I've been watching since June 2010, Day 422 and have never missed a day since. You guys have cheered me up when I've been at my lowest. I lost a loved one to cancer last year and honestly, you guys kept me going when I didn't even think it was worth it anymore. From the bottom of my heart, I want to thank both of you, simply for being awesome. Love you guys!
Thank you so much for posting this. This is exactly the kind of conversation I was hoping this video would promote. It's not about which group gets teased more - it's about the fact that it hurts everyone and needs to cease.
I definately struggle with being overweight and i am constantly eating healthy and getting grief for the smallest things that I do concerning my weight! Im finding it difficult to stay motivated to want to stay healthy. Do you have any tips to help me stay on track? Thank you anything at all could help :) x
Speaking as someone who's been struggling with bulimia since I was 16 (I'm 30) it really helps to read these comments and watch the video. Every day is a new day. Some days are good, some are a struggle. Loving yourself is the SW way. We all have bad days. The point is not to let those days be who you are. You are all beautiful. Thanks for sharing Alli!
i love how humble you are in this video alli, it shows how down to earth you are and sheds some light on the gravity of the situation. keep up being awesome
Alli, from the bottom of my heart, thank you. I have struggled with my body image my entire life, to the point of avoiding mirrors and not wanting to leave my house because I didn't want other people to look at me. I have come such a long way since then and this video has really put into perspective just how far I have actually come.
I'm in junior high and I've really been struggling with my weight. I'm 95 pounds and for the past several months, I've seen nothing but fat. I've even gone to the extreme of starving myself. But thankfully, I have amazing friends who have found help for me. It is people like you that truly help and make us feel beautiful. Thanks Alli.
Alli, thank you so much for this video. I can not thank you enough for everything you have said. I've struggled with body image since Elementary school and hearing this has really inspired me to not worry so much about my body anymore and that I can still be a healthy weight without having to take such life risks. Both you and Charles brighten up my days, every day and you both help me to overcome obstacles I face daily. I can't even put into words how much this has inspired me. Thank you
You're truly such a kind hearted person, I've never met you before but you're soo genuinely kind and that is hard to find on the internet. Thank you for being you Alli :')
Thank you so much for making this video. I've been teased all my life because of my weight/appearance. I love to see the good in everyone and I do think everyone is beautiful. :) You're such a great role model. And honestly some crummy things have happened to me. My mom passed away when I was 17 and this month is the 6 year anniversary. But watching these videos and the vlogs never cease to bring a smile to my face. You guys help me be strong. Thanks you guys! :)
Everyone says lifes too short to care about what you eat, but when you dont care about what you eat, lifes gonna become shorter :) Thank you Alli for posting this, I know to many of your viewers, you act as a role model, and for you to put such an important message out there for your viewers is so heart warming.
Thank you Alli and Charles you two have no idea how much you have helped to the past three years. Knowing that theirs always gonna be a vlog up to make me laugh and have something to look forward each day keeps me going. The last day i stopped cutting myself was the day i found you Alli and Charles on you tube so thank you for making the vlogs. I have never asked but please thumbs up so Alli can see this.
thank you so much for this! i am personally going through a really tough time at the moment and it's so refreshing to know there are genuine people like you out there
Everyday I always watch this video and makes me feel good about myself, and it gives me the drive to take care of myself, and it reminds me that I have another reason to live for when I take care about myself. THANK YOU ALLI. Although it may seem something small action, it means a lot.
Alli, thank you so much for posting this. Every single day you help me feel like it's okay to be myself and I don't have to worry about what anyone else thinks. Really and truly, thank you.
Youre truly a role model. You're an amazing person with amazing thoughts and ideas. You've helped me with so much with just simple videos.I thank you for what you have done. I'm so glad I stumbled upon one of your videos 3 years ago and ever since I've been a fan. Dont stop doing what you're doing! I cannot thank you enough for sharing your life with us. No matter how I'm feeling i know everyday there will always be a video to cheer me up and I'm grateful for having you guys. Thank you alli
This is something that crosses everyone's mind daily. I know I think about my body image more than I can say. Thanks for shining some light on this. You are incredible!
PS: thank you Alli for being such a beautiful, caring and loving person. The world lacks people like you, who understands that bullying can really affect someone and you can't know what its doing to them on the inside. We all have done it, no one can say they haven't but its realizing how wrong it is that makes you a better person. Understanding how it feels and letting people know its not right and not acceptable.
That was really something I needed to hear tonight:) I've been fighting an uphill battle with anorexia for years, and it's definitely the hardest thing I've ever done. I'm still learning to try to accept my body the way it's meant to be. I think that this was such a great way to get the message out to some people who may need help, as I feel like so many people are unaware of or ignoring their disordered eating, whether it be starving or overeating. You truly are a HUGE inspiration for me, and
Your intelligence, grace and compassionate understanding is what makes you awesome! Everything you said is true, right down to the fact everyone has been teased/ or does the teasing. No ones perfect.
Thanks for talking about this Alli! As someone whose struggled with an eating disorder for a long time, I think it's really important to talk about body image with people, and it's great that you're willing to do that with such a wide audience! :)
This is why so many people love you and Charles, you care for all of us CTFXCers and I appreciate that so much, so many people look up to you guys, especially me, so thank you for being such amazing role models
Alli, you don't even understand how much you and Charles have made an impact on my life. I've been watching since 09 and from you and Char I've learned to let my inner self out and not care who says what. I know I speak for all the CTFxCers when I say this. Thank you gis for pushing through and ignoring the haters/trolls. I love you gis till the end.
In the vlogs you always seem so confident and comfortable with yourself. Actually, after I started watching the vlogs it made me realize how insecure I really am. I really admire how you carry yourself, Alli. I've been working on upping my confidence to that level one day (eating much better and going to the gym every couple of days). :)
I really like how you explained that skinny doesn't necessarily always mean healthy. Many people starve themselves thinking that if they are skinny means they are healthy. But little did they know, being overly skinny can cause just as many problems as being overweight. Be healthy and be happy with who you are! - Way to go Ally! You have an excellent definition/description on what to do to be healthy. Thank you and keep it up! :)
I'm so glad to have seen this video. I've struggled with body image for years and battled with bulimia and anorexia for years before eventually getting to a weight that, although it's not quite the weight I'm after, I'm somewhat happy with. I've also since changed my diet for the better and got myself into an exercise regime that works for me. I hope everyone else that struggles the same way I did finally seeks help and changes their lives for the better, too.
Thank you so so much alli for posting this video, I have literally been made fun of for my weight my entire life and it hurts so much. But hearing you say theses things you did in this video made me feel like I can boost my self-confidence just by watching your videos. And another thing is that these past weeks the teasing has been getting worse and worse for me, but all in all thank you for being such an amazing inspiration for me and all of the other CTFXCers :)
I'm a guy and what she just said means so alot. I suffer from acne and not being the greatest weight but you have to learn that your body doesn't have to be the "perfect one." Seriously thanks Alli for posting this, you are looked up to as a role model by many. Don't stop what you're doing!
Thank you so much for making this video. I've struggled with an eating disorder for about 2 years now, but I use the vlogs to motivate me to live a healthier, happier lifestyle, and it allows me to see that it's possible through you and Charles. So thank you two
Got chills watching this message the worst ting about my weight is that parents and relatives are the ones who should be supportive but are the complete opposite they tease me make fun of me and don't give me motivation at all thank goodness for my boyfriend who loves me for who I am and helps me in my goal to be healthy. Alli I honestly thought you were talking to me felt soo good to hear someone who actually cares. Thanks soo much I love your videos and I just subscribed. Thanks
Thank you for this, Alli. I know that SO many people deal with things like this and the fact that you're trying to help all of us get through it is fantastic. It really does help :)
Alli, I think of you as a role model and hearing you in this video has made me feel so supported and cared about.Thanks so much! you've made me feel so much better about myself!
Alli I want to say thanks. I am a teenage girl and I always feel bad about myself. I feel like I had gained weight and I hate it so much. This video made me feel so much better about myself, if actually made my cry for some reason. Thank you for making my feel better about myself and I am going to try all these things! Love you Alli!
I just want to say thank you so much Alli. You guys have soooo many followers and this is such a positive message reaching girls and women of all ages, across the world. So thanks. Everyone needs a little pick me up once in a while and to be told they are beautiful. We are all beautiful in our own special way and I'm glad you took the time to tell everyone that. And Alli - ignore all the haters. You are amazing and nothing anyone says on RUclips changes that :)
Thank you so much for your amazing insight Alli! It takes an extremely strong person to go out there and address the issues that are clearly part of everyone's life. I know first hand about bullying and teasing I love that you are giving a helping hand. :)
Thank You, Alli. This video means a lot to me because I often find struggle in being happy with my personal appearance. I realized that if I want to be happy with my body I have to take care of myself. I can not wait for something to happen. I have to make IT happen. Thank you :)
Alli I am so grateful that I have found you and the CTFxC. This sounds so cheesy but you have seriously changed my live for the better. When I grow up I want to merry a man that will be a perfect father like Charles, I want to inspire people like you, and I want to be the best person I can be. I have never seen people that are more perfect for each other than you and Charles. All I wanted to say was, thank you for bringing happiness to my life when I needed it the most.
It's videos like these that gives me hope for humanity. If life was black and white it would be a lot easier but there is a lot of Grau and that's where we loose ourself. You have inspired me to better myself. Thank you Alli.
Alli you really helped me with accepting my nose, we have the same nose structure and I hate my nose for the longest time. But I started watching you, and I could tell you just felt so wonderful and your body that is made me help accept myself, flaws and all.
I had a part in there where I talked about being teased for my features and chest size, but I took it out because this video isn't about just me - it's about all of us. But yes, everyone's features are different and it doesn't mean that they can't be considered pretty :)
Thank you Alli, I'm really glad you made this video. I like when youtubers take a moment and talk about really important issues like this. Thanks for being there for us viewers :)
you are my idol. i have had my fair share of body image issues and judgement/teasing but this video just got straight to my heart. this made me really think about how i react to others and how i can change my lifestyle to make me feel better about myself. thank you so much. you are such an inspiration
Alli, I just want to say that I adore you. You are the person that I look up to. It's because of your will to help people out and use your experience. I have been struggling to talk to people I know about this very topic. I have something that I have used to help myself feel more confident. When I look in the mirror every morning, instead of pointing out my flaws, i try to point out what I like about myself.
It's truly a travesty how many beautiful women struggle with this - almost every one I know does. We have to realize that we all have beauty to share - we just need to let it shine through! It's tough, but we can make it happen.
Alli, thank you so much for this video. This is such an important thing to talk about, and you did a great job! Thanks and keep the videos coming. I came across the CTFxC videos on October 3rd of this year (2013) and now I am addicted and trying to catch up with videos prior to that day. You two are such an inspiration. I am an RN that worked in the OR and GI. I live in Plantation, Florida which is just west of Ft. Lauderdale and my husband is a school teacher. We are cat and dog lovers also.
Love this video Alli! Every point that you have made is so true and I have gone through each one. But after acceptance with myself and striving be healthier, I am so much happier and feel amazing. And going for small changes is the best thing to do. Thanks Alli for putting this out there.
Alli this made my day! Im a thirteen your old and this stuff happens all the time. I am overweight and people do that stuff when they pick out your flaws and it usually happens at school. School is the hell zone when it comes to people making fun of you because of your body image. I have noticed as I get older it gets better. I have been ignoring them. Thank you for these kind words you really related to me today! Love, Marley Engle :)
thank you so much alli, you don't understand how much i needed to hear this from you. i've watched CTFxC for years and was always jealous of your nice body, and it just felt so good to hear that you understand how different people with different sizes feel. :)
I swear i love you ali your tone of voice is so calming. You're defiantly right i weigh 100 pounds at 14 years and people call me anorexic and stuff it bothers me a little i also get called pale a lot i can't stand it i hate when people pick on my insecurities it just makes me feel worse about myself so every time i see myself in the mirror i just think of all my flaws instead of the good things. Words hurt and sometimes people don't realize what they say can harm someone else.
You and Charles are great role models. When ever I am having a bad day or just need a pick me up I go to your channels and i find myself smiling immediately :)
Good for you :) keep up with the motivation between you and your friends!!! That's one of the most amazing things you can do in situations when you feel like you need a change - have a group of people who supports you when things are tough.
Alli, you are such an inspiration! Even though I'm sure my little sister has already seen this (we watch the vlogs and your videos together, usually) I'll make sure she sees this one! As a freshman in high school, I know she's been going through some rough times, so this will make her feel so much better. Thank you. :)
It does take strength to even begin to make changes. STARTING a new eating habit or exercise plan is the hardest part the battle. Once you move past the beginning it gets a lot easier :)
You have been such an inspiration to me and many other people. I think you should do more videos like this. Your a great romodel to so many people. Love you -Zoe
I think it's wonderful that you posted this online! Because I know there are people who are watching this, who are teased and never said it to a friend I want to say to this people: NEVER EVER think the teasers are right! they have some issues! And if you wanna live healthier, it's easier when you do it with a friend, someone in your family. than you have some support! Just keep smiling because there is so much in life to smile about! Alli, you're amazing, beautiful..! The CTFxC loves you! :)
Thanks for making this video Alli. I have PCOS so no matter how healthy I eat or how much I exercise, it's really hard for me to lose weight or to be "thin". I constantly worry that people are judging me and I'm constantly judging myself. It's nice to be reminded, especially by someone as beautiful as yourself, that how you look really isn't that important.
I have been starving myself for months upon months now dropped pounds by the week, but I somehow got up the nerve to watch this video. This video changed my outlook on everything. I understand. I just,, its like someone opened a locked window and a breeze just drifted in and I just... thank you. So much. Im going to go have my first cookie in 6 months now. Bless you Alli.
You're amazing Alli. I'm within a healthy bmi for my height butof course I see room for improvment. You reiterated all that I keep telling myself. Enough small changes make a big change and always remember to stay active.
Wow. I really needed to hear this because I've been easing my way into a healthier lifestyle and it is not an easy process. It is a struggle especially mentally. I really appreciate you making this video, it is exactly what I needed to hear to silence all the negative thoughts about myself. I truly admire you Alli - I've been watching since Year 1 Day 1 and you've never pretended to be perfect just always being yourself and being the best person you can be. That is awesome to me. Thanks.
Alli, thank you so much for this video. I am starting treatment for an eating disorder tomorrow, and this video gave me perspective & even more motivation to recover!! You're amazing :)
I'm naturally thin and it's really nice to see that someone else has dealt with teasing and being tiny. Your right people don't realize how much it hurts! Thanks for making this!
Allie, I really love that you posted this video. I eat quite a lot of food, but I get teased sometimes by people calling me anorexic.I dont like it! because im not. But whenI watched this video earlier, it really motivated me. You showed me that sometimes in life people will be mean and pick on you, and get under your skin. You even said you got teased. But look at you now(: !! Some people are just cruel.Your such an inspiration Alli, your MY inspiration
Very inspiring. I have a friend dealing with these issues and she is not only teased by her peers but by her family too. So many people think that it's just a joke, but if someone hears all the time, they start to believe it. Thank you for being so awesome Alli! P.S. Cute top!
Thank you for being brave enough to be honest from a male pov :) I agree - Jennifer Lawrence has a special confidence that does things for her appearance that no amount of makeup of clothing or fitness could do!
All that matters is that you feel healthy - if you can do everything you need and want to do and you feel good, then as far as I'm concerned, you're doing just fine :)
I 100% agree with you, I struggle with my portions, but choices is not my problem. And i think a lot of people need to understand this. Whether eating healthy or not portions are so so important!!!! It is soo necessary, I cant stress this enough!
This video really spoke to me. I'm overly sensitive about my weight but now seeing Alli talk about it makes me want to change my ways. I don't really know why, but it does. For some really bizarre reason, Alli is like a second mother to me haha :) Love you Alli! xx
Thanks for this, Alli. It means a lot to me. I am overweight, but i've learned that if I'M comfortable with my own body, why should anyone else's opinions matter? I've felt the pressure my entire life to be thin and I've found someone who finds me attractive- just as I am- and honestly, I couldn't ask for anything else. So I encourage others to take a step back and ask themselves what really matters- their OPINIONS or your COMFORT? It takes only one time to think positively about yourselves! ^.^
I LOVED this video. You're such an awesome person :). I had gastric by pass almost 2 years ago and have lost 135 lbs. I was teased about my weight since I was in elementary school. I hated it and hated going to school. I was 20 when I had the surgery done,& I did face complications of my own doing,but I don't regret it at all. It was definitely a last resort. Alli,you are an amazing,beautiful person
Thank you so much! This video has really made me feel better. Even though I don't know you personally I feel like I do. Both you and Charles are great people and are always making my day better! Thank you so much! Xx
Alli you are gorgeous inside and out! You inspire me to be the best version of myself and just to let go and not let others control my life and to take control of my own body and life! Many people point out my eyebrows and how I should fix them and make them thinner, but I always say,"no this is me!" and yet people still tease me. I don't care anymore! I love my eyebrows the way they are! Weight is hard for me though, but you have helped me to see that no one IS perfect! So thanks! You're amazin
I have cut out soda completely, i havent had a soda in over a year, i feel a lot more better, and i have been eating healthy, and i got motivated by charles to run everyday, and i have lost a lot of weight, and also feel a lot better, love you alli
Thank you so much for talking about this, Alli. A lot of people look up to you, and feel like you are their friend in a strange way, and this isn't something normally friends talk about. I'm trying to start being healthy, and its hard going to the gym or health food store knowing that others are judging you, but I know that half of that is also in my head. Other than showing me Panera and making me become addicted, thanks for being awesome :)
thank you alli! I freaking loved this video from the get-go. you explained this so well and in a fashion that just made me say "eff you" to the media and people who think looks are everything. you are a wonderful human.
Alli I have the same body type as you, and I get teased about it quite often. it's good to know that someone as stunning as you is also human, thank you so much. I love you.
This was a wonderful reminder! I used to get teased for bring skinny too. But soon enough I got over all of my self confidence because I aways thought about the happiness is a choice thing that Shay says and that I know who and what I am so no one else needs to tell me and point out my flaws :)
This is inspiring Alli, it means a lot to me to hear you talking about this. Your someone who I look up to, whose helped me through a lot of my own self esteem issues.
Alli, I just want to say that I admire you so much. You are a really awesome and amazing person. Thanks for vlogging and letting us be a part of your and Charles' life.
You have no idea how much I needed to hear this today. I was teased relentlessly for my weight in school clear through college, even by people I thought were my friends. It wasn't until a year ago that I decided to do something about it and have lost 100lbs so far. However, I hit a plateau in the last month and and the confidence I was feeling has taken a hit. Hopefully it will break soon. So thanks for posting this. I know I'm not alone but sometimes we need to hear it from someone else.
I'm not ganna lie I have been bullied about my weight and I focused on the good things in life like I have you guys to help all of us get thru it! I love you guys
Alli, just thank you. You don"t know how bad i was suffering tonight with image.. and then i saw this. It helped knowing im not alone tonight, thank you!
I think that it's great that you made this. It must have been really hard to decide whether or not to post it because of all the negative people who would say mean stuff about you. Very inspirational and I hope that more people watch for some inspiration to fell better about themselves.
Good luck to you! Just keep pushing to be the best you! I know it sounds corny, but it really makes a difference when you make the choice to be happy with yourself.
Your such a great role model alli! Stay strong, we love you
I've been watching since June 2010, Day 422 and have never missed a day since.
You guys have cheered me up when I've been at my lowest. I lost a loved one to cancer last year and honestly, you guys kept me going when I didn't even think it was worth it anymore.
From the bottom of my heart, I want to thank both of you, simply for being awesome. Love you guys!
Thank you, Alli.
Thank you so much for posting this. This is exactly the kind of conversation I was hoping this video would promote. It's not about which group gets teased more - it's about the fact that it hurts everyone and needs to cease.
I definately struggle with being overweight and i am constantly eating healthy and getting grief for the smallest things that I do concerning my weight! Im finding it difficult to stay motivated to want to stay healthy. Do you have any tips to help me stay on track? Thank you anything at all could help :) x
Speaking as someone who's been struggling with bulimia since I was 16 (I'm 30) it really helps to read these comments and watch the video. Every day is a new day. Some days are good, some are a struggle. Loving yourself is the SW way. We all have bad days. The point is not to let those days be who you are. You are all beautiful. Thanks for sharing Alli!
I hate when people call me skinny and say their jealous.. I just hate it..
your beautiful, period. :)
Thanks. You are too. Everyone is!
i love how humble you are in this video alli, it shows how down to earth you are and sheds some light on the gravity of the situation. keep up being awesome
Alli, from the bottom of my heart, thank you. I have struggled with my body image my entire life, to the point of avoiding mirrors and not wanting to leave my house because I didn't want other people to look at me. I have come such a long way since then and this video has really put into perspective just how far I have actually come.
I'm in junior high and I've really been struggling with my weight. I'm 95 pounds and for the past several months, I've seen nothing but fat. I've even gone to the extreme of starving myself. But thankfully, I have amazing friends who have found help for me. It is people like you that truly help and make us feel beautiful. Thanks Alli.
Alli, thank you so much for this video. I can not thank you enough for everything you have said. I've struggled with body image since Elementary school and hearing this has really inspired me to not worry so much about my body anymore and that I can still be a healthy weight without having to take such life risks. Both you and Charles brighten up my days, every day and you both help me to overcome obstacles I face daily. I can't even put into words how much this has inspired me. Thank you
You're truly such a kind hearted person, I've never met you before but you're soo genuinely kind and that is hard to find on the internet. Thank you for being you Alli :')
I just wanted to thank you and Charles for what you two do. It's so much more than just vlogging. Thank you.
Thank you so much for making this video. I've been teased all my life because of my weight/appearance. I love to see the good in everyone and I do think everyone is beautiful. :) You're such a great role model. And honestly some crummy things have happened to me. My mom passed away when I was 17 and this month is the 6 year anniversary. But watching these videos and the vlogs never cease to bring a smile to my face. You guys help me be strong. Thanks you guys! :)
Everyone says lifes too short to care about what you eat, but when you dont care about what you eat, lifes gonna become shorter :)
Thank you Alli for posting this, I know to many of your viewers, you act as a role model, and for you to put such an important message out there for your viewers is so heart warming.
Thank you Alli and Charles you two have no idea how much you have helped to the past three years. Knowing that theirs always gonna be a vlog up to make me laugh and have something to look forward each day keeps me going. The last day i stopped cutting myself was the day i found you Alli and Charles on you tube so thank you for making the vlogs. I have never asked but please thumbs up so Alli can see this.
thank you so much for this! i am personally going through a really tough time at the moment and it's so refreshing to know there are genuine people like you out there
Everyday I always watch this video and makes me feel good about myself, and it gives me the drive to take care of myself, and it reminds me that I have another reason to live for when I take care about myself.
THANK YOU ALLI. Although it may seem something small action, it means a lot.
Alli, thank you so much for posting this. Every single day you help me feel like it's okay to be myself and I don't have to worry about what anyone else thinks. Really and truly, thank you.
Youre truly a role model. You're an amazing person with amazing thoughts and ideas. You've helped me with so much with just simple videos.I thank you for what you have done. I'm so glad I stumbled upon one of your videos 3 years ago and ever since I've been a fan. Dont stop doing what you're doing! I cannot thank you enough for sharing your life with us. No matter how I'm feeling i know everyday there will always be a video to cheer me up and I'm grateful for having you guys. Thank you alli
This is something that crosses everyone's mind daily. I know I think about my body image more than I can say. Thanks for shining some light on this. You are incredible!
PS: thank you Alli for being such a beautiful, caring and loving person. The world lacks people like you, who understands that bullying can really affect someone and you can't know what its doing to them on the inside. We all have done it, no one can say they haven't but its realizing how wrong it is that makes you a better person. Understanding how it feels and letting people know its not right and not acceptable.
That was really something I needed to hear tonight:) I've been fighting an uphill battle with anorexia for years, and it's definitely the hardest thing I've ever done. I'm still learning to try to accept my body the way it's meant to be. I think that this was such a great way to get the message out to some people who may need help, as I feel like so many people are unaware of or ignoring their disordered eating, whether it be starving or overeating. You truly are a HUGE inspiration for me, and
Your intelligence, grace and compassionate understanding is what makes you awesome! Everything you said is true, right down to the fact everyone has been teased/ or does the teasing. No ones perfect.
Thanks for talking about this Alli! As someone whose struggled with an eating disorder for a long time, I think it's really important to talk about body image with people, and it's great that you're willing to do that with such a wide audience! :)
This is why so many people love you and Charles, you care for all of us CTFXCers and I appreciate that so much, so many people look up to you guys, especially me, so thank you for being such amazing role models
Alli, you don't even understand how much you and Charles have made an impact on my life. I've been watching since 09 and from you and Char I've learned to let my inner self out and not care who says what. I know I speak for all the CTFxCers when I say this. Thank you gis for pushing through and ignoring the haters/trolls. I love you gis till the end.
In the vlogs you always seem so confident and comfortable with yourself. Actually, after I started watching the vlogs it made me realize how insecure I really am. I really admire how you carry yourself, Alli. I've been working on upping my confidence to that level one day (eating much better and going to the gym every couple of days). :)
I really like how you explained that skinny doesn't necessarily always mean healthy. Many people starve themselves thinking that if they are skinny means they are healthy. But little did they know, being overly skinny can cause just as many problems as being overweight. Be healthy and be happy with who you are! - Way to go Ally! You have an excellent definition/description on what to do to be healthy. Thank you and keep it up! :)
I'm so glad to have seen this video. I've struggled with body image for years and battled with bulimia and anorexia for years before eventually getting to a weight that, although it's not quite the weight I'm after, I'm somewhat happy with. I've also since changed my diet for the better and got myself into an exercise regime that works for me. I hope everyone else that struggles the same way I did finally seeks help and changes their lives for the better, too.
Thank you so so much alli for posting this video, I have literally been made fun of for my weight my entire life and it hurts so much. But hearing you say theses things you did in this video made me feel like I can boost my self-confidence just by watching your videos. And another thing is that these past weeks the teasing has been getting worse and worse for me, but all in all thank you for being such an amazing inspiration for me and all of the other CTFXCers :)
I'm a guy and what she just said means so alot. I suffer from acne and not being the greatest weight but you have to learn that your body doesn't have to be the "perfect one." Seriously thanks Alli for posting this, you are looked up to as a role model by many. Don't stop what you're doing!
Thank you so much for making this video. I've struggled with an eating disorder for about 2 years now, but I use the vlogs to motivate me to live a healthier, happier lifestyle, and it allows me to see that it's possible through you and Charles. So thank you two
Got chills watching this message the worst ting about my weight is that parents and relatives are the ones who should be supportive but are the complete opposite they tease me make fun of me and don't give me motivation at all thank goodness for my boyfriend who loves me for who I am and helps me in my goal to be healthy. Alli I honestly thought you were talking to me felt soo good to hear someone who actually cares. Thanks soo much I love your videos and I just subscribed. Thanks
Thank you for this, Alli. I know that SO many people deal with things like this and the fact that you're trying to help all of us get through it is fantastic. It really does help :)
Alli, I think of you as a role model and hearing you in this video has made me feel so supported and cared about.Thanks so much! you've made me feel so much better about myself!
Alli I want to say thanks. I am a teenage girl and I always feel bad about myself. I feel like I had gained weight and I hate it so much. This video made me feel so much better about myself, if actually made my cry for some reason. Thank you for making my feel better about myself and I am going to try all these things! Love you Alli!
I just want to say thank you so much Alli. You guys have soooo many followers and this is such a positive message reaching girls and women of all ages, across the world. So thanks.
Everyone needs a little pick me up once in a while and to be told they are beautiful. We are all beautiful in our own special way and I'm glad you took the time to tell everyone that. And Alli - ignore all the haters. You are amazing and nothing anyone says on RUclips changes that :)
Thank you so much for your amazing insight Alli! It takes an extremely strong person to go out there and address the issues that are clearly part of everyone's life. I know first hand about bullying and teasing I love that you are giving a helping hand. :)
Thank You, Alli. This video means a lot to me because I often find struggle in being happy with my personal appearance. I realized that if I want to be happy with my body I have to take care of myself. I can not wait for something to happen. I have to make IT happen.
Thank you :)
Alli I am so grateful that I have found you and the CTFxC. This sounds so cheesy but you have seriously changed my live for the better. When I grow up I want to merry a man that will be a perfect father like Charles, I want to inspire people like you, and I want to be the best person I can be. I have never seen people that are more perfect for each other than you and Charles. All I wanted to say was, thank you for bringing happiness to my life when I needed it the most.
It's videos like these that gives me hope for humanity. If life was black and white it would be a lot easier but there is a lot of Grau and that's where we loose ourself. You have inspired me to better myself. Thank you Alli.
It's always really difficult to get into a good routine, but once you do you will notice changes and positive results!
Alli you really helped me with accepting my nose, we have the same nose structure and I hate my nose for the longest time. But I started watching you, and I could tell you just felt so wonderful and your body that is made me help accept myself, flaws and all.
I had a part in there where I talked about being teased for my features and chest size, but I took it out because this video isn't about just me - it's about all of us. But yes, everyone's features are different and it doesn't mean that they can't be considered pretty :)
Thank you Alli, I'm really glad you made this video. I like when youtubers take a moment and talk about really important issues like this. Thanks for being there for us viewers :)
you are my idol. i have had my fair share of body image issues and judgement/teasing but this video just got straight to my heart. this made me really think about how i react to others and how i can change my lifestyle to make me feel better about myself. thank you so much. you are such an inspiration
Alli, I just want to say that I adore you. You are the person that I look up to. It's because of your will to help people out and use your experience. I have been struggling to talk to people I know about this very topic. I have something that I have used to help myself feel more confident. When I look in the mirror every morning, instead of pointing out my flaws, i try to point out what I like about myself.
It's truly a travesty how many beautiful women struggle with this - almost every one I know does. We have to realize that we all have beauty to share - we just need to let it shine through! It's tough, but we can make it happen.
Alli, you are such a sweetheart and as a fan, a woman, or just another human being in this world, I really do think your a blessing.
Thank you for being so down to earth Alli, we need more people like you in this world.
Alli, thank you so much for this video. This is such an important thing to talk about, and you did a great job! Thanks and keep the videos coming. I came across the CTFxC videos on October 3rd of this year (2013) and now I am addicted and trying to catch up with videos prior to that day. You two are such an inspiration. I am an RN that worked in the OR and GI. I live in Plantation, Florida which is just west of Ft. Lauderdale and my husband is a school teacher. We are cat and dog lovers also.
Love this video Alli! Every point that you have made is so true and I have gone through each one. But after acceptance with myself and striving be healthier, I am so much happier and feel amazing. And going for small changes is the best thing to do. Thanks Alli for putting this out there.
I love genuine, let's-pause-for-a-moment-and-talk-about-this-issue videos. Wonderful, Alli.
Alli this made my day! Im a thirteen your old and this stuff happens all the time. I am overweight and people do that stuff when they pick out your flaws and it usually happens at school. School is the hell zone when it comes to people making fun of you because of your body image. I have noticed as I get older it gets better. I have been ignoring them. Thank you for these kind words you really related to me today!
Love,
Marley Engle :)
thank you so much alli, you don't understand how much i needed to hear this from you. i've watched CTFxC for years and was always jealous of your nice body, and it just felt so good to hear that you understand how different people with different sizes feel. :)
I swear i love you ali your tone of voice is so calming. You're defiantly right i weigh 100 pounds at 14 years and people call me anorexic and stuff it bothers me a little i also get called pale a lot i can't stand it i hate when people pick on my insecurities it just makes me feel worse about myself so every time i see myself in the mirror i just think of all my flaws instead of the good things. Words hurt and sometimes people don't realize what they say can harm someone else.
You and Charles are great role models. When ever I am having a bad day or just need a pick me up I go to your channels and i find myself smiling immediately :)
Good for you :) keep up with the motivation between you and your friends!!! That's one of the most amazing things you can do in situations when you feel like you need a change - have a group of people who supports you when things are tough.
Alli, you are such an inspiration! Even though I'm sure my little sister has already seen this (we watch the vlogs and your videos together, usually) I'll make sure she sees this one! As a freshman in high school, I know she's been going through some rough times, so this will make her feel so much better. Thank you. :)
It does take strength to even begin to make changes. STARTING a new eating habit or exercise plan is the hardest part the battle. Once you move past the beginning it gets a lot easier :)
You have been such an inspiration to me and many other people. I think you should do more videos like this. Your a great romodel to so many people. Love you -Zoe
Alli I am so inspired by you. You are a positive force not only on RUclips but in the lives of the people around you. Thank you for this video :)
I think it's wonderful that you posted this online! Because I know there are people who are watching this, who are teased and never said it to a friend
I want to say to this people: NEVER EVER think the teasers are right! they have some issues! And if you wanna live healthier, it's easier when you do it with a friend, someone in your family. than you have some support! Just keep smiling because there is so much in life to smile about!
Alli, you're amazing, beautiful..! The CTFxC loves you! :)
Thanks for making this video Alli. I have PCOS so no matter how healthy I eat or how much I exercise, it's really hard for me to lose weight or to be "thin". I constantly worry that people are judging me and I'm constantly judging myself. It's nice to be reminded, especially by someone as beautiful as yourself, that how you look really isn't that important.
I have been starving myself for months upon months now dropped pounds by the week, but I somehow got up the nerve to watch this video.
This video changed my outlook on everything. I understand. I just,, its like someone opened a locked window and a breeze just drifted in and I just... thank you. So much.
Im going to go have my first cookie in 6 months now. Bless you Alli.
You're amazing Alli. I'm within a healthy bmi for my height butof course I see room for improvment. You reiterated all that I keep telling myself. Enough small changes make a big change and always remember to stay active.
Wow. I really needed to hear this because I've been easing my way into a healthier lifestyle and it is not an easy process. It is a struggle especially mentally. I really appreciate you making this video, it is exactly what I needed to hear to silence all the negative thoughts about myself. I truly admire you Alli - I've been watching since Year 1 Day 1 and you've never pretended to be perfect just always being yourself and being the best person you can be. That is awesome to me. Thanks.
Alli, thank you so much for this video. I am starting treatment for an eating disorder tomorrow, and this video gave me perspective & even more motivation to recover!! You're amazing :)
Your words make my heart explode with inspiration and the hopes of being happy with myself in the future! Your the best!
This is such a good video! My friend was not eating and I showed her this video and she change her ways! Keep making videos like this!!
I'm naturally thin and it's really nice to see that someone else has dealt with teasing and being tiny. Your right people don't realize how much it hurts! Thanks for making this!
Allie, I really love that you posted this video. I eat quite a lot of food, but I get teased sometimes by people calling me anorexic.I dont like it! because im not. But whenI watched this video earlier, it really motivated me. You showed me that sometimes in life people will be mean and pick on you, and get under your skin. You even said you got teased. But look at you now(: !! Some people are just cruel.Your such an inspiration Alli, your MY inspiration
Very inspiring. I have a friend dealing with these issues and she is not only teased by her peers but by her family too. So many people think that it's just a joke, but if someone hears all the time, they start to believe it. Thank you for being so awesome Alli! P.S. Cute top!
Thank you for being brave enough to be honest from a male pov :) I agree - Jennifer Lawrence has a special confidence that does things for her appearance that no amount of makeup of clothing or fitness could do!
Alli you're such a fricking angel. The world needs more Charles and Alli's
All that matters is that you feel healthy - if you can do everything you need and want to do and you feel good, then as far as I'm concerned, you're doing just fine :)
I 100% agree with you, I struggle with my portions, but choices is not my problem. And i think a lot of people need to understand this. Whether eating healthy or not portions are so so important!!!! It is soo necessary, I cant stress this enough!
This video really spoke to me. I'm overly sensitive about my weight but now seeing Alli talk about it makes me want to change my ways. I don't really know why, but it does. For some really bizarre reason, Alli is like a second mother to me haha :) Love you Alli! xx
We are so lucky to have you here with us! Love you
Loving seeing this side to you alli! You're a really smart, caring person and I think this showcases that! Looking forward to more videos!
Thanks for this, Alli. It means a lot to me. I am overweight, but i've learned that if I'M comfortable with my own body, why should anyone else's opinions matter? I've felt the pressure my entire life to be thin and I've found someone who finds me attractive- just as I am- and honestly, I couldn't ask for anything else.
So I encourage others to take a step back and ask themselves what really matters- their OPINIONS or your COMFORT? It takes only one time to think positively about yourselves! ^.^
I LOVED this video. You're such an awesome person :). I had gastric by pass almost 2 years ago and have lost 135 lbs. I was teased about my weight since I was in elementary school. I hated it and hated going to school. I was 20 when I had the surgery done,& I did face complications of my own doing,but I don't regret it at all. It was definitely a last resort. Alli,you are an amazing,beautiful person
Thank you so much! This video has really made me feel better. Even though I don't know you personally I feel like I do. Both you and Charles are great people and are always making my day better! Thank you so much! Xx
Alli you are gorgeous inside and out! You inspire me to be the best version of myself and just to let go and not let others control my life and to take control of my own body and life! Many people point out my eyebrows and how I should fix them and make them thinner, but I always say,"no this is me!" and yet people still tease me. I don't care anymore! I love my eyebrows the way they are! Weight is hard for me though, but you have helped me to see that no one IS perfect! So thanks! You're amazin
I have cut out soda completely, i havent had a soda in over a year, i feel a lot more better, and i have been eating healthy, and i got motivated by charles to run everyday, and i have lost a lot of weight, and also feel a lot better, love you alli
Thank you so much for talking about this, Alli. A lot of people look up to you, and feel like you are their friend in a strange way, and this isn't something normally friends talk about. I'm trying to start being healthy, and its hard going to the gym or health food store knowing that others are judging you, but I know that half of that is also in my head. Other than showing me Panera and making me become addicted, thanks for being awesome :)
thank you alli! I freaking loved this video from the get-go. you explained this so well and in a fashion that just made me say "eff you" to the media and people who think looks are everything. you are a wonderful human.
Alli I have the same body type as you, and I get teased about it quite often. it's good to know that someone as stunning as you is also human, thank you so much. I love you.
This was a wonderful reminder! I used to get teased for bring skinny too. But soon enough I got over all of my self confidence because I aways thought about the happiness is a choice thing that Shay says and that I know who and what I am so no one else needs to tell me and point out my flaws :)
This is inspiring Alli, it means a lot to me to hear you talking about this. Your someone who I look up to, whose helped me through a lot of my own self esteem issues.
Alli, I just want to say that I admire you so much. You are a really awesome and amazing person. Thanks for vlogging and letting us be a part of your and Charles' life.
You have no idea how much I needed to hear this today. I was teased relentlessly for my weight in school clear through college, even by people I thought were my friends. It wasn't until a year ago that I decided to do something about it and have lost 100lbs so far. However, I hit a plateau in the last month and and the confidence I was feeling has taken a hit. Hopefully it will break soon. So thanks for posting this. I know I'm not alone but sometimes we need to hear it from someone else.
I'm not ganna lie I have been bullied about my weight and I focused on the good things in life like I have you guys to help all of us get thru it! I love you guys
Alli, just thank you. You don"t know how bad i was suffering tonight with image.. and then i saw this. It helped knowing im not alone tonight, thank you!
it's nice to see comments from people who have the same problems as you do. Makes you feel better and not so alone.
Thank you for posting, and I hope you continue to find reasons to love and believe in yourself.
How is Alli so nice :) She's so caring and kind I wish everybody was like her
I think that it's great that you made this. It must have been really hard to decide whether or not to post it because of all the negative people who would say mean stuff about you. Very inspirational and I hope that more people watch for some inspiration to fell better about themselves.
Good luck to you! Just keep pushing to be the best you! I know it sounds corny, but it really makes a difference when you make the choice to be happy with yourself.