lol that was funny and I love him so much ! ❤❤❤
Honestly, i noticed that it's been a while since he has broadcasted without makeup. I hope he knows that he doesn't have to look """"perfect""""" 24/7 for us. He looks super handsome without all that "covering up" too.
can we please say he's perfect whenever he does his vlive so that he'll be confident about himself.watching him saying all his insecurities makes me sad and wanna hug him.he's a beautiful soul
"I'm not stressed about these" *legit flexes those biceps* Me: Oh boy, its okay, I'm stressed about them for you, like my heart can't handle this- Jokes aside, you are literally one of the most beautiful people I have ever seen Chan. And I truly mean it. Honestly, all your teeth could fall out, you could go bald, have acne all over your face (and all those other features people consider "ugly" - tbh they're not but for the sake of this conversation, let's pretend that you had these features), but I WOULD STILL SIMP SO HARD. What draws me to you is the fact that you had this conversation with us, that you KEEP HAVING THESE CONVERSATIONS with us, and that you always motivate and make us smile. You are a true wonder. I love you for you. There is no other reason. We're blessed to have you, Channie. Don't worry too much; your lopsided grin is literally the cutest smile ever, your winged arms are my favorite reference to "Spread your wings," your flat feet have actually caused a massive thirst outbreak on Twitter where all stays were literally simping over your legs, DONT EVEN GET ME STARTED ON THOSE BEAUTIFUL CURLY HAIR CUZ I LOVE IT MORE THAN MY LIFE, your cute small eyes (from early days) makes me wanna coo and gush over you, your eyebrows may be nonexistent, but your beauty TOTALLY lives in your entire being. YOU, chan, ARE BEAUTIFUL
Omg bro this comment should be pinned under the video Its exactly what every stay watching this video was thinking. We stan Chan for how he is its not about looks its about him being so caring kind and down to earth mature person
@@DeV-2909 Akgaes are not stays. They are people obsessed with certain members. To me, Stays are people like me all around the world who are astray and lost and need comfort through music. And I love them because I understand that. BESIDES, if you find this comment “bad”, move on from it. Not everyone reads everything with a negative lens. And if Chan were to ever read it, he would know what I mean because although he may find flaws in himself like al the rest of us, that’s what makes him imperfectly perfect. If you are the sort to unconsciously take everything negatively when it clearly is meant to portray the collective love stay have for ALL of him - including his insecurities - then there is something wrong with the way you perceive the world. Get some therapy. Make life more positive. And stop assuming that everyone thinks the same way.
@@DeV-2909 Toxic stays are a minority tbh. As much as people make stays to be a toxic fandom as a whole, that’s actually not true. Yeah there are toxic fans, but they might be 1/10th of the fandom. Besides, I just said I love stays cuz some people sort of just need to hear it? This video is about complexes, and like Chan said, EVERYONE has them. This is just a positive comment dude. Not you taking everything so literally-😭 ALSO, I know that telling Chan his complexes are beautiful would not change his own view on them, but *reassuring* him that we would find him beautiful regardless is not something negative (and I don't see why you are making it out to be?). Everyone receives such statements differently, and I doubt you being Libra discounts you to know exactly how he would feel? Sorry, but like you cant assume this stuff haha.
@@DeV-2909 THAT is true. I wont disagree. But you have to realize, with the stuff that's recently happening on twt, its come to light that most of those "STAYS" were never truly stays. They were parading as such. Trust me when I say that things are truly starting to get better. There is still a SWARM of hate towards this sweet guy, but people have been reporting and getting hate accounts disabled left and right. Like, I get you and I completely agree.
@@DeV-2909 YES. Honestly he inspires me so much. I’ve had the hardest time with my own physical insecurities and I was extremely negative before I got into stray kids and received proper therapy (which is the reason why I said so to you in my first comment; therapy is very helpful). Stray kids songs (like voices, scars, insomnia) just speak to me so much, and Chan’s rooms is one of my fav parts of the week. Angel, he truly is. And as an ot8, it just goes to show, like I always find so many good qualities in all of them which I want to adapt as well. People who get to know Chan really come off a better version of themselves 💕
No matter how many complexes he had we will aways love him. He's such a amazing person and an amazing leader. We don't deserve him. The world doesn't deserve him but he deserves all the happiness and everything.
I love how vulnerable and genuine he is out in the open. We all have complexes about ourselves (I have a list of things I'm uncomfortable with myself) and you can't just snap your fingers to be rid of them. Even if you see the worst in yourself, other people can't see them because we just see the wonderful, beautiful, talented person you are Chris. Love you 🌹
It's "funny" how most the time when I speak about complexes with someone, it's pretty much always what I find so endearing about them. At least half of what Chris listed is what I find makes him so charming. Take care people
Bang Chan is so precious! It is a pity that he considers it all complexes, he is very beautiful! I hope he can handle his problems. I can share my complexes: low height (163 centimeters) and problematic skin. I work on these complexes, do stretching and take care of the skin, I hope that I can change for the better!
@@toxicmeowwwwww Мне 17 и я парень, 163 - довольно низкий рост. Я всегда был низким: во дворе, в садике, в школе, но как такового комплекса не было, потому что никто ничего не говорил. Но вот когда я поступил на первый курс универа... Там много высоких студентов и они выглядят довольно взрослыми (хотя и невысоких тоже прилично). И когда я прохожу по коридору, кто-то да отпустит шутку "а что здесь делает начальная школа?". Таких случаев было около шести и они меня довольно сильно задевали. И это всё продолжается на втором курсе, правда было только два раза это теперь меня не так сильно задевает. На это вроде как глупо обижаться, но я почему-то обиделся ахах. В общем я работаю над увеличением роста, надеюсь смогу вырасти хотя бы как Бан Чан, примерно до 170 см. Вай, какой милый у тебя рост! Попробуй делать растяжку, висеть на турнике (если есть возможность), есть морковь и пить витамин D, я всё это делаю. Делаю ещё только две недели, поэтому не могу утверждать, что вырос на миллион см, но я стал чаще тянуться.
damnnn your so quick to this, the live just ended ! anyhow, it hurts me so bad to hear some of the things he says, i hope he knows that all stays dearly love him and find him to be the most perfect human being in the world
How can he be so cute? He's literally my favorite person and the best human being, and I can't believe he has THE SAME complexes as me😭💔💔💔 I truly love Chan so much😔🖤
Damm I love Chan, like this is heartbreaking and heartwarming at the same time 😶 it's so good how honest he is and how reassuring is to hear him talk about this topics AND it's sad because he is perfect to me but I know he's insecurities are so valid too 😭❤️
CHAN why are there tears in my eyes? I wish he could hear every compliment we do to him...I wish he could see himself as we see him...I wish he would feel "enough" one day... coz my eyes see a wonderful, beautiful and amazing man here
Chan Bang you'll always be perfect to me. Self-awareness is good. Working on complexes is good. Just always remember, aside from your good looks, amazing body, incredible talent & creativity, and being so hardworking, you are known & loved for your kind, caring, compassionate personality. Nobody does it better, baybee! Don't ever lose that! Thank you for all you do. You are so genuine. I love you, man! I ❤ SKZ. I ❤ CHANNIE. #skz #chanbang
He is so human. He is so brave by being open about his insecurities. In an industry that is often so focused on perfection, this is incredibly brave of him. Those of us who struggle with or have struggled with self esteem know that you can suddenly just decide to love everything, we criticise and analyse even the smallest parts of us. Chan is being honest with us and I think that's better than him lying and putting on a facade of perfection. If he ever sees these comments I hope he knows how loved he is and that even though we can't run to him and give him a hug, we can thank him on here for all he does and ask him to remember that, flaws and all he is enough. Love you Bang Chan and please take care of yourself
It’s really nice that he’s openly talking about his complexes. All I gotta say I feel you man😭😭. He’s a really good looking guy, I hope he realizes that one day🥺
oh my god he is the most humble and likable person ever, your personality just makes you 100times more beautiful than you already are. Also no amount of beauty can make up for a bad personality
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352 likes for saying first. 💀💀 Something wrong with y'all.
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@@AhmedTetteh12334 🤦♀️ Guess it is what it is 🤷♀️😆😆😆
I like the fact that he openly talks about his insecurities and all... He's a really mature guy.
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He's so precious, I wish he loved himself more :(
@@notacasual5593 he’s right. Everyone’s got something. He’s open about it though, and that’s the first step to getting over it!
No he's foive
I personally think that showing all his complexes makes him a very secure person.
Chan should be a therapist and get a therapist at the same time 😭🤚🏾
Ya friend ...his live is free counselling for stay
ikr he's normalizing our insecurities❤ and i love the fact that he's open with us🫠🥰
Asymmetry doesn’t mean ugly: Chan is incredibly handsome, with makeup or without. And I’ve seen his curly hair in the Kingdom behind the scenes and it’s soooo lovely! I wish he had more confidence in his natural beauty; I wish the kpop training machine didn’t manufacture insecurities by nitpicking tiny details. I’m glad he feels comfortable being honest about these things but I also wish he didn’t struggle looking at his own face. That’s a very sad thing to hear him admit.
Frrrr he is soo pretty i hope he realizes thatt cuz it's frustrating seeing him like this i hope in the future he can love himself as much as stays love him
ikr he is so handsome 😭❤️
it does acually mean that ure genetically unhealthy asymmetry on an average person is unattractive hes just lucky he has higher facial attractiveness edit: he has higher facial definition above average jawline and decently defined facial features
@@virtualmorgue what? its called analysis of someones face the asymmetry thing that i said its a fact since there have been studies about it im sorry if it sounded rude...this isnt anything to be taboo about in fact there is a youtube channel that does beauty analysis i get my knowledge from there
@@virtualmorgue its important to note that everyone is asymmetrical but in savere cases it does indicate poor genetic health.... Bang Chan is completely fine since asymmetry is normal i hope i cleared it up:))
chan is one of the few idols who break the standard image an idol should have and im really proud of him
Fr, he doesn't quite fit into that box, and tbh I love him more for that. He sticks out but in a good way! Beauty comes in many forms, and his is just another one of the many ways.
@@chansfeet2500 trueee
À qui le dis-tu !
Ça veut dire que je suis d'accord avec toi 🫰
I want to sit down with this guy, and tell him that having flaws is what makes one human. Our flaws are basically our differences; that is what make us unique. If everyone had the same features, uff what a dull world it'll become. Also, asymmetry is the natural occurrence in the world of living. Hardly anything living is perfectly symmetrical. My heart goes out to him because to own up your so called flaws in an industry that is hyperfocused on a very convoluted idea of perfection is an uphill task. I hope someone reminds this precious human being that he is enough, his body is enough, his being is enough.
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Thanks for that words...❤️
I hope he will saw your words. ❣️
You put it very correctly. Chan should see this comment and still understand that he is the most beautiful and precious person on the whole planet with all his advantages and disadvantages, whatever they may be
this is really heartbreaking and sad and all that, but I'm sorry I couldn't help but crack up when he said "I have a big nose you guys know that" 💀💀
"um you know what else is big? my....my feet" will always be iconic lmao
@@gurafu exactly😭
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instant flashback
I love how Chan describes his complexes like they are HORRIFYING or something, but those are like those things that make me love him and makes him unique, have you seen how he looks when he smiles? He's like a little creature, he's the cutest leader to be honest 😭
"Sometimes we don't need advice, we just need to know we're not alone."
Yep, I would 100% say Bang Chan fits the Mindset motto and absolutely NEEDS to be an artist on there. He lives their tagline, istg.
also, "This is straight", "This is not straight"
POTENTIAL TIKTOK SOUND, I'M JUST SAYING 😭🤚🏽
OH MY GOD YOURE RIGHT
@@jadeyes12 😭🤚🏽
I can see someone doing this with their LGBT friend and non LGBT friend
you're a genius, pls start this trend
Wait you’re on to something 😟
I know everyone is wishing Chan would see himself the way we see him, but if you've ever struggled with self esteem issues you know that it really is a personal journey. Even Chan who is loved and appreciated by millions of people struggles with insecurities. It just shows how much our internal value of ourselves really matters. I really hope that he can reach a place in life where he can take all our love and compliments to heart, and like what he sees in the mirror.
Well said my friend 👏
yessss i really hope he can fully love him self one day
well said, he deserves all the love in the world :/
True honestly. No matter how much you tell anyone to feel better about their complex or smt like that bc it's not a flaw and whatnot, it's really up to them to actually start believing these words. So yeah we should keep encouraging him to feel better about his complexes but we can't tell him to just feel better or get over it quickly bc it doesn't happen like that, it needs time.
This make me so sad because Chan sees beauty in literally every living soul, he treats everyone with so much respect I wish he can do it for himself as well because he deserves it he's so pure he's definition of a perfect man i so can't with him 😭
Chris is such a genuine example of maturity, he’s so mature to open his heart like that, knowing there’s non stays also watching the live and probably just waiting for him to show up a bit of his insecurities to use that against him. He always says he’s insecure but i think he just don’t see how powerful he really is cuz he’s too humble, and honestly, that humbleness makes him reach this level of maturity
it's really comfortable just to watch chan talking comfortably like this ☺
i love how he makes us feel comfortable and talks about everything with us. as a person with a lot of complexes, i feel so good after watching chan's vlive, i feel like i don't have complexes.he is the best😭😭
even tho it's so painful watching chan talking about HIS complexes i understand him😢😢
i wish he could see himself as we see him😣we love you so much channie💓💓💓😣😣😣
Yes he is amazing we love him so so much🥺🥺💕
Yes, exactly what i thought too!! 🥺❤️
This man is just...so wholesome. And he knows we love him. He KNOWS. His face in general is so beautiful. His complexes are gorgeous.
I love his aussie accent his: “you knour” was so cute, I love how comfy he is With this topic, letting stay know that he sometimes feels insecure about himself, and also advising or letting stay know that they’re special, this man is all I need.
I’m a baby STAY but after seeing this, I just love this guy so much. He is so honest and so real.
I hope he knows how much we all love him, complexes and all!
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i'm a baby stay too (just last week!) and watching this replay made me 🥺😭 chan is comfort personified i think
@@retta286 what do you mean? What did you see baby stays do that's bad?
Same same 😭 honestly after all these kinds of confessions I’ve seen from this guy, I might cry; he’s so pure and beautiful, inside and out, and I wish he would love himself and see how gorgeous he is in so many ways.
welcome to the skz family!
I can't get over this. Chris is literally one of the most beautiful men I've ever seen and he's sitting there picking his appearance apart. This, more than anything else, makes me realize that all of us are more beautiful than we realize. When we look at ourselves, we focus on our perceived flaws. I wish he could see himself through my eyes. I want him to have more confidence.
I've never known any one actually call channie, chris
Cute
Bangchan is such an angel.🥺🤍 I really admire his courage and vulnerability to talk about his insecurities in front of thousands of people.. such a humble and sweet person.❤
he is so handsome and then he talks about his facial asymmetry..i honestly did not even notice any asymmetry on his face...but he is so good at making others feel good about themselves... we love him
i was literally saying, "WHAT" out loud every time he listed a new "flaw" because to me, he's perfect with or without make-up and to hear him say he dislikes himself hurts my heart SO MUCH
literally the whole time!!!! he always looks so good
Yes but the industry is super harsh he told us long time ago he told a staff member told him he got "fat" and he started to eat only one meal per day
I'm sorry if this is entirely unrelated but at around 2:13 he says "I have a big nose, you guys know that" and that caught me so off guard HAHA
@brownfamily1892 that's because quite a few of stays kept telling him that he got a big nose (during Chan's Room lives).
this is just another proof that k-pop idols are just humans, normal human beings like everybody else in the world. they go through the same struggles as everyone, they experience pain, insecurity, low self-esteem and self-love, they can have complexes and they also struggle to get over these problems. this means that if they receive bad comments and feedback about their appearance, they're gonna struggle and suffer even more, just like everyone else. that's why i think we fans should always try our best to make our precious idols feel loved, accepted and amazingly perfect as they are. they always try their best to reassure us and give us good advice/help, so we must do the same.
yeeeah, you’re completely right
and i’m so proud of Channie that he says it out loud and he’s not afraid to admit it
i really respect his honesty and sincerity 🥺
@@rainysoul5272 exactly
The thing is… not the makeup artists “make him him”, but those little things he just mentioned… All of them are completely normal, it’s a part of being a human. And with all those unique features millions of people fell in love with him 🥰 and his most important “feature” - his personality. It should tell you something, Channie 😉 You are glowing from within and spreading magic! You are beautiful and so you! Nobody else can be you for those millions of people ❤ And with that I’m going to paint you again 😊 every single unique feature of yours 😍
I friend of mine who's a MUA once said to me that MUA just "enhance what's already here" and I think it's a lovely way of seeing things.
@@lululesbasbleus happen to be mua as well)))) so your friend is absolutely right 🫶🏻
chan is our safe spot. i don't think he tells the other members too much about his worries or insecurities because he doesnt want them to worry or feel bad.... so stay, we are going to be here for bang chan and be his safe space. STAYS!!! ASSEMBLE!!!!
while he was listing all his complexes, i could just think of how much i love all these things about him
I love literally every complex he's complaining about, including his beautiful asymmetrical face. But what shocked me the most is when he talked about his smile. He has the most gorgeous smile I've ever seen. 😳 I also had a lot of complexes, but now I know I'm beautiful. I hope he'll soon see how incredibly handsome he is.
I adore him so much. He never acts like he's something better. He's so grounded and relatable and I love him for that.
3:20 "What else am i stressed about" mood 🥲😂
Daaaaamn, I wish he could see himself through our eyes, I understand that he has complexes, most people do, I just wish we could reassure him about how much we love his wonderful face.
Chan the things you mentioned as your complexes are the things that I love the most about you! Your face, cute smiley eyes, your curly hair, your eyebrows, nose literally everything!!! You're just so perfect and beautiful inside out!
You don't know ow oww, you don't know you're beautiful!
That's what makes you beautiful 🥺❤
their song "COMFLEX" came at the perfect time for me😌
It really is validating having the same insecurities as Chan. I’m also glad he takes the approach of being ok with feeling insecure because I feel like trying to pressure yourself into liking how you look almost never works out. I think it’s oddly comforting having the same complexities as your idol.
I gasped so hard when he did that thing with his arms😭
Wth is he on aboouttt??!? His face is beautiful, whyyy😭😭😭😭😭
I really got into SKZ because of this human right here. He made me feel so comforted. Also his words "It's completely fine, you're probably better than me" just shows that the struggles idols face beyond that glam and beauty of being in the industry. I just want to have a good nice warm conversation with him so bad that's he's enough and we love him just the way he is.
Chan’s face is literally perfect 🥺 everything about Chan is perfect. And having “flaws” is what makes us human. He’s so pure and has such a big heart and that’s what really matters at the end of the day. Chan is so beautiful inside and out. I also love how open he is about his insecurities and he’s not scared to share about it. Chan, please don’t stress so much. You are perfect 💗
It makes me so sad to hear him talking about his complexes he is amazing and i wish he knows how amazing he is and how we see him i wish he is not stressed about him bc he is AMAZING 🥺💕i understand him but he is beautiful and cute and all good things and he deserves all the love on the world🥺💕and Stay try to give him all the love he deserves and even tho its not enough he deserves worlds love 💕💕💕😖
Chan is such a understanding standing person he is like a person who would listen our problem and will try to solve it and would give us his best advice that's the unique thing he has and that's what makes him soo damn special the one and only precious chan 💝❣
There is nothing I love more than Chan’s bare face and natural hair
The fact that everything he mentioned as his complex is exactly everything i love about him sooo much, down to his eyes, eyebrows and curly hair ❤❤❤❤❤
We all have complexes.
Don't EVER think "Aw, but he's perfect. His complexes doens't count" cause that can be applied to you too. Everyone deals with their own personal complexes/anxieties the way they can. Just show yoursupport, don't rush them and if it's you, treat yourself with rescpect and patience.
Everything is fine and it will eventually get better
but i love his curly hair..
Yess... they're adorable
He looks sooo cute in curly hair
It breaks my heart that he can't see how beautiful he actually is, if you look at pictures of him without makeup, YOU'LL definitely see how handsome he is! ❤❤❤
He can say whatever he wants, to me he’s still the definition of perfection. Not because of his looks but he’s such a kindhearted guy!! He’s so human, so down to earth, so loving… you don’t even need to be a fan of the group to notice that. He’s a sweetheart 🥹
Chan, stop it! You're perfect 🥰 I love you just the way you are
ok lemme just-
- face: my boy because of that "tilted" face of yours, you look like you're always smiling....it also makes it easier for you to wink and when i say i love your winks😔
- eyes: even if you have smaller eyes, they (again) make it seem like you have smiling eyes and honestly i love your eyes so much
- eyebrows: THEY'RE YOUR FACE'S BEST PART CHRIS (including your dimples ofc)😭 they give your face SUCH a sympathetic look, such a calming look...because of them your face has the vibe that yes, this is my home, my comfort
- arms: "this is normal, but this is not normal" you literally have an album called Oddinary it's completely okay to be not normal😭 a childhood friend of mine had those arms too, and my 7 year old self used to be envious that i couldnt do that with my arms
- feet: yOu kNOw WhaT ElS- ahem i mean, having flat feet isnt bad either (except u might have pains and get tired feet faster than others)
- hair: CURLYHAIRCHANCURLYHAIRCHANCURLYHAIRCH- *SO **_FLUFFAE_*
CHRISTOPHER YOU ARE ADORABLE AND WE LOVE YOU JUST THE WAY YOU AREEEE
Ugh I wish he would read this 🥺
@@multistancontent Yes please.. Can we help spread this some how on Twitter or smth so he really gets the message....
@@multistancontent i wish he could i love him so much it hurts😔
how do you like a comment more than once please you've said it all so perfectly-
I love love love your comment, he really needs to see this 🥺
the way he talks about his complexes just makes him more attractive kajsgfljhdsghkl
4:25 I cracked up when he said "crikey"
2:20 I do the same thing-
And Chan, don’t worry, your face is perfect, and your hair is perfect too. And you’re beautiful with curly hair! And- not just that! YOU are just perfect.
I love how it goes from comfort to talking shit about himself
*waaw it's so precious that he talks about his insecurities to make stays feel better...this man...*
This video proves that your insecurities might be what makes others feel attracted to you … and that Chan is a beautiful human being inside and out 🖤
Chan is sweetest..it's really nice seeing him talking about complexes.. making me comfortable about my own❤️✨🌍
i'm happy that we can always talk about something like this with him, being vulnerable together and sharing the same concerns, it really does feel like talking to a person who you can trust a lot
That noise he makes at the beginning I could listen to that on a loop 🥵😳🫣🤤😂
I literlly cried while watching this. This make me feel that I'm not the only person who is kinda with complexes and I'm really thankful to Chan that he is not scared to show his "real him " - if you know what I mean. But he is really good person and I smiled so much when he say that about his arms lol that was funny and I love him so much ! ❤❤❤
2:29 why doesn't he understand that each every flaw he's mentioning in himself is a perfection?
Because most everyone views themselves with flaws. Very few people think of themselves as perfect and I personally think that’s ok.
Honestly, i noticed that it's been a while since he has broadcasted without makeup. I hope he knows that he doesn't have to look """"perfect""""" 24/7 for us. He looks super handsome without all that "covering up" too.
Not because want to look perfect 24/7 but lately he has tight schedule for comeback promotion
@@magicsundays1053 Perhaps you're, i'm just overthinking lol
can we please say he's perfect whenever he does his vlive so that he'll be confident about himself.watching him saying all his insecurities makes me sad and wanna hug him.he's a beautiful soul
I literally love looking at every single “complex” hes naming literally all of those things makes him more unique and beautiful
2:44 the fact his arms can do that, i find it quite cool and fascinating
Funny how the most handsome, attractive, beautiful and perfect human imo has that kind of complexes…. Guess we really do see ourselves differently
Perfection doesn't exist.
Chan is like a big brother ❤
This makes me love him more honestly, lots of idols are seen like godly, but he's just soooo human and humane. I love that about him.
"I'm not stressed about these"
*legit flexes those biceps*
Me: Oh boy, its okay, I'm stressed about them for you, like my heart can't handle this-
Jokes aside, you are literally one of the most beautiful people I have ever seen Chan. And I truly mean it. Honestly, all your teeth could fall out, you could go bald, have acne all over your face (and all those other features people consider "ugly" - tbh they're not but for the sake of this conversation, let's pretend that you had these features), but I WOULD STILL SIMP SO HARD. What draws me to you is the fact that you had this conversation with us, that you KEEP HAVING THESE CONVERSATIONS with us, and that you always motivate and make us smile. You are a true wonder. I love you for you. There is no other reason. We're blessed to have you, Channie. Don't worry too much; your lopsided grin is literally the cutest smile ever, your winged arms are my favorite reference to "Spread your wings," your flat feet have actually caused a massive thirst outbreak on Twitter where all stays were literally simping over your legs, DONT EVEN GET ME STARTED ON THOSE BEAUTIFUL CURLY HAIR CUZ I LOVE IT MORE THAN MY LIFE, your cute small eyes (from early days) makes me wanna coo and gush over you, your eyebrows may be nonexistent, but your beauty TOTALLY lives in your entire being. YOU, chan, ARE BEAUTIFUL
Omg bro this comment should be pinned under the video
Its exactly what every stay watching this video was thinking. We stan Chan for how he is its not about looks its about him being so caring kind and down to earth mature person
@@DeV-2909 Akgaes are not stays. They are people obsessed with certain members. To me, Stays are people like me all around the world who are astray and lost and need comfort through music. And I love them because I understand that. BESIDES, if you find this comment “bad”, move on from it. Not everyone reads everything with a negative lens. And if Chan were to ever read it, he would know what I mean because although he may find flaws in himself like al the rest of us, that’s what makes him imperfectly perfect. If you are the sort to unconsciously take everything negatively when it clearly is meant to portray the collective love stay have for ALL of him - including his insecurities - then there is something wrong with the way you perceive the world. Get some therapy. Make life more positive. And stop assuming that everyone thinks the same way.
@@DeV-2909 Toxic stays are a minority tbh. As much as people make stays to be a toxic fandom as a whole, that’s actually not true. Yeah there are toxic fans, but they might be 1/10th of the fandom. Besides, I just said I love stays cuz some people sort of just need to hear it? This video is about complexes, and like Chan said, EVERYONE has them. This is just a positive comment dude. Not you taking everything so literally-😭
ALSO, I know that telling Chan his complexes are beautiful would not change his own view on them, but *reassuring* him that we would find him beautiful regardless is not something negative (and I don't see why you are making it out to be?). Everyone receives such statements differently, and I doubt you being Libra discounts you to know exactly how he would feel? Sorry, but like you cant assume this stuff haha.
@@DeV-2909 THAT is true. I wont disagree. But you have to realize, with the stuff that's recently happening on twt, its come to light that most of those "STAYS" were never truly stays. They were parading as such. Trust me when I say that things are truly starting to get better. There is still a SWARM of hate towards this sweet guy, but people have been reporting and getting hate accounts disabled left and right. Like, I get you and I completely agree.
@@DeV-2909 YES. Honestly he inspires me so much. I’ve had the hardest time with my own physical insecurities and I was extremely negative before I got into stray kids and received proper therapy (which is the reason why I said so to you in my first comment; therapy is very helpful). Stray kids songs (like voices, scars, insomnia) just speak to me so much, and Chan’s rooms is one of my fav parts of the week. Angel, he truly is. And as an ot8, it just goes to show, like I always find so many good qualities in all of them which I want to adapt as well. People who get to know Chan really come off a better version of themselves 💕
Bare face bangchan is amazing 👏
No matter how many complexes he had we will aways love him. He's such a amazing person and an amazing leader. We don't deserve him. The world doesn't deserve him but he deserves all the happiness and everything.
I want to change his mind about himself. He is the most beautiful person I've ever seen
I love how vulnerable and genuine he is out in the open. We all have complexes about ourselves (I have a list of things I'm uncomfortable with myself) and you can't just snap your fingers to be rid of them. Even if you see the worst in yourself, other people can't see them because we just see the wonderful, beautiful, talented person you are Chris. Love you 🌹
HE IS ONE OF THE WISEST PEOPLE I HAVE EVER SEEN I LOVE HIM
It's "funny" how most the time when I speak about complexes with someone, it's pretty much always what I find so endearing about them. At least half of what Chris listed is what I find makes him so charming.
Take care people
chan's laugh always makes me happy for some reason
its just so comforting and adorable for some reason
This. This is what makes me fall in love with him even more. 😭😌
Bang Chan is so precious! It is a pity that he considers it all complexes, he is very beautiful! I hope he can handle his problems.
I can share my complexes: low height (163 centimeters) and problematic skin. I work on these complexes, do stretching and take care of the skin, I hope that I can change for the better!
i'm 150 (16 years old) 😭😭🥺
блин, я так мечтаю быть хотя бы 163, у тебя прекрасный рост..(
@@toxicmeowwwwww Мне 17 и я парень, 163 - довольно низкий рост. Я всегда был низким: во дворе, в садике, в школе, но как такового комплекса не было, потому что никто ничего не говорил. Но вот когда я поступил на первый курс универа... Там много высоких студентов и они выглядят довольно взрослыми (хотя и невысоких тоже прилично). И когда я прохожу по коридору, кто-то да отпустит шутку "а что здесь делает начальная школа?". Таких случаев было около шести и они меня довольно сильно задевали. И это всё продолжается на втором курсе, правда было только два раза это теперь меня не так сильно задевает. На это вроде как глупо обижаться, но я почему-то обиделся ахах. В общем я работаю над увеличением роста, надеюсь смогу вырасти хотя бы как Бан Чан, примерно до 170 см.
Вай, какой милый у тебя рост! Попробуй делать растяжку, висеть на турнике (если есть возможность), есть морковь и пить витамин D, я всё это делаю. Делаю ещё только две недели, поэтому не могу утверждать, что вырос на миллион см, но я стал чаще тянуться.
@@zefir9 спасибо за советы
I think he is absolutely perfect. He is beautiful inside and out.
The fact that he doesn't like his face and to me he is one of the most perfect and beautiful people I've seen... damn!!
damnnn your so quick to this, the live just ended !
anyhow, it hurts me so bad to hear some of the things he says, i hope he knows that all stays dearly love him and find him to be the most perfect human being in the world
where can you watch these livestreams?
This is why we love him so much!!
He is so beautiful without makeup and with his curls!!! Goshhhh Bang Chan 🥲🥲🥲 u re so adorable how can you just say that DAMN
His face has beauty and character. No matter what photo, I immediately know Chan and he’s beautiful.
this truly hurts my heart he sees himself like that. “flaws” are what make us human. it separates us from one another and truly make us beautiful.
his accent is amajin 😭
Chan is handsome with or without makeup. He just so handsome! 🤭
He is amazing that he can talk about how he feels about himself bro- many people can't
Chan is literally the most handsome person I've seen✨✨✨
I love how he talks comfortably about things like this with STAYs. I really need s friend like him 😭✋🏻
He's sooo handsome and such a kind soul too, we don't deserve him🥺🥺🥺
I see him more as a person than as an idol. He helps so much to humanize idols , and I think that's beautiful
How can he be so cute? He's literally my favorite person and the best human being, and I can't believe he has THE SAME complexes as me😭💔💔💔 I truly love Chan so much😔🖤
Damm I love Chan, like this is heartbreaking and heartwarming at the same time 😶 it's so good how honest he is and how reassuring is to hear him talk about this topics AND it's sad because he is perfect to me but I know he's insecurities are so valid too 😭❤️
He feels like a really kind and good advice giver friend.
CHAN why are there tears in my eyes? I wish he could hear every compliment we do to him...I wish he could see himself as we see him...I wish he would feel "enough" one day... coz my eyes see a wonderful, beautiful and amazing man here
Chan Bang you'll always be perfect to me. Self-awareness is good. Working on complexes is good. Just always remember, aside from your good looks, amazing body, incredible talent & creativity, and being so hardworking, you are known & loved for your kind, caring, compassionate personality. Nobody does it better, baybee! Don't ever lose that! Thank you for all you do. You are so genuine. I love you, man! I ❤ SKZ. I ❤ CHANNIE. #skz #chanbang
He is so human. He is so brave by being open about his insecurities. In an industry that is often so focused on perfection, this is incredibly brave of him. Those of us who struggle with or have struggled with self esteem know that you can suddenly just decide to love everything, we criticise and analyse even the smallest parts of us. Chan is being honest with us and I think that's better than him lying and putting on a facade of perfection. If he ever sees these comments I hope he knows how loved he is and that even though we can't run to him and give him a hug, we can thank him on here for all he does and ask him to remember that, flaws and all he is enough. Love you Bang Chan and please take care of yourself
It’s really nice that he’s openly talking about his complexes. All I gotta say I feel you man😭😭. He’s a really good looking guy, I hope he realizes that one day🥺
Everyday, i find a new reason to respect and love him more
ох, он говорит об этом так, как будто совсем не переживает, как будто это какая-то шутка... а я плачу
He maybe insecure about himself but to us he is perfect
oh my god he is the most humble and likable person ever, your personality just makes you 100times more beautiful than you already are. Also no amount of beauty can make up for a bad personality