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  • Haters gonna hate lol. Let's discuss some of the not so nice comments I've been getting lately.
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  • @misscarriexox
    @misscarriexox 8 месяцев назад +183

    I think it’s insane that people are commenting “where’s your kids” - One of the major reasons I love your channel is that you DONT show your kids! Like you said, that’s creepy as F that people are saying that 😐

    • @peachettte
      @peachettte 8 месяцев назад +16

      Completely stopped watching everyone showing their kids and making money off of them. Keep doing you Mai 💪🏻

    • @traceydesilva4623
      @traceydesilva4623 6 месяцев назад +2

      AGREE 100%. I admire you for protecting your children!!!!

  • @traceymoore731
    @traceymoore731 8 месяцев назад +110

    Good for you that you don’t plaster your kids all over the internet!! Those creepy men asking about them is exactly why you shouldn’t! Kudos to you!!!

  • @SaraSa-gm2ig
    @SaraSa-gm2ig 8 месяцев назад +158

    Wow the amount of hate you are getting for being a divorced woman. It’s 2023 people need to worry about their own lives. You worked so hard on your mental health, you don’t deserve this. 💗

    • @prairielivingtwins
      @prairielivingtwins 8 месяцев назад +2

      I don't like hate comments either I stopped making videos because of it,but just it is what it is.

  • @ktrayan1
    @ktrayan1 8 месяцев назад +27

    “Why do we never see her children” should be construed as the best type of mom comment. The one who doesn’t put her kids up for millions to seeeeee!

  • @nick.938
    @nick.938 8 месяцев назад +33

    Mai, I am a man that has been watching your videos (specifically cleaning and decluttering videos) for a while now. I love hearing your stories, and I can’t understand why you’re getting so much hate! You are a wonderful person girl!! Don’t let them haters get you down!! Good for you also for not blasting your kids on the internet, there are lots of creeps out there! Keep rocking like always, queen!! 👑❤️❤️

  • @GildedButterfly
    @GildedButterfly 8 месяцев назад +52

    Nobody would say these things to your face… keep your judgement to yourself. We love Mai 💕!

  • @liamariex3
    @liamariex3 8 месяцев назад +76

    I think it is hilarious how people ask where your children are. Do people ask dad where the children are?! There is this odd thought among society that if a mom doesn’t have her kids then she’s a “bad mom”. Our lives changed completely when my husband lost his job and became a full time stay at home dad and I’m the one that goes to work every day and let me tell you he is an amazing stay at home dad!

    • @ERSwanger
      @ERSwanger 8 месяцев назад +4

      Mai literally starts most of her videos saying where her children are-- either at school or with their dad! You're so right!

    • @ERSwanger
      @ERSwanger 8 месяцев назад +3

      I think this arrangement works for your family. This morning my husband asked if he could sleep in and me go to work (I'm a SAHM) and I just looked at him and said "I think it's funny you think I sleep in" lol

    • @theabnormalmom
      @theabnormalmom 8 месяцев назад +3

      Right? Someone should ask my ex when he last saw his kids....bc the answer would be Easter.

    • @YayaBolender
      @YayaBolender 8 месяцев назад +3

      By hoping that these people have no creepy reasons to ask about the kids… I would feel very uncomfortable to have someone, a stranger, asking me for that about my kids. It’s none of their business. It is insane.

  • @mrshadenoughofallthis911
    @mrshadenoughofallthis911 8 месяцев назад +19

    I have more respect for people who keep their kids off line. Your kids are really young. Plenty of time for them to learn. And we all know that when they are little, you do need to go in behind them even when they do ‘clean’

  • @kitw76
    @kitw76 8 месяцев назад +24

    I definitely understand about not posting your children on the internet! Your doing the right thing! Dating after divorce depends on the circumstances around the divorce and everyone’s circumstances are different… you do you! ❤️

  • @PurpleFighter5
    @PurpleFighter5 8 месяцев назад +20

    You’re an amazing mom and your kids are so lucky to have you. I hope all the positive comments drown out the negative chatter 😊

  • @cynthiamilo5571
    @cynthiamilo5571 6 месяцев назад +5

    From someone who is a lot older than you. Life is short, don’t wait, get out there….Love is amazing and waiting for you.

    • @MaiZimmy
      @MaiZimmy  6 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you!!!! 😊 💕💕💕💕

  • @carolskinner7411
    @carolskinner7411 5 месяцев назад +3

    I agree you are making your choices that work for you and your kids! So many men just don't make the effort to improve a marriage. For some reason women do all the heavy lifting and women get the blame for it not working out. I would suggest Jimmy on relationships. And for all the men that criticize you "Go do your own therapy,work on your own tramas and do the inner work!

  • @briannabelliconish2828
    @briannabelliconish2828 8 месяцев назад +12

    Haven't gotten through much of the video yet, but had to comment for 2 reasons. 1- I'm a therapist so technically if you want to, this can count as talking to a therapist 😂. Go off girl, do what you need to do! No judgements here. And 2- I love the idea of trickle down therapy! I've never heard that before but I can totally see that haha. I do the same and my best friend is also a therapist so I guess we get trickle down therapy too! Anyways, going to watch the rest of the video now. Love and appreciate you!

  • @goobermcgoober
    @goobermcgoober 8 месяцев назад +7

    Girl! You are a light in a dark room. Keep your light shining. ✨️ when I was little my mom always said she wanted me to be a kid. Not to grow up so fast. She had 3 kids very young and she didn't like the idea of us doing chores. She taught us how to respect our things and stay tidy, but she never made us stress about cleaning. I'm now 41 and I think about that every time I do the dishes. She let me be a kid. 🎉 and I praise you so much. I don't have kids but if I did there is no way possible that I would put their face online. There is so much going on in the digital world now where photos are being taken and used with sick intentions. Anyone who keeps their kids safe & happy is a hero! 💕 always keep in mind if someone doesn't like you it's because they see something in you that they don't like about themselves. We are all mirrors for eachother simply reflecting back are own insecurities. Your gorgeous, easy going, make shit happen kinda attitude is probably triggering those who lack that charisma. Or their just bots. 😂😂😂 the bots are taking over. Xoxo

  • @helenacionek2001
    @helenacionek2001 8 месяцев назад +13

    Hi, i live in Brasil, and i understand what you're going through. My parents were legally married for 7 years, but my mother was the only person in the marriage who fought to save the relationship and still take care of me while my father divided his time between working and acting like he was single (yes, that means cheating) After they separated, she started working as a maid in more than 3 houses and didn't earn much. Many men wanted to marry my mother just so she could clean up their mess, but she always denied it. She said she doesn't want to get married again, and that's her choice and that of many other women, but there are many women who chose to try again and that's ok for everyone.
    I hope everything is fine in your life and that of your children, you're not doing anything wrong as a woman and mother.

  • @chrissyfrederick3424
    @chrissyfrederick3424 8 месяцев назад +7

    Thanks for doing laundry with me! Love your longer content, thank you! Screw those haters!! we watch you because we love you and your content ❤

  • @Bo0cupcake
    @Bo0cupcake 4 дня назад

    Props to you for setting clear and strong boundaries. You really don't owe any explanation to online trolls. I have twins as well and you hear from so many ppl to "post your twins" so you can get deals, free this, sponsor that and it just doesn't sit well w me for my kids faces to be accessible to the entire world do whatever they choose to. The deals or fame or anything wouldn't be worth it to me. I really enjoy your videos because I feel our lives have a lot of parallels and it's nice to be able to see someone go through relatable things as a millennial single mom with twins (+1). ☺️

  • @mindyhulse6587
    @mindyhulse6587 8 месяцев назад +5

    One of the reasons I watch you is because you are a good mom just by the fact you don't use your kids for content. Keep your head up and do what is right for and the boys. I miss your Costco videos. Like you said, you can't please everyone we all have different opinions and see things differently. I'm on team "don't wash" chicken 😅😅.

  • @abeckwith
    @abeckwith 8 месяцев назад +3

    I just have to say that I love you so much. Girl, you crack me up! I’d say that it’s unbelievable that you get hate comments, except nowadays it’s unfortunately common for people to be negative. You’re an amazing person and an amazing mom. Keep being you! You are so much fun!

  • @tduck828
    @tduck828 8 месяцев назад +2

    Wow. People are rude for no reason. I appreciate these videos!!

  • @Sawmxo
    @Sawmxo 8 месяцев назад +15

    You shouldn’t have to explain to anyone..it’s no one’s business whether you clean, your kids clean or you hire help..it’s your house your business!

  • @charminlindholm7779
    @charminlindholm7779 Месяц назад

    I appreciate how you have clear standards and filters for comments.

  • @dancingkay2604
    @dancingkay2604 Месяц назад

    Those are JEALOUS HATERS ❤! You’re beautiful, informative, fun, don’t listen to the dumb jealous witches! I’ve worked in the fitness industry, with high profile people around, and honestly, those are envious weirdo’s commenting! Take it as a COMPLIMENT 👍🏼keep doing your thing, don’t worry about bots…I really enjoy cleaning and the Costco vids!❤

  • @marisalopez7514
    @marisalopez7514 8 месяцев назад +4

    I love watching your videos!! I agree with you about not wanting to post your kids all over the internet. When my kids were smaller I used to post pictures of them until I got a creepy comment about my daughter from a friend of the family that I had known all my life. Since then I no longer felt comfortable posting my kids. You just never truly know people. You are doing the right thing in keeping your kids safe ❤

  • @ar_m
    @ar_m 8 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you for the comment about it taking both people to choose their spouse and work on their marriage. If one doesn't want to try then there's nothing you can do except work on yourself and figure out how to move on. Thank you for being so open about your life while respecting your ex and respecting your children and their privacy rather than exploiting them for views/ money on the internet. I wish you all the best in this new chapter in your life. May it be fun and happy for you and your family. ❤

  • @claudiag.3036
    @claudiag.3036 8 месяцев назад +14

    I guarantee the people that are criticizing & telling you what you should or need to be doing aren’t practicing what they preach. Misery loves company, and they want you to be miserable alongside them. Your happiness, beauty, resilience, grateful spirit… pisses them off. 😅 Lord, help these miserable trolls. Mai, I’m glad you’re going to keep doing what you’re doing bc you are such a light! I love your videos.

  • @brandiwilson3344
    @brandiwilson3344 8 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for sharing this, I am currently going through a divorce after 20 years and I have not started dating yet but I can really resonate with what you have to say and I appreciate your videos/shorts. Thank you again for your willingness to share about your situation and how you are trying to move on. And I 100% agree no one should have to stay married to someone who is not acting like they are married.

  • @anneshirley9560
    @anneshirley9560 8 месяцев назад +26

    People don't know what went on in your marriage. How long you felt lonely, unappreciated and invisible? My husband separated from me 2 years ago after our baby was born. So if he ever goes through with a divorce, I'm absolutely moving on “fast”. He barely talks to me. 🤷‍♀️ so I agree with you. Not single but definitely living a single and lonely life.

    • @youtubeacc
      @youtubeacc 8 месяцев назад +5

      Why wouldn’t you file for divorce at this point? Makes no sense to stay with someone that makes you feel worthless. Show your child they are worth more

    • @anneshirley9560
      @anneshirley9560 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@youtubeacc I don't believe in divorce.

    • @Deangirl86
      @Deangirl86 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@youtubeaccexactly. Why stay with someone who doesn’t want you? Go find happiness with someone else.

    • @youtubeacc
      @youtubeacc 8 месяцев назад

      @@anneshirley9560😂😂😂 ok girl so you will live unhappy and teach your child to accept less than they deserve in the future because why? You deserve better. Sorry that you think you are less than.

  • @marulove121
    @marulove121 7 месяцев назад +1

    The reason most of the hate comments are in the short videos is due to the attention span of those men. Any man who has a valid comment will take the time to watch longer videos and analyze before commenting. As a mom getting divorced, thank you for sharing with us it helps me a lot

  • @stephanie6829
    @stephanie6829 7 месяцев назад

    So happy for you! Been following you for a few years now and love your content. It totally inspires me to clean and organize when I'm feeling unmotivated. Glad you did this to move on from the messed up comments. Block the haters!

  • @SammieOranges
    @SammieOranges 8 месяцев назад +1

    "I'm just gonna keep doing what I'm doing, because I'm happy with the way I'm doing it" best fricken line ever! You go Mai, keep it up!! ❤

  • @MissEvv77
    @MissEvv77 3 месяца назад +1

    😊 I'm a new subscriber. I am appalled that strangers will offer "advice" on how you are raising your children; dating, or cleaning habits. I subscribe to other channels of single Dads and have yet to read negative questions about their children or dating habits. You're absolutely right - it's not fair and so chauvinistic. Most importantly, no one, man OR woman, should be asking about the whereabouts of children they're not related to. I'm a new subscriber, and even I now that your boys are in school or with their father. I appreciate and enjoy how you share your shopping and home management routines. Keep "doing you", girl, and enjoy yourself. Keep dating and find love again. Folks need to mind their business and stop being "so stingy being kind to others." They need to remember that when you point a finger at someone, four of your fingers are pointing right back at you. God's continued blessings on you and your loved ones. 🙏🏿🤗

    • @MissEvv77
      @MissEvv77 3 месяца назад

      🤦🏾‍♀️ooops.."know"

  • @maureenbarkell-kaczmar9005
    @maureenbarkell-kaczmar9005 8 месяцев назад +3

    You go lady! Keep rocking! You're doing an amazing job!

  • @stampinprn
    @stampinprn 4 месяца назад +2

    I will never understand why people say mean stuff to creators.

  • @danlynch6517
    @danlynch6517 5 месяцев назад +1

    As I was mindlessly scrolling through youtube shorts sitting on my couch...oh brother🙄, I found a few of your cleaning videos and I was instantly motivated to get my own chores done. Your sense of humor lured me in further. Cheers!

  • @hollybreau7568
    @hollybreau7568 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Mia for sharing your life on this platform. I want you to know that there people out in RUclips land who appreciate you, support you and are not judging you. I give you kudos for how you are managing this season in your life. I wish you health, peace, and happiness always. Life is all about growing and learning, you are doing an awesome job. Be blessed! ❤️🤗

  • @monroeroams
    @monroeroams 8 месяцев назад +1

    you are a great mama! ❤️ good job for keeping your head up and knowing their opinions don't matter!

  • @laurenmccleery5023
    @laurenmccleery5023 8 месяцев назад +2

    I have noticed in other creators shorts the comments are more passive aggressive as well. Not sure what it is about shorts but maybe it’s because non subscribers see it more? Anyway, I love that you protect your kid’s privacy and normalize that. I also love watching your content it’s very calming.

  • @kcmnky
    @kcmnky 8 месяцев назад +1

    Preach!💜💜💜 Please continue to live your best life and ignore the idiots that are hating. Love you and your videos!

  • @Illuminate-to-heal
    @Illuminate-to-heal 8 месяцев назад

    You’re amazing, Mai. It’s been a pleasure watching you flourish and grow through this process. Ignore the haters. They’re simply ignorant, bitter, jealous, etc. I love seeing your longer video content on here again!❤️Sending all the good vibes your way✨

  • @micheleg.109
    @micheleg.109 8 месяцев назад

    LOL some people have too much time on their hands! I'm glad you don't let the haters get you down

  • @courtneypuckett7037
    @courtneypuckett7037 8 месяцев назад

    Girl this is why I love and relate to you so much. You are so honest and true to yourself. Keep doing you because you are awesome! 😎 😊

  • @veronicavids
    @veronicavids 2 месяца назад

    I love your short so much I actually subscribed, you are such a great role model and carry major big sister vibes haha 💖

  • @consuelohernandez969
    @consuelohernandez969 6 месяцев назад +1

    Oh no, I’m glad you are keeping your boundaries strong. Keep yourself and kids safe and happy. And thank you for your videos. I’m going through a divorce and can’t definitely relate.

  • @kimberlymerrick3475
    @kimberlymerrick3475 8 месяцев назад

    Your energy is glowing these days and I love that for you! ❤

  • @karinakissell9565
    @karinakissell9565 7 месяцев назад

    Yay! A longer video!
    You are doing great!!❤

  • @ashleygingell2779
    @ashleygingell2779 8 месяцев назад +2

    Dear Mai Zimmy, let me first say Girl you are glowing! You look HAPPY, and I am happy for you! Anyone who is a longtime subscriber and has watched your content can easily spot how unhappy you seemed in videos before divorce, how you were just trying to keep it together to make content. I can certainly spot a much lighter brighter healed and happy woman. You are a GREAT mom to not dangle your children in front of cameras just to create content for others during such difficult and private times. Its the mother that knows best, and when it's best too. VERY creepy that people even question where your children are, as if they are actually concerned and worried for their well being (you know as their primary caregiver is cleaning a whole household and getting groceries in order - trying to create content for these same people all before picking children up) People have many opinions when it's not their lives. You are doing a great job, are a loving mother and I hope you find that smart/kind/caring/loving someone that you deserve in whatever timing it may be. Hope you take care and continue to live your best life!! ❤

  • @SK-ki1te
    @SK-ki1te 4 месяца назад +2

    So proud of you for brushing off the hate comments👏🏻💕👏🏻Sadly it’s a big price to pay for being on YT.

  • @deannparadis1022
    @deannparadis1022 8 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for being honest. I, too, went through a bad experience almost 40 years ago. We all deal with things and life differently. You do you. You are the only one who can make the best decision for you. And it's your decision how to raise your children. Your kids will have the opportunity to cook and clean when they are adults. Maybe it's a different culture. I am half japanese, and our mother did not have us clean the house. We would help. But I remember how hard my mother kept the house clean and prepared our meals. I do the same as a mom and grandmother.

  • @gohelio
    @gohelio 8 месяцев назад

    You have a super healthy & realistic way of looking at things without losing your sense of humor which is amazing to see. I don't have kids but if I ever did I would never post them online so I completely respect that about you. Like you said--live your life the way you want to because it's your life! Everyone should do the same & then maybe people wouldn't be so quick to judge/hate!

  • @lexyscurrent4956
    @lexyscurrent4956 7 месяцев назад +1

    Girl!!! Please do a makeup tutorial! You look so good. This is a flawless makeup look. So put together and effortless at the same time.

  • @mnx7244
    @mnx7244 8 месяцев назад

    You keep doing you!!! Sending positive vibes to you and I love your content. It’s so real and honest so thank you ❤

  • @aug07broken
    @aug07broken 7 месяцев назад

    I love your channel!! I am sure there are a lot of people who do, so keep doing what you’re doing! You are not hurting your kids or yourself and you are so good on youtube! I never once thought you were promoting divorce, that never occurred to me. My favorite video of yours is when u decluttered/cleaned and then went to get dinner/treats and I think you even went to get popcorn at a movie theater, then went home and watched The Secret Life Of Walter Mitty! That was a perfect ending to a busy productive day! Whatever people say, there are people who love u girl! 😊😊

  • @novanorman1091
    @novanorman1091 8 месяцев назад

    You won’t please most of us all the time! You are doing a great job! All this has been a whole new learning curve for you! I admire your take on sharing the boys and how you spend your time w them! Keep up the good mothering!

  • @TheSchmenda
    @TheSchmenda 8 месяцев назад +3

    Mai wearing weights on her wrist while she cleans the kitchen. She will fight y'alls negative asses. 😂

    • @MaiZimmy
      @MaiZimmy  8 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂

  • @RaesOfLight
    @RaesOfLight 6 месяцев назад +1

    I've been subscribed since your videos on what to buy for infants and toddlers. So I'm a lifer for as long as you remain on this platform. I recall a few videos of day-in-the life where your boys were in a video with you briefly. I never once thought, "hmmm, where's your boys? Why aren't they on?" The updates from a distance is just fine with me. I'm on here for you and not your kids. Good job protecting your boys and your peace. I'm cheering you on! And looking forward to the next post!

  • @srobinson4070
    @srobinson4070 6 месяцев назад

    Mai, I love watching your cleaning vlogs, it motivates me to get rid of things which I no longer need. 👏👏👏

  • @suzyr4876
    @suzyr4876 2 месяца назад

    Love your Channel !!!! Love that you loving and embracing life 🎉

  • @lucretia9383
    @lucretia9383 7 месяцев назад +1

    Whenever someone tells me they got divorced, I always say "Congratulations!" Because I too felt relieved and happy when I got divorced.

  • @patriciacaceres3167
    @patriciacaceres3167 8 месяцев назад

    The dogs bark, Sancho, a sign that we are moving forward. A terrific quote from "El Quijote"...YOU GO GIRL. Love from LIma, Peru

  • @katia.luna213
    @katia.luna213 7 месяцев назад

    LMAO!!! I'VE SEEN THAT GROUP!!! 😂😂💜 Wishing you the best, as always. Haters gonna hate, but us bitches appreciate lol!

  • @cassieleefryeklund5623
    @cassieleefryeklund5623 8 месяцев назад

    I am so glad you are happier and doing things that make you and the boys happy

  • @ashoalcraft4404
    @ashoalcraft4404 8 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you for sharing with us. My husband is moving out next week after more than a decade. I've been alone for a long time, too, and am ready to move into my next stage of life. You know yourself and your children better than anyone else and I'm glad you're choosing what's best for you instead of worrying about what some buttfaces in the comments have to say about it.

  • @Math_ilda
    @Math_ilda 8 месяцев назад +1

    Fantastic video again, I always love when you film while discarding things/takeout the trash to feel the house fresh and clutter less again 😊 Something that I always hope to see that can trigger people to be upset it's while discarding clothes that can't be donated. Most people film these declutter off cameras probably for this reason as people will probably be upset unless you show each items and explan why it can't be donated 😅

  • @llps1466
    @llps1466 4 месяца назад +1

    No parent, for safety reasons, should put their kids in a RUclips video! I think you are right!

  • @brittanyfrazier4902
    @brittanyfrazier4902 7 месяцев назад +1

    The crazy thing is the average person who gets divorced they have pretty much checked out of the relationship before the divorce is finalized or even talked about. Shoot you legally have to be separated for a year before you can get separated 😅😅

  • @emilycarnes3400
    @emilycarnes3400 7 месяцев назад

    honestly, you GO girl. believe in yourself

  • @stephanieblackburn9825
    @stephanieblackburn9825 8 месяцев назад +1

    Girl- don't even worry about what the haters have to say! You're doing amazing! I can tell how much happier you are in your life now after the divorce. Just keep doing you because this is YOUR life. You're doing amazing! 🎉😃💖

  • @dabeast7404
    @dabeast7404 8 месяцев назад +1

    Don't worry about those comments. You are a stunningly beautiful woman, and a wonderful mother. Your positivity about everything makes you that much more special! ! You are not a phony!😍😘🥰

  • @musicfan2403
    @musicfan2403 5 месяцев назад +1

    That fairytale bathroom was perfection 🎉

  • @WinterASMR
    @WinterASMR 2 месяца назад

    i’m probably not your usual audience at all but i just want you to know how much your videos here and on tiktok help me🩷 i’m 23, not a mum, live alone, never married BUT i really struggle with mental health a lot and have done for many years. one of the main things that slips for me is keeping my apartment clean, doing dishes etc but when i put on your videos 9 times out of 10 it gives me the push i need to start sorting my life out !!! doing it ‘together’ really helps a lot. your humanity and compassion towards yourself also really helps !! hope u have a great day, love from UK🩷🩷🩷

  • @rachelwatson8916
    @rachelwatson8916 7 месяцев назад +3

    You deserve a happy, healthy marriage with someone who values the relationship as much as you do. Enjoy dating! It is supposed to be fun! You are present with your children when they are in your custody & a loving mother- what you do when they're with their dad is nobody's business but yours! Love your positivity & that you're happy. When you can be happy alone (which you are), I think that's a good sign you're ready to be happy with someone. 😊

  • @belindan4974
    @belindan4974 8 месяцев назад

    💐 You’re an actual inspiration. You’re strong and doing great for yourself and kids, post marriage. I’m sure your boys are gorgeous but glad you don’t “expose” them to the weird world out there. I believe you make the best decisions for them and yourself. I don’t do instagram or other things but RUclips and phasing out FB. I’ll keep up here. 👍🏼 Continue to be safe and patient just the way you have been. Good job, girl. 👏🏼🌺

  • @carolynridlon3988
    @carolynridlon3988 7 месяцев назад

    I've always have preferred your long format videos - shorts make it seem like your rushed & makes me anxious/ rushed also. Glad to see you making the regular videos again!❤

  • @jackandlill
    @jackandlill 8 месяцев назад

    Mai ~ Let me just say - You are a Strong, Beautiful, Genuine, Intelligent, Witty & Warm Woman!! That is what I have gleaned from watching your channel for several years now! I have been motivated by your cleaning, purging & organizing. Inspired by your cute everyday clothing choices that always look great on you! You crack me up w/your self deprecating humor & quick wit! And finally, I find your genuine & honest way refreshing & endearing! So, it's no surprise that your repsonses to these negative & passive aggressive comments was perfection! Your boys are very lucky to have you as a mom!! You keep on rockin' with yo bad self sister! Be Well ❣

  • @torischroeder4211
    @torischroeder4211 8 месяцев назад +2

    I follow your channel because of your persistence towards self improvement and openness about the realities of life. Moral judgements around divorce are absurd. The only people who get a say in the marriage are the people who are married or getting divorced. Im sorry you didnt find your person. I really hope the unoverse smashes you together with your forever person ❤

  • @ashleyrivera1301
    @ashleyrivera1301 7 месяцев назад

    I whole ❤ love you. I already loved your videos, but this made me love them even more. Keep living your most authentic life. Thank you for sharing and for what you do.

  • @erikate5730
    @erikate5730 7 месяцев назад

    Girl, I was told when you have haters then you are doing something right, you made it, you are handling this single mom-going through a divorce better than expected. Keep doing you and delete the block the negative energy off your channel because they want you to react and they want you to explain yourself. Don't let the haters win! You have more important things to talk about like keeping me motivated to clean and organized 😂. Love your style, banter, and energy. Take care.

  • @smorelli1031
    @smorelli1031 8 месяцев назад +1

    Mai don't listen to any of those hateful things. People have nothing better to do and should worry about their life instead of yours. You're doing great and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. ❤

  • @sofiapereira5355
    @sofiapereira5355 7 месяцев назад

    I' m happy that you are happy!!! Keep going! Have fun and laugh!!! Take care!!!

  • @paigemarcantel3943
    @paigemarcantel3943 8 месяцев назад +1

    You don't need to explain your decisions. I just enjoy your videos. You don't owe us anything other than that. I'm sorry there are people out there who love to fault find.

  • @nickieweinman5131
    @nickieweinman5131 8 месяцев назад

    I hope you find someone that makes you happy and can have a great relationship ❤️ that would be a great example for your kids if they see you happy. 😊

  • @ingmariohman8242
    @ingmariohman8242 8 месяцев назад

    You go girl! You have every right to live your life as you choose. I hope I'm the kind of person who would think so even if I didn't agree with you.

  • @rachelhele7827
    @rachelhele7827 7 месяцев назад +2

    I wash my chicken we always have done in my family. It’s a Muslim tradition and now I’m a Christian I still do. Do what you want.

  • @amendark6174
    @amendark6174 6 месяцев назад +2

    as a daughter of divorced parents but they both are remarried at this point. i like what my dad did with his girlfriends he had. he had to be dating for someone between 3-6 months before he introduced us. and before anyone says its because he was the man, he was a single father and my mom wasnt in the picture.

    • @MaiZimmy
      @MaiZimmy  6 месяцев назад +1

      Love that he waited!! I’m actually waiting a year with my boys cause I want to be so so so sure :)

    • @amendark6174
      @amendark6174 6 месяцев назад

      @@MaiZimmyhis fiancée and him have been together since 2006, it was a different time lol

  • @abbyechols3797
    @abbyechols3797 8 месяцев назад +1

    We love you queen!!!

  • @marybarton9792
    @marybarton9792 8 месяцев назад

    Your a great Mom, you just keep doing you. 💜

  • @BrwnEydGrl878
    @BrwnEydGrl878 8 месяцев назад

    Ahhhh I’ve missed your channel! Welcome back! So I didn’t get divorced but I was with my oldest son’s father for 6 years. I think I started dating like a month later but I had known the relationship was over for like 3 years. I sort of fell into the trap of sticking around for my son until I realized that we were giving him a toxic environment to grow up in. So we broke up and 4 months later I met the love of my life and we’re married now and my son adores my husband and he lives with us and is growing up in an environment where he can see what love is supposed to look like. I feel like as long as you feel mentally ready and you’ve let go of the past relationship, there’s nothing wrong with dating soon after you’ve ended the relationship. Either way, it’s no one’s business. I was also a “married single mom” so I totally feel you on that.

  • @kimberlyanahi5860
    @kimberlyanahi5860 8 месяцев назад

    I found you through shorts and really connect with you! there's surprisingly a lot of conservative judgemental people I'm glad you know to ignore them and live your life as it's best for you and your babies! ❤

  • @hannahjames5400
    @hannahjames5400 8 месяцев назад

    Heyyy Mai, I relate sooo much on having a longer torso, makes shopping very frusrating! I get my jumpsuits from Old Navy and they fit pretty good!

  • @serenevalor
    @serenevalor 5 месяцев назад +1

    Girl, this is crazy. I always seen you as someone successful, beautiful, and collected. These mean commenters are doing nothing but projecting their own insecurities.
    All the rude comments you addressed in the video are childish, and if we were to psyco-analyze them, we would find that these commenters have a lot of self-hate or personal dilemmas that they are taking out on you.
    Good on you for ignoring them and leading your own life. You know what's best for you and your family, and if you need advice, you'll ask (plus, I'm sure you've got real life people you trust more for advice!).
    Myself and other subscribers are always rooting for you. The negitive commenters literally don't even matter.
    Sending lots of love, from my family to yours! ❤

  • @Erica-wz8yv
    @Erica-wz8yv 8 месяцев назад +5

    I relate a lot to what you say as far as being in a marriage with someone who wasn’t acting married to me. This was my exact situation. I am in the process of divorcing him now. I would love to eventually date once everything is finalized but I’m worried how men will perceive me as a mom of 2. I guess I just don’t want to be judged negatively.

  • @tinaroberts135
    @tinaroberts135 8 месяцев назад

    I love your RUclips videos talking about life and going shopping. I love your honest opinion about clothes. I am wondering which stuff you actually got at this target trip!

  • @noraperez5616
    @noraperez5616 7 месяцев назад

    At 65 and with a lot of experience I can honestly say that I agree with you %100 on everything you’ve said on this video

  • @user-sw3np7je1c
    @user-sw3np7je1c 8 месяцев назад

    Being sick of them and leaving. 😂😂😂. Hilarious! Ignore those idiots and you live your best life ❤.

  • @joalyng
    @joalyng 8 месяцев назад +1

    100% agree shame the cheaters not the single moms!

  • @aliciab77
    @aliciab77 8 месяцев назад

    Keep doing you... you are rockin it ❤

  • @tonilund9871
    @tonilund9871 8 месяцев назад

    More long videos! Yours are really good and I love them!

  • @MissKrisss
    @MissKrisss 7 месяцев назад

    I want those jeans !

  • @Chrisplainjane
    @Chrisplainjane 7 месяцев назад

    I’m sorry you have had unnecessary rude comments. You do you! ❤