Things Dominants Do That Drive Me WILD WITH LUST
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- Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
- Hello friends! Here I am, talking about things that a dominant/top can do that will make me like them very much, and make me very much more likely to want to play with them. Hope it's helpful to anyone who's hoping to attract a submissive, or to any submissives who feel like being introspective about what they especially appreciate in a dominant.
As always, you can email me on kinkyarielanderssen@gmaiil.com, find me on Twitter/X at @ArielAnderssen or buy my memoir Playing To Lose in all its wondrous forms here: www.amazon.co....
This is such a great instalment and fills me with confidence as a kind dom that asks questions ahead of a scene
Oh thank you!
Hi there ! New subscriber here. I just wanted to say, it was incredible to listen to someone who is so grounded and confident in who they are and what they like. If communication is key in relationships and life, then you hold a master-key ! I have experienced the opposite often and I'm certain that's a reflection of my own failures .... I'm hoping to learn much from your channel !
Hi Ariel,
I'm impressed, really! I listened for the entire 22 minutes. It was very exciting to hear.
Your videos are always wonderfully entertaining & informative, Awesome Ariel ! Thanks so very much for sharing with us....and spanks for the memories !
Glad you like them!
Excellent advice! There’s a lot here that you have brought out.
This was extraordinarily fascinating and informative, thank you!! As you said, I think many of these would likely be shared by a lot of submissives, and in a way, some of them are what might be seen as positive/appealing traits in anybody - being polite, observant, trustworthy, appreciative, inquisitive, honest about fallibility, a feminist and such - and I can imagine that the appeal and importance of those things can be heightened within the context of a BDSM relationship and/or play session when you're sharing your yourself, your mind and your body and the maximal vulnerability that goes with it. I love being able to understand someone's mind and thought process, no matter the topic at hand, and why they like what they like and why they don't like why they don't like, so this was tremendously interesting and helpful and I have taken many notes! And I have no doubt that this will be very helpful to new and experienced dominants alike because no matter how experienced one is there is always the capacity to learn something new, the capacity to adapt and the capacity to improve. Not least because, as you listed, there's something to be said for taking the time and effort to learn how to do something!
Thank you Tom, I very much appreciate that!
VERY informative video, Ariel!
And I LOVE your sweet personality and subtle humor!
I’ve liked and subscribed, and I look forward to future presentations!
Be careful out there, Sweetie! ❤
Everyone I’ve ever played with has been because of 100% honesty. I knew what I wanted, they were eager to try, we talked through what we both wanted to try, and had an amazing time. I find that they ladies I’ve been with were looking more for the turmoil of learning and trying then simply being “helpless and horny” (which, funny enough, is what most people thought I wanted when we started, but in the end, had a better understanding not only of my fetishes, but theirs in turn).
I'm very glad!
Welcome back ARIEL!!!!
Thanks !
@@ArielsTwilightYears You’re welcome Big Sister! 🤗
I really hope you get published in the US. Your book is impressive and important, and well read.
Thank you! It's being published there in December '24.
I will say, as a romance author trying to create big, sexy, dominant male characters, this is INCREDIBLE information to have. Thank you for sharing!
Ahh am so happy to hear that! Thank you!
Helpful information in some circles.
Great lecture! You are really special.
Wow, thank you!
@@ArielsTwilightYears You are beautiful and sophisticated, it takes a lot of intelligence to understand this delicate topic. I cannot stop to listen to you. My fantasies are going wild when I listen.
ARIEL A. OMGGGGG YOU HAVE A RUclips CHANNEL 🤩🥰🤩🥰🤩🥰🤩
A really good video, as always. Should be watched by all new dominants.
Watching and listening for the reactions to every thing you do is absolutely crucial to my topping. Is the reaction positive, negative or absolutely nothing? How did they move? If a blow was too much or almost too much, the bare feet often show that, even if the sub doesn't vocalise.
In 19 years of playing (as a switch) I haven't been safeworded and only get a yellow sometimes with people I haven't played with before.
With regards to the top being clean and well presented: of course! Who would want to be up close and personal with someone who smells bad. I would extend this to making an effort with clothing. How many cishet male tops expect their subs to be hairless, corseted and in towering heels, fully made up, but wear jeans and a t shirt? Make a commensurate effort!
Praise: after one particular sub mentioned how much they enjoyed when I told them how well they were doing, I make a point of during and post scene giving praise and encouragement.
Ok, I have a question: the last favourite comment. "Like an adult". An adult as opposed to what???
An adult as opposed to a child. In the spanking world there's often some element of age play (parental storylines, school storylines) which tends to encourage performers to behave in a different way from how they naturally might IRL. In this case, my play partner was indicating that he wanted the absolute opposite of that, and he found a very hot (to me) way of expressing his desire to cane the 'real' me, rather than the on-screen version of me.
@@ArielsTwilightYears Thankyou for the clarification.
Wise, entertaining, hot; thanks for this!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Lucky the man, who is your Lover !. You are a beautiful Lady.
Thank you!
@@ArielsTwilightYears you are welcome !.
@@ArielsTwilightYears i have seen the Video with the Interview on TV, i am suprised about your private Story. The Way of Sexuality you have chosen, its a little bit tough. I am not a Yesterday-Man, but i could never treat you like that in a hard Way, because you got such a cute Face. I would feel very uncomfortable that i could hurt you by mistake. You are such a lovely Lady.
Remarks of high intelligence.
Thanks, Ariel.
Thank you!
really wonderful video, helps me understand things from the opposite point of view.
Thanks so much!
Where did you get the pictures on the wall? Are they out of a book?
just beside the point, but I also have a liking or interest in obelisks , or benbens as they are called. But then in the raw material of minerals or rocks like malachite for example.
this is excellent information
Glad you think so!
How about when they ask you "Do you want another gevulde koek?"
That is the very best thing of all.
A very interesting and informative video. I was wondering have you ever tried erotic hypnosis or Master/Slave hypnosis?
I work for Lex at Entrancement UK, but that's my only experience of it.
@@ArielsTwilightYears Wow. I love his work. Do you think it's something you would like to do more of?
So hot hearing you say your favourite thing.
Wow!
Thanks!
age is just a number for ya
Is real strength a turn on? Herculean physique
Not especially for me; as long as I think they're stronger than me (which is easy cos I have hardly any upper body strength, lol) I'm perfectly happy!
I would be worried that I could really hurt. It's not in my nature probably
And has your dungeon passed the health and safety checks?
I like you're foot videos ❤goddess
Show me don't tell me
How about your work in progress Half😅❤
I'm always a bit worried about saying even ANYTHING 'to' Ariel because she is wa-a-a-y super-smart and also has strong opinions that she has no fear voicing AT the idiot saying something gratuitous. But... watching this is like watching a hard-core straight Christian ideologue but with the requisite authenticating supernatural powers: 'do to me as you you would have be done to yourself, and -, don't kill me INTENTIONALLY (because hey, after all, after three days)... LOL 'Don't try to kill me intentionally,' right? Hahahaha. Okay. No problem there. I certainly wouldn't. (And then, I had the old Marx Bros scene in my head - 'what's the secret password?' No, not password silly, SAFE word.' Oh. (Just what goes through my head while I watch this).
LOL do not worry!
@@ArielsTwilightYears Thanks kiddo. We luv ya ya know this. (I think I'm older than you so I can get to say that kind of thing).
21:30 Americans being nervous about sexuality??? No way... 😁
LOL exactly.