Red flags in a relationship ft. Gayathrie Shankar

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  • Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
  • Join Mercy John and the incredible Gayathrie Shankar as they delve into the intricate world of relationships red flags. In this episode, both of them share personal experiences and stories that shed light on warning signs to watch out for in a relationship. Tune in for a raw, honest conversation that might just change how you view your own relationships.

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  • @sangeethasomasundaram8027
    @sangeethasomasundaram8027 Год назад +78

    Comment section is clean. I wish this kind of non judgmental audience and community stay close ❤

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  Год назад +6

      Thank you! ❤

    • @sangeethasomasundaram8027
      @sangeethasomasundaram8027 Год назад +2

      @@Mercyonair kudos for creating this space

    • @sangeethasomasundaram8027
      @sangeethasomasundaram8027 Год назад +1

      @@anonfromnowhereinparticula1184 I am feeling sorry for rage and hatred in you. I pray for your mental health

    • @anonfromnowhereinparticula1184
      @anonfromnowhereinparticula1184 Год назад

      @@sangeethasomasundaram8027 ya. thanks.
      folks like me are an anachronism today.
      its the day and age of people like you. kazhisadaigal.
      enjoy.

    • @akashmadhavan711
      @akashmadhavan711 11 месяцев назад +1

      MERCY PLS INVITE GAYATHRI MORE AND DISCUSS MORE. YOU GUYS COULD DO SOMETHING LIKE MOMENT OF SILENCE POD BY SAKSHI AND NAINA BAHN, COUSAN OF SHEREEN BAHN

  • @KK-tx2cm
    @KK-tx2cm Год назад +35

    Happy to see open n evolved conversation by two women. Gayathrie is so honest!

  • @abhijithms7373
    @abhijithms7373 Год назад +31

    Huge respect for her Super Dad, from bottom of my heart.

  • @andriavinithalobo5813
    @andriavinithalobo5813 Год назад +32

    Randomly found your channel today and l'm Glad.❤
    Such raw, unfiltered conversation.
    Felt like I was also a part of it

  • @pooranigiridharan
    @pooranigiridharan Год назад +6

    It’s absolutely so good mercy !! It felt so real as if I am also a part of the whole conversation. The whole thing felt very close and relatable

  • @meenakshiayyappan5563
    @meenakshiayyappan5563 Год назад +4

    this is so true, having a conversation on a date not a monologue

  • @arulrozariomusic
    @arulrozariomusic Год назад +15

    randomly saw this one on home page. loving this podcast .Great job Mercy

  • @Itzzzshyam
    @Itzzzshyam Год назад +4

    I was about to stop watching when the host said she is married and want to talk abt relationships. But this was beautiful. Good one Mercy, rhumba arumai. Gayathrie is so smart and honest. One of the best podcasts ever seen.

  • @rajashreer35
    @rajashreer35 Год назад +2

    Where were you! How did i miss this channel. Felt like i was a part of this conversation. Glad. Will share it with my people❤

  • @alphahalogaming3123
    @alphahalogaming3123 Год назад +1

    Neat and clean and Clear
    This video is like Living in Chennai But During 1900s

  • @Sara.apr24
    @Sara.apr24 Год назад

    Amazed by the way Gayatri spoke.. Complete perception changed compared to on screen presence. Interviewing person way she asking and engaging also is in a nice flow.

  • @madhumithashankar141
    @madhumithashankar141 Год назад +4

    Omg, Mercy. I loved this episode. I guess I’m going to follow your upcoming episodes too. Totally looking forward to it. I feel these kinda discussions need to be witnessed by the world. Kudos!

  • @priyadharshini4927
    @priyadharshini4927 Год назад +5

    Omg! As women of mid 20's , I could totally relate to this !!!
    90% of this happened in my life 😂. Where in which i learned a lot.

  • @siddarthra2202
    @siddarthra2202 Год назад +4

    Wonderful conversation. Gayathrie is a beaut!

  • @ananyasankar6170
    @ananyasankar6170 11 месяцев назад +1

    So so good! I recently started watching your podcasts and i totally love the way you speak and carry the show! Please do more such videos.. 🫶🫶

  • @prashanthprabhakarannair6326
    @prashanthprabhakarannair6326 Год назад +1

    From Radio to here, glad you found a place to voice your thoughts and we can listen to you & your invitees break into these nice conversations! 🎉

  • @aqeelkhan4350
    @aqeelkhan4350 Год назад +1

    Ah not the early morning Christmas hug I wanted, but the one I needed! On a path of accepting people for what they are, this conversation helped in moulding me a bit. You are doing god's work ma'am, and that presented in such a sweet, calm voice is just chicken soup for the soul! To more empowered women, and more sensitive men! ❤️

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  Год назад

      Thank you so much! Merry Christmas to you 😁

    • @aqeelkhan4350
      @aqeelkhan4350 Год назад

      @@Mercyonair Merry Christmas to you too Mercy ✨

  • @AmuthanVethanayagam
    @AmuthanVethanayagam Год назад +2

    Such an amazing conversation. If Gayathri was in Hollywood, would have been an A lister like Julia Roberts.

  • @hrithikkumar4294
    @hrithikkumar4294 Год назад +2

    Damn!! I watched both the episodes, actually am curious on what's cooking next... Kudos keep up the good work. Special mention to the audio quality and the art in your background... Hoping to see many more in future!!!❤

  • @ashok8633
    @ashok8633 Год назад +3

    Please do a podcast with your husband Niketh Bommireddy. Also please discuss how did you guys meet , your love story , what made you guys to get married. Plsssss do a show. It's my humble request. It would be a great idea for growth of your channel too. You and Niketh seem so lovely couple.

  • @gayathris2698
    @gayathris2698 Год назад +6

    I was soo into this show. Just like Sister's talk
    Loving it ❤

  • @fatimajax2405
    @fatimajax2405 11 месяцев назад

    Gayathrie articulates so well🎉❤

  • @vaisshnavivenkatesan8074
    @vaisshnavivenkatesan8074 Год назад +2

    Love this episode. Casually you girls gave a lot to think about. And yes definitely a very fun episode.

  • @VidyaKailasam
    @VidyaKailasam Год назад +5

    Such a cool podcast! Content and practical conversations

  • @vivekravichandran4423
    @vivekravichandran4423 Год назад +1

    I was not really into podcasts then i randomly came across this video and it was listerally amazing. The convo between you guys was so good! I wish to see more of it please ...

  • @jananielango
    @jananielango Год назад +2

    Quality conversations like this are just 🤌❤

  • @Kat_Jose
    @Kat_Jose 8 месяцев назад

    I randomly came across your channel and I almost finished watching all of your content ❤❤

  • @3lok_kommireddy
    @3lok_kommireddy 8 месяцев назад

    Your podcasts are awesome! So glad for sharing the wisdom

  • @hilify
    @hilify 10 дней назад

    This guest is extremely intelligent. Great podcast.

  • @AshwiB21
    @AshwiB21 Год назад +2

    Wish I had this insight way back

  • @rajashreer35
    @rajashreer35 Год назад +2

    Truly a fun convo🎉

  • @sudiptivaradharajan
    @sudiptivaradharajan Год назад

    DO A PART 2 WITH GAYATHRIE!!!! SHE IS SUCH A VIBEE!!

  • @NavaneethaKrishnanA
    @NavaneethaKrishnanA Год назад +1

    A very important and insightful conversation.

  • @sriram-rn3oi
    @sriram-rn3oi Год назад +4

    Really loved it ❤

  • @Nithi3366
    @Nithi3366 8 месяцев назад

    Great show...please keep doing❤

  • @nimalm7623
    @nimalm7623 Год назад +1

    Randomly caught up with this show and it was really a good one to know different perspective ❤

  • @keerthana-o5l9w
    @keerthana-o5l9w Год назад

    Your voice is so soothing ❤

  • @shubikshaganesh
    @shubikshaganesh Год назад +1

    Loved this podcast! Such a well navigated, crisp podcast Mercy! Keep this coming. Such flamboyance and command over language Gayathrie, nice to see a different perspective of someone we’ve only seen on screen open up.

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  Год назад

      Thank you so much! Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @hariashwin6888
    @hariashwin6888 Год назад +1

    wonderful conversation!

  • @souns101
    @souns101 Год назад

    This was very wholesome ❤

  • @illuminati_editzv
    @illuminati_editzv Год назад +3

    Love this one❤❤❤😊

  • @nafees285
    @nafees285 Год назад +1

    title should be "red flags in a GVM movie relationship"

  • @mohanapriya12
    @mohanapriya12 11 месяцев назад

    😍😍😍loved this podcast

  • @user67196
    @user67196 Год назад

    Reached the right audience

  • @kumarkotra7471
    @kumarkotra7471 Год назад

    Loved this podcast

  • @abcdabcd8605
    @abcdabcd8605 Год назад +3

    27:47 Amazing

  • @Nivetha_kp
    @Nivetha_kp Год назад

    this
    this is tooo good !

  • @darshanm2518
    @darshanm2518 Год назад +1

    Good one 🕊️✨

  • @abdulkhadarshaik3970
    @abdulkhadarshaik3970 Год назад +3

    Good Girls go to Heaven..
    Bad Girls Go Every Where..

  • @Sri___priya.
    @Sri___priya. 11 месяцев назад

    I love it ❤❤❤

  • @rukumaniarulkuppuraju9808
    @rukumaniarulkuppuraju9808 10 месяцев назад

    Gayathrie on point ❤

  • @motheeswarg8448
    @motheeswarg8448 Год назад

    Nice meaningful conversation.

  • @sharathkumar5536
    @sharathkumar5536 11 месяцев назад

    aww lovely!

  • @iPanithuli
    @iPanithuli Год назад +1

    I’m becoming a Podcast person ❤

  • @rengapradeep
    @rengapradeep Год назад +1

    wholesome❤

  • @dharanidharani7054
    @dharanidharani7054 Год назад

    Feel like fresh❤

  • @krubha333
    @krubha333 11 месяцев назад

    Dad❤️❤️❤️ மானம் உடம்பில் இல்லை

  • @rheawinona18
    @rheawinona18 Год назад

    Just giving you ❤❤❤🫡topic 🥰

  • @empuraaninmontana
    @empuraaninmontana Год назад

    Join the business community

  • @rajalakshmi6411
    @rajalakshmi6411 Год назад

    Watching on repeat mode ✌️❤️

  • @gk-bc4di
    @gk-bc4di Год назад +2

    But loved it 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @sandhiyasrinivasan-g3b
    @sandhiyasrinivasan-g3b Год назад

    you look bold and clean

  • @raghul6087
    @raghul6087 Год назад

    i do not know why but i like to watch green flag then red one

  • @skippertrends
    @skippertrends Год назад

    Here's a guy's perspective after hearing Mercy & Gayathrie.
    Financial independence is a power. Unfortunately the woke women in mid 20s with financial independence start to abuse it, corrupt themselves and also go on to preach others about feminism, relationships and so on only to regret later in their late 30s. Women need men more in their lives once they hit the mid 30s which they don't realize. Women can't slog like men for ever.
    There is a reason men and women are created differently. They have their own natural traits, purpose in the ecosystem. Men are designed to provide / protect women and offspring and in turn they expect respect. Women are designed to love men and offspring and in turn they expect protection and comfort. That's nature.
    If one gender stops offering the other gender what they seek, not tolerate the other gender's negative traits, exhibit the other gender's traits instead of their own, then the other gender will not see a purpose in engagement and it will result in self-isolation. Be it any gender, the importance of a relationship, the other gender's value can only be realized after you go through the struggles. I find it appalling that women tend to normalize walking out of men and staying single.
    The countries/societies that promote this behavior end up with declining birth rates, reducing labor force/working class and too many old people.

    • @Jhon_wick03
      @Jhon_wick03 2 месяца назад

      true words , but idhu feminist and simp pasanga ethukka maattanga

  • @jessyk2579
    @jessyk2579 Год назад +2

    18:02
    Do your own stuff! Wash your own cloths, cook your own meal, eat alone, sleep alone,
    they why marry bro?

    • @aqeelkhan4350
      @aqeelkhan4350 Год назад +3

      She didn't mean it like that. Each person should be able to do household chores, and not let just one person suffer their whole lives - like how just our moms were made to do the cooking, the cleaning, and the washing part. Marriage/companionship is 50:50 bro, I provide when you're down, you help me if you can when I'm down. ❤️

    • @Kat_Jose
      @Kat_Jose 8 месяцев назад

      Marriage is not for getting a maid to do your basic things

    • @Jhon_wick03
      @Jhon_wick03 2 месяца назад

      @@Kat_Jose it is not getting a ATM for you either

    • @Jhon_wick03
      @Jhon_wick03 2 месяца назад

      @@aqeelkhan4350 you must be a simp

    • @nikithageorge441
      @nikithageorge441 Месяц назад

      Yeah men should stop using women as atm

  • @ramanr9935
    @ramanr9935 3 месяца назад

    By the way mercy is beautiful❤

  • @prasha88
    @prasha88 Год назад

    She deserves the best. But where are all the good men ???

  • @Rock.Romeo.
    @Rock.Romeo. Год назад +1

    Woww nice i love it ❤😅

  • @bharanisri1823
    @bharanisri1823 Год назад

    Oh girls! Where were u in my twenties ?

  • @qwerty48880
    @qwerty48880 Год назад +1

    5:12 one of my relationship ended ah lol ...how many relationships do u had ?

  • @ashok8633
    @ashok8633 Год назад +1

    Why am I feeling that you guys had tried many things than what I am doing right now in college life. Some thing felt right when you were discussing and some points felt like it was not necessary to start somethings in your life in the first place. I don't know yet what is correct ... but I don't what to try anything that I might feel like it can go wrong. I am a 3-rd year BTech Student. Btw, Thanks Mercy John for the content. Good to have different perceptives. Thanks for adding subtitles. Btw, are you in Hridayam movie? The scene where a where kedar Performs the concert? Love from a Telugu guy.

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much! And yes I did a very small role in Hridayam 😁

    • @aqeelkhan4350
      @aqeelkhan4350 Год назад

      Trust me buddy, I'm 27 and I felt so out of place listening to people talk about being in relationships, partying and all. But know that each of our journeys are different. Do not resent the things which you didn't have a chance to do, just accept yourself and respect people for their life choices. All love. ❤️

  • @sivored_45
    @sivored_45 Год назад +1

    i love the way your talking 😍💗

  • @shaktishrivithiya496
    @shaktishrivithiya496 Год назад +1

    When you are 30 and still single you will probably not complain about arrange marriages anymore. lol

  • @arojey
    @arojey Год назад +1

  • @jokernews8018
    @jokernews8018 11 месяцев назад

    She didn't think about her parents while whatever she was doing and now playing victim card 😅

    • @nikithageorge441
      @nikithageorge441 Месяц назад

      Where did she play victim card? How can you support a person who threatens a partner with photos? Are you such a person? Blaming the victim? Please don't do things to women if you are of vile nature

  • @dolphinrose21
    @dolphinrose21 5 месяцев назад

    Though your generation is different, for my gen , we just get married lol , there was no dating culture , just a handful of kids dated.

  • @Amritdas99
    @Amritdas99 Год назад

    In full show......there is men bashing.... it is so sad......
    ... please stop bashing men...🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @nikithageorge441
      @nikithageorge441 Месяц назад

      Bro improve your listening skills. You have a very selective listening skills.

  • @gk-bc4di
    @gk-bc4di Год назад

    Late

  • @trueman5948
    @trueman5948 Год назад +1

    My own relatives cousins who iam stayed with since i was kid had character assasinated me. It diff to get out this phase u loose so much life and u loose skills to be alive....
    Usa to india......

  • @nithishkumarbtechit1927
    @nithishkumarbtechit1927 Год назад +3

    I have never been in relationship 😂😂😂 I can't relate to your videos sorry

  • @nomadseeker584
    @nomadseeker584 Год назад +3

    Ths girl r not realizing they r the red flags

    • @nikithageorge441
      @nikithageorge441 Месяц назад

      Listen to the initial part of the conversation. Improve your listening skills

  • @Ajith-Kumar-c
    @Ajith-Kumar-c Год назад +7

    Yeah, u are a red flag

    • @iPanithuli
      @iPanithuli Год назад

      Everyone has some kinda 🚩, but not everyone accepts that 😁

    • @Ajith-Kumar-c
      @Ajith-Kumar-c Год назад

      @@iPanithuli yeah 👍 people accepting it are gold too...

  • @bksundar
    @bksundar Год назад +8

    Our moms cooked so much for us. These people cooking is a big deal. So lazy lol

    • @thesingam0759
      @thesingam0759 Год назад +14

      Times have changed where women realized that cooking is not just their job. Men should also learn how to cook and make meals too.

    • @PRadzzzGY
      @PRadzzzGY Год назад +10

      Your mum could have also achieved a lot more if your dad had shared the burden, you’ll aren’t hunting and gathering anymore for the women to slave over fire, both women and men have moved towards office jobs, businesses, so you’ll gotta equally chip in.

    • @bksundar
      @bksundar Год назад

      @thesingam0759 lol cooking is not a big deal as it is made out to be. Men or women. These people are lazy period.

    • @bksundar
      @bksundar Год назад

      @PRadzzzGY moms achieved a lot . Do not belittle them . Your woke hypocritical ideas are just what causes places like CA to become completely third world these days . We have seen the long term results from what an absolute beauty it used to be to a hell hole

    • @PRadzzzGY
      @PRadzzzGY Год назад +4

      @@bksundar I’m not the one reducing mothers to people who cook a lot, you think women just come into existence to serve, homemakers do an awful lot for the family, but isn’t it convenient for men to pigeonhole them into being just that, like they have no passions or interests of their own. You would think cooking is a big deal, if you quit being a load of lard and did it yourself. Did you get dropped on the head? What correlation does being woke have to do with a county that is economically struggling? Also exercising one’s rights and making personal choices isn’t being woke, it is simply life. You on the other hand sound regressive.

  • @sivored_45
    @sivored_45 Год назад +4

    Women 😆😆😆😆😆

    • @fugebfjheb
      @fugebfjheb Год назад +3

      men 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sivored_45
      @sivored_45 Год назад

      @@fugebfjheb Maya 😂😂

    • @fugebfjheb
      @fugebfjheb Год назад +1

      @@sivored_45 siv🤣🤣🤣

  • @SimplyMastt
    @SimplyMastt Год назад

    Booooo