What women WISH men knew about females
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Basics that have been lost to many people and not passed down from generation to generation
That's also how the nazis came to power. Meaningless; proving only that succeeding generations are as stupid as their forebears. (Worms don't have legs for the same generational reasons.)
“her only real choice is to justify it…….or spend the rest of her life alone and unloved”. Why do you say that? Plenty of women leave an abusive relationship to find another, much healthier one.
She is only unloved in a secular sense. If she is religious or spiritual she will know (even if she has buried it), that she IS love and IS loved by something far bigger than a human being.
you know males are dishonest.
"How could she justify that?"
As someone with a female relative who has hopped from one abuser to the other to the other, it is rooted in psychological trauma. She believes she deserves abuse because of what happened to her.
Men need to feel needed and respected, women to feel special and appreciated 😊
Both men and women need what you just said. What the rabbi is trying to say is that women are morally intuitive and men are self-preserving.
From everything I'm hearing him say, except basically the first part, it make me think he dealt with a different species than I have for most of my life.
OMGSH! Thank you so much for this talk. You are so right in that men and women are not good for each other until they become a real husband and real wife. Not by title but by character and behavior. It must not only be acted on, but internalized, and this means embracing the crucible of being wed to someone. If allowed, it can melt the selfish nature out of you. This is why divorce is so high! We are unwilling to discipline the flesh, the biological nature. It is in submission to God and how He would have us act and behave toward our spouses that creates in us the fruit of that existence. Thank you!!!
OOPS!! Like so many others you obviously haven't read 'god's Word'. God, absolutely, in Genesis 3.16 describes exactly how man and woman are to behave.:- She is to be his possession, and obey his commands. :- "Genesis 3/16: "To the woman he said,
“I will make your pangs in childbirth exceedingly great; in pain you shall bring forth children, yet your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you.”
Bang goes the entire ball-game! And feminists can look forward to the fiery lake. Or be forced into marriage!
Sometimes GOD puts something my way...thankyou
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Wow! Love this conversation, it makes so much sense.
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Deep wisdom !
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Thank you Rabbi Manis Friedman! As always you are saying something here regarding men and women which is making lot of sense for our learning.
This was very useful, toda rabah!
Jewish wisdom, I always resonate with it. Sometimes it's on a very simple level and sometimes it's very deep.
That's so true feeling justified for the abuse you get you feel you deserve it
I Believe 1 of. Woman's Role is to encourage & Inspire & Appreciate her Husband.
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This is so amazing 😲😍. Do not accept men and women who ain't sync with values amazing ...comments
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Thank you 🙏🏽 and I realize more and more that the Rebbe is always right at least to me.
This knowledge is buried in my soul and I was told that I am crazy … I am Jewish thats all.
God must love morons (aka jews??) because he made so MANY of them.
OMG!!! Are you suggesting the 'rebbe' is my mother-in-law??? SHE"S always right, too. Just ask her!
so much wisdom
Thank you, Rabbi, for answering a burning question for me about why men start wars when all I want is peace and contentment 😊. I do not understand why men do not learn from their mistakes in marriage. This is another burning question.
TRUE. They go through changes and 'expect' what a woman should do to please them.
WRONG on every count. Lazarus Long devoted a chapter demonstrating that male/female relationships are MUCH simpler than all the modern waffle; and that we exist today BECAUSE of that simplicity. (and uses a lion pride to make the point). viz. ANY species exists because of two FACTS 1. The female's entire INSTINCT is to produce offspring (and that those living things have existed for a few billion years before god arrived proves that reality). 2. The male's entire instinct is to protect and nurture his offspring. Therefore: a Male lion will fight to the death to secure 'territory' (more lions die from that pursuit than all other causes combined). Lionesses (which nobody could call sissies) flock to the holder of territory and drop their knickers for two reasons: 1. Territory provides protection and a food-supply for her offspring, and 2.The lion who can win and defend territory against all comers is obviously the best GENETIC choice (from any point of view) to father her babies. END OF STORY. (and the first thing Leo does on winning the territory is to kill ALL the offspring of the previous owner: a task the lionesses have no argument with, since their father was not the carrier of the best possible genes. Even our millions of generations of ancestors understood and accepted that principle (otherwise we wouldn't be here today, talking bullshit!) What we call 'civilisation' and 'social standards' and 'morality' is scarcely more than a terminal cancer that's eating away at our species' existence. And cancers are always more vigorous and self-justifying than any other living cell. God will die when our species lies rotting where it falls. Probably sooner rather than later if the bible is anything to go by. (and the rest of creation will give a huge sigh of relief.)
Marriage is a perversion of the laws of nature AND god. One cannot learn from a mistake WITHIN a mistake.
So men can learn from their mistakes after the marriage is over, I’ve noticed.
@@MariaElena51185 Mmmm, interesting observation.
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As a woman myself. What about what men wish women knew about males for a change? I've noticed that society these days seems to care almost solely about what women want and need, but never about men. Maybe that's what's led to lot of men facing psychological issues that are never dealt with, and many women feeling so entitled. Our boys are failing in school because of the gynocentric education system, so many of men are choosing to leave the world each year, they have no spaces left to call their own, I could go on.
Men need us as much as we need them which makes them just as important, but even on here on RUclips, all I ever see is pandering to women about how men need to do better for women. It's at the point where it seems that they can never do enough.
Men are the ones who build everything and maintain it, not to mention protecting our society with their very lives, but there isn't much acknowledgement of that let alone appreciation.
Good point - that one's coming tomorrow... 🙂 Stay tuned!
The reality you're describing is sadly true, of course.
But have you explored the rest of Rabbi Friedman's channel?
I think it's because it's men's nature to provide and contain a woman, or more generally to provide and protect his tribe. So it's quite essential for men to know what women or society expect from them so that they can be useful.
Wow!
The Rabbi did say that men need to be needed and ironically what you are pointing out Mmmm.
Rabbi Friedman saying men and women cannot understand each other is wrong. Hearing his explanation makes sense to me. I understand how men are and how we women are. This actually helps to understand each other.
True 👍
A woman who stays with a man even if it's a difficult relationship because she has children and the children need a father not because of other things it's not easy for a woman to just leave her husband and take care of the children
So she justifies her staying with those reasons
Broken emotions,her contribution
The part in this video where he suggests men are never content is literally backwards…
I love the humour.
It’s all true..
So marriage is actually about being what you really are at the highest frequency- husband and wife. Spark of life. One.
The highest angels, at the highest level of heaven, are according to Emanuel Swedenborg, male and female as husband and wife .. as one. Eternally. Creating as one.
Many of us women were raised to be men by home and society. Conditioned to have the masculine drive and initiative and reject our natural inclination. God is leading us back to being women
Yes to this.The Creator created Something from Nothing. He saw something in nothing. Seeing the something in nothing is looking down from above, seeing the nothing in something is looking from below
"Creating something from nothing" would qualify as the MOST STUPID comment I've ever seen on RUclips. (or anywhere else for that matter). It's JUST NOT POSSIBLE. And there are ample, undeniable PROOFS to demonstrate that.
And to take it a step further, the FACT is that neither matter nor energy can be 'created' OR 'annihilated'. ie. the universe is INFINITE in both time and substance. ( helluva concept to get one's mind around; but still far simpler and demonstrable! the fairy-tale 'god' created just a few heartbeats ago by ignorant desert nomads to justify their existence.
I got so emotional after listening to you I am so confused
I think it's fear.... A woman will fear leaving someone like that... Especially when children are involved.. I see what your saying though ... the thought processes you're talking about within gender...some Men can be so scary though... From experience they're usually incredibly insecure and unhealed.. too much pride and a false over inflated ego to ever look within and address themselves! Male or females can be like that.. I find a lot of men intimidating though!
Husband and wife simply entwine like a vine,growing abundantly,and adapting together to become a stronger vine!Like separate ingredients in a cake,when mixed,we become sweeter and delicious!
What about when they move in the house and the wife starts finding something wrong with the house?
Halelulah
When a man keeps finding fault in a woman to fix. When there’s nothing to be fixed. Let people be!
But what if a woman does have the desire to accomplish? I feel i have a strong need and desire to accomplish
How do I be part of a Jewish faith if I wasn't raised Jewish. I have been here to listen to you speak for weeks now and I find peace in your faith.
Y'can get the same ignorant effect from Alice in Wonderland. Or 'The life and times of Donald Duck' (and at least we can PROVE that ducks exist.
Forget it Toots! ANYthing that depends upon 'belief' simply means there's not a scrap of EVIDENCE to support it. Proof doesn't require 'belief'.
You have to go to a Rabbi and start studies to convert unless you want to be a Noahide.
No need to convert to a religion. That peace is already inside of you. It’s from knowing something not believing something someone (a rabbi) said. He simply triggers your knowing that you know already. We are all teachers to one another.
Read the Torah and follow it . The whole Bible starting from genesis. But keep his Torah the first 5 books. We are grafted into Israel . We are gentiles able to be grafted into gods people and become an Israelite by faith .
wHEN A PERSON BECOMES NOTHING IT DOESNT TAKE MUCH LOVE TO MAKE THEM FEEL LIKE EVERYTHING.
who and what decided my discernment.
A man needs to accomplish,
A man needs to acquire,
A man needs to create change,
To produce something.
To fight a war and win...
Because if not then who needs him?
Then he's nothing.
Thats why men are aggressive.
Aggressiveness is the need to accomplish.
I fought a "war" once and lost.
It was a war to prove to my self that everything I had been through in life...
All of the (bad),
The wrong decisions,
All of the misfortune I faced,
And some of my circumstances were not... or did not simply happen just because I was a failure.
Or bad,
Or because I made bad choices.
Because I never "measured up" to some standard I cannot even quite tell you where is.
I never learned how to "succeed".
In a way I think that maybe I never really cared enough too.
I just found a "reason" for it all.
Other than my self I guess.
And I found a fight.
And that gave me and (it all) purpose and meaning.
It justified why I had experienced all that I had out of life and I think some time while I fought that war I stopped looking at my self.
I lost that war.
And then after that I realized that it did not really bother me so much as I might have anticipated.
Because I think I knew all along I would loose it.
And that took from me all I had,
Except an often challenging and miserable existence.
Most man want to take they dont give...only if they recrive first
I dont get this completely because from my own experience I felt the need to prove something. Maybe not as a woman, but as a child in special ed
Gr888😂
It might just be where I live though lol
That kind of man feeling useless if he has no project to work with is just one kind of man. My husband was not like that at all.
It sufficed him if he had books to read,
chess parties to play and I am the same way but I do study instead of chess. No kids alas, sorry.
I love you and tuerd you
In a way a woman ( wife) civilized her husbansd.. Teaches him to learn to Intuitive side of being a FULL Human Being & to "educate him" from the Intuitive side of the Ying/yang Divine Masculine & Divine FEMININE. Her Husband Needs to be Appreciated Acknowledged ( Thanked) for his efforts. Taken for Granted kills relating to each other properly.
What an interesting way to think about this. 🤔Men flee because they are afraid of being annihilated, women stay because of justification.
But...
That's not entirely true...
The justification wasn't her own... Meaning it didnt come from her... She just accepted it as justification.
He broke my arm because I scratched the car.
Who told her that? Him. Justifying to himself why he hurt her. Why he chose to take out anger that he is holding inside out on her, that has nothing to do with her scratching the car.
Which begins an emotional war within herself, because she HAS to find a way to justify it because someone who is abusive in that manner, has fully convinced her by that point that he is the only one in the whole world who would ever even love the likes of her. So her only real choice is to justify it... Or spend the rest of her life alone and unloved.
Imagery is a very powerful tool used for manipulation.
Male or female... We ALL have a conscience.
Let's be frank here Rabbi. Men SUCK at dealing with emotions. Not just womens, but their own as well.
Though some men have mastered the art of manipulating a woman's emotions to get what they want. 🤷♀️
Even before the society that started discouraging men from feeling, expressing, or even acknowledging their emotions, men just sucked at it. 🤷♀️
Its nothing personal. Its not even a flaw in their design. It is an imperfection that is made perfect with balance.
We were created to compliment each others weaknesses...
Meaning, where he is weak in dealing with his emotions when left unchecked, a woman is weak in controlling her emotions when left unchecked.
But by working together they can bring balance to each others emotions.
That's merely a rationalisation of 'modern' philosophy; and is full of psychobabble holes. The ACTUAL explanation lies entirely in the realms of physical chemistry and (successful!) evolved instincts which are the product of the 'Laws of Nature'.
Though your mis-spelling of "compliment" IS emblematic of today's (socially-inflicted) parameters. Haggling with a (female) creature so far from MY reality when a smack in the ear settles the issue immediately is an absolute waste of MY time/life. (AND, as ALL the evidence demonstrates: the most basic solution to any issue! ) As god SHOULD'VE said (in support of the Laws of Nature he 'created from nothing'): "Might makes Right".
@@dabbbles 🤔 I have no idea what pointing out my misspelling was supposed to show, but FYI... It was one of two things... I am slightly dyslexic and didn't catch the error...
Or... I spelled it correctly and my spell correct changed it because I have misspelled it before and I did not catch it this time. 🤷♀️ Which is a far cry from being "socially inflicted". 👍
As far as everything else... Well. It sounds to me like you've done far more book learning than actual learning through experience.
You ought to try it. 👍 Those lessons include Wisdom... Which your comment was devoid of. 🤷♀️ Have a nice day. 🙋♀️
P.S.
You misspelled rationalization. 👍😂
@@observeroflife2024 Wasn't meant to show anything. And of course we all make typos. Yours ('compliment' in place of 'complement' was very funny in the light of your general comments: suggesting men and women should "Say something to each other that expresses praise"
@@observeroflife2024 PS Check out 'Wordweb' or ANY dictionary. Not only is 'rationalisation' a valid optional spelling, but is used far more than the archaic 'rationaliZation'.
As for 'wisdom/experience/booklearning/ etc.:- At 78yo and with and ( OFFICIAL IQ of 162) ~ along with 'experiences' beyond what you could imagine (including making the front pages of the newspapers here and overseas more than once) and a fairly comprehensive list of (mostly classical though many contemporary) books read I'd match my 'wisdom' with yours or anyone else's. Much of that came from a thorough knowledge of Shakespeare.
@@dabbbles You have no idea how much I scrutinize over my comments and their accuracy...
And how much RUclips messes with me sometimes...
Seriously. I had to retype the last half part of that last comment three times to get it right... I thought... Until I saw the "he" instead of "be" and decided I was tired of retyping the whole thing because the last half disappeared when I went to edit... One stinking word... 😵💫
Forget about it man... I know you know what I meant... 😂
Oh but no. Expressing praise is different than simply complimenting each other's weaknesses. That's not literal like...
Oh hey... You suck at this but I like it anyway... Or I am going to "fix" it. Simply put it is men are not aware enough of their emotions, and women are over aware... But together we can bring balance to each other. 👍
Some people are givers, others are takers, If only I could be a taker, so I could just get stuff, ez lifee.
Now I know there is so much difference in between male an d female 😮
Every person can only speak from Himself or herself. The biggest mistake is someone speaking about people in groups. We are All individuals each one specially crafted and made in the exclusive image of God that is why we can ALL be unique and different. If not even the fingerprints of two people match, we can be sure that it is a fact that no person is "made of dust" as this man puts it. Don't hang any label around your neck listening to the opinion of one person. Look to God and remember YOU ARE WHAT GOD SAYS YOU ARE. love someone or leave them alone. It is just your opinion about them.
wOMEN ARE ONLY IN IT FOR THE LOVE AND EFFECTION ,WE WILL GO THROUGH HELL TO BE WITH YOU.
If they live on separate islands, how you gonna keep the men away from the women's island?
goodness! I hope while the Rabbi is speaking or presenting,
individuals will refrain from interrupting.
It's acceptable to laugh at humor during the lecture,
but interruptions are disruptive.
for instance men thrive when there's an interesting sports game loool
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If l give something to poor
needy l just do it purely as a
moral obligation and as a
duty as a human beings
Bible says don't let know to left hand what is your right hand doing l don't any thing
for publicity What an insult
for me although you said
women give things in order to
accomplished so l am a rare
woman not the ordinary women
We can reach absolute zero here. Men have been struggling too I know.
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i WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A REAL CONVERSTION WITH YOU BUT DONT KNOW HOW.
ND INTIMACY IS THE KEY.
Now I know why my marriage failed. 😢
GOD the FATHER, created ADAM in HIS IMAGE & LIKENESS. & GODDESS the MOTHER created EVE in HER IMAGE & LIKENESS.
LOL funny
I see so many twisted and upside down models
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This does not apply to hunting gathering societies. The anthropological pattern is the family & dwelling belongs to mom. Judaism retains hunting gathering roots in that being Jewish is matrilineal. Hunting gathering societies are gender equal. Except for the artic (where hunting brought in more food than gathering) women brought in more food than men. Except for the artic 8O % of what was eaten were plants & were gathered.
I think Rabbi was talking not on a social equalty, but psycological differences...
@@sofiayudelzon4830 If it's part of human psychology, hunting gatherers did it. If you define human as homo sapiens we were hunting gatherers for 99% of the time we've been here (for those of us who accept evolutionary theory; the rabbi may not . . . .)
Basic flaw: There is no such thing as 'equality' anywhere in the universe. It's no more than a concept we've invented in order to make our arithmetic work.
Human earthling dna was tweaked by ET’s. It’s all through the Old Testament. So the bible is about the battles between Enlil who hated the humanity that his brother Enki (the progressive geneticist) created to be sovereign and powerful just like him (Enki)
We are Extraterrestrial beings. Enlil/Yahweh won the battle over humans by dumbing us down .. tweaking our 12 strand dna. Making us slaves.
Husband and wife creating are the spark of life .. fractal of Source.
PS Making it up endlessly: NOWHERE does god advocate marriage. (Can't help wondering when this 'expert' rolled his last female conquest around the mattress. (Assuming he could find his doodle amongst that beard.)
Totally disagree with everything!
yeah me too
Unfortunately, everything he's saying, I've witnessed. It's very true.
I agree. He didn't bother asking a woman. Men have done this for thousands of years. I'm 53 now and had hoped to find another partner as my ex husband divorced me after 27 years of marriage 7 years ago. I think I'll just stay alone. I'm so disappointed in this particular sermon. I thought perhaps I'd had bad luck with men but I'm beginning to think they are all kind of the same. Which is fine. I have never and will never try to change a man. I'll just stay alone. I'm glad I heard this sermon. It opened my eyes to how weak and childish men are. It's sad and depressing
@@susanlett9632 if uninterested you dont have to share what you disagreed with in particular, but would you share your alternative position(s)?
I would go to war with no quarter over my family but won’t go to war for honor
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שבת שלום לך ולשלך אמן אמן ואמן😊
You don't say??!!!
Christian Church do not talk about this kind of stuff. Never heard of it. Modern Church has failed?
I have to disagree with this one
Instead he runs and accomplishes his work needs for other men's vehicles. 3 marriages and 3 divorces from this same man. Promises much, delivers slim. So this is not true for all relationships. He abuses me now with name calling and gets in my face. I'm content in a home I bought myself and studying TORAH. He doesn't want that. He loves his metal car works, doesn't seek Hashem😢
Sometimes lol
Confirmed: I am actually a man. Yikes.
אשה לא מבינה את אצמה למה אתם גברים חושבים שתוכלו ?נשי אוהבות ליהיות אהובות זה הגול אבל רק כול רגעה אז יש שלום בית!!
Where are those women Jewish and gentile,as they get educated to be free &indipendent,and have every thing what man can provide,
Sadest part is never in history of mankind,Educated single women whole life provided free sex,,as Every natural man dreams to be one with woman,to provide her meterial needs for being his wife.Women are equal to men,but In older days women were thier own responsibilities,in life and in family,but now when women have every thing they need,Men are puzzled what woman need in present days other than paying the bill,even woman are working,and have almost equal salaries.Woman have become just like men snd strong snd mischievious and verbal abusers,that man can't face.
Working as single is not, to the plan of gods intentions.
???? I've ALWAYS been "one with women"; lots and lots of them.😉
Interesting, but rather odd interpretation.
God wanted drama Men and Women. Can’t get any better than that 😂 Women can’t live with them can’t live without them. Men only think this of course. Sorry girls you just need to find a man with a good heart ❤️ He will always love you forever and ever.
Everything that God created is good. He created woman for man ,, so i disagree with that sentiment
Women don’t need acquire? Lol. This is this most ridiculous speech. Lol. 😅
Sure, I heard they often times just walk away from a divorce not ever asking for anything. 😂. All they do is acquire! Acquire a husband with income, acquire children with added responsibilities, acquire a nice house through her husband in a legal contract called marriage and when things aren’t perfect they move someone else into the house she acquired with the money she acquired from alimony and someone else raises the kids she acquired with the child support she acquired and the new husband gives even more than the last so she acquires more and more and more. You are right about justification because they’ll sleep just fine after creating this kind of mess.
Women are also often agressive, some do fear irrelevance, and plenty of men are outraged by yet find ways of justifying being a victim of abuse. Ridiculous speach!
Sorry, this is stinking of unintentional divisive politics borne out of a need to impress :((
You can't deny mother nature. Politics or not.
exactly, thanks for pointing out
@@NIF18 It is MOSTLY false unsubstantiated info, slavebrain
Very insighful