How To Date Your Spouse : 10 Tips To Keep Your Marriage Fun!

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  • Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024

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  • @AmandaMuse
    @AmandaMuse  6 лет назад +8

    What's your favourite type of date with your partner??

    • @mamatofive1
      @mamatofive1 6 лет назад +1

      AmandaMuse we like to go out shopping while sipping some coffee. Shopping with four kids is way too hectic to have a coffee in hand too! 😊

    • @EclecticAlu
      @EclecticAlu 6 лет назад +2

      I used to love netflix dates! Drinking Earl grey with milk at night and watching a good movie is 🙌 Haha! Simple but yeah my favorite... ( #recentlydivorced so maybe don’t follow my advice! 😏)

    • @nasfarato
      @nasfarato 6 лет назад

      my favorite date night covers both of our wants and needs. however, there is a long list of things we live to do. here's two of them. romantic candle lit dinner out followed by a live musical theatre (professional) performance ending with an hour or two of intimate dancing and a nightcap. the second isn't much different however it would take place during the daytime a sunny day and a live, high-energy concert with one of our favor bands. of course, lunch and all the "at the amusement park munchies like, funnel cake and ice cream etc etc. ending with a walk on the beach watching the sunset and well, who knows what happens under the covers when we cuddle and snuggle while the sun goes down.

    • @shaynabeauty6274
      @shaynabeauty6274 6 лет назад +1

      What are the apps you were talking about!

    • @mubareka__
      @mubareka__ 5 лет назад

      When we make it super special I LOVE surprising bae

  • @Madeeha1991
    @Madeeha1991 6 лет назад +37

    I write letters to my husband, I know it's cheesy but it's a tradition I have made as part of my marriage. I think it's great to look back over the years to see how I felt and how we were at time in our marriage. I try and do date nights in and also those random walks along the town centre with a cup of coffee, child in the stroller.. And a good topic to talk about. I also try to keep confrontation out of those moments. It's important to respect that time with your partner and keep the negativity out.

    • @AmandaMuse
      @AmandaMuse  6 лет назад +2

      Yes, love this, and the letters are so romantic 💕

    • @os01441
      @os01441 6 лет назад

      thats amazing!

    • @Chommyz
      @Chommyz 5 лет назад

      Thanks for this tips very interesting will try it out

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      @tomleonard2058 4 года назад

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    • @jacquelinebryson9820
      @jacquelinebryson9820 4 года назад

      I use to love this I'm about to start back doing this

  • @robyncavanagh2776
    @robyncavanagh2776 6 лет назад +12

    Amanda, whats your favourite Q&A app? I would love to try that with my boyfriend! Also I am so so excited to try surprise date nights! Any ideas for mine?

  • @dianeroberts4969
    @dianeroberts4969 6 лет назад +10

    Thank you. Sometimes you just need to be reminded that you are married and it’s not all about the kids. I will make this part of my New Years resolution.

  • @fiveminutesandus
    @fiveminutesandus 6 лет назад +11

    I love having a nice dinner with my husband, coming home to watch a movie together. It’s perfect for us!

  • @adrianareyes769
    @adrianareyes769 6 лет назад +7

    I have a great book called "the book of questions" that's written by a psychologist. Lots of interesting and deep questions

  • @sheilablacklock2718
    @sheilablacklock2718 6 лет назад +6

    Great tips Amanda - what ever peanut butters your jelly spend that "quality" time together - a golden rule in our house is electronics are forbidden at meal time!

  • @malo3287
    @malo3287 6 лет назад +4

    I will never ever in my life would leave my kid with a babysitter and my husband will never even in his dream. I am not against it and I am not disrespecting those who does but I mean I can not I literally cannot do this I don’t know why I am too afraid of leaving my kid with others

    • @ShilohKeeling
      @ShilohKeeling 5 лет назад

      Ma Lo i was the same but find a friend who shows interest in your child or another mother befriend her and ask her for that favor lol that's what I did hahaha

  • @mamatofive1
    @mamatofive1 6 лет назад +3

    Our date nights are usually quite simple...it’s going out for a relaxing evening, usually walking through a store and doing some shopping sans kids!
    Now that our youngest is 2, we’ve been able to go on dates a lot more often...every other week or so. I look forward to those dates SO much 😊

    • @AmandaMuse
      @AmandaMuse  6 лет назад

      It really does get easier as the littles get older!

  • @JTDyer21
    @JTDyer21 2 года назад +1

    Our society is so busy we rarely take time for things that matter.

  • @SEthroughoureyes
    @SEthroughoureyes 6 лет назад +4

    Loved this video!! I definitely want to make it more of a point to date my spouse this coming year. We have two kids and I feel like we kind of use that as an excuse to not go out on dates. But these are such great tips!! Thank you!!!

    • @AmandaMuse
      @AmandaMuse  6 лет назад

      Totally understand this, and add being tired on top...it’s so easy to skip the date, but do it anyway! So fun!

  • @leestevens4096
    @leestevens4096 6 лет назад +1

    Wow - I heard the words/phrases: plan, schedule, make time, take time, calendar, date night, and basically what sounds like a to do list to get ready for the date night or whatever, My advise is to visit a seniors home and talk some of people - they will let you know in a couple of minutes the key to what really matters...they may have lived in a different era but at a certain age - there's an "epiphany" - along the lines of why did I worry so much about all those things...and certainly no matter what age, when it's time to go--there is a clarity of what really matters. In older people, there is at least a bit of time to relish this sense of what really matters. In a younger person - this realization often comes when it is too late....

  • @Amaryn
    @Amaryn 6 лет назад +1

    We have a 5 year old and a baby on the way (due literally any day now) so dates have been a little less than crazy lately.... mostly watching cooking shows together on the couch! but usually we enjoy going out and playing pool, or trying out new places to eat, or even just wandering a store without kids! We do the Q&A's too, I found a bunch of question lists on Pinterest. It's interesting to see responses and fun to go back once in a while to see if our answers change too :)

  • @marionscott5389
    @marionscott5389 6 лет назад +2

    My husband and I are both full time students and work also. We have 4 kids and are expecting our last. We rarely have date night so I love these ideas and cant wait to try them out with him! Thank you so much! :)

    • @AmandaMuse
      @AmandaMuse  6 лет назад

      That’s a lot on your plates, but connecting is so nice, good luck with everything! 💗

  • @Kay-ej4zg
    @Kay-ej4zg 4 года назад +1

    A weekend staycation is what we are planning. We have a cafe that plays live music and we play board games there.

  • @julieswatosh8472
    @julieswatosh8472 6 лет назад +2

    I write small love/encouragement letters or notes for my man when i pack his work drinks.

  • @johnnyboy9554
    @johnnyboy9554 4 года назад +1

    “If feel like every minute of every day is scheduled” *Schedules date night in a completely empty planner*

    • @AmandaMuse
      @AmandaMuse  4 года назад

      If only I wrote down every single responsibility of a working mom of 2. SIGH.

  • @JessicaNicoleFaust
    @JessicaNicoleFaust 6 лет назад +1

    Couldn’t agree more with on plugging and just leaving your phone and paying attention to each other, that is something that we have implemented over the past month because it was just getting in the way!
    Also, loved all the ideas that you gave, some that I just would not have thought of! Great tips, thank you so much Amanda!

  • @leahpintol
    @leahpintol 6 лет назад +2

    I think we could also use this!! My husband and I certainly fall into ruts where we lose track of each other.

  • @andreaeeggert
    @andreaeeggert 3 года назад +1

    Great ideas! I love the switching planning date night!

  • @ezechiel51
    @ezechiel51 5 лет назад +1

    For some reasons I liked u and the video and I'm subscribing

  • @ahigatso2442
    @ahigatso2442 6 лет назад +1

    You are full of life. Your hands are full and you still make time for others!

  • @SimplyCherCher
    @SimplyCherCher 6 лет назад

    Love all these ideas...surprises are my favourite! Time to unplug and plan a staycation. Happy Holidays Girl!

  • @REPUBLIC-1776
    @REPUBLIC-1776 Год назад

    Before the plandemic we made it a point (with the help of his mom hosting "sleepovers" for his son) to have date night out at least every other month. His son's an adult now & still living with us, so the "sleepover" thing has changed & plus dates out are much more expensive than 3 years ago..
    Now we plan our "date nights" at home with a movie neither of us have seen or that one of us is sharing with the other that they haven't seen (he's 14 years older, so it's more HIM sharing with ME) & a glass of wine/whiskey (depending on type of movie).
    I think adding the questions would be a good addition. Make the night a little deeper 🤷‍♀️

  • @mikestoneking4992
    @mikestoneking4992 8 месяцев назад

    my babies would be mad at me if i would change things

  • @suzettesmith2075
    @suzettesmith2075 6 лет назад +1

    Amen! It’s hard for my husband and I. Either he’s working really long hours or we can’t get a sitter. And then we don’t say anything. Any suggestions for those question apps?

    • @domilion2008
      @domilion2008 Год назад

      Did you find which apps are good? I am open for suggestions.

  • @EclecticAlu
    @EclecticAlu 6 лет назад +2

    Smart tips from a smart woman 👏👏👏👏

  • @kharnklutz6871
    @kharnklutz6871 4 года назад +3

    "go out and have fun" i think i remember when people were allowed out

  • @katrinabowler
    @katrinabowler 3 года назад

    If only all Ladies were like you with their Husbands/BF's, the World would be a much Fun/Happy Nicer place.

  • @andrewaguilar9461
    @andrewaguilar9461 Год назад

    I found your advice clearing things up for me I know what to do now thanks ❤️💪💯😊

  • @JessicaNicoleFaust
    @JessicaNicoleFaust 6 лет назад

    Love going to the beach together just me and him, without the baby! We love going for a walk on the local Avenue, downtown! And quite honestly we love just watching our favorite/Current TV series that we’re watching! That is one of the main things we love to do because it’s just chill time! And chill time together!
    Also I have to get caught up on the two most recent upstairs Amy episodes! I can’t wait I’ve been loving it!

  • @livelife7890
    @livelife7890 6 лет назад

    We are married but don't have kids yet - and I still find date night a struggle! There is always so much going on (other people wanting to do things, general house stuff, money etc) but I definitely want to make it a priority from new year! Feel like it's the only time we get to sit and talk properly.

  • @huongho4565
    @huongho4565 6 лет назад +2

    What if your spouse is not on board?

    • @AmandaMuse
      @AmandaMuse  6 лет назад +2

      This can be tricky, but the first step is explaining why it’s important to you. Try it keep it positive, no blame, just that you want time together. Baby steps.,

  • @jacquelinebryson9820
    @jacquelinebryson9820 4 года назад

    Omg this is so hard for me balancing kids taken care of laundry cleaning the house work and then I have to spend time with my hubby etc uk but lately I've been doi g good with this

  • @markg6758
    @markg6758 3 года назад

    What Q&A apps can you recommend? You never mentioned any. Thankyou

  • @twofrogsinlove4202
    @twofrogsinlove4202 5 лет назад

    What if your husband doesn't seem to like you: (gets irritated if you try to talk things out, constantly rejects you if you flirt with him, doesn't want to do anything fun with you, only likes to do things separately like him being on the computer all the time or shopping in separate departments?? And telling him that these things hurt you but he just gets angry when you tell him?? Could it be that he has fallen out of love??

  • @StevenWayneJones
    @StevenWayneJones 3 года назад

    You’re amazing, thanks so much for the video!

  • @julieswatosh8472
    @julieswatosh8472 6 лет назад +2

    You are beautiful wow..

  • @nikunjakirtan
    @nikunjakirtan 4 года назад

    Dynamite tips here. Thanks for sharing. I'll definitely be acting on them.

  • @megoodrow6299
    @megoodrow6299 Год назад

    Thank you - a wealth of new information- I like the q and a apps to check out

  • @MichelFialloPerez
    @MichelFialloPerez 6 месяцев назад

    This is great advice!

  • @claudiaerban3082
    @claudiaerban3082 6 лет назад

    Ok, you in this blue top, I mean...Amanda (insert flame emoji!!!)

  • @SiddiQaATaha
    @SiddiQaATaha 6 лет назад +1

    Good tips, thanks amanda!

  • @angelmillions1590
    @angelmillions1590 2 года назад

    Wow

  • @rudygoofysrh
    @rudygoofysrh 3 года назад

    Thank you for your video. I appreciate it.

  • @courtneyturner3326
    @courtneyturner3326 3 года назад

    What's this q&a game you mentioned?

  • @Bethany.a224offical
    @Bethany.a224offical 2 года назад

    I hope this will help with my man

  • @natashakalanda622
    @natashakalanda622 5 лет назад

    This is awesome! Hey which apps have these Q&As? I'd love to get this

  • @RawHide1773
    @RawHide1773 5 лет назад

    How would you do date night with someone in the army

  • @wildcatsportsman9157
    @wildcatsportsman9157 3 года назад

    Good tips an advice, thanks !

  • @jessicaholben4543
    @jessicaholben4543 6 лет назад

    So many great ideas! Thank you for this! Love the q+a and surprise your spouse with a date.

  • @dexterkeano
    @dexterkeano 2 года назад

    Thanks Amanda 👍👍👏👏

  • @hGrugs
    @hGrugs 6 лет назад

    LOVE the suggestion of the Q&A apps!

  • @rmariee4443
    @rmariee4443 3 года назад

    Great advice

  • @mikeemswiler4541
    @mikeemswiler4541 4 года назад

    thanknyou

  • @unciaciapanca
    @unciaciapanca 6 лет назад

    Perfect advice!however sometimes I m Just top exausted!

  • @precisionlaserllc
    @precisionlaserllc 6 лет назад

    Can you recommend one of the Q&A apps you mentioned?! ❤️

  • @MotionTutorcom
    @MotionTutorcom 6 лет назад

    Great tips....thanks Amanda

  • @mubareka__
    @mubareka__ 5 лет назад

    This is awesomeee

  • @ManeMama
    @ManeMama 6 лет назад

    Love it girl

  • @robynmom2boys115
    @robynmom2boys115 6 лет назад +1

    Every single one of your videos is a sponsor video latley..

    • @AmandaMuse
      @AmandaMuse  6 лет назад +10

      Hi Robyn, there have been 2 back to back which I normally don’t do! That said, in a year I make 156 videos, with maybe 10 sponsored total - not a bad ratio 👌🏻

    • @ManeMama
      @ManeMama 6 лет назад +12

      Good for her, means she's making moves. Get your coins Amanda lol ❤