What understanding, hate is hate, period! As much as each to their own and their own personal decisions, empathy is important . Lack emotional intelligence .
Hatukatai lkn ameenda sana, hiyo time ni gani anasema ati mtoi atolewe na ndege nanyuki mpaka nai ati na arudi every day, tulisema zote hivo c Dunia itaisha tu juu watu hawatakuwa wakizaana?
He doesnt hate kids. He has a conscience. He wont sire a kid and watch him suffer, abandon or make him a bastard. He is a man of substance unlike so many men walking the streets with kids they've never even seen. If we had more like him we'd have less single parents less fatherless kids less households headed by women❤❤❤❤️
I understand him, there are some things one goes through when growing up or while raising kids I.e. from pregnancy, giving birth and raising them, you would not wish someone else would go through. I am a victim, nilipata moja nanikatosheka. Sasa nikiona a woman who is pregnant naskia thithi
Then why wouldn’t he be a that “Man“ and make a difference?!He drunk from that cup so he knows the taste. Step in and offer those kids that what he feels they need and what he lacked as a kid? He either needs help or he is seeking for attention💥
I understand this guy fully cz I went through the same things and I protect my family because what I went through I don't want my kids to go through the same.
Steve ako so real.... He is sayingthe truth,most people get their kids when they have not prepared na inabidi tu wawepende.... Lets stop being hypocrites ...
I understand Steve vizuri tena sana 💯💯 I don't understand why people don't gerrit 😂 anyway not everyone will understand you in this journey called life ... thanks Steve for being you , you're rare 👏🏿.
Great show Jeff as always❤..Mimi I support honesty..Steve aliongea what's in his heart..and people got shocked coz they know it's true..we have some husbands who cannot even take care of their own kids wanaona daily..forget wale Wa huko outside ... sio fees , sio chakula, sio nguo Na mtu anataka kuitwa "baba nani😅😢 ...Wacha watu waseme ukweli ...he spoke the things some men think & display everyday...so it's nothing new...hizo massage bado tunapangia kuenda..nothing has changed...I support!Lekshara kabisa in giving his honest opinion !!
Jeremiah 1:5 God says, “Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you; before you were born, I sanctified you; and I ordained you a prophet to the nations.
As a psychologist I can tell u this guy doesn't hate kids. He went through trauma so the sight of a child triggers unhealed wounds. He is insisting on unkept kids ;because it reminds him of his tattered clothes when he was young.The list is endless but I can assure u he can't harm a child but he can find help for the child at a distance. That's my analysis.
I understand Steve ,I love kids but I hate when they cry...I have a daughter n I really want a second born but I'm not ready to hear him or her crying I can't withstand..I'm traumatized...whenever a baby cries I get triggered
He never wore tattered clothes he says he was a smart kid, BT he was hated by extended family and used to receive bad beatings from his mum.He must have felt unwanted
I agree with him when it comes to having kids when you are mentally and financially stable;Bringing kids in this world just for the sake of it/or the society expects you to have kids isn’t ok;plus get kids that you can afford to give a decent life
But Steve anaongea ukweli ni sisi hatunwelewi,kama ningipatana na yeye kabla nilae singepata watoto 😢😢vile nimeteseka na wao, but na hope siku moja Mungu atanikubuka juu siwezi warundisha kwa tumbo😢😢😢😢, Steve I love you so much ❤❤
I'm listening to this guy for the first time ever; he's so mature. People should respect his very mature stand about children. Kids are a huge responsibility. Parenthood is the only career that one can't retire from. Once a parent, forever one!
Then they should get out of the world . Unafueahia wanaje juu ulizaliwa. Si watu wakatae kuzaa tuone utafuata wanawake wagani. Devils excuses. You are not Gkd the giver of life. Dont thjnk it is everyone who is able to sire. Your statements actually tells you are a lier that you love children. You even compare a child na muguruki?. Riu ona niurarumana. So selfish. Mungu tu owe ungigucenjia iF you can protect a child, start helping the orphans.
I think after listening to Steve now for the second time I understand him .....but I hope that he'll fully heal.....out of all the hardship while growing up he can make a good dad
Oh I got your points Steve 😢.I'm single mum of 3 boys....but I have not yet given up of getting real man who will love my handsome boys..Nothing hard for my God. That what I believe 🙏
1 most of first borns can relate 2 i also don't have goosebumps when i see kids 3 most men don't actually love kids 4 the decision of finding money before kids sounds funny the wealth can varnish in blink of an eye 5 When you get loved and love genuinely somethings are Soo natural
Dear Steve, why are you explaining yourself? It is your decision not to want kids, let it remain as it is. I support you, I detest people who can't respect other people's decisions or points of view. Tusisumbuane. Why do we have street kids if every child "has their own bowl"? Steve , don't sire if you can't raise. Stick to that, I'm proud of you.
I can't judge this guy 😢 Most single mothers and fathers their children goes a lot and they make children have trauma from childhood. 2nd how he's saying he don't love kids, ithink people they misunderstood him. If people say the truth maybe wale wana judge Steve wengi wao wametoa mimba bcoz hawakua wame plan kupata mimba
Am a mother and I also hate a child crying mimi ata siezi kaa na mtoi wa mtu i got mine when i was still a baby too she cry i cry Me for now i don't know how i can handle a child I support steve❤
I was shocked to realize I had been dating a man who hates children with passion.He was extremely good until that time I sired a kid.He has never talked to me nor seen his own kid.ti kwega ground nî tofauti
I totally understand and conquer with him.Mimi nilipitia magumu kuliko hayo na Kuna swali family walishindwa kunijibu mpaka wa leo.Wanaulizanga juu nilipendwa time nilianza kuearn,how can they convince/prove to me that If I sire kids and name after them hawatawafanyia kaa Mimi?I have never gotten that answer
Point of correction steve: A baby starts from conception, not embryo. Please stick to massage otherwise stages of child development hushikanishi. Hate is a strong word to use on children considering wewe ni mtoi wa your mum🥺
He spoke about Room for Change.But you cannot Curse your future and Expect it to be blessed.I mean you cannot have your cake and eat it.I have seen many ladies who saif they would not want to get Married until reality hits them and they see the real deal.And they end up regretting their actions or words they did in Ignorance.
Steve does not hate children, Steve hates the idea of children and children suffering. He suffered and he doesn't wish the same for his children. And on that i support him. Because we went through hell we don't have to take children through the same.
This man is speaking sense ,I think our understandings ndo mbayaa
This is it,,,,,, Period
No sense, bro, he lacks emotional intelligence
What understanding, hate is hate, period! As much as each to their own and their own personal decisions, empathy is important . Lack emotional intelligence .
Help me understand.
Hatukatai lkn ameenda sana, hiyo time ni gani anasema ati mtoi atolewe na ndege nanyuki mpaka nai ati na arudi every day, tulisema zote hivo c Dunia itaisha tu juu watu hawatakuwa wakizaana?
We all wish our family or our kids to be better than ourselves.... Steve is very right 👍
He doesnt hate kids. He has a conscience. He wont sire a kid and watch him suffer, abandon or make him a bastard. He is a man of substance unlike so many men walking the streets with kids they've never even seen. If we had more like him we'd have less single parents less fatherless kids less households headed by women❤❤❤❤️
Pls whatever ideas you may raise or advise I think it's too late you could have come earlier before the so called mess
I understand him, there are some things one goes through when growing up or while raising kids I.e. from pregnancy, giving birth and raising them, you would not wish someone else would go through. I am a victim, nilipata moja nanikatosheka. Sasa nikiona a woman who is pregnant naskia thithi
Then why wouldn’t he be a that “Man“ and make a difference?!He drunk from that cup so he knows the taste. Step in and offer those kids that what he feels they need and what he lacked as a kid?
He either needs help or he is seeking for attention💥
He fears responsibility of children.
I understand this guy fully cz I went through the same things and I protect my family because what I went through I don't want my kids to go through the same.
Steve i support you 100% being real ndio fom
Steve ako so real....
He is sayingthe truth,most people get their kids when they have not prepared na inabidi tu wawepende....
Lets stop being hypocrites ...
Jeff i like your professionalism and Steve is a vibe thank you beautiful people,👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
God,,give your son wisdom,and may your endless love reach out and open his eyes.
Steve you have explained well akili kichwani mwaoo❤❤❤❤
yes
Kudos Jeff! Solomonic wisdom with a very sober information 🙏🙏
sawa
I understand Steve vizuri tena sana 💯💯 I don't understand why people don't gerrit 😂 anyway not everyone will understand you in this journey called life ... thanks Steve for being you , you're rare 👏🏿.
Childhood trauma
Ûramuelewa tondû wîna tûindo twaku; ithuî athîni nî ithuî tûtanyitaga.😊
@@waridim9249nii uyu dingimuelewa, mudu uthuire ciana mwitigire todu no orage mwana wa mudu.
Waooh you are talking so much sense. Thx no Ngai ni Ngai maùndu ini mothe.
Great show Jeff as always❤..Mimi I support honesty..Steve aliongea what's in his heart..and people got shocked coz they know it's true..we have some husbands who cannot even take care of their own kids wanaona daily..forget wale Wa huko outside ... sio fees , sio chakula, sio nguo Na mtu anataka kuitwa "baba nani😅😢 ...Wacha watu waseme ukweli ...he spoke the things some men think & display everyday...so it's nothing new...hizo massage bado tunapangia kuenda..nothing has changed...I support!Lekshara kabisa in giving his honest opinion !!
❤️❤️❤️ Thecha njaaaa I love you keep it up. From south Sudan juba 🙏
Good Steve I support you on bring children when ready so abstain....
sawa
I need stone's for foundation but i support this Man 💯.let learn to respect other people's decisions 😊
Thank you Jeff for bringing this guy again, atleast ame fanya tumuelewe vizuri, he's so real and sincere ❤
Jeremiah 1:5 God says, “Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you; before you were born, I sanctified you; and I ordained you a prophet to the nations.
Siwez choka kusikiza steve ❤❤❤❤❤❤coz hakuna kuboeka he is a vibe
Steve is real, and has explained his stand, get kids when you can be able to provide for them, ata Mimi mtoto mchafu is a no no no sishiki ng’o.
weeee sawa
I love the courage....manzeee the standard iko safi
Like father like son
This man is real pia mimi spendi watoto that is why nasemanga nkijipata na mimba ya pili natoa coz i have the ability to raise only one kid
Ata mseme aje...steve to me is talking sense and i can never judge him at all at all.
Kuna vitu i relate but all in all God is still God
TY
No, you can't hate and be compassionate to children at the same time. The guy sounds so painfully wounded.
Heal Steve, heal Baba.
Wewe heal kwanza😂😂
Labda ni shoga, with those studs
It's good to be real.💯 Understanding you well njamba ya Wamûyû.
Gwîtîya equals to "respect oneself."
Big up man!
Big up
Some amount of egocentrism but the day you get your child. ..you will love with passion
Steve is so real, far much better kuliko hawa deadbeats wamejaa huku, if you are not ready for kids, don't have them. Simple!
Sawa sawa
Honest, no hypocrisy true to himself..let’s learn to respect different views of lifestyle. Better than irresponsible parenting!!!
Pure truth......demure for demure's✌🏿
As a psychologist I can tell u this guy doesn't hate kids. He went through trauma so the sight of a child triggers unhealed wounds. He is insisting on unkept kids ;because it reminds him of his tattered clothes when he was young.The list is endless but I can assure u he can't harm a child but he can find help for the child at a distance. That's my analysis.
Thanks for that analysis
I understand Steve ,I love kids but I hate when they cry...I have a daughter n I really want a second born but I'm not ready to hear him or her crying I can't withstand..I'm traumatized...whenever a baby cries I get triggered
He never wore tattered clothes he says he was a smart kid, BT he was hated by extended family and used to receive bad beatings from his mum.He must have felt unwanted
I agree with you, he has unresolved issues from his childhood
The word hate has defined who he really is.very proud He also a narcist
I now fully understand Steve.. He don't hate kids... He hates to bring kids on earth to suffer...
Noo Jeff.. Your kids should never suffer since u suffered... For this reason am in Qatar to give them the very best
This guy is nice I can listen to him for hours
True kabisa. Gd discussion.
Be strong kahii we love ❤️ you
I agree with him when it comes to having kids when you are mentally and financially stable;Bringing kids in this world just for the sake of it/or the society expects you to have kids isn’t ok;plus get kids that you can afford to give a decent life
When you think you are standing, check the ground. When you think you are stable, things can happen.
This guy is so real
People pretend sana, I think people should learn how to mind their own business, better a real person than a hypocrite who laughs with you
But Steve anaongea ukweli ni sisi hatunwelewi,kama ningipatana na yeye kabla nilae singepata watoto 😢😢vile nimeteseka na wao, but na hope siku moja Mungu atanikubuka juu siwezi warundisha kwa tumbo😢😢😢😢, Steve I love you so much ❤❤
tuko kimoja sis sioni makosa yake kama wangu naweza wameza saa ii wangekua kwa tumbo
I'm listening to this guy for the first time ever; he's so mature. People should respect his very mature stand about children. Kids are a huge responsibility. Parenthood is the only career that one can't retire from. Once a parent, forever one!
Steve huongea ukweri ata Mimi na m support 😊💯
Not everyone should have kids, He is speaking his mind and should be allowed to do so freely. His opinion should be respected.
I totally understand this guy. I prefer people to stay away from parentalhood than sire kids to despise.
Then they should get out of the world . Unafueahia wanaje juu ulizaliwa. Si watu wakatae kuzaa tuone utafuata wanawake wagani. Devils excuses. You are not Gkd the giver of life. Dont thjnk it is everyone who is able to sire. Your statements actually tells you are a lier that you love children. You even compare a child na muguruki?. Riu ona niurarumana. So selfish. Mungu tu owe ungigucenjia iF you can protect a child, start helping the orphans.
Onaugie standards, nouri bataatara andu. Acio maragutongia niaria maciaritwo na maraciarwo .
True not fair bringing a kid in this world,whom you cannot takea.
Na akikuja bahati mbaya utamtupa
If you listen to this guy keenly,, you will understand him. He is being honest.
Poor boy😢😢😢😢.i now understand him.He doesn't hate kids but kid's suffering 😢😢
I agree with Steve,watu ndio wanaunderstand differently.Haja gani kuleta watoto duniani wateseke.
Onani ndingienda kagio riu kia mùndù....I want to live my life now...period ☹️
I think after listening to Steve now for the second time I understand him .....but I hope that he'll fully heal.....out of all the hardship while growing up he can make a good dad
Oh I got your points Steve 😢.I'm single mum of 3 boys....but I have not yet given up of getting real man who will love my handsome boys..Nothing hard for my God. That what I believe 🙏
1 most of first borns can relate
2 i also don't have goosebumps when i see kids
3 most men don't actually love kids
4 the decision of finding money before kids sounds funny the wealth can varnish in blink of an eye
5 When you get loved and love genuinely somethings are Soo natural
It's not true, men love children more than anything..
They don't love kids yet they were/are kids😅
Steve is very honest,
hii interview imekua fupi aje😅 i agree with steve 100% i wish people would be real and stop being hypocritical hypocrites
Dear Steve, why are you explaining yourself? It is your decision not to want kids, let it remain as it is. I support you, I detest people who can't respect other people's decisions or points of view. Tusisumbuane. Why do we have street kids if every child "has their own bowl"? Steve , don't sire if you can't raise. Stick to that, I'm proud of you.
He is just real
I support your words,,✔️✔️✔️❤
Let's call the truth truth,he's real
Steve bringing a conversation that African society is not ready for..
Steve is suffering from OCD.He has fear of contamination and dirt.This is a symptom of OCD.
I love Steve because he is real and he talks sense
I relate to Steve 💯 I am recovering from trauma. Cucu witu erirwo atherukie anyue thufu ,,,,Ngai no mwega!
May God heal your heart. Kuaria ma Ngai no we gutire ungi. May God be forever praise and may those who spoke these words be put to shame.
Steve you are so real.
sawa sawa
We should reflect where we've been in order to perfect where we are going 🙏🙏
Steve you have a point i stand with you
Steve i like your standards ... i understand childhood trauma
Plz Jeff, I wish do a platical thing to we get him Well.
I can't judge this guy 😢 Most single mothers and fathers their children goes a lot and they make children have trauma from childhood. 2nd how he's saying he don't love kids, ithink people they misunderstood him. If people say the truth maybe wale wana judge Steve wengi wao wametoa mimba bcoz hawakua wame plan kupata mimba
I understand Steve and his stand . One needs to listen to him without this African and religious mentality and you will get him .
I just like the way u talk direct n ur not changing ur story 🧐
From what Steve Is saying I totally agree with him koz me too sipendi watoi wachafu na wako na makamasi,but napenda watoi
He is just real. So many people out there lie alot how they love children but they are deadbeats.
Sawa
Kabisa monicah una msikiza with a positive mind see it in a different way
Let him live his life. If he doesn't like it, so be it. Wacha atengeneze wanawake.
sawa sawa
Am a mother and I also hate a child crying mimi ata siezi kaa na mtoi wa mtu i got mine when i was still a baby too she cry i cry
Me for now i don't know how i can handle a child
I support steve❤
Steve is an honest man, he is wounded and in the process of healing, time is the best physician.
Wakaniaru is just perfect…I hope he has read UNPLUGGED…1,2,3….I just wish he reads them kama bado
I was shocked to realize I had been dating a man who hates children with passion.He was extremely good until that time I sired a kid.He has never talked to me nor seen his own kid.ti kwega ground nî tofauti
Anything conceivable is too old to die,so life start at conception
I would want to know the background of Steve but he is very authentic
Really support this guy he is honest
I support you Steve💯 keep it up bro❤
I support Steve 💯
He's not afraid to talk what most fear
Me and Steve same WhatsApp group 😊 I love this conversation
👍👍Mimi pia we are 3 now
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I totally understand and conquer with him.Mimi nilipitia magumu kuliko hayo na Kuna swali family walishindwa kunijibu mpaka wa leo.Wanaulizanga juu nilipendwa time nilianza kuearn,how can they convince/prove to me that If I sire kids and name after them hawatawafanyia kaa Mimi?I have never gotten that answer
The context is clear. You are right. Who likes dirty kids, hungry kids, suffering kids? No one.
I support you.
Point of correction steve: A baby starts from conception, not embryo. Please stick to massage otherwise stages of child development hushikanishi. Hate is a strong word to use on children considering wewe ni mtoi wa your mum🥺
I live in Europe and many people don't kids for they say they won't be able to to take for the kid fully
He is talking facts 💯 pelekeni makasiriko yenu nahuko
Enyewe hii roho ya "I don't care" is real!!!
Nìtwahinga atatu... Steve,Niì na Ngai tondù tùmbìtwo na mùhianìre wake
weeee
He spoke about Room for Change.But you cannot Curse your future and Expect it to be blessed.I mean you cannot have your cake and eat it.I have seen many ladies who saif they would not want to get Married until reality hits them and they see the real deal.And they end up regretting their actions or words they did in Ignorance.
Yes
Uou must have a history. Nonginya teire andu kuria ngai aturutite. By telling them they will be able to appreciate what God has given them.
Truth be told many dead beats fathers hate their kids and Steve was just bold enough to speak himself out
Sure Wakaniaru am here because of you,.
Huyu kijana ajielewi mara anasema,"Ndingienda mwana wakwa akigerera maria ndagereire"meaning wakati ukifika atapata watoto
I support him kuliko uzae alafu utese mtoi ama uanze kuachia watu wenu majukumu yako ...
Nice conversation.
Steve does not hate children, Steve hates the idea of children and children suffering. He suffered and he doesn't wish the same for his children.
And on that i support him. Because we went through hell we don't have to take children through the same.
Mimi sioni haja yakusikiliza huyu jamaa 🙆 rekei theshe jaa 💃
@@Kennedy-dj4ktno pride is there he is expressing himself
Mmm atazeeka tumuone@@PurityNyakio-l4v
Sawa theca out basi 😂😂😂
@@veronicawanjiru6258 theshire jaa tene tene💃
I don't support him.
I understand you steve, ur talking sense
this man is very right 💯i agree
This man is making sence but society dont understand him he real and he has point