I only heard her say......"you SOUND like my little brother".....voice! Not in what your "ideology says". Bruh got in his feelings. It's not the streets, so, you're not here up against "yo opps". When you're a winner, your a winner, confident, mature, intelligent, hard working and, you can accept criticism. He's young, he has to remember, "you're not going to win an argument with a sister" here's why........ "Modern women, want the power of men, the privilege of a woman and thee accountability of children"..... As an alpha man, there's no place for us in that sentence except at the begining....."A alpha male knows a........modern womenml.......
She literally said this to just about every man on this show. They all looked and acted different. Idk what her brother did to her but She needs therapy no cap
I think she’s trying to come off as grown, mature superior hence mentioning her little brother as like an insult like “oh you’re like my little bro I could never date you” but seems very insecure and immature
She has never suffered the consequences for her bad behaviour. She was still being goofy in this new clip. The calm ones are the scariest. She has no concept of danger.
Facts! She never had somebody pop her in her jaw. Not saying that’s what she needs, just saying some folks would be more careful if they ran across some folks in my neck of the woods.
@@ninagaston35right it was dead quiet during that segment. She subconsciously had to laugh to trick herself into thinking she was comfortable but she was really embarrassed.
Im so glad he gave her the response she deserved in that reunion. Completely called her out perfectly and everything she said back only embarrassed her further
Razoma got issues. I’m glad dude kept remained stoic and checked her. His whole image could’ve been ruined had he let his emotions get the best of him.
The fact he even came on pop the ballon , well dressed and speaks decently tells me he actually wants better for his life . I respect that 👏🏿👏🏿glad he didn’t let this little girl allow him to act out of character good job 👍🏿
Our culture has to move past this thing we have for being disrespectful to people we either don't like or are simply outside of our social circles. Accept people for who they are and keep it respectful while demanding respect yourself.
Trash can't see value. Thats why trash gets with trash, and value gets with value. The world literally proves this with all 8 billion humans....... Life is so easy, most people are just truly losers.......
I want this guy to come back, give this guy the whole dam show! Everyone knows this clip went viral and baby Jesus he held it together like a real man and champ! ❤
He was lying the whole time! He lives with his grandma or mama. He said he had his own place. The woman he picked was very disappointed! Go check out the follow up video.
She def was trying to shit on him as an individual and he was smooth and still respectful when he could’ve sent shots back at her. For that it showed his maturity and growth frfr.
That shouldn’t be applauded though. She didn’t use any tone and she wasn’t rude. She gave her reason for popping -the way he talked reminded her of her little brother. Whats disrespectful or worthy of getting shot up or harmed in that. Cuz im assuming that what will keep alluding to, by saying she woulda been handled had she done this in Chicago. Yes, we know , people get murdered for speaking in Chicago. That whole city should be leveled.
How does a show like this help us come together? I’m old enough to remember dating shows from the 80s and it was so different. We watched for the love connection, not the toxicity. I dunno 🤷🏾♀️ I give up
Some women that appeared in the show didn’t come to find love but just to be seen. Hell literally that woman promoted her own business after the show just like that. It took a man to tell her it wasn’t right.
This show takes place in Phoenix. Im from South suburbs of Chicago. I currently live in AZ I can tell you this. Ppl here are quite rude here in AZ. She adjusted to the culture here on the west coast. And it shows. They like to slide in snide remarks They like to interrupt you while you still talking They will never admit fault and never say sorry. They will just act nicer to you. Black on black interaction is weird. Its competitive rather than supportive. This culture is disrespectfulness She became where she lives. I'm telling you...
I feel like that’s black people everywhere.. most of us don’t support each other, we’d rather talk ish about each other and kill each other instead of lifting each other up.
Honestly, this guy handled That very well. He seems like a cool dude. But nowadays many women would feel uncomfortable around him because of how he carries himself.
I'M RETIRED MILITARY..US AIR FORCE...I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU SAY.. JUST KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELF... SIR, MA'AM, BRO, SIS.. PEOPLE ARE TOO SENSITIVE WITH LITTLE SHIT 🤔... THEY HAVE TOO MUCH BAGGAGE AND DRAMA AND TRAMA🤔... LET'S JUST GROW UP AND LIVE AND LOVE 💗.. STOP THE HATE 🤔👍🏾💯🎯
Baby you on another level and she knows it deep down and needs to work on herself and how she treats others. Keep shining regardless who don't appreciate or comprehend your light❤
Be quiet there were no insults she gave her insight just like he gave his these men come off feminine anyway so she not missing nothing it’s her opinion n he doesn’t have a right to tell her her opinion is wrong period grow up n stop trying to control woman
@TashaMac-ey6fn no insults ? Please she disrespected him by saying "you remind me of my little brother". Lmao she hadn't even know the man for more than 5 minutes and jumped to conclusions. Also, ain't noone trying to control women, sadly they can't even control themselves. And since when is being soft spoken being feminine ? Lmao BW got all the stereotypes on display so much its sad.
@@TashaMac-ey6fn Did you watch the episode? There was more said than what's seen in this clip. She was very condescending and was definitely out of pocket. He was respectful the entire time. I wouldn't have been offended if he would've gone off on her!
She was referring to his slang… I’m not sure how everyone misconstrued that. She doesn’t use slang and can’t understand it. She doesn’t want to date a man that uses it bc she finds that immature. That’s her preference.
@@stormie7766@stormie7766 People don't realize Chicago was voted the best city for tourists 6 years in a row by one of the most famous travel magazines in the world. People take a small, dense area of Chicago where crime happens and apply it to the entire city. We aren't even in the Top 5 for Murder Per Capita anymore. Chicago is a great place, minus the taxes and inability to carry weapons. Lol.
I'm so proud of him. Maturity is so attractive.... She proved to the world just how strong and different he is from the typical stereotypical black man.
Everyone looked disgusted at her when she was talking, you can tell they were uncomfortable and the guy handled this with class and he will go far in life with that attitude! That lady needs therapy or she’s going crash out horribly!!
Let people have their own opinion stop being so damn insecure that's the problem with a lot of men young men everything hurts you you either act out violently are stupidly and end up in jail
Same here in New Orleans. I have a friend who is from New York and he had to learn the hard way that the people here don’t talk any type of way and you will get what you are indeed looking for.
She need to check herself I get what he means .. Sometimes people want to demean someone and is not cool. I am.proud of his calmness and he's transparency . She shouldn't even be there !! If it was my show.. I wouldn't have her
If not fake, and his point is that Chicago does have a ton of violent crime which is why you can’t go around just immediately openly disrespecting someone else because people will give you what you’re looking for where he’s from which is why he tries to move in such a calm stoic way
I get where she was coming from. You feel me you feel me you feel me you feel me you feel me you feel me you feel me . . . Imagine going to a law office for a consultation and taking him seriously.
He seems like a nice guy but he also seemed hell bent on not understanding the lady n the reds reasoning. Discernment was true bc he ended up admitting to a lie. Rizoma commented on what she could physically see but stated twice it was his approach and presentation which ended up being correct. He was perpetrating something that wasn’t completely honest and she could sense it. Went about it wrong asl but it is what it is.
EXACTLY THIS It was aggravating me that he wasn’t able to see Lady in Red’s point. She said “maybe Rizoma was right” but she didn’t mean right about what he wore and how he physically presented himself. Because he later came out and admitted he was dishonest in general.
Stand tall! She was negative, judgemental and immature.
I only heard her say......"you SOUND like my little brother".....voice! Not in what your "ideology says".
Bruh got in his feelings. It's not the streets, so, you're not here up against "yo opps".
When you're a winner, your a winner, confident, mature, intelligent, hard working and, you can accept criticism.
He's young, he has to remember, "you're not going to win an argument with a sister" here's why........
"Modern women, want the power of men, the privilege of a woman and thee accountability of children".....
As an alpha man, there's no place for us in that sentence except at the begining....."A alpha male knows a........modern womenml.......
She's a little baby 🐤
@@alantaylor-vb6mnlil nga said a alpha, alpha wanna beat I’ll beat you ass
@@alantaylor-vb6mngo look at the full video
She’s a 2 at best
She literally said this to just about every man on this show. They all looked and acted different. Idk what her brother did to her but She needs therapy no cap
That’s her lame way of trying to shame and belittle him. Majorly immature. She will be a failed 🛌 wench no doubt
Sheesh
She's really “if projecting was a person”
She was probably molested by her little brother. 🤷🏾♂️
I think she’s trying to come off as grown, mature superior hence mentioning her little brother as like an insult like “oh you’re like my little bro I could never date you” but seems very insecure and immature
U can tell the young man is definitely trying to level up in life just by how he dressed in both clips. Respect
Get rid of the twist/dreads first
@@mrmillennium2697it’s called locs please respectfully educate yourself
@@Athia1231some folk's will find any reason to hate
@@issachaarwazulu1726 right tho. Very ignorant
@@mrmillennium2697 shush please
Chicago dont take disrespect. He handled her very kind.
I agree, because I'm from Chicago ....
He’s going places!
Any place, a man don't take disrespect
I’ll be ashamed to say am from Chicago….killing each other everyday….
Yea Chicago ain't a place to brag your from its a dumpster fire I lived there
She has never suffered the consequences for her bad behaviour. She was still being goofy in this new clip. The calm ones are the scariest. She has no concept of danger.
Facts she the type of female that will and probably pop off at the mouth then call her brother and get him in some ish
Facts! She never had somebody pop her in her jaw. Not saying that’s what she needs, just saying some folks would be more careful if they ran across some folks in my neck of the woods.
Facts and he literally said it🤦🏾♀️
Danger!!
But she got humbled at the end by the guy that opposed marketing her perfume.
Her insecurities was showing heavy. Also he ate her up just by being himself. Proud of him.
He a real dude... and stood on the respect he has for himself. Good job baby
I LOVED HIM! He was so respectful and well spoken. So happy he made it out of Chicago and is progressing in life! Hope he finds a good woman! 💜
I concur ❤❤💯💯
Rizoma was the ONLY one laughing at that flashback. big cornball energy
Literally what I was thinking. She wasn't even really laughing she did that because she was embarrassed
@@ninagaston35facts that was cope
@@ninagaston35right it was dead quiet during that segment. She subconsciously had to laugh to trick herself into thinking she was comfortable but she was really embarrassed.
She was hoping others would join to validate what she had done, but no one did.
That’s basically the comment I made. Clown at its finest.
Im so glad he gave her the response she deserved in that reunion. Completely called her out perfectly and everything she said back only embarrassed her further
I’m from the city, and I know exactly what he means. He handled that very maturely
Razoma got issues. I’m glad dude kept remained stoic and checked her.
His whole image could’ve been ruined had he let his emotions get the best of him.
Right, this man is a whole educated counselor with a career. He could've jeopardized all that if he acted out
I love his such calm demeanor. Seems like a really chill dude
He doing that for the cameras to APPEAR in control. This whole situation is corny af. Why give the negative thotty more energy for what?
Funny how she was the only one laughing, everyone else sat listening. That little girl looked ridiculous
The fact he even came on pop the ballon , well dressed and speaks decently tells me he actually wants better for his life . I respect that 👏🏿👏🏿glad he didn’t let this little girl allow him to act out of character good job 👍🏿
He was respectful from beginning to end❤❤❤
Respect everyone, Every guy is not her brother, she has issues, he has nothing to do with her brother. She was disrespectful.
Our culture has to move past this thing we have for being disrespectful to people we either don't like or are simply outside of our social circles. Accept people for who they are and keep it respectful while demanding respect yourself.
The culture has to get away from calling everything disrespect.
What are you talking about? He handled this very respectfully.
@@iriemo721 I don’t see white women on dating shows talking crazy to guys. They just say no thank you
❤❤❤❤❤
He’s a beautiful man idk what her issue was. He seemed to be very respectful and well derssed
His IG name truly fits him.
Yall chics are satan
Trash can't see value. Thats why trash gets with trash, and value gets with value. The world literally proves this with all 8 billion humans.......
Life is so easy, most people are just truly losers.......
@@smoothskin369what his IG name?
@@smoothskin369what’s his ig?
She can’t take accountability for shit. That girl is mean!!!!
She's got deep seated insecurities and she scared someone is gonna find out
Why you think she single
@@tropiclucas9130 I think she secretly likes him.
I’m not about to waste time explaining myself to an idiot. Period.😂
That girl was there to promote her products! Period
I agree! And she was doing all that just so she could have her little 15 seconds of fame.
She was never honestly informed about the kind of person she truly is.
That goes for most chicks I've met😅
The way this was said. So smooth, but so cut throat. 😂 love it
I want this guy to come back, give this guy the whole dam show! Everyone knows this clip went viral and baby Jesus he held it together like a real man and champ! ❤
He was lying the whole time! He lives with his grandma or mama. He said he had his own place. The woman he picked was very disappointed! Go check out the follow up video.
😂😂😂😂here we go with that real man bullshit. Contrary to popular belief opinions don't make a man real, all that's needed is a penis.
This dude is actually really really good looking!
You couldn't tell in the first clip. I definitely see more in the second clip.
That’s what I was thinking the disrespect was apparent. And he responded respectfully and appropriately.❤❤❤
He handled that so well 👏🏾
He handled that like a true KING! You represented yourself and your people well Sir.
She def was trying to shit on him as an individual and he was smooth and still respectful when he could’ve sent shots back at her. For that it showed his maturity and growth frfr.
“We,ll give you what you looking for” some of the hardest shit I’ve heard in a bit, fr proud of this dude what a composed goat
I 100% agree with him im from Chicago, and if she did that in any setting out here in her tone, it would have gone left for her.
You know we know, she would of got that smoke on God, believe it
If she wasn't being broadcasted then she would have gotten trouble.
That shouldn’t be applauded though. She didn’t use any tone and she wasn’t rude. She gave her reason for popping -the way he talked reminded her of her little brother. Whats disrespectful or worthy of getting shot up or harmed in that. Cuz im assuming that what will keep alluding to, by saying she woulda been handled had she done this in Chicago. Yes, we know , people get murdered for speaking in Chicago. That whole city should be leveled.
He was very well spoken in the reunion. It was definitely the liquor that was speaking for him on their episode.
She went out her way to try to disrespect him.
How does a show like this help us come together? I’m old enough to remember dating shows from the 80s and it was so different. We watched for the love connection, not the toxicity. I dunno 🤷🏾♀️ I give up
Some women that appeared in the show didn’t come to find love but just to be seen. Hell literally that woman promoted her own business after the show just like that. It took a man to tell her it wasn’t right.
I'm from Chicago also an the way she approached him was so rude 😮
Nothing to do with Chicago that’s any where
He's handsome and direct..
This show takes place in Phoenix. Im from South suburbs of Chicago. I currently live in AZ
I can tell you this.
Ppl here are quite rude here in AZ. She adjusted to the culture here on the west coast. And it shows.
They like to slide in snide remarks
They like to interrupt you while you still talking
They will never admit fault and never say sorry. They will just act nicer to you. Black on black interaction is weird. Its competitive rather than supportive. This culture is disrespectfulness
She became where she lives. I'm telling you...
I read no lie, all facts!!
I feel like that’s black people everywhere.. most of us don’t support each other, we’d rather talk ish about each other and kill each other instead of lifting each other up.
She's lucky he has grown in character and patience.
Honestly, this guy handled That very well. He seems like a cool dude. But nowadays many women would feel uncomfortable around him because of how he carries himself.
I'M RETIRED MILITARY..US AIR FORCE...I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU SAY.. JUST KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELF... SIR, MA'AM, BRO, SIS.. PEOPLE ARE TOO SENSITIVE WITH LITTLE SHIT 🤔... THEY HAVE TOO MUCH BAGGAGE AND DRAMA AND TRAMA🤔... LET'S JUST GROW UP AND LIVE AND LOVE 💗.. STOP THE HATE 🤔👍🏾💯🎯
Whatever! Watch yo mouf!
She disrespected him while this gentleman was all about respect and kindness.
First two girls literally look like dolls. Very beautiful ladies
No that alien forehead light skin girl don't. 😂
I watched this several times just to see the lady in reds facial expression, love it😂 and I totally agree with her🎉
Baby you on another level and she knows it deep down and needs to work on herself and how she treats others. Keep shining regardless who don't appreciate or comprehend your light❤
And those are facts!! Fellow Chicagoin here. Please don’t because you WILL get what you’re looking for so chill
She's not ready yet! Shame insults guilt and a need to be right!
Be quiet there were no insults she gave her insight just like he gave his these men come off feminine anyway so she not missing nothing it’s her opinion n he doesn’t have a right to tell her her opinion is wrong period grow up n stop trying to control woman
@TashaMac-ey6fn no insults ? Please she disrespected him by saying "you remind me of my little brother". Lmao she hadn't even know the man for more than 5 minutes and jumped to conclusions. Also, ain't noone trying to control women, sadly they can't even control themselves. And since when is being soft spoken being feminine ? Lmao BW got all the stereotypes on display so much its sad.
@@TashaMac-ey6fnThis attitude is exactly why most of y'all single and will never marry.
@@TashaMac-ey6fnfoh with the 🧢 bird
@@TashaMac-ey6fn Did you watch the episode? There was more said than what's seen in this clip. She was very condescending and was definitely out of pocket. He was respectful the entire time. I wouldn't have been offended if he would've gone off on her!
Let go brodda trust me, u already leveled up just keep going
That damn empty ahhh briefcase😂
about as empty as her heart.
Level up my boy. You got self respect. It’s not where you’re from but where you’re going!!
She was referring to his slang… I’m not sure how everyone misconstrued that. She doesn’t use slang and can’t understand it. She doesn’t want to date a man that uses it bc she finds that immature. That’s her preference.
He's EXACTLY 💯 RIGHT 👍
I wouldn’t even entertain her disrespect. Just next her and move on with life. An unruly lady is not worth any energy.
I’m starting to notice Men do NOT take being rejected well 😂 just like most women 🤣
“People will give you what you looking for.”
I respect this guy so much !!
I think he probably messed with her friend before cause she only gave that energy to him 😂
Lol they both from Chi-town. 👀 👀
Nope, she was a see-u-next-thursday the WHOLE time!!
No she's just ignorant.
Some people on the dating show be talking crazy if you can't go with the flow roll out 😂😂😂
She was hella disrespectful, it's too common amongst our women
Who is "OUR"? You must be speaking about biracials
Wen ppl degradate U on jump they are inscure in their doings😮
Bro brought a briefcase with NOTHING inside of it 😂. He should’ve got a balloon pop off that alone.
Ya feel me…..
Women on this show can be so disrespectful props to dude for handling that like a real man
Facts!!! They will give you what you are looking for.
It's ok. She just gave, I want to be alone behavior. Let her be.
I hate that high school bully energy. Makes my stomach turn.
She was laughing out of embarrassment
That girl really thought she was all that and she even rocked up with a tag still on her jeans - he is the definition of growth
She’s still laughing. She still wants to try & hurt him. Smh she has problems
The girl in the purple dress matched soooo much better with the guy who had the brown locks 😭😭😭😭😭
And she’s funny as hell they had mad chemistry
Rasoma saying "like" 50 times!
Folks killing me with that “mmmhm” sounding like your phone on vibrate
He mad sexy and emotionally intelligent 😍
You like hood dudes.
How? He literally gave this girl a lecture after being triggered/rejected. Emotional intelligence sees this as incompatible and just keeps it moving.
@@dikajohnson2220it's a conversation. Hes openly telling her to not call him little. In s respectful way. Dialogue must scare you.
This dude live with his grandma 😂
Just a statement I'm a older Woman. That's lives in Chicago. You CAN'T TALK TO US A CERTAIN WAY ❤️. NO HARM OR DISRESPECT ❤
It's so interesting how more attractive some of these guys get when they don't get defensive or reactive towards petty feedback from the women!
I’m from Chicago. I’m a super upbeat, always having good energy person. But when that Chicago presents itself, then something brought it out.
Exactly, we are humble but Dangerous city
@@stormie7766@stormie7766 People don't realize Chicago was voted the best city for tourists 6 years in a row by one of the most famous travel magazines in the world. People take a small, dense area of Chicago where crime happens and apply it to the entire city. We aren't even in the Top 5 for Murder Per Capita anymore. Chicago is a great place, minus the taxes and inability to carry weapons. Lol.
I'm so proud of him. Maturity is so attractive.... She proved to the world just how strong and different he is from the typical stereotypical black man.
Everyone looked disgusted at her when she was talking, you can tell they were uncomfortable and the guy handled this with class and he will go far in life with that attitude! That lady needs therapy or she’s going crash out horribly!!
He wasn’t hurt , she was trying to be disrespectful and funny. The moment she found out who he was she was on a panel with him
Emotional Intelligence!!! 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Dude was respectful in a situation where she was really being condescending and mean. He emerged as a class act. She seemed petty and shallow
Let people have their own opinion stop being so damn insecure that's the problem with a lot of men young men everything hurts you you either act out violently are stupidly and end up in jail
I absolutely adore him 🥺😍
He so handsome and smart😊❤king ur Queen will come in time be prayerful❤❤
Same here in New Orleans. I have a friend who is from New York and he had to learn the hard way that the people here don’t talk any type of way and you will get what you are indeed looking for.
She need to check herself I get what he means .. Sometimes people want to demean someone and is not cool. I am.proud of his calmness and he's transparency . She shouldn't even be there !! If it was my show.. I wouldn't have her
He is handsome and humble. I like how he handled himself ❤
He is finnnoeee
Let God find you a partner, that’s a real match fr
He was ❤.. good energy & good presentation
the one with the white laughin her azz off😂😂
it's the same girl that's talkin in the clip
6%pop-60% crime that's why. His fake stoic personality is hilarious
70% of the population and more than half of the sex offenders.
Stay away from children.
If not fake, and his point is that Chicago does have a ton of violent crime which is why you can’t go around just immediately openly disrespecting someone else because people will give you what you’re looking for where he’s from which is why he tries to move in such a calm stoic way
"His fake stoic personality is hilarious" 😂😂😂
You’re a coward you wouldn’t say that to nobodies face the internet is a good place for you to
I get where she was coming from. You feel me you feel me you feel me you feel me you feel me you feel me you feel me . . . Imagine going to a law office for a consultation and taking him seriously.
He seems like a nice guy but he also seemed hell bent on not understanding the lady n the reds reasoning. Discernment was true bc he ended up admitting to a lie. Rizoma commented on what she could physically see but stated twice it was his approach and presentation which ended up being correct. He was perpetrating something that wasn’t completely honest and she could sense it. Went about it wrong asl but it is what it is.
EXACTLY THIS
It was aggravating me that he wasn’t able to see Lady in Red’s point. She said “maybe Rizoma was right” but she didn’t mean right about what he wore and how he physically presented himself. Because he later came out and admitted he was dishonest in general.
One of those women that reject first out of fear of rejection lol
That female is a problem.
“Neither of us is the prize “ ❤❤❤❤ what we build with God is the prize.
To be real he sounds soft that’s why they don’t respect him, he should of gave her zero energy that’s how you handle that
Being respectful and polite is soft? Wow. I bet you think you’ll live to see Jesus… don’t bet on it.
He walked in being a fraud, wearing a “businessman” costume and she caught him that’s all
She corny fr