If you want the one big thing that ruined dating, social media. Nowadays, we don't go on dates to know each other to get married but rather validation online...
Hey bro hate to be the bad news bear to you. But women have always been creeping around. All!! The female women in my family have cheated on there boyfriends and husbands. My own mom cheated on my dad multiple times, female aunts, female cousins, my own grandma has 8 kids with 5 different baby daddy’s. My sister was begged by my mom to leave her husband who works 2 jobs so my sister could stay at home to take care of the kids. My sister said screw that. I choose my kids and my husband over breaking up a household. She is the only feminine women I know. My family calls me a hoe because I sleep around. Social media just put the drama out there. Stay safe fellas.
Another issue is woman who are 304s want to be courted. Courting is only for woman who respect themselves and are traditional and are not gonna be exploring other options while I’m courting you
5'2" is tough bro. Short guys thinks they can get with short girls but it the opposite. Short girls especially will likely go for dudes way taller than they are to balance out her own short genes. I have much respect for short dude pulling tall girls, it's like a status symbol, means they are somebody.
@@cleverpointmade Ofc not, but being a somebody helps, immensely. If you're short, you're already at a disadvantage. You can't afford to also be broke, boring, and lack confidence. Overcoming that disadvantage take more effort, will, and perseverance. Overcoming such adversity would mold any man into someone of substance.
Just my opinion of course, what has “ruined” dating is the belief that dating has been ruined. In other words, we make it waaay more complicated than it is and let our ego get in the way. A woman/man not really feeling you the way you hoped? So? Get ghosted or friend zoned? So? Get rejected outright? So? Take a breath, pull up your big boy pants or panties and realize you are still alive right? There are literally a billion potential partners out there at any given time. When you stop wasting time on dead ends it’s amazing how the drama of dating goes away too.
I think people fall in love with proximity too much. There are sooooo many people outside of where you are, which is why traveling I feel is crucial to growth
I'm genuinely considering buying a house. Having three roommates all heterosexual. Never marrying. Maybe having a girlfriend that will never live with me. Seems less stressful than divorce and traditional marriage
Phewww 😅 the title had me tight for a hot second but I think it’s a cycle you know. Men became too full of themselves and women started manning up and then men wanted us more feminine and we wanted them to be a well rounded man not just egotistical one, and it just keep going in a circle 🤷🏽♀️
"Phewww 😅 the title had me tight for a hot second" --- you did what women do & got in your feelings. but the title isn't wrong... "Men became too full of themselves" ---- women are hypergamous & only talk to the top 10% of men & ignore the rest. only the rich/famous men YOU CHASE are full of themselves. regular guys don't act like that, but you wouldn't know because those guys are INVISIBLE to you. "and women started manning up" --- feminism did that. women wanted to work & take on masculine roles in society & in the home & now women are doing that, becoming more masculine & less attractive in the process. thats women's own fault, not men's. you said manning up like it was a necessity born out of men's lack of service to women. men don't owe women their service just like women don't owe men sex. women wanted to be independent, now you gotta man up & work your ass off & grind to survive just like the men. thats women's fault. with feminism, women asked for this. "and we wanted them to be a well rounded man not just egotistical one" --- if you want less egotistical men, stop chasing, rich, successful, tall men with 6-packs... date regular men. women chase men that look like Boris Kodjoe & are surprised he has an ego lol. thats the equivalent of men chasing IG models & being surprised they're shallow... duh smh "and it just keep going in a circle" --- you said its a cycle, but you made it sound like its men's fault. this is all women's fault. women were in the kitchen cooking & taking care of their families in the 1950's but women wanted to be men. now you have to work like a slave like men, but now men gotta "man up" & take care of you? lol modern women are delusional.
So taking away the selection process women are conditioned with, what do you feel they should value if not the riches and lifestyle that those men can provide?
No y’all women most definitely ruined dating because you gotta remember men are the ones doing the risk when asking out women are the ones doing the rejecting not men it’s on both side men and women but mainly women because women are the ones doing the rejection and men taking all the risk so in al honestly what you said is pure emotional and not logic it’s neither genders fault but women overall do play a significant more role when it comes to dating which is why it seems like it’s women’s fault but in reality it’s both genders fault why relationships are the way they are today because at the end of the day both men and women need each other
Translated: phewww, i thought you were going to say something less than favorable about women, or even be 50/50 in how both ruined it equally, but you fell into your place and towed the line in slamming on men, so all is well!
What is happening is people living their lives through youtube videos instead of going outside to see the real world. Men and women courtship has always been a problem there is nothing new.
Courtship is a great point, but the idea of courting today is vastly different from what it was before. The requirements of the dating scene are different because we have access to an unlimited amount of options that we didint have before. So more people are unwilling to develop with one person because it’s easier to walk away and look for something more befitting for instant gratification.
Dude, I think you missing the boat on "feminism". Men don't want women barefoot and pregnant. Men only care that a woman can take care of herself, be it $40K or $400K per year. But, this new version of feminism is actually toxic feminism. Just like with dating, they want to cherry pick what is stalking, or what jobs they want to do. You may want to do more research on this topic. Take care.
It’s not a video about “feminism” it’s about the todays stereotype of how women ruined dating. These are POV’s from today’s dating scene and I disagree with your perspective on men caring about women who can take care of themselves. If you are a man earning over 250k more than likely money is an irrelevant factor when choosing a mate. Men seek peace
@@cleverpointmade Totally agree for a man making $250K+. I'm talking about the average man. You are correct that men seek peace. But I'm just saying that men don't care that a woman makes $100K. If a woman can take care of herself (to the average man) - meaning she is not totally relying on him for everything - then a man is fine. She can work at Chuck E. Cheese and he's good. But I thought your feminism section was your specific view. Keep making content, my guy. And regardless of if we agree or not, keep doing your thing and providing diverse perspectives and content to the world. I'm rooting for your channel.
Appreciate that man and I’m all for debates, I try and keep my perspectives open because I believe in causality. We can’t blame the effect without the cause and we are all responsible in some way but the best thing about RUclips is how we can all learn from one another. Appreciate you tuning in and commenting 🙏🏽
@@cleverpointmade "It’s not a video about “feminism” it’s about the todays stereotype of how women ruined dating." --- feminism, which was started by women... is highly tied into many of the ills in todays dating scene. from the feminist free love movements to the sexual revolution to todays hookup culture & promiscuity, its all tied in. " If you are a man earning over 250k more than likely money is an irrelevant factor when choosing a mate." --- men who make $30K don't care how much a woman makes when dating. its women who are concerned with their partners earnings.
@@cleverpointmade its mostly tricks and men who got more money than game(simps) who lead with a wallet than strong character ruined it for us, but for the most part men are still traditional still believe in family, community etc It's only now that men are catching up with bullshit e.g false paternity, devorce rape and the reality that most women will suck you dry till you got nothing left to give.
"What is the problem with another person wanting just as much as you have?" The problem is when that person who has just as much as me still expects me to be their protector and provider. The problem is that equal perks are not expected to come with equal responsibilities. Traditional treatment of women in the form of benevolent sexism was a compensation to them for their lack of equivalent social standing to men. Getting to maintain that while still equal to men in all other aspects isn't equality, it's superiority. If what was mine is still mine and what was yours is now ours, I am in a superior position to you.
The concept of standards is wrong yes, because it assumes you are better than you are. You are wrong. You are not special, nobody is, you do not get to have standards, nobody does.
@@ALTheFreeManeven after their banishment from the garden of Eden, Adam and Eve stayed together and had a pretty good life (excluding what happened with their sons) idrk what you’re on about
If you want the one big thing that ruined dating, social media. Nowadays, we don't go on dates to know each other to get married but rather validation online...
Ouff I could do a whole episode on how social media has altered dating
Social media to a point. But most blame should be on the people mainly woman tho. They see unrealistic shit people post and want to do the same.
Do you think men also see unrealistic stuff on social media and want that as well?
Actually yes also learned not to chase flashy women anymore and best thing ever
Hey bro hate to be the bad news bear to you. But women have always been creeping around. All!! The female women in my family have cheated on there boyfriends and husbands. My own mom cheated on my dad multiple times, female aunts, female cousins, my own grandma has 8 kids with 5 different baby daddy’s. My sister was begged by my mom to leave her husband who works 2 jobs so my sister could stay at home to take care of the kids. My sister said screw that. I choose my kids and my husband over breaking up a household. She is the only feminine women I know. My family calls me a hoe because I sleep around. Social media just put the drama out there. Stay safe fellas.
Another issue is woman who are 304s want to be courted. Courting is only for woman who respect themselves and are traditional and are not gonna be exploring other options while I’m courting you
What if a man does it care about her body count, do you think he should still court and treat her the same as he would another girl?
Yep, they want men to be traditional while they run around like modern 034s
I think the men who say things like this and are projecting because they can't get laid themselves and resent that it's so easy for women.
5'2" is tough bro. Short guys thinks they can get with short girls but it the opposite. Short girls especially will likely go for dudes way taller than they are to balance out her own short genes.
I have much respect for short dude pulling tall girls, it's like a status symbol, means they are somebody.
Go for the tall ones, you got this dude.
That’s an interesting one, do you think short guys can only pull taller girls if they are “somebody”?
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Oh yeah buddy, short ones can definitely pull of tall ones
@@cleverpointmade Ofc not, but being a somebody helps, immensely.
If you're short, you're already at a disadvantage. You can't afford to also be broke, boring, and lack confidence.
Overcoming that disadvantage take more effort, will, and perseverance. Overcoming such adversity would mold any man into someone of substance.
Men made the apps so technically men ruined it..women just use the tools nerds made against them 😂
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men made the tools to get rich to attract women. so is it women's fault? its a chicken & egg thing.
Just my opinion of course, what has “ruined” dating is the belief that dating has been ruined. In other words, we make it waaay more complicated than it is and let our ego get in the way. A woman/man not really feeling you the way you hoped? So? Get ghosted or friend zoned? So? Get rejected outright? So? Take a breath, pull up your big boy pants or panties and realize you are still alive right? There are literally a billion potential partners out there at any given time. When you stop wasting time on dead ends it’s amazing how the drama of dating goes away too.
I think people fall in love with proximity too much. There are sooooo many people outside of where you are, which is why traveling I feel is crucial to growth
Most guys do not want the baddest chick maybe your freinds ... most just want a decent chick
Idk I think most guys like the idea of having the “baddest” chick but settle for decent
The internet ruined dating
People are more accessible than ever. Thus, everyone has fomo when it comes to dating and/or finding the ‘one’
Do you think it would be better if dating apps found a way to limit our options?
Date men then.
😂
I'm genuinely considering buying a house. Having three roommates all heterosexual. Never marrying. Maybe having a girlfriend that will never live with me. Seems less stressful than divorce and traditional marriage
Is this because of what dating has become?
@@ericortega1745nope. Don't date women. Date men ......leave women alone
@@KRAFTOMEEZY date yourself. Even better
Not sure as finally found a nice girlfriend, but got tired of the “getting a free meal crowd.” There are quite a few out there.
Phewww 😅 the title had me tight for a hot second but I think it’s a cycle you know. Men became too full of themselves and women started manning up and then men wanted us more feminine and we wanted them to be a well rounded man not just egotistical one, and it just keep going in a circle 🤷🏽♀️
I know the title may be triggering 😂 but I completely agree. We are in a toxic cycle and need reform.
"Phewww 😅 the title had me tight for a hot second" --- you did what women do & got in your feelings. but the title isn't wrong...
"Men became too full of themselves" ---- women are hypergamous & only talk to the top 10% of men & ignore the rest. only the rich/famous men YOU CHASE are full of themselves. regular guys don't act like that, but you wouldn't know because those guys are INVISIBLE to you.
"and women started manning up" --- feminism did that. women wanted to work & take on masculine roles in society & in the home & now women are doing that, becoming more masculine & less attractive in the process. thats women's own fault, not men's. you said manning up like it was a necessity born out of men's lack of service to women. men don't owe women their service just like women don't owe men sex. women wanted to be independent, now you gotta man up & work your ass off & grind to survive just like the men. thats women's fault. with feminism, women asked for this.
"and we wanted them to be a well rounded man not just egotistical one" --- if you want less egotistical men, stop chasing, rich, successful, tall men with 6-packs... date regular men. women chase men that look like Boris Kodjoe & are surprised he has an ego lol. thats the equivalent of men chasing IG models & being surprised they're shallow... duh smh
"and it just keep going in a circle" --- you said its a cycle, but you made it sound like its men's fault. this is all women's fault. women were in the kitchen cooking & taking care of their families in the 1950's but women wanted to be men. now you have to work like a slave like men, but now men gotta "man up" & take care of you? lol modern women are delusional.
So taking away the selection process women are conditioned with, what do you feel they should value if not the riches and lifestyle that those men can provide?
No y’all women most definitely ruined dating because you gotta remember men are the ones doing the risk when asking out women are the ones doing the rejecting not men it’s on both side men and women but mainly women because women are the ones doing the rejection and men taking all the risk so in al honestly what you said is pure emotional and not logic it’s neither genders fault but women overall do play a significant more role when it comes to dating which is why it seems like it’s women’s fault but in reality it’s both genders fault why relationships are the way they are today because at the end of the day both men and women need each other
Translated: phewww, i thought you were going to say something less than favorable about women, or even be 50/50 in how both ruined it equally, but you fell into your place and towed the line in slamming on men, so all is well!
What is happening is people living their lives through youtube videos instead of going outside to see the real world. Men and women courtship has always been a problem there is nothing new.
Courtship is a great point, but the idea of courting today is vastly different from what it was before. The requirements of the dating scene are different because we have access to an unlimited amount of options that we didint have before. So more people are unwilling to develop with one person because it’s easier to walk away and look for something more befitting for instant gratification.
Dude, I think you missing the boat on "feminism". Men don't want women barefoot and pregnant. Men only care that a woman can take care of herself, be it $40K or $400K per year. But, this new version of feminism is actually toxic feminism. Just like with dating, they want to cherry pick what is stalking, or what jobs they want to do. You may want to do more research on this topic. Take care.
It’s not a video about “feminism” it’s about the todays stereotype of how women ruined dating. These are POV’s from today’s dating scene and I disagree with your perspective on men caring about women who can take care of themselves. If you are a man earning over 250k more than likely money is an irrelevant factor when choosing a mate. Men seek peace
@@cleverpointmade Totally agree for a man making $250K+. I'm talking about the average man. You are correct that men seek peace. But I'm just saying that men don't care that a woman makes $100K. If a woman can take care of herself (to the average man) - meaning she is not totally relying on him for everything - then a man is fine. She can work at Chuck E. Cheese and he's good. But I thought your feminism section was your specific view. Keep making content, my guy. And regardless of if we agree or not, keep doing your thing and providing diverse perspectives and content to the world. I'm rooting for your channel.
Appreciate that man and I’m all for debates, I try and keep my perspectives open because I believe in causality. We can’t blame the effect without the cause and we are all responsible in some way but the best thing about RUclips is how we can all learn from one another. Appreciate you tuning in and commenting 🙏🏽
Stop dating women and date men
@@cleverpointmade "It’s not a video about “feminism” it’s about the todays stereotype of how women ruined dating." --- feminism, which was started by women... is highly tied into many of the ills in todays dating scene. from the feminist free love movements to the sexual revolution to todays hookup culture & promiscuity, its all tied in.
" If you are a man earning over 250k more than likely money is an irrelevant factor when choosing a mate." --- men who make $30K don't care how much a woman makes when dating. its women who are concerned with their partners earnings.
Stop trying to both sides this. Women’s standards are the ones totally out of control these days.
And what do you think is out of control for their standards? Everything has a perspective
80% of men were surveyed to be below average….
Very entertaining video. Subbed!
I appreciate it!! Thanks for tuning in!
feminism is about equal pay without equal work that’s the problem
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How is that a problem?
Three things killed dating women, feminism and big daddy government ruined dating
Damn women off that bat tho 😂 do you think men contributed?
@@cleverpointmade its mostly tricks and men who got more money than game(simps) who lead with a wallet than strong character ruined it for us, but for the most part men are still traditional still believe in family, community etc
It's only now that men are catching up with bullshit e.g false paternity, devorce rape and the reality that most women will suck you dry till you got nothing left to give.
This was entirely a female bailout video 😂
T, you spoke nothing but facts
"What is the problem with another person wanting just as much as you have?" The problem is when that person who has just as much as me still expects me to be their protector and provider. The problem is that equal perks are not expected to come with equal responsibilities. Traditional treatment of women in the form of benevolent sexism was a compensation to them for their lack of equivalent social standing to men. Getting to maintain that while still equal to men in all other aspects isn't equality, it's superiority. If what was mine is still mine and what was yours is now ours, I am in a superior position to you.
The concept of standards is wrong yes, because it assumes you are better than you are. You are wrong. You are not special, nobody is, you do not get to have standards, nobody does.
But who determines what you are if not you? Are you saying you should be willing to accept anything?
Men ruined dating
What makes you feel that way?
@@cleverpointmade he doesn't know lol smh
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I think everyone has a part in it.
Back up that statement
Ruined it like civilizations
Men ruined it first with lies.
Yeah, men did ruin it first with lies. Pick up lines and seduction bs
Technically, women ruined it first, just ask Eve.
@@ALTheFreeManeven after their banishment from the garden of Eden, Adam and Eve stayed together and had a pretty good life (excluding what happened with their sons) idrk what you’re on about
Who your dealer cause I need what you having
@@tilplugg You may want to go over those scriptures again. Eve’s sin is what ultimately caused a “rift” between woman and man. -Genesis 3:16
Yes
😂 right to it
@@cleverpointmade ima strait shooter
SIDECHICKS ruined dating 😏
😂 you think so?
Definitely men. Yw.
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