Exploring the Queer History of the Old West... Yeehaw

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  • Опубликовано: 16 фев 2022
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    The west was always queer. Much more so than you’d think. From unapologetic lesbians paving their own path to trans folks looking for freedom to the gay cowboys just searching for love, beneath the sands and dry earth lay the stories of LGBTQ folks waiting to be remembered. But while that history is full of love and power for some, it is also a legacy of pain, struggle and the ramifications of settler colonialism for others. Come learn with me!
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    Sources
    Outriders: Rodeo at the Fringes of the American West by Rebecca Scoffield
    Gay New York: Gender, Urban Culture, and the Making of the Gay Male World 1890-1940 by George Chauncey
    Black Cowboys In The American West: On The Range, On The Stage, Behind The Badge by Bruce A Glasrud and MIchael N Searles
    Rewriting the Gold Rush: Twain, Harte and Homosociality by Peter Stoneley
    The Lost Pardner by Badger Clark
    Leaves of Grass by Walt Whitman
    Gay LA by Lillian Faderman and Stuart Timmons
    Sexuality, Gender, and Identity in Great Plains History and Myth by Peter Boag
    Re-Dressing America’s Frontier Past by Peter Boag
    New Women in the Old West: From Settlers to Suffragists, an Untold American Story By Winifred Gallagher
    Queer Cowboys And Other Erotic Male Friendships in Nineteenth-Century American Literature By C. Packard
    Straight Shooters, Stainless-Steel Stories, and Cowboy Codes: The Queer Frontier and American Identity in a Post-Western World by Christopher Le Coney and Zoe Trodd
    Macho Men and the Queer Imaginary: A Critique of the Selected Gay ‘Colonial’ Representations of Homomasculinity by Theo Sonnekus
    Queer country: Rural Lesbian and Gay Lives by David Bell and Gill Valentine
    Rodeo: Real Gay Cowboys and Brokeback Mountain - Patricia Nell Warren
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    Gay Culture: Still of the Wild Frontier by Patricia Nell Warren
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    Within the Shadow of the Cowboy: Myths and Realities of the Old American West by Katherine Lamb
    Go West Young Man, Go East Young Woman: Searching for the Trans in Western Gender History by Peter Boag
    The Indigenous Erotics of Riding Bareback, or, the West Has Always Been Queer by Lisa Tatonetti
    Steers, Queers, and Manifest Destiny: Representing the Lesbian Subject in Turn-of-the-Century Texas by Kim Emery
    Claiming Lesbian History: The Romance between Fact and Fiction by Linda Garber
    Lesbian Rangers on a Queer Frontier by Jennifer MacLatchy
    Wayward Lives, Beautiful Experiments: Intimate Histories of Riotous Black Girls, Troublesome Women, and Queer Radicals By Saidiya Hartman
    Lonely hunters : an oral history of lesbian and gay southern life, 1948-1968 by James Thomas Sears
    Desire, Settler Colonialism, and the Racialized Cowboy by Beenash Jafri
    “Homos on the Range”: How gay was the West? By Jana Bommersbach
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    Video:
    Orville Peck- C’mon, Baby Cry MV
    Life on the Circle Ranch in California, 1912
    The Lavender Cowboy by Bob Skyles and His Skyrockets

Комментарии • 2,3 тыс.

  • @KazRowe
    @KazRowe  2 года назад +1945

    Thank you so much to everyone who watched the video over its first week! The video accrued $570.73 in revenue from Ad/sense which I rounded up to $600 and donated to the First Nations Development Institute. ☺💜 Thank you for making the hard work this video took worth it, and thank you for your eagerness to learn!

    • @SoraTrace
      @SoraTrace 2 года назад +25

      You're an absolute blessing

    • @BubbleWrapAndCupcake
      @BubbleWrapAndCupcake 2 года назад +23

      Omg we love a supportive well informed QUEEN living for this

    • @3countylaugh
      @3countylaugh 2 года назад +3

      Your sub-tittles are out of sync with what you're actually saying in this one :(

    • @rilriiakilurden9538
      @rilriiakilurden9538 2 года назад +13

      Kaz, I'm hoping this will make the rounds through the goth community because we have a long history of accepting all people of all genders and all orientations. And all things considered, we collectively need to remember that.
      Thank you for your level of awesome. Please keep with these, this is a wondrous find!

    • @bsferguson1
      @bsferguson1 2 года назад +3

      You fight our fight with us and we will fight for you too🧡🧡🧡

  • @faithrudd2549
    @faithrudd2549 2 года назад +5439

    'I hope she is finally comf' made me fully tear up

  • @AndersWatches
    @AndersWatches Год назад +1069

    As a trans man, thank you. I’m so tired of historical trans men having their identities denied or co-opted just because the word transgender didn’t exist yet.

    • @robbiehasnobones
      @robbiehasnobones 10 месяцев назад +16

      yes!!!!!!!! 🤠

    • @Janus-fn2uz
      @Janus-fn2uz 8 месяцев назад +1

      Argh!

    • @Dominic-ub8vp
      @Dominic-ub8vp 7 месяцев назад +6

      Ur not a man you're a female

    • @AndersWatches
      @AndersWatches 7 месяцев назад +63

      @@Dominic-ub8vp do you feel better now after commenting on my six month old comment? Get a life.
      Come back when you’ve actually encountered a ‘female’ who doesn’t run from you screaming and then maybe I’ll believe you even know what one is. XO

    • @Dominic-ub8vp
      @Dominic-ub8vp 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@AndersWatches you know ur wrong in the end, you just don't want to admit it

  • @tomkiefaber4297
    @tomkiefaber4297 Год назад +445

    "Modern hypermasculinity, completely by accident, always manages to be homoerotic." I'm a 70 year old straight geezer-coot and I heard that! ;-)

    • @aspynryde7305
      @aspynryde7305 9 месяцев назад +31

      You must be the coolest 70 year old

    • @soaringspirits2267
      @soaringspirits2267 2 месяца назад +10

      Thank you, good sir. Have a good day. (And many to follow.)

  • @yannickgrignon2473
    @yannickgrignon2473 11 месяцев назад +260

    I think one of the biggest realizations that I, a straight white guy from a small town, have made about history the more I study it is that ANY TIME you get a bunch of young, handsome, fit men together, whether soldiers, sailors, cowboys, etc. together, gay stuff will inevitably happen, and happen a LOT.

    • @20chocsaday
      @20chocsaday 11 месяцев назад +3

      Usually means nothing that will last, but the body of someone like you is comforting and helps you face the world.
      I wonder what History will make of the late me.

    • @PhillShecter-dd1nn
      @PhillShecter-dd1nn 8 месяцев назад +8

      ​@@20chocsadaydrama queen

    • @Nic0Dr4ws
      @Nic0Dr4ws 18 дней назад +3

      @@20chocsaday are you trying to tell me you did some gay shit in the military?

  • @IceDragon064
    @IceDragon064 Год назад +636

    Threatening masculine tradition with frivolous gay fun is truly something I strive for.

    • @backwoodbeaches7895
      @backwoodbeaches7895 7 месяцев назад

      Too bad your parents failed you.

    • @Reylandson
      @Reylandson 4 месяца назад +2

      This is almost what Rupaul's Drag Race does lol

    • @yahjangalmilotakphailahuahai
      @yahjangalmilotakphailahuahai 2 месяца назад

      "Masculine tradition" typically has gay undertones

    • @zetrey4373
      @zetrey4373 2 месяца назад

      Right cuz that’s why u a basement dweller

    • @gabbykabins4333
      @gabbykabins4333 2 месяца назад +2

      This has always been the gay agenda 😂😂😂

  • @sknot08
    @sknot08 2 года назад +3087

    Thank you for not calling us Indians, rather Natives, acknowledging adequately who we are, and drawing attention to our queer history, at least briefly. You are a treasure and a powerful ally. Love you channel beyond words. Peace be with you

    • @dannyboidee
      @dannyboidee 2 года назад +293

      I always find it odd that people still call Natives Indians despite having the knowledge now and even then that they never originated from India.

    • @floepiejane
      @floepiejane Год назад +59

      I'm fifty yo and Seneca Iroquois, and yank bothers me more - is more insulting - than indian tbh. In fact, I don't mind indian; it's just another English word. But I don't like AmerInd. Uggg, that's weird, makes me feel like a specimen. Go figure.

    • @silverstar4289
      @silverstar4289 Год назад +4

      This doesn’t count Comanche, does it? Screw the Comanche.

    • @hmsstudios6471
      @hmsstudios6471 Год назад +81

      @@sofiajimenez4035yes indigenous or native American is fine just don't use Indian because that the name the white man gave us because Columbus thought he found a new route to india but it was actually a America not india so basically please don't calls Indians because we're not Indians we're native Americans/indigenous people

    • @zoomertoast3703
      @zoomertoast3703 Год назад +33

      I've seen many Indigenous Nations refer themselves as Indians. Curious to hear indigenous people's thoughts on this

  • @emilyhunt6580
    @emilyhunt6580 Год назад +336

    “If you’re a transphobe, you’re not welcome roasting marshmallers at my campfire. *cough cough*”
    - Kaz Rowe

  • @alyssaortega3185
    @alyssaortega3185 2 года назад +3766

    Honestly, this is why I love the internet. People think that history is a single thread when it's really a tapestry of other threads that come together to make something amazing. For too long we've been taught that only certain threads are worth focusing on and only now are we discovering everything that's been forced into the background. Thank you for all your hard work 🤠

    • @ladyredl3210
      @ladyredl3210 2 года назад +27

      I love you, and your comment, I feel exactly the same.

    • @abbyrutherford1021
      @abbyrutherford1021 2 года назад +21

      this is exactly what i was thinking when i tapped on this video. i love when people can use internet to show different stories from history we haven’t heard before and making it interesting. this is beauty and grace itself

    • @AgernonTheUnfair
      @AgernonTheUnfair 2 года назад

      Maybe sometimes if you’re forced into the background it’s because you’re useless

    • @fbyi2940
      @fbyi2940 2 года назад +4

      Internet is good, social media is cancer.

    • @sparkle1022
      @sparkle1022 2 года назад +5

      @@AgernonTheUnfair and queer people arent.

  • @derindeschain7978
    @derindeschain7978 2 года назад +2459

    Howdy. I'm a Two-Spirit Old West historical reenactor, ranch hand, and desert wilderness and horseback tour guide. I've been working since 2013 to try to raise awareness about the REAL West, not that straight/cis/white/vanilla-washed John Wayne propoganda version. I'm so happy to see others helping in doing this work. Thank you for doing this and helping to bring the truth back to the light of day. Much obliged.

    • @yemyearmii7231
      @yemyearmii7231 2 года назад +41

      I really hope you’re indigenous because two spirit is reserved for indigenous Americans

    • @derindeschain7978
      @derindeschain7978 2 года назад +82

      @@yemyearmii7231 I am.

    • @yemyearmii7231
      @yemyearmii7231 2 года назад +29

      @@derindeschain7978 what tribes?

    • @derindeschain7978
      @derindeschain7978 2 года назад +95

      @@yemyearmii7231 Aniyvwiya/Cherokee :) And yourself?

    • @yemyearmii7231
      @yemyearmii7231 2 года назад +82

      @@derindeschain7978 Lumbee, Lakota, Iroquois, Algonquin 🧡🪶

  • @RealFatKratos
    @RealFatKratos Год назад +695

    I just wanted to say thank you for making this video. I myself am not gay, but after being a single father of roughly 18 years and just assuming my son hadn't yet ever had a girlfriend because he was shy and sheltered, he recently came out to me as gay and introduced me to his boyfriend. The only problem it has ever been with me is simply the prospect of "oh God my baby boy is grown up and dating already" and never in the slightest has it changed how much I love and care for him. Ever since, I have tried my best to become more educated and present in the world of LGBTQ and it saddens me at times to constantly discover new levels of hate and discrimination against it out there. For all these reasons, I greatly appreciate you and all alike out there who educate and support these topics and the humans that belong to them. I've watched a few of your videos already but I definitely hit subscribe after this one. Thanks again and please keep making great content.

    • @humantrash1478
      @humantrash1478 10 месяцев назад +49

      That's really sweet of you!!
      Even tho it should be the standard, many people don't go the route you did
      You sound like a great father :))
      I wish you, your son, his boyfriend and everyone else in your family a happy life!!

    • @Beeboopbop94
      @Beeboopbop94 10 месяцев назад +29

      Fathers like you are a treasure ❤️

    • @sarahoitmann3900
      @sarahoitmann3900 9 месяцев назад +22

      You such a good father❤💕

    • @RealFatKratos
      @RealFatKratos 9 месяцев назад +8

      @@humantrash1478 thank you that was nice to say ☺️

    • @RealFatKratos
      @RealFatKratos 9 месяцев назад +6

      @@sarahoitmann3900 I appreciate that thank you

  • @ItsAVolcano
    @ItsAVolcano Год назад +335

    I remember when Lil Nas X's Hometown Road got popular and one of the big arguments against it was how "unrealistic" a black cowboy was...😒😑
    The stereotype of every cowboy looking like John Wayne is incredibly pervasive.

    • @Guineapigsreadingbooks
      @Guineapigsreadingbooks 8 месяцев назад +47

      Conservative Americans really do get enraged at the mere thought of diversity… Just like people complaining that interracial relationships in media are “ forced on them”, as if they didn’t actually exist in the real world.

    • @cowpokejohnny3419
      @cowpokejohnny3419 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@Guineapigsreadingbooksyou people lack common sense .

    • @colbyboucher6391
      @colbyboucher6391 7 месяцев назад +20

      @@cowpokejohnny3419 What is common sense telling you about that comment, since we're lacking it?

    • @cowpokejohnny3419
      @cowpokejohnny3419 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@Guineapigsreadingbooks to believe that homosexuality is okay or that there are more than two genders.

    • @cowpokejohnny3419
      @cowpokejohnny3419 7 месяцев назад

      @@colbyboucher6391 accusing white Americans with racism !!

  • @ARVETDEG
    @ARVETDEG 2 года назад +1937

    Let's not forget that a lot of Texan and Southern US cowboy culture, ranch culture, etc. came form Mexico. Not only because Mexico had a deep engrained culture about horse cattle, but a very agriculture culture in the old days. And let's not forget that the southern part of the US used to be part of Mexico. That's why I always find funny how some US southerns, think that the south has always been white with white culture before and after the Mexican and American war, when in fact, before the war, it was a mixture, but the Mexican and indigenous cultures, where more prominent until white culture took over almost completely. Not for something, around the era of the wild west, there were lots of Mexicans and indigenous people. So of course, part of our culture was borrowed in those parts. In fact, the ranchero culture, is still prevalent in modern day Mexico, especially in the North and is a very respected profession in it's own way.
    Fun fact. Mexico abolished slavery in 1837, 16 years after becoming independent and before the US did it, and when black slaves ran to Mexico, they immediately became free. And when the US asked for their slaves to be returned, Mexico always gave them the middle finger and granted Mexican citizenship to those escaped black slaves apart form their freedom.

    • @maryeckel9682
      @maryeckel9682 2 года назад +158

      So much of the terminology, riding style, tack and equipment, etc. is obviously derived from Mexico.

    • @maryeckel9682
      @maryeckel9682 2 года назад +86

      Also, here in northern Illinois, a friend and I stumbled on a Vaquero show and were immediately welcomed. What a great experience! The horses were spectacular, the horsemanship absolutely top notch--so exciting.

    • @Pradapussy
      @Pradapussy 2 года назад +75

      As a first gen Mexican American I agree so much my dads family is from northern Mexico and they are very much cowboy types

    • @JP-br4mx
      @JP-br4mx 2 года назад +3

      You ever smell pizza but there’s none around

    • @emilyonizuka4698
      @emilyonizuka4698 2 года назад +8

      wow I never knew mexico was so cool. thanks for sharing!

  • @GapingGorble
    @GapingGorble 2 года назад +1861

    "you're not welcome roasting marshmellers at my campfire" the HIGHEST dishonor!
    also, holy crap I was not expecting to tear up at the word "comf" today

    • @dariadarling
      @dariadarling 2 года назад +32

      same 😭

    • @maryeckel9682
      @maryeckel9682 2 года назад +16

      That got to me, too.

    • @shoutingalice2943
      @shoutingalice2943 2 года назад +38

      "Are ya comf?" I love her soooo much. Literally the sweetest lady

    • @burgermeowster
      @burgermeowster 2 года назад +18

      I'm telling this story to everyone I know and I'm adopting it as part of my vocabulary

    • @abbyf7610
      @abbyf7610 2 года назад +12

      These two were also my highlights of the video 🌟

  • @stoneinyan2070
    @stoneinyan2070 Год назад +1214

    Yes! I am a hetero, indigenous woman who has been tradish (Lakota) since I was a kid. The holy man I go to is a winkté. Winktés have always been recognized in my culture as medicine people because they have 2 spirits. They can see both genders, as they have the vantage point of both. My people have never lost sight of this role, even through colonization. You did such a beautiful job telling this history, thank you!!

    • @tedecker3792
      @tedecker3792 Год назад +18

      In the old days the Sundance pole was first “chopped” ceremonially by a Winkte, before being moved to the dance location.

    • @kathleenhartnellharper7234
      @kathleenhartnellharper7234 Год назад +1

      I’ve heard them called Beardaches.

    • @kathleenhartnellharper7234
      @kathleenhartnellharper7234 Год назад +7

      As a nurse in a facility I had occasional to see patients that didn’t fit the mold. We had a woman in her 80’s who had spent a good deal of her later life traveling the world with her sister. One night I helped the nurses aid clean the women and was shocked to see that although she had out worldly feminine genitalia, she had no vagina. I was very surprised.

    • @kathleenhartnellharper7234
      @kathleenhartnellharper7234 Год назад +2

      Just discovered this site. It’s Great 👍 Looking forward to future topics.

    • @demonnox5829
      @demonnox5829 Год назад +25

      @@kathleenhartnellharper7234 please don't use that term, its a slur toward native Queer people that can also imply p*dophilia

  • @rougenarwhal8378
    @rougenarwhal8378 Год назад +87

    the thing about doctors in ye old days prescribing "be trans, do cowboy stuff" makes me think that the transphobes that came after really had no excuse of "it was a different time back then"

  • @detectivemothman8455
    @detectivemothman8455 2 года назад +1391

    I'm native and nonbinary, being queer and indigenous is important to me, its part of me and to hear you talking about it in a historical senses means more then you realize, people like me have existed for so long but its been hidden by years of blurred lines, its just nice to see someone finally setting the recorded "straight" :D

    • @yemyearmii7231
      @yemyearmii7231 2 года назад +42

      Hello from Your sister tribes Iroquois, Lakota, Algonquin and Lumbee!!

    • @misareyn8650
      @misareyn8650 2 года назад +23

      Hello from the cherokee tribe!

    • @macuna1995
      @macuna1995 2 года назад +22

      Navajo and pan here, fist bump! 👊🏼

    • @beematthewswood
      @beematthewswood 2 года назад +18

      bi non-binary raramuri person here! hello! :)

    • @ryochoi1352
      @ryochoi1352 2 года назад

      Niitsitapi Asexual and Biromantic

  • @amandab.recondwith8006
    @amandab.recondwith8006 Год назад +987

    I had a friend whose uncle lived with his brother on an isolated farm in northern South Dakota. I remember meeting them back in the 70s when they were both in their 80s. Ernie and Norm. Ernie was the real uncle, but I later learned Norm was not related by blood to the family. While the family simply ignored the fact, I put two and two together and realized Ernie and Norm were "partners" and had lived together since they met as soldiers in World War I. They lived alone together, respected by their farming neighbors, and left respectfully to live their lives together until Norm died in the late 70s, followed very soon after by Ernie. They were together to the end, which I found very poignant.

    • @sheepsky
      @sheepsky Год назад +84

      That is an incredibly touching story. Thank you for sharing

    • @tianna1116
      @tianna1116 Год назад +53

      Wow that’s so sweet, I’m so happy they were treated with kindness and respect.

    • @davidsnedeker8098
      @davidsnedeker8098 Год назад +82

      @@tianna1116 i am almost 80. this story is a lot more common than people think today. peoplewispered but left others alone.

    • @Burnerbaby
      @Burnerbaby Год назад +22

      Wow. This made me tear up. Thanks for sharing with us. So sweet.

    • @utej.k.bemsel4777
      @utej.k.bemsel4777 Год назад +9

      As it should be!

  • @fake-inafakerson8087
    @fake-inafakerson8087 2 года назад +691

    I burst into tears at "Poor dear. I hope she's finally comf"

    • @barbara_LL
      @barbara_LL Год назад +13

      I've watched this video many times and I still tear up everytime I hear it :")

    • @thEannoyingE
      @thEannoyingE Год назад +1

      Why?

    • @hairymcnipples
      @hairymcnipples Год назад +3

      I have to admit that I need to keep reminding myself that she didn't die young and apparently lived a mostly good life after transition (even though it's awful that her final wishes went unrespected:/) It's the husband - driven to suicide - that I feel for:(

  • @CloroxBleach-nu8vo
    @CloroxBleach-nu8vo Год назад +139

    As a gay navy sailor the stereotype of the gay sailor is still very much prevalent in our own circle. First thing I hear when I talk to others in different branches is the gay jokes ☠️. It’s kinda of weird that such stereotypes have stay for over a 100 years now lol

    • @Jackie-cl2qe
      @Jackie-cl2qe 19 дней назад

      Spill like, how gay on a scale is it really, or is it just a stereotype? Seen it in riverdale so I assume it's true

  • @dizzyandkoko
    @dizzyandkoko Год назад +277

    Hi, I'm a queer Native American person and I heavily appreciate you talking about Natives in your video!
    At the end, you mentioned that tribes had their own gender/sexuality rules, and thats true! A few years ago when I came out to my mom, she mentioned that women couldn't use the drum because they had a lot of spiritual power. With that in mind, she told me that queer women in queer relationships where considered more spirituality powerful.

    • @OutbackCatgirl
      @OutbackCatgirl 10 месяцев назад +8

      based and accurate tbh

    • @aspynryde7305
      @aspynryde7305 9 месяцев назад +10

      All the natives in this comment section make me wish that I could just run away and hang out with some tribes. It's always nice to learn about native Americans because most tribes seem to have more respect for diversity in general
      (this is coming from a white person in a major white area so plz excuse me if I say something wrong, I'm trying)

  • @nikkicafeina
    @nikkicafeina 2 года назад +1445

    I could so tell you've lived in Texas. I live in Houston, I've worked The Rodeo, and as a WLW Latina I very much appreciate an academic encapsulation of things I've been telling people for YEARS.

    • @MegCazalet
      @MegCazalet 2 года назад +30

      Howdy fellow Houstonian! Born and raised here and I love it. “Houston: It’s Worth It”!

    • @noemitellez3098
      @noemitellez3098 2 года назад +6

      Hi neighbors ! 🤍

    • @everything5066
      @everything5066 2 года назад +5

      Hudson Texas baby

    • @2degucitas
      @2degucitas Год назад +2

      WLW?

    • @nikkicafeina
      @nikkicafeina Год назад +9

      @@2degucitas woman loving woman!

  • @emi7867
    @emi7867 2 года назад +711

    Love this essay! In high school I wrote a short story about a rugged cowgirl who sought revenge from a capitalistic rancher, who had kidnapped her wife. My very western-loving, republican teacher was confused at best and low key disgusted at worse. He basically told me that my story was unrealistic. It’s nice to know that 4 years later, my gay cowboy story was more realistic than his John Wayne movies lol!

  • @indie-rose6
    @indie-rose6 2 года назад +86

    ‘I hope she is finally comf’ OH MY GOD MY HEART

  • @magnacary
    @magnacary Год назад +90

    that poem made me cry. I had a partner for a short time who was an older man...he loved men but loved women too. He was just..him. I allowed him the sexual relationship with men, for his happiness meant mine. He loved me once and I knew where his heart was, but he couldn't help loving men too. I let him be who he was.

  • @milesclay2209
    @milesclay2209 2 года назад +1562

    I'm a big fan of Alan Hart and have read up on him, after wwii he was able to start taking testosterone and apparently seemed more confident and outspoken. I'm so happy you included trans masc history, a lot of people dismiss historical trans men because they think they just lived that way to avoid misogyny (which can end up becoming a bit terfy). I believe there was also a trans man who fought in the Civil war but I don't remember exactly what his name is.

    • @erraticonteuse
      @erraticonteuse 2 года назад +137

      It was Albert Cashier!

    • @milesclay2209
      @milesclay2209 2 года назад +78

      @@erraticonteuse yeah that's who I was thinking about! I am also a bit of a civil war buff so I was super happy to know he existed.

    • @Bildgesmythe
      @Bildgesmythe 2 года назад +83

      Also several doctors AFAB that lived as male until death.

    • @milesclay2209
      @milesclay2209 2 года назад +104

      @@Bildgesmythe yeah! Like James Barry who literally yelled at Florence Nightingale, the mother of modern nursing.

    • @sillycookie
      @sillycookie 2 года назад +94

      There was also a trans man in the Mexican Revolution!
      Amelio Robles Ávila. He was a colonel!

  • @andycrenshaw2789
    @andycrenshaw2789 2 года назад +664

    “cause Al ain’t here no more”
    i’m sobbing. The Lost Pardner is such a heartwrenching poem. i only wish i could reach back in time to let these souls know that they’ve touched mine. these are my ancestors, my queer forebears. our feelings are as old as time. I truly, dearly hope they are all comf now.

    • @BadWebDiver
      @BadWebDiver 2 года назад +8

      That poem was so beautiful!

    • @Orrphoiz
      @Orrphoiz 2 года назад +6

      I chuckled at the term 'forebears' xD

    • @davidduffield7902
      @davidduffield7902 Год назад

      Where is Lost Partner from as a source?

    • @tedecker3792
      @tedecker3792 Год назад +3

      Badger Clark was from Deadwood SD, and is considered the poet laureate of South Dakota.

  • @AnnaMae41194
    @AnnaMae41194 Год назад +78

    my husbands grandma makes family trees for a living, and discovered an ancestor that was the mayor of a western town and after their death the town discovered that she was a woman masquerading as a man. she'd had a kid and so she was the first female mayor in the west, this was before women could vote in the us, so the town kept her secret.

  • @gingerlancaster3033
    @gingerlancaster3033 2 года назад +144

    Being born in 1958, I grew up being taught "traditional" history. It's only been the last 20 years or so that it's begun to come out how seriously that one threaded history was forced on us. Some of it was just flat out lies, and so, so much was left out completely

    • @jj-bv3ui
      @jj-bv3ui Год назад +12

      Thank you for being open to learning in a time where so many are not

    • @cassandramartin7028
      @cassandramartin7028 11 месяцев назад +6

      If you're interested, I'd recommend the book "A People's History of the United States" by Howard Zinn. It helps to break down a lot of the history we were taught in school and show the fallacies and why they were a convenient story to teach us as Americans

  • @ChainReactionsProductions
    @ChainReactionsProductions 2 года назад +795

    Saw this notification, screamed “Hell yeah, gay cowboys” and immediately clicked lol

  • @tortillasconsal4441
    @tortillasconsal4441 2 года назад +557

    I really loved this video. As a mexican who lives in Northen Mexico where the ranchero culture is still *very* prevalent (my dad was a bull tamer, my brother was a "charro" -like a horserider that does cool rope tricks-, my sister was an "escaramusa" -they were sort of dancers that ride horses-, and me and my little sister did some cow herdering when we were little) it is very exciting to hear about cowboy history, *especially* queer cowboy history as a nonbinary lesbian. It feels like I'm more in touch with my culture hearing queer history of how the cowboy society was like and learning how diverse it actually was. It bafles me but doesn't really surprises me that white-cishet culture took over it
    As a thank you for this video I'll share a quick fun-fact: the word "bukaroo" is actually a mispronunciation of the spanish word "vaquero" which means cowboy in English

    • @leonineKelter
      @leonineKelter Год назад +23

      Yo nice! Im a queer colombian who lives in the Midwest and have been surrounded by stories of cishet white cowboys as well. I am very happy to hear that I live where many many queer poc came from miles away. It's touching for me

    • @LilyoftheLake14
      @LilyoftheLake14 11 месяцев назад +17

      Duuuuude! I didn't know the thing about buckaroo being a mispronounced version of vaquero!! They look way different written, but when I said vaquero out loud the way you would in Spanish, like the V actually being more of a B sound and so on (I took 4 years of Spanish lol) I could really hear it!! 😱 it sounds like buckaroo kinda and I could see an American, with a very thick American cowboy/texas accent, attempting to repeat vaquero sounding like they're saying buckaroo. 🤯 you blew my mind that is so friggin cool lol!!

    • @dariang4725
      @dariang4725 8 месяцев назад +1

      You guys have great English lol

  • @joshybosley391
    @joshybosley391 Год назад +39

    Fun fact: the inventor of cattle wrestling was Bill Pickett, a black cowboy. Despite the fact that many rodeos banned black performers like him, Pickett still found success. Look him up!

  • @erin_the_extra2329
    @erin_the_extra2329 9 месяцев назад +44

    “Poor dear, I hope she is finally comf” made me want to rip my heart out 😭😭

  • @megantron5331
    @megantron5331 2 года назад +364

    This video brought back some memories. As a young kid growing up in Idaho, my parents took me to a lot of rodeos, parades, fairs, etc. I became enamored with the cowboy/cowgirl aesthetic and my parents eventually got me boots and ten gallon hat. Soon after, we went to this parade where cowgirls and cowboys were riding horses through the streets of my hometown and I was really excited to show off my new boots to a group of cowgirls. I kept pointing to my boots and gleefully shouting, "I have boots too!" Looking back, I think this is one of my earliest expressions of femininity that eventually lead to me coming out as trans.

    • @animatedastronaut8967
      @animatedastronaut8967 Год назад +8

      Fellow idahoan!

    • @nimuedamon1936
      @nimuedamon1936 Год назад +18

      That is one of the cutest stories ever I'm lowkey tearing up. I'm glad you're you and I'm proud of you

    • @CHASE420stars
      @CHASE420stars Год назад +11

      I'm a trans man in idaho, it's good to see other people like us from this state.

  • @lenaeospeixinhos
    @lenaeospeixinhos 2 года назад +417

    As always, actual History is so much more interesting than the mainstream version of it. How can people not bask in the glory of diversity? How can people try to force Humanity into 2 dimensions and think that's actually better? I honestly finish this video with a flutter of happiness in my heart for how interesting everyone you spoke of was.

    • @grimble4564
      @grimble4564 Год назад +28

      Because the more people think in simple terms, the easier it is to control how they understand the world.

    • @DreamersOfReality
      @DreamersOfReality 5 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly.

  • @crustderg
    @crustderg Год назад +46

    20:28 As a transwoman, the quote from her friend legitimately made me cry.

  • @soabac0835
    @soabac0835 Год назад +46

    in general, all of history was way more queer than people think
    it didnt pop up in our time

  • @ggEmolicious
    @ggEmolicious 2 года назад +83

    “You don’t belong here, even though you’ve always been here.”
    In a bittersweet way that defines how I’ve felt all my life.

  • @sillyscribbles3
    @sillyscribbles3 2 года назад +270

    As someone who grew up in Montana and someone who has desperately tried to inform homophobic “country folk” in my town that cowboys were a lot gayer than they think, I love this video!

    • @r.w.860
      @r.w.860 Год назад +15

      @sillyscribbles3
      As someone who is currently in Montana (Kalispell) I do the same, although it may be in a different manner. There are many LGBTQ up here, and instead of picking sides and causing hatred, I do the best I can to arm the population, while trying to make amends between both sides. A strong population is harder to hurt when they are armed, and those who are in the LGBTQ can't be hurt if they have the weaponry to back themselves up. I do consider myself to be an ally, and my closest friend, someone I consider a sister, is very much lesbo, and I will go as far as to die to ensure her safety.
      Essentially, what I'm trying to do through my made up militia (Montana Liberation Front, AKA MLF, more commonly known as milf) is to make everyone stronger, mentally and physically, and to bring peace to everyone. I do this in multiple ways:
      *I spread words of peace, and the only reason, the ONLY reason violence should be brought into anything is for self defense
      *I try to bring common ground into arguments. If I see some shit going on, then I will try to be the peacemaker. This goes for anyone and everything.
      *I try to make make it a point to separate fact from fiction. No, fox news or CNN do not bring facts to the table and I swear to God if I hear anything about Trump whether its good or bad I will commit actions that will force the U.S. government to reinstate the death penalty on the federal level.
      That's all I got. I hope I don't cause any issues and if I do I'm sorry about that!

    • @eg4441
      @eg4441 Год назад +8

      @@r.w.860wanted to say, thank you for being such a dedicated ally. all that matters is you support us and have understanding! besides that, can i ask what living in montana is like for you or others? i'm just curious cause i have a character that grew up in montana and i like to hear personal anecdotes from people who live in these areas, since i'm from the southeast

    • @aspynryde7305
      @aspynryde7305 9 месяцев назад +2

      The homophobes definitely won't take your words for it, and if you try and show them something they will just scoff at you and doubt the sources

    • @ingloriousbetch4302
      @ingloriousbetch4302 3 месяца назад

      No words or proof will change the fundies. They've purposely steeped themselves in a sh*t ton of -isms and cling to then like a life raft

  • @lauragraham170
    @lauragraham170 Год назад +56

    "You can take the lesbian out of Texas, but you can't take the Texas out of the lesbian" 🤣🤣🤣

  • @williamvaux7500
    @williamvaux7500 Год назад +58

    Queer history is so NOT talked about and I deeply appreciate your channel for going in depth about it

  • @nox9328
    @nox9328 2 года назад +443

    I'm trying to write a story for uni and I just spent a week complaining about how hard it is to find information about the old west.
    You're a saviour, I'm so glad I got recommended this video skadsnabsb

    • @scizr6352
      @scizr6352 2 года назад +17

      You might want to look into a book called "the man who fell in love with the moon" by Tom Spanbauer :)

    • @Calories_To_Calibers
      @Calories_To_Calibers 2 года назад

      If you can't find information on the old west you've gotta be sitting on your fucking hands or just a dumbass. Oh wait you're wasting money at a university checks out.

    • @haileybalmer9722
      @haileybalmer9722 2 года назад +42

      @@Calories_To_Calibers get a therapist.

    • @6beepboop6
      @6beepboop6 2 года назад +31

      @@Calories_To_Calibers get well soon

    • @bitchbaby7308
      @bitchbaby7308 2 года назад +7

      @@Calories_To_Calibers you ok pal?

  • @jcphelps7054
    @jcphelps7054 2 года назад +312

    Trans masc Texan here and I've been lucky to always know that cowboys weren't all white. Knowing that they weren't all cishet sadly came later. Love having this history brought into the light and shared with a wider audience, especially in one of your wonderful videos

    • @ladyredl3210
      @ladyredl3210 2 года назад +15

      Hi sir! I wish you good luck in your life and I hope you're living your best life!

    • @elijahevan5722
      @elijahevan5722 2 года назад +12

      Hey, another trans masc Texan. Nice to see you in the wild. It's always nice to learn that people like me have always existed, even while being beat over the head with the straight Texan cowboy culture.

    • @roryearl1784
      @roryearl1784 2 года назад +12

      Transmasc Arizonan here! I had a pretty similar experience and I’m so glad I can learn really how queerness and cowboys intersect since I grew up being completely obsessed with them- all my boy cousins compete in rodeo and have their whole lives and I’ve always been so jealous but I doubt they, as small town Utah republicans, know how non white and queer cowboys have always been and they would lose it if they did lmao

    • @cathrsys9584
      @cathrsys9584 2 года назад +11

      @@elijahevan5722 Another fellow Trans Masc Texan here. Love to know there's more of us here in my state. Wouldn't mind having a beer with y'all.

    • @floo1465
      @floo1465 Год назад +6

      transfem texan here and yeah i’ve noticed that texas has a DISPROPORTIONATE amount of transmascs and i love it!!! is it just that a lot of texan conservatives don’t even know that y’all exist so you’re less afraid to be yourself?

  • @cowboyyyy
    @cowboyyyy Год назад +22

    there’s something so comforting for me about knowing that there were sapphics that dressed masculine to protect other women. as a butch, i feel an immense amount of pride to carry that flag forward. much love.

  • @paxluvsstarz
    @paxluvsstarz Месяц назад +5

    "I hope she is finally comf." Real trans joy is knowing that at the end of everything you have friends that will always love and respect you for all that you are

  • @mcwjes
    @mcwjes 2 года назад +227

    Quietly sitting here thinking about my great grandpa who was a cowboy, until he joined the Navy.

  • @AbsolXGuardian
    @AbsolXGuardian 2 года назад +332

    Alan Hart also wrote what is considered the first medical dramas (one of which is a novel about a gay radiologist trying not to be outed) as well as pioneered testing for TB using x-rays. Even without being trans, he is an important figure in medical history. He was likely the first person to legally transition in the united states without the use of fraud, using legal precedent from one of Hirschfeld's patients winning the right to serve in the German military after medically transitioning.

  • @kevinwells9751
    @kevinwells9751 Год назад +11

    Fun fact about people of color and rodeos! Hawaiian cowboys (called paniolo) were super hardcore because the feral cows on the Hawaiian islands are massive and terrifying. In spite of having no American rodeo experience Ikua Purdy along with two other paniolo (Archie Ka`aua, and Jack Low) went to the 1908 Frontier Days Rodeo in Wyoming and Ikua set a record by roping his steer in less than a minute. The three of them placed 1st, 3rd, and 6th respectively, which was such an unexpected upset that it caused something of an uproar among the rest of the competitors. He is now recognized as a rodeo legend but wasn't given the respect he should have received at the time

  • @rainbowroses88
    @rainbowroses88 3 месяца назад +4

    At my grandmother's passing, my family was going through old photo albums. I came across a small album within another album that was full of very old pictures. It was my great great grandmother in full men's clothing, often smoking a cigar, with a woman who was identified on the back of the photos as her "close friend and good neighbor". My family "disappeared" the album, but not before I saved two of the photos where they seemed happiest together. ❤

  • @DrewLSsix
    @DrewLSsix 2 года назад +259

    It's almost impossible to believe that a doctor of that era would look at a biologically female person, hear their case, and come to the utterly rational conclusion...... you just gotta be you brother.... its more than a little deflating every time I learn about this kind of stuff and I realize we probably haven't really come very far at all.
    On the other hand it's nice to know that we were always capable of such rational kindness.

    • @2degucitas
      @2degucitas Год назад +14

      The doctor took one look at how masculine they were, how deep their voice was and it was obvious.

  • @emilyweaver
    @emilyweaver 2 года назад +151

    the "i hope she is finally comf" quote absolutely made me cry

  • @massonman9099
    @massonman9099 Год назад +20

    I'm a straight old (UK) guy who has written 4 westerns. This was fascinating, and I loved it. I knew some of it, but, well... lost for words! Thankyou so much for this.

    • @OutbackCatgirl
      @OutbackCatgirl 10 месяцев назад

      Sir, please graciously consider writing up a queer 'n' POC inclusive cowboy romp in the same style as those westerns you've written with the eye opening this video has created

  • @autumn7809
    @autumn7809 2 года назад +24

    AS A QUEER WHO GREW UP IN THE SOUTHWEST, I WAS ALWAYS VERY DRAWN TO THE STORIES OF WOMEN OUT HERE AND HOW GENDER ROLES WERE ABANDONED OUT OF NECESSITY AND THE QUEER OLD WEST GENTLY HELP SHAPE HOW I SEE MYSELF THANKS KAZ

  • @danielaardila5081
    @danielaardila5081 2 года назад +855

    It never gets old learning how white cishet people, over and over again, appropriated a part of history in which minorities were heavily involved or downright created for themselves and twisted it to their favor.
    Excellent video as usual I learn a lot from your videos :D Nice outfits by the way.
    Also couldn't help to think that the lamp in the first half had also a cowboy hat.

    • @fionafiona1146
      @fionafiona1146 2 года назад +36

      Even male dominance isn't reflected!
      I have heard about a bone with 28 notches as "men's first calendar" while over 50% percent of the population have a reason to count that range of days, aren't mentioned in it's inception.

    • @jpgextinction
      @jpgextinction 2 года назад +26

      Reminds me of modern videogames appropriating homoerotic imagery and aesthetics to sell to fetishistic cishet women and uneducated men

    • @iknowthatyouregayfireflies9992
      @iknowthatyouregayfireflies9992 2 года назад +2

      @@jpgextinction I know exactly what you mean.

    • @itsmj3103
      @itsmj3103 2 года назад +48

      I read a comment somewhere that gays ruined disney movies when in fact, what seems to have ruined them is cis suburban family friendliness lol gays made disney bruh

    • @dulaman9791
      @dulaman9791 2 года назад +15

      @@itsmj3103 exactly! also its not a secret anymore that many disney villains were queer coded

  • @stupiidot
    @stupiidot 2 года назад +144

    i know this is the bare minimum.... but as an indigenous person when u said turtle island I literally started tearing up thank you so much. we are always underlooked

    • @Hat_achu
      @Hat_achu Год назад +2

      I’m white and thsi is first time I’ve really scene turtle island get a reaction at all bc I jsut havnt heart it much, you know?
      Is this something that others should say more too?

    • @stupiidot
      @stupiidot Год назад +2

      @@Hat_achu dont have to say it but its a huge nod of acknowledgement that shows u at least have a deeper understanding of indigenous issues than the average person. so i guess it isnt exactly the "bare minimum". just happy to see us and our issues being recognized

    • @Hat_achu
      @Hat_achu Год назад +2

      @@stupiidot so if I say it it’ll make people happy? I honestly just was really touched by your comment and I want others to feel that way too hfjdjd

  • @herbdandilion3434
    @herbdandilion3434 Год назад +17

    Holy crap, that letter about that man's lover after he passed made me openly weep. People talking about their lovers is beautiful.

  • @lilacheaven222
    @lilacheaven222 Год назад +40

    Barely half way through the video and I'm already crying 💀 Why is it so hard to accept and love each other no matter how we present??

  • @RozenKitten
    @RozenKitten 2 года назад +258

    As a Mexican-American growing up in “Deep South Texas” I was legitimately convinced that there was a “lost in translation” issue w/ Cowboys and Vaqueros. My grandpa would always tell me that Vaqueros were the REAL Cowboys but I always found it weird when a rancher would call himself a Cowboy even though technically they’d be correct. Even as an almost 30yr old I still feel weird thinking of a Cowboy as a ranch hand and not like a football team name or something from tv or my grandma’s erotic novel collection lmao.

    • @k80_
      @k80_ 2 года назад +26

      I think a good comparison would be that vaqueros back then are what truckers are today. Working class, skilled, transient tradesmen in a male-dominated field. Plus with how much gay sex goes on at truck stops it’s probably fair to say the culture hasn’t changed much

    • @GuiSmith
      @GuiSmith Год назад +7

      @@k80_ That’s an excellent way to put it. I know some truckers past and that makes everything click.

    • @shinysugardrops
      @shinysugardrops Год назад +5

      Your grandma's WHAT?? May I have the name of the novels?? For cowboy studies obviously

  • @liz5100
    @liz5100 2 года назад +361

    Honestly thank you for you 17 minute-ish insistence that is someone lived as a specific gender and then died as a specific gender than that's what they were and it erases historical trans people to say otherwise. This comes up alot when people discuss Dr. James Barry, who upon his death everyone alive just decided his will/wishes didn't need to be respected at all and the end result of that was everyone finding out he was a trans man. His legacy as a proponent of hand washing and belief in germ theory are completely forgotten. Not to mention his place as the first doctor to be able to perform a c-section and have both mother and child survive the procedure. Just a super important piece of medical history, but no all anyone has to say about him is that people desecrated his corpse and that was 'actually a woman'.

    • @victoriadiesattheend.8478
      @victoriadiesattheend.8478 2 года назад +40

      Oh my God. I had no idea. I had thought that the idea of insistence upon hand washing in medical settings was something attributed to Liston. I also had no idea he was the first (US citizen of the Western world, I'm guessing) person to successfully deliver a child via Csection with mother & child surviving and thriving after the birth. I'm going to look for more information on him. Thank you so much.

    • @nora4642
      @nora4642 Год назад +25

      I’m a whole ass health scientist and didn’t know this.

    • @thEannoyingE
      @thEannoyingE Год назад

      Biology class must drive you insane..

  • @Drakkona123
    @Drakkona123 Год назад +19

    This video did more than just educate me. I've had serious issues trying to consolidate my queerness with my love of more "country fella" pursuits like fishing or country music. Really, it was a part of queer culture all along that's just being further appropriated and horded by the institutions that control everything where I live. I don't feel so self conscious about it anymore. So thank you.

  • @DayZe13
    @DayZe13 6 месяцев назад +5

    “I hope she’s finally comf” not me sobbing

  • @Boggythefroggy
    @Boggythefroggy 2 года назад +300

    I’ve loved western movies and aesthetics since I was little because my dad loved it, but growing up lead me to realize the horrid colonizing and oppressive violence of the era..nowadays I try to enjoy the aesthetic by watching more discerning media that doesn’t shy away from the darkness of the west’s history. Also I love putting my gay/trans lil hands all over an aesthetic glorified by cishet white men✨

    • @Jdacosta1038
      @Jdacosta1038 2 года назад +11

      Your overthinking it. No shame in wearing cowboy hats and boots or enjoying westerns. They were just practical things to wear at the time, and now there fashionable. The western genre is vast and recently is starting to include people of all backgrounds who were a part of that original narrative. Mexico and Brazil started a lot of that original aesthetic. Many classics are self aware of its bloody history, just look at “The Good, The Bad, and the Ugly” which is literally all about the corrupting power of greed. The salvageable core of the western aesthetic is a sense of adventure, reinvention of yourself, new beginnings, and grit. Nobody owns that. Go yee-haw till your heart’s content ❤️, and fuck John Wayne.

    • @JoseAcosta-zc1zc
      @JoseAcosta-zc1zc Год назад +1

      @🇪🇸spanish boy i don't think anyone was arguing against that, we know basically all of the continent was colonized

  • @MegCazalet
    @MegCazalet 2 года назад +204

    Wow, Dr. Alan Hart was super brave to get a hysterectomy in the days before penicillin. That is powerful. So many powerful stories of brave people.
    I wish everyone was free to be truly “comf”.

    • @nora4642
      @nora4642 Год назад +19

      They already had so many years of experimenting on black women in the field of gynecology they had some knowledge about infection prevention and all that

    • @2degucitas
      @2degucitas Год назад +15

      Seriously, we need an "are ya comf?" T shirt

    • @CoffeesChypresBooks
      @CoffeesChypresBooks Год назад +3

      I would love a tshirt that asks “Are ya comf?” 😍

  • @jarrodestrada7692
    @jarrodestrada7692 Год назад +35

    While I am not gay,nor do I pretend to understand how I person can be attracted to someone of the same sex , I do appreciate this video and what you are doing

    • @mintii0308
      @mintii0308 Год назад +27

      i mean, you do not need to understand, just respect it. They respect you as well and while not being able to relate to the attraction to the other gender, theyre okay with it

    • @jarrodestrada7692
      @jarrodestrada7692 Год назад +20

      @@mintii0308 I do respect the fact that everyone has a right to live free and be themselves, I was hoping that my message conveyed that

  • @jojonono27
    @jojonono27 2 года назад +44

    I'm a transmasc guy. The stories of and quotes from Hart and Allen were incredibly validating. Manly tears were shed.

  • @kendan06
    @kendan06 2 года назад +58

    As a person from the south who always felt a sense of pride and connection to so-called cowboy culture, this video was very informative! I also fell prey to the myths of the old west popularized by television, not because it satisfied some idea I had of white, cishet, American masculinity, but because of the freedom it portrayed. Growing up a scared queer kid in an environment that saw my identity as at worst evil, and at best just a phase, it brought me comfort to imagine a fantastical image of America where I wouldn't have to hide myself, that I COULD be different and still respected, even loved. As I got older, I heard plenty of stories about famous non-conforming cowboys (and cowgirls, and everything in between) and felt seen by their presence, but I never stopped to consider how deep the history went, and just how much was left out of the popular view of the "wild west." This open explanation of the time period clearly comes from the heart and helped change my perspective on cowboys of old.

  • @beepbow8444
    @beepbow8444 Год назад +8

    NOOOOO that gay cowboy poem… the good ol way their knees touched…. Im fucking dying over here man

    • @metatron478
      @metatron478 Год назад +1

      Fucking devastatingly sad, dude.

  • @macuna1995
    @macuna1995 2 года назад +28

    Being Navajo and pan, I gonna say it's great to see topics like these discussed. High five!

  • @jacquelinej958
    @jacquelinej958 2 года назад +194

    you're such an amazing force of intersectional and progressive education. you truly use your platform for good.

  • @mystery1317
    @mystery1317 2 года назад +14

    “I hope she is finally comf” I’M-😭😭😭
    And the poem about the guy missing his partner? I’m done, I’m done 😭

  • @soysauce8020
    @soysauce8020 Год назад +13

    sooo saying you like witmans poems is the gay equivalent of "do you listen to girl in red"? got it 😂🧡

  • @valentin7574
    @valentin7574 11 месяцев назад +11

    And they were ranch mates ✨

  • @williamcarter1993
    @williamcarter1993 2 года назад +101

    this is what makes history so interesting. All these little stories weaved together like a quit explaining the story of humanity

  • @tanner3806
    @tanner3806 2 года назад +117

    I would honestly love to hear about the south asian, hawaiian, native, etc. ideas about gender non-conformity! Its been something Ive been meaning to look into honestly and it seems like something awesome for you to talk about

    • @Bl4k3.
      @Bl4k3. 2 года назад +12

      historical sources tend to call gender nonconformity the “third gender” its a good keyword if youre looking for older sources

  • @emilynelson5985
    @emilynelson5985 2 года назад +17

    You can’t tell me Johnny Cash wasn’t perfect and then immediately follow that up with photographic evidence that he was in fact perfect.

  • @melissapinol7279
    @melissapinol7279 Месяц назад +2

    I also wanted to mention that I am a Folksinger and there are a TON of traditional ballads and songs about women dressing up as men and running off to be soldiers, sailors, or "drummer boys".

  • @onbearfeet
    @onbearfeet 2 года назад +87

    Thanks for including the Walt Whitman references! I got myself a copy of Leaves of Grass for Christmas as part of my exploration of my own queer identity, and I'm deeply amused by the fact that everyone who's seen me with it has assumed I'm just reading some wholesome all-American poetry about Abraham Lincoln.
    I mean...he did write about Lincoln...but he had a certain perspective about it...

    • @nora4642
      @nora4642 Год назад +1

      Some of us got to read him in like elementary school!!

    • @shaleamontanez4591
      @shaleamontanez4591 Год назад +2

      We read a piece of one of his works in school, but I have no idea why they never told us about his sexuality. Not that it truly matters to me as a person, but he's an important historical figure who deserves the recognition for what he was and what he stood for

  • @sesfilmsllc
    @sesfilmsllc 2 года назад +178

    Welp, I’m Bi and like Old West history. Already got me hooked.

    • @jeremysmith4620
      @jeremysmith4620 2 года назад +16

      Hell, I'm straight and not really into the old west, but who in their right mind wouldn't want to hear Kaz discuss queer cowboys? A new video was good enough, queer cowboys is just the very rough, sweaty, and leather chaps wearing icing on the cake.

    • @AntiStraightMaleSociety
      @AntiStraightMaleSociety 2 года назад

      @@jeremysmith4620 go away only straight women are welcome

  • @torcaace
    @torcaace 11 месяцев назад +12

    i like how the haters are proving your points

  • @miakutny5105
    @miakutny5105 Год назад +14

    Thank you Kaz for the Indigenous Resources and also for the acknowledgment of Turtle Island ✊🏽 Chi Miigwetch

  • @Luna-dh1xd
    @Luna-dh1xd 2 года назад +203

    A queer history of the US pre Euro Invasion would be cool.

    • @literaterose6731
      @literaterose6731 2 года назад +40

      You might want to check out Twin Rabbit here on yt, a small indigenous creator who does address this in some of their videos (there’s only a few so far, but they’re all pretty interesting!): ruclips.net/channel/UC_7FDEMkBBWWcol7QPzToaw
      I’d love to see a lot more like this, especially by indigenous creators themselves. Anybody reading with more recommendations, please pass them on!

    • @burgermeowster
      @burgermeowster 2 года назад +6

      @@literaterose6731 thanks for the recc!

    • @burnteffigy87
      @burnteffigy87 2 года назад +9

      There's some amazing works found thru AK Press that deal with different Racialized and Marginalized People s history of the United States as well as many other great reads!

    • @nora4642
      @nora4642 Год назад +5

      Anthropologist here - it’s hard to say because European contact goes back so far that all we have are things that don’t decay - bones, stones - and we can’t tell much about social relationships like that, there’s just not enough evidence to say either way. the book The Invisible Sex talks a lot about sex and gender in ancient archaeology and i think some things about sexuality and queerness can be extrapolated from that.

  • @panqueque445
    @panqueque445 2 года назад +30

    18:10 "The only way to treat his condition was to live his life the way he wanted to live it"
    That's surprisingly good for the time. I expected some nightmarish electro shock therapy or something awful like that akin to conversion therapy.

  • @deepconnection1169
    @deepconnection1169 11 месяцев назад +11

    My heart brakes for gay and transgendered people of the past. They really were abused terribly. Equality for all. LGBTQ+ 2023. The year is 2023 and we still have such terrible prejudices. So wrong. I once read that native Americans celebrated their gay, Or transgendered tribe members. They saw it as a gift from the gods. A blessing if you will. That God would gift the tribe with a member who could see life through two perspectives. Food for thought. How right they were to think so. 🎉🎉❤❤

    • @kriskabin
      @kriskabin 7 месяцев назад

      Documentary: " Two Spirits" ( About Fred F.C. Martinez & an excellent LGBTQI history lesson in Native cultures & European.)

  • @LilBearZen
    @LilBearZen Год назад +5

    As a queer cowgirl, I appreciate the recognition. Horse girls are notoriously lesbian, so idk why this isn’t more talked about.

    • @OutbackCatgirl
      @OutbackCatgirl 10 месяцев назад +2

      can confirm
      i was really into horses (dad was a jockey lol, absolutely love how the beautiful creatures snuffle up carrot bits they're precious) and i lesbian'd so hard i became a girl

    • @kriskabin
      @kriskabin 7 месяцев назад

      Google Charley Parkhurst & Lozen,....they were amazing Lesbian/Trans-masculine equestrians of the American west 1860-70s.

  • @ShelleyJaneK
    @ShelleyJaneK 2 года назад +85

    This video reminded me of my senior thesis paper in my undergrad about how women working as sex workers in the west helped significantly contribute to the passing of the 19th amendment. I had so much fun researching and writing that paper that I eventually bought my own copies of all the books I borrowed from the library while researching for it. 🤠

    • @nora4642
      @nora4642 Год назад +12

      Drop the book list!!

  • @sofialima4521
    @sofialima4521 2 года назад +90

    There's so much love in the videos you put out about queer history that I'm constantly heartbroken and heart warmed (?) at the same time. The truth always comes out in history, no matter how much people try to erase diversity, it's there, and passionate enough people will find it and speak of it. It makes a difference for me, and I hope it does for others, too. Thank you for sharing!

  • @LordDomielOfElysium
    @LordDomielOfElysium 2 года назад +6

    Two women’s corpses holding hands with a sweet letter nearby-
    Historians: “and they were bestfriends”

  • @eloylie
    @eloylie 2 года назад +25

    Shoutout to myself, a trans guy who once commented under a blog post about 1920s lesbians that it would be also very cool to hear about transfolk from the 1920s and all comments replying to me were just straight up telling me that it didnt exist and that I was wrong and dumb and stupid.

  • @bonniebrown5094
    @bonniebrown5094 2 года назад +65

    This lesbian stuck in Texas will keep rootin' and masked tootin' just because you told me to
    Another amazing video! 🖤

  • @matthew40
    @matthew40 2 года назад +36

    Kaz, as a very soft hetero half Mexican man, I can't begin to thank you for this wonderful history. As being born and raised in Los Angeles, went to Manzanar in high school, I could never be a "proud" American, but I am always grateful for all-encompassing knowledge. I have watched all your videos, still learning about a world I am not a part of, but is a part of my life all the same. Also, F John Wayne and Reagan. You, and those you follow on this platform I have been engaging with, I cannot even express my enormous gratitude.

  • @susie8799
    @susie8799 Год назад +3

    Old Nash 😭😭😭 she sounds like such a kind soul

  • @breegrimm7142
    @breegrimm7142 Год назад +22

    I just discovered your content this week thanks to the your Bram Stoker video. I am a Trans Woman living in Texas (Yee-Haw) and I really, really appreciate all of your Queer History videos. They are so fascinating and your presentation style is exceptionally engaging and entertaining. Keep up the good work and thank you! Happy Halloween!

  • @tinypete901
    @tinypete901 2 года назад +57

    Thanks you for donating to the native organizations. Its greatly needed and appreciated.

  • @xofrnkk9209
    @xofrnkk9209 2 года назад +16

    i cried at "poor dear, i hope shes finally comf" 🥺

  • @kandipiatkowski8589
    @kandipiatkowski8589 Год назад +12

    I changed my terminology of native Americans in high school, simply to differentiate between the actual Indians (peopke from India). I still slip up from time to time (old habits die hard), but I understand the difference.
    Thank you for this video! One of my favorite time periods is the late 1800s, so I learned a lot from this video!

  • @maryallison0509
    @maryallison0509 Год назад +4

    Kaz I've watched a few of your videos in a row. I'm a Ally and Momma to a gay son, with a few other queer family members. This is all about 5 years new to me. But I have ALWAYS been in support of the community. I don't care who you love as long as you are good to eachother.

  • @kayakat1869
    @kayakat1869 2 года назад +21

    My ancestors were black cowboys in Colorado and Wyoming. A lot of my family still lives out there today.

  • @BirdAntlers
    @BirdAntlers 2 года назад +137

    I'm literally having an anxiety attack rn but "we'll put a boot in your ass, this is the USA" got a damn good laugh out of me. Loved this video
    Also as a fellow Texan lesbian, "you can take the lesbian out of Texas, but you can't take the Texas out of the lesbian" is one of my new all time favorite quotes

  • @thomasoostema3625
    @thomasoostema3625 9 месяцев назад +4

    I'm a second generation Native American from a full blooded Native American family and I really appreciate the donation you did! I grew up on a reservation and the younger kids really need the cultural support 😁 Tysm

  • @cinnamoncatnip
    @cinnamoncatnip 11 месяцев назад +8

    "comf" is such a transfem thing to say

    • @OutbackCatgirl
      @OutbackCatgirl 10 месяцев назад +1

      it really is I've been unknowingly using it for the better part of the last 5 years

    • @rottengal
      @rottengal 4 месяца назад

      none of these words are in the bible
      /j