Did I Just Get Fat Shamed at a Yard Sale?
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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
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People!!! Never assume someone is pregnant until they're arriving at the hospital to give birth!!!
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I knew a gal that not once but TWICE asked two different women if they were pregnant. Common sense doesn’t come cheap! Or is it; Money can’t buy you classss
I had a gal ask me when I was due. Note to self she was bigger than me😂
We win some and we lose some! 🤷♀️ Makes us appreciate the days that we score BIG! I did miss TJ and his, “get outa here” responses🤣Amy from MN
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My wife and I have both had this happen. Random lady telling us "Um, i'm pretty sure we don't have anything your size here"... So I spent a ton at the yard sale across the street and walked back right in front of her to make sure she saw the full bags.
Nooo oh my gosh I’m so sorry! But I looove the quiet retaliation 😆😂 genius!
Yes! You Pretty Woman'd them 😆
"Big mistake, huge!" on their part. People are special sometimes..🤦♀️
LOL
haha i have been told the same thing several times during the first 3 years in the States when i went yard sale....but on the other side for being too skinny. I did not even realize that was a body shame during that time and just thought they were trying to save my time LOL
Thank you for eating that donut! I was once told at a garage sale, that she had some maternity clothes for sale. Hmm...I just patted my belly and said, " oh no, this is just my donut baby." Some coffee came out of her husband's nose when he heard me. She apologized, but I said, "no worries, I earned this belly by having twins and it's all right, it was worth it."
😆 YES! Love this. Babies are always worth it and I reject the pressure society puts on women to look a certain way after babies 😤
I always say that’s just left over from the two that I already have.
You lost that baby weight quicker than most and look great. Don't sweat the haters girl, you're a hustler!
🥹 I love you!
@@HustleatHomeMom Love you! Thanks for the education you provide. Beauty and brains.
Agree 100% You are awesome!
Whe someone prefaces a comment with “ not to be rude,” you know it’s going to be rude. And shouldn’t be said.
lol agreed!
When someone says that in front of me I interupt and say "Then don't."
Love that you told the other RUclipsr to stay with it! Can't tell you how many people I know that quit and never reached full potential 💪💪
YES! You never know when that graph will spike - don't quit before it does! That's what I wish I could shout from the rooftops lol
People need to look at the SOLD not the listed price on Ebay. You can list at item at whatever you want, but the only thing that matters is if it sold or not.
Shout out to your hubby! So supportive. Cherish him. No all husbands enjoy the hunt or hearing the details of the finds. Such a cute couple. BTW.. you could not say it but that lady charging $50 for a clothing item at a yard sale....just bonkers.
People crack me up trying to sell things for close to retail at yard sales! If it’s still worth that much to them they should just keep it!
Okay but literally!
Or sell it on Ebay themselves.
I think the best way to respond to that scenario is to say…”You’re right! You can get more selling your item online because you have thousands of people viewing your listing. I hope you have that many people at your neighborhood garage sale today.” Then just walk away. They will figure it out. And you just move on.
I always just flatly say “thats rude” and walk away. Makes them look silly following along behind you trying to apologize.
I made a video too about my bad experiences being fat-shamed at the bins by a fellow reseller. I’m so sorry for this person saying something that could hurt your feelings. ❤️
Honestly I think it’s funny now but definitely not very funny in the moment! 😆 I’m so sorry that happened to you!!
@@HustleatHomeMom I especially love how you retaliated with a well-deserved donut! ♥
She was messing with you. She’s probably a jealous person.
“Yeah, I know someone tiny. Me.”
Awesome Video!!! Thanks for the shout out! I got some more subscribers because of it. So thank you so much! Keep up the great content!
Hey friend!! Thank you for letting me shop your garage sale and I'm excited to follow your channel! 🥰
I still have my Jansport backpack from freshman year in high school... 30+ years ago. Ugh. I'm vintage😆
Haha! Nope, classic 😎
You are way nicer than me. I wouldn't have bought anything at her yard sale after the snarky comments. P.S. You look GREAT and what's more important, you seem like a genuinely beautiful person inside too 🥰
😭😭 I don’t deserve this, but thank you so much!!
I’m definitely that level petty, but $20 for both pairs of shoes was a deal Ash couldn’t pass up.
I'm 52 and a lady asked me when I was due at a garage sale recently...wasn't sure how to feel. Wow she thinks I'm young enough to have a baby OR Wow I am really fat!!!! 'I told her it wasn't a baby belly it was my menopause belly! That shut her up!! hahahaha Ashley you look AMAZING, that woman was just plain rude. I'm so glad you didn't give her anymore of your money.
I have never made a comment on RUclips, but I saw the title of your video. You are beautiful inside and out, but keep in mind sometimes when people have yard sales, it’s because they’re going through something very traumatic, and they project their misery. Watching your videos with you and your family always makes me happy, Try not to let people like that get under your skin, it’s totally not worth it. Some people are just miserable no matter how you look at it. Keep living your best life, you are very blessed!!
I love this and it’s such a great reminder!! Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️
Always
If you need me, just reach out.
Don't dispair, our garage sales this weekend were horrible,most were super overpriced like the $20 dollar designer jeans one you were at🤦♀️ I literally came home with a purse!!! The thrift stores were ratcheted too. It was not meant to be. There's no crying in sourcing 😂🤣
😆🤣 no crying in sourcing! My new motto lol
You're killing me with the fat shaming stuff! Last week, I landed at a sale with a lot of originally expensive clothing for pennies on the dollar. The lady saw me coming up her driveway and yelled out, "Oh, I have a LOT of clothes that will fit YOU!!!!!" She proceeded to try to hand sell me at least twenty pieces, each one three sizes too big for me. I kept waiting for her to say she'd just lost 150 pounds and that her loss was MY gain, hahaha. I finally tried on one jacket just to prove a point. She said, "Hmmm. That is way too big for you.....". I bought one item that was meant to be baggy and cost $1, when she loudly proclaimed that she'd paid $68 for it and never got a chance to wear it BECAUSE SHE'S SO SKINNY NOW. I left feeling utterly insulted and also a little bit richer, since I can sell her oversized piece and make $30 or so........
I gasped reading this! Awful! I'm so sorry!!!
Seriously?! How freaking rude was she. Keep the rude comments to yourself. She is luck you still bought from her. I would have left.
What ever happened to “if you don’t have anything nice to say, then say nothing at all.”
You had Crew only a few months before I had my son and I WISH I could look as good as you do!
Also, the haul was great! Don’t beat yourself up. I am trying to start flipping and I am struggling finding good stuff. So for you to have a video like this every now and then makes me feel like I’m not alone. ❤ Keep up the amazing work! You got this! ❤❤❤
That’s awesome that you shout him out!! ❤
I love the disappointments t-shirt.
Awesome to support fellow tubers 💪👍🏻
Strange, especially considering that you are tiny, she is not, and you could be buying for a daughter or anyone. I actually had the reverse happen at Layne Bryant. They were standing outside the door chasing the smaller people away by telling them this store doesn't carry their size. Apparently they felt they would lose business. I actually was shopping for family for Christmas but I decided not to give them my business at all.
Oh my gosh nooo 😮 why do people do this? Crazy
Getting close to end of season
Go see your friend at storage units
I found a pair of Citizens of Humanity shorts for $10 brand new with tag and I remember "Ashley said this is a good brand!" They sold yesterday for $32!
YES! 🥰
Mmm Maybe even worse is when they have an eBay listing attached to the item . and not A sold listing. An asking listing !
I went to an estate sale up in Olympus Cove once. The daughter of the woman who had died looked at me and said ‘I don’t think she owned anything that would fit you.’ Is my money green? Then why I’m buying has zero to do with you. The daughter seemed to think since everything was ‘old’ it was worth a ton of money. I didn’t see anyone walk out with anything purchased. I grabbed a vintage fake fur that the woman thought was garbage because it was ‘fake!’ Got it for five. Flipped for over $100 to a buyer in New York City. I still remember the details because the daughter was just so awful.
This video keeps it real. Some weekends the yard sales are a flop. But all the little stuff adds up. Great Video!
Some weekends just really are not delivering, and this was one of them for sure! 🥲
I think this video was a little more realistic than the Goodwill's are.
“If you know someone tiny….” Seriously?
been watching you for a couple years and this is the first video ever that I have seen that you have only done ok. Usually you start out like "Guys, if I can pick $10,000 in inventory, I will get chic fil A!" and you literally always do
That is SO frustrating when someone goes out of their way to say "Absolutely no early birds" and you are trying to be respectful of their wishes only to find they let people in early to shop anyway. I'm too nice to do that I guess.
You earned that donut, you are stunning and shame on anyone that makes a comment otherwise.
Love shopping with you!!! They are my favorite videos. I Always learn so much 👍👍👍
I was fat shamed too at my thrift store. She was creeping on my pile and I politely said.. ooo sorry that’s mine.. I left it over there.. she was like ain’t nobody want your stuff. I’m a size 6-8. Your stuff wouldn’t fit me. People suck. I also hate when yard sale sellers say stupid shit like that. Ok woman then sell it on eBay if you can get more. 🙄
I can't figure out why someone would be so focused on you and not the content....but I mind my business as a general rule. You look fabulous and your husband is a doll face 😂
TJ…what a great guy and your biggest supporter. I love how he was making sure you got all the credit for the purchases! You two are the best! ❤️
When they have outrageous prices and tell Me I can sell them on ebay for.. xx$, I pull out my phone and say you can list them for what you want but they SOLD for x$$, they are blown away, with the Sold page... 💞
So many people who casually browse ebay have NO idea what sold comps are! You're 100% right!
Thank you for all your useful information Ashley! I opened an eBay account and starting posting and selling. So far so good. I’ve been watching your videos on what brands to look for and it has really helped. When I’m out looking for items I channel my inner Ashley to point me in the right direction on what to buy. Thanks again!
So Ashley, the shopping wasn’t great, but this video had over 5000 views in 2 hrs. I say that’s a win! 😊
😆❤️🥰 at least something came out of it, right? Lol
I've respected so many yard sales by not arriving early, only to see tons of people there when I show up. It's definitely the ugly side of this business. When I used to deal in vinyl it was the worst because record collectors are uncouth and antisocial to begin with.
You need to make a business card for your channel. For one thing, when people ask about the GoPro, you can hand over a card. You can also leave it behind to make private picks, and best of all, when someone tries to tell you about eBay, you can say "Oh really?" then slap it down on the table like an Uno Reverse.
Haha I LOVE this idea! Yessss 🤣
Lol 😂love the uno reference 😅
BAM! 😂😂😂 Reverse, B! That's goooood & so funny!
@@HustleatHomeMom I like the excited response, "Oh really?" whip out phone and run comps...... "yeah, just not seeing it" Then say, I guess I could take them for ___? LOL
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Just remember, God doesn't make mistakes, and you are truly a blessing. People are way too focused on the outside, instead of the kindness that radiates from you. I've always been taller than everyone and catch a lot of rude remarks about that. Your videos are very helpful and I'm sure many have moved on to making a living because of your time and effort. Creme filled maple bars are the best mood lifters. Blessings
You two are so fun to watch. I enjoy you so much! I just love how he looks at you and supports so sweet!
The deals just aren’t there some days, but support and love are always there from TJ and us!!! Ashley your a beautiful blessing❤❤
I had a yard sale this summer, I clearly put no early birds. People didn’t care at all and showed up.
Oh my goodness! I can't believe the things people say! It's so strange though, I'm 8 months pregnant right now and literally *no* strangers have said anything to me about being pregnant yet! Oh man... It's a crazy world. And you look absolutely gorgeous, as always!
When you are at a garage sale. How do you know if a t shirt or an item is valuable? Do you look up comps on everything?
We love you! Looking awesome as usual. Off comments always say a lot more about them than they do you. But it did remind me at a Goodwill about 3 years ago, some weird lady came up to my cart as I was shopping and just started going through it!? I didn't notice at first, but then she held up a small NIKE jacket windbreaker and asked..."hey can I have this? I KNOW it WON'T fit you!!" and she gave a little snort. I turned looking at her in amazement. "No...put it back. This is MY cart what are you doing? Leave me alone." I gave her a mean look, to show I meant business. She walked off, but determined Yep, started followed me bugging me...kept insisting it would fit her and why did I need it? I ignored, didn't answer but finally went to store manager to complain, but they shrugged and did nothing. So unfortunately, I just checked out. Glad that does not happen very often. Makes you wonder about people. Wow that one woman was sure proud of her stuff huh? You might have been her only paying customer. I bet most just walked up and left quickly. Thanks for taking us on your journey. It makes the finds all the sweeter when they do come.
In my area I would be more than thrilled with your haul. All about perspective.
Lord. I feel like if people are going to reference EBay for prices… sell on eBay. The reason eBay gets more is because the exposure is more and it takes more time and work to list, keep tabs on, pack up and ship an item. Do the work if you want more. If not, have a yard sale and charge less. It’s not the same. She won’t sell much.
It always interests me how people choose to price their items! 🤔
@@HustleatHomeMom I don’t think they’re really thinking about it logically.
They see prices online and think they should be able to get the same at a yard sale. It’s not the same. A yard sale is expected to be cheaper to move the items fast. Some of those eBay listings sit there for months.
The situation is different. They’re only thinking about the item worth only and not how it’s being sold and the worth of that. If you want the online price… list online or let it sit in an antique store. Otherwise be expected to sell for a lot less at a yard sale. That’s the convenience of getting rid of it easier and quicker.
Good job ! We are going yard saling ( I call it that, lol ) this Saturday In Our old town. It’s a very elite area. We lived there for the great schools. We moved when our youngest graduated high school, it was worth paying for that big expensive house. The kids got a great education. The youngest will have her doctorate in pharmacy next year, ones a nurse and one has a business degree. Proud of them. Now we live way out in the country in a tiny town. No one has yard sales out here. So excited to go be going back to our old neighborhood. So we usually shop at our local honey hole. It’s more bread and butter. But I find in today economy the 10/12 range sells pretty good. And it’s good because we never pay over $1. I love that buyers are getting a good deal on something they need or want, I did get a Lily Pulitzer dress for $1 yesterday. They usually go fast. I enjoyed a sea salt chocolate bar while watching. Thank you for a great video. LA
The harley shirt has a fat boy motorcycle on it, makes it clever/funny.
You and the GoPro. You gotta name her though😜 I’ve named my Irobot Vacuum Rubio lol
Hahahahahaha!! YES! It needs a name!
@Hustle at Home Mom She was obviously just jealous how gorgeous and fit you are, and that she probably won't fit those things again.
She was rude on purpose, and felt better tearing down someone else.
You are as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside, and you look amazing.
Always love your videos! Ignore the snide comments, they are a reflection of how that person feels about themself and not you. You are beautiful and kind! You are admired by so many people. 🥰
There are always crappy days. I think you have more Amazing days than crappy days though! At least you got a doughnut!
That is the rudest thing and so darned annoying - letting someone come and cherry pick before the sale is advertised to start. When it comes to sizing some people are just ignorant - you look great :)
New sub here! I was at FlipCon too. Yard sales are dying down in my area too. That one high priced sale was laughable but I'm glad you still found some stuff. Got 2 community sales next weekend though so looking forward to that.
It’s always rough toward the end of the season over here! Now that we’re in October it’s dying down big time 😩
Hey, I'm Lissie from coastal NC. I've learned a lot through your commentary explaining brands, what's hot what's not. Here's an issue I'm running into especially with athletic wear where the name is not printed OR the label has been cut out 😠. I'm new at this and do not recognize a lot of logos. An item feels and looks like a quality piece but I have no idea who made it. Is there a website that I can go to, fairly quickly to match the logo with a brand name? Keep up the awesome videos! Thanks.
I appreciate you keeping it real. It makes me feel better knowing I’m not the only one who strikes out on sourcing trips sometimes.
Ashley you and TJ had me choking on my lunch at 3:45 am! Especially TJ at the 4:23 mark when he 4th walled the video. Thanks for making my night shift. I’m Jim a part time reseller in Austin, Texas.
😆 TJ is the best! Thanks Jim! ❤️
I get so excited to see your notifications for a new video! Sending my positive vibes...your great!
I used to manage a retail store at that time I suffered from huge fibroid tumors and customers would congratulate me on being pregnant.🤦🏻♀️
Don't garage sale people know the object is to get rid of their stuff? As soon as I pick up one or two grossly overpriced things at a garage sale I already know how everything is going to be priced. Adios peeps! Kudos to you for trying to make a deal with them.
Love, love your shopping videos. Yard sales are my faves but know the season is coming to an end. So shop videos at GW's would be great. You look amazing and she probably did not realize how it sounded. My GW has a new GM and she seems to know her stuff. Now they are pricing Ralph Lauren, Michael Kors and brands similar at $7.99 without tags and if new with tags they start at $9.99 & up. The one Asst Mgr really likes me so yesterday when I found a NWT Social Occasions beautiful beaded dress / jacket she took $5 off and sold to me for $19.99. It was just too hard for me to pay $24.99 LOL... Their hard goods start at $3.99 which for a little item is out of control. They need to bundle items...
At least this is the episode where you got the iconic “DISAPPOINTMENT” God t-shirt that your editor puts in every video!
Excellent haul, and did you dye the ends of your hair? The color is awesome!
You both make my day. You are so funny together. Love your videos!
I agree! They are the couple you could have over for dinner and laugh all evening!
I cracks me up people have yard sales and charge prices that they think they can sell for a lot of money because they supposedly looked it up online. There crazy. I know Goodwill is hurting now because they are charging 10 to 15 dollars for items that are clearly not worth the money. So all of the people and goodwill get stuck with mdse. When I have a yard sale it is to get rid of stuff and make a little cash for my time and effort. Not to get rich....
Sorry the day didn’t go how you’d hoped! As a viewer it’s actually encouraging to see that it’s not always a home run❤ thanks for sharing your knowledge with us!
Thanks for also showing us your “bad” days!😅
Just Subscribed, I like your channel a bit more than most RUclipsrs, because we find out the prices to everything at the end and I learn a bit more about apparel. So I'll be watching more of your videos.
I've been hosting garage sales since I was 11 years old. I could sell someone a paper clip if I had to.
I love it when they say “well, I can sell it on EBay for $$$” that’s when I tell them why don’t you just sell it on eBay then 🤷🏻♀️ It’s like tell me you don’t know how eBay works without telling me you don’t know how it works
Thank you for sharing the downside of this business! We need to see that too! Congratulation!
It's definitely not always glamorous! lol
That lady was a clown.!!! Your quiet revenge is when she's dragging all that ridiculous priced stuff BACK into her home. You are a beautiful woman...that was jealousy she exhibited.
Fat and happy 😂😂😂💀 also TJ’s video bombs are hilarious. Especially when he peeks around the screenshot share and doesn’t know it. Tell him to capitalize on that!
Haha seriously! He is the best!
I have given my number as I pull ebay solds and then tell them to call me when they don’t sell because I’d give them more than consignment would 😆 hasn’t worked yet but someday maybe it will. 🤷🏼♀️
I agree that those levis lined jackets aren't getting quite the high prices they once did. I have a couple in my store that I should probably discount a bit.
Her reaction at the end is my life
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I'm confused? You're so thin!! And that's why you deserve to enjoy that donut. Not bc of some mean girl mom. You also handled yourself, as always, with such class and grace♡
Anyone, thin or not, can deserve a donut. 😉
@@budgles yes!! Thank you for that much needed reminder!! Was trying to support Ashley and def didn't think that comment thru. ♡
Thank you 😊
2:12 awww so encouraging! ❤ love ur videos!
still supporting you no matter what kind of things you end up getting
The first tee shirt you showed, my daughter has…I think I need the “Disappointments” one for her as well!😂
Okay that disappointments all of you sure it came up in my ads on Facebook last week and I actually wanted to buy it 😂😂
Great video. If you ever get to Michigan, lets go garage sale ING. Enjoy your videos, great finds.
Not a complete waste of time.
You did find things to list and make some profit.😊
You guys are so sweet together ❤️
In my old days I'd have said, "mmh hmm, is that why you're selling them?"....but yeh, not Christ like.😬
HAHAHAHAHA i am dead 🤣🤣🤣
You and your husband together - so funny. That woman who was selling 'designer jeans' for $20 - she might be having another yard sale when she doesn't sell anything.
You’re the best :)
I’ve got so many great tips!
off of you
and we all have a good and bad days
your days seem pretty good mostly
and you always look amazing!❤
Great video. I know every weekend cant to be a banger weekend.
Keep it rocking Momma!🤩⭐️💋🌻🍁
Just wish people would engage their brain before they open their mouth!
Great video!Thanks for sharing!
FYI... Fat & Happy is a phrase for Harley's "Fat Boy" motorcycle model if you didn't know. IMHO, I don't think she meant anything negative about her "skinny butt" comment, but I'm a guy so I internalize things differently. Pray on it, forgive her, and move on. Not every haul can be epic, but you did get some descent stuff. You are awesome!
You look so beautiful and are amazing :) thank you for the video and sharing your finds!! 😊❤
I looked at your Ebay store just to get an idea of how you do measurements and noticed that the Teen Hearts Disappointments shirt may have the wrong shipping option. It said it was going to cost $20. Not interested in buying it, but just thought you might want to check it. I have been having problems with the new Ebay listing tool because it automatically fills in the last shipping choice I used and sometimes I forget to change it! : )
I’ve notice this lately they want to sell their items for eBay price and do none of the work 😢
Oh yeah? Just throw it right up on ebay for $100? If it’s so easy, why don’t *you* do it? 🤔 Mmmhmmm.
Awesome video. How or where was your Go Pro mounted on your body? I love the idea of having my hands free to film cooking videos. Thank you.
I figure the people at the first yard sale kinda know their values, but how much was the Shogun Warriors Sky Arrow and the vintage Star Wars cardbacks??
Damn. That's rude af🙃