After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.
Nobody is reading or replying to comments unless it is your friends! I disagree with his videos. Everybody in public areas are with groups or have romantic partners and chill with friends!
@@ericdoheny9108 But healed people can heal people! My Lord it takes a lot of work though, cuz folks get all invested in their misery and don't see that it is God trying to toughen us up, kind of like tempering steel to make it stronger. By Gumption, I beat the crap out of metal and add carbon and manganese and that stuff gets tough! Then it is a proper tool, a better knife!
Amen! I think they are all gone. I don't see anyone for me in this era. I think it's really detoriating. If anyone wants to admit it. They keep telling us for years and every generation. There are good people out there, but the thing to it, no one seems to know where. No one seems to have those good people. All I see with people is the same individuals in there lives 10, 20, 30, 40 years going onwards. Do people even know what good is. I continually see society getting worse and at its worst. Come guys we are the ones left. They are not out there anymore. I would not dare look for anything worthwhile out there anymore. The bridge is falling. Cross it before it is too late. Stay real my brothers and sisters. This game is winding down.
The devil sends the narcissist to target the chosen, evil ones are pathetic, empty vessels make the most noise walk tall with the divine protection of the angels
So true .. but carry on . I rather know the truth about them then when I didn’t know and was all loving on them like they was cool . But not anymore. I’ve learned to love them from a distance
I hate this society and the malevolent, covert behaviors of certain people of this energy. These 2D conscious beings shouldn't be here screwing up this world beyond belief for everyone else trying to be decent human beings
I completely stopped associating with people & withdrew from society years ago. I never could tolerate liars or BS. I got screwed over so much when I was younger that one day I said "I'm done!" and just flipped the switch off. I "Noped Out"!
Yup same here, unfortunately I cannot avoid people altogether since I am severely disabled - and you won't believe how much society loves to abuse the disabled and the vulnerable!!! Especially medical staff - they love it! Forget about suing them or the hospitals, they make sure their victims never get believed by falsely claiming the victim "violently attacked them"! This is so common, I hear the same from each and every severely disabled person and it doesn't matter one bit how physically unable we would be of even getting up or sitting up, let alone attack anyone!
Bro... This shit wasn't THIS BAD 10 years ago. I remember complaining thinking 2014 had a lot of bad people, and they still were. but dude... This is a whole new level! It's like every single person is just full of lies it's like I have to ask so many questions just to get the truth out. You confront them on the truth so much, and they gaslight you and deny it, HOWEVER... If you finally mess up genuinely, they all of a dam sudden now SEE THE TRUTH! It's absurd... This is how you know these people are just trolls and game players, they just proved to you that they can spot the truth, they just wont admit it when its their fault. Speaking of trolls too, I want everyone to take this in. If anyone ever calls you a troll online, and you're being genuine, THEY are the trolls. Just cause 20 people are ganging up on reddit saying you're a troll when you genuinely want to have a discussion, does not mean you're a troll. This is another form of gaslighting, they call you a troll to dismiss what you said, because they know you're right; it's the same as just calling someone an idiot and dismissing. From my experience, 95 percent of people are either evil or full brainwashed, maybe even 99 percent.
@@rubyr8093 Some of them will keep talking and talking even if you don't respond. Though it's still the best option or gray rocking them. Respond to them but uninterested. Don't give them the supply they're looking for.
I’m just gonna start moving in silence, i told a friend of mine something I didn’t want anyone knowing and now everyone at our work knows. The less you say, the better at this point. Nobody can keep their mouth shut anymore. Tired of my peace and trust being broken by people.
I'm sorta dealing with something similar. Started working with my cousin's at the same company, haven't seen them in years. One of them I work with directly. He acts friendly in certain circumstances and then cold or flat out degrading in other circumstances. I noticed his two facedness isn't unique to me. He'll act cordial to other coworkers then immediately talk smack behind their back and prys for dirt and info. He's been testing my limits and recently asked for a loan, ontop of all the other favors I've done for him. Now I'm waiting to see if he'll have the dignity to repay it within the next 3 months before I decide my next moves towards him. Likewise I noticed the 2face mentality is not uncommon among other coworkers. They whisper and talk negatively of others and mask up in front of the subjects of gossip like school girls. It's nothing new to me but I've never seen it like this before. It's crazy demented negatitivity, like demons that feast on suffering or the schadenfruede. Perhaps because they're suffering or mentally ill. I'm not religious yet I recall a saying. People want to live in hell and drag down others with them.
These kinds of people will cling to plausible deniability with a subtle air of content sadism and will not admit what they're doing even after being caught/called out. For some of them, it's a game to play dumb after getting caught. All you really can do is cut contact.
Normal people want to live off their work and get better at it. These people want to live off your work and become better at manipulation and intrigue.
Yup, and they destroy you in the process and then take credit for your work while you rot in prison following their false allegations against you! Very common that is now, I have experienced that numerous times.
Talk to me a have a filipino woman and mother in law I'm seeing this I'm in a domestic dispute rn , I'm good at making people feel insecure, how are the people here
Respect has gone out the window long ago and now, forget "friends" or acquaintances trying to be authentic and kind. Neighbors are shitty to each other now. I agree that it's hard, I would say it is highly unlikely that anyone can bring you any good in your life. Ride or die is a temporary frame of mind.
My old 90 y.o. father has a good pension and a good life. Now he even sold his other apartment, getting 130 000 Euro for that. As a struggling artist I asked what he would do with that money...he suddenly got angry and wrote "Nobody has to DO with this, I deserve it!" (He left me and mother at the age of 4.) So I lost my inheritage too, who knows what he did with that money, my guess is that he gave it to some buddies, to impress them. It's just total madness what he did, instead of sharing it (I don't have income, despite hard work), he threw away that good money, he didn't even need it, with this he crushed me at the end...it's still hard to believe, and it was "my blood", not other people.
@@mikepiccolo32 definitely. My entire family hates me. They even called the cops and had me thrown in jail for nothing. Case was even dismissed. I am 100 percent alone.
I really desire to meet one friend who I can talk deeply with but for the most part, I think it's most human beings coming at me from a manipulation position so I've caught on the fact that they would try to get me to spill the beans, and then they only wanna speak a few words and so I'm not falling for that bait anymore
@@Mike-xxxxGen yup dude. I almost died and been I’ll for 2 years. You should be careful take your health above everything else. And try save money and get out
@@DrJohannPryce Thank you very much for your kindness and good advise I appreciate that and I'm sorry you had to go through that hope your doing better now.
I think Terry is an obvious victim of some kind of narcissistic abuse to talk like this. I'm like that too unfortunately. Narcissistic abuse changes you.
My dad is mental abusive and an alcoholic meanwhile he’s bi-polar. He was stalking me at work and his explanation was “well it’s the only way I can get ahold of you” so you want me to have a full on conversation about the past 15 years at my place work? Are you slow? The drinking and the pills have really destroyed him.
It's a sad state of affairs today, but this is what the Book of Timothy has been talking about. When I first read it in the 1980s, it scared the crap out of me because people were not acting like that then but now, oh boy!!! All I can say is pray, pray to Lord Jesus for protection from all enemies, seen and unseen, known and unknown. 2 Timothy 3:1-7 1-This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. 2-For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, 3-Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, 4-Traitors, heady, high-minded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; 5-Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away. 6-For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts, 7-Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.
Wolfie, I lost SO much sleep in the months before you discarded me, that since the discard, I sleep most of the day and most of the night, every day. It may be unhealthy and seem lazy, but it truly IS the best way to recover from a narcissistic discard. Just sleep the traumatic year away, folks. I highly recommend it. 😉😴
It depends the type of family you are in. I can't speak to my family members because one of them doesn't not want to fix his house its a mess and needs repairing. I can't be around anyone who just gives in and accepts defeat.
YES SIR... SALUTE.... I HAVE DONE THE WORK... AND THEY JUST LOOK AT ME CRAZY....... BUT THEY ALL LOOK AT US DOWNWARD WHEN THEY HAVEN'T DONE ANYTHING.. THEY'RE WEIRD
My brother “my life sucks, I hate everything, bla bla bla stfu and stop being a victim. Then they judge us through their lenses having not done any work. They haven’t felt the deepest parts of hell alone, solo. And we never held it over there head. We kept to ourselves and overcame with our own blood sweat and tears. I try to help but they don’t listen. It’s like a game they don’t want to stop playing. So tiring, I cut them off.
I feel all these people against me. Even my own family members, I never thought would turn. And now that I look back, they never were truly on my side. They’ve hated me since the beginning,
8:29 - I do not trust at all. I have had people whom I have known over a decade turn on me. The world is savage and people can go evil. Feelings are like a Lamborghini; a luxury. If you need a friend, get a dog.
Everything You Need to Read About Narcissism You need to learn everything, that's all you need to know about Toxic / Narcissistic People Knowledge Most people here in the Philippines don't know about Narcissism That's why they are easily Abused not physically abused they are abused emotionally so Educate yourself about Narcissism, because no matter where you go, you will encounter people like that. For those who have experienced Narcissist Abuse, I want you to know that you are not alone. 🇵🇭
Being consistent and trying to get something from nornal from people / an enviroment creates ego dystonia. People need to be aware of this, cause if theyre not it can start to affect your mental health. Keeps you healthy. Love and light x
I listen to these videos and they make me smile on the inside. Finally confirmation I'm not alone. Feel like a giraffe most days....looking down and shaking my head at everyone saying " they just don't get it". Put yourself last everyday...see how much better your life gets. When you embrace the suck. When you don't pick and choose your 100%. When you don't lie to YOURSELF. The world isn't fair.... Sooooooo what are you going to do about it? You could start with doing your best no matter what. The Hercules mantality....dont give up, don't fucking give in !
i don't think these people realize what's coming. This generation is going to experience the MOST pain that anyone has ever experienced in this HISTORY of the world... People who only do instant gratification things, gaslight, and take no responsibility are the ones in trouble here. When you do this, you are making yourself weaker, and you will feel pain more. For people who are disciplined you wont feel any pain from taking a break from your phone, not eating that junk food, and so on. But people who gaslight, and do all these instant gratification things and never want to work on things are the ones in trouble. I don't think they realize how much pain they will be in once they have to go to war. If they freak out because they can't be on their smart phone for a minute, imagine them not having access to their smartphone, in a bunker while bombs are dropping on them XD Sucks for them, they will deserve this, they treated us like garbage anyways, worse than garbage. They wanted to see us crumble in everyway. We will be a lot more prepared.
Nobody is prepared for bombs dropping on them weirdo I had a psychiatrist like you it was weird but he too had bombs dropped on him over here saying life was grand I asked him who payed for your schooling being bombed ? crickets.
Good people becoming an villain these days, that’s what I noticed…..3 friends of mine. They use to be carrying, empathic, loyal but overtime years passed by. Their character became more really different, like they had different personalities….They’re emotionless, cold, uncaring, fearless, very manipulative, seeing people as objects, disturbed mindsets. Full of anger and hatred towards society…..They literally became a sociopath….Both of my 2 friends are diagnosed with ASPD…..
So 👍 Agree With You🎯It’s Horrific( Friends Aren’t Friends) You Have To Become Aware Of Everyone Around You ( Your Literally Watching Your Own Back)!!!!!!!!
There's something different about us leaders man. The average person at a job won't be messed with if they keep quiet, but us... Dude I could say nothing and do my job perfectly, and i'll have complaints from workers and even managers. It's like they sense something greater in you and get jealous. I see people actually breaking the rules and the managers seeing it, and they don't get in trouble. It just makes no sense, you'd rather fire a good employee just because you're jealous, vs keeping him and your business will grow if you just drop the ego. It's like I feel like an alien these days bro, it's like people can just sense you're not "one of them' you're not someone who just wants to settle for less and goof off. They see that as being good. They cant handle that someone may have something more than them, even if they already are decently well off. People are incredibly jealous, and that's a symptom of narcsissm. The gaslighting, the lies, the manipulation, the jealousy, the cheating, 90 some percent of do this, and that's exactly what a narc is. They will say excuses of "oh people just have narcissistic tendencies" I don't give a dam what you label it, this is not acceptable behavior.
You're blamed and monitored whilst the narcissist does all the shit they accuse of. They also brag about it and laugh about it. At your expense. It's a joke.
Totally I’ve always worked extra hard at jobs but had to leave every job because of toxic coworkers. I was mostly quiet but polite and still got targeted. I’m thinking it might be best to do the bare minimum and always have plan A, B and C so if you have to leave a job you still have other income. I usually work multiple part time jobs instead of working one full time job and it helps a little to avoid the drama. I was working night shift at 2 cleaning companies but had to leave both because eventually toxic coworkers caused problems for me!
@@MelModica it's cause you don't belong there. They are trying to get you out because they see greater in you, but are also jealous, and it's too awkward for them for you to be there because they're much much lower. I know the types. I got fired from a couple jobs for doing a great job lol.
You've just described my work situation to a tee - do you work for my employer by any chance... yup, 21 years with the same employer, worked extremely hard to the point of total collapse many times. Outcome: falsely accused of terrorism, violence, racism, dangerous mental illness. Anti terrorism police involved, permanently demoted and suspended, unemployable, demoted to the office help (from a the most responsible role in the entire industry), treated like an actual danger to society, not allowed to be alone in the building, not allowed anywhere near colleagues, threatened with forced psychiatric incarceration and re-education, each and every colleague and manager warned of my alleged "violence and dangerous mental instability", getting treated accordingly... Note: I have no history of mental illness, nobody has ever had the slightest doubt about my mental state, I am severely disabled and tiny (so much for "violence and involvement with terrorism"), I am from a very mixed background (so much for "racism"), I have always worked quietly and kept myself to myself. How did the false accusations come about? Let's see - I was better at my original job than the manager, never broke the rules... and I know too much (about the corruption in the company and how the traveling public gets endangered on a daily basis - the company is in the public transport industry). I therefore had to be discredited and silenced in case I want to whistleblow - which would cause a national scandal and heads to roll...
@@LittleKitty22 you say you have mental illness, and these people are the same people who say they support "mental health awareness month" yet don't actually care when things go down due to it. Honestly, in this case then, they're more sick 😂 just in a different way. They're mentally ill and ev-ill
Bro you literally described every single person i grew up with and my ex as well. Her excuse for all her irresponsibility was im still young. Its like wtf how dumb are you . They think there going to be a jezeabel then get what they wantbecause they have some sort ofattraction level there messed up bro
I turn 27 on April 19th, and I’m finally accepting the reality of life and trying to build myself a better one. Your video popped up on my recommendations and I’m so happy it did! It’s so refreshing to hear such honesty, and a lot of it I needed to hear. Im finally willing to accept my flaws and start the change to correct them 🙏🏽
it's very hard to convince me about gaslighting & lying bc I always call ppl out on their bullshit. I just been the type of person to speak the truth. Chosen ones always intimidate those weak individuals. Real talk terry....💯
I am 60 and my how the world has changed for the worst. I have had to get rid of everyone and have not one friend left..It's very sad but I am learning to view it as a gain in my life. All liars and scammers.
17:20 FACTS!!!!!!!!!!!! They legit know nothing and try to make you feel delusional. like you have amnesia dont know yourself dont know what your donig etc. so messed up!
I was blessed with solid people. All the older men and women in my life come from a traditional town in Mexico. My dad's close friend today was talking about how friends today mostly don't exist. I find that coincidence strange. He said if you find the rare real friend, to hold them close. Ironically he and my dad are traditional men married to traditional women. Been married for decades. Maybe that's why I'm friendless. I only hang out with family and their wive's brothers. Which is basically now family.
I think I can relate to this, I might’ve posted this on one of these videos before, but in a nutshell, I come from a dysfunctional and psychologically abusive relationship with my father who was a covert narcissist and had robbed me of my self-worth, I was homeless with him for a very long time during my upbringing and never had a good home life growing up. I managed to escape that and had to go great lengths to get away from him. I went to go be with my extended family that had found me on the internet, I genuinely felt that I would belong with them and I thought they felt same way, but unfortunately, I guess they didn’t. What seemed like a gift from the universe, just turned into something that only contributed to my psychological and emotional wounds, I was only with them for 3 months because of how difficult they were to live with, and how conditional their love and regard was towards me, couldn’t really be loved or accepted for just the way I am and only if I meet certain criteria, and had to constantly jump through hoops in order to be loved. It’s just really unfair to me how my upbringing pretty much got robbed by a narcissist father and is something no kid should ever have to go through, while my fully related brother got to have what they called a ‘privileged life’. Yet, some online stranger on discord said to me “why should they love you” and “who are you and why should you be loved and cared for” and even a former friend laughs at me and invalidates me and minimizes my feelings saying “well they raised your brother and not you so he’s their kid and not you why do you think you deserve everything what he always gotten.” and that put more salt in the wound…it’s just really unfair, my aunt didn’t even have any idea why I went to go be with them, even though she invited me and was like “why not come stay here?”. It has put me in a constant endless loop of rumination. I remember I stayed with a friend of mine and his family because his mom couldn’t sleep at night knowing that I was sleeping in a car in a parking lot somewhere. They treated me as equally as their 2 boys… I wanted that with my brother… every other kid gets to have a family home life, the most basic thing in the world… except for me I guess… I have had someone that recognized the validity of my feelings though, and that person said “How on earth can you not be allowed just the same if not more.” all that I wanted was a life there with my family…why would anyone be wrong for that?
Whoever your brother is behind closed doors you might have been spared an assault charge or outright got deleted but keep whining...your alive apparently.
I understand your pain. Healing from narcissistic abuse takes time. Notice the patterns, don't give an emotional reaction. Avoid reacting, only respond.
@@blankearth5840 it doesnt matter if theyr blood related. If theyr unreasonable people who practice favoritism and conditional love. Leave em the in the dust, your better off with just you and God, always
@@hi-et1oqor they don’t even want to help themselves. If they wanna stay in their sad little world, that’s not my problem. My father is a negative, mental abuser, he would stalk me at work and one day I just called him and said don’t come into my work ever again or we’re gonna have problems. He responded with “well it’s the only way I can get ahold of you” all people like him do is want to push themselves onto you and have no regard for how their actions may make them feel. I don’t feel sorry for him one bit, his decisions led him to be alone and no one caring about him. He hasn’t once tried to approach me in good faith.
My family told me that my aunt did not have a will. 💭They told me about this and I never asked. 😵💫Terrible things begin to happen. My nephew told me their plans were to have me committed. 😮None of their tactics worked. Turns out, she does have a will, life insurance, Veteran’s life insurance, etc. 😶🌫️I have this nagging feeling that I’m adopted. 🤯My family never loved me. 🫣
i understand what you mean when you say most are backstabbing, and , or jelous people. ive had the same experience myself, and ive come to the conclusion that its better to be alone. like attracts like, thats why i have no friends.
It is literally all but one or two folks! Always been very few friends, but it has gotten to be really slim pickens. Mostly just folks that are looking out for themselves. my mom always said' What is in it for them?" That was back in the 80's, and maritime law applies! You are a good friend to many Terry! So glad my Mom was tough love and looked out for me before she died, way back when I was 15. Thanks Bro, you are on the spot! God Bless!
Thank you, I’ve been trying to figure out a situation out lately , and it’s all very interesting …..at this point the reasons, excuses, the whys don’t matter any longer, I don’t allow them to to anger me,I just keep moving forward, it’s not worth the time or energy
I agreed with you 100% cause my baby moms was drinking most of the time I was talking to her and I just couldn’t take her serious anymore and I got her name on my chest and I mess up man no cap
You, f**king ROCK! I love your videos. They just make me so happy, and you teach me to not regret being a good person even if it’s not given back. Continue to remain good, and still protect your energy and your space.
The speed which you put these out is mind boggling. You are doing good for the people free if charge. From Wisconsin,, a 43 year old male that was helped by your videos. Respect. Love. High vibrations.
After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??
Thanks to my co-worker (Alex) who suggested Ms Claudia Vecchi Nese .
She's a licensed broker in the states 🇺🇸
After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.
God is more than enough for us, and his mercy is new every morning. Hallelujah🎉🎉🎉♥️
Trust NOBODY. Literally every person I know acts exactly how you describe. People are very fickle creatures, not one ounce of trust in people anymore
facts
Agree.
Everyone’s pretending because they are afraid of what everyone thinks, who are also all pretending and scared to be real individuals.
Nobody is reading or replying to comments unless it is your friends! I disagree with his videos. Everybody in public areas are with groups or have romantic partners and chill with friends!
Sad, but true.
@@user-gn8eb4ii9p Yeah until crap hits the fan and they all come to this channel later.
Most not all but definitely most
That is why being alone is most important, then all you end up with is spirit. Then it all rings true.
Ppl these days have no substance or any moral compass I’m over it!!!😮
You see.. I don't even know if your joking.
You still do, just be careful for the leaches, the parasites. I am probby preachin to the choir! But I know you get it! No pearls before swine!
YUP kids and dogs are more respectful in these years
Yup. “Hurt people, hurt people” and that’s all there is to it. I’ve been hanging with animals cuz they don’t
@@ericdoheny9108 But healed people can heal people! My Lord it takes a lot of work though, cuz folks get all invested in their misery and don't see that it is God trying to toughen us up, kind of like tempering steel to make it stronger. By Gumption, I beat the crap out of metal and add carbon and manganese and that stuff gets tough! Then it is a proper tool, a better knife!
Gaslighting is the new norm
It’s trendy now.
@@DrJohannPrycefr!!
I am sick of people using a good person.. and then you need something and their back is turned on you..
Good people have left the planet...
And entered the chat 😊
😆👍@@LaceAndCorsets
Not all of them. Especially when more choose to be/become good.
Amen! I think they are all gone. I don't see anyone for me in this era. I think it's really detoriating. If anyone wants to admit it. They keep telling us for years and every generation. There are good people out there, but the thing to it, no one seems to know where. No one seems to have those good people. All I see with people is the same individuals in there lives 10, 20, 30, 40 years going onwards. Do people even know what good is. I continually see society getting worse and at its worst. Come guys we are the ones left. They are not out there anymore. I would not dare look for anything worthwhile out there anymore. The bridge is falling. Cross it before it is too late. Stay real my brothers and sisters. This game is winding down.
Do u know which planet🪐 I may just go there😅😊
The devil sends the narcissist to target the chosen, evil ones are pathetic, empty vessels make the most noise walk tall with the divine protection of the angels
It hurts the most when it happens in your own family
So true .. but carry on . I rather know the truth about them then when I didn’t know and was all loving on them like they was cool . But not anymore. I’ve learned to love them from a distance
Crazy world we live in....
This world is an enemy to God.
I hate this society and the malevolent, covert behaviors of certain people of this energy. These 2D conscious beings shouldn't be here screwing up this world beyond belief for everyone else trying to be decent human beings
😂 be the light to darkness 😂
It's very simple folks, people are predators, they will most likely let you down and disappoint you.
Sad but true you really can’t trust anyone!
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Agreed brother. That's why we need to keep "friends" to a minimum, family will turn on you too.
I completely stopped associating with people & withdrew from society years ago. I never could tolerate liars or BS. I got screwed over so much when I was younger that one day I said "I'm done!" and just flipped the switch off. I "Noped Out"!
Yup same here, unfortunately I cannot avoid people altogether since I am severely disabled - and you won't believe how much society loves to abuse the disabled and the vulnerable!!! Especially medical staff - they love it! Forget about suing them or the hospitals, they make sure their victims never get believed by falsely claiming the victim "violently attacked them"! This is so common, I hear the same from each and every severely disabled person and it doesn't matter one bit how physically unable we would be of even getting up or sitting up, let alone attack anyone!
I’m almost there.
Bro... This shit wasn't THIS BAD 10 years ago. I remember complaining thinking 2014 had a lot of bad people, and they still were. but dude... This is a whole new level! It's like every single person is just full of lies it's like I have to ask so many questions just to get the truth out. You confront them on the truth so much, and they gaslight you and deny it, HOWEVER... If you finally mess up genuinely, they all of a dam sudden now SEE THE TRUTH! It's absurd... This is how you know these people are just trolls and game players, they just proved to you that they can spot the truth, they just wont admit it when its their fault. Speaking of trolls too, I want everyone to take this in. If anyone ever calls you a troll online, and you're being genuine, THEY are the trolls. Just cause 20 people are ganging up on reddit saying you're a troll when you genuinely want to have a discussion, does not mean you're a troll. This is another form of gaslighting, they call you a troll to dismiss what you said, because they know you're right; it's the same as just calling someone an idiot and dismissing. From my experience, 95 percent of people are either evil or full brainwashed, maybe even 99 percent.
Thanks!
They say respond don't react
Just ignore I say
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@@rubyr8093 Some of them will keep talking and talking even if you don't respond. Though it's still the best option or gray rocking them. Respond to them but uninterested. Don't give them the supply they're looking for.
Exactly seems majority of people are not trustworthy at all! I had to quit my job because of toxic coworkers!
Surfing the Kali Yuga
it's uncanny and has put me into hermit mode.
^ Come out of her, My people, so that you will not share in her sins or contract any of her plagues.^
the lie they tell you is to speak your truth. knowledge is power...
I’m just gonna start moving in silence, i told a friend of mine something I didn’t want anyone knowing and now everyone at our work knows. The less you say, the better at this point. Nobody can keep their mouth shut anymore.
Tired of my peace and trust being broken by people.
I'm sorta dealing with something similar. Started working with my cousin's at the same company, haven't seen them in years. One of them I work with directly. He acts friendly in certain circumstances and then cold or flat out degrading in other circumstances.
I noticed his two facedness isn't unique to me. He'll act cordial to other coworkers then immediately talk smack behind their back and prys for dirt and info. He's been testing my limits and recently asked for a loan, ontop of all the other favors I've done for him. Now I'm waiting to see if he'll have the dignity to repay it within the next 3 months before I decide my next moves towards him.
Likewise I noticed the 2face mentality is not uncommon among other coworkers. They whisper and talk negatively of others and mask up in front of the subjects of gossip like school girls. It's nothing new to me but I've never seen it like this before. It's crazy demented negatitivity, like demons that feast on suffering or the schadenfruede. Perhaps because they're suffering or mentally ill. I'm not religious yet I recall a saying. People want to live in hell and drag down others with them.
I'm so glad that I'm free of all that bullshit and I'm full of natural courage and loyalty
Hmmm.
They use our emotions to fuel themselves. Its beyond annoying. People try to force conversations with me.
These kinds of people will cling to plausible deniability with a subtle air of content sadism and will not admit what they're doing even after being caught/called out. For some of them, it's a game to play dumb after getting caught. All you really can do is cut contact.
Big facts
@@KimberleePonce ^
Normal people want to live off their work and get better at it. These people want to live off your work and become better at manipulation and intrigue.
Yup, and they destroy you in the process and then take credit for your work while you rot in prison following their false allegations against you! Very common that is now, I have experienced that numerous times.
Not all but most and I stop caring once I opened my bible
Me too
Snake says "help me please" You help them. 🐍 bites you. You/me"why you bite me!!, I helped you?" 🐍 "Hey!, you knew I'm a poisonous 🐍 "
What the illiterate
There are many like that here in the Philippines. Most of them want to be superior and then always be the center of attention.
Talk to me a have a filipino woman and mother in law I'm seeing this I'm in a domestic dispute rn , I'm good at making people feel insecure, how are the people here
Asians are a special twisted.
Filipinos are very good at being fake, they are in a whole new level. They also like to do stealthy insults.
But passport bro channels tell me it's the promised land full of trad waifus! Did they lie?! 😲
@@city_of_coompton6832 Yes. Woman’s biology is the same everywhere you go no matter the race
Respect has gone out the window long ago and now, forget "friends" or acquaintances trying to be authentic and kind. Neighbors are shitty to each other now. I agree that it's hard, I would say it is highly unlikely that anyone can bring you any good in your life. Ride or die is a temporary frame of mind.
family TOO!
Especially family...
@@eddieavilia2299 YESSIRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
Yup fairweather families, I can relate.
Like arnie's wife from the movie total recall
My old 90 y.o. father has a good pension and a good life. Now he even sold his other apartment, getting 130 000 Euro for that. As a struggling artist I asked what he would do with that money...he suddenly got angry and wrote "Nobody has to DO with this, I deserve it!" (He left me and mother at the age of 4.) So I lost my inheritage too, who knows what he did with that money, my guess is that he gave it to some buddies, to impress them. It's just total madness what he did, instead of sharing it (I don't have income, despite hard work), he threw away that good money, he didn't even need it, with this he crushed me at the end...it's still hard to believe, and it was "my blood", not other people.
Sounds like P. Diddy's private jet in the background ready to fly from the feds. Love the content bro.
@TheSword33 I know how P Diddy's jet sound bro.
Lmfao
@TheSword33 Doesn't take 23 minutes to know how his Jet sounds. I was there.
Improved audio and less humming would greatly improve listening pleasure.
@TheSword33 bro what? 💀
That is so true. That's why I move with high awareness and caution. Because if I don't, my enemies will defeat me if I let them
And they ARE all around us! Literally swimming in devils these days!
Don't confuse a snake for a garden hose....
That is why I open carry, just in case I grab a snake, thinkin its a bit of cord wood, or a hose.
Everyone gaslights me and disregards me. It’s tough. 😢
Then stay away from people
Has satan divided the human family ?IJohn 5:19
@@hi-et1oq easier said than done. You are right tho.
@@mikepiccolo32 definitely. My entire family hates me. They even called the cops and had me thrown in jail for nothing. Case was even dismissed. I am 100 percent alone.
@@expansionist93 same.
I really desire to meet one friend who I can talk deeply with but for the most part, I think it's most human beings coming at me from a manipulation position so I've caught on the fact that they would try to get me to spill the beans, and then they only wanna speak a few words and so I'm not falling for that bait anymore
Sadly, this is correct information.
Thank You Joel For Exposing These Cowards !
My family gaslighted me so they can keep abusing me for my entire life
They usually say things like „you’re just naive“ so they can justify being an asshole
@@DrJohannPryce or your just being paranoid line.
@@Mike-xxxxGen yup dude. I almost died and been I’ll for 2 years. You should be careful take your health above everything else. And try save money and get out
@@Mike-xxxxGen you have to save up or ingest get nice sum of cash and get the fuck out of the country. ASAP. As far away as possible from your family
@@DrJohannPryce Thank you very much for your kindness and good advise I appreciate that and I'm sorry you had to go through that hope your doing better now.
Nobody on my level that’s why I’m alone
I've been surpassed all this I went to go have a baby
Oh wow, it is a cruel world liars and users.
End times..
I think Terry is an obvious victim of some kind of narcissistic abuse to talk like this. I'm like that too unfortunately. Narcissistic abuse changes you.
Yes but he’s speaking the truth because majority of people are not trustworthy!
@@MelModica not gonna disagree with that. Having been gaslighted many years when you free yourself you wake up and see the bullshit everywhere.
My dad is mental abusive and an alcoholic meanwhile he’s bi-polar. He was stalking me at work and his explanation was “well it’s the only way I can get ahold of you” so you want me to have a full on conversation about the past 15 years at my place work? Are you slow? The drinking and the pills have really destroyed him.
@@MelModica there is good out there. Not everybody is bad. Don't lose faith in humanity because of narcissistic people.
@@PrickFlair phone the police. Tell people at work
It's a sad state of affairs today, but this is what the Book of Timothy has been talking about. When I first read it in the 1980s, it scared the crap out of me because people were not acting like that then but now, oh boy!!! All I can say is pray, pray to Lord Jesus for protection from all enemies, seen and unseen, known and unknown.
2 Timothy 3:1-7
1-This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. 2-For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, 3-Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, 4-Traitors, heady, high-minded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; 5-Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away. 6-For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts, 7-Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.
So many of them.
Duke nuke them 😂
Wolfie, I lost SO much sleep in the months before you discarded me, that since the discard, I sleep most of the day and most of the night, every day. It may be unhealthy and seem lazy, but it truly IS the best way to recover from a narcissistic discard. Just sleep the traumatic year away, folks. I highly recommend it. 😉😴
you are the best .
Your talking about a narcissist without calling them what they are 🎉
Exactly
I think it is more than this
Or a pessimist
It depends the type of family you are in. I can't speak to my family members because one of them doesn't not want to fix his house its a mess and needs repairing. I can't be around anyone who just gives in and accepts defeat.
I think you are reading my mind. I have known this for a while.
Yup, been there for a few decades, it has been getting worse this last decade.
Yep I witnessed this and seen it before and they wonder why ppl like me like to be isolated we can see the fake in these people
Shit show out there for real
There are only 144,000 actual true humans at any given time, and that is against 8 billion plus.
YES SIR... SALUTE.... I HAVE DONE THE WORK... AND THEY JUST LOOK AT ME CRAZY....... BUT THEY ALL LOOK AT US DOWNWARD WHEN THEY HAVEN'T DONE ANYTHING.. THEY'RE WEIRD
Weird - Is Correct
My brother “my life sucks, I hate everything, bla bla bla stfu and stop being a victim. Then they judge us through their lenses having not done any work. They haven’t felt the deepest parts of hell alone, solo. And we never held it over there head. We kept to ourselves and overcame with our own blood sweat and tears. I try to help but they don’t listen. It’s like a game they don’t want to stop playing. So tiring, I cut them off.
I feel all these people against me. Even my own family members, I never thought would turn. And now that I look back, they never were truly on my side. They’ve hated me since the beginning,
8:29 - I do not trust at all. I have had people whom I have known over a decade turn on me. The world is savage and people can go evil. Feelings are like a Lamborghini; a luxury. If you need a friend, get a dog.
But what about your childhood friends? You should try to get in contact with them
@@oftenimitatedneverduplicatedthey’re long gone.
If everyone truly knew what everyone was thinking then no one would have any friends. Allan Watts…..
Everything You Need to Read About Narcissism You need to learn everything, that's all you need to know about Toxic / Narcissistic People Knowledge Most people here in the Philippines don't know about Narcissism That's why they are easily Abused not physically abused they are abused emotionally so Educate yourself about Narcissism, because no matter where you go, you will encounter people like that. For those who have experienced Narcissist Abuse, I want you to know that you are not alone. 🇵🇭
Being consistent and trying to get something from nornal from people / an enviroment creates ego dystonia. People need to be aware of this, cause if theyre not it can start to affect your mental health. Keeps you healthy. Love and light x
We live in animal world. The bigger animals get more free stuff. And the small animals have to manipulate to win.
Truth is protection ✝️
I listen to these videos and they make me smile on the inside. Finally confirmation I'm not alone. Feel like a giraffe most days....looking down and shaking my head at everyone saying " they just don't get it". Put yourself last everyday...see how much better your life gets. When you embrace the suck. When you don't pick and choose your 100%. When you don't lie to YOURSELF. The world isn't fair.... Sooooooo what are you going to do about it? You could start with doing your best no matter what. The Hercules mantality....dont give up, don't fucking give in !
They waste so much energy...i feel sorry for them
I feel your pain, I deal with the family version unfortunately.
i don't think these people realize what's coming. This generation is going to experience the MOST pain that anyone has ever experienced in this HISTORY of the world... People who only do instant gratification things, gaslight, and take no responsibility are the ones in trouble here. When you do this, you are making yourself weaker, and you will feel pain more. For people who are disciplined you wont feel any pain from taking a break from your phone, not eating that junk food, and so on. But people who gaslight, and do all these instant gratification things and never want to work on things are the ones in trouble. I don't think they realize how much pain they will be in once they have to go to war. If they freak out because they can't be on their smart phone for a minute, imagine them not having access to their smartphone, in a bunker while bombs are dropping on them XD Sucks for them, they will deserve this, they treated us like garbage anyways, worse than garbage. They wanted to see us crumble in everyway. We will be a lot more prepared.
Nobody is prepared for bombs dropping on them weirdo I had a psychiatrist like you it was weird but he too had bombs dropped on him over here saying life was grand I asked him who payed for your schooling being bombed ? crickets.
Narcissists cause nothing but trouble and yet never seem phased by their chaos. Injustice
Shout out to terryjoeljunior for operating at a high frequency and keeping it real. Too many baby boys out here.
Good people becoming an villain these days, that’s what I noticed…..3 friends of mine. They use to be carrying, empathic, loyal but overtime years passed by. Their character became more really different, like they had different personalities….They’re emotionless, cold, uncaring, fearless, very manipulative, seeing people as objects, disturbed mindsets. Full of anger and hatred towards society…..They literally became a sociopath….Both of my 2 friends are diagnosed with ASPD…..
Your Absolutely Correct my brother Keep it up ❣👍
The amount of times ive called someone out for gaslighting only for them to go nuts
So 👍 Agree With You🎯It’s Horrific( Friends Aren’t Friends) You Have To Become Aware Of Everyone Around You ( Your Literally Watching Your Own Back)!!!!!!!!
There's something different about us leaders man. The average person at a job won't be messed with if they keep quiet, but us... Dude I could say nothing and do my job perfectly, and i'll have complaints from workers and even managers. It's like they sense something greater in you and get jealous. I see people actually breaking the rules and the managers seeing it, and they don't get in trouble. It just makes no sense, you'd rather fire a good employee just because you're jealous, vs keeping him and your business will grow if you just drop the ego. It's like I feel like an alien these days bro, it's like people can just sense you're not "one of them' you're not someone who just wants to settle for less and goof off. They see that as being good. They cant handle that someone may have something more than them, even if they already are decently well off. People are incredibly jealous, and that's a symptom of narcsissm. The gaslighting, the lies, the manipulation, the jealousy, the cheating, 90 some percent of do this, and that's exactly what a narc is. They will say excuses of "oh people just have narcissistic tendencies" I don't give a dam what you label it, this is not acceptable behavior.
You're blamed and monitored whilst the narcissist does all the shit they accuse of. They also brag about it and laugh about it. At your expense. It's a joke.
Totally I’ve always worked extra hard at jobs but had to leave every job because of toxic coworkers. I was mostly quiet but polite and still got targeted. I’m thinking it might be best to do the bare minimum and always have plan A, B and C so if you have to leave a job you still have other income. I usually work multiple part time jobs instead of working one full time job and it helps a little to avoid the drama. I was working night shift at 2 cleaning companies but had to leave both because eventually toxic coworkers caused problems for me!
@@MelModica it's cause you don't belong there. They are trying to get you out because they see greater in you, but are also jealous, and it's too awkward for them for you to be there because they're much much lower. I know the types. I got fired from a couple jobs for doing a great job lol.
You've just described my work situation to a tee - do you work for my employer by any chance... yup, 21 years with the same employer, worked extremely hard to the point of total collapse many times. Outcome: falsely accused of terrorism, violence, racism, dangerous mental illness. Anti terrorism police involved, permanently demoted and suspended, unemployable, demoted to the office help (from a the most responsible role in the entire industry), treated like an actual danger to society, not allowed to be alone in the building, not allowed anywhere near colleagues, threatened with forced psychiatric incarceration and re-education, each and every colleague and manager warned of my alleged "violence and dangerous mental instability", getting treated accordingly...
Note: I have no history of mental illness, nobody has ever had the slightest doubt about my mental state, I am severely disabled and tiny (so much for "violence and involvement with terrorism"), I am from a very mixed background (so much for "racism"), I have always worked quietly and kept myself to myself.
How did the false accusations come about? Let's see - I was better at my original job than the manager, never broke the rules... and I know too much (about the corruption in the company and how the traveling public gets endangered on a daily basis - the company is in the public transport industry).
I therefore had to be discredited and silenced in case I want to whistleblow - which would cause a national scandal and heads to roll...
@@LittleKitty22 you say you have mental illness, and these people are the same people who say they support "mental health awareness month" yet don't actually care when things go down due to it. Honestly, in this case then, they're more sick 😂 just in a different way. They're mentally ill and ev-ill
Bro you literally described every single person i grew up with and my ex as well. Her excuse for all her irresponsibility was im still young. Its like wtf how dumb are you . They think there going to be a jezeabel then get what they wantbecause they have some sort ofattraction level there messed up bro
I turn 27 on April 19th, and I’m finally accepting the reality of life and trying to build myself a better one. Your video popped up on my recommendations and I’m so happy it did! It’s so refreshing to hear such honesty, and a lot of it I needed to hear. Im finally willing to accept my flaws and start the change to correct them 🙏🏽
Yep everyone. All of them do. 100%
it's very hard to convince me about gaslighting & lying bc I always call ppl out on their bullshit. I just been the type of person to speak the truth. Chosen ones always intimidate those weak individuals. Real talk terry....💯
I am 60 and my how the world has changed for the worst. I have had to get rid of everyone and have not one friend left..It's very sad but I am learning to view it as a gain in my life. All liars and scammers.
It’s based on people’s desires…it’s weird unless they’re aware and following god/have good morals and smart. But idk like low functioning
17:20 FACTS!!!!!!!!!!!! They legit know nothing and try to make you feel delusional. like you have amnesia dont know yourself dont know what your donig etc. so messed up!
I was blessed with solid people. All the older men and women in my life come from a traditional town in Mexico. My dad's close friend today was talking about how friends today mostly don't exist. I find that coincidence strange. He said if you find the rare real friend, to hold them close. Ironically he and my dad are traditional men married to traditional women. Been married for decades. Maybe that's why I'm friendless. I only hang out with family and their wive's brothers. Which is basically now family.
I think I can relate to this, I might’ve posted this on one of these videos before, but in a nutshell, I come from a dysfunctional and psychologically abusive relationship with my father who was a covert narcissist and had robbed me of my self-worth, I was homeless with him for a very long time during my upbringing and never had a good home life growing up. I managed to escape that and had to go great lengths to get away from him. I went to go be with my extended family that had found me on the internet, I genuinely felt that I would belong with them and I thought they felt same way, but unfortunately, I guess they didn’t. What seemed like a gift from the universe, just turned into something that only contributed to my psychological and emotional wounds, I was only with them for 3 months because of how difficult they were to live with, and how conditional their love and regard was towards me, couldn’t really be loved or accepted for just the way I am and only if I meet certain criteria, and had to constantly jump through hoops in order to be loved. It’s just really unfair to me how my upbringing pretty much got robbed by a narcissist father and is something no kid should ever have to go through, while my fully related brother got to have what they called a ‘privileged life’. Yet, some online stranger on discord said to me “why should they love you” and “who are you and why should you be loved and cared for” and even a former friend laughs at me and invalidates me and minimizes my feelings saying “well they raised your brother and not you so he’s their kid and not you why do you think you deserve everything what he always gotten.” and that put more salt in the wound…it’s just really unfair, my aunt didn’t even have any idea why I went to go be with them, even though she invited me and was like “why not come stay here?”. It has put me in a constant endless loop of rumination. I remember I stayed with a friend of mine and his family because his mom couldn’t sleep at night knowing that I was sleeping in a car in a parking lot somewhere. They treated me as equally as their 2 boys… I wanted that with my brother… every other kid gets to have a family home life, the most basic thing in the world… except for me I guess… I have had someone that recognized the validity of my feelings though, and that person said “How on earth can you not be allowed just the same if not more.” all that I wanted was a life there with my family…why would anyone be wrong for that?
Whoever your brother is behind closed doors you might have been spared an assault charge or outright got deleted but keep whining...your alive apparently.
I understand your pain. Healing from narcissistic abuse takes time. Notice the patterns, don't give an emotional reaction. Avoid reacting, only respond.
@@areuarealman7269 I’m not sure what you mean but yeah I’m alive lol
@@areuarealman7269 I’m not sure what you mean but yeah I’m alive lol
@@blankearth5840 it doesnt matter if theyr blood related. If theyr unreasonable people who practice favoritism and conditional love. Leave em the in the dust, your better off with just you and God, always
I understand you. Im from Atlanta and I live in Seattle now. Southerners are still genuine from the core.
True and when you try and help they say you’re mean
Yeah they help you and then they throw that to your face that's why I don't need no help from nobody
@@hi-et1oqor they don’t even want to help themselves. If they wanna stay in their sad little world, that’s not my problem.
My father is a negative, mental abuser, he would stalk me at work and one day I just called him and said don’t come into my work ever again or we’re gonna have problems. He responded with “well it’s the only way I can get ahold of you” all people like him do is want to push themselves onto you and have no regard for how their actions may make them feel.
I don’t feel sorry for him one bit, his decisions led him to be alone and no one caring about him. He hasn’t once tried to approach me in good faith.
@@PrickFlair it's not my problem if your father was negative to you stalk you oh he was abused to you I could care less
@@hi-et1oq never said it was your problem my guy. Mr huff and puff damn 😂😭
@@PrickFlair go with your daddy so he could abuse you again hurry up 😂😂😂😂😂
I know exactly how you feel man ,I've been through it. Time and time again from these snakes in the Grass
They swear they slick as if God doesn't expose all the fuckery
Terryjoeljunior bruh I love your content. You speak nothing but facts. Keep spreading that profound wisdom to the lost my friend. God bless you
Sometimes they don't even benefit from messing with your mind. Sometimes they are just stupid and/or emotional in a bad way.
So ture Joel so ture. Then as soon as them people go they come right back at you and smile in your face went ture it
My family told me that my aunt did not have a will. 💭They told me about this and I never asked. 😵💫Terrible things begin to happen. My nephew told me their plans were to have me committed. 😮None of their tactics worked. Turns out, she does have a will, life insurance, Veteran’s life insurance, etc. 😶🌫️I have this nagging feeling that I’m adopted. 🤯My family never loved me. 🫣
i understand what you mean when you say most are backstabbing, and , or jelous people. ive had the same experience myself, and ive come to the conclusion that its better to be alone. like attracts like, thats why i have no friends.
I figured
@TheSword33 I can tell the future
Spitting truths💥
Thank you for the video
Its all fear. We are afraid. Thats why peope can not be authentic.
Where there is two there is conflict. The ego cannot live and let live. Jealousy and envy are part of its nature .
It is literally all but one or two folks! Always been very few friends, but it has gotten to be really slim pickens. Mostly just folks that are looking out for themselves. my mom always said' What is in it for them?" That was back in the 80's, and maritime law applies! You are a good friend to many Terry! So glad my Mom was tough love and looked out for me before she died, way back when I was 15. Thanks Bro, you are on the spot! God Bless!
Right we all need to break free from this
We are, it’s happening
Tripping dog. He’s speaking facts. Pay attention
16:03 Yes People Are Extremely Delusional!
Thank you, I’ve been trying to figure out a situation out lately , and it’s all very interesting …..at this point the reasons, excuses, the whys don’t matter any longer, I don’t allow them to to anger me,I just keep moving forward, it’s not worth the time or energy
I agreed with you 100% cause my baby moms was drinking most of the time I was talking to her and I just couldn’t take her serious anymore and I got her name on my chest and I mess up man no cap
Actions speak louder than words talk is cheap
People are using each other!!! They all fake I have 0 friends can't tolerate fake
You, f**king ROCK! I love your videos. They just make me so happy, and you teach me to not regret being a good person even if it’s not given back. Continue to remain good, and still protect your energy and your space.
The speed which you put these out is mind boggling. You are doing good for the people free if charge. From Wisconsin,, a 43 year old male that was helped by your videos. Respect. Love. High vibrations.
The bars he spitting is top tier💪🏾💯
Thank you for dropping real truth bombs, Joel, it's music to my ears.