Thanks for sharing this. been there and done that several times yep. yep and i think that sometimes that those scars just wont heal. theres some that ill carry to my grave.
Thank you brother. It is sad so many men get hurt along with many women get hurt by men. It’s very hard to give someone your everything and get taken advantage of. My 20 year old son wants nothing to do with marriage after witnessing what his mother has done. He said that he doesn’t want to give half of everything that he has earned to a girl who decides that after a few years that she wants someone else.
HI MONTY. So glad you are doing these videos. A shame you went thru this horrible portion of your life. Possibly your suffering led you to your new wife and daughter.May GOD BLESS YOU and FAMILY CIAO
Thank you for sharing your story, Monty. I’m sure it was literally hell going through it and also working a grueling schedule. Consider yourself a survivor of a traumatic divorce. I had a friend who went through something similar at age 42 and ended his life. I’m happy you survived. Take care.
Great content Monte! Please keep sharing your life story. If you do lots of videos Faith can show them to her kids and tell lots of stories about Lolo Monte.
Hi Monty, you looked good & energetic! Your life is getting better each day! Always look positive even though sometimes it’s not. Believed that God is with you all this time because you have a good heart, a good provider, loving husband & father!! Don’t give up !! Life is too good & make the most of it! Prayers always for you. Argyle sure is a lucky lady!! Tc
I can relate to your story, Monty. I was also cheated by my (Filipina) wife and when I divorced her I lost my house in the Philippines. Fortunately I had made her sign a prenup which stipulated that she could not get any of my Belgian assets. So it was a cheap divorce on the Belgian side, but my house in the Philippines is hers now.
You are the best Monty, you are always so considerate and kind. Divorce is not easy and your journey although so very difficult, you made it. Your ex-wife was a force of evil and I ask if she was an American. Your son is probably just like you and your concern for him justified. Your son is worried about his mom and although she is not deserving, he will probably continue to hold her close to his heart. Hopefully he will have the upper hand by creating boundaries with her. Would he have an interest in moving to the Philippines. I always wish you and your loved ones well and hope your heart remains full of love and respect for people and life.
Thank you so much, Valerie. I am very happy with the new chapter of my life. She was from Honduras Spanish girl. I brought my son to the Philippinesand he’s spent the summer here. He doesn’t like it over here. Hopefully he will be smart enough to set those boundaries and be tough with her. 💛
As a divorced man myself I'm glad I didn't have to go through what you did,Monty. Once was enough for me though and I have no plans to get married again. Hopefully, one day our ex wives will realize how lucky they were. 🌴
Monty always good to see you and hear from you. My heart goes out to you on this what you shared. The bright spot is that you were blessed with a wonderful son. I look forward to hearing from you again soon. Take care and enjoy the wonderful family you have now.
Sorry to hear about what you , your son and step daughter went through living with such a wife before and after you divorced her. Good triumph over evil. Thank God for finally now, having a wife that truly loves you.
Been there done that two times got the t-shirts. Lucky for me I didn't have to go through all that you went through. I did end up on the winning end of the first divorce but had to wait a few years and the lawyer let her get away with paying less. I call him and said wtf is that and he just said it was the best I could do. Can't trust ex's or lawyers. Maybe I am better off single. Glad you have a good one Monty.
I had a girlfriend many years ago that had “The Jezebel Spirit”. She hid it for as long as she could. We were off and on for 5 years. Most times she would come crawling back putting on a good show crying things like “I need you in my life”. Looking back, I don’t know why she kept coming back. (Or why I had any faith in her after what had transpired). I just kept thinking that “she’s got to grow up some time. It never happened and I finally moved on. Praise God almighty it didn’t get more entangled than that. That was plenty enough.
I actually listened to the very end. A truly captivating life story. You're a good guy, hardworking, and sometimes people like that are taken advantage of or face greater challenges in life - speaking from experience. But there are moments when things improve, and the sun begins to shine on our lives. It may or may not last, as the sun sets or hides behind a cloud, casting shadows upon us, but we have no control over it. I wish you the best of health in the years to come, and may the sun brighten your days for as long as possible. If I ever come to the Philippines, I'd love to meet you in person. Greetings from Poland. o7
Yep been there done that! Funny how people think all weman think about their kids first/( think again ). The kids know who the decent accountable person was ( i like to think my daughter does!!) Looks like you made the right move to the Philippines!! Enjoy the rest of your life Monty. With out regret i might add 👍
After watching this video ,a song by Jimmy buffet called (bannanna republics)reminds me of the expats and the locals to a exact description there and in other tropical countries to escape their lives .
6 grand a month she should move to the Philippines she would be a star you are one of the good guys big brother your experienced life helps a lot of people
Hi Monty, life sure does have some difficult moments, but look at the life you have now with your devoted wife and amazing children. God has blessed you. Chris in Australia.
@@crewfamilyphilippines Yes, you have a beautiful wife, lovely daughter and living in paradise! I'll be there soon...sometime around the end of June. I have to collect my Grace first in Bacolod.
Im a licensed therapist with a master's degree in Psychology specializing in Addiction Behavior and Childhood Development. One issue with Bipolar is a person has a uncontrollable need to put themselves in a High Risk Situation. There is High and Lows in Behavior that a person has to seek out abnormal behavior and actions. Your Wife did not cheat on you based on Sex but it was her need to seek out unhealthy behavior. Some people go out looking for a fight or put themselves in a situation that could be dangerous like drinking in a biker bar or picking up a hooker in a bad neighborhood... someone who has bipolar are not acting out based on something a partner does and they need attention more than a average person. This is not a issue of you being a bad husband or she was a bad wife. You both were in a relationship that is very hard to deal with and there was too many outside sources that affected this relationship
Hi Monty theirs no one more devious than an adulterer pure poison my friend every single sin is found in their heart but it usually doesn’t end well it’s like building a house on sinking sand ‘ I’m so happy for you now living in beautiful Philippines with your amazing wife and your beautiful little daughter and I’ve been watching your channel for sometime now you are a good person and I believe you are a very respected friend to all who knows you Don’t look back brother 🕊️
Thank you very much, Margaret. I know I see all your comments and we really really appreciate it. I am very happy with my little family here 😊 I hope all is well with you 💛
@@crewfamilyphilippines thank you Monty all is not to bad Bro although a little lonely at times living on my own but I have the good lord and I trust him for my future if he wants me to be with someone I’m sure it will be the right person but if not I accept that as well sending blessings to you and your family from the uk 🇬🇧
I'm just curious. I was checking your transcript. I don't think you mentioned the medication she took but I never tried it but I know people who have ecstasy. Maybe it's ecstasy that they gave her. Anyway, you would think maybe she should have only took half the pill or something. Anyway, I love your channel. Thanks for the update. You look great! So glad you're doing better. We need more RUclips content from you buddy LOL
I went thro a painful divorce it was pitiful I lost every thing had house ful of furniture spent a night in jail and lost my 2 kids. My sin has not talked to me in over 30 years or more thank God my daughter talks to me
Sad story but you came out good, I have a few stories I’ve never shared but that’s my choice but I have told parts to a couple guys who said I should write a book about my life ha ha but overall I’ve learned not to sweat anything and just keep on doing me ha ha
Yeah, I’m a grown man. I can handle it. I do feel very sad for my son. One way or another he will have to be with her for life in order for her to survive
@crewfamilyphilippines my motto to every man in America is Western women are trash created by weak men. Get yourself an Eastern trad wife. Particularly a good provincial Filipina.
Thanks for sharing this. been there and done that several times yep. yep and i think that sometimes that those scars just wont heal. theres some that ill carry to my grave.
Thank you very much for watching 😊
I agree with you 100%
Thank you for sharing Monty. You're a true warrior. Keep it up.
Thank you very much for watching Frank 😊
Wow! I mean WOW! All i can tell you Monty is, THANK GOD FOR THE PHILIPPINES!!!
Amen brother. Thank God for Aragel Mike 😊
@@crewfamilyphilippines Thank GOD for Aragel!!! (Even when she's tampo)❤
@@michaelwuji1758 that’s very true Mike 🤣
Appreciate your story. Can relate. So many good men have been treated so badly by Western women. B;essings to you and your family, Monty.
Thank you brother. It is sad so many men get hurt along with many women get hurt by men. It’s very hard to give someone your everything and get taken advantage of. My 20 year old son wants nothing to do with marriage after witnessing what his mother has done. He said that he doesn’t want to give half of everything that he has earned to a girl who decides that after a few years that she wants someone else.
It can happen any kind of women. Filipinas too and very often. Better to remain single
HI MONTY. So glad you are doing these videos.
A shame you went thru this horrible portion of your life.
Possibly your suffering led you to your new wife and daughter.May GOD BLESS YOU and FAMILY CIAO
Yes, whatever it is. I’m very happy now, brother. 😊
Thank you for sharing your story, Monty. I’m sure it was literally hell going through it and also working a grueling schedule. Consider yourself a survivor of a traumatic divorce. I had a friend who went through something similar at age 42 and ended his life. I’m happy you survived. Take care.
Yes, I wasn’t gonna let her take me out too. I have told many of my friends Tom that no woman is worth hurting her or hurting herself ☹️
@@crewfamilyphilippines I agree, Monty. I think when children are involved, sometimes rational, thinking goes out the window with it.
Wow…you’re a man with a big heart to still treat her the way you did. Sorry you had to go through all this. Be strong.
Thank you Bob. I love the new chapter of my life with my little family here in the Philippines 😊
Wow! This is a story you are so lucky to be alive may the remainder of your life be happy and healthy best wishes for you
Yes, Chris I love the new chapter of my life now 😊
Great content Monte! Please keep sharing your life story. If you do lots of videos Faith can show them to her kids and tell lots of stories about Lolo Monte.
Yes, sir that’s the idea, brother 😊💛
Hi Monty, you looked good & energetic! Your life is getting better each day! Always look positive even though sometimes it’s not. Believed that God is with you all this time because you have a good heart, a good provider, loving husband & father!! Don’t give up !! Life is too good & make the most of it! Prayers always for you. Argyle sure is a lucky lady!! Tc
Thanks so much 💛
Life is full of challenges. We just have to face it bravely. Do what is right, not what is easy. Life is a lot like jazz…it’s best when you improvise.
Yes, Sophia, I’m remarried now. I’m very very happy. 😊
Never a dull moment, eh Monty?
God Bless you, brother 🙏
Hang in there!
Yes, thank goodness. I’m on the next chapter of my life with my wonderful family. God bless you as well Lane. 😊
I can relate to your story, Monty. I was also cheated by my (Filipina) wife and when I divorced her I lost my house in the Philippines. Fortunately I had made her sign a prenup which stipulated that she could not get any of my Belgian assets. So it was a cheap divorce on the Belgian side, but my house in the Philippines is hers now.
Good move. The house may be a bargain since she can't (easily) say she wound up worse off and claim you used her.
I’m very sorry to hear that, brother. ☹️
Smart move with the prenup!
You are the best Monty, you are always so considerate and kind. Divorce is not easy and your journey although so very difficult, you made it. Your ex-wife was a force of evil and I ask if she was an American. Your son is probably just like you and your concern for him justified. Your son is worried about his mom and although she is not deserving, he will probably continue to hold her close to his heart. Hopefully he will have the upper hand by creating boundaries with her. Would he have an interest in moving to the Philippines. I always wish you and your loved ones well and hope your heart remains full of love and respect for people and life.
Thank you so much, Valerie. I am very happy with the new chapter of my life. She was from Honduras Spanish girl. I brought my son to the Philippinesand he’s spent the summer here. He doesn’t like it over here. Hopefully he will be smart enough to set those boundaries and be tough with her. 💛
As a divorced man myself I'm glad I didn't have to go through what you did,Monty. Once was enough for me though and I have no plans to get married again. Hopefully, one day our ex wives will realize how lucky they were. 🌴
It won't matter because there are a lot of simps and clowns that are thirsty for sex and willing to replace you 😢
Yes, but I surely don’t want them back 🤣😂
Monty always good to see you and hear from you. My heart goes out to you on this what you shared. The bright spot is that you were blessed with a wonderful son. I look forward to hearing from you again soon. Take care and enjoy the wonderful family you have now.
Yes, I thank the Lord every day for my wonderful family 💛
Sorry to hear about what you , your son and step daughter went through living with such a wife before and after you divorced her. Good triumph over evil. Thank God for finally now, having a wife that truly loves you.
Yes, I wake up every day and thank the Lord for my wonderful little family here 💛
Lessons to take away from, hardest is to know the other person. Thank you for sharing Monty ;
Thank you so much for watching Ted 😊
What a sorry time. Hope you've found some peace and if not happiness, at least contentment. Good luck to you sir.
Thank you very much, Michael. I am very much at peace. I am very happy with my little family here. 😊
Been there done that two times got the t-shirts. Lucky for me I didn't have to go through all that you went through. I did end up on the winning end of the first divorce but had to wait a few years and the lawyer let her get away with paying less. I call him and said wtf is that and he just said it was the best I could do. Can't trust ex's or lawyers. Maybe I am better off single. Glad you have a good one Monty.
Yes, I’m much happier with the new chapter of my life Brian
I had a girlfriend many years ago that had “The Jezebel Spirit”. She hid it for as long as she could. We were off and on for 5 years. Most times she would come crawling back putting on a good show crying things like “I need you in my life”.
Looking back, I don’t know why she kept coming back. (Or why I had any faith in her after what had transpired). I just kept thinking that “she’s got to grow up some time.
It never happened and I finally moved on. Praise God almighty it didn’t get more entangled than that. That was plenty enough.
I understand. God bless you
Well, I’m glad you got out of that and got on with a new chapter in your life, brother 😊
I am so thankful GOD gave me a wonderful woman to be my wife.
That is fantastic. I’m very happy for you. God bless you and her.
I actually listened to the very end. A truly captivating life story. You're a good guy, hardworking, and sometimes people like that are taken advantage of or face greater challenges in life - speaking from experience. But there are moments when things improve, and the sun begins to shine on our lives. It may or may not last, as the sun sets or hides behind a cloud, casting shadows upon us, but we have no control over it. I wish you the best of health in the years to come, and may the sun brighten your days for as long as possible. If I ever come to the Philippines, I'd love to meet you in person. Greetings from Poland. o7
Thank you very much, brother. I actually met a guy yesterday from Warsaw Poland 😊 I’m very happy with the new chapter of my life.
Yep been there done that! Funny how people think all weman think about their kids first/( think again ). The kids know who the decent accountable person was ( i like to think my daughter does!!) Looks like you made the right move to the Philippines!! Enjoy the rest of your life Monty. With out regret i might add 👍
Yes, I love my little wonderful family here. I love my awesome son, so everything was worth it. 😊
After watching this video ,a song by Jimmy buffet called (bannanna republics)reminds me of the expats and the locals to a exact description there and in other tropical countries to escape their lives .
Yes, Steve I am very happy with my little family here in the Philippines. I don’t have any issues here
Great video and a nightmare story. Good thing you got away from her.
Yes, I’m very happy with the new chapter in my life Joe
Thank you for sharing your story 🌱
Thank you for watching red
96/100 Prayers Monty
Thank you Flip 💛
6 grand a month she should move to the Philippines she would be a star you are one of the good guys big brother your experienced life helps a lot of people
🤣 she would move back to Honduras. But my son wouldn’t go.
Great blog Monty you look sharp buddy ❤❤
Thank you very much for watching Mike 😊
Hi Monty, life sure does have some difficult moments, but look at the life you have now with your devoted wife and amazing children. God has blessed you. Chris in Australia.
Thank you very much for watching Chris. Yes I have a wonderful wife and daughter my amazing little family 💛
Thanks for sharing , everyone has to be carful .
Yes, we do but thank goodness. I have a wonderful wife and daughter now great new chapter of my life.
Holy shit, Monty...like the late great Kevin Samuels said "you can't make this shit up"!
Yes, Dean life can be crazy. I’m glad that chapter closed and I’m on a much better one 😊
@@crewfamilyphilippines Yes, you have a beautiful wife, lovely daughter and living in paradise! I'll be there soon...sometime around the end of June. I have to collect my Grace first in Bacolod.
Im a licensed therapist with a master's degree in Psychology specializing in Addiction Behavior and Childhood Development. One issue with Bipolar is a person has a uncontrollable need to put themselves in a High Risk Situation. There is High and Lows in Behavior that a person has to seek out abnormal behavior and actions. Your Wife did not cheat on you based on Sex but it was her need to seek out unhealthy behavior. Some people go out looking for a fight or put themselves in a situation that could be dangerous like drinking in a biker bar or picking up a hooker in a bad neighborhood... someone who has bipolar are not acting out based on something a partner does and they need attention more than a average person. This is not a issue of you being a bad husband or she was a bad wife. You both were in a relationship that is very hard to deal with and there was too many outside sources that affected this relationship
That’s far behind me now 14 years. I have a wonderful wife now. I learned from my mistake. Thank you for your great thoughtful input.
Great video Monty. Thanks for sharing
Thank you very much for watching David 😊
Hi Monty theirs no one more devious than an adulterer pure poison my friend every single sin is found in their heart but it usually doesn’t end well it’s like building a house on sinking sand ‘ I’m so happy for you now living in beautiful Philippines with your amazing wife and your beautiful little daughter and I’ve been watching your channel for sometime now you are a good person and I believe you are a very respected friend to all who knows you Don’t look back brother 🕊️
Thank you very much, Margaret. I know I see all your comments and we really really appreciate it. I am very happy with my little family here 😊 I hope all is well with you 💛
@@crewfamilyphilippines thank you Monty all is not to bad Bro although a little lonely at times living on my own but I have the good lord and I trust him for my future if he wants me to be with someone I’m sure it will be the right person but if not I accept that as well sending blessings to you and your family from the uk 🇬🇧
@@margarettownsley9500 God bless you and thank you. You seem like a very sweet person.
What a horrendous story, Monty. I've been divorced, but it was nowhere as bad as what you experienced.
Thank you, Noah. I think we all have some type of stories of something we would like to forget. I am very happy with the new chapter of my life
Wow…. I glad you’re in the Philippines away from the Matrix ….. 😊
I definitely am too, Marc 😊
Always good to see you Monty
Thank you Badger 😊
You'll always have my full support/Ned✌✌
Thank you very much Ned
Thanks for sharing.
@@orvillelb thank you for watching Orville 😊 how is your trip home going?
Howdy Monty 🤠👋 🏃♂🏃♂Beware 0F the craZy onez 🌩⚡
That’s true, Ray
I'm just curious. I was checking your transcript. I don't think you mentioned the medication she took but I never tried it but I know people who have ecstasy. Maybe it's ecstasy that they gave her. Anyway, you would think maybe she should have only took half the pill or something. Anyway, I love your channel. Thanks for the update. You look great! So glad you're doing better. We need more RUclips content from you buddy LOL
I can barely remember what happened yesterday. That was about 13 years ago 😊 thank you very much for watching 😊
Great video like always Monty
Thank you very much, Zachary 😊
Such a good man 😮
Thank you, Ken 😊
Like I said, you're a good man😊
Thank you, Stuart 😊
Monty you're a good man, you and family desert the best. God Bless.
Yes, I’m very happy with the new chapter of my life now
Interesting video.
Was she a Filipina?
No Spanish William 😊
Thank you for sharing Monty. Where your ex wife from? your were talking about her green card.
No she had her green card before I met her. She was from Honduras
God bless your strength mate
Thank you very much, Luke 😊
I went thro a painful divorce it was pitiful I lost every thing had house ful of furniture spent a night in jail and lost my 2 kids. My sin has not talked to me in over 30 years or more thank God my daughter talks to me
Good Lord, what a nightmare you went through. I’m sorry to hear that Dennis
Lots of undiagnosed bipolar women out there.
Unfortunately, that’s very true ☹️
Hey Monty..Is your gmail working.. I sent you a few messages.. not sure your receiving them.. let me know.. thanks Monty.. Ralph in Orlando.
montycrew@gmail.com
I thought i was alone in shit like this. Thanks Monty
🤣 nope there are plenty of us Martine
Oh man, this is worst than a korean drame 😱. The sad thing is children get caught in the trap.
👍🏻
Sad story but you came out good, I have a few stories I’ve never shared but that’s my choice but I have told parts to a couple guys who said I should write a book about my life ha ha but overall I’ve learned not to sweat anything and just keep on doing me ha ha
Yes, on the same Rich there is a part of my life that I do not discuss online. Yeah, a few of my buddies said the same thing, write a book 😊
You had a lot of bad experiences in life. Good you found your way to the Philippines and happiness
Amen Mike 🙏🏻 thank you very much for watching brother
It's not your problem if she blows all her money and can't support herself anymore. She divorced yoy and remarried. It's his problem now.
That’s very true Bill
Good Morning, Luv The Shirt.
Thank you guys so much for watching 😊
Well monty sometimes the sayings true the prettier the kitty the sharper tye claws
That’s true 😊
Sorry, Monte.
I stayed single for 12 years because of this divorce before I married Aragel my wife
I feel sorry for you and especially your son.
Yeah, I’m a grown man. I can handle it. I do feel very sad for my son. One way or another he will have to be with her for life in order for her to survive
Never get involved with a single mom. The odds are stacked against you and it's a thankless job to be a stepdad.
Yes, that definitely was my experience Stan
Sucks man but your good now relationship wise anyway
Yes, I love the new chapter of my life
Moral of the story...don't get married and be a glutton for punishment.
That’s true but I found a good wife now
Thank you for sharing your journey 👍
Thank you very much for watching Mike
Good story
Thank you 😊
Wow😢
thank you so much for watching 😊
Hahaha 😆 😂 she's nuts, bro 😊
@@stuartcraigan7287 👍🏻
Mental issues with bipolar? Dude, I would have been out of there so fast! Who needs the hassle at an old age.🏃➡️
She is my ex-wife not my current wife. That was about 14 years ago
Boy got the Hot Wheels strap😂😂😂!
😊
From india love u bro
Thank you 💛
You exwife was not from the US?
is your ex-wife filipina?
No, she was from Honduras originally, but I met her in the USA
Only in FLorida
😂 true
Guy talking about his ex wife experience. He’s currently remarried. Confusing title.
👍🏻
Sorry man
It’s all good Matt. I’m very happy now with my new wife. 😊
@@crewfamilyphilippines I’m glad you get some happiness
SAD. Unfortunately I can relate.
Yes, unfortunately, many of us can ☹️
Moral of the story, don't date a single mother. In other words, don't be a white knight, simp, good guy.
👍🏻
What happened?
Exactly what the video said Emily
🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
@@aarendal ❤️
@@crewfamilyphilippines yap, I was so concerned that I asked right away. So saad.
@@emilywilliams5362 no I pray that everything will go good with our current marriage, we are very happy together and at peace
hi ...thank you long time sub ,,,,,,,sounds to familiar,,,, unlike you i rip up the petition for the green card ,,,,,,the best $5000 i pissed away
Thank you very much, Joseph. I totally understand, brother 😊
You shouldn't buy the cow when you can get the milk cheap
@@c.b.-11 okay I’m married to a Filipina now. I’m happy
Money will do strange things to a woman. But judgement day is coming for my ex wife you put me away for a man with power and money
👍🏻
96/101
maybe your son could join air force thats a easy way out
👍🏻
Hmmmmm 🤔
do you remember the meds she took? 😁🤣
I don’t remember what happened yesterday 😂🤣
@@crewfamilyphilippines 😁😁
I think she doesn’t love ❤️ you she love your money and your country and Philippines country is poor 😮😮😮😮
@@sonamdolma6481 you’re wrong, sorry
Meh.... you got off easy compared to me. Each one of my 3 ex wives did me 10x's as dirty. Count your blessings. It could've been much worse.
Yes, that’s true I like the new chapter of my life now 😊
@crewfamilyphilippines my motto to every man in America is Western women are trash created by weak men. Get yourself an Eastern trad wife. Particularly a good provincial Filipina.
Wassup with all the drama with American Expats in the Philippines. The same thing happened with the Armstrong Family vlogger. Divorced.
Well, I got divorced from my Spanish ex-wife 12 years before I came to the Philippines. That’s what the video is about.