Got trapped by the force of clickbait. Actually learned how to improve life in the best ways possible, thanks to the most relatable meme about society ever.
A teammate not a liability That sounds hard from relationships, people just want things for their own personal gain in relationships, be it sex , financial gain ,validation , societal acceptance or they are scared of being alone due to being mentally weak. I don't see why A man should take on anothers burden and problems just cause . Its easier to achieve your goals without such burdens , No.
A team supports the failings of the other members while relying on them to support their own. Dudes have mental health problems related to confidence that are almost entirely cleared up by having a partner that relies on them for physical things. Not money, not a leader, but to be the motivated actuator of plans and a barrier from physical decline. No man is capable of their full Chad potential without a support. Just the same as no woman is capable of their full Karen potential without support.
@@FumblsTheSniper If A man relies on a partner to have confidence then is that confidence or is that insecurity? this sounds like the man who falls victim so social/ societal pressure , he is still not confident in himself. this analogy you brought on here seems to downplay men's natural ability to be self sufficient. I question you even more when you say a *man cant bring out his full chad without a female support,* So a man cannot be his best self without a female partner support ? *No woman is capable of being a full Karen without male partner support,* Meaning a man is what causes a woman to behave badly? and a woman is what causes a man to behave successfully? Something seems off here like very off , it sounds as if someone has a personal bias and glorification of one the sexes to the point he beliefs the personal gain of men is only merit to woman and ironically the terrible behaviors of women are only merit due to man. so women are responsible for mens success and men are responsible for womens failures . sound more like a feminist female glorification the more I read it lol.
@@CyberPunkBadGuy if you’re going to write an essay against my positive comment at least spell the word “to” correctly within the first paragraph. People have faults and often the easiest way to fix them is by finding someone to share them with. Sorry it’s too hard for you to understand. I’m sure your mommy and daddy take care of you so you don’t need to worry about such things.
I saw this video 2 years ago.I was motivated to lost 80 pounds, graduate early, get a good job, and get a gf. Something clicked in me when I saw this video. Thank you. You saved my life.
The thing is that when you win, others loose and that makes you selfish. On top of that in the enemy team might be some1 unseemengly more important than you, so you msut loose.
when I heard "find a teammate, not a liability" I thought about my GF. And she truly is that! The way she looks at me in the morning or how supportive she is, is JUST amazing.
Only leaving this comment here because its easier to find. I'm 24, I weigh 300lbs, I have chronic acne. I fuck and make Instagram models simp over me. Honestly the key to women is not liking them but seeming like you like all the girls around the girl you like more than her, and view her as a friend. Not being an assole but being a passive asshole like you would to your male friends. And being funny helps too. And also tell her shes like a sister you never had after being friends for a couple weeks. I guaranteeee it will fuck with her head lmao. But the main thing is girls only like guys who other girls like, even if you're a 5/10. And never talk about your personal problems, you need to seem like you have your life in control, because most "hot" girls are insecure which is why they do all spend so much time doing make up. And compliment their eye lashes and nails a lot, or when they arent wearing make up, seem more interested in them. Also DO NOT CALL THEM HOT, OR BEAUTIFUL etc. Literally only stick to calling them cute 95% of the time. Cute means they are pretty but will wonder why the fuck only just cute?? Lol. And when you finally have the balls to flirt and take your chances like "damn ____ who's bday is it, why tf you got so much cake?" And you both laugh, call her dumb playfully, and go back to doing what you were doing and do not proceeded with talking until she does no matter how long it takes lol. Some good physical cues to look for if a girl likes you, or boy w.e 1. Pupils widen when someone talking to you likes you 2. If they keep looking at your lips when talking they probably wanna kiss you 3. When you're with a group of people standing sitting talkin to each other, most people will point their feet at who they are trying to get at :) makes things alot easier when in a group and wondering who she likes and who to throw under the bus😂 Everything I'm saying is true, I'm ugly, fat, poor, and girls are whores for me. Just gotta play the game.
goal for 2021: become a chad i'll be back in a year guys UPDATE! : First of all, I did not become a chad yet (sadly). But I achieved many great things such as managing to stop my video game addiction. Furthermore, I started going to the gym on a regular base (since October). Then I finally got to structure my day to become more productive. Last but not least, I am now taking school more seriously. Now my missions for 2022: - keep on grinding (not only gym but for my A-Level in school too) -eat more healthy -decrease time on the screen (its really just a waste of time ngl) !!! -become a chad ;) !!!
Ever noticed that chads and meatheads are some of the most helpful people when it comes to improvement. You’d be surprised who’s willing to help at the Gym
Its funny because thats the opposite of what I always heard from people and saw in tv and movies. I grew up thinking chads and gymbros were ass holes. Funny how its the opposite
People mix chads with bullies, bullies are just messed up people, chads have high testosterone which makes you friendly and agreeable towards your peer group, hail chadism! There is plently of propaganda against chads as well and all masculinity is portrayed as bully culture
@@oreocarlton3343 higher test doesn't really make you more agreeable but it does help you be more pragmatic and reasonable since it helps you temper your emotions and notions into practical ones. When we live in a world of emotion driven crybabies those that can reason and show resolve for what they believe in but still not belittle those that they don't agree with come across as Chads.
Nah im pretty sure its you. Most people see a positive comment and just go on by. Only the nihilistic or psychopathic types feel the need to bring it down.
In less than a year and a half, I went from being fired from a job I hated, to being in charge of a department bigger than the company I was fired from. Attitude is everything, and optimism is free. That's my 2 cents
eh easier said than done..first try starting a business and grow it successful then you will realize why everyone cannot just be successful by creating a business
If you feel your chin growing, you might consult your doctor. You might got agromegaly. This is either caused by a tumor in your brain or a lot of IGF1 in your food. If you eat a lot of raw calf liver, stop that - that raises your IGF1 levels.
You know what’s funny? I wasn’t a high school jock. I was just a “gym geek” who always loved working out and used to lift in class after finishing all my work. I had good grades, and I just did what I had to do. I always stood up for those who were bullied, I helped guide people to physical fitness no matter who they were or how skinny or overweight they might’ve been. I’m not super muscular. I’m only 5’11 160 lbs, I’m 20 lbs away from my goal in muscle mass. I know it’s going to be a journey for me, but we are all along the natty road to greatness and future success. Steroids is the weak way out. If you stay natural all the way through and keep goin at it, you’re a really strong man. Godspeed to all my brothers who lift! Calisthenics mixed with powerlifting and cardio (in the form of MMA, boxing, and distance running) is better than a lot of the stuff out there. It’s the actual CrossFit that works, not the one that just makes you look pretty and doesn’t do shit for strength. Bodyweight movements + strength training + martial arts training and conditioning + agility and endurance training = functional physique in society. In order to build muscle mass, always have a 50/50 blend of carbs and protein and get some good fats in there too. Cholesterol isn’t bad for you like the media has you think, it’s healthy and helps bolster a strong testosterone system. Also consider smoking cigarettes or cigars once in a blue moon, tobacco and nicotine help boost your testosterone levels.
@@thewanderingstruggler8601 Damn bro, your advice is really good, Im a martial artist like you (Im a boxer) and running and calisthenics is a big part of my training, I highly agree with everything you said
@@thewanderingstruggler8601 smoking part was absolute bro science and is not real. EVEN if was, its still dumb af. no healthy human being needs extra testosterone from external sources. if you aren't old. also that shit is extremely unhealty, expensive in thr long run, and unless you are in complete control of your mind and want to still deal with stopping a unnecessary chemical addiction, you can start smoking "once in a blue moon". most cannot even smoke once in a while. you start you in for good.
@@billyrj973 if your average or below that just means you have to work harder or obtain skills and experiences that would put you on the level of Chad.
Can't believe this video changed my life. I just watched it again and I got goosebumps. I am 23 years old. I was living my life in an automatic mode. A month ago I watched this video. It completely changed the way I see life. A month ago, I had the university already finished, and I was going to the office, work 8 hours, go home, play some video games or watch some Netflix, go to sleep. I already spent a year doing that loop. I was not particularly proud of myself. At the weekends, I didn't use to go out with friends or anything, I just spent them playing or watching Netflix series as well. I didn't feel good at that time. I wasn't good sentimentally. Nonetheless, I watched this video and I got a deep motivation to start doing something with my life. Almost exactly a month ago, on the 10th of April, I paid for the whole month at the gym. I have been going from 3 to 5 times a week. I can see a big change in my arms. My colleagues in the office told me they already can see a change. Not only in my physical appearance, but also in my mental health and my way of approaching problems. Moreover, I am currently doing a lot of things at the weekends apart from going to the gym. Dudes, if I can suggest you something, go hit the gym and do not simp. I am completely sure that girls will come without even having to simp them. Do not stay at home the whole day: go to the street and do not get stuck at home. Concentrate on yourself, add value to your body, and stay focused. I want to thank the authors of this video and the algorithm that showed me this video. Thanks a lot. Believe in yourself! 🔥💖💪🏼
But what do I do outside of the house? I don't even know. I want to be a better man, and I think I have a ok grasp of working out and self determination, but I don't know how to leave home.
Chad is a word to describe a man similar to what the Ancient Greeks would call a 'man of virtue'. The virtue people are discussing here is what Aristotle would call "magnanimity", which is essentially, generosity and benevolence towards your fellow man, not because you have to, but simply because you can, and you see it is good.
@@pancyborg524 what's more attractive than a kind, helping guy? This is what stops you from being a true chad, thinking attractiveness is only based in looks.
The real joke here is all the men watching this who will ignore all the advice about self-actualization and get back on reddit tomorrow to browse memes.
you know what, my main motivation to actually do something in life is to prove people wrong, so now im gonna prove you wrong by working on myself (dont take this is an insult brother, you have just become someones fuel to not give up)
@@entity5279 you suck and and we all know you're gonna quit the ascencion path in less than a week *secretly good luck tho, may the great Chad in the sky be with you*
Never could stand Reddit, myself. Always seemed to be full of a bunch of fake know-it-alls trying to gain popularity by googling the answer for a question and then pretending to be some kind of guru in the subject. I know what I know and I don't know what I don't. Any time I did wind up there under a topic I knew about, I usually saw wrong answers with dozens of upvotes lol. Then I'd see that misinformation being spread under videos on RUclips. Coincidence or not, I don't know, but anyways.. Reddit is gay.
I first watched this video during the covid lockdowns. I felt like everything was wrong with me. I felt skinny, uncool, not rich, low value, low impact, societally disposable, unlovable and a loser. This video right here gave me soo much motivation I can literally physically remember how I felt during and after watching it😂 Bottom line is it's been 3 years now and I did everything in this video. Developed a working out habit(I'm no longer twig skinny) , read books and consumed content on people that inspired me and am now even building the business I've always wanted to do. If you're in a similar position, just know there's a long journey you're about to embark on, it is going to be tough but you'll look back on it one day and think to yourself how far you've come and how beautiful your progress is. Much like I'm doing in this comment section rn. Lets get it 💯❤
So many doomer and wojak vid creators with 100k+ subs and who have been doing it for a year or more, but this channel blows most of them out of the water and this is just the beginning.
I have the feeling 2021 is the "Chad year" for me. On January 6 I've quitted smoking, February 22 started going to the gym, I'm reading (one of) the most amazing book on social interactions, "How to win friends and influence" by Dale Carnegie. My gf broke up with me in December, but I'm past it now. I want to get a job and study for an exam, and I'm thinking about college too. I promise at the end of the year I will post updates. Good luck to everyone,love you all ! :) 28.02.
“Look For A Teammate, Not A Liability” that line hits, My friends always give me shit for staying single, but that’s because I rarely meet someone willing to support my ambition rather than derail it, this video was straight facts, I have had to go through this journey over the last couple years, its hard but nessasary, Top Tier Video bro
Guys, Chad is right. The "hitting the gym" thing is absolutely essential. But if you're like me, and you're not a gym person, the alternative is being a long-distance cyclist. (That's probably what he means by Terms and Conditions apply) The underlying message is get lots of exercise because it is needed to maintain hormone levels. I still have crappy days here and there, but now that I'm not 30 pounds overweight and borderline diabetic anymore, it is much easier to handle. Take care of yourselves, guys.👍
Well said... everyone has an inner Chad. It depends on nurturing it. Just found this today, this is the perfect mentality to break my Depression. Love It.
I was literally in despair when I came across this. Everything you do, work, gym etc, do it for yourself, to better yourself, not for anyone else. Worrying that you won't be good enough for some chick is the fucking worst. Let's take back our power brothers.
I used to think that what happened in this video was totally unrealistic. I thought I'd never find a proper role model, and that I was doomed to be what my parents raised me to be like. I lived like this for a long way, until one day RUclips recommended me a video by a guy named Hamza (how ironic that his RUclips name is basically his actual name, just like the "Chad" in the video). He has changed my life. He gave me hope and actionable steps towards becoming better and happier. I hope that everyone can find their role model just like I did. I guarantee that it will change your life.
stay strong man and remember we are with you in the same journy no matter what level we are at or will be, and also remember that you shouldnt care if people think you are weird because you meditate or read books that actually help you, and trust me the moments when you were in dispair you will look back with gratitude because they are the hard times that made you into a strong man. "strong men make good times, good times make weak men, weak men make hard times and hard times make strong men"
@@karatewithelian9014 Of course. It is especially important now to become a strong man, seeing as how the world is essentially going to shit. I can’t stop growing now if I want to live a happy and fulfilled life.
@@fatfalcon3434 yeah doing self improvement really gives you a meaning to live and see the beauty of it,if you ignore how the world is right now in the west and maybe the east of course.
yup proper diet and gym really enhances your mind. People think it's all about the body. No, you fucking feel better and more confident. The muscles are just a goal and a plus to your looks.
All memes aside, I love it when in the end he says "find a teammate, not a liability". I think that's a pretty good advice no matter what way you look at it
1 of the 48 laws of power, avoid the unhappy and misfortunate, they will ultimately drown you with them. It also reflects on the saying "you become what you surround yourself with"
It is interesting, how the image of Chad has been developing over past years, from a mockery on "stupid buff dudes" to a vision of what we should aspire towards becoming. It's like the understanding eventually came to us, that a person (or a model, rather), who is superior to us in every way, is perhaps worth admiring and trying to become similar to, not to despise. Therefore, this image of someone great started to obtain actually positive qualities, ones we want to see in our ideal image. Strong, just, independent. Conscious.
But this chad isn't the same, this evolved a lot as us i guess, i mean, i understand that i don´t want to be someone sad in my room, being pathetic, the doomerguy shouldn't be something to be proud about... For years some of us where proud of be in some ways "awake" but in reality be a doomer is a frustrating way of look at life...(sorry for my bad english, i'm not a native speaker)
I think it's a consequence of the meme growing into a legitimate part of expression. In 2010 or whenever the chad meme first appeared (not this cartoon depiction but the original /fit/ or misc meme about Chads and Stacys) it was just a crude caricature to laugh at. But after years and years of repeated usage the memes has gained enough depth so that it's actually feasible to talk about real life issues using the meme terminology. People still laugh at the memes, but now you can be serious using them too. And with this new-found capacity to the meme people have started tackling real life issues or giving actual advice using the familiar imagery. You can't really do that with a fresh meme that is just a simple image macro or a funny looking frog or whatever. Same thing happened with Pepe (regardless of how you feel about the "hate symbol" reputation). It was just a frog peeing in a funny way for years until it became a conduit for expressing every possible human emotion. It takes a special meme to be able to stay relevant after the novelty wears off which I think is required for the meme to evolve into something like what we've been seeing now for the past few years with these Wojaks. They've become universal imagery that can be freely shaped by their context, but still retain a more descriptive character than something like a stick figure would for example. It makes sense that once people gained the ability to tell any story using these meme templates some will try using them for good rather than just for a quick laugh. And god bless them for doing so.
I watched this a month after this uploaded, I was 30 years old back then and have been coming back here whenever I remember this video. I used to be a wage slave. Then I started exploring e-commerce and now have a business. It may still be small but it is growing and I am able to live with some comfort. I also started exercising by riding my bike and doing sit ups and push ups at home. Stopped porn, no junk food, and no more putting off errands and work. I also found my team mate, a nice down to earth girl, she's an accountant. I'm her first boyfriend and she is my first girlfriend and we plan to wait after marriage. We often talk about our future and I'm really excited. I am thankful for this video, it gave me the push needed to change my life. Creating habits is the main challenge, once your brain gets used to it, you start to look for it and when you do it it gives you pleasure. It's never too late my brothers, -Y
The great thing about Chad is that he isn’t an asshole. He’s the guy who has a lot of life experiences and knows the key to success and he helps others into that path. Just wait til the virgin is no longer one thanks to the chad.
I've lost count of how many times I've come back to this video since the start of the year This has been a true formula for success for me, I hope it's serving you just as well!
Heres a general question to ask yourself. Does my friend push me to become a better version of myself, to challenge myself or do they help make me complacent, to always go for another round of drinking, another hour of gaming?
I'm turning 28 in a week and I started this journey a year ago. Accomplished so much in the past year than I ever have in my entire life-quit all my vices : smoking, drinking, gaming and porn. I now have a purpose I am striving towards, building my own repository of curated knowledge and soon a business of my own (blockchain dev). Been consistently hitting the gym every week and saying a hard NO to cheap dopamine feed-back loops and status games. Not ending my life killed the old me-I am now reborn. From the doomer-to-bloomer transition. Keep at it, kings.
I'm 27 turning 28 in April, I've been inconsistent for the past few years, but I recently got serious and consistent, more than ever before. I'm hoping I can be where you are now in a year myself.
i am currently one month into my gym routine. i have been on and off the gym for years but for the first time i am no longer motivated to go. but truly driven and feel disciplined. i am 235lbs right now. hitting the gym 4-5 days a week targeting 2-3 muscle groups a session. Rome was not built in a day, nor will i.
@@slendhood I've had to cut back to two consistent days a week, work keeps me busy and I kinda got a gf in the past 2 months🙏🏻. I've lost about 10-15lbs. But definitely gained some weight from muscle. I still have stubborn belly fat but my arms and legs are noticeably much more fit. Biceps and quads have grown a lot. I'm also able to jog for about 2 minutes straight now, whereas before I could maybe do 30 seconds before I felt dizzy. I'm happy with that progress in just 4-5 months
@@Somespideronline I think it is obvious, chad is a perfect character nobody likes perfect characters. besides maybe golddiggers and professional victims who are looking for some hero to ching on we usually like imperfect characters who are struggling in something and have some kind of problems
@@TyrannosaurusTREW I think the joke is implying that college/university does not give one practical skills, something along those lines. A lot of people dislike the money required for third level education and think first hand experience is much better than a long, primarily theory based education. That was just my interpretation.
The Chad is who we should all strive to be, the more chads there are in the world, the more we can help each other to become chads, being a Chad isn’t just physical appearance it’s a mindset Edit: I’m so sorry, I mean grindset
Social media fucked it along with dropping early marriage tradition. The amount of window shopping scope is now off the charts. The traditonal approach took "chads" off the market quickly and let people pair up more evenly. Now they just float around longer and soak up female attention like a sponge, whilst creating resentment in the women they use or flat ignore. Then you get the complaints about the "typical guys" which are just a projection of the handful of guys she notices. Much eyeroll, very sigh. So yes now we're all forced to compete with guys whom in the past would've mostly just fucked off out of the periphery with a wife. Now they're on twatter getting 1000s of followers and injecting that idea of what every guy "should be". But yeah, sure it's only "unrealistic female beauty standards" to worry about, lol. Never felt so invisible and replaceable until engaging with twitter. Sure I could just not, but then I'm just living in a social vacuum outside of a few online friends.
Dude i watched this video like 1 year ago, almost broke , not working ,heart broken and having my parents telling me i am not going to make it. I got a job , continued my side business make them very successful , now i am looking at my future to buy a car and house, and i have a team player who is my fiance. We must never forget we are kings.
Never thought I’d say this, but Chad is a hero. A lot of the times when you meet a “Chad”, they weren’t born that way. I’m not talking about the Chads that spend every spare minute at the gym to work on shallow goals. I’m talking about the Chads that have carved their way to success through shear will and rigorous effort. We could all probably learn a lesson from the Chads we encounter in life.
I was the typical example of the "virgin" in school growing up. My priority was consistently to try and get laid and do anything it took to impress girls. Was a pretty miserable time The moment I got to an age where I had legitimate interests and hobbies and I had aspirations, goals and motivation to achieve things for myself, my whole attitude changed. I became a different person. No longer was everything I was doing centered around pleasing other people. My confidence sky rocketed and I didn't care about taking what I previously considered risks in social situations. I wouldn't say I am a chad now but girls attract to confident and motivated guys. Its in their DNA to survive as a species. Getting girls is a paradox. If you actively try, they avoid you. If you stop trying directly and focus on improving yourself, being you and be confident in yourself the girls will come to you
you were fooled, like most of the people in comments in here: the epic music anesthetized your mind to accept what was just Chad add to his product: make you him. And you were played like a goddam Fiddle. Terms and conditions apply
@@palestrinha179 i love so see people who are conspiring about everything, that they want all subjects to look like their own version of reality dictated by their imagination and cynicism .
The depression that comes with doing all of this, getting into shape, going after your passion, focusing on improving yourself, yet still getting the same outcome of failure and rejection, cannot be overstated. Failing when you can see obvious flaws is one thing. Still failing after addressing those flaws is a whole other thing.
@@Bertydude Well said, but how long could the tiger continue to hunt with confidence if instead of succeeding 10% of the time, he was succeeding well below 1%? Say 0.1%, or 0.01% of the time? And even after working tirelessly to improve his hunting skills, still managed to succeed less than 1% of the time?
@@fuzzypanda1684 Still the same, Never giving up, and he could find ways to improve said odds. No excuses, not falling into negative thinking or negative self talk, always find a way to succeed, no matter how low the odds are. Seek God good sir, and you shall rise.
Self improvement isn't an all at once process, but a series of small improvements that shape you into the best version of you. We're all going to make it, especially you. I believe in you
Nobody got jacked from going to the gym once, you train your muscles at the gym, feed them in the kitchen and build them when you sleep. Everything takes time, and there's no shortcuts in life. Money comes and goes, but your time is limited so spend it wisely
Notes: •Follow your gut/ 9-5 isn’t fulfilling •Study up on your goals (people who made it) •Have connections/likeminded people •Health is important. Diet is major factor diet based on preset fitness goal/training consistency and progression is key •Be with people who support you instead of distract/demoralize you
If you still have a normie inside you were never a Chad in the first place. You must internalize the way of life. That’s how it works. It’s like eating clean. You can’t eat “clean” if you’re still eating shit. You’re just eating “better” than you were before. Not “clean”
Isn't it weird how we Men have created a funny dumb meme about Toxic Masculinity and then we slowly morphed it into more of a beacon of hope....I think it shows how much we as men crave REAL happiness and love....and how we are in need of guidance to achieve it
@@bani8204 well a few years ago chad was more of a stereotype of a highschool bully bad grade gets all the chicks steal ur girl buff guy who probably did drugs
I love how in the general internet conciousness, chad evolved from the dumb jock who got all the chicks for his looks to an actual rolemodel who despite his genetic luck is humble, wise and kind. I think it is a really nice shakeup from the hyper dominance some people preach. Chad (the new one anyway) however is not a Bully but a role model and pillar of the community. Moreover he is a state any man (and i believe even women) can acquire if they only strive to become their best selves. Chad is a healthy ideal, created from a deconstruction of the most baseline Maskuline stereotype (the jock). It is truly a remarkable Meme.
@@zerrodefex I don't think Chad is really about masculinity. It's just becoming better as a person. Improving yourself in all spectrums that YOU aim to. Not society. People will create social norms for you but Chad doesn't tell you have to follow it. He tells you to chase your own dreams whilst also improving yourself. Do things that you also like confidently without being afraid because you also work on improving yourself. So basically having no insecurities. Unfortunately, this video was posted back in 2020. When Chads and alpha males still didn't have a bad image. Now some people are just using these terms to tell men that we need to be back traditional ways and just pushing their own definition of masculinity over men who even slightly do something feminine. This is not what Chad was supposed to be.
Good psychologists/therapists can help heal tremendous damage done to people's psyches from physical/sexual abuse, neglect, trauma etc... so don't write them off. They play an important role for many people getting their life together. Id say this video is x100 more valuable then $1,000+ life coach speeches people pay for.
@@xxd3nraxx740 from a 38in waistline, now it's 34. Muscles were more visible than before. Though, I'm still on a deficit stage so there's still a long way to go when I do bulking. Yo really I'm not kidding guys I'm ready to show proofs of my progress.
"Find a teammate, not a liability" hit me hard. My life went out of control because my last "serious" relationship was a liability. I didn't have the support I needed. There's a lot of truth in this video. Stay strong my dudes 💪
same dude. And it hurt so much that I had to end it. I Still love her very much but the toll was too high. I need to focus on myself now to make up for all I gave up ever since
My ex GF just left me for the guy who transfering her a cash per weeks. This video hits me so hard. Thanks man for the motivation. Like the old say, "don't chase people, do your own thing and work hard. The right people, the ones who really belong in your life, will come to you. And stay."
Thats how most woman are, they aren't about helping you build from nothing, they wanna just be there when everything is perfect and you already are successful without considering all the work you did behind the scenes to achieve such things, quite shallow if you ask me. It would be nice to find a woman to be there with you though your toughest times, but such a thing doesn't exist, they're just there to reap the benefits of all your hard work, but the second you fall off the horse they're gone to. Make them the very last priority on your list, put your self and your goals first, a woman is a temporary pleasure, they aren't in it to build with you, it's more like, they're in it to get what they want out of you.
My ex left me for the guy she met year ago, and we've been together like for 4 years and more. Yep, no real bounds and flow affect more than words that said aloud
Finally a Real Chad! Earlier all I saw people quoting a person that break all rules, mess with people, drink, party all day, thug, huge jacked up muscles, into drugs, tossing girls, disrespecting others, and all that bullshit and people calling him a Chad, what a joke this person would be in Real Life... Having bigger purpose, mission, bettering your life physically, mentally, emotionally, and all that said in the video is the Real Life Chad, huge respect for him!
Those people above do that because they are insecure. A true chad has a real mission and purpose in life. A real chad lifts the people around them and inspires other people.
Kinda natural conclusion I suspect, when we now have to compare ourselves (or are being compared 3rd person) to pretty much every other man on the planet, instead of every man in town, if that. Thanks, but also no thanks, internet.
@@Josith13 Exactly. Postie Phil is no longer your competition. Now it's Chad from across the world who's inbox is flooded with 7s 8s and possibly 9s begging to be his woman.
@@Josith13 Do not take it as an obstacle, but as an oportunity. Learn from all of those other men, look at what they do and try to copy their way of living. The first step is having the will to learn from your superiors.
I was about to sleep after 3 days without doing sport (i'm sure 1 more day without doing anything would have fck my motivation for a month), thanks to this video i just had my best session in a while. Thanks for putting me back on the right path again, i'm following the Chad way from now
Here’s some helpful tips if you are downbad. Lift weights again. Pick up fighting, pick any martial arts out of these: Brazilian jujitsu, kick boxing, boxing. Meditate. If you rotate between these for 21 days you will have a lot less downbad days.
in my teens rn . I fell like i am wasting my life , sitting on the pc all day doing nothing but reading history and playing games . I go out for one every month with friends and i fell like thats not enough for me . I live 17kms from everyone
@@medika9651 You must become less dependent on others. Dependence will never bring you happiness, remember that. Find something you like, set a goal and start working towards it. Try to think what you want to achieve in 10 years and then decide if friends who live far away will help you achieve it. Take up a new hobby (like gym, running, or any other outdoor activity) and start going out more in your area. Soon, you will meet new people. Focus on mainly on yourself and try to improve both physically and mentally. Stop playing video games, instead always pick up something productive that's related to your studies or hobbies. If you know you're doing the most you can, you will never feel useless again. Those are all advices from someone who used to be like you.
@@a11en99 what about if you consume too many videos on self improvement and how to have confidence or reduce self anxiety? I usually just watch videos and realize more and more of what I’m missing? At the moment, I think my solution is to go on a personal journey, away from what I think I should be, and just schedule a day thst I would want to have as a productive person in the future. Working out, meditating, waking up at the same time, focusing on something or many things, but I have had these thoughts about how I’m not confident, I’m not shy, but when I was younger these things weren’t a problem, In fact I am jealous of the way I used to be, carefree focusing on my skateboarding, setting goals for skateboarding, having a blast in school. Right now it seems I’m strayed from my best self, and am dead set on being another person “best self”
And at the end, Chad looks at his creation and smiles, for he saw that it was good. Like Alfred looking at Bruce at the end of The Dark Knight Rises, he expresses his love without even needing to speak. Chad is truly an inspiration to us all. I often get jealous of guys who are more valuable than me. But jealousy gets you nowhere. I am happy for all the guys who have it figured out, and I believe that I will one day get there
![Summer Walker - Heart Of A Woman [Official Lyric Video]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/SFddctbZzw8/mqdefault.jpg)
00:48 Hey, it us, The Delray Misfits.
it self promotening
2nd comment poggers
3rd comment poggers
It you.
Ahah I knew you would comment 👌
AHHHHH GET AWAY FROM ME !!
Got trapped by the force of clickbait.
Actually learned how to improve life in the best ways possible, thanks to the most relatable meme about society ever.
Ikr
Me too, but I think the bet you can do is start improving now
Respect frate
This isn’t clickbait
@h0stile Wow, good luck mate! Give me some good news next year man, can't wait to know your progress
Fuck, “find a teammate, not a liability”. This actually kinda hit hard
A teammate not a liability That sounds hard from relationships, people just want things for their own personal gain in relationships,
be it sex , financial gain ,validation , societal acceptance or they are scared of being alone due to being mentally weak.
I don't see why A man should take on anothers burden and problems just cause .
Its easier to achieve your goals without such burdens , No.
@@CyberPunkBadGuy It is hard bro but you never know there might be someone just like you with similar goals and values.
A team supports the failings of the other members while relying on them to support their own. Dudes have mental health problems related to confidence that are almost entirely cleared up by having a partner that relies on them for physical things. Not money, not a leader, but to be the motivated actuator of plans and a barrier from physical decline. No man is capable of their full Chad potential without a support. Just the same as no woman is capable of their full Karen potential without support.
@@FumblsTheSniper If A man relies on a partner to have confidence then is that confidence or is that insecurity?
this sounds like the man who falls victim so social/ societal pressure , he is still not confident in himself.
this analogy you brought on here seems to downplay men's natural ability to be self sufficient.
I question you even more when you say a *man cant bring out his full chad without a female support,*
So a man cannot be his best self without a female partner support ?
*No woman is capable of being a full Karen without male partner support,*
Meaning a man is what causes a woman to behave badly?
and a woman is what causes a man to behave successfully?
Something seems off here like very off , it sounds as if someone has a personal bias and glorification of one the sexes to the point he beliefs the personal gain of men is only merit to woman
and ironically the terrible behaviors of women are only merit due to man.
so women are responsible for mens success and men are responsible for womens failures
.
sound more like a feminist female glorification the more I read it lol.
@@CyberPunkBadGuy if you’re going to write an essay against my positive comment at least spell the word “to” correctly within the first paragraph.
People have faults and often the easiest way to fix them is by finding someone to share them with. Sorry it’s too hard for you to understand. I’m sure your mommy and daddy take care of you so you don’t need to worry about such things.
"Find a teammate, not a liability"
- A wise Chad
what does it mean?
Means what you already know but had to be told a again
@@ACIIIL_extracts-zr5wz then love men! that was your problem all along
*What's the difference?*
@@saporodomedome3294 someone who supports you and you support ,not someone who drains you.
I saw this video 2 years ago.I was motivated to lost 80 pounds, graduate early, get a good job, and get a gf. Something clicked in me when I saw this video. Thank you. You saved my life.
Let's go dude! I'm proud, I hope I can follow your path
That's amazing 👏 love to hear this❤
Me too brother, I gained 15kl and I'm a DJ producer, a simple video saved my life.
The beauty of this chad formula is that it does not make you a chad. it makes you a you.
The best version of you. And I believe that the fundamentals of a chad
Makes you a you, but a true you is always a Chad.
@@nibel-k1433 yeah that's N-philosopher
Coping
@@nibel-k1433 the real chads were the friends we made along the way
"Your first mistake is being on reddit"
- basedlad69
Ah! There's always the other man who brings reddit into FCKIN EVERY DAMN VIDEO.
@@justamanofculture12 the video starts on reddit
@@justamanofculture12 lol
being on 4chan is not a good alternative
@@JAKE-ng8yr agreed
This... isn't a joke. Goddamn, this is a public service announcement.
I agree it’s not funny
@@clorox3595 Bruh what
@@Flxdup He means that it's actually a bit inspirational.
_terms & conditions apply_
The Chad Formula:
1. Secure your future by following your passion
2. Hit the gym
3. Real love
RealLove can only achieve you you're topg and rich Or extremely goodlooking and dominant
The Chad Formula:
1. Be born with good genes
4. Become a geneticist and genetic engineer
@@Kenny-tl7ir 5. Get a Nobel prize in biology
“Find a teammate, not a liability” I didn’t expect to hear such a wise quote from someone on the internet
Sadly i always have those in Rainbow matches but i make the best with what i got... Free meat shields!
Honestly, the video ascended right there.
👉
try that shit on solo Q
_my family when they see this part and they start looking at me_
*Adios*
Are you winning son?
no, but from now on I will.
Edit after 5 months: Found a passion in guitar & RUclips videomaking ;)
''theres always a tomorrow''
Start today. And you'll have a good start.
Go forth and do.
The thing is that when you win, others loose and that makes you selfish. On top of that in the enemy team might be some1 unseemengly more important than you, so you msut loose.
@@Extrasailor Are... Are you being serious right now?
I love how chad was the bad guy in the original comic, and now he's the ultimate bro
He was never the bad guy, he was always the guy every woman wanted and every man wanted to be. Welcome to the Red Pill.
It's all about perception. Do you want to live hating Chad because he's what you want to be? Or do you want to be strong like him?
we all should strive to be like chad, that makes us chads too
"Bad" guy? More like "Chad" guy
Chad was always just the superior version
when I heard "find a teammate, not a liability" I thought about my GF. And she truly is that! The way she looks at me in the morning or how supportive she is, is JUST amazing.
That is truly great! 💪🏻🙏🏻
i expect no less from a man called leon
W
Is she still your 'GF'? Wtf are you waiting for?!
w
This isn’t a meme , this is positive philosophy jammed into a meme like format ... love it .
Imagine a world where men put their honor and goals above all else, instead of the degenerate simp nation we have become
@@berniepina860 I get what your saying, but let’s make sure it doesn’t degenerate into selfishness.
Memes have been vessels for ideas for a long time, most people just werent conscious of it.
@@pinesandtraplines that's literally what memes are. An idea that spreads throughout a culture.
"America loves funny things"
I never thought they loved it *this* much
Pleasantly surprised at how wholesome these comments are. Mens mental health is important. Hold onto your crowns, Kings.
I thought i would get some incel shit lol
@@Xhenn. same lol. But instead its just a bunch of dudes who genuinely want other dudes to live up to their potential and have good lives
Don't say wholesome, say CHAD.
420th like
@@eskibileyci198 no one cares
This is absolutely top-tier!
So is your content... Thanks for what you do!
Nice to see you around here !
KINGS
Only leaving this comment here because its easier to find.
I'm 24, I weigh 300lbs, I have chronic acne. I fuck and make Instagram models simp over me.
Honestly the key to women is not liking them but seeming like you like all the girls around the girl you like more than her, and view her as a friend. Not being an assole but being a passive asshole like you would to your male friends. And being funny helps too. And also tell her shes like a sister you never had after being friends for a couple weeks. I guaranteeee it will fuck with her head lmao. But the main thing is girls only like guys who other girls like, even if you're a 5/10. And never talk about your personal problems, you need to seem like you have your life in control, because most "hot" girls are insecure which is why they do all spend so much time doing make up. And compliment their eye lashes and nails a lot, or when they arent wearing make up, seem more interested in them.
Also DO NOT CALL THEM HOT, OR BEAUTIFUL etc. Literally only stick to calling them cute 95% of the time. Cute means they are pretty but will wonder why the fuck only just cute?? Lol.
And when you finally have the balls to flirt and take your chances like "damn ____ who's bday is it, why tf you got so much cake?" And you both laugh, call her dumb playfully, and go back to doing what you were doing and do not proceeded with talking until she does no matter how long it takes lol.
Some good physical cues to look for if a girl likes you, or boy w.e
1. Pupils widen when someone talking to you likes you
2. If they keep looking at your lips when talking they probably wanna kiss you
3. When you're with a group of people standing sitting talkin to each other, most people will point their feet at who they are trying to get at :) makes things alot easier when in a group and wondering who she likes and who to throw under the bus😂
Everything I'm saying is true, I'm ugly, fat, poor, and girls are whores for me. Just gotta play the game.
@@timmyturner6575 Riiiiiiiiight.
The song is
Planned Obsolescence - Audio Machine for those looking
I love u!
Thank you bro
Thank you so much
thanks bro!
goal for 2021: become a chad
i'll be back in a year guys
UPDATE! : First of all, I did not become a chad yet (sadly). But I achieved many great things such as managing to stop my video game addiction. Furthermore, I started going to the gym on a regular base (since October). Then I finally got to structure my day to become more productive. Last but not least, I am now taking school more seriously.
Now my missions for 2022:
- keep on grinding (not only gym but for my A-Level in school too)
-eat more healthy
-decrease time on the screen (its really just a waste of time ngl)
!!! -become a chad ;) !!!
I'm with you
@@AmooRex I wish you the best on your way
Good luck bro
I’m in
I'm with you bro
Ever noticed that chads and meatheads are some of the most helpful people when it comes to improvement. You’d be surprised who’s willing to help at the Gym
Its funny because thats the opposite of what I always heard from people and saw in tv and movies. I grew up thinking chads and gymbros were ass holes. Funny how its the opposite
@@einzelwolf3437 chads are genuinely good guys in my experience. You get the occasion asshole, but they are usually outliers.
People mix chads with bullies, bullies are just messed up people, chads have high testosterone which makes you friendly and agreeable towards your peer group, hail chadism!
There is plently of propaganda against chads as well and all masculinity is portrayed as bully culture
@@oreocarlton3343 higher test doesn't really make you more agreeable but it does help you be more pragmatic and reasonable since it helps you temper your emotions and notions into practical ones. When we live in a world of emotion driven crybabies those that can reason and show resolve for what they believe in but still not belittle those that they don't agree with come across as Chads.
@@matrinezkevin11492 higher test is more linked with in group cooperation than pure agreeableness
Wow, Chad doesn't just lift weights, he lifts mates
the hero we need rn
Man listen I love this
The hero YOU need maybe. Not me. Not everyone else.
@@nymerie who hurt you
@@davet80000 Nice try. You're the one who's hurt and looking for a hero to lift your spirit up or something.
Nah im pretty sure its you. Most people see a positive comment and just go on by. Only the nihilistic or psychopathic types feel the need to bring it down.
In less than a year and a half, I went from being fired from a job I hated, to being in charge of a department bigger than the company I was fired from. Attitude is everything, and optimism is free. That's my 2 cents
sounds like you gotta case of the mondays guy is back in town
Did incessantly bitching about modern women help in any way? Asking for a friend
Hell yeah bro
Still working for the matrix. Chads forge their own path.
Praise the LORD
Lmao. The end is from The Dark Knight Rises.
yup, when Alfred sees that Bruce is with Selena.
although correction: It's from The Dark Knight Rises
Ah man of culture I see
I am the batman
That’s literally exactly what I thought
He should have gone to /fit/ instead of plebbit.
I don’t think he’s gay
@@sillyname6808 he will be after i'm done with him
Bait threads and derailments are aplenty nowadays
/fit/ is garbage
coin slot
Came here expecting a cheap laugh, left with a life message that will stick with me forever
Same here
same but thats better
even better
Same here bro
it's called Chad for a reason
1. Eat healthy
2. Work out
3. Work on your own business
4. Pick your partner wisely
5. Be consistent
Just 5 things that sound simple
and how much years must pass?
@@W1LDtracer it's not about years, it's a way of life. The way of Chad
eh easier said than done..first try starting a business and grow it successful then you will realize why everyone cannot just be successful by creating a business
I can feel my chin getting wider just by watching this video
The nega chin
unfortunately i cannot like your glorious answer as the likes are set at 666
If you feel your chin growing, you might consult your doctor. You might got agromegaly.
This is either caused by a tumor in your brain or a lot of IGF1 in your food. If you eat a lot of raw calf liver, stop that - that raises your IGF1 levels.
@@Azrael1_ Oh no
@@doppelhelixes where can I buy the highest quality calf liver
Chads have turned from the high school jocks, to the true homies and helpful people.
Always have been true homies.
high school jock = Brad
You know what’s funny? I wasn’t a high school jock. I was just a “gym geek” who always loved working out and used to lift in class after finishing all my work. I had good grades, and I just did what I had to do.
I always stood up for those who were bullied, I helped guide people to physical fitness no matter who they were or how skinny or overweight they might’ve been.
I’m not super muscular. I’m only 5’11 160 lbs, I’m 20 lbs away from my goal in muscle mass. I know it’s going to be a journey for me, but we are all along the natty road to greatness and future success.
Steroids is the weak way out. If you stay natural all the way through and keep goin at it, you’re a really strong man. Godspeed to all my brothers who lift!
Calisthenics mixed with powerlifting and cardio (in the form of MMA, boxing, and distance running) is better than a lot of the stuff out there.
It’s the actual CrossFit that works, not the one that just makes you look pretty and doesn’t do shit for strength.
Bodyweight movements + strength training + martial arts training and conditioning + agility and endurance training = functional physique in society.
In order to build muscle mass, always have a 50/50 blend of carbs and protein and get some good fats in there too. Cholesterol isn’t bad for you like the media has you think, it’s healthy and helps bolster a strong testosterone system.
Also consider smoking cigarettes or cigars once in a blue moon, tobacco and nicotine help boost your testosterone levels.
@@thewanderingstruggler8601 damn bro, you are the equivalent of chad to me. Thanks g
@@thewanderingstruggler8601 Damn bro, your advice is really good, Im a martial artist like you (Im a boxer) and running and calisthenics is a big part of my training, I highly agree with everything you said
@@thewanderingstruggler8601 smoking part was absolute bro science and is not real. EVEN if was, its still dumb af. no healthy human being needs extra testosterone from external sources. if you aren't old. also that shit is extremely unhealty, expensive in thr long run, and unless you are in complete control of your mind and want to still deal with stopping a unnecessary chemical addiction, you can start smoking "once in a blue moon". most cannot even smoke once in a while. you start you in for good.
Chad isn’t a bad guy. He’s just everything you want to be. So become Chad
But most things are genetical, you are either born a Chad, average or below average.
@@billyrj973 if your average or below that just means you have to work harder or obtain skills and experiences that would put you on the level of Chad.
@@billyrj973 Then work with what you've have. Wherever you end up is bound to be better than where you are now.
@@69Kazeshini Let’s face it. Some of us can only dream of being Chads.
Chads don't have to be attractive, chads are people who self improve, as long as you work on your body and mind without harming others you are a chad
Can't believe this video changed my life. I just watched it again and I got goosebumps.
I am 23 years old. I was living my life in an automatic mode. A month ago I watched this video. It completely changed the way I see life. A month ago, I had the university already finished, and I was going to the office, work 8 hours, go home, play some video games or watch some Netflix, go to sleep. I already spent a year doing that loop. I was not particularly proud of myself. At the weekends, I didn't use to go out with friends or anything, I just spent them playing or watching Netflix series as well. I didn't feel good at that time. I wasn't good sentimentally. Nonetheless, I watched this video and I got a deep motivation to start doing something with my life. Almost exactly a month ago, on the 10th of April, I paid for the whole month at the gym. I have been going from 3 to 5 times a week. I can see a big change in my arms. My colleagues in the office told me they already can see a change. Not only in my physical appearance, but also in my mental health and my way of approaching problems. Moreover, I am currently doing a lot of things at the weekends apart from going to the gym.
Dudes, if I can suggest you something, go hit the gym and do not simp. I am completely sure that girls will come without even having to simp them. Do not stay at home the whole day: go to the street and do not get stuck at home. Concentrate on yourself, add value to your body, and stay focused. I want to thank the authors of this video and the algorithm that showed me this video. Thanks a lot. Believe in yourself! 🔥💖💪🏼
Happy for you
Keep moving forward mate :)
@@insanevk4817 thank you very much, I will!!😎💪🏼❤️🔥
Feel like going to the gym is just a trend
Same here bruh, i have been hit the gym for 3 days 💪
But what do I do outside of the house? I don't even know. I want to be a better man, and I think I have a ok grasp of working out and self determination, but I don't know how to leave home.
Came here expecting a meme, got some of the best life advice I've ever heard.
@@mf9708 can't u just be happy for another king getting his life together?
@@mf9708 man looking like a pot
Chad is a good guy deep down
Same bro, hearing this was heavily inspirational
Same
This is what a true chad is. True Chads don’t act superior to virgins, but rather they teach virgins how to become chads themselves.
Isn't a chad just any attractive guy? I guess they can be good or bad like anyone else
King shit, but also True to Caesar. Together we can improve the Mojave.
Chad is just atractive guy
Chad is a word to describe a man similar to what the Ancient Greeks would call a 'man of virtue'. The virtue people are discussing here is what Aristotle would call "magnanimity", which is essentially, generosity and benevolence towards your fellow man, not because you have to, but simply because you can, and you see it is good.
@@pancyborg524 what's more attractive than a kind, helping guy? This is what stops you from being a true chad, thinking attractiveness is only based in looks.
The real joke here is all the men watching this who will ignore all the advice about self-actualization and get back on reddit tomorrow to browse memes.
you know what, my main motivation to actually do something in life is to prove people wrong, so now im gonna prove you wrong by working on myself
(dont take this is an insult brother, you have just become someones fuel to not give up)
@@entity5279 you suck and and we all know you're gonna quit the ascencion path in less than a week *secretly good luck tho, may the great Chad in the sky be with you*
@@entity5279 if words spoken in comment section of youtube ever meant anything.
@@muradm7748 they dont, but having someone out there to keep you motivated is something
Never could stand Reddit, myself. Always seemed to be full of a bunch of fake know-it-alls trying to gain popularity by googling the answer for a question and then pretending to be some kind of guru in the subject. I know what I know and I don't know what I don't. Any time I did wind up there under a topic I knew about, I usually saw wrong answers with dozens of upvotes lol. Then I'd see that misinformation being spread under videos on RUclips. Coincidence or not, I don't know, but anyways..
Reddit is gay.
I first watched this video during the covid lockdowns. I felt like everything was wrong with me.
I felt skinny, uncool, not rich, low value, low impact, societally disposable, unlovable and a loser.
This video right here gave me soo much motivation I can literally physically remember how I felt during and after watching it😂
Bottom line is it's been 3 years now and I did everything in this video. Developed a working out habit(I'm no longer twig skinny) , read books and consumed content on people that inspired me and am now even building the business I've always wanted to do.
If you're in a similar position, just know there's a long journey you're about to embark on, it is going to be tough but you'll look back on it one day and think to yourself how far you've come and how beautiful your progress is. Much like I'm doing in this comment section rn.
Lets get it 💯❤
really brother now i am depressed ugly skinny cant study cant workout pls guide me
Me too, this video takes me back to a very specific time in my life
@@slayergaming3166why can’t you study and workout? What is stopping you?
You know society is broken when a meme becomes a father figure.
"Chad" is a concept of the ideal male, ideals like that have been around since forever.
💀
N-no..
Chad is making money off of others in need.
I choose the monks life. Seek the kingdom and everything else will be added to you.
can't tell you how deep this comment is.
@@leoborros yes we all know, get some bitches instead.
No one gonna mention the Batman reference, of Alfred watching Bruce and Catwoman in the restaurant, with Chad watching the Wojak in the end.
I knew I couldn't have been the only one who noticed that
@@globalpayz9328 I'm just legitimately surprised no one else commented this.
@@hondansx2636 I did
Loool
I just wrote similar comment. awesome scene, the nod, raised glass, goosebumps.
So many doomer and wojak vid creators with 100k+ subs and who have been doing it for a year or more, but this channel blows most of them out of the water and this is just the beginning.
I agree
I come back like every month to rewatch this masterpiece. Keep it up guys. We can do it ♥
Here I am again
keep it up bro
2:28 that scene is powerful
dark knight rises vibes.
watched it twice
Yh that ending was wholesome af
Amen.
in batman it was kinda cringe and forced, as a reference, it works pretty well
I have the feeling 2021 is the "Chad year" for me. On January 6 I've quitted smoking, February 22 started going to the gym, I'm reading (one of) the most amazing book on social interactions, "How to win friends and influence" by Dale Carnegie. My gf broke up with me in December, but I'm past it now. I want to get a job and study for an exam, and I'm thinking about college too. I promise at the end of the year I will post updates. Good luck to everyone,love you all ! :) 28.02.
hell ya king keep going. this pandemic has hit us all hard but hard times create hard men.
Hey, Chris I know its random but how old are you?
@@bigafro7657 i'm 19
Good luck fren, go get the juice
@@kizunahenta.1759 Thank you very much ! Take care of yourself
"Find a teammate, not a liability."
Gamers, one day we'll find our Player 2. I'm sure of it.
Never loose hope is what i say. Hope is what we all have when all is lost
Well said.
Cringe but in the right direction
Shut up
Cringe
“Look For A Teammate, Not A Liability” that line hits, My friends always give me shit for staying single, but that’s because I rarely meet someone willing to support my ambition rather than derail it, this video was straight facts, I have had to go through this journey over the last couple years, its hard but nessasary,
Top Tier Video bro
"Become who you really are"
- Friedrich "Chad" Nietzsche
"Werde, der du bist."
Fck nihilism, stoic for life
@@gamingthisera6339 Embrace epicurism
@Adrastes He was doing semen retention.
@Adrastes Volcel is based
Chad: testosterone
Doomer: cortisol
Boomer: dopamine
Coomer: endorphine
Bloomer: serotonine
Where am I with my ketamine?
@@MrMoreRich i think its dopamine like.
Switch coomer and bloomer. Bloomer may be endorphine too.
@@Leon.Stanic endorphine is literally just masking pain. it would metaphorically fit best with the coomer
Boomers have serotinin where???
I love Chad’s smile at the end. Like bro really takes satisfaction in helping and seeing dudes flourish
A true Catholic
Making someone else happy is a satisfaction like no other.
terms and conditions apply
Mr. Beast lol
True
Guys, Chad is right. The "hitting the gym" thing is absolutely essential. But if you're like me, and you're not a gym person, the alternative is being a long-distance cyclist. (That's probably what he means by Terms and Conditions apply) The underlying message is get lots of exercise because it is needed to maintain hormone levels. I still have crappy days here and there, but now that I'm not 30 pounds overweight and borderline diabetic anymore, it is much easier to handle. Take care of yourselves, guys.👍
Isn’t it kinda cool how Chad has went from being a symbol of toxic masculinity to a symbol of admiration?
sucess inspirates. You can either complain abput sucessfull people or learn from them.
Society despise strong men, that’s why they portay them as toxic.
So wholesome. And I say this as a feminist. This right here is positive masculinity, bros helping other bros be their best selves. 💛
@@elhammo7478 Agreed!
Well said... everyone has an inner Chad. It depends on nurturing it. Just found this today, this is the perfect mentality to break my Depression. Love It.
finally an actual motivational video
Do u know the soundtrack used??
Looks
@@annefrank4652 not sure, shazam wont do it either
@@tsuol7296 yep ik.
@@annefrank4652 can you give me the song
I was literally in despair when I came across this. Everything you do, work, gym etc, do it for yourself, to better yourself, not for anyone else. Worrying that you won't be good enough for some chick is the fucking worst. Let's take back our power brothers.
Hell Yeah!
Its happening already my dude. Look how zyzz is suddenly becoming relevant again 10 years after his passing. It's a new day for the health of men.
Wise words
We're all gonna make it brah.
Aye bro you look good imo no homo. Stay chad
I used to think that what happened in this video was totally unrealistic. I thought I'd never find a proper role model, and that I was doomed to be what my parents raised me to be like. I lived like this for a long way, until one day RUclips recommended me a video by a guy named Hamza (how ironic that his RUclips name is basically his actual name, just like the "Chad" in the video). He has changed my life. He gave me hope and actionable steps towards becoming better and happier. I hope that everyone can find their role model just like I did. I guarantee that it will change your life.
stay strong man and remember we are with you in the same journy no matter what level we are at or will be, and also remember that you shouldnt care if people think you are weird because you meditate or read books that actually help you, and trust me the moments when you were in dispair you will look back with gratitude because they are the hard times that made you into a strong man.
"strong men make good times, good times make weak men, weak men make hard times and hard times make strong men"
@@karatewithelian9014 Of course. It is especially important now to become a strong man, seeing as how the world is essentially going to shit. I can’t stop growing now if I want to live a happy and fulfilled life.
@@fatfalcon3434 yeah doing self improvement really gives you a meaning to live and see the beauty of it,if you ignore how the world is right now in the west and maybe the east of course.
hitting the gym makes a world of a difference, im serious
I agree
It changed my life
But changing my nutrition also changed a lot of things
Yep i agree it changes lifes
@@louplou2142 100%
yup proper diet and gym really enhances your mind. People think it's all about the body. No, you fucking feel better and more confident. The muscles are just a goal and a plus to your looks.
All memes aside, I love it when in the end he says "find a teammate, not a liability".
I think that's a pretty good advice no matter what way you look at it
Agreed
Agreed.
Yeah i first heard it, then i stopped the video and reflect over it. Is fitting well for me.
It's you and your teammate against the World. Make sure she is your best friend too.
1 of the 48 laws of power, avoid the unhappy and misfortunate, they will ultimately drown you with them.
It also reflects on the saying "you become what you surround yourself with"
It is interesting, how the image of Chad has been developing over past years, from a mockery on "stupid buff dudes" to a vision of what we should aspire towards becoming.
It's like the understanding eventually came to us, that a person (or a model, rather), who is superior to us in every way, is perhaps worth admiring and trying to become similar to, not to despise. Therefore, this image of someone great started to obtain actually positive qualities, ones we want to see in our ideal image. Strong, just, independent. Conscious.
But this chad isn't the same, this evolved a lot as us i guess, i mean, i understand that i don´t want to be someone sad in my room, being pathetic, the doomerguy shouldn't be something to be proud about... For years some of us where proud of be in some ways "awake" but in reality be a doomer is a frustrating way of look at life...(sorry for my bad english, i'm not a native speaker)
Well said
I’ve got to say..... personally really happy with said progression lmao.
I think it's a consequence of the meme growing into a legitimate part of expression. In 2010 or whenever the chad meme first appeared (not this cartoon depiction but the original /fit/ or misc meme about Chads and Stacys) it was just a crude caricature to laugh at. But after years and years of repeated usage the memes has gained enough depth so that it's actually feasible to talk about real life issues using the meme terminology. People still laugh at the memes, but now you can be serious using them too. And with this new-found capacity to the meme people have started tackling real life issues or giving actual advice using the familiar imagery. You can't really do that with a fresh meme that is just a simple image macro or a funny looking frog or whatever. Same thing happened with Pepe (regardless of how you feel about the "hate symbol" reputation). It was just a frog peeing in a funny way for years until it became a conduit for expressing every possible human emotion. It takes a special meme to be able to stay relevant after the novelty wears off which I think is required for the meme to evolve into something like what we've been seeing now for the past few years with these Wojaks. They've become universal imagery that can be freely shaped by their context, but still retain a more descriptive character than something like a stick figure would for example. It makes sense that once people gained the ability to tell any story using these meme templates some will try using them for good rather than just for a quick laugh. And god bless them for doing so.
This version of Chad is an incarnation of the King meme.
I watched this a month after this uploaded, I was 30 years old back then and have been coming back here whenever I remember this video. I used to be a wage slave. Then I started exploring e-commerce and now have a business. It may still be small but it is growing and I am able to live with some comfort. I also started exercising by riding my bike and doing sit ups and push ups at home. Stopped porn, no junk food, and no more putting off errands and work. I also found my team mate, a nice down to earth girl, she's an accountant. I'm her first boyfriend and she is my first girlfriend and we plan to wait after marriage. We often talk about our future and I'm really excited. I am thankful for this video, it gave me the push needed to change my life. Creating habits is the main challenge, once your brain gets used to it, you start to look for it and when you do it it gives you pleasure.
It's never too late my brothers,
-Y
Just realized the scene on 2:34 is a call back to the end of batman trilogy where Alfred sees Bruce on the restaurant and they smile at each other
Cool, I need to watch the trilogy
BAT-CHAD
Reminded me of Metroman in his disguise at the end of the Megamind movie
music reminded me of that movie too
Alfred is Chad confirmed
The great thing about Chad is that he isn’t an asshole. He’s the guy who has a lot of life experiences and knows the key to success and he helps others into that path. Just wait til the virgin is no longer one thanks to the chad.
Chad would argue it’s deeper than just losing your virginity tho
@@BookofProverbs I think "the Virgin" is that character, just like "the Chad" is the other one X ) ...
"just wait till the Virgin is no longer one, thanks to the Chad"
First step to becoming Chad? Fuck a Chad.
Chad is the divine masculine
@@BookofProverbs it's not about the biological virginity. It's about a mindset.
I thought this was going to be a meme but it's all legit asf.
#thatsthememe
Dude honestly same.
What if I told you it can be both of those things at once?
I've lost count of how many times I've come back to this video since the start of the year
This has been a true formula for success for me, I hope it's serving you just as well!
The one "find a teammate, not a liability" is very true, and one that's possibly the hardest.
Slick.
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Heres a general question to ask yourself. Does my friend push me to become a better version of myself, to challenge myself or do they help make me complacent, to always go for another round of drinking, another hour of gaming?
once you learn to truly like being alone its a big relief.
“My 6’4 friend plays cards and is killing it lately” 😂😂😂 playing cards it iiiiz
Classic reddit moment
dude be dissing reddit audience with a sentence lmao
I'm turning 28 in a week and I started this journey a year ago. Accomplished so much in the past year than I ever have in my entire life-quit all my vices : smoking, drinking, gaming and porn. I now have a purpose I am striving towards, building my own repository of curated knowledge and soon a business of my own (blockchain dev). Been consistently hitting the gym every week and saying a hard NO to cheap dopamine feed-back loops and status games.
Not ending my life killed the old me-I am now reborn. From the doomer-to-bloomer transition. Keep at it, kings.
stick with the grind bro you can do it
wow brother, you're actually inspiring me aswell after this vid, 28 also
lets goooooo keep it up
Happy for you bro
I'm 27 turning 28 in April, I've been inconsistent for the past few years, but I recently got serious and consistent, more than ever before. I'm hoping I can be where you are now in a year myself.
i am currently one month into my gym routine. i have been on and off the gym for years but for the first time i am no longer motivated to go. but truly driven and feel disciplined. i am 235lbs right now. hitting the gym 4-5 days a week targeting 2-3 muscle groups a session. Rome was not built in a day, nor will i.
You got this broseph, keep on
Dude I need an update
@@slendhood I've had to cut back to two consistent days a week, work keeps me busy and I kinda got a gf in the past 2 months🙏🏻. I've lost about 10-15lbs. But definitely gained some weight from muscle. I still have stubborn belly fat but my arms and legs are noticeably much more fit. Biceps and quads have grown a lot. I'm also able to jog for about 2 minutes straight now, whereas before I could maybe do 30 seconds before I felt dizzy. I'm happy with that progress in just 4-5 months
@@commanderwyro4204 congratz that's great !!
My name literally is Chad but this still applies to me, i was gifted with title of Chad but I must earn the status to truely become one
Become one of the gigachads brother
Exactly. Let's all become the best version of ourselves.
Lmaooo
same with me named Alpha lol
@@empereursacmeche4874 bro
So the chads were our allies all along, huh.
Always have been
❤️❤️
Chad is "Marry Sue" nobody likes "Mary Sue"
@@deltaxcd explain
@@Somespideronline
I think it is obvious, chad is a perfect character nobody likes perfect characters. besides maybe golddiggers and professional victims who are looking for some hero to ching on
we usually like imperfect characters who are struggling in something and have some kind of problems
"Uni Graduate Attempts Real Life" LMAOOOOO
So much truth in that statement
whats funny? can you tell me so i can laugh with you
@@TyrannosaurusTREW I think the joke is implying that college/university does not give one practical skills, something along those lines.
A lot of people dislike the money required for third level education and think first hand experience is much better than a long, primarily theory based education. That was just my interpretation.
@@the32bitguy I still didn't understand how that's funny, like, do I only laugh at dark humor jokes? thanks anyway
@@TyrannosaurusTREW the irony and fraud of the educational system is what makes the joke funny, but explaining a joke tends to fuck it up anyways lol
When this comes up on my feed I automatically watch it and feel recharged.
Don’t know how ironic this is supposed to be, but it’s literally all true.
nowadays memes transcend their facades of irony
@@monkey7558 good ones anyways
The message here is not to become a Chad, but to become the real you.
The real you was the chad this whole time
We all have an inner Chad in us.
There’s no real you
the true chad was all the friends we made along the way.
we are all Chads
The Chad is who we should all strive to be, the more chads there are in the world, the more we can help each other to become chads, being a Chad isn’t just physical appearance it’s a mindset
Edit: I’m so sorry, I mean grindset
Social media fucked it along with dropping early marriage tradition. The amount of window shopping scope is now off the charts.
The traditonal approach took "chads" off the market quickly and let people pair up more evenly. Now they just float around longer and soak up female attention like a sponge, whilst creating resentment in the women they use or flat ignore. Then you get the complaints about the "typical guys" which are just a projection of the handful of guys she notices.
Much eyeroll, very sigh.
So yes now we're all forced to compete with guys whom in the past would've mostly just fucked off out of the periphery with a wife. Now they're on twatter getting 1000s of followers and injecting that idea of what every guy "should be".
But yeah, sure it's only "unrealistic female beauty standards" to worry about, lol.
Never felt so invisible and replaceable until engaging with twitter.
Sure I could just not, but then I'm just living in a social vacuum outside of a few online friends.
This Chad is based on a real person named Zyzz. Go to youtube and type in his name, he is the one you seek.
@@tuckersmoak6632 we’re all gonna make it
@@Josith13 so true never thought about this
I wish I knew that before I made a hair appointment to get the yellow wedge pompadour
Dude i watched this video like 1 year ago, almost broke , not working ,heart broken and having my parents telling me i am not going to make it.
I got a job , continued my side business make them very successful , now i am looking at my future to buy a car and house, and i have a team player who is my fiance.
We must never forget we are kings.
Never thought I’d say this, but Chad is a hero.
A lot of the times when you meet a “Chad”, they weren’t born that way.
I’m not talking about the Chads that spend every spare minute at the gym to work on shallow goals.
I’m talking about the Chads that have carved their way to success through shear will and rigorous effort.
We could all probably learn a lesson from the Chads we encounter in life.
Most “chads” had to strive to get there. For every person who is just handed success, there’s about 15 others who had to work for it.
Agreed
I was the typical example of the "virgin" in school growing up. My priority was consistently to try and get laid and do anything it took to impress girls. Was a pretty miserable time
The moment I got to an age where I had legitimate interests and hobbies and I had aspirations, goals and motivation to achieve things for myself, my whole attitude changed. I became a different person. No longer was everything I was doing centered around pleasing other people. My confidence sky rocketed and I didn't care about taking what I previously considered risks in social situations. I wouldn't say I am a chad now but girls attract to confident and motivated guys. Its in their DNA to survive as a species. Getting girls is a paradox. If you actively try, they avoid you. If you stop trying directly and focus on improving yourself, being you and be confident in yourself the girls will come to you
@@yilmazh3127 chad
@@yilmazh3127 gigachad*
I came here expecting a laugh but honestly I embrace the Chad mentality more. It's not even a meme, it's solid life advice.
This is so beautiful. I wish I'd had this video when I was 19. I'm only 27 so still young and this video gives me so much hope for the future.
you were fooled, like most of the people in comments in here: the epic music anesthetized your mind to accept what was just Chad add to his product: make you him. And you were played like a goddam Fiddle. Terms and conditions apply
@@palestrinha179 sure
@@palestrinha179 i love so see people who are conspiring about everything, that they want all subjects to look like their own version of reality dictated by their imagination and cynicism .
@@anasl4pf ok fiddle, keep singing
This is not a meme, this actually changed my life.
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The depression that comes with doing all of this, getting into shape, going after your passion, focusing on improving yourself, yet still getting the same outcome of failure and rejection, cannot be overstated.
Failing when you can see obvious flaws is one thing. Still failing after addressing those flaws is a whole other thing.
Tigers only succeed on their hunts 10%
Their whole survival depends on them never giving up
Failure is only an opportunity to learn more
@@Bertydude Well said, but how long could the tiger continue to hunt with confidence if instead of succeeding 10% of the time, he was succeeding well below 1%? Say 0.1%, or 0.01% of the time?
And even after working tirelessly to improve his hunting skills, still managed to succeed less than 1% of the time?
@@fuzzypanda1684 Still the same, Never giving up, and he could find ways to improve said odds. No excuses, not falling into negative thinking or negative self talk, always find a way to succeed, no matter how low the odds are. Seek God good sir, and you shall rise.
@Beater Bike Channel MFGA Lol someone else is guilty of doing some bumps before commenting I see 😂
Self improvement isn't an all at once process, but a series of small improvements that shape you into the best version of you.
We're all going to make it, especially you. I believe in you
"Excellence isn't a single act but a habit, you are what you do repeatedly"
Nobody got jacked from going to the gym once, you train your muscles at the gym, feed them in the kitchen and build them when you sleep.
Everything takes time, and there's no shortcuts in life. Money comes and goes, but your time is limited so spend it wisely
Notes:
•Follow your gut/ 9-5 isn’t fulfilling
•Study up on your goals (people who made it)
•Have connections/likeminded people
•Health is important. Diet is major factor diet based on preset fitness goal/training consistency and progression is key
•Be with people who support you instead of distract/demoralize you
Each normie has a chad inside fighting to get out. But once the chad comes out, the normie within him struggles to come out as well.
it's perfectly ok to be a normie. you just need to be yourself
@@rd_cordeiro21yeesh spoken like a true normie🤣
@@rd_cordeiro21 "you just need to be a normie" giga coping
If you still have a normie inside you were never a Chad in the first place. You must internalize the way of life. That’s how it works.
It’s like eating clean. You can’t eat “clean” if you’re still eating shit. You’re just eating “better” than you were before. Not “clean”
@@MerlinTheCommenter wtf are normies and chads. Are people actually being serious about the meme
Exactly a real true Chad, Being positive, staying strong, Loving brothers, giving creating feedback. Long Live Chad !
I can’t believe Christopher Nolan copied your ending...you should sue him.
Damn, I just noticed that.
Nice one, dude.
Lmao I knew it was that batman ending it works so well
Isn't it weird how we Men have created a funny dumb meme about Toxic Masculinity and then we slowly morphed it into more of a beacon of hope....I think it shows how much we as men crave REAL happiness and love....and how we are in need of guidance to achieve it
@@bani8204 well a few years ago chad was more of a stereotype of a highschool bully bad grade gets all the chicks steal ur girl buff guy who probably did drugs
@@Rebirth._ That's morphed into Brad instead.
the hive-mind of Men did that morphing, don't you know?
Toxic masculinity is not good
@lol go back to hating your wife bro
“Find a teammate not a liability”
Holy shit. I thought this was going to be a funny meme but this actually hit.
I love how in the general internet conciousness, chad evolved from the dumb jock who got all the chicks for his looks to an actual rolemodel who despite his genetic luck is humble, wise and kind. I think it is a really nice shakeup from the hyper dominance some people preach. Chad (the new one anyway) however is not a Bully but a role model and pillar of the community. Moreover he is a state any man (and i believe even women) can acquire if they only strive to become their best selves. Chad is a healthy ideal, created from a deconstruction of the most baseline Maskuline stereotype (the jock). It is truly a remarkable Meme.
There has been a cultural war on masculinity for many years now, Chad is the pendulum swinging back the other way.
@@zerrodefex I don't think Chad is really about masculinity. It's just becoming better as a person. Improving yourself in all spectrums that YOU aim to. Not society. People will create social norms for you but Chad doesn't tell you have to follow it. He tells you to chase your own dreams whilst also improving yourself. Do things that you also like confidently without being afraid because you also work on improving yourself. So basically having no insecurities.
Unfortunately, this video was posted back in 2020. When Chads and alpha males still didn't have a bad image.
Now some people are just using these terms to tell men that we need to be back traditional ways and just pushing their own definition of masculinity over men who even slightly do something feminine.
This is not what Chad was supposed to be.
this is some elephant talk my dude
@@Shilpa_Kujur i agree. I had someone literally tell me im a gay chad so its not really about hypermasculinity
Now Kyle is the bully type
2:27 Gotta love the Alfred nod and Bruce lifting his glass reference from The Dark Knight Rises
fr i loved this scene
ikr. i thought i was the only one thinking that 😭
when I clicked it, I thought it would be a meme
*But it was a hit*
Still come back to this every time I need to be built back up again. Meme aside this is amazing motivation.
This video is more effective than going and paying an actual emotionless psychologist.
Good psychologists/therapists can help heal tremendous damage done to people's psyches from physical/sexual abuse, neglect, trauma etc... so don't write them off. They play an important role for many people getting their life together.
Id say this video is x100 more valuable then $1,000+ life coach speeches people pay for.
Well the one i got made me more confident, outgoing, more positive and likeable id say
Watched this several months ago, now I'm pumping these muscles and improving every single passion I have. I'll be back after a year here.
Me too.
Just checking in brother, we're 4 months in how's it going? I'm on a similar track
hows it been going man?
Half way to go. What’s your progress so far ?
@@xxd3nraxx740 from a 38in waistline, now it's 34. Muscles were more visible than before. Though, I'm still on a deficit stage so there's still a long way to go when I do bulking. Yo really I'm not kidding guys I'm ready to show proofs of my progress.
"Find a teammate, not a liability" hit me hard. My life went out of control because my last "serious" relationship was a liability. I didn't have the support I needed. There's a lot of truth in this video. Stay strong my dudes 💪
same dude. And it hurt so much that I had to end it. I Still love her very much but the toll was too high. I need to focus on myself now to make up for all I gave up ever since
Same. It's been years since then and I have never been the same.
My ex GF just left me for the guy who transfering her a cash per weeks. This video hits me so hard. Thanks man for the motivation. Like the old say, "don't chase people, do your own thing and work hard. The right people, the ones who really belong in your life, will come to you. And stay."
Look for the right one not the easy one
~my dad~
Thats how most woman are, they aren't about helping you build from nothing, they wanna just be there when everything is perfect and you already are successful without considering all the work you did behind the scenes to achieve such things, quite shallow if you ask me. It would be nice to find a woman to be there with you though your toughest times, but such a thing doesn't exist, they're just there to reap the benefits of all your hard work, but the second you fall off the horse they're gone to. Make them the very last priority on your list, put your self and your goals first, a woman is a temporary pleasure, they aren't in it to build with you, it's more like, they're in it to get what they want out of you.
@@bobking7347 Agree 💪🏻
My ex left me for the guy she met year ago, and we've been together like for 4 years and more. Yep, no real bounds and flow affect more than words that said aloud
Sounds like that guy is going to be wasting alot of money on her
"What are you waiting for? Get in charge of your life today"
This guy Chad sure does have a lot of charisma
Finally a Real Chad!
Earlier all I saw people quoting a person that break all rules, mess with people, drink, party all day, thug, huge jacked up muscles, into drugs, tossing girls, disrespecting others, and all that bullshit and people calling him a Chad, what a joke this person would be in Real Life...
Having bigger purpose, mission, bettering your life physically, mentally, emotionally, and all that said in the video is the Real Life Chad, huge respect for him!
Those people above do that because they are insecure. A true chad has a real mission and purpose in life. A real chad lifts the people around them and inspires other people.
This video motivated me to start working out - Now I feel much better and more confident. Thank You Chad
''find a teammate not liability'' damn that shit got me thinking
Stay in your masculine to keep your partner in her feminine
Be gae
The character development from the Chad meme is one of the best thing on the internet.
Truly shows there's a need for mental health in men's society
Kinda natural conclusion I suspect, when we now have to compare ourselves (or are being compared 3rd person) to pretty much every other man on the planet, instead of every man in town, if that.
Thanks, but also no thanks, internet.
@@Josith13 Exactly. Postie Phil is no longer your competition. Now it's Chad from across the world who's inbox is flooded with 7s 8s and possibly 9s begging to be his woman.
i felt that
@@Josith13
Do not take it as an obstacle, but as an oportunity.
Learn from all of those other men, look at what they do and try to copy their way of living.
The first step is having the will to learn from your superiors.
I made it 1k likes
Instead of boasting about his own greatness Chad humbles himself and teaches others how to be the best version of themselves
And unlike a self-help guru he asked for nothing in return.
You mean after ruining the lives of the better looking "virgins". Now Shutup you hideous. mutant.
It got me thinking about Jesus, the greatest of all Chads.
Somehow this motivated me and has now changed my life
We're all gonna make it, kings.
You are breathtaking!
I was about to sleep after 3 days without doing sport (i'm sure 1 more day without doing anything would have fck my motivation for a month), thanks to this video i just had my best session in a while. Thanks for putting me back on the right path again, i'm following the Chad way from now
This is a reminnder to update us on your progress my friend
Update
Who else is saving this vid just to watch it when your down bad in your adult hood?
Here’s some helpful tips if you are downbad. Lift weights again. Pick up fighting, pick any martial arts out of these: Brazilian jujitsu, kick boxing, boxing. Meditate.
If you rotate between these for 21 days you will have a lot less downbad days.
in my teens rn . I fell like i am wasting my life , sitting on the pc all day doing nothing but reading history and playing games . I go out for one every month with friends and i fell like thats not enough for me . I live 17kms from everyone
@@medika9651 You must become less dependent on others. Dependence will never bring you happiness, remember that. Find something you like, set a goal and start working towards it. Try to think what you want to achieve in 10 years and then decide if friends who live far away will help you achieve it. Take up a new hobby (like gym, running, or any other outdoor activity) and start going out more in your area. Soon, you will meet new people. Focus on mainly on yourself and try to improve both physically and mentally. Stop playing video games, instead always pick up something productive that's related to your studies or hobbies. If you know you're doing the most you can, you will never feel useless again.
Those are all advices from someone who used to be like you.
@@a11en99 Damn, thanks for the advice chief. 🐊👍
@@a11en99 what about if you consume too many videos on self improvement and how to have confidence or reduce self anxiety? I usually just watch videos and realize more and more of what I’m missing? At the moment, I think my solution is to go on a personal journey, away from what I think I should be, and just schedule a day thst I would want to have as a productive person in the future. Working out, meditating, waking up at the same time, focusing on something or many things, but I have had these thoughts about how I’m not confident, I’m not shy, but when I was younger these things weren’t a problem, In fact I am jealous of the way I used to be, carefree focusing on my skateboarding, setting goals for skateboarding, having a blast in school. Right now it seems I’m strayed from my best self, and am dead set on being another person “best self”
And at the end, Chad looks at his creation and smiles, for he saw that it was good. Like Alfred looking at Bruce at the end of The Dark Knight Rises, he expresses his love without even needing to speak. Chad is truly an inspiration to us all. I often get jealous of guys who are more valuable than me. But jealousy gets you nowhere. I am happy for all the guys who have it figured out, and I believe that I will one day get there
On this day, at this hour, i desperately needed to hear this.
Are you alright buddy?
hope you're doing better now brother.
@@Cuznz i am
@@thanos_karagiannhs5320 I’m really glad to hear that