as an afab nonbinary person i love wearing skirts bc theyre comfy and cute, but i always feel guilty for wearing them, my brain will try to convince myself im dressing "too fem" so i really appreciate the inclusion of a look with a skirt here!!! anyone can wear skirts!!!!!!
I love wearing skirts too as an afab enby, but my main issue is that T has made me literal sasquatch so my main issue is the fear of how others might react seeing my massive hairy man legs sticking out from under a miniskirt 😂
perfect timing lol my first day of school is tomorrow edit: it was my first day in uni so i was stressed as f but people are super chill it’s soooo great! plus there’s only 80 ppl in my department instead of the 200+ in other departments so we just all act like a big family lol :)) i feel like i’m gonna have fun there. thanks for the support too y’all here’s a hug to every person who started school here hope it goes well for y’all 🫂🌈✨
I love your outfits! My school doesn't have a super strict dress code so we can wear (almost) whatever we want as long as it's not offensive or showing too much skin. Personally, I like pairing blazers with a bunch of different shirts and matching different styles of clothing. You'll never guess what could actually look really good until you try it! I don't know if you're a hat person or not but hats can be a great addition to any outfit as well.
Love how your hair is slowing becoming a mullet it’s really a look Also I entered third year of college starting with a month of internship and had my first panic attack :D this year is way more stressful love it
It’s the dead poets society reference for me. Loved all of the fits and cannot wait to start wearing more androgynous clothes to give me some gender euphoria
honestly as soon as i saw the “color awakening” outfit, i immediately thought omg thats squidward. i love it so much and will be using pretty much all of these :)
Ahh, school. Joined Student Gov. and it was the best decision I've ever made, I adopted the seniors as my older siblings but they don't know it yet (they can not pat my head and get away with it) ;) Classes are good, procrastination is absolutely destroying me but we don't talk about that Hope you guys are having fun in school too!
I love your videos! You actually inspire me to love my body and be confident despite my dysphoria. I feel like I can be handsome and feel good with my little love handles and my hips.. I know this feeling won't last long, but I love that feeling, it's incredible, and I want to feel like that for ever! So thank you so much for that
Recently I’ve been thinking about my gender, I’ve never been the “traditional man” and I’ve thought that’s just my personality. Never really felt 100% comfortable with being a male. Was called gay a lot and thought it was a sexuality thing but I’m not gay. So I thought that maybe I’m just not 100% male, but I don’t think I’m non-binary, I fell this in between of male and non binary and started using he/they. I was wondering if these are valid pronouns and a true identity of gender
Here's some identitys that could work for you, but remember, you don't have to label yourself or find yourself out quickly: demiboy: partly male, but not fully and goes under the non-binary umbrella, and that's between being partly male and non-binary in between. BoyFlux: the male side going by % like how gender fluid does, example: one day you may feel 15% male, the next day you may feel 20% male or so on, and that also goes under the non-binary umbrella. BiGender: meaning 2 genders such as: male and non-binary, or 2 other genders like Demi-boy and non-binary, or Demi-boy and boy flux or whatnot. There's so many other genders out there to explore and see what one fits you, I hope this helped! :)
aaaaa all these outfits are such a vibe 🥺 esp the last one.. I started sixth form two weeks ago (a British thing, age 16-18 doing a-levels) and its been kinda cool so far... the workload is piling on hella fast but I only have to study three subjects and I enjoy all of them so honestly its chill. I also get free periods throughout the day to do homework or eat or whatever I feel like :) unfortunately we have a somewhat smart dress code, but I could get away with the dead-poets-esque one if I switched the jeans for trousers 😌 definitely gonna attempt it
I have been back in college for 2 weeks now, and my computer science classes are ramping up. i'm also in a classics program so i have to do a ton of reading. there's a lot to think about. i loved the video!
IRIS!!! Pls I need to know where u got that gold spiked chain u were wearing throughout the video. I LOVE IT!!! For me, I transferred schools this year, and I'm so glad I did! The social anxiety has been bad, but I'm working on it lol. Love the vid
Loved the video once again :) Also my first week of school I remained in complete denial. I don't want college to start again and I'm so unmotivated. So yeah going to focus more on taking enough time of and taking care of myself. If you are really stressed about school don't forget to also still take enough time off! :D
Honestly, when it comes to school, I’ve been pretty productive but stressed at the same time bc I gotta know what my responsibilities are. not only that, the homework is a lot different than it was in high school. And I go to college !
Been done school for awhile, but looking back--it's the ultimate time management exercise. You have to weigh out prioritizing what is actually important to your own personal development and filler work because~ academia. Where do I want to assign my A's to D's? There is more work than available time.
I just watched this video lol Im in college rn too, and its going really well, its crazy how the past 9 months have flown by. Great video as always, love the outfit tips. Also if you have any outfit ideas for Pride I would really appreciate it x
i was gonna say my school year is going great because i graduated in 2019 and i haven't missed it since. i was so tired of college by the time i graduated i didn't even go to my graduation because i didn't HAVE to go for once in my college career so i took advantage of that. but thinking about it, i have actually started missing college. getting a 4 year degree sucks because it pushes you to your limits as far as school work goes (and i was an art major so i can't even imagine what it's like for like, stem majors for example). i was so tired of it that i've thanked my lucky stars every day since i graduated that i don't have to fucking go to school. but now i'm starting to miss it. i miss the obligation to go to class. i miss studying and getting validation for my hard work in the for of a good grade. i miss going to lunch with my friends, and just generally being around people all day. i miss house parties, but maybe that's a symptom of covid. it's definitely too much pressure especially for an 18 year old, but if it wasn't such a hefty workload (and if it was free) i would go back in a heartbeat.
im am so excited that i found a nonbinary creator that doesnt just to commentary i love commentary channels but a lot of lifestyle channels are cis women and im like cool but relatable?
i’ve been in school for three weeks and im dying - i’m an RA and that’s been horrible and all of my friends have had mental breakdowns already. i’m so tired 😳
hdqhfiehciebyskskd I love your androgynous lookbooks! Thank you so much for this, you inspire me, to show myself how I really am.. I'm still closeted when it comes to my gender, but I felt more and more encouraged to tell people about it, since I started watching your videos. Thank you so much, Ily
I may have a school uniform that makes me look like I’m attending a funeral everyday, but I’ll keep these outfits in mind for the occasional non-school uniform day!
My school year just started, but I am already overwhelmed with hw. Also I spent like a year.5 not being precived by the cis, and now I am again so my social dysphoria is skyrocketing
It's me again, because I'm obsessed with your first outfit. I wanna copy it with shorts and a top that's not cropped (it maybe won't look as good as yours but I don't feel like wearing crop top (yet ?? :p) and other kind of shoes.. so i'm really sorry to copy you but thank you because you encourage me to experiment with my style :)
My freshman year of community college is surprisingly easy and I’m not used to having so much free time and freedom. I loved all these outfits!!! do you have any advice on deciding on what docs to buy I’m stuck bw the 1460s and the 1461s?
we have uniforms for school and i wanna look as androgynous as possible because my friends are transphobic and homophobic and i really wanna make them mad by being myself i am so happy to find lots or inspiration on these outfits!
today is my birthday and so i’m very happy you posted this today :) edit: schools been going ok! i’m really tired and kinda stressed, but we’ve been getting through.
ok- who am i kidding, I would be the person choking on their apple juice being like 'cute guy *cOugHs oBnoXiOusLy* under tree *stArtS tO cHokE* reading animal farm *cHokiNg iNtEnsiFiEs* '
as an afab nonbinary person i love wearing skirts bc theyre comfy and cute, but i always feel guilty for wearing them, my brain will try to convince myself im dressing "too fem" so i really appreciate the inclusion of a look with a skirt here!!! anyone can wear skirts!!!!!!
skirts are so andro!!!!!! hehehe
I love wearing skirts too as an afab enby, but my main issue is that T has made me literal sasquatch so my main issue is the fear of how others might react seeing my massive hairy man legs sticking out from under a miniskirt 😂
Omg sammmmeee!
@@mrselfdestruct7605 I think that would make it look even more amazing, Idk I like the contrast between the cute skirt and the masculine hairy legs
Me too! Same with dresses as well!
“Who’s that guy, reading animal farm, under a tree?” 😵💫 love this quote
hopefully this will help me attain my goal of looking like a lesbian vampire 😩💃🏽
It’s one year later….how did it go?
To everyone who's struggling with school: I feel you, you're strong, hang in there❤
Thanks, needed that
@@lincymoonen228 yes I have, thank you
Do you mean hang literally or...
Cause I just might 😃
@@_qdluv4514 NO, keep going, please don't hurt yourself. Even if it's a joke, hope you're okay
perfect timing lol my first day of school is tomorrow
edit: it was my first day in uni so i was stressed as f but people are super chill it’s soooo great! plus there’s only 80 ppl in my department instead of the 200+ in other departments so we just all act like a big family lol :)) i feel like i’m gonna have fun there.
thanks for the support too y’all here’s a hug to every person who started school here hope it goes well for y’all 🫂🌈✨
i gotchu bestieeee
sameeee
literally it's like the most perfect time
mine started last week 💀
good luck!! hope it goes well!
Yesss, I’m so excited. Your fashion sense is amazing! I’d literally wear every single one of the outfits you have shown us so far!
🥰🥰🥰🥰
i have to wear a uniform for school but i'm still taking NOTES!
very good 😌
I love your outfits! My school doesn't have a super strict dress code so we can wear (almost) whatever we want as long as it's not offensive or showing too much skin. Personally, I like pairing blazers with a bunch of different shirts and matching different styles of clothing. You'll never guess what could actually look really good until you try it! I don't know if you're a hat person or not but hats can be a great addition to any outfit as well.
From your comment I just know that you have amazing style :))
@@samanthaleaf Aww thanks! I’m not sure if I really have a style though, it just consists of random outfits that have entirely different vibes.
@@zalamazu I can relate, but skirts and blazers?? Thats sick. Unfortunately I don't have any blazers.
I love this outfits so much, I wish I had the confidence to dress like this-
i believe in you!!!!
Love how your hair is slowing becoming a mullet it’s really a look
Also I entered third year of college starting with a month of internship and had my first panic attack :D this year is way more stressful love it
It’s the dead poets society reference for me. Loved all of the fits and cannot wait to start wearing more androgynous clothes to give me some gender euphoria
yesss
yess this series is how I started watching you and your style is so gorgeous
awe yayyyyy
honestly as soon as i saw the “color awakening” outfit, i immediately thought omg thats squidward. i love it so much and will be using pretty much all of these :)
i can already tell this is gonna be so cool!!! I wish I could wear my own clothes to school but I live the uk so I have to wear a uniform 🥲
I love this series it helps me so much and everything is so freaking adorable
Your hair gets cooler and cooler
ur literally my biggest style inspiration ty for making this ily
🥰💛
Ahh, school. Joined Student Gov. and it was the best decision I've ever made, I adopted the seniors as my older siblings but they don't know it yet (they can not pat my head and get away with it) ;)
Classes are good, procrastination is absolutely destroying me but we don't talk about that
Hope you guys are having fun in school too!
Iris!! I’ve already incorporated a lot of your andro styling tips in the outfits I’ve been wearing to college and I’m feelin really good
hmm looks like i’ll need to go shopping again 😩
YEAHHHH going shopping next weekend!! about to steal all ur outfits bebe 😼
😈
I love your videos! You actually inspire me to love my body and be confident despite my dysphoria. I feel like I can be handsome and feel good with my little love handles and my hips.. I know this feeling won't last long, but I love that feeling, it's incredible, and I want to feel like that for ever!
So thank you so much for that
i am so glad!!!
Recently I’ve been thinking about my gender, I’ve never been the “traditional man” and I’ve thought that’s just my personality. Never really felt 100% comfortable with being a male. Was called gay a lot and thought it was a sexuality thing but I’m not gay. So I thought that maybe I’m just not 100% male, but I don’t think I’m non-binary, I fell this in between of male and non binary and started using he/they. I was wondering if these are valid pronouns and a true identity of gender
Of course it’s valid, you’re valid!
maybe you like the identity demiboy!
☺😊
Here's some identitys that could work for you, but remember, you don't have to label yourself or find yourself out quickly: demiboy: partly male, but not fully and goes under the non-binary umbrella, and that's between being partly male and non-binary in between. BoyFlux: the male side going by % like how gender fluid does, example: one day you may feel 15% male, the next day you may feel 20% male or so on, and that also goes under the non-binary umbrella. BiGender: meaning 2 genders such as: male and non-binary, or 2 other genders like Demi-boy and non-binary, or Demi-boy and boy flux or whatnot. There's so many other genders out there to explore and see what one fits you, I hope this helped! :)
Of course! You are valid 😊😊
im in my first year of highschool and its going really really well :)
aaaaa all these outfits are such a vibe 🥺 esp the last one.. I started sixth form two weeks ago (a British thing, age 16-18 doing a-levels) and its been kinda cool so far... the workload is piling on hella fast but I only have to study three subjects and I enjoy all of them so honestly its chill. I also get free periods throughout the day to do homework or eat or whatever I feel like :) unfortunately we have a somewhat smart dress code, but I could get away with the dead-poets-esque one if I switched the jeans for trousers 😌 definitely gonna attempt it
omg you are so lucky, here in my country we only study until 16, now I am 15 and next year I will go back to school :")
WOOOO YA BABY THATS WHAT IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THATS WHAT ITS ALL ABOUT WOOOOOOOOO
😎😈
i just absolutely love your vibe, holy smokes !!!
🤩
I love your videos !! They inspire my outfits so much !!
I’M SO EXCITED, YOU’VE INSPIRED ME SO MUCH
I already like your video. It makes me so confident !
I have been back in college for 2 weeks now, and my computer science classes are ramping up. i'm also in a classics program so i have to do a ton of reading. there's a lot to think about.
i loved the video!
Thanks to you I actually started dressing how I like for a week and now I love dressing like that in I feel so nice!!
It's not just u, I am totally overwhelmed by the workload and it's only the second week of school for me
IRIS!!! Pls I need to know where u got that gold spiked chain u were wearing throughout the video. I LOVE IT!!! For me, I transferred schools this year, and I'm so glad I did! The social anxiety has been bad, but I'm working on it lol. Love the vid
Loved the video once again :)
Also my first week of school I remained in complete denial. I don't want college to start again and I'm so unmotivated. So yeah going to focus more on taking enough time of and taking care of myself.
If you are really stressed about school don't forget to also still take enough time off! :D
just in time for my first day of senior year 😩💖
Wow. I love it. For somebody who doesn't know what to wear. Your wearing all my insecurities that some how got away. Slay
Been in classes for a month now, needed this vid, thank you
Honestly, when it comes to school, I’ve been pretty productive but stressed at the same time bc I gotta know what my responsibilities are. not only that, the homework is a lot different than it was in high school. And I go to college !
Been done school for awhile, but looking back--it's the ultimate time management exercise. You have to weigh out prioritizing what is actually important to your own personal development and filler work because~ academia.
Where do I want to assign my A's to D's? There is more work than available time.
Birthday is coming up, gonna go shopping
🥳
Happy birthday in advance
Lol the animal farm story
I love your hair so much, it's so fun and comfy looking!
me pausing every 2 seconds for pictures to steal for my hairdresser
Also try a suit top, a tennis skirt and a tucked polo shirt underneath it slaps
this is really random but the last fit gave me marauders vibes and I love it lol
i love your style so much! those videos help me a lot thank you :)
being a closeted mtf trans who is suffering from gender dysphoria, this helped give some ideas using a skirt a trans boy gave me and ur ideas, thanks!
love some of the outfits, though I personally like to use men's undershirts matched with a red flannel shirt, but liked some of your ideas here.
i can’t wear any of these to school bc the dress code is quite strict but these are great to wear out of school
I just watched this video lol Im in college rn too, and its going really well, its crazy how the past 9 months have flown by. Great video as always, love the outfit tips. Also if you have any outfit ideas for Pride I would really appreciate it x
Yay!! I love your look books sm
iris. homecoming outfit ideas.
pls.
i beg.
unless you already have something similar-esque to that. pls help iris
thanks love u ur great mwah
i was gonna say my school year is going great because i graduated in 2019 and i haven't missed it since. i was so tired of college by the time i graduated i didn't even go to my graduation because i didn't HAVE to go for once in my college career so i took advantage of that. but thinking about it, i have actually started missing college. getting a 4 year degree sucks because it pushes you to your limits as far as school work goes (and i was an art major so i can't even imagine what it's like for like, stem majors for example). i was so tired of it that i've thanked my lucky stars every day since i graduated that i don't have to fucking go to school. but now i'm starting to miss it. i miss the obligation to go to class. i miss studying and getting validation for my hard work in the for of a good grade. i miss going to lunch with my friends, and just generally being around people all day. i miss house parties, but maybe that's a symptom of covid. it's definitely too much pressure especially for an 18 year old, but if it wasn't such a hefty workload (and if it was free) i would go back in a heartbeat.
Yeah I like the concept of school but college itself was too rough. College but chill would be nice
Do you also have tips on making your face look more adrogynous? I've started changing up my style but my face ruins my efforts lol
im am so excited that i found a nonbinary creator that doesnt just to commentary
i love commentary channels but a lot of lifestyle channels are cis women and im like cool but relatable?
i’ve been in school for three weeks and im dying - i’m an RA and that’s been horrible and all of my friends have had mental breakdowns already. i’m so tired 😳
I already started classes but I’m going to school till next week. I’m scared but a bit excited
your outfits are looking very cool as usual 🤩
my school year is kinda crappy, but u are so sweet ty and u have amazing taste :)
hdqhfiehciebyskskd I love your androgynous lookbooks! Thank you so much for this, you inspire me, to show myself how I really am.. I'm still closeted when it comes to my gender, but I felt more and more encouraged to tell people about it, since I started watching your videos. Thank you so much, Ily
IM SO EARLY WHAT. i rlly need to go shopping :/
I may have a school uniform that makes me look like I’m attending a funeral everyday, but I’ll keep these outfits in mind for the occasional non-school uniform day!
5:51 time to go search for that sweater because holy fuck i love it so much and i want it now
Thanks for making this!
These outfits are so cool and pretty! Unfortunately my school has an insane dresscode so rip
Idk if I'm a trans guy or nonbinary, idk how far I wanna transition, but what I do know is that I wish I looked like you.
First day of sixth form today I’m shetting myself but this calmed me 😌✨
why did i hear "I hold your gays" and was ready to go with it
My school year just started, but I am already overwhelmed with hw. Also I spent like a year.5 not being precived by the cis, and now I am again so my social dysphoria is skyrocketing
As a demigirl this actually saved me
It's me again, because I'm obsessed with your first outfit. I wanna copy it with shorts and a top that's not cropped (it maybe won't look as good as yours but I don't feel like wearing crop top (yet ?? :p) and other kind of shoes.. so i'm really sorry to copy you but thank you because you encourage me to experiment with my style :)
school has been okay i guess? weve had so many holidays like since sept 1st weve only been in school for 3 days😭
yesss I needed this thank youuuuu
second week of classes and I'm already behind
I feel that
i love this so much!! do u think u could do one for more formal events. i’m struggling to figure out to wear for my school dance
now I can make everyone jealous of my supreme drip at uni orientation, thank you
Noooo, why did you do this, I wanted to go to sleep now
(Cool video as always,sleep was obviously postponed because I have to think about fashion now)
Going to twitter to fangirl brb
The outfit in 4:49 reminded me of squidward 👀 the color combo, super nice though.
handsome squidward is the blueprint 😍
i love this sm! which size is the carhartt overall and is it from the men's section cause I NEED it
My freshman year of community college is surprisingly easy and I’m not used to having so much free time and freedom. I loved all these outfits!!! do you have any advice on deciding on what docs to buy I’m stuck bw the 1460s and the 1461s?
we have uniforms for school and i wanna look as androgynous as possible because my friends are transphobic and homophobic and i really wanna make them mad by being myself
i am so happy to find lots or inspiration on these outfits!
lmao they aren’t your friends if they are discriminatory towards you for who you are. drop them
1:53 *laughs in european* (we don’t have dress codes at school)
today is my birthday and so i’m very happy you posted this today :)
edit: schools been going ok! i’m really tired and kinda stressed, but we’ve been getting through.
happy birthday!!!!
@@irisolympia ahhh thank u :))
Off topic question, but what is that hairstyle called? I'd really like to get my hair like that 😄 thankss
i wish i could pull off that hair
Just in time! I honestly just gonna go to a grocery store🤭
ok- who am i kidding, I would be the person choking on their apple juice being like 'cute guy *cOugHs oBnoXiOusLy* under tree *stArtS tO cHokE* reading animal farm *cHokiNg iNtEnsiFiEs* '
lol my school is kinda terrible right now :( school definitely got harder after covid lol
I love these but Sadler I’m not ✨skinny✨
Same😭😭
"The color combo spoke to me"
Yeah, yeah, squidward colors
handsome squidward is the blueprint
hi :)
could you make an 'androgynous must-haves' video? :))
my first day of school is tomorrow & I'm so nervous >∆
whats the name of your haircut
i would like to be that guy reading animal farm under a tree 🕺
0:59
2:22
4:39
Not me taking notes
We have to wear a uniform for school ;-;
Ok bro- how did you get that hair cut I need it
My math class is boring in a fun way