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As a INFJ I very much appreciate this video. However it’s not that we want to be right... it’s that we attempt to avoid being wrong... thus we are routinely intellectually cautious and yet under the right circumstances sometimes rather recklessly deliberately making mistakes in order to facilitate understanding more quickly. So long as the mistakes are affordable and not dangerous. We are perfectionists but we don’t want to be or believe that we are the smartest person in the room. Our intuition gives us a nonlinear cognitive function... and many people who lack a functioning intuition want our intuition to be a emotional reaction and irrational behavior rather than a logical cognitive function... As many people often claim that their emotional desire and emotional reactions and emotional wants are “intuition”... that’s not what intuition is... but it’s a common method of human behavior and human nature to claim that their “intuition” caused them to act thusly or whatever... So when some people recognize our nonlinear logical cognitive function and label it with whatever words that they are comfortable with using... Psychic, mind reader and so on and so forth... We have to interpret their beliefs and agendas into our thoughts and thinking. When they recognize our intelligence it enables us to facilitate their skills, abilities, knowledge and intelligence into the groups interests and objectives. Just as when people want us too fail for whatever reason... they are usually massively disappointed with their agendas and actions because they never recognized us for who we are and what we were actually doing and how we were actually going about it. We don’t want to be the strongest link in the chain... we want to support the weakest link in order to strengthen the chain. Everyone is important and everyone has value.
Yeah, that perfection thing got me too. I don't see myself as a perfectionist, I know I'm not. I just try to make as few mistakes as possible to accomplish the goal. I appreciate your explanation of the misconception.
1. small talk is not their things 2. socially awkward 3. cautious with what they say 4. tends to have very limited friends 5. lack of fun type of 6. boredome is everyday game 7. the burden of expectations 8. brutal honesty.. ure welcome
I generally sway away from calling myself intelligent, even when those around me disagree, mostly because I view intelligence as something that is relative and fluid, so I sometimes think that the information that I have now and the way I process things now may change, and compared to other people, simply because they may process things either faster, or slower does not mean that they are more, or less intelligent.
I agree with your assessment; I would also like to add that TRUE intelligence is not based on your ability to acquire new knowledge, it's based on your ability to question that which you already know.
Processing speed is factor but I would say that a better indicator is the resolution at which a mind can comprehend information. Stupid people have difficulty seeing nuance in reality. Smart people seem to grasp the subtle texture of aspects of existence that most people don't perceive.
There is a saying. Consider the source! Most people that consider me really smart, I've concluded are simply ignorant of the value various forms of knowledge provides. The majority of people believe once you graduate from whatever your highest level of education maybe, for some reason they don't need to learn anymore. It makes me cringe when someone tells me I'm one of the smartest people they know, when there is so much in the world one could know.
Many believe I am complicating things because I look at any issue or subject from every possible angle, analyze it and come to a conclusion while they are seeing only one part of the issue and get consumed in a single perspective.
true infj according to Carl Jung MBTI test... There is a difference between having a selective group of friends and not having no social skills or having awkward social skills. INFJ figure out how to be sociable which is why they are highly intelligent. They are confident so having small or deep conversations is easy for them. They read people so they know what they can talk about...because they know to be successful in life, you need to have good social skills. They figure out how to develop intuitive social skills and thus tend to be popular and successful in work and social settings. They are never bored because they have a rich creative internal life filled with art. so if you are an introvert who considers themselves socially awkward or unable to talk to humans...then you are not an INFJ
I think objective intelligence should be measured according to who is the most well-rounded in not just #Thinking intelligence (IQ)... BUT also intelligent in #Feeling (EQ: Emotional Quotient), #Sensing (SQ: Sensory Quotient) and #Intuition (iQ: Intuitive Quotient)... l don't think one can measure ALL intelligence based on ONE quotient: Thinking (IQ: Intellectual Quotient). But what do l know, l'm just an INFJ 🤣
I AGREE!! Also, I have a theory that IQ is like only a measure of general intelligence of a certain individual. But if we were to play close attention to what they're good that, which is among the 9 other types of intelligences like Musical Intelligence and Kinesthetic Intelligence I think they will only measure one of these specific ones. Like Mozart, he has high musical intelligence but not Natural Intelligence.
@@z.e....3175 Uhh... IQ points _are_ actually measuring g-factor "general intelligence factor", so you dont need to theorize it doing that, because it already does it. But g-factor strongly correlates with all intelligences.
Where's my more extraverted INFJ soulmate at? You're the only one that will understand me, and be able to help push me to be more grounded. I promise we will learn to fix the world together and have so much fun doing it 🥰
I found mine Brandon. Only woman that’s ever understood me. Met her nearly 2 years ago and now we’re very happily married. So there’s hope my friend. Please Never give up hope mate. Our other halves are out there. Just got to be patient brother x
@@Joemozza1234 oh, man, thank you so much for sharing that beautiful piece of news. It's so important you find someone you can be your true self with without any fears. I'm not worried, I'll find her eventually. I just get so excited thinking about all the laughs and smiles that haven't even happened yet. Continue to strengthen your marriage and your love, and keep living a good life b 💪♥️
Perhaps your only an INFJ who grew up in the environment you did. I was labeled with a neurodevelopmental order ADHD. For decades is was my intuitions glass ceiling for truly understanding myself. Finding MBTI located a master key to simultaneously open countless mental barriers at once. While doctors said I can only see myself through some obscured glass window, something wrong with you, the world needs you different more extroverted…. Take two of these and call me in the morning give me time to not care about your understanding of yourself and everything you think, feel, and are. I was a mislead kid labeled HSP with ADHD trapped unaware in an intangible cocoon I didn’t create. Instantly when this pattern was exposed I meteorically awoken metamorphosing beyond my all preconceived notion’s implanted by people in a position a trust. Becoming what I have always unknowingly been an INFJ -A Super Empath. INFJ defines me with uncanny level s of accuracy previously unbelievable to me could ever exist. I was found, and findable. A breath of fresh air to find out I’m not as different as I’m aware I am. Hope this was helpful in some way.
I think the criteria for labeling someone “autistic” has perhaps widened too far and swept up many who simply have an INFJ personality (which most of the “world” doesn’t understand, so they’ve decided such rare people MUST be “neurodivergent.” 🙄)
Yep and When all the research is completed the truth will be revealed and the spectrum will encompass the population of the world and we all got our own individual character hue wedge!
I'm 70 years old and I have yet to meet anyone who understands or appreciates me as an INFJ. For all of my life, I have been misunderstood and socially unaccepted, especially with women.
I appreciate and agree with most of the topics, but not necessarily with the conclusions. Like enjoyment, I personally find great enjoyment in successfully completing my goals, which are both long term and short term. Making friends, what really! The conclusion seems to forget we are not one of those people that need people, introverted. Being introverted makes being alone especially after interacting with other people like heaven on earth. Thinking so much, about every interaction, circumstance or situation is an intellectual process that elevates our mindset. It isn't a burden which seems to be the implication. I can only speak for myself, but finding out I was an INFJ, 4 years ago was a blessing. I knew I was different and tended to be more well read than most people (even in the workplace) and I often wondered why people seemed to be so willfully ignorant in general. Learning I was an INFJ also gave me understanding why Spock in the Star Trek series was always my favorite character. LIVE LONG AND PROSPER.
Most highly intelligent people realize there is much they don't know. The folks that think they know it all, are generally not as smart as think they are ;)
Sometimes feeling like a contradiction downward spiral… then you see how you fell into it and learn something… finding my tribe is an ongoing thing… these videos well explained & don’t feel as alone… INFJ-A
Intelligent? Hmm... No. Different? Definitely. 😂 I'm fine with that. Atleast I have an identity unique to myself that sets me apart from the crowd. I can definitely say, I am me, with confidence.
This has made me realize that thinking that one of one's self as highly intelligent could be a sign that they are highly self-centered. Especially if they see people as 'lesser' than themselves. This could be the root of their problem. We are all of equal value, just in different ways.
Dude, that was straight to the point... something just ran over me right now... Oof This was the closest analysis someone made about me, should i be concerned?
If my result is correct (tested twice as INFJ) I’m not sure we’re that obsessed with overtly “winning” as you say. Whilst we like winning we’re not cocky, loud or abrupt with it. Unless my reading / listening of this is wrong….?
I don't ever really care about winning, but I do find myself competing with myself, not others. Nomatter what I do, I seem to think it can be better and approach things as such.
Again i live in solitude for 2 years, this time. I struggle a lot in life because there is no one i can talk to about infj empaths. It's like that it don't exist .
There is no such thing as "the smartest" intelligence vary from person to person.. only small minds say that there is such a thing as "the smartest" when really everything in this world is based on intelligence..
You do know that no INFJ will ever consider her or himself smart, it's not in our being because there is always more to know, learn and analyze. It's those around us that will consider us smart or very intelligent.
i do relate all of these but i can't say im highly intelligent infj. i but right now, i can say, im below average maybe because of anxiety, depression in life.
To what extent are we really just a collection of opinions or ideas of others, in other words is this authentically "me" or what other’s opinions I attach or identify with. In that regard intelligence is just what has been learned from others
Yes and no, using that logic, every person is just a collection of ideas/information from the past/other people. You true self is the way your subconscious acts, you can't avoid being an INFJ, you can't avoid the need of helping others, right?.. That's your "true self" Obviously we can label genetics and personality as just the evolution/diversity of human behavior, but yeah I think you get what I'm trying to say :)
Creativity creates, and if something is created it did not exist previously. If it were so there would be no innovations, from the wheel to the printing press. Just by connecting existing ideas, or using what exists diffrently, something new is being created. The self can also be created, but it is true that perhaps it is a limited space in the whole that makes us what we are.
I also feel this way since we are often called chameleons. I wonder sometimes which part is actually me since most of how I interact with the world is a result of what I've been able to absorb from everything around me. So who am I exactly if I'm just manifesting or responding constantly to external stimuli?
@@taiwoidowu6635 oh yes this is so me too!! I’m in continuous motion of reading others and what they need for me be or how best to fit in with them. It’s a very curious thing! We all hear “be authentic” is this authentically who we are? I like what Joseph wrote “you can’t avoid helping others” it’s so true! Making sense of who we are is a tangled mess I think lol
This video seems way off..... I'm always up for an adventure, love to travel the world, see new things, try new foods.... even though I love my alone time, I'm never bored with it and am always keeping busy and always learning and exploring
okay those ppl say we are rare, just because we are rare in us. but what about asia and other countries. we may be not that rare as they say right. just an overthinking thing.
There is no such thing as an emotional quotient or emotional intelligence these are made up buzzwords that have not been proven to exist. Social calibration is controlled by environmental factors and is a learned behavior. Anyone can learn to be socially aware and competent in social environments with regards to interactions with people. No amount of practice training or education will make a person more intelligent, just more knowledgeable and there is a very important distinction between the two. This kind of misinformation is harmful and causes people to have an incorrect idea about the nature of the intelligence quotient with regards to cognitive capacity.
Intelligence is kind of a broad term. I think you can become more intelligent in some ways. It really depends on what you mean by intelligence. I know diet and lifestyle can play a role in cognitive abilities.
@@SantanaBanana47 Not really. Intelligence is defined along three key forms of problem solving: Well defined problems (book smarts). Poorly defined problems (street smarts) Problems requiring inovation (creativity). Social awareness would best fall under street smarts but as I said before it is a learned behavior that can be taught to a person of average or below average intelligence. That is why it is a very important to be accurate in defining terms. Understanding the distinction between intelligence and knowledge is also very important as intelligence refers to the resolution at which the brain can comprehend a problem whereas knowledge refers to the information within the brain. It is true that diet and certain external factors can affect intelligence to a small degree but intelligence quotient is defined by genetic traits that are inherited and are static. No amount of healthy living will affect a person's intelligence quotient by a significant degree. You have what you're born with and it doesn't change appreciably.
You are assuming that everyone can learn to be more emotionally sensitive. WRONG assumption. Emotions are feelings and feelings are derived from our perceptions with regards to any given circumstance. If one's perception is logically based the emotional perception is lower. For example, some people live for the moment, these people tend to be more emotional (not that there's anything wrong with that way of life), and others live to achieve goals and that gives their lives meaning. Like myself, so I tend to view things less emotionally and more logically. I've been this way all my life and only took the MB personality test 4 years ago. Not everyone is comfortable being emotional so the degree for being emotional can't be learned by circumstance because it would be rejected mentally. There are some things in human beings that make us individuals among many. Emotional quotient is one of them. As for being with what you have, if emotions have anything to do with intelligence it could be the desire to learn, the feeling of wanting to know or understand our world, how man has affected it and exists in it. And ultimately, what we have learned in the process.
@@blktester it is important to maintain accurate distinctions between emotional regulation (one's ability to control how they manifest their emotional state through observable behavior), social calibration (one's ability to effectively navigate social situations and awareness of what is considered appropriate and inappropriate in a given social circle), and emotional awareness (one's ability to read other people's emotional states through observable behavior) Owen Cook is an excellent example of an ENFP who through training and practice has gained public speaking skills that allow him to maintain the attention of a crowd and control perception. He comes across much more composed and structured than most enfps usually do and discusses his topic material in a highly analytical manner. Jordan Peterson is an INTP and while they are typically known for having very awkward and limited social skills he has an excellent public speaking presence and can engage his students in a charismatic manner. I've encountered intjs on social media who despite their very limited ability to express emotion can come across as charming and charismatic because they've learned to analyze social responses. All these examples have one thing in common: Learned behavior. Once again I emphasize that it's important to understand the distinction between intelligence quotient, which is an innate quality and social calibration, which is a skill set. If emotional intelligence existed as a measurable quotient then it would be a quality that is impossible to teach to people since it would be innate to each individual. "Emotional intelligence" is a product of experience and knowledge. It is true that different personality types have an easier or harder time with it than others, but all types can learn it. That's why you'll encounter istps and istjs who are competent comedians, and you also find isfjs enfps enfjs esfjs and esfps who are socially awkward and struggle with their interactions with people. Emotional intelligence is not a valid term because it is not an innate quality. No one can be taught to be a super genius. Anyone can be taught on how to interact with people.
@@SantanaBanana47 Intelligence is the collection of knowledge utilized once the knowledge is comprehended. If knowledge isn't used it is forgotten. The human mind doesn't retain knowledge like a CPU, it fades if idle. On the other hand what is emotional intelligence, I'm aware of emotional sensitivity, but intelligence is a mental function not an emotional feeling.
INFJ, which is an acronym for Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, and Judging, is one of the 16 personality types on the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator or MBTI.
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Can infj be changed to normal mentally?
@@aaad3552 No, because we see constant contradictions in what society considers "normal". We cannot stand stereotypes.
@@goteamslugs yes stereotypes are the reason ppl getting away with corruption and I feel like it's unfair
@@aaad3552 Yes. I loath them with a fiery passion of a billion suns.
@@goteamslugs I was expecting some criticism or ideas about my theory haha but that's fine toXD (should have put "what do you think")
I have never felt so UNDERSTOOD. These videos make me feel more normal 😂
Thank you!
I know that's why I'm always watching
I know right lol
Yup! =)
Same, we need a group chat!
As a INFJ I very much appreciate this video.
However it’s not that we want to be right...
it’s that we attempt to avoid being wrong...
thus we are routinely intellectually cautious and yet under the right circumstances sometimes rather recklessly deliberately making mistakes in order to facilitate understanding more quickly.
So long as the mistakes are affordable and not dangerous.
We are perfectionists but we don’t want to be or believe that we are the smartest person in the room.
Our intuition gives us a nonlinear cognitive function...
and many people who lack a functioning intuition want our intuition to be a emotional reaction and irrational behavior rather than a logical cognitive function...
As many people often claim that their emotional desire and emotional reactions and emotional wants are “intuition”... that’s not what intuition is... but it’s a common method of human behavior and human nature to claim that their “intuition” caused them to act thusly or whatever...
So when some people recognize our nonlinear logical cognitive function and label it with whatever words that they are comfortable with using...
Psychic, mind reader and so on and so forth...
We have to interpret their beliefs and agendas into our thoughts and thinking.
When they recognize our intelligence it enables us to facilitate their skills, abilities, knowledge and intelligence into the groups interests and objectives.
Just as when people want us too fail for whatever reason... they are usually massively disappointed with their agendas and actions because they never recognized us for who we are and what we were actually doing and how we were actually going about it.
We don’t want to be the strongest link in the chain...
we want to support the weakest link in order to strengthen the chain.
Everyone is important and everyone has value.
"we want to support the weakest link in chain"...that has been always my subconscious motive in my life!
We want to support the weakest link....yes yes yes 💯
Yeah, that perfection thing got me too. I don't see myself as a perfectionist, I know I'm not. I just try to make as few mistakes as possible to accomplish the goal. I appreciate your explanation of the misconception.
Yes! Every personality has its strengths and weakness - and is built for specific purposes! :)
@@bogdanlazar3278 Yes. All just illusion and arbitrary tradition.
1. small talk is not their things
2. socially awkward
3. cautious with what they say
4. tends to have very limited friends
5. lack of fun type of
6. boredome is everyday game
7. the burden of expectations
8. brutal honesty..
ure welcome
Yep.
Literally me
I generally sway away from calling myself intelligent, even when those around me disagree, mostly because I view intelligence as something that is relative and fluid, so I sometimes think that the information that I have now and the way I process things now may change, and compared to other people, simply because they may process things either faster, or slower does not mean that they are more, or less intelligent.
I agree with your assessment; I would also like to add that TRUE intelligence is not based on your ability to acquire new knowledge, it's based on your ability to question that which you already know.
True..
You said would I could not find the words for. Ty
Processing speed is factor but I would say that a better indicator is the resolution at which a mind can comprehend information.
Stupid people have difficulty seeing nuance in reality. Smart people seem to grasp the subtle texture of aspects of existence that most people don't perceive.
There is a saying. Consider the source! Most people that consider me really smart, I've concluded are simply ignorant of the value various forms of knowledge provides. The majority of people believe once you graduate from whatever your highest level of education maybe, for some reason they don't need to learn anymore. It makes me cringe when someone tells me I'm one of the smartest people they know, when there is so much in the world one could know.
Many believe I am complicating things because I look at any issue or subject from every possible angle, analyze it and come to a conclusion while they are seeing only one part of the issue and get consumed in a single perspective.
Yup.
How is it possible to come to a conclusion without analyzing ALL the information??? Why can't people see that. Simple concept.
You are worthy
true infj according to Carl Jung MBTI test...
There is a difference between having a selective group of friends and not having no social skills or having awkward social skills. INFJ figure out how to be sociable which is why they are highly intelligent. They are confident so having small or deep conversations is easy for them. They read people so they know what they can talk about...because they know to be successful in life, you need to have good social skills. They figure out how to develop intuitive social skills and thus tend to be popular and successful in work and social settings. They are never bored because they have a rich creative internal life filled with art.
so if you are an introvert who considers themselves socially awkward or unable to talk to humans...then you are not an INFJ
Spot on.
I'm an INFJ and when the comes to having fun.. I become a bit extra in it 😁
💪🏻
I think objective intelligence should be measured according to who is the most well-rounded in not just #Thinking intelligence (IQ)... BUT also intelligent in #Feeling (EQ: Emotional Quotient), #Sensing (SQ: Sensory Quotient) and #Intuition (iQ: Intuitive Quotient)... l don't think one can measure ALL intelligence based on ONE quotient: Thinking (IQ: Intellectual Quotient).
But what do l know, l'm just an INFJ 🤣
I AGREE!!
Also, I have a theory that IQ is like only a measure of general intelligence of a certain individual. But if we were to play close attention to what they're good that, which is among the 9 other types of intelligences like Musical Intelligence and Kinesthetic Intelligence I think they will only measure one of these specific ones. Like Mozart, he has high musical intelligence but not Natural Intelligence.
@@z.e....3175 Uhh... IQ points _are_ actually measuring g-factor "general intelligence factor", so you dont need to theorize it doing that, because it already does it.
But g-factor strongly correlates with all intelligences.
Gosh, we went from 1% of the population to 3%. Were we under counted or have we been having more kids lately? 😀
156 million is 2% of the population rn
"I wish I knew you when I was young" - (Revivalists) What a different life I would have had.
Mum often says the same: "Si jeunesse savait, et vieillesse pouvait!"🔥❤️💐
The accuracy is astonishing
Thank you!
Where's my more extraverted INFJ soulmate at? You're the only one that will understand me, and be able to help push me to be more grounded. I promise we will learn to fix the world together and have so much fun doing it 🥰
You'll never find an extroverted INFJ. INTROVERTED BY OUR BEING.
I found mine Brandon. Only woman that’s ever understood me. Met her nearly 2 years ago and now we’re very happily married. So there’s hope my friend. Please Never give up hope mate. Our other halves are out there. Just got to be patient brother x
@@Joemozza1234 oh, man, thank you so much for sharing that beautiful piece of news. It's so important you find someone you can be your true self with without any fears. I'm not worried, I'll find her eventually. I just get so excited thinking about all the laughs and smiles that haven't even happened yet. Continue to strengthen your marriage and your love, and keep living a good life b 💪♥️
I'm an autistic INFJ. I strongly believe that there is some sort of connection between the two
I also believe there is my friend. I live with the same 2 traits. Makes me hard to understand to most but people like me get me x
Yes , I was wondering about that myself
Perhaps your only an INFJ who grew up in the environment you did. I was labeled with a neurodevelopmental order ADHD. For decades is was my intuitions glass ceiling for truly understanding myself. Finding MBTI located a master key to simultaneously open countless mental barriers at once. While doctors said I can only see myself through some obscured glass window, something wrong with you, the world needs you different more extroverted…. Take two of these and call me in the morning give me time to not care about your understanding of yourself and everything you think, feel, and are. I was a mislead kid labeled HSP with ADHD trapped unaware in an intangible cocoon I didn’t create. Instantly when this pattern was exposed I meteorically awoken metamorphosing beyond my all preconceived notion’s implanted by people in a position a trust. Becoming what I have always unknowingly been an INFJ -A Super Empath. INFJ defines me with uncanny level s of accuracy previously unbelievable to me could ever exist. I was found, and findable. A breath of fresh air to find out I’m not as different as I’m aware I am. Hope this was helpful in some way.
I think the criteria for labeling someone “autistic” has perhaps widened too far and swept up many who simply have an INFJ personality (which most of the “world” doesn’t understand, so they’ve decided such rare people MUST be “neurodivergent.” 🙄)
Yep and When all the research is completed the truth will be revealed and the spectrum will encompass the population of the world and we all got our own individual character hue wedge!
I'm 70 years old and I have yet to meet anyone who understands or appreciates me as an INFJ. For all of my life, I have been misunderstood and socially unaccepted, especially with women.
I appreciate and agree with most of the topics, but not necessarily with the conclusions. Like enjoyment, I personally find great enjoyment in successfully completing my goals, which are both long term and short term. Making friends, what really! The conclusion seems to forget we are not one of those people that need people, introverted. Being introverted makes being alone especially after interacting with other people like heaven on earth. Thinking so much, about every interaction, circumstance or situation is an intellectual process that elevates our mindset. It isn't a burden which seems to be the implication. I can only speak for myself, but finding out I was an INFJ, 4 years ago was a blessing. I knew I was different and tended to be more well read than most people (even in the workplace) and I often wondered why people seemed to be so willfully ignorant in general. Learning I was an INFJ also gave me understanding why Spock in the Star Trek series was always my favorite character. LIVE LONG AND PROSPER.
When the odd one out founds out someone actually understands them , that is where this video comes in... Thank you for understanding😉
I feel like I'm just intelligent enough to realize how not intelligent I am 😅 😭
Totally, is one of my recurring thoughts 😪
Most highly intelligent people realize there is much they don't know. The folks that think they know it all, are generally not as smart as think they are ;)
INFJ's IQ and EQ are exception, because they are equally strong. This is told on many channels here.
Sometimes feeling like a contradiction downward spiral… then you see how you fell into it and learn something… finding my tribe is an ongoing thing… these videos well explained & don’t feel as alone… INFJ-A
I am truly an INFJ
Wow!! It's refreshing to find this as well as other similar videos.. Videos like these are my definition of normal.
This is so true. Everything is accurate 😞
Intelligent? Hmm... No.
Different? Definitely.
😂 I'm fine with that. Atleast I have an identity unique to myself that sets me apart from the crowd. I can definitely say, I am me, with confidence.
This has made me realize that thinking that one of one's self as highly intelligent could be a sign that they are highly self-centered. Especially if they see people as 'lesser' than themselves. This could be the root of their problem. We are all of equal value, just in different ways.
Im infj but i don't think im better than most i just know that I dont think like most people and iv found that most peeps are quite stupid
thanks for the video, I have always felt so separate from general populace. yet, I try to let others know I'm nobody special or important.
Dude, that was straight to the point... something just ran over me right now... Oof
This was the closest analysis someone made about me, should i be concerned?
If my result is correct (tested twice as INFJ) I’m not sure we’re that obsessed with overtly “winning” as you say. Whilst we like winning we’re not cocky, loud or abrupt with it. Unless my reading / listening of this is wrong….?
I don't ever really care about winning, but I do find myself competing with myself, not others. Nomatter what I do, I seem to think it can be better and approach things as such.
You nailed it even down to the Job part lol,
Thanks!
It feels so good to be understood. This vid just made my day!
Thank you!
I never felt so understood EVER u read my like a book!!
Great videos!
Please get new stock footage.
Thanks again for your work!
Again i live in solitude for 2 years, this time. I struggle a lot in life because there is no one i can talk to about infj empaths. It's like that it don't exist .
Thank you, it was interesting 😊
Nobody is the smartest we all can learn from one another
There is no such thing as "the smartest" intelligence vary from person to person.. only small minds say that there is such a thing as "the smartest" when really everything in this world is based on intelligence..
@@beniditolevu1074 key word. Nobody
You do know that no INFJ will ever consider her or himself smart, it's not in our being because there is always more to know, learn and analyze. It's those around us that will consider us smart or very intelligent.
@@blktester Thanks for responding
Exactly me brutal honesty & need for intellectual stimulation &quality relationships
i do relate all of these but i can't say im highly intelligent infj. i but right now, i can say, im below average maybe because of anxiety, depression in life.
I totally disagree with number 2.
I’m an INFJ stellium Capricorn, it’s so rewarding and depressing. Anyone willing to text, I would love to be able to talk to someone relatable.
To what extent are we really just a collection of opinions or ideas of others, in other words is this authentically "me" or what other’s opinions I attach or identify with. In that regard intelligence is just what has been learned from others
Yes and no, using that logic, every person is just a collection of ideas/information from the past/other people.
You true self is the way your subconscious acts, you can't avoid being an INFJ, you can't avoid the need of helping others, right?..
That's your "true self"
Obviously we can label genetics and personality as just the evolution/diversity of human behavior, but yeah I think you get what I'm trying to say :)
Creativity creates, and if something is created it did not exist previously.
If it were so there would be no innovations, from the wheel to the printing press. Just by connecting existing ideas, or using what exists diffrently, something new is being created.
The self can also be created, but it is true that perhaps it is a limited space in the whole that makes us what we are.
I also feel this way since we are often called chameleons. I wonder sometimes which part is actually me since most of how I interact with the world is a result of what I've been able to absorb from everything around me. So who am I exactly if I'm just manifesting or responding constantly to external stimuli?
@@taiwoidowu6635 oh yes this is so me too!! I’m in continuous motion of reading others and what they need for me be or how best to fit in with them. It’s a very curious thing! We all hear “be authentic” is this authentically who we are? I like what Joseph wrote “you can’t avoid helping others” it’s so true! Making sense of who we are is a tangled mess I think lol
Well Im not careful what I say😁
This video seems way off..... I'm always up for an adventure, love to travel the world, see new things, try new foods.... even though I love my alone time, I'm never bored with it and am always keeping busy and always learning and exploring
If this vid is off, u need to retake your mbti
yep
All people are the same, it is just their habits that are different.💖💯
LOL
WHAT THE FUCK THIS IS LITERALLY ME OH MY GOD I AM SO SPECIAL
Small talk is pedtantic, and I hate it
Ok calm down big brain
I’m all of these things 😖 but I’m not intelligent
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okay those ppl say we are rare, just because we are rare in us. but what about asia and other countries. we may be not that rare as they say right.
just an overthinking thing.
coffee?
Good accuracy, but I do not think i am intelligent 😮
Ooohahaha, yep. Yep. Fuck. We're like an awkward breed of dog.
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kimoje yamate
no reaction🤣🤣🤣🤣
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ang sakit ng tyan ko
di ka pa nman napapagod?🤣🤣🤣
Ok with that said... is there a video to suggest, how people can become more like an INFJ. LOL 😉
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There is no such thing as an emotional quotient or emotional intelligence these are made up buzzwords that have not been proven to exist.
Social calibration is controlled by environmental factors and is a learned behavior. Anyone can learn to be socially aware and competent in social environments with regards to interactions with people.
No amount of practice training or education will make a person more intelligent, just more knowledgeable and there is a very important distinction between the two.
This kind of misinformation is harmful and causes people to have an incorrect idea about the nature of the intelligence quotient with regards to cognitive capacity.
Intelligence is kind of a broad term. I think you can become more intelligent in some ways. It really depends on what you mean by intelligence. I know diet and lifestyle can play a role in cognitive abilities.
@@SantanaBanana47 Not really. Intelligence is defined along three key forms of problem solving:
Well defined problems (book smarts).
Poorly defined problems (street smarts)
Problems requiring inovation (creativity).
Social awareness would best fall under street smarts but as I said before it is a learned behavior that can be taught to a person of average or below average intelligence.
That is why it is a very important to be accurate in defining terms. Understanding the distinction between intelligence and knowledge is also very important as intelligence refers to the resolution at which the brain can comprehend a problem whereas knowledge refers to the information within the brain.
It is true that diet and certain external factors can affect intelligence to a small degree but intelligence quotient is defined by genetic traits that are inherited and are static.
No amount of healthy living will affect a person's intelligence quotient by a significant degree. You have what you're born with and it doesn't change appreciably.
You are assuming that everyone can learn to be more emotionally sensitive. WRONG assumption. Emotions are feelings and feelings are derived from our perceptions with regards to any given circumstance. If one's perception is logically based the emotional perception is lower. For example, some people live for the moment, these people tend to be more emotional (not that there's anything wrong with that way of life), and others live to achieve goals and that gives their lives meaning. Like myself, so I tend to view things less emotionally and more logically. I've been this way all my life and only took the MB personality test 4 years ago. Not everyone is comfortable being emotional so the degree for being emotional can't be learned by circumstance because it would be rejected mentally. There are some things in human beings that make us individuals among many. Emotional quotient is one of them. As for being with what you have, if emotions have anything to do with intelligence it could be the desire to learn, the feeling of wanting to know or understand our world, how man has affected it and exists in it. And ultimately, what we have learned in the process.
@@blktester it is important to maintain accurate distinctions between emotional regulation (one's ability to control how they manifest their emotional state through observable behavior), social calibration (one's ability to effectively navigate social situations and awareness of what is considered appropriate and inappropriate in a given social circle), and emotional awareness (one's ability to read other people's emotional states through observable behavior)
Owen Cook is an excellent example of an ENFP who through training and practice has gained public speaking skills that allow him to maintain the attention of a crowd and control perception. He comes across much more composed and structured than most enfps usually do and discusses his topic material in a highly analytical manner.
Jordan Peterson is an INTP and while they are typically known for having very awkward and limited social skills he has an excellent public speaking presence and can engage his students in a charismatic manner.
I've encountered intjs on social media who despite their very limited ability to express emotion can come across as charming and charismatic because they've learned to analyze social responses.
All these examples have one thing in common: Learned behavior.
Once again I emphasize that it's important to understand the distinction between intelligence quotient, which is an innate quality and social calibration, which is a skill set.
If emotional intelligence existed as a measurable quotient then it would be a quality that is impossible to teach to people since it would be innate to each individual.
"Emotional intelligence" is a product of experience and knowledge. It is true that different personality types have an easier or harder time with it than others, but all types can learn it. That's why you'll encounter istps and istjs who are competent comedians, and you also find isfjs enfps enfjs esfjs and esfps who are socially awkward and struggle with their interactions with people.
Emotional intelligence is not a valid term because it is not an innate quality.
No one can be taught to be a super genius.
Anyone can be taught on how to interact with people.
@@SantanaBanana47 Intelligence is the collection of knowledge utilized once the knowledge is comprehended. If knowledge isn't used it is forgotten. The human mind doesn't retain knowledge like a CPU, it fades if idle. On the other hand what is emotional intelligence, I'm aware of emotional sensitivity, but intelligence is a mental function not an emotional feeling.
coffee?
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