Eckhart Tolle on Navigating Others' Negative Energy with Presence
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- In this video, Eckhart Tolle discusses the importance of disidentification from others' pain and negativity. He explains that as presence (awareness) grows, one becomes less affected by external negative energy. Eckhart Tolle also highlights the gender differences in sensitivity to energy fields, with women generally being more sensitive than men.
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Eckhart Tolle is widely recognized as one of the most inspiring and visionary spiritual teachers in the world today. With his international bestsellers, The Power of Now and A New Earth-translated into more than 50 languages-he has introduced millions to the joy and freedom of living life in the present moment. The New York Times has described him as “the most popular spiritual author in the United States,” and in 2011, Watkins Review (now Watkins Mind Body Spirit) named him “the most spiritually influential person in the world.”
Eckhart’s profound yet simple teachings have helped countless people around the globe experience a state of vibrantly alive inner peace in their daily lives. His teachings focus on the significance and power of Presence, the awakened state of consciousness, which transcends ego and discursive thinking. Eckhart sees this awakening as the essential next step in human evolution.
It's a PTSD: a habit to "read" everyone and be alert 100% of the time to protect yourself from an abuse. In this case only desensitization practices will help, any kind of them: meditation, yoga, sport, present moment, etc. You need to calm down and stop waiting and looking for trouble from everyone.
This is important 👍
You need to calm down and be aware of yourself whenever you wait and look for trouble from everyone.
❤ thanks for this
You are absolutely right, @Gaurav.P0. When you like resolving other people's troubles, you have no time and energy left to resolve your own problems.
Thank you
These eckhart teachings are the most important in the world at the present moment. Hope they reach and influence as many people as possible
Also have a look at Rupert Spira
@scrollop same teaching through two different people
Watch out putting ‘his teachings’ on a pedestal, he’s no different than you and me
@@frederikteisen Eckhart has much less ego than most of us.
100% agree!
This is so cool, because I am learning a technique for animals, that is called the Trust Technique, and this is exactly what it teaches! The power of presence helps dissolve behavior issues in animals, many of them trauma-based. It is so simple. It uses presence as a tool. Wow. ❤❤❤
I’m so grateful to you for posting your comment - you’ve made me think about how I can help my rescue dog. It makes sense that presence would help him - he reflects my energy so much the vet prescribed him the same medication I take! I will love to be able give him a gift of presence, he’s a beautiful pup, and he’s had a rocky start to life. Thanks❣️
can you please give an example of how you apply this ?
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@@teamginger6359 My cat loves to curl up with me while I listen to Eckhart and shut off my mind.🙂🐾
Can any one explain what is the meaning of presence., it means whether we should be in present moment always or it means we should be in their (opposite person's) presence, Please tell, thanks in advance..
If not both, pls tell what it exactly means in precise🙏
I had the same experience growing up, even now. I can feel the energy of a person near me, and often feel drained when i was with a group of upset people.
Now, i fully embrace this and in fact made me become who i am. I am grateful as this actually help me to be tactful. Its like a stronger invitation for me to be fully present, with anybody actually, esp someone I newly met and help them just by being there.
I have exactly de same experience than you.
If we are in that state of Alert Attention, .... the Presence, there is no negative thought & there is no frequency that it corresponds to negativity!!
Thank you Eckhart 🙏 forever grateful for your teachings!!!
Thank you for this beautiful helpful teaching Eckhart, this evening....a real gift as I receive it...each day I google a 'newish video on Presence' ...got real surprise when this new one showed up....surely the Holy Spirit at work!!!! reminds me of little poem think could be Robert Frost's begins 'The way a crow drew down on me/a brush of snow from a hemlock tree..had given my heart a change of mood and .....!!!' transformative!!!! today' gift for me!!!! Bernadette
Good thing she asked that second question :D Because being so sensitive to other people's emotions and becoming more sensitive everyday can be so painful when being with friends who suffer. If they don't follow the spiritual path, you cannot tell them to "surrender" or sth like that and it makes it almost impossible for me to spend time with other people. Feels comforting to hear that I can reduce some of the suffering just by being present. Was a very much needed reminder since I actually already made that experience but kind of lost it.
Thank you! Once again!
The reason is the pain within you is resonating with the pain in others. This is what allows you to feel their pain. If you dissolve all your pain, it becomes impossible to feel other people's pain although you can definitely recognise it in others.
@@srinitaaigaura Thank you. Kind of gives me hope
@@chibay99 Try grounding practices where your energy is released downward through your hands and feet into the ground rather than the usual upward practices.
I relate about that. How can I up my presence so to speak so I don't take on others suffering
@@banderas2000 hmm I slowly start to feel a difference. What srinita said really is helpful. You can perceive your pain, wrap space around it and recognize that this is not YOUR pain, but the pain body shared by all of mankind and it is the other one resonating with it or for me i imagine then that it is the pain body who is doing the talking/feeling right now, who is in control. And by observing that from a distance and knowing that being aware of it, not further vibrating with it and thereby strengthening it, I am healing, myself and everyone else 😅
Sounds a bit crazy maybe but for me it really works wonders and with each day, it is getting easier
The most beautiful thing you can give is your presence ...💚💙
But who cherishes it in a society of crudest materialism ?
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@@AL_THOMAS_777 They don't have to cherish it, we give unconditionally. 😊
Great answer to all of us - highly sensitive people, who can read other people’s energies and use it for one good purpose: cleaning up our planet! 🌎
That was really interesting. But I don't want to have their energy affect me but I want to help them as well
Highly sensitive to energy i can feel others pain in my body thats why i meditate everyday and bless each one of my energy centers with love and gratitude ❤❤❤❤❤
Such a beautiful reminder 2 ease other ppls suffering through presence 🙏❤
When my husband got killed many ppl came 2 c me, only 1 of them was present vs going into any story. She transferred the best energy n strength on me.
In Dehli 2001 a street book vendor pushed me 2 buy yr book the power of Now, thou I only asked 4 Sri Nisragadatas book I am that. I didn't want 2 buy it first, but he told me, it be right 4 me. That version had yr photo on the back. U still look the same.😊 No-mind keeps u young! I went off 2 an ashram in Beas n thought I saw u there, but b4 I had a chance 2 connect, u were gone. Bummer! I've shared yr book in SA with many. Yr way of teaching is unique, thou all teachers share same truth. Thank u 4 sharing yr love n light! U truly started a huge transformation in this world!
@EckharttTolIe_1 I like 2 know, is this really Eckhard responding? Feels almost like God talking 2 me "personally". Much love from yr possibily longest fan in South Africa 😊
He is so gifted with words. Such a gift to humanity . I thank God for his words of wisdom .
2:48 LUNAtic 😂😂😂
He is the funniest soul! He makes me smile
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I feel for her (see what I said there lol). I have found that the path of meditation over the years made me more aware of energy fields.
It’s the sustaining of vibrant alive presence that can help remedy the personalization of other people’s energy fields. To become an observer, and not pulled in.
This has been a sticky problem for me lately. Thank you for your wise word.
I learned aswell that being empathetic or sympathetic you can be still be and be there for a person who is going through an appearance of discord or in harmony - once you know the truth and stay strong in the truth that God’s grace is present with you, present in the other person and also around you both … then nothing to fear - standing strong , no matter what u hear and see …it dissolves as it cannot exist in the realisation of the presence of God - so no harm can come near your dwelling place once your mind is stayed on Thee … I think the discords can arise in us when we try to fix and change a situation instead of staying silence … being a vessel and letting that power flow outwards …this I learned from Joel Goldsmith of The Infinite Way 💜💜💜
Best teachings on this topic. Very balanced and helpful! Thank you.
I understand the Lady here...I used to have this identification problem myself....I am very sensitive to many things...Echkart has been and is a very good teacher to me !! Thank You Echkart, for talking about the full moon...❤❤❤
That's a result of growing up in an abusive relationship. You may want to listen to Jerry Wise about narcissistic families.
This video is a beautiful gift to those who are aware and to those who are not. Thank you for the gift of your Presence.
In my experience, feelings always dissolve when they are allowed to be felt or brought into the spotlight. Usually what I do when I notice negative moods within me or others I start to talk about it. "Geez, I feel so sad and miserable, I don't even know where it comes from." Or "I can sense how tense you are. Wanna talk about it?" The following conversation usually allows the feelings to go.
@netghost07 Thank you for sharing that! That sounds like a helpful tip 🙏
Wow, that was powerful! Thank you! The concept of "resonance" with negative energy and suffering as a result of resistance to it or over identification with it explains much. The goal of practicing presence so that negativity can "pass through" without creating blockages or pain in us is very helpful. You just illustrated how best to help others who are suffering. Now the practice...! I understand that the best way to help others is to get clear and heal our own pain body. Thank you so much!❤
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Thanks Eckhart! I find your teachings to be immensely helpful as an HSP(highly sensitive person) and am very grateful for these reminders every week. Looking forward to more videos on this topic as well! 💜
It sure helps, do you ever been in places where it is overwhelming and you had to leave for a while? Doesn't matter how present I am, if I'm in a place with a lot of people in tension I can feel it in the air.
This is such a beautiful and honest explanation that Eckhart explained, so sensitively. It is very relevant to many of us Women, as it was to the Seeker, who understood. May she be graced to draw the Presence she needs and share it with many of us to awaken the Presence in Silent Stillness within.
That last part, so powerful. You can be present with them and be for them.
I lost someone and I think I did just that in the right moments.
"The most beautiful gift you can give is your presence" : wow. So simple yet so true and powerful. Thank you for that spiritual wisdom 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚
We eventually move on from the empathetic stage when we heal and become awakened. When one takes the negative energy on, one is still an empath. I recommend having your chakras cleared and use protection such as wearing a tourmaline crystal. Love and light. ❤😊❤
Thank you Eckhart ❤ only if I could tell how much addicted I have become to your teaching since last year when my journey into Presence began. Thank you very much for saving lives and bringing peace into this world. You are truly a peace maker for this world ❤ love, gratitude and respect to you and your team Eckhart ❤
Thank you, for your wonderful helpful teaching.🫶
This is an amazing message. I often say that if I'm spiritually well fit, nothing anyone says will bother me. This explains it better. I need to just concentrate on my own pain body and keep it out of tune with everyone else's. Focus on my own pain body and don't worry about everyone else's.
Thank you for the help❤ I've been feeling this since I was a child, had to deal with it. It's not me, it's them🎉
This is very powerful. My mum has dementia and I feel sometimes that just sitting with her relieves her stress somehow. I certainly can identify with this lady about feeling other peoples pain.
I think I’ve had the same problem as that woman. I think he addressed it, but more generally than her specific needs. The reason I say this is because I’m what u might describe as ‘wide-open”. I can feel and have ‘taken on’ negative energy from around me without it being voluntary. It’s so annoying. I’m not only dealing with my stress, on all its levels (emotional, physical, mental, as well all are) but I can get a physical ailment (crippling muscle knots) from sitting near, not even next to, someone who is stressed. So I have the physical ailment from someone else’s divorce stress’. What the ‘h’! Bless her and protect her god.
Yes I do believe that negativity is contagious
Eckhart's uninterrupted sanity "burns up" my insanity. It doesn't even matter what he says. It was never Eckhart's words that mattered most. It was always his presence. :)
I’m off today.. head pressure, dizzy, tired. Thank you for sharing❤ Love to you and everyone and love Reiki Rachel💖💖💖💖
That makes a lot of sense to me. That explains a lot. ❤much love🙏🏻 Thank you.
Excellent explanation on how we either receive or repel energy frequencies. Love Eckhart...such great wisdom! 🙏💖
Also worth reading about Tonglen in Buddhism for further understanding.
Eckhart..I love your Teachings..these help me always ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I read a comment once somewhere, where a nurse spoke about the ‘moon bus’. She said, whilst on duty during a full moon, they hospital staff would say “here we go the moon bus is here” speaking of the higher than normal number of unruly characters.
That's true. It usually starts 3 days before the full moon and on the night of the full moon it is horrible.
@@Lisa-rn1tn Aye, you are likely quite a spiritual soul. Which is good thing. It’s like having all your emotions & senses run through the washer machine for 3-4 days isn’t it! I think once you are mindful of it and let it happen as it does, it becomes easier to deal with.
My cousin is a nurse. This is a real thing.
Thanks, love, grace, courage and understanding for all.🎯♥😶 🙏♾☮
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Thankyou Eckhart ❤🙏.
So close to 2 million!
I love Eckhart ❤
Thank you Eckhart
You can expand your own knowledge on this read about empaths. Is she an empath?
Likely.
Interesting topic, interesting to explore. And good to hear Eckhart as always.
She most definitely is. It can be a gift & a curse at the same time. However, if you take this advice from Eckhart, you will have much more awareness of it.
Such beautiful words, many thanks 🫶✨
Beautiful reminder ❤
What about empathy Eckhart...?? I feel the pain of animals, people, Earth strongly. I feel so much love for them that I suffer along with them...compassion.
Empathy is not always “good.” For some, empathy can be a sign that we had to be overly aware of others’ emotions to be safe in childhood. Maybe you balance empathy and compassion with healthy self-protecting boundaries. Not everyone has developed a healthy balance and they can get overwhelmed by others’ emotional states.
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I agree. Especially if someone is an empath and vegan, like myself. I always say that I don't belong in this world because the suffering is endless
@@angy5957 I'm vegan too...I think I am an empath. I suffer for animals, people, planet..not Ego or purposeful..it literally hurts my heart..physical chest pain sometimes. You and I are alike. 🙏🏻🤍..I care about animals, people, Earth and all this violence and insanity breaks my heart. 🙏🏻😢🤍🌍
@jeanniewilson777 brakes my heart too... that's why I m in my own world, don't want to hear the news. I feel for all animals, Gaia and people that are being oppressed. Especially now that the elite wants to enslave the world ... also terrified by this but try to be optimist
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지금 이 순간을 살겠습니다 🙏🩵🌎
Thank you
I love 💕 this. Thank you!
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I still need to get past my pain body sometimes but I keep working on it
Consiously choosing now be in thé now and detach from.others opinions focus on yourself❤🎉😅😊 love abd nurture yourself❤😊
Great talk, Eckhart! Looking forward to hanging out sometime
08:55 I still remember, one night, probably after midnight, I started feeling a terrible stomach ache and an overwhelming feeling that I am about to die. I felt suffocated and extremely anxious. I even told my mom that I was going to die. She tried to help me but nothing worked.
At one point, a feeling came that it was easier to surrender. A thought came, if I am to die, let it be. Let me die at peace. Let me go at peace. And sometime later, I fell asleep.
Next morning I woke up, there was a huge crowd next to my home. The grandpa who used to live just next to my home had passed away the previous night.
Thank you so much❤
resonates, much appreciated.
❤ 2bd time listening... I haven't become it yet either.❤ This empathetic path I have walking upon can feel isolating. It can play into it's own self, ; in that "t" knows or has learned when and what might be a trigger to me.❤ Many thanks 🙏 .Again, you've made a difference. 🎉 aGrace Victoria ( "not insane"). 😊
Excellent teaching ! With that all the energy clearing meditations on RUclips are dead 😂😂😂 and it's really a good thing to free yourself of all these practices, finallyyy.... 😊
Sublime conceptualisation eckhart..
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❤ Aloha - und Danke 😍🙏
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You are sooo beautiful. Thank You. 🙏🏻💜
@EckharttTolIe_1well, that's just depressing. 👍🏻
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So so valuable 🙏!! Thank you dear Eckhart 🙏🙏🙏
near 2 million almost, victorrrrrryyyyyyyyyyyy
So clear and simple explanation, thank you! 🙏And if one feels that the negativity is springing out of himself? From the unconscious parts of the mind? And if every atempt to bring presence is taken by th mind as a struggle against that negativie thought or feeling which only makes it intenser? I find something common today - it is very fashionable to talk about toxic people and vibrations but many times i see how negativity is coming out from the very people seeking it outside... What is the solution for that? How to recognise our own negativity?
Regards ,thank you very much.
This is all true.
Thank You so much !!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Im really interested in this. Because you interact with others in the day. I was wondering about how does their energy affect you . can you take some of their negativity then example that night you all of a sudden are super anxious or have terrible thoughts . Thanks fornthe video. Also about helping others heal that's nice. So you can "protect" your energy field by not letting others energy grab ahold on to your's
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Wow, thank you 😊
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I have this exact same ability
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5:00 how ones neg thoughts connect u to the collective of neg thoughts along w/his sound effects
Ego takes it on. Lack of ego lets it go ...
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She’s talked to several spiritual teachers and they’ve all told her something a bit different; and so she’s confused. The fact is that no one can get into her mind and give her the specific answers to her problem. If you are intensely interested to find an answer for yourself, you stop asking another what to do about it.
My energy like kamadhenu what vasister and vishvamitar have in Ramayana ஃஃஃ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank You 🙏 Jesus
For Love 💕 Peace
Through Forgiveness
There is a very useful book for empaths that teaches mindfulness techniques for dealing with this issue. It's called Become The Most Important Person In The Room, by Rose Rosetree. It helped me a lot!
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No identification with pain body.
You are awareness
It exists in the awareness.
It’s no longer problematic. It’s not who you are.
It dissolves through presence.
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Nothing is really personal.
Pain body isn’t personal.
When you think negative thoughts, you connect with the negativity of millions of people.
Stay in alertness and presence.
Let it pass through you.
It can’t lodge in your mind when there is no frequency to let it hang on to.
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With your presence, you can surrender resistance for others who suffer.
It invites them into the space.
Your presence burns up their suffering.
Thanks Eckhart. 25 July 2024. 🌻🦒🐿👍🏻🪷🍄🪷🍇💗💖🐣🤡💝🤡🍑
I think you feel your own pain that resonates with other people's pain.
The answer is yes but it takes a great amount of patience so the trick is not to focus your patience on them you have to want to be patient for yourself lol
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Eckhart calls it pain body
I call it traumatised inner child.
Sometimes it's only an old habit, some times it's rooting deeply in psyche and cells. Of course you can detach from it ("I'm not that") in order not to feel it.
Or you can accept and feel it fully in order to fully recognise and heal it.
Both paths are possible.
The first one less painful for shure, if you manage to keep up identifying (to some degree) with "higher self". The second one much more emotional (with all ups and downs) and more in touch with the energy of those around you.
@EckhartToIle2 I don't understand what you mean. Please explain.
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Explaing smb for presence for 10 minutes for a question. I bet her mind has flied somewhere else while Eckhart was talking!
I am so happy for my comment touch 100rd🤗
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If a man carries his own lantern, he need not fear darkness.
Hasidic saying
Staying in the here and now is truly great "defence".
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So the message is, heal yourself.