I don’t think men and women who stay home all day not helping with things in the home realize that their laziness is a turn off to their significant other
Right that woman is amazing. The things she say just makes her sound like she's not even from this planet. She speaks like she was born with wisdom. She didn't have to wait to accrue that knowledge. God gave it to her in the womb.
Judge Lynn Toler is a BOSS she is the real deal and so down to Earth my condolences go out to her do the death of her husband this lady really loved him and it hurt dearly another thing she's a very beautiful lady and person she has so much wisdom God bless you judge I will be praying for you
First case.... Judge Toler was very compassionate with him. She saw that he was a good man that suffered a set back and it really hurt his self esteem. And gave him a way to focus his anger.
He took a pay cut for less money and less hours and he SITS AT HOME ALL DAY and PLAYS VIDEO GAMES WHILE SHE IS WORKING and he doesn't do anything to help with the HOUSE WORK. You need your own PLACE ALWAYS.
1st case: my husband is also one of those types who does better as an entrepreneur. I was glad to read the update. I hope they're still together and he's still working that job.
So Happy for Tyresha and Yusuf both. I’ve been where they were at. 10 years in a HighSchool Sweetheart relationship and we had a lot of challenges. We grew apart and it eventually got verbally, emotionally and ultimately physically abusive. I had to leave while he was at work one day and just start my life over. They’re so young and I hope they both get help and I wish them the best ❤
Wow .. the way the judge knew that woman was scared ..amazing and needed out just shows and proves on why not only has a show but is a judge. My respects truly amazing ❤️❤️❤️
Yes, what Judge Lynn said and the help she offered probably helped her get away this man. The poor woman was terrified. The way she hold herself, with her arms closely around her and not once look at him at the end, said it all.
3:37 There is no reason to physically hit your children, If you even went overboard one time that's one time too many !! Get a grip grow up keep your hands to yourself !! 14:24 People will only treat you the way you allow them to, Why would she stay with someone who has done this to her and clearly doesn't respect her ? 36:45 That family member needs to understand that Don't get to talk trash on someone And expect them not to stick up for themselves !! She sounds toxic. 44:45 My husband and I decided four years ago,( We've been together for 14) That we were gonna give up facebook and all social media like that Because our relationship means more to us than any of that drama that comes with social media sites. We had a lot of friends and family on facebook also There are other ways for the people that need to get ahold of us that can.But we both agreeded to it. 1:00:14 Notice how it says nothing about her giving up social media For her relationship !! 🤔🙄🤨 1:02:53 She does realize that he got her the same way she got him right ?!js. If you have to be a detective in your relationship is it really worth it ? I know from past experience that it is so exhausting in every way possible. 1:04:15 If you need someone to talk to when you're in a relationship, you do not go to another woman !! Point blank ! Last couple who is he to speak for her feelings ? Mate not think she's scared of him but she might be. I think you can really tell just from this brief interaction necessarily. She could be a totally different person outside of court. But if she is afraid of him, they don't live togethere, she needs to get away from him.
This is why being a step parent should be a deal breaker for men. Like Kevin Samuels says, we have to share our resources with the step kids. We have to spend our money. We have to provide. We have to be a parent until it’s time to be a parent then it’s “you’re not their father”. I could never date a woman with kids for that reason.
I agree! Stay single then if a man can’t discipline your kids, let them run over YOU! I wouldn’t sign up to take care of people I have no authority over! Girl BYE! 😅
@@SRT_DREKevin Samuel was an effeminate… you are sharing his sentiments. A lot of single men are single fathers. … which means some woman without kids would be a step mother… the idiocy! 🙄
episode 159 what he "loves" is having a surrogate mom and the security provided him. Anyone looking for that will go as far as relocating, babysitting and proposing marriage and myriad other "promises" to lock down the obvious benefits. There are many types of domestic abuse and whatever type she went thru was not covered. Unless a person gets good with themselves, they will repeat mistakes. Changing partners changes nothing. He already cheated once, what is down the line? She has set herself up for another let down and is the common denominator and will continue to be until she turns and faces her demons
@@shawntoriawilliams921 great minds think alike..lol..but really, this was my impression, given the mistakes I have repeated with others then blamed the situation and/or whatever was outside of myself. Tough life lesson.
She caught him cheating quite a few times and still with him then she can blame herself for being in that toxic relationship. You gotta learn to love yourself enough to walk away and never look back when someone is disrespectful to you like that and he could bring her STDs !!!
1st problem is: 3 children and you're single! Kids can work your nerves but, learn to walk away or....just TALK! Keep the relatives our of the way your home is run; bad all the time because once the two of your calm down....they stay angry which perpetuates the moment.
Why are people hitting their kids when they can’t hit an adult w/o going to jail??? Make it make sense! Getting hit never made me respect my parents. Pissed me off more than anything.
158: The Cleveland couple, Mr. Efford and Robinson, they are still together. I hope bro got some confidence since then. Idk where it went, but his lack of it was breaking their bond
What is it with all these guys not handling their end at home. And gaming. Come on. Im Thankful that my late Husband wasn't like that. I would have given him a choice to hold down his end and then play games. If not See Ya!!!@
To be real this brother looks trifling and lazy. Just look at him. Smh. This lady doesn't have to settle for this...and he is the definition of settling.🙄
The guy in the second case is very, very insecure to the point I think he is doing something. To answer the phone on speaker so he can hear is just too much.
It's like the man considers arguments their only means of communication, because he's competing for 'rooster' status in their marriage. He's after control like he expects that to make him happy and his happiness is the only thing that matters to him. I say he's a loser and she needs to lose him now before he turns her into a bitter cow.
I was also spanked when i was littel,I turned out fine,but only in the behind.never anywhere ells.i do belive it can become nessersary somtimes,or they grow up with a nasty attitude and disrespectfull.
I don’t think men and women who stay home all day not helping with things in the home realize that their laziness is a turn off to their significant other
They don’t care.
Exactly
Exactly 100% I came here to say this exact thing lol
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I truly believe this too.
Judge Lynn dropped so many gems. Best judge that Divorce Court ever had!
Yes I love her
AMEN to that.
11 years, on off why stay?
Right on!! Sexy, smart and sassy.
Right! I only watch her old episodes. Star is just not convincing to me.
Episode 156, Judge Tolar was so respectful to this guy regarding his anger and need to get support for it.
Because he acknowledged all of his flaws
I like this dude. He was so humble and listened to the judge.. Judge Toler is the best Court judge.
Right that woman is amazing. The things she say just makes her sound like she's not even from this planet. She speaks like she was born with wisdom. She didn't have to wait to accrue that knowledge. God gave it to her in the womb.
Judge Lynn Toler is a BOSS she is the real deal and so down to Earth my condolences go out to her do the death of her husband this lady really loved him and it hurt dearly another thing she's a very beautiful lady and person she has so much wisdom God bless you judge I will be praying for you
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First case.... Judge Toler was very compassionate with him. She saw that he was a good man that suffered a set back and it really hurt his self esteem. And gave him a way to focus his anger.
He took a pay cut for less money and less hours and he SITS AT HOME ALL DAY and PLAYS VIDEO GAMES WHILE SHE IS WORKING and he doesn't do anything to help with the HOUSE WORK. You need your own PLACE ALWAYS.
Yes together for eight years 3 children +1 and no engagement ring or marriage, would speak volumes to me.
1st case: my husband is also one of those types who does better as an entrepreneur.
I was glad to read the update. I hope they're still together and he's still working that job.
So Happy for Tyresha and Yusuf both. I’ve been where they were at. 10 years in a HighSchool Sweetheart relationship and we had a lot of challenges. We grew apart and it eventually got verbally, emotionally and ultimately physically abusive. I had to leave while he was at work one day and just start my life over. They’re so young and I hope they both get help and I wish them the best ❤
Yeah she definitely needed to get away from him. I’m glad he was mature enough to just go on without issue.
Thats so disrespectful to leave the house and your family in the middle of the night without them knowing where youre going.
Respectfully I don't think so. He removed his significant other out of the threatening situation that was caused by a family member
Or he’s doing something it’s better for her not to know.
Episode 158 that dude is just ridiculous, that laugh is a crazy nervous laugh too
Wow .. the way the judge knew that woman was scared ..amazing and needed out just shows and proves on why not only has a show but is a judge. My respects truly amazing ❤️❤️❤️
Send this big selfish think of himself to the curb. He only cares about himself. Lady you can do BAD ALL BY YOURSELF.
Yes, what Judge Lynn said and the help she offered probably helped her get away this man. The poor woman was terrified. The way she hold herself, with her arms closely around her and not once look at him at the end, said it all.
If a man treats his Mother bad he will treat his wife or girlfriend bad if not Married she should leave him.
Totally agree!!!!
I enjoy watching the shows can relate to some things I say wow my marriage is really not that bad after I hear the couple story
1:02:35 the right eye starts jumping because increase in stress and the nerve tremors in that eye! The eye has nothing to do with intuition.
His calm demeanor is a little frightening, especially with her shaky voice.
Definitely. I was upset that Judge didn't check him about calling her "Ms. Lady"
Tell him Judge Toler.
3:37 There is no reason to physically hit your children, If you even went overboard one time that's one time too many !! Get a grip grow up keep your hands to yourself !! 14:24 People will only treat you the way you allow them to, Why would she stay with someone who has done this to her and clearly doesn't respect her ? 36:45 That family member needs to understand that Don't get to talk trash on someone And expect them not to stick up for themselves !! She sounds toxic. 44:45 My husband and I decided four years ago,( We've been together for 14) That we were gonna give up facebook and all social media like that Because our relationship means more to us than any of that drama that comes with social media sites. We had a lot of friends and family on facebook also There are other ways for the people that need to get ahold of us that can.But we both agreeded to it. 1:00:14 Notice how it says nothing about her giving up social media For her relationship !! 🤔🙄🤨 1:02:53 She does realize that he got her the same way she got him right ?!js. If you have to be a detective in your relationship is it really worth it ? I know from past experience that it is so exhausting in every way possible. 1:04:15 If you need someone to talk to when you're in a relationship, you do not go to another woman !! Point blank ! Last couple who is he to speak for her feelings ? Mate not think she's scared of him but she might be. I think you can really tell just from this brief interaction necessarily. She could be a totally different person outside of court. But if she is afraid of him, they don't live togethere, she needs to get away from him.
I ain't gone lie , I was rooting for the Bartley's.
MACEO HAS no business DISCIPLINING HER CHILDREN by hitting them he is not there Dad, let her discipline her CHILDREN
This is why being a step parent should be a deal breaker for men. Like Kevin Samuels says, we have to share our resources with the step kids. We have to spend our money. We have to provide. We have to be a parent until it’s time to be a parent then it’s “you’re not their father”.
I could never date a woman with kids for that reason.
I agree! Stay single then if a man can’t discipline your kids, let them run over YOU! I wouldn’t sign up to take care of people I have no authority over! Girl BYE! 😅
Those are his kids only 1 is not.
@@SRT_DREKevin Samuel was an effeminate… you are sharing his sentiments. A lot of single men are single fathers. … which means some woman without kids would be a step mother… the idiocy! 🙄
Love judge Lynn , are you a difficult dude to talk to , lol
This guy in episode 158 never looks at the judge. He looks up and away.
158 the guy is way off, and nuts, and 157 you have major issues with the guy and come in 3 months pregnant? Why?
Girlfriend for 8 years? Woo could not be me
episode 159 what he "loves" is having a surrogate mom and the security provided him. Anyone looking for that will go as far as relocating, babysitting and proposing marriage and myriad other "promises" to lock down the obvious benefits.
There are many types of domestic abuse and whatever type she went thru was not covered. Unless a person gets good with themselves, they will repeat mistakes. Changing partners changes nothing. He already cheated once, what is down the line? She has set herself up for another let down and is the common denominator and will continue to be until she turns and faces her demons
This!!! She has to heal herself to some degree and have standards. I was her and it is truly exactly how you've put it here. Wishing her the best ❤
@@shawntoriawilliams921 great minds think alike..lol..but really, this was my impression, given the mistakes I have repeated with others then blamed the situation and/or whatever was outside of myself. Tough life lesson.
He gives sassy too
She caught him cheating quite a few times and still with him then she can blame herself for being in that toxic relationship. You gotta learn to love yourself enough to walk away and never look back when someone is disrespectful to you like that and he could bring her STDs !!!
The last case, she had a baby by an ex and he cheated. They both need help tbh
Love judge Lynn Toler
1st problem is: 3 children and you're single! Kids can work your nerves but, learn to walk away or....just TALK! Keep the relatives our of the way your home is run; bad all the time because once the two of your calm down....they stay angry which perpetuates the moment.
Why are people hitting their kids when they can’t hit an adult w/o going to jail??? Make it make sense!
Getting hit never made me respect my parents. Pissed me off more than anything.
Mannn, i play COD religiously daily, still holding down a full time job and handling all my business. Stop blaiming video games!!
Just because yu’r a functioning addict doesn’t mean everyone else can be 😂
Great episode.
158: The Cleveland couple, Mr. Efford and Robinson, they are still together. I hope bro got some confidence since then. Idk where it went, but his lack of it was breaking their bond
1:25:50 She reads Tarot on RUclips . I recognize her 😇
Episode 158 was painful to watch
Minus the loss of job, I like the guy n 158.
I'm a homebody Self Reliant aContained person myself.
If I ever meet / connect w a man like this.
O
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Episode 158, y’all are stressing me out 🥴🥴🥴
The most thing i can't stand is that you start a project and never finish. It just a eye soar. 😮
I feel like Judge Lynn paid those tickets for him behind scenes
I've never once met a person playing video games. Id probably be playing a few more multiplayer games if i had
Ep. 158 is giving me the ick... Like i cant stand the insecurities.
The plantif has been on other shows
I don't deal with any video game player. No thanks 😂
how about blocking their numbers? she is definitely cheating
I’m #TEAMVENETTA ✊🏾😂
Episode 158: She playing the field and making him insecure??? 🤔
What is it with all these guys not handling their end at home. And gaming. Come on. Im Thankful that my late Husband wasn't like that. I would have given him a choice to hold down his end and then play games. If not See Ya!!!@
Judge is beautiful i noticed on a picture of tony Braxton she looked a little like judge in some of her shots there both very beautiful women anyway.
I wonder where Maceo's children are
Alllll those miscarriages (episode 147). How sad. And the subsequent drunken abuse. Ouffffff
I never wanna get married I don't even like relationships it's too much
I hope she doesn't walk down the aisle with that wig on!!
I really wish Venetta didnt come on the show looking like Ella from the House of Payne. She is too young for that. Look at her skin. It is beautiful.
To be real this brother looks trifling and lazy. Just look at him. Smh. This lady doesn't have to settle for this...and he is the definition of settling.🙄
spanking ur kids is called child abuse in europe. How can u be ok with that?
The last dude seems like a damn airhead in my opinion
Alive
The guy in the second case is very, very insecure to the point I think he is doing something. To answer the phone on speaker so he can hear is just too much.
It's like the man considers arguments their only means of communication, because he's competing for 'rooster' status in their marriage. He's after control like he expects that to make him happy and his happiness is the only thing that matters to him. I say he's a loser and she needs to lose him now before he turns her into a bitter cow.
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I was also spanked when i was littel,I turned out fine,but only in the behind.never anywhere ells.i do belive it can become nessersary somtimes,or they grow up with a nasty attitude and disrespectfull.