The judgement you are talking about, the way we are people pleasers, tend to stay quite because we are scared of what others think, we put other before ourselves. Everything you mentioned is exactly how I was and I have learned that it’s not ok. It is ok to voice your opinion, it’s ok to say no, it’s ok to not be ok, it’s ok to feel down. As a mom to a toddler, I have realized that it starts when they are young. I have been looking into psychologist talk about the importance of teaching our children from a young age to learn to have autonomy and only do things they want to. For example not force kids to hug anyone, force them to eat something, force to do anything because in the end we are oppressing their feelings, wants and needs. I am learning so much but I want my daughter to be confident, to learn how to defend herself and learn to say no when things feel wrong. I’m breaking those cycles because i don’t want my daughter to be a people pleaser. You are doing great Yanyi, keep going!
Love your vlogs and how you just hang out with your viewers! I live with the mantra of just enjoying things and letting people enjoy things. This helps me shut out all the negativity from people. The way I see it as long as I am enjoying what I am doing and I am not getting in the way of other people's enjoyment of life, there shouldn't be anything wrong with that. The people who dump negativity are the people who should just learn to let people enjoy things and maybe learn to just find something they enjoy themselves rather than waste their time bashing on other people. Thanks for just hanging out! Looking forward to tomorrow's vid!
LOL Idk why, but you spilling your coffee was so funny. All those classy youtubers with coffee/tea pouring perfection and here you spill TWICE. Absolute perfection. THAT is perfection
As you get older , you learn to accept yourself. I wear the same new balance shoes for the past twelve years , love it. I love surfing which everyone ask me why, because I love it. Downey California 🇲🇽🇯🇵🇺🇸🏄🏾♂️🌊
Hola. I enjoyed your video so much. What I learned is "The more you read or get informed, the more confident you get, and the less you worry about what others think" because you realize that those others that are thinking whatever about you they are missing themselves a lot of what they should know 🤔
I don't know how I got here, but I'm so happy I did. You are such a breath of fresh air. I love the natural, down to earth you. It was so nice hanging out with you today. Besos from Miami
Sigue adelante siempre, para atrás ni pa coger impulso! Después que sepas quién eres y te Ames tal como eres lo demás no importa. Tienes tu propia forma de decir las cosas so el que te caiga bien chévere y al que no, que siga su camino!
I like your attitude and your personality, I don't care what people think about me. I know I am awesome and a kind person. Keep up the awesome content and continue being awesome. By the way I think it's cool that you can speak Spanish. I am Hispanic of Puerto Rican decent.
I am 100% agree what you’re saying i even wear exactly same clothes at least 2 days or longer. Who has time to do all those laundries or even have that many clothes? So some people who watch RUclips expect same thing as a reality show. I am related to vloggers because they are realistic. No one did their hair and make up. No one write their content. Sooooo you do you!!!
Girl now that I’m literally home every day. I’ll wear the same outfit for like a week sometimes lol I hate laundry. But yeah I think being just normal is just as awesome :)))
omg. I was the same in school. I never spoke out unless i knew. Somehow when i came around to just throwing stuff out there and just doing me. A lot of the contradicting thoughts I had ended up being really interesting to other people because they wouldn't think of it in that way. So it ended up being refreshing, I guess? loved this! :D
Bien dicho Yanyi me alegró por ti seguí como eres que eres única y nunca cambia por nadie y es mejor decir las cosas como son y hablando con la verdad y sea honesta siempre.
Dogs are alright I really like German Shepherd puppy 😍 I had one given to me by my Brother in Law and when the local Policeman blew his head off . I got pneumonia digging an Actual grave Buddy Is was his name and his bloodline Baron Von ? He was a K-9 working @ Andrews Air Force Base in Washington DC.
not that it matters bc ironically the tittle of the video, but ntl youre wrong about your nose bc your nose is gorgeous.... my wife says the same thing about her nose, and her nose is amazing
your shapes of your nose and hands and feet are how God Made you. Avoid Neurotic thought and the bad habit it can become. and Love your self as you are. not as the plastic surgeon could mold you into.
you guys have inspired me so much to talk about this and to keep pushing on. THANK YOU
Ps. Who made it to vlog footage in the end?!
u should care what people think. honestly your basic personality and bland content isnt doing u any justice
Glad you've found your confidence.
The judgement you are talking about, the way we are people pleasers, tend to stay quite because we are scared of what others think, we put other before ourselves. Everything you mentioned is exactly how I was and I have learned that it’s not ok. It is ok to voice your opinion, it’s ok to say no, it’s ok to not be ok, it’s ok to feel down. As a mom to a toddler, I have realized that it starts when they are young. I have been looking into psychologist talk about the importance of teaching our children from a young age to learn to have autonomy and only do things they want to. For example not force kids to hug anyone, force them to eat something, force to do anything because in the end we are oppressing their feelings, wants and needs. I am learning so much but I want my daughter to be confident, to learn how to defend herself and learn to say no when things feel wrong. I’m breaking those cycles because i don’t want my daughter to be a people pleaser. You are doing great Yanyi, keep going!
so well said! i felt that.
Love your vlogs and how you just hang out with your viewers! I live with the mantra of just enjoying things and letting people enjoy things. This helps me shut out all the negativity from people. The way I see it as long as I am enjoying what I am doing and I am not getting in the way of other people's enjoyment of life, there shouldn't be anything wrong with that. The people who dump negativity are the people who should just learn to let people enjoy things and maybe learn to just find something they enjoy themselves rather than waste their time bashing on other people. Thanks for just hanging out! Looking forward to tomorrow's vid!
LOL Idk why, but you spilling your coffee was so funny. All those classy youtubers with coffee/tea pouring perfection and here you spill TWICE. Absolute perfection. THAT is perfection
Thank you for appreciating my professional spill ☕️😬
Btw. Your comment made my night. Love you !
@@MISSYANYI Glad to bring some joy in return! 🥰❤
I needed this video and didn't realize I did. Thank you girl! 😊 💓 ☺
Im glad you enjoyed it :)
You’re a dope person and a friend in the head to all of us! So keep doing you Boo! 😃🙌🏽❤️
As you get older , you learn to accept yourself. I wear the same new balance shoes for the past twelve years , love it. I love surfing which everyone ask me why, because I love it. Downey California 🇲🇽🇯🇵🇺🇸🏄🏾♂️🌊
Preach it! I found this video to be very therapeutic!
we all need a little friend therapy :)
Hey Yanyi! you're doing great (: keep up the vlogmas videos!! ♥️♥️
Thank you for keeping up with me 😭😭😭😭
@@MISSYANYI you're so welcome!!!
Hola. I enjoyed your video so much. What I learned is "The more you read or get informed, the more confident you get, and the less you worry about what others think" because you realize that those others that are thinking whatever about you they are missing themselves a lot of what they should know 🤔
Love it, I'm so passive myself. An i got way to much patience smh lol. You're beautiful bye the way, keep doing you. You're amazing.
Love all of your videos
I don't know how I got here, but I'm so happy I did. You are such a breath of fresh air. I love the natural, down to earth you. It was so nice hanging out with you today. Besos from Miami
From someone who struggles with self esteem and self confidence, this was really helpful! Thank you!!
ahh that warms my heart
Sigue adelante siempre, para atrás ni pa coger impulso! Después que sepas quién eres y te Ames tal como eres lo demás no importa. Tienes tu propia forma de decir las cosas so el que te caiga bien chévere y al que no, que siga su camino!
I love this kid!
I just found you on the comment section of a video from the dodo and now I love you
I just stumbled upon your channel today. OMG you sound the same as me in so many regards. You got a new subscriber.
Me encantó el video! I agree!! Que café más rico!!! Besitos desde Camuy! 😘🇵🇷💕
Pero quiero café de PR 😭😭😭😭😭
Cuando vengas a PR, te invito!!! El de acá es el mejor!!! ☕😋💕
If you have Meijers nearby, u try the Meijer brand Organic French Toast coffee… next level awesomeness.
You can be a coach for kids that have been bullied!!
I like your attitude and your personality, I don't care what people think about me. I know I am awesome and a kind person. Keep up the awesome content and continue being awesome. By the way I think it's cool that you can speak Spanish. I am Hispanic of Puerto Rican decent.
you go girl
Epic, keep this up‼️💯
Keep pushing ... we get u
Thank you hun !!! And I see you here coming back everyday.😭🤍🙏
You’re very relatable lol
Yasssss qween!!!!!
Hi hun !! 🤍
As Asian I can relate. You should at one point live in Asia and feel the difference. I love your confidence. (PriusLife Nomades Off Grid Community)
I am 100% agree what you’re saying i even wear exactly same clothes at least 2 days or longer. Who has time to do all those laundries or even have that many clothes? So some people who watch RUclips expect same thing as a reality show. I am related to vloggers because they are realistic. No one did their hair and make up. No one write their content. Sooooo you do you!!!
Girl now that I’m literally home every day. I’ll wear the same outfit for like a week sometimes lol I hate laundry. But yeah I think being just normal is just as awesome :)))
omg. I was the same in school. I never spoke out unless i knew. Somehow when i came around to just throwing stuff out there and just doing me. A lot of the contradicting thoughts I had ended up being really interesting to other people because they wouldn't think of it in that way. So it ended up being refreshing, I guess? loved this! :D
Yes! It’s completely ok to have your own opinion ! I loved that we’re kinda the same 😬
Y’all shouldn’t care what other people think because most people are too focused on themselves anyways
Amen to that !!!!!!
“Trágame tierra“ 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Bien dicho Yanyi me alegró por ti seguí como eres que eres única y nunca cambia por nadie y es mejor decir las cosas como son y hablando con la verdad y sea honesta siempre.
Eres la mejor 🤍🤍 gracias por el mega apoyo !
Great video ! Keep doing YOU!!
Tara !!! 🤍🤍🤍
Your self confidence should be through the roof. Just take a trip to your nearest Walmart and look around!
Lol true that
That’s harsh lol
Dogs are alright I really like German Shepherd puppy 😍 I had one given to me by my Brother in Law and when the local Policeman blew his head off . I got pneumonia digging an Actual grave Buddy Is was his name and his bloodline Baron Von ? He was a K-9 working @ Andrews Air Force Base in Washington DC.
Peynut is a sassy Latina with the those eyes and all
omg too sassy for her own good lol
That's right 👍 prove yourself and show me your credentials and then I'll appreciate your Position 😊 just like my friend says it's my right to know.
Nena do you!
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not that it matters bc ironically the tittle of the video, but ntl youre wrong about your nose bc your nose is gorgeous.... my wife says the same thing about her nose, and her nose is amazing
Olvidate lo digan sigue hacia delante besitos para mi amor
Así mismo ! 😎
i dont think your nose is so big. that jacket is sweet, is that brown or khaki, looks good.
If I woke up next to you and that beauitiful doggie I would not care what anyone say. Eres Bella a fuera y adentro. Bella Bella Bella 😍😍😍
YOU CAN BE A PIANISTA...PRETTY DELICETE HANDS
your shapes of your nose and hands and feet are how God Made you. Avoid Neurotic thought and the bad habit it can become. and Love your self as you are. not as the plastic surgeon could mold you into.