@@fireandiriethese children have just experienced loss and I think they are adjusting very well despite the circumstances. Not to mention, boys in general can be a handful, Dave was alone in the house, now he is amongst other children, it is definitely an adjustment. I think in due time, Tyler and Sonia will see the fruits of their labour! Hang in there parents, you are creating a structure for these boys, that will allow them to become responsible and independent young men some day. God may be testing your patience right now, but you are indeed the biggest blessing these children could ask for!
Tyler, I think you guys are doing a great job with these boys already. Maybe a sincere thank you email to the donor could do.Also they each could do one good deed for a needy child in class or neighborhood.That way they'll know how it feels not only to receive but also to give.
Happy Birthday Sonia 🎉🎈🎂🥳. I think if the boys do more prepping the night before, such as ironing clothes (or Sonia), polishing shoes, etc. in the mornings will be less chaotic. Not sure how you're going to gauge when the boys are deserving of receiving their soccer shoes; I'll leave the suggestions to the more seasoned parents/guardians in the comments.
Hi Tyler. I think the boys should write a letter of appreciation after it is explained that this is a gift and not an entitlement. By the time they stay on track to earn the shoes Andre will get them all because they won’t fit the older boys 😂😅😮. A-letter of appreciation .
Happy birthday Sonia 🎊🎂🎊. Much health and blessings. Tyler, I know you and Sonia are navigating this new sensitive journey with the boys; however, as their parental guardian please continue to convey a sense of value, accountability, truth and structure. As a Mom of grown boys, we applied those concepts in our parenting model, as they are necessary in developing ; whole and productive persons. I so commend you both, keep making strides as consistency work. Continued blessings🙏🏽
Mr and Mrs. T, reading the comments, I do feel your pain. It's not like you took them as babies, they are products of their former home and school environment, the latter, a mix of all types. Even Andre needs a little attention. Anyway, I know it's hard but please don't give up on them, they need guidance. May God give you the strength and patience to continue. One love😊
Hello my Fire & Irie family, Happy birthday blessings Sonia enjoy your special day tomorrow remember to pamper yourself even if for a few minutes. Andre I see you trying keep it up. Tyler God's blessing be with you and Sonia as you navigate through this parenting. Good night Andre 😊 Thanks Tyler for your patience and the vlog .❤
Happy birthday Sonia and many more blessings.l love watching your family the kids need to have some discipline wen talking to their parent are an adult . Thanks to you guys for being so nice I enjoy your videos.
HAPPY🎉🎶HAPPY 🎶HAPPPPPY🎶✨ 🎉🎶BIRTHDAY🎁🎶🛍🎶👑SONIA🎇 🎶🎉 💐🍷🍷🍾I JUST LOVE THE LITTLE ONES 👑 TYLER AND👑 SONIA YOU ARE SO LOVING AND KIND TO THE LITTLE ONES 🤗STAY💪💪🙏👍🙏STAY AS SWEET AND KIND AS YOU ARE😂 I LAUGH SO HARD WHILE SONIA WAS AT GATE TALKING AND YOU ARE INSIDE WAITING ON HER SO HILARIOUS🤜 💥🤛 💘🔥AND IRIE👍🤣🤣
Good afternoon family!!! First I would like to wish Sonia a very Happy Birthday and many, more. If I may say so, I was a bit disappointed in learning how the boys made that purchase behind your back Tyler, happy you caught it before you had to pay for it. The garden is looking great, the coop looks good, soon it will be filled with chickens. Hope the boys can earn their sneakers. Have a great rest of the day, had some snow here in NY.
@@fireandirie Sorry to hear about the leaky gutters. You probably needed to have the seamless ones with the mesh covers to prevent leaves from getting inside them.
@marciaservice6396 ha...they're going fornthe silicone and well make it work one way or another. The 2 800 gallon tanks over half full from today's rain!🥰
It's obvious they don't really understand how those things work, all you need to do is explain to them what they can and cannot do on the iPod. Remember these kids are in a new environment that is new to them.
Tyler I see where you are trying with discipline but you have to go harder, almost military style for it to register to them. If Mario is guility of purchasing stuff on website, no acess to equipment. Shoes must be cleaned in the evenings outside, no wasting of foodstuff it cost money, Easy come Easy go. Maybe Junior needs to get his hearing tested, he not listening or understanding is of concern. Terms for football shoes, improvement in school work, homework, house duties, mannerisms, attempt to form sentences and ask questions properly
Let each child create a progress / report card for school. Let them write their average for first term, then the average you should expect from them for term two. If they achieve that result or exceed expectations, they earn the gifts.
Tyler can you let Andre have a sleep over once in while he's could share bed with Dave it Sad 😢 to see him leave you to go home, you can arrange it with his parents. Blessing to you and Miss Sonia.❤
Evening Janet, he's welcome to any night that's not a school night, but hasn't followed through on it. He lives just next door and enjoys the evening with his mom, but will remind him!🥰
Me again! Tyler, I don't want to sound mean spirited but these boys are getting too much all at once and they don't know how to handle it. I was very disturbed when Craig said "Show me the money" after you explained what was done would be a cost to you! They were not accustomed to these little luxuries and instead of being appreciative they appear to be taking things for granted.
Hilary, my heart tells me these children have not been as previously blessed with items and love until Tyler came along. I am sure it is difficult for them to adjust to, and it seems Tyler and Sonia have much on their plate to deal with. I absolutely think Tyler does an amazing job with the boys
Agreed...they do well with the additional assignment each day and tracking their allowance earned, so it would only be considered as an overall part of their day evaluation whether they completed it...appreciate the insight.🥰
It's something we're considering, as we're weighing out the opportunity cost and what we gain and lose by doing so...perhaps by the end of the year...as my mom always used to say....Xmas is coming!🥰
Hi Tyler and Sonia, you are noth yruing do hard woth thr boys and that's good. They need yo learn to doeak proper English. They will doon be going to high school and the pates eipl not get them very far in the world. They are dmart uoung men and they van learn do please be girmeith them anout that. Love and blessings.
Three cheers for our birthday celebrity, Queen Sonia. I am sure she enjoyed the lunch date. Cheers!
The children are on the rigjt path. They are doing the coop, they help in the kitchen, the pick the veggies\fruits and do their homework.
Slowly but surely...🥰
These boys need to know they can’t take things for granted, need to disciple them more and no talking back.
Easier said than done, but still working on it...🥰
@@fireandiriethese children have just experienced loss and I think they are adjusting very well despite the circumstances. Not to mention, boys in general can be a handful, Dave was alone in the house, now he is amongst other children, it is definitely an adjustment. I think in due time, Tyler and Sonia will see the fruits of their labour! Hang in there parents, you are creating a structure for these boys, that will allow them to become responsible and independent young men some day. God may be testing your patience right now, but you are indeed the biggest blessing these children could ask for!
Explain how.
WOW! The garden is looking good and also the chicken coop. These boys are very fortunate to have Sonia and yourself. Wishing Sonia HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎉🎉🎉
Thanks Linda! Chickens are coming!!😅🤙
Happy Birthday, Sonia.❤
Tyler, I think you guys are doing a great job with these boys already.
Maybe a sincere thank you email to the donor could do.Also they each could do one good deed for a needy child in class or neighborhood.That way they'll know how it feels not only to receive but also to give.
@elizabethhall1527... great suggestions.
Happy Birthday Sonia 🎉🎈🎂🥳. I think if the boys do more prepping the night before, such as ironing clothes (or Sonia), polishing shoes, etc. in the mornings will be less chaotic. Not sure how you're going to gauge when the boys are deserving of receiving their soccer shoes; I'll leave the suggestions to the more seasoned parents/guardians in the comments.
Happy birthday Sonia. I really love you guys ❤❤
Thanks Phem! Enjoy the evening.😎🤙
Happy birthday Sonia. This is your day, happy birthday to you 🎊 🎉. I pray you be blessed with many more wonderful years
Happy Birthday Sonia..wish you God's richest blessings ❤🙏🌻🌺🪻🦋
HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎈🎂 when it comes, Sonia! Your were born in the best month of the year.
Hi Tyler. I think the boys should write a letter of appreciation after it is explained that this is a gift and not an entitlement. By the time they stay on track to earn the shoes Andre will get them all because they won’t fit the older boys 😂😅😮. A-letter of appreciation .
Love it. Thanks!🥰
Big up your self Sonia on this your Birthday. It is a blessing when we get to celebrate a birthday 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Amen!
Happy birthday Sonia 🎊🎂🎊. Much health and blessings. Tyler, I know you and Sonia are navigating this new sensitive journey with the boys; however, as their parental guardian please continue to convey a sense of value, accountability, truth and structure. As a Mom of grown boys, we applied those concepts in our parenting model, as they are necessary in developing ; whole and productive persons. I so commend you both, keep making strides as consistency work. Continued blessings🙏🏽
Thanks for supporting Yvonne...we'll continue to work on it! =) Enjoy the day.
Happy birthday Sonia. You deserve a break
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Happy birthday Sonia Tyler I think the boys need the Clea there shoes in the evening there chores completely
Working on building the habits...they're coming around...🥰
Happy birthday to your wife sonia
Sonia is 21 years old. Smiling! Have a good time.
Some days I wonder!!🥰
Happy birthday to Sonia🎉
Happy birthday Sonia enjoy God richest blessing
Happiest of birthday Mrs sonia wishing long life and health ❤🎉
Mr and Mrs. T, reading the comments, I do feel your pain. It's not like you took them as babies, they are products of their former home and school environment, the latter, a mix of all types. Even Andre needs a little attention. Anyway, I know it's hard but please don't give up on them, they need guidance. May God give you the strength and patience to continue. One love😊
Appreciate the understanding. Slowly but surely!😅🤙
Happy Birthday Sonia!
Hope you had a splendid day.
Happy birthday to Sonia and many more, God bless you for all you do ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Thanks Landre! Plenty rain today filling up our tanks!🥰
Happy birthday ms Sonia🎊🎊🎊🎊
Happy Birthday Sonia 🎉🎉
Happy birthday Sonia, let's hope these boys appreciate all that you guys are doing for them, blessings to all the doners
Amen.🥰
Garden looking great, all the best in Ochi , Happy Birthday Sonia.🎉🎂🎁🎈🎊
Happy birthday Sonia🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤
Hello my Fire & Irie family, Happy birthday blessings Sonia enjoy your special day tomorrow remember to pamper yourself even if for a few minutes. Andre I see you trying keep it up. Tyler God's blessing be with you and Sonia as you navigate through this parenting. Good night Andre 😊 Thanks Tyler for your patience and the vlog .❤
Thanks Miss Lee! 😎 🤙
Happy Birthday 🎊 🎂 🎁 Sonia wishing you the best birthday ever🌺💕🌻💐🌸
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Happy Birthday Sonia!!❤🎉
Have a great time.
A very Happy Birthday Sonia. Tyler those of us who have been here a long time, already know Sonia’s age.
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Happy Birthday 🎂 🥳 🎉
Happy Birthday 🎉🎉🎉sonia... Yes, tylerwhen it's time to talk the ladies. Don't know when to say I have somewhere to go. But you have a lot of patient.
Pappy birthday Sonia.
Happy birthday Sonia. May God bless you with long and healthy life. Enjoy 💐🎂🎉
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Thanks Rose!🥰
Happiest of Birthdays Sonia
I hope these appreciate the good things u are doing
Amen...hoping so too.🥰
Many happy returns to Sonia🎉
Happy birthday Sonia and many more blessings.l love watching your family the kids need to have some discipline wen talking to their parent are an adult . Thanks to you guys for being so nice I enjoy your videos.
Thanks for supporting Doreen...slowly but surely...=) Pure rain here today. Blessings
Happy birthday Sonia 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Blessings and thanks!🥳
Happy birthday Sonia, wishing many more🎉
HAPPY🎉🎶HAPPY 🎶HAPPPPPY🎶✨ 🎉🎶BIRTHDAY🎁🎶🛍🎶👑SONIA🎇 🎶🎉 💐🍷🍷🍾I JUST LOVE THE LITTLE ONES 👑 TYLER AND👑 SONIA YOU ARE SO LOVING AND KIND TO THE LITTLE ONES 🤗STAY💪💪🙏👍🙏STAY AS SWEET AND KIND AS YOU ARE😂 I LAUGH SO HARD WHILE SONIA WAS AT GATE TALKING AND YOU ARE INSIDE WAITING ON HER SO HILARIOUS🤜 💥🤛 💘🔥AND IRIE👍🤣🤣
That's my life🤣
Mid term exams are coming up. If each child studies and gets a better grade than achieved before. Then they can get the shoes.
Thanks for the idea...=)
Happy Belated Birthday Sonia🎂🎉🎂. How far do you live from Ochi?
3 taxi rides east...near Highgate...about a hour or so.
Tyler, I see lots of tourists.
So true...cruise ship was hopping!🤣
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Good afternoon family!!! First I would like to wish Sonia a very Happy Birthday and many, more. If I may say so, I was a bit disappointed in learning how the boys made that purchase behind your back Tyler, happy you caught it before you had to pay for it. The garden is looking great, the coop looks good, soon it will be filled with chickens. Hope the boys can earn their sneakers. Have a great rest of the day, had some snow here in NY.
Afternoon rain is flling the tanks here! And Gutters leaking, but we're getting there slowly but surely. 🥰
@@fireandirie Sorry to hear about the leaky gutters. You probably needed to have the seamless ones with the mesh covers to prevent leaves from getting inside them.
@marciaservice6396 ha...they're going fornthe silicone and well make it work one way or another. The 2 800 gallon tanks over half full from today's rain!🥰
@@fireandirie Happy to hear that the tanks are filling up also that the gutters will be sealed with silicone. Have a blessed night 🌙 ✨️
It's obvious they don't really understand how those things work, all you need to do is explain to them what they can and cannot do on the iPod. Remember these kids are in a new environment that is new to them.
Tyler I see where you are trying with discipline but you have to go harder, almost military style for it to register to them. If Mario is guility of purchasing stuff on website, no acess to equipment. Shoes must be cleaned in the evenings outside, no wasting of foodstuff it cost money, Easy come Easy go. Maybe Junior needs to get his hearing tested, he not listening or understanding is of concern. Terms for football shoes, improvement in school work, homework, house duties, mannerisms, attempt to form sentences and ask questions properly
Sonia definitely takes the military role, and it's proving effective so far. Thanks for the ideas. Chickens soon come!😅
They dont listen do the must do thing like this when there was at home.tyle dont let them play when you are talking to them please
Still trying and working out the kinks. 🥰
Let each child create a progress / report card for school. Let them write their average for first term, then the average you should expect from them for term two. If they achieve that result or exceed expectations, they earn the gifts.
Appreciate the idea, thanks!🥰
10 words to Spell
Thanks for the idea...enjoy the day. =)
Tyler can you let Andre have a sleep over once in while he's could share bed with Dave it Sad 😢 to see him leave you to go home, you can arrange it with his parents. Blessing to you and Miss Sonia.❤
Evening Janet, he's welcome to any night that's not a school night, but hasn't followed through on it. He lives just next door and enjoys the evening with his mom, but will remind him!🥰
Me again! Tyler, I don't want to sound mean spirited but these boys are getting too much all at once and they don't know how to handle it. I was very disturbed when Craig said "Show me the money" after you explained what was done would be a cost to you! They were not accustomed to these little luxuries and instead of being appreciative they appear to be taking things for granted.
I agree and were making sure not to just give them things and have them earn them...Definitely cutting back and reevaluating. Well see how it goes...🥰
Hilary, my heart tells me these children have not been as previously blessed with items and love until Tyler came along. I am sure it is difficult for them to adjust to, and it seems Tyler and Sonia have much on their plate to deal with. I absolutely think Tyler does an amazing job with the boys
@@ladyJ_000 appreciate the support.🥰
@@fireandirie always!💕
Give them 10 spelling words
There figure of speech when they answer or speak to you need to improve.
Amen...slowly but surely.👏
Let them prove themselves with their duties without you have to remind them up to a month
Amen! Appreciate the idea. =)
Never use studies/school work as punishment. We want them to enjoy learning, not detest it. They are already struggling in school.
Agreed...they do well with the additional assignment each day and tracking their allowance earned, so it would only be considered as an overall part of their day evaluation whether they completed it...appreciate the insight.🥰
Makes sense. I misread a couple of the comments before I watched the entire video. I realize it was not a punishment suggestion. Worth the try.
Tylor i think u need a car
It's something we're considering, as we're weighing out the opportunity cost and what we gain and lose by doing so...perhaps by the end of the year...as my mom always used to say....Xmas is coming!🥰
Hi Tyler and Sonia, you are noth yruing do hard woth thr boys and that's good. They need yo learn to doeak proper English. They will doon be going to high school and the pates eipl not get them very far in the world. They are dmart uoung men and they van learn do please be girmeith them anout that. Love and blessings.
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Omg, please excuse the bad spelling. For some reason I missed doing the correction. Sorry🙁