Would You Date Someone With A Toxic Ex?
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Someone with a toxic ex means they’re accustomed to toxicity. At my age I can say confidently I ain’t going for that sh!t.
PERIODT!!
Facts
😂😂
Nope!! Never again. Dating someone with a crazy ex is a nightmare. Crazy exes are dangerous people who will only bring drama into your life. Somebody else can deal with that...
exactly avoid all drama
The ex being toxic isn't the problem. The issue is what's the real truth. Sometimes when people call someone "toxic" ad nosium it's because they themselves are venomous. Nothing like "poisoning" the well.
True but I think that will come out when dating as you will see the signs if you are looking. The thing that is a problem is your partner entertaining a crazy ex, many try to justfiy having that person around. Sometimes it can't be helped if kids are apart of the relationship, which something to consider and talk about if you in a healthy relationship.
Exactly
@@phantomzxro1I agree. I don't have children but I have talked to women with children. For me it didn't work but I don't hold it against them. The red flag and deal breaker is when she can't leave the "ex" alone.
NO. Life is too short don't get caught up in a crazy love quarrel with anyone or their ex(s)
Unless you see the ex being crazy, she or he might be the crazy/toxic one. People love to blame the other person when it could be you.
Facts! Well said. ✨💕
True
I believe you, but I need you to believe me too… that fool was TOXIC TOXIC😂😂😂
Just say no.
My ex's baby mama was very toxic and jealous. He was very generous in not telling me how toxic she was while we were together. He was honest with how bad he treated her, and she was jealous he treated me very well.
It wasn't until we broke up, months later she was STILL mad at me for dating him...like sis...you more pressed about my ex than i am 😂. I no longer date men with baby mamas. Im not about be blamed for your bad decisions 😊
A guy with a child wasn't a deal breaker depending upon the history. I need to know the 5Ws & H (who, what, when, where, why and how). O'le girl must be married because I'm not dealing with it... because I've been there, temporarily done that... and won't be going near it again. So dude has to nip it before dealing with me.
...And I'm glad I gave him a chance because he's a wonderful guy. 👼🏽
@@janedough6410 I'll date a man with an EX WIFE....but not a baby mama. If its ex wife and they have kids, thats a completely different scenario, and im cool with that.
Hard NO. I enjoy peace, and if her 'ex' is crazy, chances are it's not just one that's crazy. So nope. And if it seems she's INTO the craziness of the ex, because that does happen, then I will EASILY step out of the way and let her enjoy the circus. To me it should be more of a compliment to one another. Who wants to invite drama and that nonsense into their lives? To distract from your goals or the life you want to live?
A toxic ex in Baltimore usually ends with a double homicide and a suicide. Just check murder inc…😢
Yea these Baltimore ninjas are straight up crazy!! 😄
IF THE EX WAS TOXIC THE NEXT PERSON THAT DATES THEM IS GOING TO CATCH HELL 😂 😂
I wouldn’t date anyone with a toxic ex, mama, sister, dog, cat… ion give a damn how good that shit is 😂😂😂😂 I’m super good, don’t fall for it 🚫❌💯
😆Not the pets! Can't deal with feisty dogs?
@@janedough6410 😭😭😭😭😭
Caller showed up to thanksgiving should have left with a plate and move on.
Naa because i have a peaceful life and i don't want no "toxic" ex or anybody else to mess it up. I hate dealing with drama.
7:05 That dude’s insane 💀💀💀
No! But for those of you who have a hard time moving on, you have to tell yourself that there are billions of people on this planet to be stuck on one individual. If you got over one person, tell yourself I can get over the current or next person too. Good luck! ♥
All day!!!🧘🏾♀️✊🏾
So everybody just forgot about what happened to Trouble in Atlanta huh? Smfh
Imagine dating a scammer tho.....
😂
IHeart evil for promoting scams.. ya going down
I am done with everyone toxic..I remove them all from my life..Best decision of my life
you can be a “ real man “ & still get murked … RIP Trouble her ex was mad she moved on pulled up & k*lled that man peace of mind is key ☮️
That is true that's why Charlemagne told him you need to worry about your safety. No person is worth your life.
I’ve done it before, I was never scared but he gave her serious trust issues she took what she learned from that toxic situation and applied it to me and her relationship
Damn, that’s cold blooded. That’s why people have to heal before they DEAL with the next person. Blessings to you, Sir. ✨
I just came here to see if DJ Envy was on the show… I don’t even watch TBC !!!!
the man who popped up to his ex's on thanksgiving is wild. Talkin bout "I'm family" and "I wanted my baby" WYLINNN lmao
My sibling had a near situation for the holidays. It was Christmas past, present and future all in the same room. 😳😆🍿Nobody died tho. Civil after a meal. Thank goodness nobody drinks.
Facts😂😂😂😂
Wouldn't that make person mentally unhealthy for picking someone toxic 🤷🏾♂️
That's not always true. When u date somebody, they probably wasn't toxic in the beginning but as time goes on, sometimes ppl change for the worse and their true colors start to show.
@@tejaynem2292 Or the person that left wasn't the toxic one it was the crazy Ex. The crazy ex probably is still hooked to that person emotionally or sexually...Soul ties are a real thing.
Warning ⚠️ signs I’ve ignored in the passed. Her ex trying to open the door with a pliers. You can see the mark all over the door knob. Two times the crazy ex came by when I was there. This crazy mofo banging on the door while arguing with her. Female names Tracy-Ann & Divon.
NO I wouldn't. People deal with far more than they should and it also depends what U bring to the table. Some people are lucky to be in a Relationship lol im not dealing with a Woman who has a toxic EX, Kids or an attitude problem 💯 there's MORE than enough people out here who are Single and fit what you want. No need to settle whether Man or Woman
Everything about Dj Scam just sounds fake. Yall need a new host, the magic is gone, its been scammed too lmao
The way most women work these days, it's nearly impossible to find women who hasn't dated men that are toxic
So most men are toxic i guess 🤷🏿♀️
With that theory you're stating most men are toxic.
If it's nearly impossible... and women outnumber men, what are you saying about men?
@@janedough6410 no. I'm saying alot of women prefer toxic men
@@cacia-mcal Exactly.
@@maskedman5657 😳 I think a lot of women want a man desperately, or an ideal image that they ignore the signs of a toxic man and stay due to religion, family, pride and/or finances. A fraction run into the same examples they were raised in. It's their normalcy. Who PREFERS someone toxic, unless they're toxic themselves? The masses does not.
Nah, my peace is more valuable to me. Toxic exes could mean a few things: drama or danger involved tryna date that person, you gotta deal with trust issues, and/or they may have a type and the toxic ex is a reflection of them. Hard no.
Why is envy still not in jail?
I don't do toxic. I can work with someone that has baggage before getting serious. But if that can't be resolved, I'm so out of there.
I did, it could definitely ruin your life! Don't do it!
Not the caller claiming she's a crazy ex and coming off like she's proud of it smh
@4:30 It is a bad message to send to society to say that women who have an abusive and stalking ex-partner are not worthy of a non-abusive relationship. This puts to onus on the abused and not the abuser. Women should get a restraining order if their ex-partner is stalking them and has abused them. If they violate it, then call the police and get them locked up. Otherwise, it could lead to you, your family or your new partner being attacked and/or killed. This goes for men, as well. Although most of the time it applies to women.
They aren't blaming the non-crazy one. They are warning people that when you date someone who was in that situation, you are becoming part of it and it could cost you a lot even your life. You clearly are dealing with something if "victim blaming" was what you heard.
Would you tell your son or daughter to pursue a relationship that you truly believed would be unhealthy for them and take away more then it's going to give
Good morning the breakfast club 🌅🏙
Nah I can’t do it. I’ve seen too many episodes of First 48 to go through that. Somebody almost always dies.
Get this man off the air!!!!
The brother at 3:50, that’s not called being a “man”, that’s pride and ego bro…. If you a have a family to live for, knowing how to pick your battles and living and fighting for your family is being a man…
No, that's how innocent people get hurt; no need for unnecessary problems on you; keep it moving and talk to someone else.
See, my lady asked why I didn't let her know where I lived for 6 months... This is why... People be wilding waaayyy too much
Absolutely not. Don't need the drama.
Erica Mena belongs in this category 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Is my name Scott Pilgrim??... hell nH I aint stressing over no ones emotional baggage
It's people in their 20s. If you're 30+ going through this, you need therapy. Seriously.
Advice from envy woah 😅
It's a no for me. And I laugh because I'm a different kinda crazy. I carry. It would be end of story for someone coming at me over a man and in a manner where I would have to defend myself. That's why I couldn't. Not for him but for me. I'll pass on alll of that drama!
It’s not worth it. You might die dealing with the BS.
Would you date the toxic ex? Is the question I’m more interested in. 😂
No because its gonna lead to somebody getting hurt or put in jail lol
@@tejaynem2292and then you can write a book about it 😂
I have legit “crazy” exes but they were that way during our situation so that’s why he became an ex😂😂😂but seriously tho-I prefer t make sure when something is done it’s actually DONE and as far as dealing with another person’s “crazy” ex -that’s a HARD no!! More often than not, that person is probably still dealing with said ex-whether it be from pressure, habit or whatever. They haven’t closed out that cycle.
I don't date men with kids because I don't like baggage won't date someone who entertains any ex either - baggage
Craziest ex story I heard in college was when someone’s crazy ex came to the apartment and pooped and smeared it in the oven..allegedly she cut up all the new shorty’s wigs and wrote “I’ll be back” with the hair cuts…she defrosted took all the meat from the freezer and left it out..dude and new boo came home to the stench of hell but he refused to press charges.
“Morningggggggggg it’s DJ envy” 😂😂😂😂
How about someone with multiple fraud charges?
10:00 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 he said “ nahh I can’t do this man. “
Unfortunately I put someone through this my bm acting a fool didn't make her leave me tho
I was just dealing with this this weekend.. I think I've decided the drama is a lil much for me, however... damn. I wish she could just tone down the noise a bit. She's worth it personally but I have shit going on. Can't dive into it like that.
I dealt with it before
Dude chased her around the city
She lost him and pulled up at my spot
3 hours later I’m outside having a drink and a smoke
She appear in the window and I can see she on the phone- I see her like get off the phone and look at it
Called me right there like he found my car
He out there
Bra she brought it to my door step
That was on me though too.
So I ask her what kind of car he drive
And she tell me I’m like yup
He at the end of the lot
I told her lock the doors
Swung that back seat open and he back up and turned around
Never came back
I said never agin
Cause I done had to wonder if this car pulling up is door dash or cuz
But he called her when he left like “you got people tryna kill me
Ok i got something for that “
Man when me and her was done who she go to?
Smfh
@@Bravo937 bro this weekend I’m chilling with the homegrl who just left her abusive ex after a decade. She tells me his older brother, dude bout 56, stole from her apartment when she wasn’t there. I’m like lock your doors girl what are you thinking?
The dude shows up at 2AM didn’t expect to see my big black ass sitting there (he’s a small Latino dude) and he got a lil shook.
But I had to look at my homegrl like why do you allow this shit to come to your door when you have a son and you’re trying to move on? I can’t get down with randoms showing up at 2AM been there done that over that lifestyle man.
But she fine AF ahhhhhhhhh. Damn. It’s never easy.
@@JudgeDredd_ yea it’s a battle
We a protect but if you keep doing the same I guess I’m protecting in vain
I had a couple homegirls try to be good and support a former friend
Let him stay In their extra room bro - niggas came down from a different city and tried to trap it out. I stepped in cause my lil sisters ain’t have no body to turn to
But I looked at em like I told Yal.
But what’s not going happen is food getting ate and bottles getting drank ect
Funny thing is she was bad af 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I had her bro
Lol na
But they had to leave and it was understood in 3 days
I remember looking back like damn they be having us all up in some shit
I have and thus they became the past as well. I love my peace more than anything else... 🙏🏾
Tay said "this mf Envy snitched on his mans, he'll def snitch on me"
No way my life is worth more than a crazy EX
It's not worth it
I would be very cautious. It would be a red flag and shows me the type of men she prefers. If she "gets bored" with me she's likely to go back to the "bad boy" type men. Also, he crosses the line and we end up fighting or worse, and it's not worth it.
Dj Ponzi pay those people back
Simple Answer is NO🙄🙄🙄
I’m just watching this seeing if Envy still there 👀
You can really tell when someone's dad is a cop cause they're not afraid of anything... theyll show up the next day say 'whatsup' like nothing happened
Hell no did before never again put myself in that bullshit stress
“Boy I’m frm tht land till I die “ 🅿️
That man trying to be killed running in people’s houses. Especially, granny house.
No! Don't do it.
Mf talking about what if that's your soulmate while she don had multiple N words in her...A simp is born every minute. 😂
I will not….when I find out I’m OUT 💯✌🏾
Buddy ass lucky to be alive he gone try that shit on the wrong one dont make a habit out of that one lmao
7:57 bruh that’s wild 💀
Nope, did it once when I was 18 and I’m 37 today and the lady is still harassing me!!! Stalks my social media, used to drive by my home screaming cuss words, crazy lady 😂
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Y'all can't wait to self snitch
Bruh said he was scared to death over nothing lmaooo
The scamming club
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Nigga said he a victim too/ so how u ain't know?
Please… how do I get the positive note of the day? I can’t find the latest one today on 10-30-23! I would really appreciate if some could help 😅
Lots of men in the grave for being with a woman with a crazy ex. Let her go.
That dude talking about “what if it’s your soulmate” is dumb. That’s not wise counsel. Charlemagne is right. It would be wise to go for something that’s easier for you. That’s the healthiest approach to finding someone.
Exactly if that's who you want go for it. File a ppo and stick to it!!
Hell nah and the fact ppl wear like a badge of honor is even crazier
The crazy Exes always be single tho for some reason, they a bit better when they have someone in their life..Totally not worth it because many men dont know how to deal with the crazy exes and it just adds to it.
Attend your seminar is the craziest thing Tae did
Such a whack joke,,your likes prove it
toxic ex/bm/bd nah im good i been knowing a guy for almost 7 years and we never dated in his eyes we will date one day …..sadly he consumed by 3 bms im good
ALREADY HAVE JUST SET BOUNDARIES 🧐🤔🤨🤝🏿💯🗣🙏🏿
When is ENVY goin to jail F everything else
I'll have you in court f ing wit me 🤷🏿♂️ toxicity and all we can squash it over a law suit
Back in the dayz the crazy ex pull out a gun and threatened to kill me
Would you do a business with a scammer?
Hell no!
Hell naw I don’t want to see Michael blackson fight 🤦🏽♂️
But this is a topic that was made jokingly men tend to respond with domestic violence far more often than women in situations of break up. Look up the numbers Carson does a man tend to kill his ex compared to a woman. How many times does a man 10 to beat the woman he’s with compared to the woman beating the man. When’s the last time you saw a movie where a woman beat the man. Misery, that’s the last time I saw it in a movie. We joke about this. If someone loves you, they would kill for you know if someone loves you they would let you go because I would realize I’m not the right person for him/her or they would improve upon themselves, rather than beat someone into submission rather than kill someone because they can’t be without them.
Thin line between love & Hate
maybe....
No but things happen
Nope That's Not Love At All Ain't Worth It 😎❤️🤘🏾
Did yall change the topic from “should uzi get his chain back” to this because y’all were afraid people would call in to say envy need to give people their money back ? 👀 just a question
He made the deal and picked a 🚪 he's safe
How is this scammer still on here
What's the craziest thing Envy has done?