I love your perspective of self love is not judging the ego but accepting the ego. Because the ego helps protect us so it has its place also. Love the ego too! 🤯
Girrrrl you are the TRUTH. Another amazing video that I really felt in my heart (says the golfball in my throat 💔❤️🔥) how you do that in such a brief tidbit! Much love to you, cosmic friend ☯️🕉️
Right, something happened that I knew would happen but I still let it happen and now it hurts. My ego is trying really hard to point the blame at the self. It's really difficult to separate from it to view whatever happened objectively. When meditating, it almost feels like I'm viewing my body and its pain from the outside. Weird experience and your video helped me understand. Thank you for an amazing video as always ❤
Hope you don't mind, I just shared this video with a writer on Medium. Also, I will be quoting your book in my next article on TFs there, which I have made good headway on and anticipate publication this month. I will share the draft link with you once it is complete. Great video!! ❤
This might seem random but... I CANNOT stop obsessing and ruminating and I have absolutely nobody to talk to about this and I need to get it off my chest (and I'm also willing to read responses, if anyone feels called to respond...) I had a HORRIBLE therapist HORRIBLE HORRIBLE HORRIBLE the worst but here's the thing... it's twofold: 1) he's wildly successful (and I can't for the life of me figure out why or how) 2) I saw him for almost all of 2023, I was so traumatized when I went to see him, that I just kept going, because I had nowhere else to turn... In the end, he really fucked me up. Instead of helping me, he traumatized me further. It's over 7 months now, and I can't stop obsessing over how he's traumatized me, and all the money I wasted, etc. etc. I can file a formal complaint. But the process seems long and arduous, and brings me no particular benefits... It's just that I can use my voice, and he can potentially get reprimanded... But if I do this I have to do it soon... I don't know what to do? Any thoughts, anyone?
Thank you for your videos Alexx! I’ve read your book and wondered: Is it possible to meet your twin without having been in a long term romantic karmic or soulmate relationship? My karmics have come in the form of superficial trysts and my soulmates come as my best friends. Much love!
I have somewhat of a related question. I’m wondering your take on how and if the spiritual journey mimics or parallels human attachment theory. Could it be argued that what we experience is an understanding and healing of insecure attachment into secure attachment, or detachment? Are both “camps” (spiritual vs social/behavioral science) talking about very similar things? Of course, attachment theory sits in a relational context, and one could make the case that the spiritual journey encompasses all three components (ie, individual, relational and communal)? But I can’t help but think that there are some overlapping ideas and concepts between the two. I’d love your thoughts!
@@wearethesamenergy I’d love that so much!! I’ve been feeling like there are similarities between the DM on his journey and typical avoidant tendencies of defined Dismissive and Fearful Avoidants. DF can also exhibit insecure or anxious tendencies until she disengages from the other and attunes back to herself, which leads her to embody a secure attachment and I’d argue detachment. And both share a similar overarching core wound of anxiety (the core wounds you describe are much more specific but I do think anxiety could be an umbrella for all). Ultimately, I’m fascinated by the relationship between the spiritual and science and am wondering if we can indeed plot the spiritual twin flame journey onto a social sciences theory. Thanks for replying! I love your content and perspectives. I’m pretty sure I’ve watched every video you’ve created. Thank you for the work you’re doing!
@@kat5085 And thank you for your support! I actually read all the attachment theory books when I was earlier in my separations as well. So I think doing a video linking the spirituality with the psychology is a great idea!
Beautifully kind and wise with this lesson. Suffering with my Meniere’s, I think I will need to focus more upon this lesson… Alexx, do you think your videos you mentioned would help me?
@@wearethesamenergy Give insight in dealing with my situation? Still trying to understand the situation. I gain insights but the ego still feels nothing has changed in the 3D. Fawk, did I just realize the damn ego is seeking validation… Imma silly rabbit sometimes…
It's the perfect timing I have started to watch your videos.. I am from India... After watching your videos only, 😊I can resonate my true feelings regarding this journey.. And finally able to release some misconception I hold before .. Is it possible to make a video " what is energetically chasing in separation?? Is it wrong to (missing DM / Thinking / Visualizing /daily affirmation about his come back)?
I would love a topic on Twin Flames and Jealousy/Insecurity. Im curious if its normal to be jealous of a twins already existing friendships with the opposite sex? Is that a thing that could potentially be experienced on a twin flame journey?
Wow .. this is amazing .
Thank you so much for putting it out there. So grateful for your message❤
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I love your perspective of self love is not judging the ego but accepting the ego. Because the ego helps protect us so it has its place also. Love the ego too! 🤯
There are many aspects of self love. Self care is one aspect, and self talk is another. They are not mutually exclusive or better than the other.
Mind, Body, and Spirit. Taking care of all of these are expressions of self love. And that includes caring for the body.
Thank you for your message. It is very encouraging.
Girrrrl you are the TRUTH. Another amazing video that I really felt in my heart (says the golfball in my throat 💔❤️🔥) how you do that in such a brief tidbit! Much love to you, cosmic friend ☯️🕉️
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Right, something happened that I knew would happen but I still let it happen and now it hurts. My ego is trying really hard to point the blame at the self. It's really difficult to separate from it to view whatever happened objectively. When meditating, it almost feels like I'm viewing my body and its pain from the outside. Weird experience and your video helped me understand.
Thank you for an amazing video as always ❤
I sooo look forward to your weekly videos!! Thank you for all you do!! 🙏❤️
Hope you don't mind, I just shared this video with a writer on Medium. Also, I will be quoting your book in my next article on TFs there, which I have made good headway on and anticipate publication this month. I will share the draft link with you once it is complete. Great video!! ❤
Thank you! 💜🙏
This might seem random
but...
I CANNOT
stop obsessing and ruminating
and I have absolutely nobody to talk to about this
and I need to get it off my chest
(and I'm also willing to read responses,
if anyone feels called to respond...)
I had a HORRIBLE therapist
HORRIBLE HORRIBLE HORRIBLE
the worst
but here's the thing...
it's twofold:
1) he's wildly successful
(and I can't for the life of me figure out why or how)
2) I saw him for almost all of 2023,
I was so traumatized when I went to see him,
that I just kept going,
because I had nowhere else to turn...
In the end, he really fucked me up.
Instead of helping me, he traumatized me further.
It's over 7 months now,
and I can't stop obsessing over how he's traumatized me,
and all the money I wasted, etc. etc.
I can file a formal complaint.
But the process seems long and arduous,
and brings me no particular benefits...
It's just that I can use my voice,
and he can potentially get reprimanded...
But if I do this I have to do it soon...
I don't know what to do?
Any thoughts, anyone?
Is it possible to bypass the running and chasing in a twin flame dynamic? Like heal while alone without breaking up?
Only once Union with the Self is reached. Prior to that, no, it follows this pattern
Thank you for your videos Alexx! I’ve read your book and wondered: Is it possible to meet your twin without having been in a long term romantic karmic or soulmate relationship? My karmics have come in the form of superficial trysts and my soulmates come as my best friends. Much love!
Of course!
I have somewhat of a related question. I’m wondering your take on how and if the spiritual journey mimics or parallels human attachment theory. Could it be argued that what we experience is an understanding and healing of insecure attachment into secure attachment, or detachment? Are both “camps” (spiritual vs social/behavioral science) talking about very similar things? Of course, attachment theory sits in a relational context, and one could make the case that the spiritual journey encompasses all three components (ie, individual, relational and communal)? But I can’t help but think that there are some overlapping ideas and concepts between the two. I’d love your thoughts!
I actually like this idea for a video topic at some point!
@@wearethesamenergy I’d love that so much!! I’ve been feeling like there are similarities between the DM on his journey and typical avoidant tendencies of defined Dismissive and Fearful Avoidants. DF can also exhibit insecure or anxious tendencies until she disengages from the other and attunes back to herself, which leads her to embody a secure attachment and I’d argue detachment. And both share a similar overarching core wound of anxiety (the core wounds you describe are much more specific but I do think anxiety could be an umbrella for all). Ultimately, I’m fascinated by the relationship between the spiritual and science and am wondering if we can indeed plot the spiritual twin flame journey onto a social sciences theory. Thanks for replying! I love your content and perspectives. I’m pretty sure I’ve watched every video you’ve created. Thank you for the work you’re doing!
@@kat5085 And thank you for your support! I actually read all the attachment theory books when I was earlier in my separations as well. So I think doing a video linking the spirituality with the psychology is a great idea!
Beautifully kind and wise with this lesson. Suffering with my Meniere’s, I think I will need to focus more upon this lesson…
Alexx, do you think your videos you mentioned would help me?
The videos I mentioned would help you what?
@@wearethesamenergy Give insight in dealing with my situation? Still trying to understand the situation. I gain insights but the ego still feels nothing has changed in the 3D. Fawk, did I just realize the damn ego is seeking validation… Imma silly rabbit sometimes…
In July, I'm going to have two videos up based on this, and another one later in the year.
It's the perfect timing I have started to watch your videos.. I am from India... After watching your videos only, 😊I can resonate my true feelings regarding this journey.. And finally able to release some misconception I hold before .. Is it possible to make a video " what is energetically chasing in separation?? Is it wrong to (missing DM / Thinking / Visualizing /daily affirmation about his come back)?
I would suggest reading my book, because I talk about all of these in depth
I have just placed the order ❤
@@RitzArt888 Thank you for your support!
I would love a topic on Twin Flames and Jealousy/Insecurity. Im curious if its normal to be jealous of a twins already existing friendships with the opposite sex? Is that a thing that could potentially be experienced on a twin flame journey?
"What is a Third Party Situation?" and you might want to watch my video on "The 3 Core Karmic Lessons"
How to get in touch with you ? I have so many things to share and discuss with you. It's really overwhelming to be in a twin flame connection
I no longer do consultations, unfortunately