Once I fought with my gf for flirting too much with a dude at a bar. We didnt finish. She wanted to talk in the morning. Then I was super kind as we went to bed. The next day I said, "We should finish talking from yesterday" and she said "no, it was yesterday. lets focus on today" and I wasnt done with yesterday. I wanted to set the boundary verbally. But maybe she was right in a way; if Id focused on the good instead of the negative, maybe the entire thing wouldnt have been an issue. The tough part was finding out "why" Im doing that. And it does make sense that I dont need to know why, just do.. But when we end up in the spot again and again.. I wanted to find the way to climb out. It turns out, its self-care and best self-intrest. I have to do more of whats best for me and I self it for others. So thats why I always got negative and didnt know why. Its the part of me thats not getting anything out of situations. Worse, I could have gotten what I wanted from those connections; I just saw myself as unworthy of whatever im not getting. I should ask for it and leave if its not whats best for me, me, me and only me; until Im grounded where I decide that I belong. And thats hard, as I never gave myself that choice before to ever have what I wanted thats just for myself. Its not to be selfish either. Give, as long as you dont deplete yourself. I deplete myself easily for others, and sometimes I have to do whats best for me until Im full of goodness enough to share goodness.
Sir, good morals are not debatable. Align your values and find affinity, otherwise, no matter what One does, trouble will follow. Feel good, do good and be good and all will be well. Blessings ❤
@rajeshmaharaj7051 Pardon? Good morals are easily debatable. In China eating a puppy is different than eating one in USA. The morals are different. What is good? Is it good to feed a baby? Yes. Not good to feed it candy tho, or wayy too much food. What is too much food? Different standards create different morals. The trouble is not do good and be good. The trouble was not understanding how to handle bad things being done to yourself. It's like poison. My parents beat me severely my entire life. Not spanking. Lole tied up and chains and 2x4's. But they also taught me love. They taught me to care for my puppies even tho they kicked them around just like me. The told me not to tell the teachers or else I'd never see my puppies or my toys or my brother ever again. So I hid it for them. And took the beatings. I didn't know it was injecting me with poisons. Then when I got older if I got passed my stress compacity I would lose myself and act in a horrible way. I dint punch or hurt people but I did curse and hurt myself and react wrongly at times, until regaining control of self. That's out of control. It's corrupt like a computer that's been dropped and won't funtion properly. The computer doesn't know it's not funtioning properly. So to have good morals is great (they can be debated based in culture and preferences---sex b4 marriage for example is fine for some and against morals for others). So how would one convert from having a corrupt inner self from such horrid actions of a patent? I was not an evil child. I was a good child who loved church and Jesus. So what do you mean, be good and good will come? I was good, bad things came at me. What about kids? What about innocent lady walking alone getting attacked? She's being good. Why aren't good things coming to her?
@@rajeshmaharaj7051 good things do not always happen to people whonare doing good. Morals are easily debatable. Such a sex b4 marriage. Some would see it as okay and some don't. But good things do not always happen to good people. For example, as a child I was religious and loved God. I was a good kid. My parents weren't good. They beat us. Not spankings. They tied us up. They took a sick pleasure in it. They'd tie us for hours or sleep deprive us. It was horrible. They'd also teach love. They taught me to care for my puppies. But they also kicked those puppies. My mom taught me to never tell what goes in at home or else I'd never see my dogs or toys or brother ever agan when the school takes me away so don't tell what mommy and daddy do to you. So how exactly did good things not follow me since I was an innocent child.. or what about a lady walking down the street? She's safe because she's good? No bad will ever happen?
WHAT IS MY GOAL? = JESUS ( ERIN GALITO ) SAYS FORGIVENESS. ABRAHAM SAYS LIVING HAPPILY EVER AFTER. I BET YOU THEREWOULD BE THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE ON INTERNET WOULD HAVE A DIFFERENT ANSWER. SO...IOUR POWER IS THE FREEDOM TO CHOOSE.NOT JUST ONE...OR THE OTHER DUALITY.....UNLIMITED WAYS....NUMBERS...CHOICES
If all I desire is alignment with God, I can’t get it wrong 😊
Amen
Amazingly well said 🙏🏼
Wow... I'm keeping that. Thanks John ❤😊
Once I fought with my gf for flirting too much with a dude at a bar. We didnt finish. She wanted to talk in the morning. Then I was super kind as we went to bed. The next day I said, "We should finish talking from yesterday" and she said "no, it was yesterday. lets focus on today" and I wasnt done with yesterday. I wanted to set the boundary verbally. But maybe she was right in a way; if Id focused on the good instead of the negative, maybe the entire thing wouldnt have been an issue. The tough part was finding out "why" Im doing that. And it does make sense that I dont need to know why, just do.. But when we end up in the spot again and again.. I wanted to find the way to climb out. It turns out, its self-care and best self-intrest. I have to do more of whats best for me and I self it for others. So thats why I always got negative and didnt know why. Its the part of me thats not getting anything out of situations. Worse, I could have gotten what I wanted from those connections; I just saw myself as unworthy of whatever im not getting. I should ask for it and leave if its not whats best for me, me, me and only me; until Im grounded where I decide that I belong. And thats hard, as I never gave myself that choice before to ever have what I wanted thats just for myself. Its not to be selfish either. Give, as long as you dont deplete yourself. I deplete myself easily for others, and sometimes I have to do whats best for me until Im full of goodness enough to share goodness.
this is beautiful, very well said, thank you!❤
Sir, good morals are not debatable. Align your values and find affinity, otherwise, no matter what One does, trouble will follow. Feel good, do good and be good and all will be well. Blessings ❤
@rajeshmaharaj7051 Pardon? Good morals are easily debatable. In China eating a puppy is different than eating one in USA. The morals are different. What is good? Is it good to feed a baby? Yes. Not good to feed it candy tho, or wayy too much food. What is too much food? Different standards create different morals. The trouble is not do good and be good. The trouble was not understanding how to handle bad things being done to yourself. It's like poison. My parents beat me severely my entire life. Not spanking. Lole tied up and chains and 2x4's. But they also taught me love. They taught me to care for my puppies even tho they kicked them around just like me. The told me not to tell the teachers or else I'd never see my puppies or my toys or my brother ever again. So I hid it for them. And took the beatings. I didn't know it was injecting me with poisons. Then when I got older if I got passed my stress compacity I would lose myself and act in a horrible way. I dint punch or hurt people but I did curse and hurt myself and react wrongly at times, until regaining control of self. That's out of control. It's corrupt like a computer that's been dropped and won't funtion properly. The computer doesn't know it's not funtioning properly. So to have good morals is great (they can be debated based in culture and preferences---sex b4 marriage for example is fine for some and against morals for others). So how would one convert from having a corrupt inner self from such horrid actions of a patent? I was not an evil child. I was a good child who loved church and Jesus. So what do you mean, be good and good will come? I was good, bad things came at me. What about kids? What about innocent lady walking alone getting attacked? She's being good. Why aren't good things coming to her?
@@rajeshmaharaj7051 good things do not always happen to people whonare doing good. Morals are easily debatable. Such a sex b4 marriage. Some would see it as okay and some don't. But good things do not always happen to good people. For example, as a child I was religious and loved God. I was a good kid. My parents weren't good. They beat us. Not spankings. They tied us up. They took a sick pleasure in it. They'd tie us for hours or sleep deprive us. It was horrible. They'd also teach love. They taught me to care for my puppies. But they also kicked those puppies. My mom taught me to never tell what goes in at home or else I'd never see my dogs or toys or brother ever agan when the school takes me away so don't tell what mommy and daddy do to you. So how exactly did good things not follow me since I was an innocent child.. or what about a lady walking down the street? She's safe because she's good? No bad will ever happen?
Brilliant. Thank you ❤
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WHAT IS MY GOAL? = JESUS ( ERIN GALITO ) SAYS FORGIVENESS. ABRAHAM SAYS LIVING HAPPILY EVER AFTER. I BET YOU THEREWOULD BE THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE ON INTERNET WOULD HAVE A DIFFERENT ANSWER. SO...IOUR POWER IS THE FREEDOM TO CHOOSE.NOT JUST ONE...OR THE OTHER DUALITY.....UNLIMITED WAYS....NUMBERS...CHOICES