Stealth Camping a SHREK Rave...?

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  • Опубликовано: 15 янв 2025

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  • @IzzyOnTheMove
    @IzzyOnTheMove 9 месяцев назад +2

    SUPER FUN!!! You know when a RUclipsr pops ups in your suggestions for the first time and they have years of videos you can binge and you make a playlist and you're like, "Why didn't I know of this person before???" Yeah, me right now, procrastnating from making my daily work from home income goal ❤

  • @Bravo_Bandaid
    @Bravo_Bandaid Год назад +1

    I've never laughed so hard for a van life video and I have watched countless hours of them. plus apologize for this but you are also the most beautiful woman I've ever seen

    • @ToryDelury
      @ToryDelury  Год назад

      Thank you so much!! ☺️☺️

  • @michaelgregory1013
    @michaelgregory1013 Год назад +3

    Wow… I appreciate your openness and honesty. Safety is number one priority and you’re doing everything right. Enjoy your life and remember good things happen to good people and you’re good people. Thank you for sharing..

  • @JohnDarwin7
    @JohnDarwin7 Год назад +1

    Merry Christmas you are awesome !! 🌹♥️🌹🖖

  • @annabellegettingwell1531
    @annabellegettingwell1531 Год назад +1

    Don’t let people get in your head. Good video

  • @TheAprilWindz
    @TheAprilWindz Год назад +1

    east coaster here. I had a similar experience with moving to the West Coast for a couple years. Never felt at home and it always felt like something was missing. I also didn't feel like I fit into the culture out there. It can be subtle but I think there is a huge culture difference between coastlines. I feel so much more at home in the east. Ended up moving back. Wishing you luck on your journey Tory! ♥️ Sending love from the east coast 🙌

  • @donavonbain4332
    @donavonbain4332 Год назад +2

    Love the edits! Both creative and funny! Nice work!

  • @rahatheimmortal
    @rahatheimmortal Год назад +1

    Check out Bosla Chica Beach and Huntington Beach Reiki. Also thousand step beach is beautiful but hard to park at

  • @aitorsodupe5922
    @aitorsodupe5922 Год назад +1

    Good content very genuine keep up the good work👍

  • @ar-ku-sh
    @ar-ku-sh Год назад +2

    One of a kind creative, that's cute ❤

  • @adriankung1625
    @adriankung1625 Год назад +1

    I can't actually imagine you being socially awkward, lol. You're too relatable ( to another introvert like me).
    Very pretty Shrekina....Shrekette? Hope you get that van built out sooner, rather than later...
    Cheers!...from North Vancouver

  • @peterpiper487
    @peterpiper487 Год назад +1

    What a great opportunity to read and study! I'd love it!

  • @MLenninger
    @MLenninger Год назад +1

    Rockin' the bangs! Waffles for breakfast; parfait for lunch?

  • @martymayes2906
    @martymayes2906 Год назад +3

    I am super introverted. I never go anywhere without my wife. So, I get what you are feeling. I think you are amazing for going anyway. I think you are brave for living your life despite your fears. I enjoy your content. Keep going, you are building yourself for a futrue with a great partner.

  • @jamesl1130
    @jamesl1130 Год назад +1

    I am the same, as far as raves and such.
    I tend to goto plays, movies or amusement parks by myself

  • @felinetherapy4782
    @felinetherapy4782 Год назад +27

    Loneliness when surrounded by people is the worse feeling. Never forget your online community!

    • @ToryDelury
      @ToryDelury  Год назад +13

      Exactly! I felt like I had all of you with me while making this which made the day feel less lonely & more fun!

    • @timh.1300
      @timh.1300 11 месяцев назад

      You are awesome all by yourself, I would love to travel as you do....so much peace in your own skin, I love it.

  • @davepeterson8242
    @davepeterson8242 Год назад +1

    Hello Ms. Delury:
    I have watched several of your videos and this one is, in my opinion, the best I have seen. I was surprised to learn how introverted you are, and I completely understand what you are feeling. I am also quite introverted and have been my entire life (I am now 77), and it has affected my ability to form relationships and relate to others. I don't know if there is help available, but if there is, I would suggest you seek help. Anyway, that is my 2 cents worth and whatever you decide, I wish you all the very best. I am looking forward to seeing more of your videos about building out you new van. Be safe and be happy!!

  • @gridfreeca
    @gridfreeca Год назад +1

    BC Canada has an amazing van life group.

  • @ashleymarierael
    @ashleymarierael Год назад +2

    I relate to you. I’ve been standing in a room and felt lonely before. I hated the feeling. Things will get better when you focus on yourself and making yourself happy. Ignore the noise and making everyone else happy. Make you happy. 😊 I loved your video! It was funny and very relatable. I am excited to see your progress and build. 👏

  • @robertovelasco6320
    @robertovelasco6320 Год назад +3

    In every video you make I can see the way you are so natural so fun. I love what you do traveling you have such a beautiful attitude so positive to the life and remember life is a risk I’ll be waiting for another. Take care of yourself 😃

  • @bobs1648
    @bobs1648 Год назад +1

    Fiona, err I mean Tori, I told you a while back that if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm pretty much always available. As a fellow introvert, I get it... crowds drive me insane also. 😁👍As always, BIG HUGS and much❤from Tennessee!

  • @charminbaer2323
    @charminbaer2323 Год назад +1

    TBH, raves can and do happen at 10 in the morning, BUT, they definitely don't start at that time. Most likely, its still going from previous night and most likely, it will keep going till much much later lol. I just worked Countdown NYE music festival in So Cal, both days, the festival started at 4pm and went till 2am. BUT, there was an official after party both days where the party kept going till 6am if you paid extra money to stay longer. Many other raves and festivals, the party just goes on around the clock for several days, places like Burning Man.

  • @justbrentbenson5419
    @justbrentbenson5419 Год назад +1

    Tory
    If you can, be sure to explore the Oregon coast. Your experience will be rewarding. I live outside of Lincoln City so if you need tips or ? be sure to reach out. BTW, Depoe Bay Oregon is the BEST place for catching the Grey Whale migration -- you can get a tour in am 18 foot Zodiac. There is nothing like seeing a dark grey back rise out of the water in front of you that is attached to an animal that is 3 to 4 times the size of the boat you are in!!!

  • @mitchducky962
    @mitchducky962 Год назад +1

    Happy Xmas Eve ⛄

  • @AXavier007
    @AXavier007 Год назад +1

    Awe 😮…I’m in LA and I spent Xmas alone in my Van 🚐 … if we knew each other I’d ABSOLUTELY drive to San Diego to keep you company… 😔 💔

  • @VanthonyCramilton
    @VanthonyCramilton Год назад +1

    Love it. 🚐🙌🏽❤️🙏🏽

  • @maxabdovies5161
    @maxabdovies5161 Год назад +2

    The last part of your video talking about duality of loneliness and wanting to be with someone to travel,the feeling you talked about was very therapeutic for me.I feel exactly the same way.I have a dog that keeps me more needed and less lonely.i wish you could get a cat or a dog so you don’t feel lonely.great video.thank you for being yourself.

  • @twistedstich
    @twistedstich Год назад +1

    Def new there was a reason I subbed to your content. 😂

  • @LeejamesParry-id3xd
    @LeejamesParry-id3xd Год назад +2

    Nice to see you back in your van driving outhere great views thanks for the vlog...!!!!

  • @Jonoutlivingit
    @Jonoutlivingit Год назад +1

    Loved the song choice and the book 😊😊

  • @robertquinn1945
    @robertquinn1945 Год назад +1

    Keep safe and the rave was pretty cool 😎 never been to one love ❤️ that movie it’s hilarious 😂 hope you find another guy someday that has the same likes as you 😊😊😊 I’ve lived in my suv before for almost a year I’m still not sure if that type of thing is really for me anyway be safe on your travel’s 😊😊😊❤❤❤❤ your videos are so calming and relaxing 😎.

  • @toomuchhair4553
    @toomuchhair4553 Год назад +1

    As an old (literally) truck driver that has spent 1000's of nights sleeping in a truck and more recently a beautiful Sprinter van that I'm still building......I totally understand how distance enters the loneliness equation. I'm from the STL area and could easily stay out on the road for 3-4 weeks while working up and down the east coast. But when I had loads going to CA or anywhere on the West coast (which I absolutely love) I would suddenly get this nervous and uneasy feeling that I was suddenly too far from home and my family. As much as I enjoyed being near the Pacific Ocean and the beautiful mountains and I have to admit, the famously beautiful CA girls, I always felt like I needed to head back east.
    Anyway, I think that you are awesome and encourage you to keep chasing your dreams and follow your heart!

  • @hightopvantravels451
    @hightopvantravels451 Год назад +1

    I traveled off and on since1997. I never had a problem with crazy people, but there are a lot of online communities and RV groups for people who are single or just want to have companionchip while traveling. Granted some of them are older folks but might be something to look into.

  • @Karmonulot
    @Karmonulot Год назад +1

    parfait rules!!! when you choose not to live in a comfortable bubble, you get to have incredible moments of enjoyment and refection. This is vanlife, you may not feel like conquoring the world some days because you're doing the harder work on yourself. Adventures are as much inward discovery, as to taking on new challenges and experiences. if you chose to ignore the sounds you would have missed the firworks. lifes really like that, be a hard target, be curious. you got this Tory.

  • @goober9983
    @goober9983 7 месяцев назад

    hospitality workers and state workers seem to make the best youtube videos. dealing with the public does pay off. you keep us engaged and that's a great trait to have.

  • @onelovetvglobalvlogs
    @onelovetvglobalvlogs Год назад +1

    I really like this episode ❤

  • @00Lobster00
    @00Lobster00 Год назад +1

    Introverts are the most interesting and deep people. I can relate. I went through a long spell of loneliness in my 20s due to some trauma but then met my wife, and we've been married 30 years now. You're smart, beautiful, witty, and charming. You'll figure it out.

  • @sashabootcher888
    @sashabootcher888 Год назад +1

    Make sure to stay protected and armed! Take some self defense classes and learn how to use your resources, that’ll probably ease your anxiety a bit!
    I’m also from the Midwest and a newbie to the west coast, believe it or not but friendship dating apps helped me meet and find new people and friends!

  • @ethen420
    @ethen420 Год назад +1

    Dont try to mix into everything then at some point you will feel lonely, and thats natural, at those times think about where you can improve.
    The end of video was beautiful ❤ you are a natural photographer, who knows what to capture.
    And A nice new look.

  • @selbord1
    @selbord1 Год назад +2

    WOW, Tory, how impressive your mad Video skills have gotten the intro is as good as any Netflix, or Disney series, you make living look so fun, and then you bring us all to the reality of how life is so challenging. much respect and love, be safe, and have a happy new year.

  • @jamesl1130
    @jamesl1130 Год назад +1

    Belmont Park is near you, in this video, with a classic wooden coaster

  • @therealmermaidliv
    @therealmermaidliv Год назад +3

    favorite van life video ever! This is GOLD.

  • @Scrambler85
    @Scrambler85 Год назад +1

    Raves were so 90's 😅.
    I've been in a relationship for almost 10 years and I have never been so alone.
    When I was single I never felt lonely. Most experiences, good or bad are best shared.
    You have so much to offer, don't settle.

  • @72151
    @72151 Год назад +2

    Finding someone to share your life with is what makes a life worth living for 99%.

  • @floridafun7805
    @floridafun7805 Год назад +2

    It's been years, but I would bet that you can't overnight park on Fiesta Island. Or anywhere around Mission Bay, for that matter.

  • @alonathevan
    @alonathevan Год назад +4

    you're iconic. top tier humour! NEVER CHANGE💗💚

  • @ScottSaltiel-qe4bx
    @ScottSaltiel-qe4bx Год назад +1

    I have family out that way. Little dogs have a different out on those fireworks by what I hear. Glad you had a good time.

  • @dhmoss75
    @dhmoss75 Год назад +1

    Someone’s got the Christmas blues.

  • @Althazarcrts
    @Althazarcrts Год назад +1

    I give you a lot credit going to a shrek rave alone as an introvert haha

  • @arnoldsee9170
    @arnoldsee9170 Год назад +1

    😮😮😮awesome video....last time I went to a Rave was like the 90s....brings back memories....thank you👏👏👏🥳🥳🥳

  • @brianwalker9185
    @brianwalker9185 Год назад +1

    Thank you and that aquatic center for the fireworks. I've spent much of my life's vacations near by and years ago I lived there training with some of the world's best triathletes. You were there during a very rainstorm muddied up the place. I learned to surf when I was 7 just 5 miles from the fireworks...in fact, I was supposed to be there for the holidays but got tied up here in Phoenix.
    Be well and be safe.

  • @LivingProcess
    @LivingProcess Год назад +1

    Good morning Tory 🌞 Merry Christmas!
    May this beautiful holiday season fill your heart with love, your home with joy, and your life with laughter. Happy holidays! Wishing you and your families Love, Peace, Happiness and of course Gratitude
    Stephen/Living Process 💚🤟❄️🎄🎁⛄

  • @gillyboyNY
    @gillyboyNY Год назад +1

    Love your vids! Especially, this with the Shrek theme 😂. Great cut in the intro, “like that 💩 is ever going to happen” cut to the outhouse 😂

  • @BobBohner4851
    @BobBohner4851 Год назад +1

    Life is just that in a house, van 13:24 , apt, etc. When u find something you don’t like do something about it. Don’t like what you just did? Do something different. Just keep changing till you’re happy the majority of the time. It’s as good as it gets and you’re in charge. Go!

  • @destinyclarke9479
    @destinyclarke9479 Год назад +1

    Thanks so much for sharing yourself and your journey. Sending you love from this online community you've built that I'm happy to be a part of 💕

  • @coletrickle-km7cl
    @coletrickle-km7cl 11 месяцев назад +1

    I want a pepper spray dragon.....preferably one that never sneezes.🤣
    I bet you won your dragon in a DR Pepper drinking contest! 🥁rimshot🥁!!!! 😆

  • @silviasundkvist3712
    @silviasundkvist3712 Год назад +1

    Nice acting gig whose director filming?

  • @graceschumacher1630
    @graceschumacher1630 Год назад +1

    Also, so proud of you for going! But it’s okay you don’t want to be there! Also, your humor is amaaaaazing! I love it, seriously love it so much! So appreciate your videos. Also love your honesty

  • @RonnyWesterlund
    @RonnyWesterlund Год назад +4

    Love your videos. You are so funny and your editing is pure professional. Ron/Sweden

    • @ToryDelury
      @ToryDelury  Год назад +2

      Thank you so much! The first 2 minutes definitely took me an entire day to make but TOTALLY worth it!! haha 😂😂

    • @RonnyWesterlund
      @RonnyWesterlund Год назад +1

      Just to come up with the idea is professional. And the editing is really good. Did you do the drawing? You are very very good. I totally love your videos.@@ToryDelury

  • @MistresMind
    @MistresMind Год назад +1

    If that's not a sign ... IDK what is! You keep doing YOU!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jamesl1130
    @jamesl1130 Год назад +1

    Tory you are incredible in so many ways

  • @joshlifeadVANturs
    @joshlifeadVANturs Год назад +1

    Omg I just flippin ❤ you 😂

  • @pdodwell1575
    @pdodwell1575 Год назад +2

    The loneliness may be why some vanlifers, who can afford it, travel with one or more animal buddies. In any event, a belated wish for a 🎄Merry 🎁 Christmas and a BIG WISH to you for a 🎉Happy 🍾 New Year! (I don’t drink either but the champagne bottle symbolizes bringing in the New Year. 🤷‍♂️) P.S. Sorry you couldn’t find a way to make a connection in So Cal. I have lived here since I came out for college at age 17. I am several decades past that now and still love it. As they say, that’s what makes horse racing.

  • @marty4933
    @marty4933 Год назад +1

    Every now and then I need to be with people to remind myself why a solitary lifestyle is not so bad. Perhaps that’s the journey of an introvert? It is for me!

  • @823Labs
    @823Labs Год назад +2

    You are infectious joy. (probably the only type of infectiousness anyone ever wants to be compared to)

  • @goodykei
    @goodykei Год назад +1

    WOW ! That last bit went from scary to spectacular real quick !
    Lets hope Your van turns out spectacular too !
    TBH : I have no doubt it will !
    Love and Blessings to You and Yours 🙏

  • @TheKirtonos
    @TheKirtonos Год назад +3

    San Diego is a pretty safe city overall as long as you aren't near the border. I lived there for 3 years. Stick to Pacific Beach or La Jolla and you'll be fine. Del Mar might be a good spot as well but it's so high end that there might not be many spots to stay overnight. Up towards San Onofre there are some beach front camping sites too right on the water. Further north into Orange County there are great places like Aliso Viejo, Lake Forest, and Laguna Nigel. I lived there as well. The closer you get to L.A. from then on, the worse it gets.

  • @espnmk
    @espnmk Год назад

    Tory you have half the battle won already conquering the world on your own well (America in this case) but anyone should heed the warnings of your fellow man about not just southern california but anywhere. So it goes by not saying travel at your own risk like those labels utter. Seasons Greetings thanks for sharing

  • @DansGamingVan
    @DansGamingVan Год назад +3

    Truly a masterpiece

  • @TheAbandonedAccount7
    @TheAbandonedAccount7 Год назад +1

    I love that fireworks show. Happy Holidays, Tory!

  • @drewo6388
    @drewo6388 Год назад +1

    Hey great video, Tory. Thank you for your honestly. Oftentimes social media content or RUclipsr videos only paint the creator's life with rose colored glasses. The audience only sees a 15 minute video of all the highlights. What is not seen is what you shared with us. Going into a place as an introvert and feeling out of place. The uncertainty and fear you face on the road sometimes. The loneliness that washes over you at times, even in busy places. And probably many hours of boredom or monotony you may experience on the road as well. Thanks for sharing your story. Safe travels as you continue on your journey!

  • @jimw966
    @jimw966 Год назад +1

    This was very creative and a fantastic ending. I think once this van is complete, you will find your grove and your tribe. At least stay out there until winter is over back here in the Northeast. Have a fabulous day Tory 😃

  • @stephenrussell6074
    @stephenrussell6074 Год назад

    I have always been introverted and at 59 I was diagnosed with Autism. I found a long time ago my way to interact was to roleplay and become another person which I am very good at but it is a tiring way to make and keep friends and so you stop and they go. My genuine feelings I would hide as people would find them weird.
    Have you ever felt lonely in a crowd
    No one to talk to with people all around
    Hiding in the corner not saying a word
    It’s better that way you know that for sure
    You watch people dance, drink chatter in groups
    They laugh and smile, happy as more come
    Hugs or handshakes, kisses sometimes
    Have you ever felt more lonely in a crowd
    I write poems usually covering the darker feelings

  • @V84ever
    @V84ever Год назад

    Why don't you have a pure sine wave inverter hooked up to the alternator so while you're driving they can charge your battery packs.

  • @graceschumacher1630
    @graceschumacher1630 Год назад +1

    Tori, I travelled nurses to Cali lived with someone for 2 months and yet it was the loneliest time of my life! It was so hard. I get that.

  • @Its_Adam_by_the_way
    @Its_Adam_by_the_way Год назад +6

    Hi Tory, hope your Christmas was good 🎄I would have been out of that rave within an hour too! I think the fireworks represented you lighting the world up on your own. Hope you are doing ok, love the green nails 💅❤️

    • @mattwedelich347
      @mattwedelich347 Год назад +1

      Happy New year great video Great channel 😊

  • @D0th3derrick
    @D0th3derrick Год назад +1

    If you're ever in the Northern California area, I'm down to hang out and be awkward together. I'm living put of my truck currently, that's how i found your channel. Keep it up, love your content!

  • @dimbeam82
    @dimbeam82 Год назад +1

    What a beautiful journey. California, where nature's splendor meets the irresistible charm of In-n-Out! Something that I miss here in Massachusetts. Really enjoyed this video, eagerly awaiting your upcoming videos. Keep up the great work! You may want to visit natural parks - while you there, like Yosemite, Joshua Tree and Sequoia national parks - these parks are unique to California and it's a lot safer and enjoyable than being in a big cities.

  • @mk3489
    @mk3489 Год назад +2

    Happy holidays ❤

    • @ToryDelury
      @ToryDelury  Год назад +2

      Happy Holidays 🎄🎁☺️

    • @mk3489
      @mk3489 Год назад +1

      @@ToryDelury ❤😇

  • @brycelynch2306
    @brycelynch2306 7 месяцев назад

    OMG waffles make breakfast like fireflies make the night…wait for it…better 😊

  • @LaplacianFourier
    @LaplacianFourier Год назад +2

    This is artistic!

  • @hawl20
    @hawl20 Год назад +3

    awesome video work, Tory. 🎉

  • @classicdude-mike8174
    @classicdude-mike8174 Месяц назад

    love your channel ! thanks for the humor and your wonderful content ... rock on !

  • @kevinjohnson4418
    @kevinjohnson4418 Год назад +1

    Fireworks 🎆🎇 show was epic

  • @medievalwolfgrrl
    @medievalwolfgrrl Год назад

    The rave looked horrific. I don't blame you for leaving. CA kinda sucks. I live here. I lived in AZ for a long time and I miss the wide open spaces. Do you think about getting a pet? Vanlife with a dog seems pretty fun.

  • @sprockkets
    @sprockkets Год назад

    "She's a loaded pistol who likes pina coladas
    and getting caught in the rain. Yours
    for the rescuing, Princess Fiona!"

  • @Redefining-Doug
    @Redefining-Doug 4 месяца назад

    As an introvert, one of the worse feelings is getting excited about some event. Planning g for the event, imagining awesome scenarios at that event. You get there. Look around and instantly realize, "Oh yeah! I hate this!"

  • @shaunpalmer700
    @shaunpalmer700 Год назад

    I’ve only just started watching your vids with the new build you are such a funny happy bubbly girl doing what you love it’s just a shame you have to live with eyes in the back of your head in constant fear! It’s a sad world we live in! You mentioned in a recent video about doing karate, maybe some extra self defence training so you can relax a bit. Looking forward to seeing your van come together and seeing your road trips with you cat she’s cute as

  • @MJ-ge6jz
    @MJ-ge6jz Год назад

    Very creative video I must say...

  • @sim6699
    @sim6699 Год назад

    Hope you get better soon

  • @matthewsemenuk7544
    @matthewsemenuk7544 10 месяцев назад

    Super cool!

  • @joecool7165
    @joecool7165 Год назад +2

    Wow, the track book was over the top. I loved it. This is why you’re going to do so good you’re not dull and ho-hum you’re out there living it I like your crazy I live in Lakeland Florida I leave on April fools to head out and live my life. Don’t want to spend the summer in Florida again, I hope to run into you eventually at one of the things or something I think you’re amazing. Keep up the wonderful work you post it I’ll watch it some people when they post it them again I never feel that way with you. You always keep interest going. I wish you the best day and life ever if I can help let me know.

  • @risacademics
    @risacademics Год назад

    I’m from Carlsbad and know San Diego well. It’s not you miss. California is hard for connections with people. It’s the pace and the materialism. The places you stayed are not actually that safe. I have long moved to the Pacific Northwest. There is good and bad where ever one is.
    Pounding in the night that turned to magic. Starbursts would make a good page for your fantasy book.
    Fair winds and safe harbors
    🐺

  • @hawl20
    @hawl20 Год назад +2

    Been waiting for this!❤

    • @ToryDelury
      @ToryDelury  Год назад +2

      Haha I HAVE BEEN SYKED to share this since the moment I had the idea for the intro 😂

    • @hawl20
      @hawl20 Год назад +1

      Creativity and ideas are inspiring to me. 😊

  • @jamesyahn
    @jamesyahn Год назад

    Where are you building out your van? I feel like this is something I struggle with because my next van, I want to build it out nicer.

  • @Smartys1234
    @Smartys1234 Год назад +3

    Never been to a rave , I would try a themed rave like costume or something fun .
    Loving the content as always . You really do go into all aspects of van life and not many do that .
    Hope you are well and you've had a good Christmas holidays .

    • @ToryDelury
      @ToryDelury  Год назад +2

      Definitely lots of fun :) I am so glad! Thank you so much, happy holidays!!

  • @casmart
    @casmart Год назад

    To thine own selft be true. Do your thing and don't let anyone else convince you otherwise.

  • @robertovelasco6320
    @robertovelasco6320 Год назад

    Hey beautiful. Good morning. Come to Temecula or Murrieta please. By the way where is that waffle place ?

  • @hcivelek
    @hcivelek Год назад +1

    What a funny beginning :)

  • @williambruckner6049
    @williambruckner6049 Год назад

    My buddy!! Shrek!! It's a Christmas miracle. Yippeee!!