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They always take these tiktoks too seriously
This.
Because young / some older people are learning things from those platforms. Even doctors get videos from tiktok to debunk certain things that go viral about disease treatment or surgical procedures.
Ravers are always more important than the previous generation, YW.
I know it’s so cringe… no one is taking “this to heart”
Exactly. Most younger generations can see this and understand that it's just for the sake of the bop and the video. Not a real checklist for "desired features".
whoopi's face like: this generation are fooools 😂
Succeeding in taking all the joy out of the room! She starts talking, and it’s like watching paint dry……..
@@Mandrake591I agree. She’s rude and annoying. Thinks she knows it all.
Whoopi is spot on
@@Mandrake591Yall just want to hate on Whoopi for no reason all she said was be as good for that other person as you want them to be for you e.g... stop being selfish
Which was great advice
And all you got from that is Whoopi sucking the joy from everything
How you feel about some people sometimes is a expression of you not them
@@jaycamp6385she isn't rude or annoying
She has lived through a lot in her over 6 decades of life so she has seen a lot
This is also a show about people expressing their opinions
The cast lo e Whoopi and hang out sometimes so the rudeness is clearly not translating to your impression of her
In the USA, about 0.054% of men are 6’5” with blue eyes. If we consider men in finance and those with trust funds, the percentage drops to around 0.00108%. Globally, this rarity is comparable to being born with extra fingers or toes.
I'm exactly 6 feet tall (183cm), I grew up in Nigeria, I was taller than 90 percent of the male population back home, among the females it's less than percent that even come close to 6 feet. I only came across 6 ft 5" guys on the basketball court in the University. Yes, among caucasians it's easier to find that height, it is not common among Africans.
So yes, you are describing Donald Trump if you want 6 feet 5", blue eyes and lots of money.
I wouldn't want to be 6 feet tall in Africa because, you'd look like a freak.
Honestly the TikTok should not be taken seriously
No man, in real life and within every generation, wants to get seriously involved with a loudmouth self-absorbing girl or woman.. They just don’t get it. 🤨
Whoopi's face says it all.
I'm 42 gay man and I don't want no body never again 😂 I'm been single for 5 years, no date in 5 years and I really don't need or want anybody in my life. I'm to happy been single and free of drama and everything. I love my peacefull life. So do you and be happy with yourself, love Yourself first and enjoy your life by yourself. You don't need another person to do that. 🎉🎉🎉🎉😊
Sooo agree!!👏🏾👏🏾 Previously married, went through a bitter, heartbreaking divorce and these past 7 years have been sooo freeing and PEACEFUL being single.🙌🏾🙌🏾
Life can still be enjoyable and wonderful alone. Alone doesn't always mean lonely!!🎉😊🎉
ONLY THE LONELY “ need “ the VOID FILLED having been on my own 40 YEARS!! After domestic violence abuse I DONT WANT feck all !!! I ain’t FUCKIN NEEDY … that’s a INSECURITY
I'm 40 and divorced my husband last year. I said the exact same thing as you, but then I met the most amazing guy and now we are officially together 😂. I'm still surprised.
I definitely agree with you. I'm an openly 58 year old gay man who ended a 25-year relationship in mid-2015 due to my partners infidelity, I attempted to date, but too much has changed & to keep my sanity I've stayed single & I'm now living my life moment by moment day by day & it's working out pretty good so far.. 💯
I have got Lenny K beat by a year. However, I couldn't be happy without my animals! 💜
I’m 6’5 in medicine and have green eyes 😂
And you watch the view?!? ✅✅✅✅
@@simmerdowncookie I’m kind of addicted!!
Watching the view as a man is cuckold behavior
Hottie
I'm looking for a man in Medicine, trust fund, 6' 5", green eyes 🤣
Wait; the girl is SO OBVIOUSLY kidding😂 She’s even talking in a valley girl-esque accent! She’s perhaps poking fun at a certain podcaster that regularly talks about how she won’t date a guy who’s not rich.
WHY ARE THEY TRYING TO MAKE IT AS IF THIS IS ACTUALLY A CHECKLIST THAT GIRLS ARE USING😂😂 The fact that a girl made a REMIX out of it makes it clear that they’re not being serious
It was a guy who made the mix LOL
I feel like older people just don’t get our humor and many of them are so rude instead of trying to understand
The first thing I said when I saw that video is that it was obvious she was joking based on that ridiculous accent.
I would rather be single and alone than in a crazy dysfunctional relationship.
Those aren’t the only two options hahaha
@@Tortilla.Reform i was coming to say the same thing! false dichotomy
Same! I drive people crazy so I stay single for a reason.
@@javiruiz8365Yikes, you should definitely work on yourself then. Openly admitting you're toxic is 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
No man, in real life and within every generation, wants to get seriously involved with a loudmouth self-absorbing girl or woman.. They just don’t get it. 🤨
if a man says he wants a wife under 110 lbs, these ladies would throw a fit lol
Dw men are whining about it too.
Exactly
No man, in real life and within every generation, wants to get seriously involved with a loudmouth self-absorbing girl or woman.. They just don’t get it. 🤨
They just say no fat chicks
No ones talking about weight 🤣
*Sunny* married an accomplished surgeon who fell a little bit short of her checklist. *Sara* married a seemingly successful lawyer who missed many of the marks on her checklist. *Ana* married a multimillionaire who she complains about constantly...
…What does this tell you? 🤔
Women care about money!!
It tells me that well-educated, wealthy- in- their -own- right women marry men on the same level as them. ...like most people do. Most people marry within the same level to themselves.
😂
@@Sammy2g3 And what else?
@@kasa9884 None of those women came from wealth, so what level was that? And why did each marry men who fell below their standards and/or complain about?
Lots of those in prison.
😂
Sleeping unassisted 😂😂
She said BREATHING unassisted
No man, in real life and within every generation, wants to get seriously involved with a loudmouth self-absorbing girl or woman.. They just don’t get it. 🤨
Not breathing unassisted 😂😂😂
I fell OUT when I heard that. 😂
😂😂😂😂
2 out of 300,000,000 Americans actually fit that description. 😎
Rationality and logic never stood in the way of women! 😅
You're not far off.
I did the calculations and out of 340 million Americans, there are only 35 who are men who are in finance, have a trust fund, and are 6'5 with blue eyes.
This doesn't even take into account for how they look and because of modern day dating and how skewed everything is, out of those 35 men, only 2-3 would probably
fit her description properly.
It's fucked
Where are you getting that number? There are nearly 200 NBA players alone 6'5" and up...
I agree with Whoopi on this.
No man, in real life and within every generation, wants to get seriously involved with a loudmouth self-absorbing girl or woman.. They just don’t get it. 🤨
Whoopi: "I don't have a checklist, because if I meet somebody, I will decide"... based on a subconscious checklist 😅
I'm with Whoopi. She's more a" go-with-the-flow and discover what attracts me" kind of gal.
No man, in real life and within every generation, wants to get seriously involved with a loudmouth self-absorbing girl or woman.. They just don’t get it. 🤨
3:04 Peep Whoopi’s face 😆😂 priceless
Alyssa: “Men are more likely to have bizzarely unrealistic expectations.”
Sunny: “What are these men looking for?”
Alyssa: “It’s entirely unclear to me.”
Translation, she doesn't care.
Alyssa is the youngest of the group and they don’t even let her get a word in when this topic is most relevant to her
I found they were rude and dismissive to her...
To be honest the few seconds she spoke, she said absolutely nothing of substance. Her view of men not dating "accomplished" women is not only childish but very stupid.
No man, in real life and within every generation, wants to get seriously involved with a loudmouth self-absorbing girl or woman.. They just don’t get it. 🤨
LMAO those women on staff who are "having trouble finding men to date them" probably have over 1000 unanswered messages on Hinge. What a moronic thing to say lol.
My checklist:
-Wants to raise children.
-Financially stable or working toward being stable enough to support kids with me.
-Equal domestic labor.
-Bilingual.
-Been to therapy and has good communication and emotional self-awareness.
-Cherishes my cultural background and gets along with my family.
-Doesn't mind that I am loud.
-Community-oriented.
-Optimist.
-Critical thinker.
-No addictions.
-LGBT.
-Preference: Can cook.
What I bring to the table:
-Want to raise kids.
-Financially stable government job with retirement plan and benefits.
-Been to therapy to resolve trauma and try to become a good communicator and parent.
-Live alone and can do my domestic labor, struggle with cooking tho.
-Can do endless bureaucratic calls, file taxes and forms, and manage health appointments.
-Can yell at people on your behalf.
-Avid salsa lead dancer.
-Multilingual in 5 languages.
-Community-oriented.
-Optimist.
-No addictions.
-LGBT.
Women want to be treated as equals and then they come out with this s-t. This sets them back IMHO
I wonder if Sonny's husband knows he is an accessory? That's how she described him...just saying
She gets to brag around that he’s a surgeon. Her accessory
she is weard
It’s okay he’s definitely cheating on her
Gross comment by Sunny
He is a fool to be used and dumped afterward like most rich men. 😂😂😂
I'm single and not by choice. But it's gets lonely but I have peace.
I’m like Whoopi. No checklist.
Respectfully, BS. Y'all have checklists.
Whoopi had Ted danson. 💅🏽💅🏽💅🏽.
in blackface
What the fork ??????
@@samriddhigupta5514 look it up...learn
I don't get it, are you trying to say something?
Yeah I remember that. You can still find the pics too
I met a guy when I was a kid, who was 6'5 black clothes, black hat, black casual shoes and black eyes. A devil and I fought him. Not letting him get my soul.
🤨
Be the person you want to be with
No man, in real life and within every generation, wants to get seriously involved with a loudmouth self-absorbing girl or woman.. They just don’t get it. 🤨
“Heart beat. Pulse.” Love it!! Well said. I had expectations of what kind of person I wanted in My Life while I was dating!! I found a man that lived me for I am til his last breath!! I have have been blessed.
When I was internet dating I would stare at his lips and if I couldn’t see myself kissing them it was a no for me. Of course I had my own money, height didn’t matter as I am very short so for me it was all about him tickling my keys.
“Looking for a man in Finance, trust fund, 6’5, blue eyes”.
Cool. And what are these ladies bringing to the table? 😊
And here we go…always gotta be one 🤣 You know, maybe you’re different and it would be unfair to project on you, but I’ve noticed that 9 times out of 10, dudes that obsess with this question can’t afford a table to bring anything to in the first place? Is that you? (C’mon - be honest. Or at least be honest with yourself, even if you don’t want to expose yourself here.)
Oh and for the record, “these ladies” are all married to so-called high value men - equally successful guys that clearly think they bring a lot to the proverbial table. So you don’t have to worry about them. Although I doubt they were the type to pay attention to a guy that would lead with that kind of question.
@@missmytime Actually, when I said “these ladies”, I was referring to the women who were “looking for the Man in Finance, 6’5, blue eyes etc.” I wasn’t referring to the ladies of The View who are obviously very successful.
But maybe reading comprehension isn’t your best subject. But of course it would be unfair for me to project that onto you. 😂
And by the way, I can afford a table. It’s in my mother’s basement with me right now. 😊
@@TheFunnyCave hey, for someone else I might have responded with …you never actually mentioned which ladies you were referring to, so what’s to blame there, my reading comprehension or your writing skills ?…hahaha, but fair enough, your last statement was actually really funny 😀😂
Dating women who are successful is difficult, because they always automatically make assumptions of men, and lets you know she is more better than you are (man), and you can’t handle a woman like her. If she’d just talk with men (whether they are dressed in not so expensive clothing) to find out more about them, her chances of finding a husband would increase.
Been there, done that...lasted thirty years. On my own...happy!
Whoppi should stop coming to this show she can barely tolerate these women and she hates every topic they need to discuss. At this point she's just torturing herself
These topics come with the job?? Do they not?
enough of the histrionics.
Exactly
Whoppi Goldberg is Absolutely On Point this Shyt is CRAZY
Mad Respect for Whoppi regardless of what the detractors say. Keep up the Great work
Whoopi loves her cohosts ,she is just from a different generation ,she is the wisdom in the group and we love her perspective on things !
Sunny: me, me, me
Always.... she's so annoying.🙄
YOU: Sunny, Sunny, Sunny
These modern women with these are inflated outlandish ideas smh.
When are women gonna realize most men dont care about your degree or how much money youve made?
Women don't have their degrees and career for men. It's said to drive a point that woman are equal partners.
@@kasa9884 No, the hosts were griping about why their friends are single even though they have successful careers.
I’m so with Sunny when she said i wanna be with someone who’s always trying to be a better version of themselves!!!
I laughed so hard at Sunny! Omg sometimes she’s hilarious
i laugh at how shallow she is.
No man, in real life and within every generation, wants to get seriously involved with a loudmouth self-absorbing girl or woman.. They just don’t get it. 🤨
As a brilliant spokesperson recently pointed out, most men want a family - not someone who acts socially elitist. A few women at this table were case in point.
Women in highly successful positions might have ridiculously high expectations and can arguably be difficult to partner with for clear reasons.
Perhaps knowing one's self first, would help these women in their pursuit of an ideal 'accessory' or mate. Also, pursue a mate who can be a loving husband (as in emotional non-financial displays of affection) and father. Anything extra is just confetti.
Sunny short king shaming is not cool.
But she gave in on that one so it was not too important in the end
That wasn't shaming. She was making a point that he matched more important things and to buck the stereotype that women go for tall men as it's not true across the board.
You’re the one who’s doing the shaming.
@@Chillhard No, Sunny was.
Instead of starting by saying Megan “claims” she’s joking, and then spending the next 5 minutes presuming she’s not and discussing your own checklists, why not just have her on the show and ask her? She’s a comedian. You’d realize your premise was wrong and her bop was pure satire.
When a woman start saying to be a bit of version of yourself she just wants a change you I want you to be more financially secure for her nothing else being a good person is not good enough normal
"what are these men looking for?"
"it is entirely unclear to me"
dont play stupid, stupid.
And I'm sorry but y'all say these girls being right but the girl asking for more than cheesecake factory was wrong? Inconsistent
Whoppy is the only one with common sense! The lady in the white t-shirt is so superfluous...
I don't think she, or the view, understood that the song was a satire in response to her stupidity. Also I love how those hosts just ridiculed their husbands by saying how they compromised their higher expectations to be with them.
I don’t think guys in finance are interested in marrying OF models unfortunately.
who's an OF model?
@@Lil08103same😅🤔
well, I am in Finance and I am chill
@@fopifopfopifop3540 *willing to simp and pay
These women are insane
Did she just humiliate her husband on national media?lol
These women need to remember that beggars can’t be choosers
This blonde talking about her husband like he ain’t good enough the misandry is crazy.
I wanted to hear Alyssa's opinion but, as usual, was was rudely interrupted by whoopi.
No money, no honey. That's for sure!
How much is loneliness worth? There are some who are happy unmarried. Maybe they have a great social life outside of marriage. There are some who are miserable alone. Do women marry more for money or to escape loneliness? If you were required to be alone for the rest of your life... how much would you demand you be paid to stay that way?
This show is evidence that women dont need to vote😅
I love how these women just talk about men but never have a man on the show🤣
Women think they want 6’5 dudes because all the 5’7 guys are telling them they are 6 feet tall
I QUIT BLIND DATING IN 2004 😜😉
This is why I like older women LOL. I'm 29 and most girls. My age grow up being told that they were special princesses by their daddies and they expect men to treat them like that. So with older women they're kind of past that phase. They're their own person and they just want companionship
Whoopi was spot on. My thing is, once women are married and out of the dating, searching world for a while, then they need to stop trying to shop their "check list" on others. Oh and a guy would get destroy if he calls his wife "an accessory".
And Whoopi was also right about the idea that someone needs to be constantly striving to be a better person. That has nothing to do with the relationship. What do you mean, you want to be with someone who wants to be better? So you don't like me how I am... ok.. time to move on.
Ana's list...old whyte republican with connections and money. Done.
Gotta be a republican in name only
I find people who say they are ambitious often do not like themselves very much. The constant need to be better often is to try to fix something they do not like about themselves. Personally a bit of not liking yourself is ok and can be healthy motivation but anything more is sad to me. I prefer someone with an average level of ambition so much so that they don't even consider it a quality they describe themselves as being.
They kept interrupting Alyssa!
She has to be more assertive, she's too shy or too polite. But it's true, they always interrupt her, rude
@Atimatimukti I'm pretty sure they had a talk with them about interrupting or taking over a hot topic when Sunny and alyssa got into it like a year and a half ago. But alyssa seems to be the only one abiding. Sunny still interrupts everybody on the panel.
@@energizerbunny99 she gets on my nerves. Alyssa has gotten a couple jabs in but needs to be more assertive.
@latoniawright2046 well alyssa is the best republican they've had on this show (ana has been getting on my nerves recently) but alyssa risks being called a problem if she gets "assertive". Meghan McCain was the worst. Then Elisabeth hasselbeck and jedidiah were horrible for many reasons. I wouldn't wanna be compared to them either lol
@@energizerbunny99 yes she is. Anna isn't there enough for her to irk me. Sunny is too self centered. She always makes it about her. I tried reading one of her books they keep bragging about and it was garbage. Glad I borrowed it from the library! I hate how she always interrupts Alyssa and says nasty things. Alyssa should never apologize for who she is or who she voted for. This is America. I am independent and respect both sides of the aisle for those who are about freedom and equality for all.
Now let's see the male version 😅
Don't judge me
Neither good nor bad
Just be, simply be and look...
Just be, simply be and look...
I'll just jump in and say. Not wanting a woman at all solves that particular problem. Creates other, but definitely solves it. Haha😂
This just reinforces the womens false expectations, wants, and desires lol
Sunny is so disrespectful LOL. I would never want to be Manny.
Whoopi’s frustration gets annoying.
VERY annoying. I usually don't even bother watching on Mondays
💯
I agree!
She's a real Manhattanite for the vast majority. Frustration comes with the territory or geography.
I usually agree with her.
These topics are ridiculous!
2:44 this woman sounds more reasonable and realistic
haha boomers taking tiktok seriously
Haha wauw! 34 year old married guy talking here. If I was single then I would go for Whoopie ❤
I'm looking for a woman who is like Woopie
Highest Bar expectations to start with💯🤣🤣🤣
@4:25. I get what Whoopi is saying, but everyone isn’t the same. Some people actually become better *for* others *despite* of themselves and they’re proclivity to stay stagnant or regress
There's a hilarious dog version going around social that I can relate to. "I'm looking for a dog with toe beans, snores loud, eats cheese, teefies."
Modern women's standards for men surpass men's standards for women by miles. It's not even a close comparison.😂
That's why you see so many hasbeen 50+ wrinkled up turkey neck old women still holding out for Mr. Perfect.
That's because modern women have surpassed men intellectually and have advanced themselves while men haven't had to do anything because everything was given to them. Women are now more educated, making more, and a man is not a necessity the way it was back then. So what exactly does your modern day man have to offer besides a penis. Not much
I also think both men and women often want what they can't do/offer. Women want men in a certain tax bracket that they're not even in. Men wanting a woman to cook and clean when they can't make anything but a bowl of cereal. People should be asking for what they themselves can provide just as Whoopi said. I'm 37, retired due to real estate investments, speak 3 languages and travel the world. I'll never find a guy that matches that but at least I realize that lol
@@nylotus More simply, women tend to be hypergamous because they seek a provider in a mate; meanwhile, mean tend to seek women with domestic skills, because a man who seeks a wife to become a mother would most benefit from those skills, especially if he is expected to be the breadwinner. And what makes you think there aren't men who invest in real estate, travel and speak mutliple languages? Moreover, why would those things be prerequisites for a relationship, if you want a man who does/offer what you don't??
@@IMHTP the problem with men wanting what you described is that most don't have a provider's income. a man making $50K needs to be prepared to cook and do other domestic chores regularly. men want traditional women but have modern income.
1:12 we all heard her, right? Men are an accessory? This is how women talk.
Requiring him to be a certain height is also wild
Im like Whoopi
The TikTok shouldn’t be taken seriously. But I will say that when Alyssa said men have the more unrealistic standards idk about that. I feel like both sides have unrealistic standards but men will settle more than women. Because look at how all the ladies had a checklist, most guys just want someone that’s into them 😂. I feel like she knew exactly why her friends weren’t being called back after those dates because noticed how she tried to brush it off after
Allthem 304s lying like a mofo
Ladies who take dating advice from ‘the view’, enjoy your cats
Whoopi’s is worth $60 million and Imani is worth $1.5. Extreme eye roll Damon.
Yes, Run for the Hills😅
So, if any man were to say that his woman is his accessory and partner, it would definitely be wrong. When a woman says it about a man, we should see it as an endearing statement... It's still wrong any way one looks at it.
It’s ok to have aspirations .. even in a partner..We can want what we want..without compromising..
relationships should be reciprocal..
I'm 27 and I totally agree with Whoopi, if i like you i like you not a checklist in mind. Though i understand where everyone else is coming from.
I think the 24/7 access to porn, social media, influencer, and dating websites have ruined men when it comes to dating. They have unrealistic expectations because they have access to millions of women on their phone and they think it’s a possibility they can date someone completely out of their league. When before, the 380 lb geek With bad breath Playing video games on his computer in the basement of his mom‘s house would never dream that he would have a chance with a hot girl but now that’s what they expect.
Its literally the total opposite. Dating apps, social media, feminism have convinced women they are all 10's because they get all this attention from men & countless date offers just looking at their phone. 80% of women are only interested in 20% of men as we see with their ridiculous checklists. Women all chase the same men while other 80% of men are invisible to any decent woman. Men dont have checklists.
Social media is affecting both men AND women, not just men
@@Max4Z the 24/7 access to porn is not ruining women. Miss me with that.🙄
@@HH-gv8mx what are u talking about, have u never seen people at sobriety groups when they talk about their addictions/struggles, a lot of them are also girls that were exposed to p0rn at a very early age becuz it’s so normalized and now suffering from p0rn addiction
You’d be surprised
@@HH-gv8mxthe average men don’t have access to a lot of women on dating apps. Look up the stats, there are a lot of lonely men and men committing suicide because of WOMEN’S UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS
They are crazy. Men only have two things on the list. Be hot and don’t nag. 😉
really? because every "Alpha Male" podcast wants girls 21 or YOUNGE, and then drop them after a certain age. and they don't want women who make their own money either...
Most women qualify most men don’t
This is obviously a joke and I love it
This show is overtly misandrist and nobody calls it out. Disgusting.
This is why tiktok needs to be banned
"-I think men are more likely to have bizarrely unrealistic expectations
- what are this men looking for?
- It is entirely unclear to me" 🤡🤡🤡
It's out of control. She was literally like a temp worker in Philly whose father owns a fast food chain and now she has an agent and a record deal. FFS.
😮 Who are you talking about?
@@amyreynolds3619 the girl who originated the video.
Except it wasnt her that made the mix... it was a dude@beatnickblanket
@@plav032 Yes, but it's HER voice that wrote and performed the dialogue that other people are turning into dance remixes. She's the "star" of the content. *shrug*
Guys are simple. We aren't looking for much.
Exactly. As a man, I rather be alone than be used by a woman for FREE STUFF!!! EVERY WOMAN USES AND Manipulates a man with their sweet and innocent act. 🙄
Sunny irritates me to no end. Ichh!
Why because she's right so often? And you can't deal?
@@Smarterthanyew No. It’s not her intellect that gets me. (You should be so knowledgeable.)
lordie, give it a rest.... the VIEW is just so ridiculous
try parking lot attendant movie theatre ticket seller or beachside ice cream seller who all have real life experience in finance