How to not care about what others think ✌🏻 // Vlogmas 2020 - Day 9

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  • Опубликовано: 24 дек 2024

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  • @MISSYANYI
    @MISSYANYI  4 года назад +14

    you guys have inspired me so much to talk about this and to keep pushing on. THANK YOU
    Ps. Who made it to vlog footage in the end?!

    • @ishootqueers
      @ishootqueers 4 года назад +1

      u should care what people think. honestly your basic personality and bland content isnt doing u any justice

    • @jonfun
      @jonfun 4 года назад

      Glad you've found your confidence.

  • @Risosi1515
    @Risosi1515 4 года назад +1

    The judgement you are talking about, the way we are people pleasers, tend to stay quite because we are scared of what others think, we put other before ourselves. Everything you mentioned is exactly how I was and I have learned that it’s not ok. It is ok to voice your opinion, it’s ok to say no, it’s ok to not be ok, it’s ok to feel down. As a mom to a toddler, I have realized that it starts when they are young. I have been looking into psychologist talk about the importance of teaching our children from a young age to learn to have autonomy and only do things they want to. For example not force kids to hug anyone, force them to eat something, force to do anything because in the end we are oppressing their feelings, wants and needs. I am learning so much but I want my daughter to be confident, to learn how to defend herself and learn to say no when things feel wrong. I’m breaking those cycles because i don’t want my daughter to be a people pleaser. You are doing great Yanyi, keep going!

    • @MISSYANYI
      @MISSYANYI  4 года назад +1

      so well said! i felt that.

  • @aransamson
    @aransamson 4 года назад +2

    Love your vlogs and how you just hang out with your viewers! I live with the mantra of just enjoying things and letting people enjoy things. This helps me shut out all the negativity from people. The way I see it as long as I am enjoying what I am doing and I am not getting in the way of other people's enjoyment of life, there shouldn't be anything wrong with that. The people who dump negativity are the people who should just learn to let people enjoy things and maybe learn to just find something they enjoy themselves rather than waste their time bashing on other people. Thanks for just hanging out! Looking forward to tomorrow's vid!

  • @brittanyg7700
    @brittanyg7700 4 года назад +1

    LOL Idk why, but you spilling your coffee was so funny. All those classy youtubers with coffee/tea pouring perfection and here you spill TWICE. Absolute perfection. THAT is perfection

    • @MISSYANYI
      @MISSYANYI  4 года назад +1

      Thank you for appreciating my professional spill ☕️😬

    • @MISSYANYI
      @MISSYANYI  4 года назад +1

      Btw. Your comment made my night. Love you !

    • @brittanyg7700
      @brittanyg7700 4 года назад

      @@MISSYANYI Glad to bring some joy in return! 🥰❤

  • @fromnycwithlove9858
    @fromnycwithlove9858 4 года назад +3

    I needed this video and didn't realize I did. Thank you girl! 😊 💓 ☺

    • @MISSYANYI
      @MISSYANYI  4 года назад +1

      Im glad you enjoyed it :)

  • @CorneliaS0308
    @CorneliaS0308 4 года назад +4

    You’re a dope person and a friend in the head to all of us! So keep doing you Boo! 😃🙌🏽❤️

  • @Californiansurfer
    @Californiansurfer 4 года назад +2

    As you get older , you learn to accept yourself. I wear the same new balance shoes for the past twelve years , love it. I love surfing which everyone ask me why, because I love it. Downey California 🇲🇽🇯🇵🇺🇸🏄🏾‍♂️🌊

  • @elenita5536
    @elenita5536 4 года назад +2

    Preach it! I found this video to be very therapeutic!

    • @MISSYANYI
      @MISSYANYI  4 года назад

      we all need a little friend therapy :)

  • @jetimpulse
    @jetimpulse 4 года назад +1

    Hey Yanyi! you're doing great (: keep up the vlogmas videos!! ♥️♥️

    • @MISSYANYI
      @MISSYANYI  4 года назад +1

      Thank you for keeping up with me 😭😭😭😭

    • @jetimpulse
      @jetimpulse 4 года назад

      @@MISSYANYI you're so welcome!!!

  • @Julio-ez2np
    @Julio-ez2np 3 года назад

    Hola. I enjoyed your video so much. What I learned is "The more you read or get informed, the more confident you get, and the less you worry about what others think" because you realize that those others that are thinking whatever about you they are missing themselves a lot of what they should know 🤔

  • @Champs-eb5yl
    @Champs-eb5yl 3 года назад +1

    Love it, I'm so passive myself. An i got way to much patience smh lol. You're beautiful bye the way, keep doing you. You're amazing.

  • @carloscora4092
    @carloscora4092 4 года назад

    Love all of your videos

  • @indigoswan5722
    @indigoswan5722 3 года назад

    I don't know how I got here, but I'm so happy I did. You are such a breath of fresh air. I love the natural, down to earth you. It was so nice hanging out with you today. Besos from Miami

  • @abbeysolute
    @abbeysolute 4 года назад

    From someone who struggles with self esteem and self confidence, this was really helpful! Thank you!!

    • @MISSYANYI
      @MISSYANYI  4 года назад

      ahh that warms my heart

  • @rafaelberrios7607
    @rafaelberrios7607 4 года назад +1

    Sigue adelante siempre, para atrás ni pa coger impulso! Después que sepas quién eres y te Ames tal como eres lo demás no importa. Tienes tu propia forma de decir las cosas so el que te caiga bien chévere y al que no, que siga su camino!

  • @cutiewithoutacare
    @cutiewithoutacare 4 года назад

    I love this kid!

  • @demoniczero
    @demoniczero 3 года назад

    I just found you on the comment section of a video from the dodo and now I love you

  • @yx8193
    @yx8193 Год назад

    I just stumbled upon your channel today. OMG you sound the same as me in so many regards. You got a new subscriber.

  • @omayravillanueva6870
    @omayravillanueva6870 4 года назад +1

    Me encantó el video! I agree!! Que café más rico!!! Besitos desde Camuy! 😘🇵🇷💕

    • @MISSYANYI
      @MISSYANYI  4 года назад +1

      Pero quiero café de PR 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @omayravillanueva6870
      @omayravillanueva6870 4 года назад

      Cuando vengas a PR, te invito!!! El de acá es el mejor!!! ☕😋💕

  • @mitty2575
    @mitty2575 2 года назад

    If you have Meijers nearby, u try the Meijer brand Organic French Toast coffee… next level awesomeness.

  • @pamelafranco9896
    @pamelafranco9896 3 года назад +1

    You can be a coach for kids that have been bullied!!

  • @robertcamacho6
    @robertcamacho6 4 года назад

    I like your attitude and your personality, I don't care what people think about me. I know I am awesome and a kind person. Keep up the awesome content and continue being awesome. By the way I think it's cool that you can speak Spanish. I am Hispanic of Puerto Rican decent.

  • @dorisMamucha
    @dorisMamucha 3 года назад

    you go girl

  • @jonfun
    @jonfun 4 года назад

    Epic, keep this up‼️💯

  • @cinnjotime
    @cinnjotime 4 года назад

    Keep pushing ... we get u

    • @MISSYANYI
      @MISSYANYI  4 года назад

      Thank you hun !!! And I see you here coming back everyday.😭🤍🙏

  • @demoniczero
    @demoniczero 3 года назад

    You’re very relatable lol

  • @moniqueruiz8753
    @moniqueruiz8753 4 года назад

    Yasssss qween!!!!!

  • @priuslifenomadsoffgridcomm1922
    @priuslifenomadsoffgridcomm1922 2 года назад

    As Asian I can relate. You should at one point live in Asia and feel the difference. I love your confidence. (PriusLife Nomades Off Grid Community)

  • @conniemomlifestyle
    @conniemomlifestyle 4 года назад

    I am 100% agree what you’re saying i even wear exactly same clothes at least 2 days or longer. Who has time to do all those laundries or even have that many clothes? So some people who watch RUclips expect same thing as a reality show. I am related to vloggers because they are realistic. No one did their hair and make up. No one write their content. Sooooo you do you!!!

    • @MISSYANYI
      @MISSYANYI  4 года назад +1

      Girl now that I’m literally home every day. I’ll wear the same outfit for like a week sometimes lol I hate laundry. But yeah I think being just normal is just as awesome :)))

  • @anetlazala4896
    @anetlazala4896 4 года назад

    omg. I was the same in school. I never spoke out unless i knew. Somehow when i came around to just throwing stuff out there and just doing me. A lot of the contradicting thoughts I had ended up being really interesting to other people because they wouldn't think of it in that way. So it ended up being refreshing, I guess? loved this! :D

    • @MISSYANYI
      @MISSYANYI  4 года назад

      Yes! It’s completely ok to have your own opinion ! I loved that we’re kinda the same 😬

  • @joymae
    @joymae 4 года назад +1

    Y’all shouldn’t care what other people think because most people are too focused on themselves anyways

  • @cnataliec1
    @cnataliec1 4 года назад

    “Trágame tierra“ 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mariac.304
    @mariac.304 4 года назад

    Bien dicho Yanyi me alegró por ti seguí como eres que eres única y nunca cambia por nadie y es mejor decir las cosas como son y hablando con la verdad y sea honesta siempre.

    • @MISSYANYI
      @MISSYANYI  4 года назад

      Eres la mejor 🤍🤍 gracias por el mega apoyo !

  • @TrulyTara86
    @TrulyTara86 4 года назад +1

    Great video ! Keep doing YOU!!

    • @MISSYANYI
      @MISSYANYI  4 года назад +1

      Tara !!! 🤍🤍🤍

  • @wvuinthehouse
    @wvuinthehouse 4 года назад +1

    Your self confidence should be through the roof. Just take a trip to your nearest Walmart and look around!

  • @yalenasorokina4759
    @yalenasorokina4759 4 года назад

    Dogs are alright I really like German Shepherd puppy 😍 I had one given to me by my Brother in Law and when the local Policeman blew his head off . I got pneumonia digging an Actual grave Buddy Is was his name and his bloodline Baron Von ? He was a K-9 working @ Andrews Air Force Base in Washington DC.

  • @isabelbazante1027
    @isabelbazante1027 4 года назад

    Peynut is a sassy Latina with the those eyes and all

    • @MISSYANYI
      @MISSYANYI  4 года назад

      omg too sassy for her own good lol

  • @yalenasorokina4759
    @yalenasorokina4759 4 года назад

    That's right 👍 prove yourself and show me your credentials and then I'll appreciate your Position 😊 just like my friend says it's my right to know.

  • @shortyvel
    @shortyvel 4 года назад

    Nena do you!

  • @Eileray
    @Eileray 4 года назад

    💜💜💜💜💜

  • @andreat.8078
    @andreat.8078 4 года назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @onearmtwinky7032
    @onearmtwinky7032 3 года назад

    not that it matters bc ironically the tittle of the video, but ntl youre wrong about your nose bc your nose is gorgeous.... my wife says the same thing about her nose, and her nose is amazing

  • @julioortiz9664
    @julioortiz9664 4 года назад

    Olvidate lo digan sigue hacia delante besitos para mi amor

  • @vasiwasi4899
    @vasiwasi4899 4 года назад

    i dont think your nose is so big. that jacket is sweet, is that brown or khaki, looks good.

  • @felipeortiz6386
    @felipeortiz6386 4 года назад

    If I woke up next to you and that beauitiful doggie I would not care what anyone say. Eres Bella a fuera y adentro. Bella Bella Bella 😍😍😍

  • @pamelafranco9896
    @pamelafranco9896 3 года назад

    YOU CAN BE A PIANISTA...PRETTY DELICETE HANDS

  • @pickledpigknuckles6945
    @pickledpigknuckles6945 3 года назад

    your shapes of your nose and hands and feet are how God Made you. Avoid Neurotic thought and the bad habit it can become. and Love your self as you are. not as the plastic surgeon could mold you into.