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  • Опубликовано: 11 фев 2025
  • Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Vanessa, the wife of a Mexican cartel enforcer now staying on Skid Row. Get 50% off access to world-wide perspectives on today’s biggest news stories. Subscribe through my link: ground.news/swu
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  • @SoftWhiteUnderbelly
    @SoftWhiteUnderbelly  2 месяца назад +68

    Get 50% off access to world-wide perspectives on today’s biggest news stories. Subscribe through my link: ground.news/swu

    • @eazythetruth
      @eazythetruth 2 месяца назад +12

      If anyone deserves monetary help this woman does !!!!! A go fund me something . Lord Jesus bless her

    • @setapart68
      @setapart68 2 месяца назад +6

      MARK HOW CAN I HELP HER. Can I send some $ to her??? If so how??? Pls & tnx I’ve never seen such class & integrity God bless & keep Vanessa in comfort 27:01 dignity to the highest degree wow

    • @setapart68
      @setapart68 2 месяца назад +3

      @@eazythetruth absolutely agree let’s do it kind ppl pls & tnx

    • @laylarodd7372
      @laylarodd7372 2 месяца назад +1

      I'm happy problems commenting , can only reply to existing ones , can someone point in the right direction (I'm not great with tech so this is probably something straight forward !)

    • @sofiavelosomagioliemello00
      @sofiavelosomagioliemello00 2 месяца назад +2

      Mark, how can we help her?

  • @phillipcooke500
    @phillipcooke500 2 месяца назад +2263

    Mark. This is the most intense interview you have ever put on here. And I have watched so many.

    • @DerekCaron-v8v
      @DerekCaron-v8v 2 месяца назад +32

      Agreed

    • @rob16248
      @rob16248 2 месяца назад +18

      Many, as in less than 10, probably..

    • @phillipcooke500
      @phillipcooke500 2 месяца назад +151

      And people commenting that she is lying. Yeah, some people lie. But I also think people take comfort in saying someone is lying because they don't want to believe that a person can be dealt a hand this extreme/insane. People living comfortable middle-class lives, poking holes in someone's truth.
      Most of the time. These interviews just make me feel lucky for the life I have. Listening to these interviews. Every day. Levels my bias. I dig deeper.

    • @phillipcooke500
      @phillipcooke500 2 месяца назад +24

      @@rob16248 I have watched these interviews for years. So not probably. I have watched hundreds. So, curb your cynicism and chill my friend.

    • @dhalladay27
      @dhalladay27 2 месяца назад +9

      I'm not sure about' the most', but it's up there.

  • @Penumbrasite
    @Penumbrasite 2 месяца назад +1818

    That was hands down one of the saddest stories I’ve ever heard….. appreciate what you have, people..

    • @EPM1
      @EPM1 2 месяца назад +11

      Ever.

    • @ewaniemialkowska9360
      @ewaniemialkowska9360 2 месяца назад +7

      My thoughts exactly...

    • @tabithasmith1943
      @tabithasmith1943 2 месяца назад +16

      Seriously. I am tempted to show this to my kids. Just not sure they’re old enough to understand this level yet, but I’ll never forget this video.

    • @Chill_Cosby
      @Chill_Cosby 2 месяца назад +6

      @@tabithasmith1943it probably won’t have the affect on them like it should. It’s hard to comprehend that kind of emotional pain until you experience it yourself.

    • @Thomas-ed4cl
      @Thomas-ed4cl 2 месяца назад +3

      The wild thing is this is the life I grew up in and I know countless stories like this.

  • @myam4474
    @myam4474 Месяц назад +177

    At the very end when she’s describing the mausoleum she said “they’re all there… waiting for me….” Ugh…. What a gut wrenching story. I don’t ever comment on videos but man this was intense. I just wanna give her the biggest hug and sit with her for hours…

  • @kennywaynebearhead
    @kennywaynebearhead 2 месяца назад +1982

    May Death be gentle and merciful and may the reunion with her son, her daughter, her husband, and her brother come swiftly. Godspeed, Vanessa.

    • @nomadsteve5297
      @nomadsteve5297 2 месяца назад +34

      Do you really believe that her family are in heaven, 😮

    • @artistbreakdown9701
      @artistbreakdown9701 2 месяца назад +136

      @@nomadsteve5297 I don’t believe that’s your job to decide who goes to Heaven or Hell.

    • @kennywaynebearhead
      @kennywaynebearhead 2 месяца назад +37

      @ I didn’t say anything about her family being in any kind of “heaven” at all.

    • @mamalovetarot777
      @mamalovetarot777 2 месяца назад +28

      @nomadsteve5297 maybe you haven't noticed where we currently are? It's not all unicorns and rainbows here now is it?

    • @Jmr-o5e
      @Jmr-o5e 2 месяца назад +5

      @@artistbreakdown9701 that wasnt his question. Why not answer the question that was asked.

  • @BrendanLamb52
    @BrendanLamb52 2 месяца назад +824

    4 minutes in, when she said "lo siento, mi amor" while talking about her husband, I knew I was in for it. The sheer heartbreak emanating from her is so awful. I pray and hope she finds the peace she deserves.

    • @musiciandom
      @musiciandom 2 месяца назад +1

      I knew I was in for it 2 minutes in. Rough stuff

    • @_BlackSummer
      @_BlackSummer 2 месяца назад +11

      OKAY ME TOOO

    • @Susan-lf2hl
      @Susan-lf2hl 2 месяца назад +15

      She will no longer be in physical or mental pain. Amazingly she didnt kill herself. Very strong woman.

    • @chainlife1428
      @chainlife1428 2 месяца назад +4

      That’s what kept me watching

    • @rainystormcloud7499
      @rainystormcloud7499 2 месяца назад +13

      I think she said, " lo entiendo,..mi amor"..
      "I understand,.. my love"
      Cuz she was comparing the mens meal as their last supper. 😢

  • @monapanapa6219
    @monapanapa6219 2 месяца назад +184

    Mark, hands down the best episode yet. I will never forget Vanessa’s life story 💔thank you for this interview.
    Vanessa, you are in my thoughts and prayers 🩷

  • @marisolllamas7657
    @marisolllamas7657 2 месяца назад +621

    Please, please, I implore you. Do a follow up on her. There is so much missing from her story. If you see this, just know that you deserve to be here, and you are worthy of so much.

    • @anonymous_123anonymous
      @anonymous_123anonymous 2 месяца назад +11

      This.

    • @m_starseed
      @m_starseed 2 месяца назад +35

      One shopping trip for Rebecca could cover a month or two of living expenses for this woman in need.

    • @butcher1010
      @butcher1010 2 месяца назад +10

      Wow this lady has been through hell. Dammit man. May she find peace.

    • @zydian_
      @zydian_ Месяц назад +2

      What is there to follow up on? Shes going to die or dead. And she herself knows best what stories to cover for this interview.

    • @justinbrewer2076
      @justinbrewer2076 Месяц назад +1

      @@m_starseedexactly, but I do wonder what makes mark choose the ones he helps, definitely not the ones I’d help first. But at least he does more helping than I…

  • @Shiningeyes8
    @Shiningeyes8 2 месяца назад +713

    I’ve never wanted to give someone a hug more in my life than watching this. I’m so sorry for all you have endured. 😢

    • @Idiotoutwonderingaround
      @Idiotoutwonderingaround 2 месяца назад +9

      @@Shiningeyes8 i’d like to hug the families of the victims her and her husband murdered.

    • @marctodisco
      @marctodisco 2 месяца назад

      Right???????? ❤❤❤

    • @Shiningeyes8
      @Shiningeyes8 2 месяца назад +10

      @@Idiotoutwonderingaround my comment was about her suffering in her personal life. If you remove the man she married she still suffered.

    • @Idiotoutwonderingaround
      @Idiotoutwonderingaround 2 месяца назад +14

      @@Shiningeyes8 Her suffering as a child is absolutely tragic undoubtedly. Nobody could argue that. But nobody has mentioned her and her husband’s countless victims. What she willingly chose to be involved with in her adult life has led to the suffering she continues to endure. She is reaping the consequences of her choices. How many orphans and widows did her husband create while she aided and remained silent? I think they deserve an episode. Her suffering is insignificant compared to the suffering she has inflicted on countless others.

    • @WHAT_THE_F0XX
      @WHAT_THE_F0XX 2 месяца назад

      ​@@Idiotoutwonderingaround ewww. Your comment is cringy. What a sick person you are

  • @lauraisabellafig134
    @lauraisabellafig134 2 месяца назад +76

    Please try to do a part 2! ♥️ I feel like there’s so much more to her story. My heart goes out to Vanessa 😢

  • @tinderbox-withtinda3504
    @tinderbox-withtinda3504 2 месяца назад +741

    If getting dealt a really bad hand was a person..... This is it.
    The stuff nightmares are made of.
    I just can't imagine being surrounded by so much pain.
    May the universe grant Vanessa some kind of peace. Whatever that is in her life.

    • @shannabanana7080
      @shannabanana7080 2 месяца назад +7

      Well said. I couldn’t put it into words.

    • @DXVDMVN3
      @DXVDMVN3 2 месяца назад +1

      nah

    • @FrailRider
      @FrailRider 2 месяца назад

      ​@@DXVDMVN3 you feel better now pussy?

    • @Th3Chuzzl3r
      @Th3Chuzzl3r 2 месяца назад +8

      and they will tell people like her to "pull yourself up by your bootstraps"

    • @DXVDMVN3
      @DXVDMVN3 2 месяца назад

      @@Th3Chuzzl3r let her fade away into obscurity. Shes a lying addict. Youre easi;ly manipulated. Whats ur gov name, please?

  • @jenniferthomason3431
    @jenniferthomason3431 2 месяца назад +205

    This interview gave me chills and made me cry. This is one of the saddest, most intense interviews to date. I can feel her pain through the screen.

  • @ronaldbeall5534
    @ronaldbeall5534 2 месяца назад +91

    Wow!! I really needed this today, i was struggling with my mental health and been really down. This video reminded me it can always be worse and to appreciate and be grateful for everything you have and hug your loved ones. Tell them you love them! May god wrap you in his arms, and may that bring you some peace. You have survived so much trauma. Please fight the cancer. You can change lives just with your story.

    • @kjensen900
      @kjensen900 Месяц назад +1

      You too are loved ❤️

  • @kahlabarnes1981
    @kahlabarnes1981 2 месяца назад +318

    Oh, Vanessa!! 😢 Your story is so heartbreaking. I pray you are able to find peace.

  • @Amy-ky4bc
    @Amy-ky4bc 2 месяца назад +444

    Omg it's a miracle this woman is even sitting and telling us her story. I truly hope she can get any help she needs to process this better❤️

    • @EnterMerlin
      @EnterMerlin 2 месяца назад +27

      i don't think she needs or wants to 'process', she wants to leave her body and move on from this life now 💖 she seems in charge of it all, know what i mean? the stage 3 throat cancer is processing everything for her, but she doesn't want to heal it, she wants to use it as a catalyst to go. she's ready. she's had enough. unless she has a turnaround of course!

    • @DXVDMVN3
      @DXVDMVN3 2 месяца назад

      are u kidding?

    • @Amy-ky4bc
      @Amy-ky4bc 2 месяца назад

      @@DXVDMVN3 why?

    • @DXVDMVN3
      @DXVDMVN3 Месяц назад

      @ cuz I said so idiot!

  • @liziwood6370
    @liziwood6370 Месяц назад +30

    Vanessa simply exudes deep pain & heartache, this was an intensely difficult view...but I'm pleased I heard her story if for no other reason than to say "I hear you, I acknowledge your life journey & your immense loss Vanessa & just know that you matter so more than you think". Heartfelt thanks for sharing so openly.

  • @MadVecino
    @MadVecino 2 месяца назад +256

    The pause break while talking about her husband and a narco corrido plays in the backround. Chilling 🥶

    • @michaelb3138
      @michaelb3138 2 месяца назад +27

      So True! He was telling her his with her!

    • @kingseaton5736
      @kingseaton5736 2 месяца назад +13

      wow that was absolutely him, where in the video did this happen i dont think i caught it :(

    • @MadVecino
      @MadVecino 2 месяца назад

      @@kingseaton5736 time stamp 5:06

    • @MadVecino
      @MadVecino 2 месяца назад

      @@kingseaton5736 5:06

    • @amanduh0404
      @amanduh0404 2 месяца назад +11

      I thought that same thing! I got goosebumps!

  • @LokDog808
    @LokDog808 2 месяца назад +174

    That is the most heart wrenching life story I’ve ever heard… and I’ve watched a lot of your videos. This woman deserves all the love and kindness in the world. I hope you helped her in any way you could.

  • @Midorireed
    @Midorireed Месяц назад +34

    My heart broke when she said “nobody’s perfect put I tried”
    I felt her pain deep. That is a STONG women but the strongest women are the one that survived the unimaginable.

  • @zareththealchemist8982
    @zareththealchemist8982 2 месяца назад +250

    Poor Soul. I will NEVER think that my life was in any way difficult or painful again after witnessing Vanessa tell the story of her heart breaking life. This is a life changing video. Thank you for allowing her the opportunity to share with the World what hell on Earth is truly like. Bless her broken heart and may she find resting peace and eternal love soon. 🙏❤️

    • @tylerchapman9234
      @tylerchapman9234 2 месяца назад

      No shit. Amen.

    • @Th3Chuzzl3r
      @Th3Chuzzl3r 2 месяца назад +3

      It makes me angry that some people have to deal with such difficult circumstances, I know she made some mistakes, but NOONE deserves to have to live through so much heartache, makes you appreciate all the things you take for granted.

    • @SpaQueenRocks
      @SpaQueenRocks 2 месяца назад +1

      Other people's misfortunes don't automatically negate our own, though. It's good to have perspective; there will always be others who have it worse and some much better. Being grateful for what we DO have just makes things easier.

  • @kelleyboyles1715
    @kelleyboyles1715 2 месяца назад +452

    Her story should become a movie. It takes so much strength to do what she has done. What a strong woman with integrity. Much love to you Vanessa

    • @ambercrawford7114
      @ambercrawford7114 2 месяца назад +16

      A horror movie.

    • @chaddevine565
      @chaddevine565 2 месяца назад +19

      You gotta stop believing in every word of what people say

    • @kelleyboyles1715
      @kelleyboyles1715 2 месяца назад +17

      @@chaddevine565 I don't. Discernment dude.

    • @shazzye5920
      @shazzye5920 2 месяца назад +10

      It would be too hard to watch…truly.

    • @DirtyRedMuzik
      @DirtyRedMuzik 2 месяца назад +1

      @@kelleyboyles1715She’s not that strong as she gave up years ago.

  • @rachelkelly7616
    @rachelkelly7616 2 месяца назад +10

    Absolutely heart wrenching interview, Vanessa is so strong to still be here after suffering so much loss and heartache. I hope she finds peace and some happiness xx

  • @carrieokie1889
    @carrieokie1889 2 месяца назад +364

    This is the most heartbreaking story I've ever watched on this channel..

    • @Zzoarqg
      @Zzoarqg 2 месяца назад

      @@carrieokie1889 🤣

    • @carrieokie1889
      @carrieokie1889 2 месяца назад

      @Zzoarqg 😘😘😘😘😘

  • @JennyNoPants
    @JennyNoPants 2 месяца назад +305

    This interview 😢is the only one you've done that made me cry. I have no other words. If anyone thinks that they have a rough life. Listen to this.

    • @cemetarytrae
      @cemetarytrae 2 месяца назад +12

      Exactly. And before I started watching this I thought I had it bad.

    • @specialopsgauteng5701
      @specialopsgauteng5701 2 месяца назад +3

      Was just gonna say this....

    • @Alexandra-ng1ih
      @Alexandra-ng1ih 2 месяца назад

      I’ve been abused for two decades, and now havd BPD, which is a lifelong illness that causes everyone to hate me and run away from me. 10% of us kill them selves, stop comparing and shit.

    • @pinkaholic09
      @pinkaholic09 2 месяца назад +3

      ​@@cemetarytraeI grew up with ALL bad ( A paralyzed dad from MS in a wheelchair at 19 , a smashed drunk/ slut mother, a head injured sister from a 95 mph car accident etc. EVERY day was a shitshow in our family)
      Nothing usually shocks me yet this interview did. I don't think I've ever seen someone's live with this level of trauma. Shockingly awful. Never seen a person with such hardship.

    • @nightowl6811
      @nightowl6811 2 месяца назад +1

      Dammm! Sucks , unbelievable stories ladies 😮

  • @mellllll9
    @mellllll9 2 месяца назад +11

    What an interview. I can’t stop crying. Thank you, Vanessa.

  • @hassnaaittaleb9307
    @hassnaaittaleb9307 2 месяца назад +62

    This is the first SWU video that has ever made me cry so much. I feel a deep love for her.

  • @kris9259
    @kris9259 2 месяца назад +115

    Wow this was an amazing interview. I felt her pain through the screen

  • @TbenZ-z1w
    @TbenZ-z1w Месяц назад +14

    This might just be the most powerful interview I’ve watch Mark. Any updates on her? Her story went straight to my heart ❤😢

  • @DidYouFallOutofaCoconutTree
    @DidYouFallOutofaCoconutTree 2 месяца назад +105

    I'm not even 1/2 way through the video and I cannot believe what I'm hearing.... This is the most intense story I've listened to yet on this channel. God bless Vanessa, she has endured so much and I have so much love and respect for her, I pray she finds peace and lets go of this pain. Thank you Mark for giving her (and everyone) a chance and an outlet to have a therapeutic listener (such as yourself) and allowing us to see the reality of life

  • @taylo38731
    @taylo38731 2 месяца назад +156

    I’ve been super down and depressed about my life…not anymore. Grateful. I pray she finds peace.

    • @MadamBATTL3CAT
      @MadamBATTL3CAT 2 месяца назад +1

      What a selfish and strange thing to say ….. you whaacko

    • @cemetarytrae
      @cemetarytrae 2 месяца назад +11

      Same!! I went from feeling really down since I woke up. Started watching this and now I’m good and thinking of all the things I’m grateful for.

    • @chiefwahoo4130
      @chiefwahoo4130 2 месяца назад +5

      @@cemetarytraei wouldnt think you would feel like that if i saw you on the street. I get you though cuz i been feeling the same lately. I have a lot o be grateful for but i feel empty inside.

    • @SamuelDobbs-r3n
      @SamuelDobbs-r3n 2 месяца назад

      🙏

    • @Jdawn92
      @Jdawn92 2 месяца назад

      Same

  • @charlesgarneau5177
    @charlesgarneau5177 Месяц назад +7

    That was the most intense and emotional video you have ever put out. In the 5+ years ive been using youtube, this is the second time I have ever commented on a video and I am speechless beyond these words. Just when you think you know how much pain a person can endure, you are reminded that there is always someone else out there suffering more than yourself. As traumatizing as this video was to watch it was also humbling but also a reminder of the good and evil of the world around us. Loyalty and respect has been forgotten but people such as Vanessa do exist. My thoughts are with her through her pain and her days left with us. I hope you are safe and enjoy what you have left-I will too....

  • @Mr93sharpei
    @Mr93sharpei 2 месяца назад +161

    Excellent interview.
    May she heal...such heavy and sad energy.
    Thank you

    • @patrickbowman8841
      @patrickbowman8841 2 месяца назад +1

      There is no healing from this. Only an end to the suffering. Don’t kid yourself. Part of this life is accepting reality.

  • @LeeBra8H
    @LeeBra8H 2 месяца назад +58

    Out of all thousand interviews u hv done, for me this was the most touching

  • @Rubiewoo
    @Rubiewoo 2 месяца назад +9

    This is the top interview I’ve ever seen on this channel and I’ve been watching since the beginning

  • @eoneon123
    @eoneon123 2 месяца назад +158

    A lot of the comments are suggesting this woman is fabricating her story. I'm not here to weigh in on that. The bottom line is that you can see that's she's lived a hard life just by looking at her. And whatever you think of her truthfulness, there are countless people who are in fact living some version of *her* story. Life is so brutally harsh and random. It makes no sense. The point I think is to appreciate what you have and to focus on maintaining empathy.

    • @marctodisco
      @marctodisco 2 месяца назад +4

      Well said!!

    • @VivaldifanXxxxxrrr6464
      @VivaldifanXxxxxrrr6464 2 месяца назад +3

      Could be untrue, sometime mentally ill people/drug addicts make up stories, change things, they’re also getting paychecks for the interview, a sort of incentive

    • @hollyniederer8581
      @hollyniederer8581 2 месяца назад +17

      ​@@VivaldifanXxxxxrrr6464I'm not feeling anything she said was untrue.

    • @VanessaChavez-dd3dj
      @VanessaChavez-dd3dj 2 месяца назад +9

      I haven't seen ONE comment saying that

    • @eoneon123
      @eoneon123 2 месяца назад +5

      @@VanessaChavez-dd3dj I'm not going to search them out but there were multiple challenges from multiple people. They were fact checking her story. Off the top of my head at least one of them was questioning her connection to the Ohio State(?) football player that I think she said committed suicide. I get being curious.And I get being suspicious. I also understand weighing the validity of person's story before you help them. I'm just saying the value of this/these interviews is that it widens the aperture of my point of view, and as a consequence, my empathy to those who are wildly different from me.

  • @phukyu345
    @phukyu345 2 месяца назад +245

    this is the most heartbreaking ten mins of a episode ive heard in fuckin years holy christ

    • @phukyu345
      @phukyu345 2 месяца назад +3

      first ten mins *

    • @pinkaholic09
      @pinkaholic09 2 месяца назад +2

      I agree it's the most extreme I've seen....

    • @Reallionaire314
      @Reallionaire314 2 месяца назад +2

      I almost turned it off because its so sad....

  • @brandilepage4052
    @brandilepage4052 Месяц назад +11

    Man, this is the definition of pain. I thought I’ve been thru a hard life and pain, and trauma, but this.. this is beyond anything I can comprehend. My heart breaks for her broken soul. I pray she finds peace

  • @laneybop1728
    @laneybop1728 2 месяца назад +63

    This women was kept here because I believe her story can help SO many! She’s been thru it ALL. She has seen what money & smarts can buy/ bring- it’s not always sparkly & light. And, how darkness can continue playing out- starting from one family member and continuing for generations. This is a story beyond the many I have seen on your show- it’s hard to say much as I sit mouth still agape. But, I pray she gets her peace. I’m proud of her for telling her story with so much truth and recollection. I believe she is someone who after all her body went thru is a true needer of orig. fentenal pain patches. She also had to keep it simple as possible for even then it’s A-LOT for her and us! But, it’s important! It should be a movie, but if nothing else there is this video! Again, I thank you both for getting this story out there- if nothing else I’m sure it will help anyone who was feeling their life wasn’t good today- to realize their life isn’t so bad after all.

    • @SawBlade11
      @SawBlade11 2 месяца назад +1

      Smarts? There was nothing smart in this interview

    • @laneybop1728
      @laneybop1728 2 месяца назад

      @@SawBlade11 😂I didn’t mean it as it reads!

  • @debbielicis6257
    @debbielicis6257 2 месяца назад +263

    This is too much for a human to bear. I’m so sorry for her. I hope for her sake that the angels take her soon. My friend just died of throat cancer & I hope her journey to see her family is not as long as my friends was. Do you feel like some families are cursed?

    • @bullwinkle1446
      @bullwinkle1446 2 месяца назад +32

      Generational curse is what ive heard. Hard to think all that trauma is just coincidence. I'm just a guy on RUclips though.

    • @michaele.stovall6364
      @michaele.stovall6364 2 месяца назад

      Me too, wow gods speed ​@bullwinkle1446

    • @kaiotikworld8945
      @kaiotikworld8945 2 месяца назад +8

      Yes my family most likely is. You wouldn’t believe the ridiculous horrible things that have happened since my great grandparents generation. C

    • @keybay7133
      @keybay7133 2 месяца назад +13

      Absolutely believe in generational curses

    • @lynnrussell1641
      @lynnrussell1641 2 месяца назад +6

      ​@@glennmarz652 Energy Transfer is Real and Trauma causes epigenetic changes to DNA

  • @KidneyFighterShow
    @KidneyFighterShow 9 часов назад

    Mark, I’ve followed your stories for a while. This is the most intense story I’ve ever heard you tell.

  • @VanessaChavez-dd3dj
    @VanessaChavez-dd3dj 2 месяца назад +79

    Thank u...Thank u for sharing your story...My name is Vanessa...I'm an addict who's been to federal prison for trafficking..My life rings alot like yours...I'm so sorry for what you've been thru...Its hard to believe in an ALL LOVING GOD when so many of us have to live a life of never ending suffering and pain...Thank u....I pray that you find the PEACE YOUR SOUL DESERVES...Just know your soul chose this journey for a reason....You are touching so many ppls heart Vanessa...Thank you

    • @vanessaroediger4829
      @vanessaroediger4829 Месяц назад

      My name is also Vanessa. Thank you for sharing your story, both of you, that’s why I wanted to reply on your thread. It’s has been my son and I for 20 years in the US now, but I couldn’t let him grow up where I come from. I knew it was going to be his only shot. In my spirit I am still strong, I think that’s why it is so hard so often. It’s my body that’s tired, maybe my soul too a bit. Bone-tired.
      I heard you say it too. I want you to know that I know how you feel and that you are not tired alone anymore. And neither am I.
      -- It’s not you who didn’t check the cameras well enough, it’s actually the perpetrators that have no right to begin with to set out on and act on what they did to you and your family.
      They are responsible for they did. Take as much of the guilt inside of you as you can, and in your mind, put in a box and place on THEIR doorstep. That’s where it belongs.
      Maybe it is possible for Mark to set up something to raise funds that would help you. So you know that you are not forgotten, and neither is your family.
      All the best, from the bottom of heart, from one Vanessa to another Vanessa

  • @charlstephen
    @charlstephen 2 месяца назад +78

    You have a purpose Vanessa, your story made me grateful for my life and I will never ever complain again. Praying for the chaos to end.❤

  • @gavares3
    @gavares3 3 дня назад

    this was the best of them all. I hope Vanessa finds peace. Thank you for this.

  • @ginagrainger7180
    @ginagrainger7180 2 месяца назад +277

    Lord have mercy on this precious lady. I’ve never heard such a tragic life story

    • @rudyrowe85
      @rudyrowe85 2 месяца назад +7

      🙏🏾

    • @Collageartist69
      @Collageartist69 2 месяца назад +2

      I can't keep the story straight.

    • @ELLoSaint
      @ELLoSaint 2 месяца назад

      @@Collageartist69 yea because she’s a lying dope fiend lol

    • @Idiotoutwonderingaround
      @Idiotoutwonderingaround 2 месяца назад +14

      Do precious ladies babysit their husband’s murder victims? Give me a break.

    • @JonDeth
      @JonDeth 2 месяца назад +1

      @@Idiotoutwonderingaround I wouldn't call her precious but I don't condemn her either. Sometimes judging someone's story is inappropriate. *I have approximately 29 years as a victim of celebrity sex trafficking with the bulk of it being the last 23 years.*
      My brother is one of the most powerful casting directors in American media while I was being trafficked by A-listers the majority of zombies married to the TV would never believe. *People assume there's always a choice, but it's nonsense.* I'm under the power of people who are absurdly rich and powerful for now. An alarm and CCTV security camera system isn't enough due to black market resources available to the rich and corrupt.
      I know I can eventually get out of this, *but it's more than people are willing to believe is even possible and the way out is truly twisted but sometimes justice is revenge.* There's a huge fold of celebrities that are literally a cartel and I have no doubts have ties to the Mexican cartels that traffic people an opiates.
      My brother's name is Bill Marinella by the way and while I have a mountain of legal evidence to prove my claim, it's easier said than done to get authorities to take action. *As it is, the Democrats have been protecting these people for decades because they're acting in concert with them.*

  • @katiebanta_01
    @katiebanta_01 2 месяца назад +51

    I have watched many many of your videos, but this ladies story had me bawling unlike any other of your videos before. God bless her soul

  • @naomisandoval1242
    @naomisandoval1242 2 месяца назад +4

    This is the most raw, heartbreaking and true story I have yet to see on here. Vanessa, I pray you find your peace in life.

  • @florence2394
    @florence2394 2 месяца назад +22

    The best interview you’ve ever done. Bless her forever and a day.

  • @luvisswhatt
    @luvisswhatt 2 месяца назад +27

    I cried this entire interview. I wish I could give this woman the biggest hug. What a hard life she’s lived.

  • @eismccc
    @eismccc Месяц назад +2

    I, she... her story moved me physically, philosophically, morally, emotionally... Like a building symphony, crescendo upon crescendo, climax and resolve... My heart goes out to you Vanessa, and Mark for listening to these stories it must be difficult. Bless you guys.

  • @kuldar
    @kuldar 2 месяца назад +171

    Heartbreaking. She never stood a chance.

    • @pinkaholic09
      @pinkaholic09 2 месяца назад +5

      It's utterly horrific, is it not???

  • @andybyrne3542
    @andybyrne3542 2 месяца назад +458

    Mark just see that she has a room with a comfortable bed for the next year or so…There’s a lot of scammers/hustlers who want so much from you, I think giving her a peaceful place for herself for the time she has would really be helpful to her. She doesn’t deserve to be sleeping on the streets.

    • @cindywallace7353
      @cindywallace7353 2 месяца назад +54

      And food and medicine.

    • @Idiotoutwonderingaround
      @Idiotoutwonderingaround 2 месяца назад +49

      Her husband’s murder victims probably didnt deserve to be burned and fed to pigs either… you people amaze me.

    • @douglasrodenbach8000
      @douglasrodenbach8000 2 месяца назад +25

      How you know she’s not a scammer?

    • @nomadsteve5297
      @nomadsteve5297 2 месяца назад +18

      @@Idiotoutwonderingaroundthank you, I’ve been scrolling through to find someone who thinks the same as me, but most comments are saying she will soon be reunited with her husband and children in heaven, it must be really easy to get into heaven 😊

    • @Idiotoutwonderingaround
      @Idiotoutwonderingaround 2 месяца назад +8

      @@nomadsteve5297 see how easy it is to garner sympathy from idiots by simply shedding a few tears and telling a sob story? The lady literally joked around about her “last meals” for her POS husband’s victims. You’re not alone in your rationality!

  • @maryjohnson3182
    @maryjohnson3182 2 месяца назад +57

    What a heart wrenching story. I pray for you Vanessa.

  • @teresacabrera8694
    @teresacabrera8694 2 месяца назад +90

    Seems as if she lived this life to suffer. Thank you, Mark for allowing her to tell her tragic story. May she find peace when she reunites with her children.
    Her story, although tragic, helps those of us realize how good we have it. 😢

    • @catherinepraus8635
      @catherinepraus8635 2 месяца назад

      True dat

    • @alienspeaking3938
      @alienspeaking3938 2 месяца назад +1

      That’s why she states that it feels as if she’s paying off karmic debt from a previous lifetime.

  • @HanJukes
    @HanJukes 2 месяца назад +14

    This woman’s life has got to be the wildest life story I’ve ever heard. Here I am thinking I’ve been through so much shit.. what I’ve been through doesn’t even scrape the surface of what this lady has been through. Such a strong person. The fact she’s here and sober enough to even talk about it is mind boggling. I hope the best

  • @jamiemcantire1177
    @jamiemcantire1177 2 месяца назад +25

    Wow. I love this woman. She has experienced so much hurt but she’s here sharing it with world. I hope you find peace in your life or after. You’re a beautiful strong woman. Thank you for sharing your personal story.

  • @jarrodpairgin6886
    @jarrodpairgin6886 2 месяца назад +18

    This is the most insane interview I've ever listened to. Bless this poor woman who has been through more than most of us could ever imagine. I hope she finds peace in this broken world.

  • @TraciVanhorn
    @TraciVanhorn 2 месяца назад +3

    Oh Vanessa, my heart goes out to you. I wish I could give you a hug. Please do what you can to help her, keep us updated. So many of us needed to hear your story to make us appreciate what little we have. Just know you have people out here that care about you and are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers❤

  • @garywatson4656
    @garywatson4656 2 месяца назад +21

    This was the most gut wrenching interview I have ever seen! Thank you! May God bless her!

  • @DeannaPerry405
    @DeannaPerry405 2 месяца назад +20

    Vanessa for all of the things that you have been through and to still be here..... You have a purpose . Much love

  • @manniewithoutdegrassi
    @manniewithoutdegrassi 2 месяца назад +3

    I am sending this angel so much liberation. Shes been through so much this interview made me feel ungrateful for the times i complain about things that dont even reach a quarter of the secerity i just heard on here. She is so so so strong, when she passes she will be free of these shackles ❤

  • @michaelb3138
    @michaelb3138 2 месяца назад +22

    BEST interview ever! She is so broken, I'll keep you in my prayers, may you reunite with your family soon.

    • @bolebole1147
      @bolebole1147 2 месяца назад

      Prayers and dumb ass thoughts wouldnt do shit!!

  • @lisaneuendorf9994
    @lisaneuendorf9994 2 месяца назад +58

    Your PURPOSE is to share your story. I send you love and THANKYOU . This was heart wrenching.

    • @Bossslaydee_Bailey
      @Bossslaydee_Bailey 2 месяца назад

      How TF are you gonna tell someone that they were put on this planet to endure a LIFETIME of abuse in every imaginable form *just* to have your babies ripped away from you in such traumatic tragedies along with the only security you have *e v e r* know [in the form of a husband and protector] to be left all alone on this god forsaken planet & be told that because you we willing to offer up an ounce of your horrendous life story to strangers, to hear one of those complete strangers who means absolutely nothing to you have the audacity to say to you “You were put on this planet to tell ME this story” The FUQ is wrong with you?! GTFO out of here and be grateful you haven’t endured anything close to this type of pain and loss

  • @angelabunish2799
    @angelabunish2799 2 месяца назад +3

    Never have I EVER seen so much pain embodied in one human being! I have watched and seen and heard more stories than I can count, but this one by far is the most painful life I have ever seen. I’m so sorry for your pain and losses sis. May God comfort you and heal your heart ❤️ as only He could. Angela

  • @todo8328
    @todo8328 2 месяца назад +112

    The end with the keys and cuffs gave me chills. THAT’S how you honor Family.

    • @AshBear2008
      @AshBear2008 2 месяца назад +6

      same. When she said that I got chills. How beautiful🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

    • @damianmontana5081
      @damianmontana5081 Месяц назад

      Like a movie 😢

  • @Aparke21
    @Aparke21 2 месяца назад +15

    Godspeed. What an incredible woman and horrifically sad story. I was so moved by her story, but more so at her strength and integrity. To know with one call she could be taken care of and still choosing to live on skid row because you know what going back means. I truly cannot even begin to wrap my mind around everything I just heard her tell us. If anyone ever thought things are too hard to continue on, or that you've lost more than one person can handle, YOU ARE SO WRONG! Vanessa, I applaud you for being brave and sharing your story. I pray that you are able to find the peace you deserve and I hope the reunion with your family, in a place with beauty beyond compare, that you're finally able to smile and be happy. If anyone has ever deserved it, you certainly do. Much love and respect from Chicago, IL. ❤

  • @GodsChamp444
    @GodsChamp444 Месяц назад +2

    I feel this to the depths of my soul. This woman’s strength is beyond words and her suffering palpable. God bless her.

  • @lindseywarren9547
    @lindseywarren9547 2 месяца назад +92

    I can’t even imagine the amount of pain this one woman has dealt with in her life. It breaks my soul

    • @AshBear2008
      @AshBear2008 2 месяца назад +1

      agreed. the pain she feels is unimaginable.

    • @AshBear2008
      @AshBear2008 2 месяца назад

      agreed. the pain she feels is unimaginable

    • @user-ov5nd1fb7s
      @user-ov5nd1fb7s 2 месяца назад

      Considering she was part of murders and she sold illegal weapons which contribute to more murders, i can't say i feel the same way as you.

    • @Idiotoutwonderingaround
      @Idiotoutwonderingaround 2 месяца назад +11

      Imagine the amount of pain she has been an accomplice in inflicting on other people before you feel so terrible for her. Sounds like she helped babysit her husband’s murder victims and found it humorous to serve them their “last supper”… how many people did she witness him murder? Thats called being an accomplice.

    • @ashleyhump6385
      @ashleyhump6385 2 месяца назад

      @@Idiotoutwonderingaround keep YOUR opinions to yourself. 😕 DAMN!! Not EVERYONE feels the way YOU do! Make your OWN comment and keep it movin. No one cares to hear frm judgemental and sheltered ppl.

  • @stephaniee8909
    @stephaniee8909 2 месяца назад +11

    Woah ……… Mark I have to say this interview grabbed ahold of my heart and didn’t let go not a single second. This woman has been thru so so much it makes my heart break

  • @sherrihorvath1318
    @sherrihorvath1318 Месяц назад +2

    Mark ….. This interview was the most heartbreaking of them all. My heart just broke and my eyes tear up as I listened to Vanessa. I don’t know how she even breathes

  • @misharamage5529
    @misharamage5529 2 месяца назад +34

    And we think we have sorrows. I think that is the loneliest, most heartbroken woman I’ve ever seen. I don’t even want to begin to imagine her pain. May she find a smidge of peace and comfort while she’s here. Big love to you sweet mama!

  • @Squidgecat
    @Squidgecat 2 месяца назад +29

    Vanessa: thank you for sharing a bit about your life with us. May your life be gentle until your reunion with your family. I am glad to have known your story.

    • @Raizor88
      @Raizor88 2 месяца назад

      @@Squidgecat beautiful words

  • @amberbarr5208
    @amberbarr5208 Месяц назад +5

    My goodness this was so painful to watch. She is hurting with unimaginable pain. I wish I could give her the longest hug

  • @BC-iz8gt
    @BC-iz8gt 2 месяца назад +353

    That wasn't a home invasion that was a hit job

    • @rafamatavelli3399
      @rafamatavelli3399 2 месяца назад +47

      No shit, Sherlock.🤣

    • @jessedukelacrosse6470
      @jessedukelacrosse6470 2 месяца назад

      ​@@rafamatavelli3399mammón

    • @Idiotoutwonderingaround
      @Idiotoutwonderingaround 2 месяца назад +4

      @@BC-iz8gt revenge.

    • @marctodisco
      @marctodisco 2 месяца назад +8

      @@rafamatavelli3399Haaaaaaah!!! Hahaha!!!! Ay Yo I was just saying that in my head. “That was a hit” Yuh Thankyou for that pinpoint deduction Fatlock…… I would’ve never had figured out what really happened that horrific night!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂. Love Tha Sahhcasm my friend

    • @scottjohnson8452
      @scottjohnson8452 2 месяца назад

      @@marctodisco😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Abcde-s6m
    @Abcde-s6m 2 месяца назад +24

    Can you bring her back for a series? She has so much knowledge to educate the world. Her Legacy doesn't have to be her past. Sharing and educating could be what she leaves the world for payment to end those "curses" she touched on. Her debts and family debts could be payed off by sharing more details. Obviously i hold tremendous compassion to her but it's experiences like hers that MUST be shared. It's alot to ask but itll help her bring peace. Plus these experiences will live on far after her. It'll be experices like these that will spark the revolutionary. It's injustices like hers that will inspire those who will be the change. She will inspire those who are fired up to be the change and make change. This women is gold for educational purposes on sooooooooo many levels of all walking lives. I send her light and peace! Best interviewee yet!

  • @lambchop1960
    @lambchop1960 Месяц назад

    Man I have watched so many of his interviews. This one tore me up the most. Such suffering. Such pain. No words.

  • @LeannSetliff
    @LeannSetliff 2 месяца назад +13

    Thank you Vanessa, for sharing your story! Thank you Mark for what you do. My heart aches for her.

  • @claudiedaudie143
    @claudiedaudie143 2 месяца назад +15

    Excellent interview Mark!!
    Thank you for sharing your life with us Vanessa.

  • @ShanaRobinson-k5s
    @ShanaRobinson-k5s Месяц назад

    By far my favorite interview you've done! My heart goes out to you Vanessa. Mark... Bring her back for a second & third interview for sure.

  • @Cazares-A
    @Cazares-A 2 месяца назад +54

    Chalino at 5:13 singing the glamours of the narco life while she tells horrors of the narco life... insane story

    • @angelinepolanco4940
      @angelinepolanco4940 2 месяца назад +4

      Thats crazy when i heard that

    • @Subawoooo
      @Subawoooo 2 месяца назад +3

      What the name of the song?

    • @FS-wk3zx
      @FS-wk3zx 2 месяца назад +2

      @@Subawoooo Renato Avendaño

    • @pvj2234
      @pvj2234 2 месяца назад +1

      She caught it too

    • @Cazares-A
      @Cazares-A 2 месяца назад

      ​@@Subawoooo Renato Avendaño by chalino

  • @Shana-f1m
    @Shana-f1m 2 месяца назад +30

    Wow this made me cry. I hope you heal, you deserve happiness beautiful❤

  • @AG_OTT
    @AG_OTT День назад +1

    Someone always has it worse than you please be grateful for the things you have never take life for granted

  • @rdgz9774
    @rdgz9774 2 месяца назад +46

    Heartbreaking story. The pain💔I hope Vanessa finds peace one day.

  • @rayg3891
    @rayg3891 2 месяца назад +20

    THAT WAS THE BEST INTERVIEW IVE EVER SEEN OF YOURS.

  • @steveladner4346
    @steveladner4346 Месяц назад +2

    Wow..Mark this may be the most important and interesting interview you have done yet. 👍

  • @soniacazessus8622
    @soniacazessus8622 2 месяца назад +8

    I’ve watched almost every interview. This one hits different. She’s been through so much. Poor thing. I wish her peace.

  • @adelacoffey2871
    @adelacoffey2871 2 месяца назад +11

    Another great interview Mark, your channel is so intriguing. Thanks for your dedication!!🙃

  • @nionnasydney
    @nionnasydney 2 месяца назад +1

    This is the only SWU where I have cried. Thank you Vanessa for sharing your story❤ I’m wishing nothing but beautiful things for you.

  • @tammyneal2430
    @tammyneal2430 2 месяца назад +15

    I am so sorry. You have been dealt the worst hand in life possible. I have so much empathy and live for you ❤

  • @MrsTaylorWilliams
    @MrsTaylorWilliams 2 месяца назад +76

    For her brother to FACETIME her when he did that is so insane to me…. I cannot Imagine the pain she feels.

    • @trisha4given
      @trisha4given 2 месяца назад +9

      It's almost as if he felt he owed it to her.

    • @motowngirl5891
      @motowngirl5891 2 месяца назад

      That is so sickening

  • @kyrahirsch4367
    @kyrahirsch4367 3 дня назад +1

    this is the most gut wrenching story i’ve heard on here

  • @raliah102
    @raliah102 2 месяца назад +5

    The most heart wrenching story I've ever heard on this channel and I think ever!
    My heart really hurts for her😢

  • @katiebosco6547
    @katiebosco6547 2 месяца назад +54

    This woman has been through hell, so much so i almost didn’t believe it at first. But you can tell her pain is real

  • @wildcat8598
    @wildcat8598 3 дня назад +1

    Watching this makes you really value life. Some of us think we had it rough but we have no clue what rough is compared to some peoples lives. The strength she has to even be alive at this point is grand. Makes me feel like maybe I shouldn’t judge homeless and addicts so quickly.

  • @tons-wb1hl
    @tons-wb1hl 2 месяца назад +24

    Sometimes you hear something that has you questioning everything.

  • @LaurieSykora
    @LaurieSykora 2 месяца назад +37

    Dear God. This poor woman. I truly wish there was something I could do to help her. Life is so unfair and twisted sometimes. What can you do in this situation? If she just wants to be with her little boy, her daughter, her husband, and brother again, I hope that happens for her. I don’t want her to be gone from this earth, of course, but if she just wants to be with her family, I pray that she at least gets that. My heart genuinely hurts for her and what she has endured.

    • @blkpryde2thamaxx
      @blkpryde2thamaxx 2 месяца назад +2

      Obviously there is no God.....

    • @MJLUCEY-sd1mq
      @MJLUCEY-sd1mq 10 дней назад

      Send cash. Get her off the street. Mark will help you set something up. Good luck.

  • @HK45C
    @HK45C Месяц назад +1

    Vanessa. Omg.. Your story is the most Impactful and devastating and eye opening thing I've ever heard. I've heard a lot. I sincerely feel for you much love hun

  • @ChristinaBailey2000
    @ChristinaBailey2000 2 месяца назад +52

    Where is this broken soul??
    I want to hug her.
    May she find peace.

  • @Soaptoaster
    @Soaptoaster 2 месяца назад +34

    I'm 9:26 into this story and I can't bear the grief and cruelty this woman has suffered. I pray for God to give her peace and deliver his divine justice.

    • @haleybethers
      @haleybethers 2 месяца назад +3

      Amen 🙏 I pray she can feel the loving spirit, sooner rather than later here on our earth. Boy, would she able to spread some hope if she could truly forgive and live in the light 100% of the time. Or 90%.. even would be more encouraging to the masses than I could ever I be. I pray over her now, that she finds love and is able to live in a relaxed, peaceful & encouraging environment. I know that we are all where we are each supposed to be at least his particular moment in time. Some do not believe that, and they believe they could have done xy or z, and it would all be different. Then the opposite happens and people believe that someone else coulda done xy or z differently and that it’s their fault they have gotten into trouble in the first place. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Thank goodness we have a good good Father. Who I know is waiting, ready to take us into His Ever Loving & forgivfull Arms. I want to feel him 100% of the time. 🎁🥰❤️
      God Bless Her please. 🙏✨🙌

    • @pattyg6705
      @pattyg6705 2 месяца назад +3

      AMEN !!!!!

  • @DonnaOneil-f6e
    @DonnaOneil-f6e 2 месяца назад +2

    I am in shock at what this woman has gone thru…please keep us posted and I hope you can help her..she is soooo broken

  • @ColliaTavern
    @ColliaTavern 2 месяца назад +7

    U just made me subscribe with this one. These the stories ppl die with ! Thank u Vanessa please write a book