When I was younger I had a rebound relationship (I started to date my friend for 2 month) I can tell you, it doesn't last because I basically ended up hurting another person for my selfish motive to forget somebody and not really moving on from my previous lover. Fast forward to now, my ex of 4yrs broke up with me and got into a rebound and has started flaunting her in social media (he never did it with me) I know I got the karma, and I'm learning through it I will stay single and strong and heal myself. I got my karma, and I know tables will turn.
It took you a lot of humility and putting your ego aside to leave this comment. My husband of 20 years, a 10, 7 and 1 year old is divorcing me and has a rebound. Wayyyy too much to explain but it hurts. I respect you for being open and putting your ego aside to share this with us. Being self aware regardless if youre the dumper or the dumpee shows you are a good person who made a mistake. It doesn't define you. As long as you live the rest of your life knowing this you'll be just fine. As a betrayed wife, you gave me hope that there's people out there who can be self aware of what they did was wrong. I have mad respect for you, as the betrayer, a person who has grown, gained more integrity and became self aware on what to not to, ever again. You inspire me even though I'm heart broken. God bless you. ❤
There is actually an accountability dilemma about getting into a rebound relationship: "Hurt people hurt people" and when you are not fully healed you are spreading emotional pain that traumatizes other people.
If they are capable of easily leaving you, they are capable of doing the same in the next relationship, such people can't be trusted, its only a matter of time before they do it again or someone does it to them. Most times they end up with people who like to play games aswell..
Thank you. I took time to heal. It’s been a year . There were red flags. . It’s difficult because he met and married the rebound in 16 weeks. The difficult part ( For the rebound) is they both see me a couple of times a week , we work together. IHe always says hello when she’s not around. If she is around he will put his head down and not even look at me 😂😂😂
how about not even a month after breakup ,she in another relay and after 7 month get married with tht guys,while i still processed the loss grieve n mourning for wht happened.
If they have the capacity to move onto a rebound within a few months then they weren't fully committed to your relationship. I'd suggest there are deep attachment issues there, ones the rebound has no idea of and who certainly cannot fix.
When I was younger I had a rebound relationship (I started to date my friend for 2 month) I can tell you, it doesn't last because I basically ended up hurting another person for my selfish motive to forget somebody and not really moving on from my previous lover. Fast forward to now, my ex of 4yrs broke up with me and got into a rebound and has started flaunting her in social media (he never did it with me) I know I got the karma, and I'm learning through it I will stay single and strong and heal myself. I got my karma, and I know tables will turn.
It took you a lot of humility and putting your ego aside to leave this comment. My husband of 20 years, a 10, 7 and 1 year old is divorcing me and has a rebound. Wayyyy too much to explain but it hurts. I respect you for being open and putting your ego aside to share this with us. Being self aware regardless if youre the dumper or the dumpee shows you are a good person who made a mistake. It doesn't define you. As long as you live the rest of your life knowing this you'll be just fine. As a betrayed wife, you gave me hope that there's people out there who can be self aware of what they did was wrong. I have mad respect for you, as the betrayer, a person who has grown, gained more integrity and became self aware on what to not to, ever again.
You inspire me even though I'm heart broken.
God bless you. ❤
There is actually an accountability dilemma about getting into a rebound relationship: "Hurt people hurt people" and when you are not fully healed you are spreading emotional pain that traumatizes other people.
If they are capable of easily leaving you, they are capable of doing the same in the next relationship, such people can't be trusted, its only a matter of time before they do it again or someone does it to them. Most times they end up with people who like to play games aswell..
You nailed it
I was the rebound for the one that got away.
I hope my replacement gets to enjoy all of her trauma, triggers, and games just like I did.
Me too...yet I hung in there 5 years..
Love the calming music in the background ❤
Beautiful video. Thank you 🙏
@@RobertJones-et7gh Thank you.
Thank you. I took time to heal. It’s been a year . There were red flags. . It’s difficult because he met and married the rebound in 16 weeks. The difficult part ( For the rebound) is they both see me a couple of times a week , we work together. IHe always says hello when she’s not around. If she is around he will put his head down and not even look at me 😂😂😂
Any update
Let’s be honest if they move on that fast they were monkey branching. They were more than likely ready to make the move way before it happened.
how about not even a month after breakup ,she in another relay and after 7 month get married with tht guys,while i still processed the loss grieve n mourning for wht happened.
@@ninjamy9866still a rebound
If they have the capacity to move onto a rebound within a few months then they weren't fully committed to your relationship. I'd suggest there are deep attachment issues there, ones the rebound has no idea of and who certainly cannot fix.
Thank you for explaining it beautifully! Helped me tremendously understand my current situation.
Not true rebound relationship does not work 1
I'm a rebound we reach 6 years doesnt work its toxic
Being used as a rebound is painful. Don't do it.
It is deeply painful.