Coming from someone who had approach anxiety, do the following, learn to feel good from within. If you're talking to someone and they leave and you feel bad it's cause you want them to stimulate you and make you feel good. Train yourself to feel good if she leaves. The ultimate test is if your perfect partner left, you'd feel about the same with or without her.
THIS. And it applies not only or approach anxiety alone. In general, as long as you depend on the "good feels' from others, you are dependant and needy. Learning to generate positive mental states in yourself is the ultimate tool I believe
It's an awesome habit . I do it like tyler , 21 minutes per day. But it won't replace the need to confront your fears . Whenever there's resistance , that's where you grow .
@@TheBigMclargehuge meditation is not a joke when done properly look at the research and all the people who have benefitted from it personally. I bet you love staying stuck in your head full of negativity judgment and egoic bs
@@TheBigMclargehuge it helps train you how to focus and helps get you out of your habitual thinking and have a more clear view on life. Nobody is saying you have to do it hours a day. 10 to 20 minutes is good. You aren't meditating to make progress in mediation itself. Meditation is a meta skill that improves everything else you do in life because your practicing how to focus.
In meditation you find answers, you relax your body, you feel inner peace, you become less triggered by annoyances ... I could go on, it's great. If you never felt these benefits or any other ones then I don't know what to say to you.
In my opinion meditation can help with developing focus on what matters in the right moment, it help to develop the abilty to get back your focus on all the other factor when you are too concentraed on what is happening in you head, for exemple when you experience fear or anxiety, and you need to fell the external world again, rapidly, in order to react in the right way. It helps in recognasing when your mind is not in the right place for what you are doing in the moment. Usally I train this shift of focus when I am running, while the mind is wondering, every once in a while I focus on the feelings in my body, the sound of the environment around me, the wind blowing on the skin.
@@chocolatepudding6146 just cause you have a certain ego doesnt mean he doesnt have amazing knowledge and that's what jre is all about.. lol idk him personally so I can't say nun bout his character 🤷🏽♂️ but being a "jerk" and being "knowledgeable" have nothing to do with each other... eat the meat, throw the bones (metaphorically speaking)
@@chocolatepudding6146 eat the meat, throw the bones... I dont entirely disagree... I can see some of those things but like I said, that doesnt keep them for knowing very good information that has definitely and obviously changed lives 🤷🏽♂️
VERY PRACTICAL power dynamics here. I have often found the 48 laws of power to not be applicable. In theory but not in skill. This is a dope walkthrough or true social dynamics!
@Ronnie Othman some of the laws are rather beta and lack personal responsibility based on psychopathic behaviour patterns which may give more power but overall makes you a bit of a twat.. It catches up with you someday
@@AndyPoons guys I seem to think I may have even heard Robert Greene himself say, that book was less like a how-to, and more of tongue in cheek exposé on how some people have wielded or created power. Not necessarily saying how you should operate...
Apathy and acceptance can seem so similar sometimes. I think a big difference is that with apathy there is no push or need to take action because you brain just goes "Why would you? It doesn't matter anyway." But acceptance promotes the ability to take action because instead of thinking that the action is useless in itself or thinking that taking action doesn't matter, with acceptance you realize that taking action IS the reason and whatever comes from that action isn't the goal, but just a bonus. Not something you NEED. Like it still doesn't matter but it doesn't matter because you're coming at it from a completely different head space.
Ignorant boomers are dying out....there is a huge disconnect between that generation and the newer ones. They just don’t get it, as Owen says here, they “can’t” get it.
Your world is a mirror of your internal reality. You cannot be subjected to outside influences unless you allow yourself to. If you take responsibility for everything that happens in your world, you take control back.
Final talk of the recent 4 day free tour. We were all wrecked and pushed through lol. If you want me to personally mentor you through this - www.highstatuscommunication.com - and we will go DEEP! Set up a simple free call and life will never be the same again. I've got a LOT of content coming this month, so this is just a quick one to bang out and expect a lot more soon. Hope you've been enjoying all the live videos here and on Instagram this week, really putting in work. Let me know your thoughts on the video and talk soon! -Tyler
Great talk. Going to rewatch with my kids (12 & 16 years). They are prime example of giving up and staying in the commodore zone. I say a lot of these things all the time, but coming from someone other than MOM peak attention!! Good stuff!! 🙏🏼
good location for this video! lol gotta get myself out of this sheep city Ive watched many many hours of Owen ranting, and this is by far the finest rant ive seen.
31:50 A price will be paid for making the fear go away right now. Echos back to Napoleon Hill's "Think and Grow Rich" where to accomplish your goals you must pay a price, but never thought about the price of ommission. Great insight!
In the current state of men in today's society and what's been done to them, and the multitude of boys raised in single-mother households, this man's teachings are pure gold.
6:20 I had that exact same problem back when i was in community college with writing essays, and i had a feeling it was due to something with me. Once, the teacher asked..."who here has their points but has trouble organizing your thoughts in a cohesive manner?" And EVERYONE in the class raised their hand except me. And i just sat their thinking "how? I dont even know what i wanna say at all. Am i just stupid?" And sometimes during excerises in class, the teacher would make us write a paragraph for like 10 minutes. Everyone would finish, except me. I literally would have like one or two sentences. And I do have trouble with coming up with things to say aswell during conversation. And if i say something, its usually dumb and not interesting or witty. Crazy stuff.
Sometimes you have to trust the animal in you and revert to living that way and then build up from there the right way, that guy was obviously overthinking WAY too much which was putting him down the whole time.
Yeah I can relate to this, we're all have things that are the same. Its also okay to be there, at least you're working on fixing on what needs tweaking. well done, great work Tyler
I took a long break off from watching Owens videos because I felt betrayed when they started making different content. that being said started watching his videos again 2 days ago and doing daily affirmations. just met an incredible woman today in an almost serendipitous way been a rider with this cat since day one listen to him he knows what hes talking about
Just finally got a chance to watch this video! Holy shit, this was an amazing video! Laughed so hard at times! I loved the points on LATERAL THINKING - would love to see more vids on this. But I honestly really feel for that guy, I hope he makes the best of his situation.
Great Work here by Owen to bring up this guy and show us an example to which all of us can relate if we truly being honest with ourselves, almost wann make me say ***k dating, this is more important stuff.
Yes Owen yes! You basically just put into words what happens to me when under pressure! Amazing to hear it and understand it even further. Love it! Thanks Owen 🙏🏼
he talks alot about what jordan peterson was talking about exposure therapy and facing your fears to inrease your courage. would love to see jordan peterson and owen talk about life and having a podcast or something
32:00 It’s amazing to hear Owen reference God these days. He was getting deep into that Elkhart Tolle New Age crystals and Kundalini wave at one point. Scared me away
The dude on the stage seems like he has massive potential to crush it in life once his internals get changed. Not bad looking, good voice, likeable ... this guy could be a major boss in life once he gets more assertive, applies some humor and leaves his toxic wiring behind. Goes to show your internal beliefs are more important than anything else.
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"The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek" - Joseph Campbell
goes into bear cave. dies
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@@ksksdjjd2254 You can't steal the treasure of the Dragon without risking being eaten.
Coming from someone who had approach anxiety, do the following, learn to feel good from within. If you're talking to someone and they leave and you feel bad it's cause you want them to stimulate you and make you feel good. Train yourself to feel good if she leaves. The ultimate test is if your perfect partner left, you'd feel about the same with or without her.
@Board man gets laid Patrice was a monster at game.
THIS. And it applies not only or approach anxiety alone. In general, as long as you depend on the "good feels' from others, you are dependant and needy. Learning to generate positive mental states in yourself is the ultimate tool I believe
Aaron Jacobson like what? Lol
Waoooord!!
Good man you brought on stage, best of luck to him and fair wind.
shutup
This guy who came up on stage is so authentic.
@mystyclpork Just said the dude is authentic. Didn't attack Tyler. Learn reading bro.
I messaged that guy and he shut me off! He wouldn't accept the help I was offering Lol
@@nastypeenify which guy did you message?
@@yelfoppo1677 So angry
@@gretskyfunchess617 what's up RUclips goblin
The dude you brought up is a true champion. Cheers to you, you guys helped me
Daily meditation is the key I think.
It's an awesome habit . I do it like tyler , 21 minutes per day. But it won't replace the need to confront your fears . Whenever there's resistance , that's where you grow .
@@TheBigMclargehuge meditation is not a joke when done properly look at the research and all the people who have benefitted from it personally. I bet you love staying stuck in your head full of negativity judgment and egoic bs
@@TheBigMclargehuge it helps train you how to focus and helps get you out of your habitual thinking and have a more clear view on life. Nobody is saying you have to do it hours a day. 10 to 20 minutes is good. You aren't meditating to make progress in mediation itself. Meditation is a meta skill that improves everything else you do in life because your practicing how to focus.
In meditation you find answers, you relax your body, you feel inner peace, you become less triggered by annoyances ... I could go on, it's great. If you never felt these benefits or any other ones then I don't know what to say to you.
In my opinion meditation can help with developing focus on what matters in the right moment, it help to develop the abilty to get back your focus on all the other factor when you are too concentraed on what is happening in you head, for exemple when you experience fear or anxiety, and you need to fell the external world again, rapidly, in order to react in the right way. It helps in recognasing when your mind is not in the right place for what you are doing in the moment. Usally I train this shift of focus when I am running, while the mind is wondering, every once in a while I focus on the feelings in my body, the sound of the environment around me, the wind blowing on the skin.
Amazing video, content and ATTIRE! 😉
Thanks bro! Psyched about the videos we released together on your channel this week -Tyler
Crazy how this was made 4 yrs ago and is even more powerful today. Evergreen content my friend.
Tyler, get on the JRE podcast please!!
pretty please!
Incredible he's never been on!
@@chocolatepudding6146 what kinda sketchiness are you talking about? Depends what it is
@@chocolatepudding6146 just cause you have a certain ego doesnt mean he doesnt have amazing knowledge and that's what jre is all about.. lol idk him personally so I can't say nun bout his character 🤷🏽♂️ but being a "jerk" and being "knowledgeable" have nothing to do with each other... eat the meat, throw the bones (metaphorically speaking)
@@chocolatepudding6146 eat the meat, throw the bones... I dont entirely disagree... I can see some of those things but like I said, that doesnt keep them for knowing very good information that has definitely and obviously changed lives 🤷🏽♂️
44:28 - just timestamping this for myself
As Dumb as ist sounds - Words of Revelation haha - love it !
I started skateboarding and this really help with landing tricks
VERY PRACTICAL power dynamics here. I have often found the 48 laws of power to not be applicable. In theory but not in skill. This is a dope walkthrough or true social dynamics!
@Ronnie Othman some of the laws are rather beta and lack personal responsibility based on psychopathic behaviour patterns which may give more power but overall makes you a bit of a twat.. It catches up with you someday
@@AndyPoons guys I seem to think I may have even heard Robert Greene himself say, that book was less like a how-to, and more of tongue in cheek exposé on how some people have wielded or created power. Not necessarily saying how you should operate...
13:19 best pick up lines
19:20 how to GET value without giving
29:24 pros and more pros of alcohol
40:39 looks and money matter
This man is not phased by shit at all. At this will apply that to my everyday life till i am gone.
Apathy and acceptance can seem so similar sometimes. I think a big difference is that with apathy there is no push or need to take action because you brain just goes "Why would you? It doesn't matter anyway." But acceptance promotes the ability to take action because instead of thinking that the action is useless in itself or thinking that taking action doesn't matter, with acceptance you realize that taking action IS the reason and whatever comes from that action isn't the goal, but just a bonus. Not something you NEED. Like it still doesn't matter but it doesn't matter because you're coming at it from a completely different head space.
I definitely saw this video once but rewatching it it feels like something I never saw
Thumbnail is holding you back lol u deserve more subscribers, thank you for helping me learn how to be more social owen you are the legend
The world is waking up... we're just in the 'can't be bothered to get out of bed' stage 🥱🤩🤑
Not me!
Ignorant boomers are dying out....there is a huge disconnect between that generation and the newer ones. They just don’t get it, as Owen says here, they “can’t” get it.
Don't be so sure. Considering the current circumstances I would say the world is very much asleep/in a derp state
MrCharrrles exactly!!!!!everyones asleep
@@li6706 bro i get it im 16
Your world is a mirror of your internal reality. You cannot be subjected to outside influences unless you allow yourself to. If you take responsibility for everything that happens in your world, you take control back.
It’s crazy to me that Tyler keeps getting better at this
Final talk of the recent 4 day free tour. We were all wrecked and pushed through lol. If you want me to personally mentor you through this - www.highstatuscommunication.com - and we will go DEEP! Set up a simple free call and life will never be the same again. I've got a LOT of content coming this month, so this is just a quick one to bang out and expect a lot more soon. Hope you've been enjoying all the live videos here and on Instagram this week, really putting in work. Let me know your thoughts on the video and talk soon! -Tyler
Trump Tower is lit
Great video as always, this was especially insightful, thanks for all you do. Much love
Love the work you do Tyler💙🙏
"Recent?" Aren't groups suppose to be 10ppl or less??
@@Chilllmonger I have hundreds of seminars like this recorded btw, and five years of backlogged video blogs -Tyler
Great use of examples to really illustrate your thoughts!
I like the videos where you kind of rant. I'm one of those who needs a slap in the face from time to time to wake up.
Thank you, Tyler.
Tyler's jacket/hoodie game on point!! Love the yellow!!
Thank god you put this up Tyler.. I've woken up to this truth few months ago. Now it's time to reclaim my power back.
20:45 LOL!! Here we are dude XD
btw- If you happen to read this, I think you did great bro, keep it up!
Great talk. Going to rewatch with my kids (12 & 16 years). They are prime example of giving up and staying in the commodore zone. I say a lot of these things all the time, but coming from someone other than MOM peak attention!! Good stuff!! 🙏🏼
good location for this video! lol gotta get myself out of this sheep city
Ive watched many many hours of Owen ranting, and this is by far the finest rant ive seen.
be courageous and just be. Thank you Owen.
31:50 A price will be paid for making the fear go away right now. Echos back to Napoleon Hill's "Think and Grow Rich" where to accomplish your goals you must pay a price, but never thought about the price of ommission. Great insight!
We love you owen, thanks for the content
Great content Tyler! Love how on point you are and how you teach as things without sugarcoating them.
You're doing a service by producing these high quality videos filled with real life shit. Thank you Owen.
damn man, honest and raw. Back to the old quality of videos
Great raw talk 🙏🏻😊
Thanks so much! -Tyler
So good! Thanks Tyler for blessing us with your wisdom!
Will you make a video on parenting
Damoud Bamba I second this
jakob horn what are you gonna do about it
In the current state of men in today's society and what's been done to them, and the multitude of boys raised in single-mother households, this man's teachings are pure gold.
You just nailed it talking with high energy and vibration! You didn't waste Jesus resurrection. Powerful. That's the Spirit!
And here we are in 2021, Tyler called it. I didn't hear it back then tho
Truly the best thing on youtube right now!!
Is it just me or is Tyler wearing a shirt made out of omelet 🤔.... joke aside good stuff man, very powerful stuff.
6:20 I had that exact same problem back when i was in community college with writing essays, and i had a feeling it was due to something with me. Once, the teacher asked..."who here has their points but has trouble organizing your thoughts in a cohesive manner?"
And EVERYONE in the class raised their hand except me.
And i just sat their thinking "how? I dont even know what i wanna say at all. Am i just stupid?"
And sometimes during excerises in class, the teacher would make us write a paragraph for like 10 minutes. Everyone would finish, except me. I literally would have like one or two sentences.
And I do have trouble with coming up with things to say aswell during conversation. And if i say something, its usually dumb and not interesting or witty.
Crazy stuff.
You and Luke clearly vibe really well!
Tyler got a quarantine haircut lol. You the man Tyler straight gold!
Respect for u my man.. i hope i will have a chance one day to talk with u !
Tyler changing the world once again
Go into the fear. Embrace it. Got it!
Glad to see your trying out Eric Cartman again ;)
the opening shot looks very similar to one of your older videos! so keen to watch this
Sometimes you have to trust the animal in you and revert to living that way and then build up from there the right way, that guy was obviously overthinking WAY too much which was putting him down the whole time.
I like how you worded that, "the animal in you". So true. In today's modern society many people have lost touch with that part of themselves.
That yellow jacket is siiick!
Yeah I can relate to this, we're all have things that are the same. Its also okay to be there, at least you're working on fixing on what needs tweaking. well done, great work Tyler
Owen thank you ! I appreciate it ! I am so joyful I almost feel like a troll hahaha thank you again!
I appreciate you Owen. Great content.
I took a long break off from watching Owens videos because I felt betrayed when they started making different content. that being said started watching his videos again 2 days ago and doing daily affirmations. just met an incredible woman today in an almost serendipitous way been a rider with this cat since day one listen to him he knows what hes talking about
i felt betrayed when tyler said we can talk with him for 1 hour and it turned out to be 55 minutes with some dude who had some shitty canned questions
Thanks
tyler, you have grown so much!
Just finally got a chance to watch this video! Holy shit, this was an amazing video! Laughed so hard at times! I loved the points on LATERAL THINKING - would love to see more vids on this.
But I honestly really feel for that guy, I hope he makes the best of his situation.
My favorite video in awhile thanks owen
Great Work here by Owen to bring up this guy and show us an example to which all of us can relate if we truly being honest with ourselves, almost wann make me say ***k dating, this is more important stuff.
Can you actually imagine the world we would live in if we put this guy in charge of education & self-development for EVERYONE.. 🤯🙏🏾💚💪🏾
You the man, I have to take this info...drip by drip, thank you very much!
Lol epic -Tyler
Yes Owen yes! You basically just put into words what happens to me when under pressure! Amazing to hear it and understand it even further. Love it! Thanks Owen 🙏🏼
This was so good I had to stop I a few times to take it in
Thank you so much for this!
Oh man easily top top vid.
I really believe one like on youtube is not enough for you.love you❤
he talks alot about what jordan peterson was talking about exposure therapy and facing your fears to inrease your courage. would love to see jordan peterson and owen talk about life and having a podcast or something
Yea its just psychology
This dude gets it
Just thank you Tyler !
I'm getting there
your jacket fixed my attention problem
Wow. Crazy insightful!
44:00 The Word Is nonchalant
Amazing job man 🙏
Thank you great speech!
"For God has not given us a spirit of timidity, but of power and love and discipline." - 2 Timothy 1:7
Thanks
Good ol' Timmy Twotimes with the knowledge drop
@@Sixsoul Go suck a lemon. Hahaha
Amazing as always
Thank You Owen!
Thanks for sharing yo!
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Great one
29:22 sounds like the court scene with Jim Carrey in "Liar Liar" :D Amazing video, really eye opening!
this is gold
That Heaven Drops ginseng energy full force.
Bless
That first sentence.
Fucking legend.
Thanks my man
Fuck now I miss my yellow jacket. Sick video 🔥
So, why does Telemachus want to find his father again?
child support money
Cause his father molested him when he was younger and now he wants to molest him back
Thanks again
Wow the part with the devil
I am astonished once again after not watching this guy for years
This is it
I want to experience this too😤 So I will.
Cool vid 💯👌
Got some knowledge from it keep up the good content
32:00 It’s amazing to hear Owen reference God these days. He was getting deep into that Elkhart Tolle New Age crystals and Kundalini wave at one point. Scared me away
Thank you 🙏🏻 says the ant to the human for not squeezing it under his/her feet 🦶!
Very very interesting stuff
The dude on the stage seems like he has massive potential to crush it in life once his internals get changed. Not bad looking, good voice, likeable ... this guy could be a major boss in life once he gets more assertive, applies some humor and leaves his toxic wiring behind. Goes to show your internal beliefs are more important than anything else.
I know this guy I met him at the 4-day. I saw him a month later at the paid 4 day he seemed pretty happy and was doing much better.
@tyler free tour That was the best Rsd free tour i have been
Lol 😂 you are so funny 😆this is the best video ever !!!!!! I thank you 😊 super intelligent