Wishing the best for everyone who feel stuck right now in their career, school, or life (sending you virtual hugs ♡) I’ll be sharing more of my mental health journey in the upcoming weeks. Take care❤️
hey zoe ur comment gave me a very supportive sensation bcz life is not always fair with us..sometimes we regret on our own acts.. i am in class 12th now its my time to move to college and i am appearing in exams and till now i am not qualified for the college i always wished to go..i am from India and JEE EXAM is known as the most though exam in this country for engineering students and every student wish to go there..due to covid and months full of uncertainities and due to my own SELF.. i am here..crying and regretting that i wasted a lot of time..now after a week i am going to write the exam again..idk what will happen..ik my problem may seem small..but a dream is a dream nothing is big or small here..zoe ..dont be sad.. more power to u. hope we will make it more than we ever expected..i wish everything gets fine soon..lots of love.. idk who'll be reading this..but thats what m going thro..
Omg I needed this mosttt! I'm so stuck with joining a college bc the clg I wanted will always be late to announce who are selected while literally the admissions in other colleges are closed. I'm so scared about it. I have faith I will get in but still its scary & my mom is so stressed about it. I hate seeing her like that 😭
My mom is very sociable person so she know a lot of ppl and they all are making her even more scary, giving her opinions on what to do with my life. I'm trying so hard to be positive but things around me just doesn't let me
Hope you'll be fine Zoe 💜✨ stay strong, we all are going through similar phase and I'm sure we'll get through this. Take care everyone!! Hope we all find our time soon
@@makeitri8 I'm from India too! I know how it is! I really hope you'll ace the exam, I know how much marks are so damn important here more than our life. Take care of your health, pls don't stress too much about JEE. Try meditating if you have time, it will help you have a clean state of mind and study well even more
Seriously the main reason she feels aimless and stuck is because she doesn’t realise how much she has helped us on RUclips, she thinks so much about her job that she isn’t aware how much she changed our lives, all her subscribers bro we are all getting through the day because of Zoe. Thank you I love you!! Don’t forget your worth!
I need a world where everyone can do the work they love.. because you automatically improve when you have the passion. Imagine how peaceful that would be.
@@pills9659 I don't think the world would be in chaos if people actually did what they loved. It would save a lot of frustration, anger, jealousy, judgement, etc. The world would actually be more peaceful and happy.
@@koteswarris8949 no, like the vid said, almost no one dreams of labor, but the world is literally made out of labor. its kinda hard to explain since english is not my first language but is there anyone who actually likes working in a factory? probably only a few people. is there anyone who actually likes working as a janitor, mall clerk, a 9 to 5 job, a farmer, etc? only a few people actually likes them and some of them probably like them bcs they've been working that job for some time, not bcs they like them at the beginning. imagine if only a small amount of people work on that important jobs, world hunger, frustration, anger, etc would happen more. btw statistics show that a job in art and entertainment is the most popular dream job for many generations. imagine if most people work on that, the value for art and entertainment would be so low but most of them rely on that job to feed their mouth. and the art and entertaiment industry mostly depends rich people aka the capitalists. but the problem is that capitalism doesn't exist if everyone works on what they love, ofc the art and entertainment industry would be affected. not just the art and entertainment industry, most industry would be affected too. you probably know how wack the world is. what if someone likes to work as a member of a criminal group? what if someone likes to work a job that harms others? the police would stop them but thats just cutting those people's 'dream' of working their loved job, so they technically cant work on something they love. a world where everyone can do what they love is just an unrealistic dream for us who lives in this generation. it might be possible in the future but we might be dead by then. the society needs to be developed enough to the point where the jobs people hate disappear and the economic is stable enough for people to do what they want without getting into poverty. but before that happens, the world would just be in chaos if everyone do what they love.
@@pills9659 hmm, well I guess you have a point. But atleast letting people do what they are good at (theru aptitude) would solve a lot of problems. I live in India, and India has one of the highest student suicides. It is because of parents forcing kids to do degrees that they absolutely hate.
This is the EXACT reason why I left med school. It was cool and I liked it but each year the creeping feeling of being eternally unsatisfied was growing bigger and bigger until I decided it was best to stop while I was ahead. Best decision I've ever made. Even if it made my family disown me. Happier, healthier, and with better company.
This comment is the same situation i was feeling but luckily i got fired. It the thought of being disowned by my family is what kept from quiting. Worst part was it was just a minimum wage job
It's your manager expectations, not yours. Set your boundaries. Because it's just your job only 8 hours, and if you wanted to work 24/7 you could chose do your own business for example
I fell you, i'm just a student at this moment, but the pression to find a dream job and go to uni is just nerv recking, especially when i don't see a thing i would love to do and pay my bills
Exactly. I'm studying law (first year done) which is something I've always wanted to do, but I realised the only reason why I always wanted to do it is bcs others have told me that it makes good money, I've always been told how money is extremely important and that law would be amazing and all of that stuff but my 'passion' is singing, dancing, drawing, working out, learning languages, etc. (basically everything that is fun) but it's really difficult to make good money out of those things but I'm gonna try now to start with these 'hobbies' (in my free time (I'm 18) and see if it will lead me to something). After all, people are mostly done with university at around 22 anyways which is still young and definitely young enough to start with something else but then you have already achieved something so if the other new thing doesn't work out, you can still fall back to what you already have achieved. I hope you can find something too, I know how nerve-racking it all is, even when I was 10y old I was already super worried that following arts would make me no income and that I would have no future basically. Extremely toxic. If I could go back, I would have just tried to do as much as I can with arts, languages and sports till university but we financially couldn't. Sorry for this long ass message, I thought maybe this could soothe you too. I wish you the best of luck!
I totally understand this. I’m a college student and it took me three years after HS to get to know myself better and to find a job and major that I would like to pursue! My advice, don’t stress. Get to know yourself more and find more things you love and enjoy. You’ll find that one of those things might just lead you to a dream job you probably didn’t expect having! ☺️ best of luck!
I am 30 with a Bach of Science in Biology, now a full time, free lance seamstress. Every day is different, I am constantly learning, I love what I do, my clients are happy to pay me $$$, I enrich their lives with my skills,,, To God be ALL the glory for giving me these gifts and pouring out these blessings!!!! Live your life through love. 💕
@@A__Mina when you are in a career or job that you can’t imagine yourself in long term then it will make the decision clear. College was just a step in my journey. I enjoyed it, developed, learned a lot (who doesn’t use Microsoft Excel now and then?). And any degree looks better on a resume than no degree. My positive justification!!! 😄🙏🏻. Pray you will find clarity and peace soon!
@@jessiew4103 Go ahead and just take a step even a small one! You won’t regret it. I put up a sign advertising my services on my apartment door. One step leads to another.
I quit the job everybody wanted to see me in at 31 due to a burnout. It was a safe job and I hated it from day one. I quit, left for Italy into a completely insecure future and tried to recover. I do feel so much more alive now and love what I'm doing.
Omg! This is my life exactly! I’m leaving this September to Spain at the age of 30 after burning out in the family business I was expected to take over. My future is not known now but I’m so excited and nervous to start a new life I actually enjoy!! Your comment gives me hope. Thank you!
I can definitely relate to the feels. Like, if someone ask me if i'm happy with my job, I would just answer, "it pays my bills". I'm always down for more financial advice Zoe. Sending virtual hugs and support 😘🤗🤗😘
I will forever appreciate this channel. You've helped my family a lot,since the pandemic till now your advices and lessons are inspirational and helpful to us. My Wife and I have been able to be minimal, conscious in spending,saving and lnvesting wisely. We have able to earn on a weekly basis and it helps the family a lot. You're such a blessing to this generation. We all love♥️😊. I'm so happy to join you today too
@Miles Cooper I can share some that helped me 1. Plan towards it 2. Be frugal an minimal on spending (Don't buy what you don't need) 3. Save to (lnvest),it's a proven way to get richer. Very important to financial success.
ZOE! Whatever makes you sad or feels to quit than try to convince yourself that you did alot, you have got us who will always watch you over your time.. Please don't cry
@Miles CooperThere's a lot of lnvesting options(401k,real estate,stocks, crypto,airbnb,ETFS) but my best advice is get the services of a professional who will lead you into a successful and profitable one.
@Olivia Jayden In the sense of that.i love what you said on here. That's a great piece of advice quit job and get into investing that's the key to success now.
It’s ridiculous how overtime is being romanticized in these audit firms. We can’t even charge our hours right but we still work the next morning. It feels like a trap. I want to quit but I also don’t.
Dont get trap with overtime, especially the non paid one. It’s non sense and exploitation… be smart and more particularly never stay over 5 years (I would even say 3) at the same firm EXCEPT if you see every year or two an augmentation in your salary or a better position but ideally change firm and start there at a better position that you left - or not, it’s ok !
The number of videos with the sAme content is alarming. It comforts me that it is not only me who feels this way. Thank you for all of you who have shared how you feel, makes us feel less suck.
I’m at the point in my life that I just don’t have motivation for anything. Whenever I remember the 13 years old me, the 15 years old me sometimes I break down cus I always ask myself where is that same person now. I’m 21 suppose to be finishing college soon but I’ve changed my major 3 times, still I’m not happy. I don’t know what I’m passion about, I just don’t have motivation to do anything, i used to be that cheerful girl that loves reading, that has so much exciting and amazing things going on for her, all of a sudden my life changed I just realized I started becoming less happy. I have mental breakdowns like twice a day. I cry for no reason at night. I’m just exhausted with life, I just wanna live at this point and not think about anything.
I am in a very similar situation. Please just remember that you are not alone. We, and many others like us are in this together. 🍀🍀 This is the motto that I always remember (it's kinda funny because it may not be helpful to most) - Life is fickle. A cycle of good and bad, or a waveform that has good, bad, very good, very bad and also some grey areas. It just is like that. Whenever I feel like I'm sad or suffocating inside, i always think of us being multi-cellular organisms with consciousness that keep being born and die...like everyone's gonna go someday and everyone is in this cycle of happiness and suffering...so i am not alone. This is borderline schadenfreude but i don't care.
Give yourself time. If you want to understand yourself, you have to give you quality & quantity of time. In this world, our days are always hectic. We don't even understand that we don't talk to ourselves. We don't think in silence. Don't take a break & re-think. Please stay low for some days & give yourself time & after you overcome this, make sure you set a time to give yourself alone time, no phone, no external things in that time. Just you & your mind. It'll help you a lot. Write diaries. I know how you feel. I was going through that situation & still sometimes I'm lost. I cry a lot because I can't find my aim in life. I'll overcome these all, I'm working on myself. Believe it, you'll overcome it.
I was exactly like you when I was 21 then when things were about to get better it got worse, I faced the worst came out of it as a woman who knows better and isn't hopeless , I am 24 and much happier then I have ever been in my 20s Hang in there, it gets better.
Zoe , if life was always happier we wouldn't feel the word" happiness " Ur a strong girl and ur always determined to do ur best and u r the type of person to look at the nightmare right at the face and keep fighting ...ur my role model..... ik I have choosed the right one 😊❤
Zoe babe if you ever felt down just remember that you have more then 300k people that can support you. I just hate to see people I love sad or feeling down. I love you hun and I will always support you♥️
I've been there. I went through the same crying phase, depression, apathy, muscle ache, ulcerative colitis, and sever stress. It was hard. I took a huge gamble and left the USA and moved to another country. My health improved and healed my ulcerative colitis, the stress is gone, I have my own business, right now I'm working on my depression but I will overcome it.
I am auditor myself and I can totally relate to how you feel, especially during audit busy season. Thank you for making this video and allowing me to recognise how deep I've fallen into the dark hole of wanting to quit my job yet I can't quit because I need to take care of my family. The cycle truly never ends. But now ateast I've found some answer to help me escape from the dark hole. Thank you again for making this video Zoe 🙂
Zoe if you ever feel sad ..just think that you have changed life of more than 300k ppl and helped them in so many ways. I love you so much gurl and I will always always support you.🤍
Everyone say that BTS worked their ass off to be what they are. They struggled during their rookie time. Yes they did. I have struggled just like them studying, fighting depression, anxiety, fighting the society. There are hundreds and thousands of people who have struggled more than that. Yet we are not even. 0000001%lucky as them. Fans have to open their eyes and accept the fact that they are damn LUCKY to be where they are.
@@arthippie333 ending up successful in what you do doesn't omit the fact that they struggled like hell. Don't you think they fought depression and anxiety too ? Damn they are still dealing with it. What fans say is the only visible part of the iceberg we don't even know what happens 100% when they are trainees and when they become idols. Not only them but all the kpop industry. I am suffering too, I'm studying my ass off too , depression was my bestie and now anxiety came join me. I'm not just saying that , I have been diagnosed with a professional doctor. Anyway all that to say that in all cases if you struggle or have it easy, no one is immune from these down moments and yes We have to experience cold to appreciate and feel the warmth of life. Have a nice day.
Honestly, God is the only one who gives my life meaning. I’ve considered it all; education, financial success, financial independence, having amazing trips, the party life, men, pursuing talents and it’s all useless. The only thing that amounts to anything are relationships with friends and family and those are hard if you’ve had a traumatic childhood. But God has given me a peace I never imagined.
As an associate auditor myself (1 year of experience), let me tell you, the world needs to redefine audit. The ridiculous hours spent and last minute rushing is endless. Rn im feeling so unhappy from work bc of the lack of life outside of work, but i cant deny that im also learning a lot. The toxic culture of overtime has to end. Period
I absolutely agree! I HATE this system. I want to be a free human, living in the world naturally like we were meant to, building our own shelter, finding our own food, being extremely active, etc. I hate how we are forced to live in this beautiful world having to do some crap job to get money to buy food or travel to other places. I want to be free. I want the world to be free. And in order to do that, I have to hustle to make money before I can do any of that more “freely”. I’m currently a FT uni student, building my own business & single mum, and I have so many ambitions but can’t think of a life past the next couple of years once uni has finished because I don’t want to go back into the workforce being more stuck than I currently am. I’d love to live in an indigenous tribe, without tech, where life is fun, free, has a strong community bond and it’s survive or die.
I understand the feeling, qnd yet. It is a privilege to worry about not being able of having a steady job and income Ive been in both situations where I worked so hard I burned out, but couldn't get a permanent job due to lack of higher education. When I finally sacrificed my time and energy to get a nursing degree. I found it very easy to get a steady job. Butno matter where I work its really hard even if I love the job and my patients. So now, I just try to find joy in all the small and great things. I love my job... but I still feel trapped and tired.
Dreams can change, that's normal. Sometimes you just need to stop and overthink. It is no shame to quit and start something else, maybe somewhere else, all over. One of my teachers used to work in a high position for a huge company. She was payed a lot and well respected. At the age of 40, she decided over night that this was not her determination. She went to University again, the oldest student that year, and became a teacher. She loves her job, even though she earns significantly less and sometimes has a hart time dealing with her pubescent students. But she said it was the right choice and she'd do it again. So don't worry, my dear. It does not matter what you do. All that matters is your happiness :)
Your soul is looking for something deeper, something spiritual. Your soul is looking for connection. I would love to share with you how I’ve found peace and comfort.
Seeing you cry almost made me cry. I understand you girl. Right now I'm stuck in a job I no longer have fun working for. I'm constantly stressed. The only thing that is making me happy is finding some hobbies or trying different things on my own channel. And to de-stress. Also Zoe your videos have helped us and made us smile and happy.
I could relate to this very well. I grew up with my parents telling me that time is gold and that I should grab each opportunity to work to our family business and so I started working at the age of 13 every summer after my semester ends. Now that i'm 21 and graduating from college, my savings isn't enough for me to be identified as "Financially Independent" even though I worked my ass off the whole 8 years as I only started with below minimum wage since I was just only a student. So guys, don't be pressured thinking that you don't have enough money to live alone and be financially independent but take it as a challenge for you to realize that you have more capabilities outside this slavery labor. I decided to open a shop where I design things and sell it in bulk which helped me buy things I never thought I could afford when I was working under minimum wage. Go limitless because there are unlimited opportunities, you just need to be wise. Also, thank you zoe for being always there to enlighten us with your wisdom and wise thoughts which I always take as I walk this flowery path of my adulting ♡ love from the philippines :)
University recruiting makes working at the B4 seem so glamorous, but I think for most of us, the rose-colored glasses come off after a few years. Sending lots of strength, love & positive vibes your way-I can’t imagine how hard it was to start as a new associate virtually. And great advice throughout the video, as always :)
We (western millenials/gen z's) are actually so privileged to be able to say "I dont dream of labour" or "this is not the job I dreamt of, lets move elsewhere". But this privilege at the same time feels like a terible responsibility. For most of us, "dream job" is probably an unattainable ideal, the possibilities are limited etc. so maybe we all should be rather looking for "good enough" in most areas of our life. Also the idea that capitalism is to blame feels kind of naive or incomplete for me as a citizen of a post-socialist coutry... Anyway, it was a really interesting, thought-provoking video :) I'm in my mid-20s and so far my recipe to avoid those feelings (as much as possible) has been to leave multiple possibilities open - I'm finishing my 1st degree and starting a decent job in the following months, but I'm also doing a second degree on weekends (yes we have free uni education). This way, I don't feel forever trapped in my present job choice ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Wish you all the best in sorting this out for yourself 💗
Knowing there is something better leads us to be incredibly unsatisfied with what we have, if we were born 200 years ago wed be working 14 hours a day every day in hazardous conditions and lucky to even live to 60. But we wouldnt know of anything else so probably just accepted it.
This is so relatable. Am i the only one that doesn't dislike their jobs but "jobs" in general ? Like even if i was living from my passion, just the fact that i HAVE to do it makes it so less enjoyable. I can't have a day of when i don't feel like it, i can't just ignore calls and meeting or dead lines, I HAVE to work or i don't get money. I know it must sounds so privilege but who never dreamed of not having to work.
You are lazy work on that and too free spirit. It's your personality. Go in your closet put on a head covering and talk to Jesus Christ about it then wait.
Being a post graduating student I have break down every single day yesterday I end up spending my entire day on my Bed non-stop crying. I though the biggest hard time would be exams & study stress. Thanks to u I realised the hard times are yet to come😂I thought I would have a happy time when I start working & living my own.
but go n complete pg… i understand u.. make GOD ur companion n do meditation to hv concentration n improve memory. stop having non-veg , outside food to reduce anxiety
Zoe… I have barely even started this video, maybe like 2 minutes in. This was recommended to me. The first thing I saw after logging into youtube. I literally had a breakdown in my car 3 days ago after work. This feeling that you feel, I feel it too and I am shook by how alone I do not feel knowing that other people feel the same way. I would silently cry to myself constantly, feeling empty and wondering why I struggle so much with my career, dream job and purpose. I just want to say thank you and Im so happy I found you. Much love!
It’s weird seeing you facing what I’m currently facing because I’ve always idealized your life, even if you’re as transparent as you can (i mean with us on RUclips) I thought you had everything, at least a lot of things I was envious of. And seeing you in quite the same situation as me rn made me realize that we all the same in some ways. Thanks you for producing content that is inspiring, thank you for motivating and helping us. You’re doing amazing, i hope you’ll feel better very soon.
You are SO brave just to allowing yourself feel that way. So, I had this mental breakdown last year, when I realized that the career I was studying wasn't making me happy, but I tried to keep going as much as I tried (and I even was a very good student) So, after asking myself 'when do you feel the fullest and happiest?' I had a breakdown realizing it was when I dance. After taking and crying A LOT (because I felt I waisted many years in the wrong career), finally I'm studying dance right now.. Plus, I lost 10kg and changed all my bad habits to live longer.. And although my days now are quite the same, I feel I'm taking care of myself and my body. I really try to deeply understand my feelings and thoughts, so I can act honestly to myself. Thanks a lot for your channel. You are being true to yourself and that matters the most❤️
I can't believe that I'm able to relate to every video that you post. I felt so stuck, so unhappy though I had everything to feel content about. Seeing you go through the same thing reassures me that we're all human, and better things lie ahead. Praying and sending you love❤
Zoe.. its so hard to follow what you love.. but you are very brave and very very talented. Just hold on little.. there are sooo many good things waiting for you to unpack them. You are gonna grow and grow and grow.. we are all here supporting you. U r an amazing human being. We love you so much🤍💗🤍💗
I want to tell you, none of your time went to waste but perhaps it was time to outgrow the regular pace you had set for yourself. I'm proud of you for taking a step forward even when it was so difficult to look ahead. You are brave, I hope you're proud of yourself. Also Zoe I think I say this on behalf of everyone, please do give us content as such in future. Seeing your growth and growing alongside would be a worthy experience. ✨✨
I’m not an official worker but watching this made me think more about my future and see how important it is to re evaluate my actual passions and not listening to what society accepts as “better”. I’m 25 and graduated from uni with a bachelors I wasn’t really interested in because I was breaking the hold of my parents wanting me to be a “six figure” lawyer(since they earn so much I guess I’ll be happy). But that isn’t the case since there was no interest for me in that field. I figured if I do get to be a lawyer I know I wouldn’t be happy cuz it would honestly just give me dread despite the money it gives 😓
I also graduated and i'm looking for a job but i don't want to... That's just what we need to do to live, i hate being born on this planet, i don't know if i would being able to keep a job i have no motivation
I will soon be joining college for graduation but believe me even selecting a major made me suffer so much. When you said "I chose what society would love to see from me", I greatly related. Our decisions are greatly influenced by societal pressures and we end up feeling stuck because of our own decisions and choices. Anyways, hope you are doing okay. Lots love and virtual hugs to you❤
Honestly, after watching so many of these, I realize a lot of their dream jobs are doing youtube videos. While it's great if you can make it, a world where a majority of people are creating content would be terrible for everyone. Everyone should feel useful, and a lot of these jobs don't fulfill that. A world where everyone can find their place and feel useful would ideally have everyone fulfilling a need someone has, but entrepreneurship is hard and not everybody is cut out for it. I hope you find fulfillment in what you do and make money doing it however. The journey is long and hard but worth it if you can make it viable for yourself.
When I saw you crying, I really felt that 🥺 It's just last friday I was also crying in front of my computer screen, I'm just sad also. I wanted to pursue other things but had no capacity to do so. Thanks for sharing those tips, I pray oneday I could do my passion as job as well. More pleaseee.
Can't see u like this ... Please be strong sweetheart u can overcome with any difficult trust yourself ... Stay safe and strong .... Everything Will be better soon ... Please dear take care of yourself ... Fighting 👍
Hi! I'm actually struggling if I should continue college especially now I'm a late enrollee by two weeks. I guess this helped me to realize that I wasn't the only one feeling lost. Thank you and God bless.
You are the strongest woman Zoe ❤️❤️keep fighting girl. You will soon overcome it. Your happy face makes my day girl. Don't worry we all are with you 😘😘
I'm glad we live in a day and age where we can learn so much from online resources and videos and think outside of the box. I'm very grateful for channels like this which gives me hope and confidence to know that it is OK to try something different other than the job we are currently in. That in itself is giving me a small amount of peace to know that there are options and we dont have to always do what the society expects us to do.
I found your channel around three weeks ago and that I’m so grateful for. Watching your videos gave me the motivation to workout, to eat better and to put myself first. Love lovee how genuine your videos are and takes a lot to put yourself out there and you’re doing it with so much realness. Thank you for all the hard work you put into these videos. Hope you feel better. Take care.❤️
Omg 😲 I feel so much for you, I have been in situations where I had to stay in jobs i hated for the money and immigration . Sending you vibes as this is all I can do for now, stay strong, this will end soon and happiness will come your way!
I feel you. I had 5 years of college with 2 more classes to graduate. I dropped out and didn't go back when covid hit. I knew it was time. I got a lot of backlash from others and family... said I was making the wrong choice. Just know that when one door closes another opens. New opportunity and experiences. Much love cutie
Wow, this video came just in time. It popped up on my recommendations... I had a break down this morning at work... I am so tired. Jobs are so soul draining... Thank you so much for sharing your tips. I'd rather die then work a 9-5 for the rest of my life.
Im so glad you show the ups and downs of life. Not to long ago I felt stuck and that I wouldn’t find a job or a job I hopefully like to do lol but I got my old job back but in a different department and it’s a little less stressful. It’s not much but I know I’ll get my dream job/life soon. Don’t give up faith and take it day by day ❤️. You once told my bay steps and I plan on taking life a step at a time (hopefully lol)
Zeo don't be so sad, we all are here to support you, whatever you do that is your happiness, if you don't happy yourself, no one will makes you happy, if you where happy then no one can makes you feel so sad, keeep going and going
Aww please don't feel sad :( It breaks my heart even tho I am 13, I don't know that much about jobs and those..but please don't cry .I wish I could give a hug
hello zoe! it’s been a while but if you ever feel down just remember you helped so so so many people out of their dark times. it’s okay sweetie vent as much as you want. make sure to take time for yourself and work isn’t everything…
This just made me so grateful, by no means do I have a dream job but I do love who I am at my job and I love the people I work with. I focus on that and the fact that I do have all my bills paid and have the disposable income to fund my dreams and passion on my spare time
love you zoe, hope you are feeling better already, thank you for still making great content for us about finance, I’d love for this series to continue ofc with a healthier happier zoe, hugs
ugh you always bring such an interesting perpective to so many issues thank you zoe!!! also plss keep making videos about economy/saving/investing if yoi can they are rly helpful
I can't believe I watched the whole thing while being a literally 13 yo, English not being my first language and understanding like 45% of the video 😂 But anyway your voice is relaxing so i don't regret anything:))
@@Blue-lc5np BRO dont be scared of it...... I know it is very important in life but still......you need to chill and enjoy every step of it .....even tho- its hard ...do it with a smile.....
Don't be sad don't take stress you don't deserve to be sad. You are always doing good and you gonna be... don't let the negative thoughts take over you... we all love and respect you.
yes super down for any financial advice you have to give!! zoe you're a source of inspiration and i love your humour and i have so much respect for u, ur such a beautiful soul don;t let the pressure of work get to u;; even though we can't give u hugs irl just know that we're sending u heaps of love bc u r so deserving of it
For me living life ambitiously means to live with purpose. If I went against that I would get depressed, have suicide ideation, (I'm bipolar 1) and just feel so much anguish. I went from pursuing a law degree to becoming a psych major in pursuit of becoming a trauma therapist and helping survivors of sex trafficking and other traumas in general. As sad as it can be. My own mental health is the best its ever been and I've been able to help so many others already.
OMG ! Seeing Zoe crying literally broke my heart💔 But girl u r such a star for all of us .... U were one of the most effective reasons to change my life and discover the best version of myself❤❤❤❤ Angels like u don't ever have to cry 💖💖full support till the end💜💜💜 You are the besttttt❤❤❤💜💜💜💜💜💖💖💖💖💖💕💕💕💕💕💕 *Sending virtual hugs with some chocolate🍫🍫🍫🍫🤗💖💖*
definitely recommend reading "The defining decade", it's a great and insightful book specifically dedicated to twenty-somethings. Loved this video zoe, please continue this series. :)
You’re so strong for sharing this and empowering others along the way through your story🦄🌈✨ I fear my passions get appropriated by capitalism so much❤️🩹 Losing yourself is the worst feeling in the whole world🥺🥺🥺 The biggest thing for me is that you’re not meant to stay with one thing. Keep moving. That’s the glow up. Financial or not🚀✨
sometime out and about is needed to figure inner soul once again. How are you genuinely. Once that align, the soul searching journey will starts and heals. Almost there and I always send you love and light :)
Wishing the best for everyone who feel stuck right now in their career, school, or life (sending you virtual hugs ♡) I’ll be sharing more of my mental health journey in the upcoming weeks. Take care❤️
hey zoe ur comment gave me a very supportive sensation bcz life is not always fair with us..sometimes we regret on our own acts.. i am in class 12th now its my time to move to college and i am appearing in exams and till now i am not qualified for the college i always wished to go..i am from India and JEE EXAM is known as the most though exam in this country for engineering students and every student wish to go there..due to covid and months full of uncertainities and due to my own SELF.. i am here..crying and regretting that i wasted a lot of time..now after a week i am going to write the exam again..idk what will happen..ik my problem may seem small..but a dream is a dream nothing is big or small here..zoe ..dont be sad.. more power to u. hope we will make it more than we ever expected..i wish everything gets fine soon..lots of love..
idk who'll be reading this..but thats what m going thro..
Omg I needed this mosttt! I'm so stuck with joining a college bc the clg I wanted will always be late to announce who are selected while literally the admissions in other colleges are closed. I'm so scared about it. I have faith I will get in but still its scary & my mom is so stressed about it. I hate seeing her like that 😭
My mom is very sociable person so she know a lot of ppl and they all are making her even more scary, giving her opinions on what to do with my life. I'm trying so hard to be positive but things around me just doesn't let me
Hope you'll be fine Zoe 💜✨ stay strong, we all are going through similar phase and I'm sure we'll get through this. Take care everyone!! Hope we all find our time soon
@@makeitri8 I'm from India too! I know how it is! I really hope you'll ace the exam, I know how much marks are so damn important here more than our life. Take care of your health, pls don't stress too much about JEE. Try meditating if you have time, it will help you have a clean state of mind and study well even more
Seriously the main reason she feels aimless and stuck is because she doesn’t realise how much she has helped us on RUclips, she thinks so much about her job that she isn’t aware how much she changed our lives, all her subscribers bro we are all getting through the day because of Zoe. Thank you I love you!! Don’t forget your worth!
yeah ig she feels like she isn't enough but she's so full of worth
Ya
This is true. I keep thinking of her videos and I had learned and related.
That's very true
ikr :”)
I need a world where everyone can do the work they love.. because you automatically improve when you have the passion. Imagine how peaceful that would be.
Ahh!!! Yessssss.
me too but then the world would be in chaos
@@pills9659 I don't think the world would be in chaos if people actually did what they loved. It would save a lot of frustration, anger, jealousy, judgement, etc. The world would actually be more peaceful and happy.
@@koteswarris8949 no, like the vid said, almost no one dreams of labor, but the world is literally made out of labor. its kinda hard to explain since english is not my first language but is there anyone who actually likes working in a factory? probably only a few people. is there anyone who actually likes working as a janitor, mall clerk, a 9 to 5 job, a farmer, etc? only a few people actually likes them and some of them probably like them bcs they've been working that job for some time, not bcs they like them at the beginning. imagine if only a small amount of people work on that important jobs, world hunger, frustration, anger, etc would happen more.
btw statistics show that a job in art and entertainment is the most popular dream job for many generations. imagine if most people work on that, the value for art and entertainment would be so low but most of them rely on that job to feed their mouth. and the art and entertaiment industry mostly depends rich people aka the capitalists. but the problem is that capitalism doesn't exist if everyone works on what they love, ofc the art and entertainment industry would be affected. not just the art and entertainment industry, most industry would be affected too.
you probably know how wack the world is. what if someone likes to work as a member of a criminal group? what if someone likes to work a job that harms others? the police would stop them but thats just cutting those people's 'dream' of working their loved job, so they technically cant work on something they love.
a world where everyone can do what they love is just an unrealistic dream for us who lives in this generation. it might be possible in the future but we might be dead by then. the society needs to be developed enough to the point where the jobs people hate disappear and the economic is stable enough for people to do what they want without getting into poverty. but before that happens, the world would just be in chaos if everyone do what they love.
@@pills9659 hmm, well I guess you have a point. But atleast letting people do what they are good at (theru aptitude) would solve a lot of problems. I live in India, and India has one of the highest student suicides. It is because of parents forcing kids to do degrees that they absolutely hate.
This is the EXACT reason why I left med school. It was cool and I liked it but each year the creeping feeling of being eternally unsatisfied was growing bigger and bigger until I decided it was best to stop while I was ahead. Best decision I've ever made. Even if it made my family disown me. Happier, healthier, and with better company.
What do you do now
@@angelyavakin I opened my own video editing business and it's going pretty well 😊
I'm in my final year of med school... I cant wait to be done with it forever tbh... I really relate to this comment 🙈
@@khandowando2399 wishing you all the best 🙏
This comment is the same situation i was feeling but luckily i got fired. It the thought of being disowned by my family is what kept from quiting. Worst part was it was just a minimum wage job
When you said that “I chose what society would love to see from me” it really hit home and a quote that I will forever remember. ❤️❤️❤️
I'm here for you
I agree, I sometimes feel that is easy to say be positive but it’s actually very hard to live up to😖
It's even worse when your manager comes to you expecting you to be happy and excited 24/7 about your job. I sooo feel you guys
It's your manager expectations, not yours. Set your boundaries. Because it's just your job only 8 hours, and if you wanted to work 24/7 you could chose do your own business for example
Same lol
I fell you, i'm just a student at this moment, but the pression to find a dream job and go to uni is just nerv recking, especially when i don't see a thing i would love to do and pay my bills
I completely understand.
Everyone seems to have their life sorted while you are sitting around completely lost
Exactly. I'm studying law (first year done) which is something I've always wanted to do, but I realised the only reason why I always wanted to do it is bcs others have told me that it makes good money, I've always been told how money is extremely important and that law would be amazing and all of that stuff but my 'passion' is singing, dancing, drawing, working out, learning languages, etc. (basically everything that is fun) but it's really difficult to make good money out of those things but I'm gonna try now to start with these 'hobbies' (in my free time (I'm 18) and see if it will lead me to something). After all, people are mostly done with university at around 22 anyways which is still young and definitely young enough to start with something else but then you have already achieved something so if the other new thing doesn't work out, you can still fall back to what you already have achieved. I hope you can find something too, I know how nerve-racking it all is, even when I was 10y old I was already super worried that following arts would make me no income and that I would have no future basically. Extremely toxic. If I could go back, I would have just tried to do as much as I can with arts, languages and sports till university but we financially couldn't. Sorry for this long ass message, I thought maybe this could soothe you too. I wish you the best of luck!
@@MariaD.L. i can relate to this.
I am feeling the same way..
I totally understand this. I’m a college student and it took me three years after HS to get to know myself better and to find a job and major that I would like to pursue! My advice, don’t stress. Get to know yourself more and find more things you love and enjoy. You’ll find that one of those things might just lead you to a dream job you probably didn’t expect having! ☺️ best of luck!
I am 30 with a Bach of Science in Biology, now a full time, free lance seamstress. Every day is different, I am constantly learning, I love what I do, my clients are happy to pay me $$$, I enrich their lives with my skills,,, To God be ALL the glory for giving me these gifts and pouring out these blessings!!!! Live your life through love. 💕
I'm struggling with the idea of not using my degrees (on a career path). My instincts are telling me not to care though 😁
@@A__Mina when you are in a career or job that you can’t imagine yourself in long term then it will make the decision clear. College was just a step in my journey. I enjoyed it, developed, learned a lot (who doesn’t use Microsoft Excel now and then?). And any degree looks better on a resume than no degree. My positive justification!!! 😄🙏🏻. Pray you will find clarity and peace soon!
I'm 32 also with a science degree and now all I wanna do is make clothes and jewelry 😭
@@jenniferthompson5146 yes, it's all part of the journey. Glad you found a path that works for you. Thank you so much 😊 🙏🏾
@@jessiew4103 Go ahead and just take a step even a small one! You won’t regret it. I put up a sign advertising my services on my apartment door. One step leads to another.
I quit the job everybody wanted to see me in at 31 due to a burnout. It was a safe job and I hated it from day one. I quit, left for Italy into a completely insecure future and tried to recover. I do feel so much more alive now and love what I'm doing.
wow this gives me stregth
a little one😭🙏🙏 ty💚
Wow great!
What do you do now?
@@somewhereright3160 I'm a language teacher also getting into writing and coaching.
Omg! This is my life exactly! I’m leaving this September to Spain at the age of 30 after burning out in the family business I was expected to take over. My future is not known now but I’m so excited and nervous to start a new life I actually enjoy!! Your comment gives me hope. Thank you!
I can definitely relate to the feels. Like, if someone ask me if i'm happy with my job, I would just answer, "it pays my bills". I'm always down for more financial advice Zoe. Sending virtual hugs and support 😘🤗🤗😘
Sameee. Sending you a virtual hug❤️
same same same.
I feel the same way. Sending virtual hugs to you. This too shall pass. 🙏
I will forever appreciate this channel. You've helped my family a lot,since the pandemic till now your advices and lessons are inspirational and helpful to us.
My Wife and I have been able to be minimal, conscious in spending,saving and lnvesting wisely. We have able to earn on a weekly basis and it helps the family a lot. You're such a blessing to this generation. We all love♥️😊. I'm so happy to join you today too
She is more than a blessing to us. She has changed a lot of families and teenagers for good. We all love you ♥️.
@Miles Cooper I can share some that helped me
1. Plan towards it
2. Be frugal an minimal on spending
(Don't buy what you don't need)
3. Save to (lnvest),it's a proven way to get richer.
Very important to financial success.
ZOE! Whatever makes you sad or feels to quit than try to convince yourself that you did alot, you have got us who will always watch you over your time.. Please don't cry
@Miles CooperThere's a lot of lnvesting options(401k,real estate,stocks, crypto,airbnb,ETFS) but my best advice is get the services of a professional who will lead you into a successful and profitable one.
@Olivia Jayden In the sense of that.i love what you said on here. That's a great piece of advice quit job and get into investing that's the key to success now.
It’s ridiculous how overtime is being romanticized in these audit firms. We can’t even charge our hours right but we still work the next morning. It feels like a trap. I want to quit but I also don’t.
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I'm a McGladrey. I refuse to become a CPA
Dont get trap with overtime, especially the non paid one. It’s non sense and exploitation… be smart and more particularly never stay over 5 years (I would even say 3) at the same firm EXCEPT if you see every year or two an augmentation in your salary or a better position but ideally change firm and start there at a better position that you left - or not, it’s ok !
If your not getting paid to do overtime then its a trap
@@computerlearingchannel4257 I would add completely illegal.
The number of videos with the sAme content is alarming. It comforts me that it is not only me who feels this way. Thank you for all of you who have shared how you feel, makes us feel less suck.
I’m at the point in my life that I just don’t have motivation for anything. Whenever I remember the 13 years old me, the 15 years old me sometimes I break down cus I always ask myself where is that same person now. I’m 21 suppose to be finishing college soon but I’ve changed my major 3 times, still I’m not happy. I don’t know what I’m passion about, I just don’t have motivation to do anything, i used to be that cheerful girl that loves reading, that has so much exciting and amazing things going on for her, all of a sudden my life changed I just realized I started becoming less happy. I have mental breakdowns like twice a day. I cry for no reason at night. I’m just exhausted with life, I just wanna live at this point and not think about anything.
I was also going through such a situation, but going to start college,
I am in a very similar situation. Please just remember that you are not alone. We, and many others like us are in this together. 🍀🍀
This is the motto that I always remember (it's kinda funny because it may not be helpful to most) - Life is fickle. A cycle of good and bad, or a waveform that has good, bad, very good, very bad and also some grey areas. It just is like that.
Whenever I feel like I'm sad or suffocating inside, i always think of us being multi-cellular organisms with consciousness that keep being born and die...like everyone's gonna go someday and everyone is in this cycle of happiness and suffering...so i am not alone. This is borderline schadenfreude but i don't care.
I'm so sorry you are hurting. Being in your 20s is hard. I'm 30 now and I promise that it will get better. You won't feel aimless forever.
Give yourself time. If you want to understand yourself, you have to give you quality & quantity of time. In this world, our days are always hectic. We don't even understand that we don't talk to ourselves. We don't think in silence. Don't take a break & re-think. Please stay low for some days & give yourself time & after you overcome this, make sure you set a time to give yourself alone time, no phone, no external things in that time. Just you & your mind. It'll help you a lot. Write diaries. I know how you feel. I was going through that situation & still sometimes I'm lost. I cry a lot because I can't find my aim in life. I'll overcome these all, I'm working on myself. Believe it, you'll overcome it.
I was exactly like you when I was 21 then when things were about to get better it got worse, I faced the worst came out of it as a woman who knows better and isn't hopeless , I am 24 and much happier then I have ever been in my 20s
Hang in there, it gets better.
Everyone has a point in their life when they feel stuck but don't worry guys just focus on your motive and you will achieve your goal definitely 😊😊
Zoe , if life was always happier we wouldn't feel the word" happiness "
Ur a strong girl and ur always determined to do ur best and u r the type of person to look at the nightmare right at the face and keep fighting ...ur my role model..... ik I have choosed the right one 😊❤
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I hope your gonna feel better we are here for you hun it’s good you came out💗💞
Zoe babe if you ever felt down just remember that you have more then 300k people that can support you. I just hate to see people I love sad or feeling down. I love you hun and I will always support you♥️
I just quit my job 4 days ago... I have no idea of what I’m going to be doing but I am so excited for this newness and a new beginning🌟
Good luck 🤞
I’m excited for you! Best of luck!
I've been there. I went through the same crying phase, depression, apathy, muscle ache, ulcerative colitis, and sever stress. It was hard. I took a huge gamble and left the USA and moved to another country. My health improved and healed my ulcerative colitis, the stress is gone, I have my own business, right now I'm working on my depression but I will overcome it.
Do you mind I ask where do you move to? I am so sick of USA
@@BlueSkyOcean Nicaragua
I am auditor myself and I can totally relate to how you feel, especially during audit busy season. Thank you for making this video and allowing me to recognise how deep I've fallen into the dark hole of wanting to quit my job yet I can't quit because I need to take care of my family. The cycle truly never ends. But now ateast I've found some answer to help me escape from the dark hole. Thank you again for making this video Zoe 🙂
Zoe if you ever feel sad ..just think that you have changed life of more than 300k ppl and helped them in so many ways. I love you so much gurl and I will always always support you.🤍
100% agree with this ❤
Yes! Mine for sure❤️❤️💪🏻💪🏻
P A R A S O C I A L R E L A T I O N S H I P
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Wise words from jeon jungkook
You have to experience the cold to understand the warm
When did he say that?
@@rebeccabath5276 ruclips.net/video/CSPLiXtYcTk/видео.html
Everyone say that BTS worked their ass off to be what they are. They struggled during their rookie time. Yes they did. I have struggled just like them studying, fighting depression, anxiety, fighting the society. There are hundreds and thousands of people who have struggled more than that. Yet we are not even. 0000001%lucky as them. Fans have to open their eyes and accept the fact that they are damn LUCKY to be where they are.
@@arthippie333 ending up successful in what you do doesn't omit the fact that they struggled like hell. Don't you think they fought depression and anxiety too ? Damn they are still dealing with it. What fans say is the only visible part of the iceberg we don't even know what happens 100% when they are trainees and when they become idols. Not only them but all the kpop industry.
I am suffering too, I'm studying my ass off too , depression was my bestie and now anxiety came join me. I'm not just saying that , I have been diagnosed with a professional doctor.
Anyway all that to say that in all cases if you struggle or have it easy, no one is immune from these down moments and yes We have to experience cold to appreciate and feel the warmth of life.
Have a nice day.
@@ourhaven happiness is in the process. stop having non veg.. it
leaads to anxiety. chk bk shivani
videos.. happiness unlimited
, healer within.
Honestly, God is the only one who gives my life meaning. I’ve considered it all; education, financial success, financial independence, having amazing trips, the party life, men, pursuing talents and it’s all useless. The only thing that amounts to anything are relationships with friends and family and those are hard if you’ve had a traumatic childhood. But God has given me a peace I never imagined.
💯 🙌🏽
The most meaningful comment
what things do you do to feel closer to god?
@@inaim2 good question. And how does one force this God question?
@@inaim2 Literally talk to God, like "What can I do about such and such?" and he will show you the way.
I can relate. My stomach used to tight up in pain when I open my office door. Proud of you
Zoe I'm panicking seeing you crying don't cry :'( you're my saviour
ya she is amazing but Jesus Christ is a real saviour ❤️😄
@@johnlopessagar6309 the* :)
@@johnlopessagar6309 true he will/can help us all cuz with God all things are possible😁
Not everyone believe's in god.
@@annmarie8883 ya but it doesn't mean there is no God. people opinions can't change Gods existence
As an associate auditor myself (1 year of experience), let me tell you, the world needs to redefine audit. The ridiculous hours spent and last minute rushing is endless. Rn im feeling so unhappy from work bc of the lack of life outside of work, but i cant deny that im also learning a lot. The toxic culture of overtime has to end. Period
Reading your comment I feel audit field is the same everywhere...I am into audit in India but I can completely relate
Anything over 40 hours a week is gross man. I dont enjoy my job but i never work a second over 40 a week.
I absolutely agree! I HATE this system. I want to be a free human, living in the world naturally like we were meant to, building our own shelter, finding our own food, being extremely active, etc. I hate how we are forced to live in this beautiful world having to do some crap job to get money to buy food or travel to other places. I want to be free. I want the world to be free. And in order to do that, I have to hustle to make money before I can do any of that more “freely”. I’m currently a FT uni student, building my own business & single mum, and I have so many ambitions but can’t think of a life past the next couple of years once uni has finished because I don’t want to go back into the workforce being more stuck than I currently am. I’d love to live in an indigenous tribe, without tech, where life is fun, free, has a strong community bond and it’s survive or die.
I understand the feeling, qnd yet. It is a privilege to worry about not being able of having a steady job and income
Ive been in both situations where I worked so hard I burned out, but couldn't get a permanent job due to lack of higher education. When I finally sacrificed my time and energy to get a nursing degree. I found it very easy to get a steady job. Butno matter where I work its really hard even if I love the job and my patients. So now, I just try to find joy in all the small and great things.
I love my job... but I still feel trapped and tired.
Dreams can change, that's normal. Sometimes you just need to stop and overthink. It is no shame to quit and start something else, maybe somewhere else, all over.
One of my teachers used to work in a high position for a huge company. She was payed a lot and well respected. At the age of 40, she decided over night that this was not her determination. She went to University again, the oldest student that year, and became a teacher. She loves her job, even though she earns significantly less and sometimes has a hart time dealing with her pubescent students. But she said it was the right choice and she'd do it again.
So don't worry, my dear. It does not matter what you do. All that matters is your happiness :)
Your soul is looking for something deeper, something spiritual. Your soul is looking for connection. I would love to share with you how I’ve found peace and comfort.
Yessss please make more of these type of “glowing up financially videos”!
Seeing you cry almost made me cry. I understand you girl. Right now I'm stuck in a job I no longer have fun working for. I'm constantly stressed. The only thing that is making me happy is finding some hobbies or trying different things on my own channel. And to de-stress. Also Zoe your videos have helped us and made us smile and happy.
I could relate to this very well. I grew up with my parents telling me that time is gold and that I should grab each opportunity to work to our family business and so I started working at the age of 13 every summer after my semester ends. Now that i'm 21 and graduating from college, my savings isn't enough for me to be identified as "Financially Independent" even though I worked my ass off the whole 8 years as I only started with below minimum wage since I was just only a student. So guys, don't be pressured thinking that you don't have enough money to live alone and be financially independent but take it as a challenge for you to realize that you have more capabilities outside this slavery labor. I decided to open a shop where I design things and sell it in bulk which helped me buy things I never thought I could afford when I was working under minimum wage. Go limitless because there are unlimited opportunities, you just need to be wise. Also, thank you zoe for being always there to enlighten us with your wisdom and wise thoughts which I always take as I walk this flowery path of my adulting ♡ love from the philippines :)
University recruiting makes working at the B4 seem so glamorous, but I think for most of us, the rose-colored glasses come off after a few years. Sending lots of strength, love & positive vibes your way-I can’t imagine how hard it was to start as a new associate virtually.
And great advice throughout the video, as always :)
I WOULD LOVE MORE CONTENT ON GLOWING UP FINANCIALLY 💕
Take care 🥺💜 sending lots of love 💗🥺 Fighting 💪💜
"Do what you love and love what you do." Perfectly well said
We (western millenials/gen z's) are actually so privileged to be able to say "I dont dream of labour" or "this is not the job I dreamt of, lets move elsewhere". But this privilege at the same time feels like a terible responsibility. For most of us, "dream job" is probably an unattainable ideal, the possibilities are limited etc. so maybe we all should be rather looking for "good enough" in most areas of our life. Also the idea that capitalism is to blame feels kind of naive or incomplete for me as a citizen of a post-socialist coutry... Anyway, it was a really interesting, thought-provoking video :) I'm in my mid-20s and so far my recipe to avoid those feelings (as much as possible) has been to leave multiple possibilities open - I'm finishing my 1st degree and starting a decent job in the following months, but I'm also doing a second degree on weekends (yes we have free uni education). This way, I don't feel forever trapped in my present job choice ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Wish you all the best in sorting this out for yourself 💗
Knowing there is something better leads us to be incredibly unsatisfied with what we have, if we were born 200 years ago wed be working 14 hours a day every day in hazardous conditions and lucky to even live to 60. But we wouldnt know of anything else so probably just accepted it.
this is her when the camera is off"-
its okay babe,we're here for you❤️everythings gonna be okay soon~
This is so relatable.
Am i the only one that doesn't dislike their jobs but "jobs" in general ?
Like even if i was living from my passion, just the fact that i HAVE to do it makes it so less enjoyable. I can't have a day of when i don't feel like it, i can't just ignore calls and meeting or dead lines, I HAVE to work or i don't get money. I know it must sounds so privilege but who never dreamed of not having to work.
You are lazy work on that and too free spirit. It's your personality. Go in your closet put on a head covering and talk to Jesus Christ about it then wait.
no, u dont understand how much i love zoe, she is on my vision board, she is literally my hero
Being a post graduating student I have break down every single day yesterday I end up spending my entire day on my Bed non-stop crying. I though the biggest hard time would be exams & study stress. Thanks to u I realised the hard times are yet to come😂I thought I would have a happy time when I start working & living my own.
Everyone has a different experience of study and work you must hope for the best think positive
but go n complete pg… i understand u.. make GOD ur companion n do meditation to hv concentration n improve memory. stop having non-veg , outside food to reduce anxiety
Zoe… I have barely even started this video, maybe like 2 minutes in. This was recommended to me. The first thing I saw after logging into youtube. I literally had a breakdown in my car 3 days ago after work. This feeling that you feel, I feel it too and I am shook by how alone I do not feel knowing that other people feel the same way. I would silently cry to myself constantly, feeling empty and wondering why I struggle so much with my career, dream job and purpose. I just want to say thank you and Im so happy I found you. Much love!
Plz don't cry 🥺.
U ve helped lot of us with ur vdios 🥺
Sending tons of love 💗
It’s weird seeing you facing what I’m currently facing because I’ve always idealized your life, even if you’re as transparent as you can (i mean with us on RUclips) I thought you had everything, at least a lot of things I was envious of. And seeing you in quite the same situation as me rn made me realize that we all the same in some ways. Thanks you for producing content that is inspiring, thank you for motivating and helping us. You’re doing amazing, i hope you’ll feel better very soon.
You are SO brave just to allowing yourself feel that way.
So, I had this mental breakdown last year, when I realized that the career I was studying wasn't making me happy, but I tried to keep going as much as I tried (and I even was a very good student)
So, after asking myself 'when do you feel the fullest and happiest?' I had a breakdown realizing it was when I dance.
After taking and crying A LOT (because I felt I waisted many years in the wrong career), finally I'm studying dance right now.. Plus, I lost 10kg and changed all my bad habits to live longer.. And although my days now are quite the same, I feel I'm taking care of myself and my body. I really try to deeply understand my feelings and thoughts, so I can act honestly to myself.
Thanks a lot for your channel. You are being true to yourself and that matters the most❤️
I can't believe that I'm able to relate to every video that you post. I felt so stuck, so unhappy though I had everything to feel content about. Seeing you go through the same thing reassures me that we're all human, and better things lie ahead. Praying and sending you love❤
Zoe.. its so hard to follow what you love.. but you are very brave and very very talented. Just hold on little.. there are sooo many good things waiting for you to unpack them. You are gonna grow and grow and grow.. we are all here supporting you. U r an amazing human being. We love you so much🤍💗🤍💗
I hope your okay! xox
I want to tell you, none of your time went to waste but perhaps it was time to outgrow the regular pace you had set for yourself. I'm proud of you for taking a step forward even when it was so difficult to look ahead. You are brave, I hope you're proud of yourself.
Also Zoe I think I say this on behalf of everyone, please do give us content as such in future. Seeing your growth and growing alongside would be a worthy experience. ✨✨
I’m not an official worker but watching this made me think more about my future and see how important it is to re evaluate my actual passions and not listening to what society accepts as “better”. I’m 25 and graduated from uni with a bachelors I wasn’t really interested in because I was breaking the hold of my parents wanting me to be a “six figure” lawyer(since they earn so much I guess I’ll be happy). But that isn’t the case since there was no interest for me in that field. I figured if I do get to be a lawyer I know I wouldn’t be happy cuz it would honestly just give me dread despite the money it gives 😓
I just graduated as well. I did what I was supposed to do…but damn. You really made this at the right time. Thanks for being so open about this.
I also graduated and i'm looking for a job but i don't want to... That's just what we need to do to live, i hate being born on this planet, i don't know if i would being able to keep a job i have no motivation
I will soon be joining college for graduation but believe me even selecting a major made me suffer so much. When you said "I chose what society would love to see from me", I greatly related. Our decisions are greatly influenced by societal pressures and we end up feeling stuck because of our own decisions and choices. Anyways, hope you are doing okay. Lots love and virtual hugs to you❤
Honestly, after watching so many of these, I realize a lot of their dream jobs are doing youtube videos. While it's great if you can make it, a world where a majority of people are creating content would be terrible for everyone. Everyone should feel useful, and a lot of these jobs don't fulfill that. A world where everyone can find their place and feel useful would ideally have everyone fulfilling a need someone has, but entrepreneurship is hard and not everybody is cut out for it. I hope you find fulfillment in what you do and make money doing it however. The journey is long and hard but worth it if you can make it viable for yourself.
When I saw you crying, I really felt that 🥺 It's just last friday I was also crying in front of my computer screen, I'm just sad also. I wanted to pursue other things but had no capacity to do so. Thanks for sharing those tips, I pray oneday I could do my passion as job as well. More pleaseee.
Omg Zoe queen don't cryy am crying too I have so much doubt about my life pls don't cryy it makes me sad seeing you cry😭I here for you ily
Can't see u like this ... Please be strong sweetheart u can overcome with any difficult trust yourself ... Stay safe and strong ....
Everything Will be better soon ...
Please dear take care of yourself ...
Fighting 👍
Hi! I'm actually struggling if I should continue college especially now I'm a late enrollee by two weeks. I guess this helped me to realize that I wasn't the only one feeling lost. Thank you and God bless.
You are the strongest woman Zoe ❤️❤️keep fighting girl. You will soon overcome it. Your happy face makes my day girl. Don't worry we all are with you 😘😘
Zoe you show us the reality.I really love you.🥰🥰🥰
I'm an aspiring CPA and this really REALLY is making me reevaluate my career plan
Am so glad I came across this. I have been feeling stuck for awhile and I know things will work out for me
I'm glad we live in a day and age where we can learn so much from online resources and videos and think outside of the box. I'm very grateful for channels like this which gives me hope and confidence to know that it is OK to try something different other than the job we are currently in. That in itself is giving me a small amount of peace to know that there are options and we dont have to always do what the society expects us to do.
I found your channel around three weeks ago and that I’m so grateful for. Watching your videos gave me the motivation to workout, to eat better and to put myself first. Love lovee how genuine your videos are and takes a lot to put yourself out there and you’re doing it with so much realness. Thank you for all the hard work you put into these videos. Hope you feel better. Take care.❤️
Sooooo relatable! 💗 sometimes I feel guilty for feeling so down when I “should be happy and grateful”. I really want to do something I love.
U have changed my life really..... And my sence of humor thanku soooooo much thanku zoe love from India🇮🇳🇮🇳
I must say I love the term "financial glow up", thanks for this series of videos!
my issue is that i have no passions. i don’t want to do anything.
Even if you have a passion not all of them pay enough for a decent living
Omg 😲 I feel so much for you, I have been in situations where I had to stay in jobs i hated for the money and immigration . Sending you vibes as this is all I can do for now, stay strong, this will end soon and happiness will come your way!
I feel you. I had 5 years of college with 2 more classes to graduate. I dropped out and didn't go back when covid hit. I knew it was time. I got a lot of backlash from others and family... said I was making the wrong choice. Just know that when one door closes another opens. New opportunity and experiences. Much love cutie
What do u do now?
Broooo I support what ever hardships have you will conquer your struggle 👍🏾
Wow, this video came just in time. It popped up on my recommendations... I had a break down this morning at work... I am so tired. Jobs are so soul draining... Thank you so much for sharing your tips. I'd rather die then work a 9-5 for the rest of my life.
Zoe we love you we value keep going ,this is ur way
Im so glad you show the ups and downs of life. Not to long ago I felt stuck and that I wouldn’t find a job or a job I hopefully like to do lol but I got my old job back but in a different department and it’s a little less stressful. It’s not much but I know I’ll get my dream job/life soon. Don’t give up faith and take it day by day ❤️. You once told my bay steps and I plan on taking life a step at a time (hopefully lol)
Zeo don't be so sad, we all are here to support you, whatever you do that is your happiness, if you don't happy yourself, no one will makes you happy, if you where happy then no one can makes you feel so sad, keeep going and going
If u cry, I cry, please feel better :"( luv u ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️
Aww please don't feel sad :( It breaks my heart even tho I am 13, I don't know that much about jobs and those..but please don't cry .I wish I could give a hug
hello zoe! it’s been a while but if you ever feel down just remember you helped so so so many people out of their dark times. it’s okay sweetie vent as much as you want. make sure to take time for yourself and work isn’t everything…
This just made me so grateful, by no means do I have a dream job but I do love who I am at my job and I love the people I work with. I focus on that and the fact that I do have all my bills paid and have the disposable income to fund my dreams and passion on my spare time
this is me right now, i don't feel happy with my job but i had to work for the sake of bills. i sometimes don't know what i want to do in life.
OMG...🥺 please Don't cry...take care...I can't see my life changer ...being like this....I want u be to happy...stay strong...lots of love...
love you zoe, hope you are feeling better already, thank you for still making great content for us about finance, I’d love for this series to continue ofc with a healthier happier zoe, hugs
ugh you always bring such an interesting perpective to so many issues thank you zoe!!! also plss keep making videos about economy/saving/investing if yoi can they are rly helpful
Will definately love to get to know more about how u invest on the things u like
I can't believe I watched the whole thing while being a literally 13 yo, English not being my first language and understanding like 45% of the video 😂
But anyway your voice is relaxing so i don't regret anything:))
Ahahahah...!!!!!
You know what SAME bro....
I am glad you found it earlier in life before it's too late. Do something for yourself, not for someone else's dream comes true.
Lmao same, but somehow I can totally understand what she’s going though, this is what I’m most scared of when I become an adult
@@Blue-lc5np BRO dont be scared of it...... I know it is very important in life but still......you need to chill and enjoy every step of it .....even tho- its hard ...do it with a smile.....
Whats your first language + heyy army
I’m living day by day! My mind set getting closer & closer to the edge. One day I hope I can find that passion.
Don't be sad don't take stress you don't deserve to be sad. You are always doing good and you gonna be... don't let the negative thoughts take over you... we all love and respect you.
i feel that the first clips of you crying all too well
yes super down for any financial advice you have to give!! zoe you're a source of inspiration and i love your humour and i have so much respect for u, ur such a beautiful soul
don;t let the pressure of work get to u;; even though we can't give u hugs irl just know that we're sending u heaps of love bc u r so deserving of it
For me living life ambitiously means to live with purpose. If I went against that I would get depressed, have suicide ideation, (I'm bipolar 1) and just feel so much anguish. I went from pursuing a law degree to becoming a psych major in pursuit of becoming a trauma therapist and helping survivors of sex trafficking and other traumas in general. As sad as it can be. My own mental health is the best its ever been and I've been able to help so many others already.
OMG !
Seeing Zoe crying literally broke my heart💔
But girl u r such a star for all of us .... U were one of the most effective reasons to change my life and discover the best version of myself❤❤❤❤
Angels like u don't ever have to cry 💖💖full support till the end💜💜💜
You are the besttttt❤❤❤💜💜💜💜💜💖💖💖💖💖💕💕💕💕💕💕
*Sending virtual hugs with some chocolate🍫🍫🍫🍫🤗💖💖*
I had a breakdown in my grad job last week so I needed this 🥰
Today for me
Zoe no don't cry I love you 💗 you have such a bright future ahead
definitely recommend reading "The defining decade", it's a great and insightful book specifically dedicated to twenty-somethings. Loved this video zoe, please continue this series. :)
I feel that pain, I’m stuck right now I’m a job that treats me like a work horse
You’re so strong for sharing this and empowering others along the way through your story🦄🌈✨
I fear my passions get appropriated by capitalism so much❤️🩹
Losing yourself is the worst feeling in the whole world🥺🥺🥺
The biggest thing for me is that you’re not meant to stay with one thing.
Keep moving. That’s the glow up. Financial or not🚀✨
sometime out and about is needed to figure inner soul once again. How are you genuinely. Once that align, the soul searching journey will starts and heals. Almost there and I always send you love and light :)
Seeing you cry makes me wanna cry 😭
Your really strong and the best RUclipsr
Sending you so much love! ❤️