The reason the women said 'Awww'.when he said the man can see her at every age. .Is because women are led to believe that as they age thier value goes down. And its harder to be loved by a man. So a man remembering a valuing that she is still the beautiful girl he fell in love with and remembering her in each beautiful stage life..of becoming a life partner, a mother, caring for grandkids etc. Is what is evoking the Awe
@@kristinastenberg6116 You know Men get old and cranky as well, they poop thier pants, they have poor health, thier teeth Rot. Who would want to carry that around? Your comment is soo freaking shallow!
Woman know that their value decreases over time, and the intelligent ones get married young before it becomes increasingly difficult at an older age. (This is from a male perspective, and the male is the “market “ in the instance of marriage, so the female needs to give the market what it needs in order to be successful) Males and females look for completely different characteristics in their partners ie generally speaking; a male is interested in youth, beauty and fertility, whilst a female is interested in social values, influence and resources in their partner. A young female will get plenty attention she hasn’t earned, but will become more invisible as she ages. To the husband, an old wife will remain his prize, but to random males she’ll be irrelevant.
I do this without even choosing to. It just comes up in my head sometimes. Just imagine not seeing this person again!! It’s dreadful and joyful at the same time
@@j-mac8652yesire it is that is why when you love God and know he loves you, you can love your wife morally better and also when she loves God that reciprocates higher degree than loving someone out of our ignorance.
Seeing people through this filter of loss can imbalance the purity of the appreciation of pure presence he’s getting at, but it is a necessary balance, too in order to see someone fully I believe. That way nothing is taken for granted, yet we also aren’t clinging to knowing that one day we’re going to lose them in a way that forces us to feel that sadness on a constant basis because then we are projecting that emotion into the moment and it can distort the view of each other.
The Skeleton Chattering finch and water-fly Are not merrier than I; Here among the flowers I lie Laughing everlastingly. No: I may not tell the best; Surely, friends, I might have guessed Death was but the good King's jest, It was hid so carefully.
I TRULY believe in THIS kind of love and that it exists! ❤. I knooow it did and I won’t nor want to give up the idea that it STILL does , even in this day and age… I feel I’ve found it- but ANYTHING done in love is done well 😊
I'm sorry for your loss❣️. I do absolutely agree that people who have been in really long relationships and/or marriages. The very same thing happened with my uncle and aunt (also my Godmother). They were together and married for around 40 years, but she passed first. She always took care of him, their six children, and inside the home. He took care of working, bringing income into the home, and the outside of the home. Once he buried her, completed all of her final arrangements, finalized everything for his will & final arrangements, and then he was finally able to go back to work(over-the-road truck driver). Exactly four months to the day after my aunt passed, he also passed away. It happened 4 months later exactly to the day! He must have been having issues with his truck because he pulled over on the side of the road, had a heart attack, and was founded deceased next to his truck. Everyone knew he died from a broken heart 💔😢. He was not happy for even a single day after she passed away. Now, they are together again and hopefully, they will get to live another life together some day, or just remain together in heaven❣️. God bless and love & light always! ❤️🙏🩷👼💝🥰💞🌟💗🫶💘✨💕💫💖😇 RIP Aunt Mary & Uncle Bob! We all love and miss you, but will see you again one day in Divine timing❣️
My husband and I were going to divorce, and it was my fault. I decided to change and was detetmined to make him fall back in love with me. We eill celebrate 30 years this December. I love this man.
BEEN WITH THE LOVE OF MY LIFE 47 YEARS NOW. I HOPE I DIE WHEN HE DOES. I NEVER WANT TO LIVE A DAY WITHOUT HIM...I LOOK INTO HIS EYES AND SEE THE THE SAME LOVE FOR ME.
Beautiful... please keep it that way forever and share the wisdom with someone. The world needs the examples of how possible that is. It is possible to love forever. A warm hug from Portugal. Obrigado
Ah linda you are lucky as I was ...my kate passed away at 80 he looked 60, a very fit 60...he die in his sleep next to me no warning, no pain I would have awakened had he even moaned. I always saw the little boy in him, the young man, his middle aged highly comepetent self. Although I was a mother and grandmother I homestly only really NEEDED HIM. And yes it was tough. His family is long lived and mine is not so I was certain hed make it to 97 like his father or 103 like h7s uncle so NEVER did I believe he would go neore me. NEVER. I was walking wounded yet so GRATEFUL to ever have had him at all...he was ALL and everything I needed in life ...told him so whne he was here and it was TRUE. I am amazed at the life filled with love we had and still mostly what I have is gratitude. I found though having made a man the centerpiece of my life it came naturally to me. T was a professor of clinical psychology so had a satisfying profession but my emotional life is what matterered MOST always to me. I have found I cant STOP loving. A year after he passed away I met a man who pursue me...I wasnt sure I wanted another relationship but he too was wonderful yes in different ways, no it ISNT the same...people are never interchageable. My longterm mate and I talked about this. I urged him to find a good cook a loving woman, intelligent and caring because truly I thought HE WOULD outlive me. He told me the kind of man he wanted for me and he didnt exactly describe himself....I could not fathom such a thing at the time. But I knew out of love for me he didnt want me to be alone any more than I wanted him to. So this man is quieter....very bright too, he appreciates my intelligence as I do his. It is mainly cerebral and a good deep friendship of wanting the best for the other person. It is physical too. I dont want to offend you. That part to is very diferent. He is surprised to find a woman my age eho will still BE intimate. He had given that up a decade or two ago and has been single all that time. He is surprised at himself. That too is lovely. I know my partner wanted this for me too he told me so. It is far far better than being alone it is another flavor of love...slightly softer, gentler but very important to me too now I have it. I simply want to say ENJOY life. Make it good...that is what anyone who has ever loved you wants for you...your parents, your children, the man younspent to most of your life with...they all wnt us happy right up to the end. They dont want us mournful, bereft and sad for the rest of our days they cant be with us.... Most people will say enjoy him while you uave him but you already are DOING that or you wouldnt have written. I just dont want you to overly fear the idea of change.....we cant hold back change in our life anyway....yes savor today and everyday....but Im know my mate wanted me NOT to be in pain and sorrow for the rest of my days....and so I love...the trick is finding someone worthy....
When I met my ex-husband, have no clue why I was drawn to him. His brother you might say was handsomer and put the moves on me which frightened me. There was an attraction but I still picked my ex. I didn't feel I was good enough. For the handsomer brother. Whose good looks scared me. To this day, I haven't met a man who is as truthful and safe as my ex. I can sense lies with my whole body as a Reiki Master. But you said a woman can only have 4 men. My ex had issues which of course problematic but still he tried his damnest to overcome them. So here I am alone dealing with a group of men who all know each other and I feel like a child curled up in a fetal position because I don't appreciate group dynamics. Being numb. From the situation I've been coerced into. Why would men think surrounding a woman is appealing. I am not comfortable with the situation.
My ex husband brought so many interesting things into my life. Now I have men who stare. Walk by me expecting me to react. I have a disability and they are controlling. They pounce on me. My whole body has become a shell.
This is so true! My husband and I grew to love one another as teens. We have now been married for 55 years....many ups & downs, but even though we are now elderly I've recognized that we can still see our younger selves in one another. I see the boy I married & he sees the girl I was & our love is now agape... wrapped up in God's love for us & our live to Him. ❤❤❤
This is exactly what I tell young people about staying with the person they marry. You can never start again later, no matter what other people tell you. When you look at her, think of her, you see all of her across time.
It also is very important to grant space as if we're astronauts and....if husband and wife aren't speaking for a day or even a week....what's the matter....In a week the conversation will be full of excitement
I married an abusive alcoholic, probably with a personality disorder Sometimes you don't want to go back, never again. I'd rather live. But I recently was contacted by an old boyfriend who is newly single. Maybe it is possible to get to know someone again, accept the changes and baggage we each have now, and perhaps move forward together? I'm not sure yet because we haven't met in person. Distance...
33 years for my husband and I too! We still love each other very much & it grosses our 4 grown kids out. I will never forget seeing one of our daughters Facebook posts one day that said. "Today someone asked me WHY I still believe in love?" She posted a picture of my husband and I and said because of my parents! It made me cry.... 🥰
Been married 40 years and when I look at my husband I see the same man who danced on the edge of the tidal pool laughing before he got wiped out by a wave....so full of youth and laughter. Love him still.
This is so interresting...see the love of partners is a little similar to the love of parents to their adult children...every time parents look at them...they see them the whole way...since when they were little children .
Yess. I’m approaching 30 and I’ve been told by my mom that she is proud of the woman I am and that in her eyes a part of me will always be the baby girl she gave birth to long ago. True love sees you for the journey you’ve been on. They see you for every experience that made you who you are in this very moment, and they appreciate it. Rather than seeing you for everything you are not, or everything they wish you were. They see your life story in every scar, stretch mark, grey hair and smile line. When someone embraces their own life fully I think they are able to actually recognize the life within others, too. They actually know what a remarkable story they’re seeing right under their nose.
Yes yes yes. May God bless you professor Peterson. You appear to be a man for all seasons. How God looks after you and Tammy and how you share your blessings is like looking at the Milky Way. It is awesome, it is humbling, it is long in the mind, deep in the heart and verbally ineffectual to say the least. I often think of you two during the Eucharist and pray you continue your mission safely and well.
Keep educating and promoting family units. I find it refreshing when I find men urging men to be excellent faithful partners/spouses and fathers. The family unit protects the future by giving proper paternal leadership with maternal leadership too! I love your material and it spans many demographics. Thank you. 🙏
It happens that even when the person you love is acting out, perhaps having a bad day and struggling with their difficulties, and maybe even the two of you aren't seeing eye to eye at the moment, when you look at them with love you'll be able to see why they're struggling and why there's conflicts, and turmoil due to the accumulation of past traumas that changed their perspective, or put them on guard, or cause them to feel hurt, or angry, and you can see the frustrations overwhelming them. And at time when they're hurting the most and acting defensive or even being aggressive, if you see them with love and you see the reasons things are escalating, then you know that they need your love and understanding the most at that time, and by giving that to them, it fills you up with a beautiful sense of things like grace and mercy, adoration and protection, compassion and understanding. People often only show the worst sides of their personality to the people that love them the most because of one of two things..either the relationship is so secure that they know you're still going to love them even if they're being ugly. Or they're testing your commitment to the relationship and trying to find out how much trust they can put in you. And that's usually done subconsciously, because even little kids do it with parents grandparents and babysitters etc. We're only human and some of us are neurodivergent and struggle with things like pain, mental illness, or become overstimulated, to the point where we can't seem to behave as we normally do.. and then we get frustrated about that. We become emotionally disregulated, we disassociate, we might begin swearing, or engaging in isolation or tics like rocking or swaying, smoking cigarettes, or in severe cases, even self-harm. It hurts to see your loved one going through that much frustration, but it's important to stay level-headed, give them reassurance, give them time and space, give them comfort and support, give them their favorite dessert or a cup of coffee, or breakfast, or cool washcloth to put on their forehead, or any other gestures to help ground them, and let them know that you understand that emotions and behaviors and sometimes collide and get mixed up, and by being considerate you let them know that you know who they really are as a person, and that your opinion of them isn't clouded by those temporary things that have caused their actions. The last thing I want to mention is that I think it helps to have an action plan or a list of go to responses that you and your partner have talked about in advance for when things are getting rocky. Some of the things that could be on that list would be, taking a 10-minute break where each person just retreats to their own safe and controlled environments so they can compose themselves, or as I mentioned dessert and coffee is a great one because the desserts usually release dopamine in the brain and then the coffee keeps it in the system for longer so that can help cheer a person up, or maybe sitting down to write things out in a letter or in a poem can be helpful, or doing some sort of art project can be relaxing, or having some old or broken things around that you intended to throw away that you can create a little miniature smash room put that stuff in a cardboard box and beat it with a baseball bat, or listen to some sort of music like heavy metal to get the aggression out or sad songs so you can cry, or relaxing music so you can meditate, or if you have pets don't forget the therapeutic and relaxing sensation from interacting with your animals..watch the aquarium, pet the dog, hug the cat, groom the horse, etc. Anyway there's lots of different things that you guys can come up with together as a partnership, in advance, when things are calm, so that when stress hits, it's kind of like having a fire extinguisher behind the glass "in case of emergency break glass" and you can use that list to de-escalate a situation with this little tool kit of ideas to calm each other down again. And I do want to say that if there is a conflict that needs to be resolved you have to come back to it you can't leave it sitting there unresolved because that can create contempt and resentment down the road, so what you want to do is get everybody calm down again and then work on constructively figuring out solutions for your partnership to become stronger by attacking a point of conflict together. And remember to listen to each other, and allow the hurt person to give full expression to what they experienced. I think people are so lucky when they find their special somebody and they make the vow to each other to be there in good times and bad. Don't ever forget to put your priority on the people in your life. Be excellent to each other! ❤
I encountered a couple yesterday that have been married for 54 years. The husband showed me a picture of them on their first anniversary. They still see themselves and treat each other like they did 53 years ago. Sweetest loving couple I’ve met in a longtime. Everyone should aspire to that level of love and kindness for their spouse. They gave me hope. ❤
The literal translation of "I love you" in Igbo Language 🇳🇬 is "ahụrụ m gị n'anya" (I see you in my eyes 👀) so yeah I understand love ❤️ deeply from a Nigerian perspective and my wife is from a slightly different culture in another country 🇺🇸 but I see her 👀 with love ❤🎉
@@mzsunnyshine007 For those who might be baffled by this when they click translate. Google translated this completely wrong. It's DEFINITELY NOT 'me, crazy' 😂. It's saying thank you and showing respect for him as a man lol
I spent my whole life, twice married to men to who viewed me, unbeknownst to me, as a asset...an acquisition. As soon as the transaction was made and they got papers on me, they were on to the next " thing." I am, at age 70, realizing it and mourning the fact that I never had the love and respect that I deserved. I functioned like a utility, providing a platform for the eventual, inevitable betrayal and discard. There is nothing more tragic than the realization that you never met the full measure of your creation after a lifetime of "love's labour lost."
I hear you! I am so so sorry you have come to that place! I worry about the same. Thank you for your eloquent words and your raw transparency in sharing your experiences and grief. Sending love and hope, that you may still meet the one who truly cherishes you like you deserve! ❤
I love Jordan Peterson, such an honest and loving spirit. I am reading his magnum opus Maps of Meaning. If you haven’t read it I recommend checking it out. It’s soooooo goood.
To see someone, in your love for them, you see their whole, not their faults or parts of them. Love, unconditional, is beautiful! This is the way Father God looks at us now, through His Son Jesus Christ’s blood lens!
Amen. Jordan truly gives the care and love to his wife and young men! And by feeling this emotional deep pain in some sense he by proxy does for young women too, because when you love your female friend and give her gifts, the man who married her, he feels better too because he gets some of those gifts!
I look up to this man like a father figure. I can’t derive enough knowledge from him, I hope I get the chance to meet him one day and express my gratitude for his work and his courage to stand where he does in this world and give so much.
He is so right. Everyone needs to listen to him because people dont fight for their relationships anymore, and it's sad. It can't always be rainbows and butterflies, but that is what people expect, and run at the first sign of trouble.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
It's still really fresh for you, give it time and overtime the wounds will heal… And this I can promise you with complete certainty, there will always be someone else. In the meantime, think about what went wrong, why did the person leave, What was it both of you could have improved on even if you feel the person leaving was at fault, we could always improve for the next person.
It's true! I see my husband this way. Even my ex-husband. When we interact, i do see him at all the stages; good and bad. Love, no doubt, remains, even though we no longer have the same kind of relationship.
if i may speak of all ? “ Seeing “ how lovely ones were especially as a child , teen, then adult ? in my humble opinion in my senior years , for me the blossoming of “ I see you “ how truly lovely it was that their personality shone n’ sprouted as the adorable child and some children kept that adorableness into their adulthood lol . revelation of paradise it is and such beauty of your words Jordan , thank you
I think one of the most common things we all want that we never admit is we want something constant in our lives. Some might like some excitement, but at the end of the day, we feel at peace with the ones who we trust dearest to us. One of the reasons we want a life partner, to share so many experiences with and to grow and nurture one another. It is such a blessing to grow old, and it’s a privilege to find that someone whom together has made life joyful, even in those mundane days. Sadly, with our society’s high expectations, a long relationship is now a testament to one’s dedication to another person. And so many never planned to grow old, avoided it, and made so many mistakes that led to little maturing. So it’s a blessing to have that partner who is able to get past those barriers and see the partner deep down inside to connect directly to them.
Dr. Peterson it is so true ✨️I wish the world really saw through my eyes 👀 ✨️💖✨️ I remember us at every age met at 17 fell in love 58 now. Make it a priority ✨️
This why i love being single, looking at these people that think they have to be in love and have a life partner. .you don't. It's fabulous being single.
Yes, that is how I loved my mother, until I found out she was a narcissist, who was trying to destroy me. Then, without even trying, I started to see her as dead. She did later die. But, it just goes to show how that love, where you can see someone at every age, because you’re empathetic about what they’ve gone through in life, can fade.
This really takes Peterson's point further. Must have been a great loss the day you "woke up", having held her in high esteem. Sad that her insecurities totally blinded her to seeing who you really are. Let that go but set yourself the goal to recapture who you are in essence. Will be quite a journey but will be worth the work once you have healed enough. Some paths are like dense jungles, kinda made for us to walk out of, better and stronger for the experience. You will get to the open fields eventually...
@@sarahyip2825 it, most definitely, was. Like taking an escalator into Hell, yet seeing light, at the same time. One thing to wrap your mind around coming to the rude realization, that your mother doesn’t love you. Yet another, to find out she wants you to die and to suffer, while doing so, after you’ve been the biggest supporter, for her, your whole life. Further sad, to find out how ignorant the world is, when you find that, with person after person, the message is, “See but, that’s your mother do, whatever you did or did not do to her, she has the right to destroy you. So, get back in there an embrace it.” Even from people who are victims, themselves. I’m well aware of this dense jungle. Because one or more narcissists arrive, before the last, I handle it and they walk away, disappointed, limping or dead (of natural causes), from waiting, working and hoping I’d never catch on, when I’ve been looking through them, like a freshly-Windexed plate glass window, all along. I’d feel pity and empathy, if it were reciprocated. But, it isn’t.
I breath unity love peace understanding joy commitment equally yoked into all marriage chosen after birth blessings for me quantum leap in jesus christ name and it is so amen hallelujah glory yes lord thanks lord hallelujah hallelujah glory hallelujah hallelujah glory yes lord thanks lord hallelujah hallelujah amen!
I agree so much!! I see my siblings at every age, my children, my husband and some people from my childhood. Love really is seeing someone at every age 😮❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Life can do that as well...But remembering and caring for that. should be part of loving someone, People go thru really hard things, Loss, pain heartache, sickness. depression, not always directly related to the partner, In the last couple years, I suffered a trauma, and a painful heart wrenching miscarriage, My husband lost both his parents. We have to give each other alot of love and grace, as sometimes we dont show up As our perky 20 year old selves (the age we met)
Doctor to every negative there is a positive they wanted to hurt you by removing you from teaching and they gave you a blessing because now you can be out there teaching everyone not just a small group in a classroom they gave you the freedom to be outside with everyone that believes in you That you and your wife are and how much you love God bless wishes🙏☮️❤️
@@jayt8532yes , this man is intelligent and smart. Also loving and graceful. Though sometimes he curses , it's at the liberals and rightfully so. Amen at that rate he won't become saintly but that's okay.
This happened to me for the first time ever when I looked at my 3 year old granddaughter. I saw many faces of relatives in very quick succession. It was beautiful!
I hear certain phrases a lot, “get back to what you once had” or “take the time to remember who you fell in love with.” I understand the concept. But I struggle because my husband and I never had that. We had a kid right away, a beautiful and difficult surprise. It’s been duty and sacrifice for the most part.
This as well as... If you can remember the feeling n spark anytime you reminisce of when you first fell in love with them. It takes specific templates dependent on the individual. The issue today is that with so much chemical engineering many need to be made chemically stable to be able to get that person back.
I love listening to him. He always offers the opportunity for me to rethink and reflect on how I perceieve things and maybe trying it from a different perspective.
I am respecting you, doc. Much respect. I am messing around and joking around in others but not here. 😁. I'm fine don't worry. At least I am a dexter 😆. No no no it is all because I'm a Warrior. A real Warrior
Unfortunately, not my wife left me a long time ago, and even now, after all these years, I still see as the woman I fell in love with when we were young.
wow. i said this to myself almost 2 months ago. I see the child, the adolecent, the young woman and the mature women at the same time. this is one more reason i'm in love with her and i do believe she is my soul mate.
When someone ive known for a very long time says something positive or negative that catches me off guard i often try to dissect the entiee relationship we had to see what might have made them draw such a conclusions...but ill never ask them where such assumptions are stemming from because guessing is rude and people want to be seen as they are today...they dont want you trying to understand specifics into how their journy molded them into what they are today unless THEY ARE THE ONES TO TELL YOU. We all like to pretend like our stories and experiences are so much more sophisticated than anyone can imagine 😂 Ego is not your Amigo folks, peace ✌️ love ❤️
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This man saved my marriage.
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Beautiful
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Too late for mine..but he said it beautifully!!
I’m tearing up 🥹
The reason the women said 'Awww'.when he said the man can see her at every age. .Is because women are led to believe that as they age thier value goes down. And its harder to be loved by a man. So a man remembering a valuing that she is still the beautiful girl he fell in love with and remembering her in each beautiful stage life..of becoming a life partner, a mother, caring for grandkids etc. Is what is evoking the Awe
This comment right here ❤
And, he truly sees who she is as a whole person...
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@@kristinastenberg6116 You know Men get old and cranky as well, they poop thier pants, they have poor health, thier teeth Rot. Who would want to carry that around? Your comment is soo freaking shallow!
Woman know that their value decreases over time, and the intelligent ones get married young before it becomes increasingly difficult at an older age. (This is from a male perspective, and the male is the “market “ in the instance of marriage, so the female needs to give the market what it needs in order to be successful) Males and females look for completely different characteristics in their partners ie generally speaking; a male is interested in youth, beauty and fertility, whilst a female is interested in social values, influence and resources in their partner. A young female will get plenty attention she hasn’t earned, but will become more invisible as she ages. To the husband, an old wife will remain his prize, but to random males she’ll be irrelevant.
Just imagine you’re never going to see that person ever again and how you’d feel. That’s a good way to appreciate who you have in your life
I do this without even choosing to. It just comes up in my head sometimes. Just imagine not seeing this person again!! It’s dreadful and joyful at the same time
@@j-mac8652yesire it is that is why when you love God and know he loves you, you can love your wife morally better and also when she loves God that reciprocates higher degree than loving someone out of our ignorance.
Seeing people through this filter of loss can imbalance the purity of the appreciation of pure presence he’s getting at, but it is a necessary balance, too in order to see someone fully I believe. That way nothing is taken for granted, yet we also aren’t clinging to knowing that one day we’re going to lose them in a way that forces us to feel that sadness on a constant basis because then we are projecting that emotion into the moment and it can distort the view of each other.
The Skeleton
Chattering finch and water-fly
Are not merrier than I;
Here among the flowers I lie
Laughing everlastingly.
No: I may not tell the best;
Surely, friends, I might have guessed
Death was but the good King's jest,
It was hid so carefully.
@@ak12d did you write that?
This reminds me of my parents. They were in love 63 years, married 62, Dad died in Mom's arms, Mom died 11 months later of a broken heart.
I TRULY believe in THIS kind of love and that it exists! ❤. I knooow it did and I won’t nor want to give up the idea that it STILL does , even in this day and age…
I feel I’ve found it- but ANYTHING done in love is done well 😊
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I'm sorry for your loss❣️. I do absolutely agree that people who have been in really long relationships and/or marriages. The very same thing happened with my uncle and aunt (also my Godmother). They were together and married for around 40 years, but she passed first. She always took care of him, their six children, and inside the home. He took care of working, bringing income into the home, and the outside of the home. Once he buried her, completed all of her final arrangements, finalized everything for his will & final arrangements, and then he was finally able to go back to work(over-the-road truck driver). Exactly four months to the day after my aunt passed, he also passed away. It happened 4 months later exactly to the day! He must have been having issues with his truck because he pulled over on the side of the road, had a heart attack, and was founded deceased next to his truck. Everyone knew he died from a broken heart 💔😢. He was not happy for even a single day after she passed away. Now, they are together again and hopefully, they will get to live another life together some day, or just remain together in heaven❣️. God bless and love & light always! ❤️🙏🩷👼💝🥰💞🌟💗🫶💘✨💕💫💖😇 RIP Aunt Mary & Uncle Bob! We all love and miss you, but will see you again one day in Divine timing❣️
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My husband and I were going to divorce, and it was my fault. I decided to change and was detetmined to make him fall back in love with me. We eill celebrate 30 years this December. I love this man.
Can I ask, what did you do wrong?
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First time I have seen a woman admit her fault.
Thats very good to hear, may God bless you marriage❤
BEEN WITH THE LOVE OF MY LIFE 47 YEARS NOW. I HOPE I DIE WHEN HE DOES. I NEVER WANT TO LIVE A DAY WITHOUT HIM...I LOOK INTO HIS EYES AND SEE THE THE SAME LOVE FOR ME.
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Beautiful... please keep it that way forever and share the wisdom with someone. The world needs the examples of how possible that is. It is possible to love forever. A warm hug from Portugal. Obrigado
Ah linda you are lucky as I was ...my kate passed away at 80 he looked 60, a very fit 60...he die in his sleep next to me no warning, no pain I would have awakened had he even moaned. I always saw the little boy in him, the young man, his middle aged highly comepetent self. Although I was a mother and grandmother I homestly only really NEEDED HIM.
And yes it was tough. His family is long lived and mine is not so I was certain hed make it to 97 like his father or 103 like h7s uncle so NEVER did I believe he would go neore me. NEVER.
I was walking wounded yet so GRATEFUL to ever have had him at all...he was ALL and everything I needed in life ...told him so whne he was here and it was TRUE. I am amazed at the life filled with love we had and still mostly what I have is gratitude.
I found though having made a man the centerpiece of my life it came naturally to me. T was a professor of clinical psychology so had a satisfying profession but my emotional life is what matterered MOST always to me. I have found I cant STOP loving.
A year after he passed away I met a man who pursue me...I wasnt sure I wanted another relationship but he too was wonderful yes in different ways, no it ISNT the same...people are never interchageable. My longterm mate and I talked about this. I urged him to find a good cook a loving woman, intelligent and caring because truly I thought HE WOULD outlive me. He told me the kind of man he wanted for me and he didnt exactly describe himself....I could not fathom such a thing at the time. But I knew out of love for me he didnt want me to be alone any more than I wanted him to.
So this man is quieter....very bright too, he appreciates my intelligence as I do his. It is mainly cerebral and a good deep friendship of wanting the best for the other person. It is physical too. I dont want to offend you. That part to is very diferent. He is surprised to find a woman my age eho will still BE intimate. He had given that up a decade or two ago and has been single all that time. He is surprised at himself. That too is lovely. I know my partner wanted this for me too he told me so. It is far far better than being alone it is another flavor of love...slightly softer, gentler but very important to me too now I have it.
I simply want to say ENJOY life. Make it good...that is what anyone who has ever loved you wants for you...your parents, your children, the man younspent to most of your life with...they all wnt us happy right up to the end. They dont want us mournful, bereft and sad for the rest of our days they cant be with us....
Most people will say enjoy him while you uave him but you already are DOING that or you wouldnt have written. I just dont want you to overly fear the idea of change.....we cant hold back change in our life anyway....yes savor today and everyday....but Im know my mate wanted me NOT to be in pain and sorrow for the rest of my days....and so I love...the trick is finding someone worthy....
When I met my ex-husband, have no clue why I was drawn to him. His brother you might say was handsomer and put the moves on me which frightened me. There was an attraction but I still picked my ex. I didn't feel I was good enough. For the handsomer brother. Whose good looks scared me. To this day, I haven't met a man who is as truthful and safe as my ex. I can sense lies with my whole body as a Reiki Master. But you said a woman can only have 4 men. My ex had issues which of course problematic but still he tried his damnest to overcome them. So here I am alone dealing with a group of men who all know each other and I feel like a child curled up in a fetal position because I don't appreciate group dynamics. Being numb. From the situation I've been coerced into. Why would men think surrounding a woman is appealing. I am not comfortable with the situation.
My ex husband brought so many interesting things into my life. Now I have men who stare. Walk by me expecting me to react. I have a disability and they are controlling. They pounce on me. My whole body has become a shell.
In my native language when you greet someone you say, ‘Sakubona’ - which literally translates ‘I see you’
Wow! I love that! ❤ What language is it if you don't mind me asking please? 😊
Beautiful 😊
that’s the way greetings should be
I guess it's Zulu language.@violaevavenczel8378
@@violaevavenczel8378Zulu
That revelation is the Divinity, the sacredness in love between two committed individuals.
This guy is an amazing person. Even 5 mins of anything he says will make your day and life better
This is so true! My husband and I grew to love one another as teens. We have now been married for 55 years....many ups & downs, but even though we are now elderly I've recognized that we can still see our younger selves in one another. I see the boy I married & he sees the girl I was & our love is now agape... wrapped up in God's love for us & our live to Him. ❤❤❤
This is exactly what I tell young people about staying with the person they marry. You can never start again later, no matter what other people tell you. When you look at her, think of her, you see all of her across time.
It also is very important to grant space as if we're astronauts and....if husband and wife aren't speaking for a day or even a week....what's the matter....In a week the conversation will be full of excitement
I married an abusive alcoholic, probably with a personality disorder
Sometimes you don't want to go back, never again. I'd rather live.
But I recently was contacted by an old boyfriend who is newly single. Maybe it is possible to get to know someone again, accept the changes and baggage we each have now, and perhaps move forward together? I'm not sure yet because we haven't met in person. Distance...
@@recoveringsoul755 You know, that is an interesting possibility.
Depends to me very much on how people grow together .
People fall out of love for many different reasons . And dont want to go back.
Tears to my eyes, married for almost 32 years, and we love each other
33 years for my husband and I too! We still love each other very much & it grosses our 4 grown kids out. I will never forget seeing one of our daughters Facebook posts one day that said.
"Today someone asked me WHY I still believe in love?" She posted a picture of my husband and I and said because of my parents!
It made me cry.... 🥰
Been married 40 years and when I look at my husband I see the same man who danced on the edge of the tidal pool laughing before he got wiped out by a wave....so full of youth and laughter. Love him still.
Genius. Absolute genius of a man
This is so interresting...see the love of partners is a little similar to the love of parents to their adult children...every time parents look at them...they see them the whole way...since when they were little children .
Exactly. And sometimes they do something or say something, and there you are-30 years ago when they were toddlers doing something similar.🙌😁♥️
Yess. I’m approaching 30 and I’ve been told by my mom that she is proud of the woman I am and that in her eyes a part of me will always be the baby girl she gave birth to long ago.
True love sees you for the journey you’ve been on. They see you for every experience that made you who you are in this very moment, and they appreciate it. Rather than seeing you for everything you are not, or everything they wish you were. They see your life story in every scar, stretch mark, grey hair and smile line. When someone embraces their own life fully I think they are able to actually recognize the life within others, too. They actually know what a remarkable story they’re seeing right under their nose.
In Zulu there is a word ‘Sawubona’ it’s used as a greeting, like ‘hello’ but what it MEANS is ‘I see you’ and it’s meant in this context ‘I SEE you’
Wow that is so beautiful and deep! Thank you so much for sharing this comment! ❤😊
Made me tear up a little as well ‘i see you’ is just the biggest comforting beautiful thing someone can feel and share 🥹❤️
We recorcded music together. After 49 years we are still those people. Many years , trials and love we still hear those songs and prayers.
“revalation of paradise"
Love this.This man knows what he's talking about....
God bless Jordan and his family.
Amen 💜💝🙏🏻🧿
To hell with your evil eye!@@sotacoresabreenav
In the name of the father God, God the son, God the holy Spirit amen.
Yes yes yes. May God bless you professor Peterson.
You appear to be a man for all seasons. How God looks after you and Tammy and how you share your blessings is like looking at the Milky Way. It is awesome, it is humbling, it is long in the mind, deep in the heart and verbally ineffectual to say the least.
I often think of you two during the Eucharist and pray you continue your mission safely and well.
Keep educating and promoting family units. I find it refreshing when I find men urging men to be excellent faithful partners/spouses and fathers.
The family unit protects the future by giving proper paternal leadership with maternal leadership too!
I love your material and it spans many demographics. Thank you. 🙏
You see that person with a pure heart....real love.....men feel this too.....❤❤❤.....
❤❤❤As someone coming upon 50 years of marriage, what great advice!
It happens that even when the person you love is acting out, perhaps having a bad day and struggling with their difficulties, and maybe even the two of you aren't seeing eye to eye at the moment, when you look at them with love you'll be able to see why they're struggling and why there's conflicts, and turmoil due to the accumulation of past traumas that changed their perspective, or put them on guard, or cause them to feel hurt, or angry, and you can see the frustrations overwhelming them.
And at time when they're hurting the most and acting defensive or even being aggressive, if you see them with love and you see the reasons things are escalating, then you know that they need your love and understanding the most at that time, and by giving that to them, it fills you up with a beautiful sense of things like grace and mercy, adoration and protection, compassion and understanding.
People often only show the worst sides of their personality to the people that love them the most because of one of two things..either the relationship is so secure that they know you're still going to love them even if they're being ugly. Or they're testing your commitment to the relationship and trying to find out how much trust they can put in you. And that's usually done subconsciously, because even little kids do it with parents grandparents and babysitters etc.
We're only human and some of us are neurodivergent and struggle with things like pain, mental illness, or become overstimulated, to the point where we can't seem to behave as we normally do.. and then we get frustrated about that. We become emotionally disregulated, we disassociate, we might begin swearing, or engaging in isolation or tics like rocking or swaying, smoking cigarettes, or in severe cases, even self-harm. It hurts to see your loved one going through that much frustration, but it's important to stay level-headed, give them reassurance, give them time and space, give them comfort and support, give them their favorite dessert or a cup of coffee, or breakfast, or cool washcloth to put on their forehead, or any other gestures to help ground them, and let them know that you understand that emotions and behaviors and sometimes collide and get mixed up, and by being considerate you let them know that you know who they really are as a person, and that your opinion of them isn't clouded by those temporary things that have caused their actions.
The last thing I want to mention is that I think it helps to have an action plan or a list of go to responses that you and your partner have talked about in advance for when things are getting rocky. Some of the things that could be on that list would be, taking a 10-minute break where each person just retreats to their own safe and controlled environments so they can compose themselves, or as I mentioned dessert and coffee is a great one because the desserts usually release dopamine in the brain and then the coffee keeps it in the system for longer so that can help cheer a person up, or maybe sitting down to write things out in a letter or in a poem can be helpful, or doing some sort of art project can be relaxing, or having some old or broken things around that you intended to throw away that you can create a little miniature smash room put that stuff in a cardboard box and beat it with a baseball bat, or listen to some sort of music like heavy metal to get the aggression out or sad songs so you can cry, or relaxing music so you can meditate, or if you have pets don't forget the therapeutic and relaxing sensation from interacting with your animals..watch the aquarium, pet the dog, hug the cat, groom the horse, etc. Anyway there's lots of different things that you guys can come up with together as a partnership, in advance, when things are calm, so that when stress hits, it's kind of like having a fire extinguisher behind the glass "in case of emergency break glass" and you can use that list to de-escalate a situation with this little tool kit of ideas to calm each other down again.
And I do want to say that if there is a conflict that needs to be resolved you have to come back to it you can't leave it sitting there unresolved because that can create contempt and resentment down the road, so what you want to do is get everybody calm down again and then work on constructively figuring out solutions for your partnership to become stronger by attacking a point of conflict together. And remember to listen to each other, and allow the hurt person to give full expression to what they experienced. I think people are so lucky when they find their special somebody and they make the vow to each other to be there in good times and bad. Don't ever forget to put your priority on the people in your life.
Be excellent to each other! ❤
Brilliant response 👏 As a neurodivergent person who struggles with relationships, seriously, thank you!
Thank you for this🌼
Wow thank you so much❤
Very well written and stated. ❤
Well said but so hard to do for some people I hope all the people try their best to be with the love of their life😊
The more I hear you say, the more I truly appreciate you.
I encountered a couple yesterday that have been married for 54 years. The husband showed me a picture of them on their first anniversary. They still see themselves and treat each other like they did 53 years ago. Sweetest loving couple I’ve met in a longtime. Everyone should aspire to that level of love and kindness for their spouse. They gave me hope. ❤
Never feel this moment yet, revelation of paradise. May God bless me with this feeling...
Lovely being a witness of this person lifelong love ( growing in love)
The literal translation of "I love you" in Igbo Language 🇳🇬 is "ahụrụ m gị n'anya" (I see you in my eyes 👀) so yeah I understand love ❤️ deeply from a Nigerian perspective and my wife is from a slightly different culture in another country 🇺🇸 but I see her 👀 with love ❤🎉
awesome bro, I am gonna borrow that one for sure :D
blessings upon you, your wife and your loved ones :)
Nna, dalu. Well done
@@mzsunnyshine007 For those who might be baffled by this when they click translate. Google translated this completely wrong. It's DEFINITELY NOT 'me, crazy' 😂. It's saying thank you and showing respect for him as a man lol
Beautiful.
I spent my whole life, twice married to men to who viewed me, unbeknownst to me, as a asset...an acquisition. As soon as the transaction was made and they got papers on me, they were on to the next " thing." I am, at age 70, realizing it and mourning the fact that I never had the love and respect that I deserved. I functioned like a utility, providing a platform for the eventual, inevitable betrayal and discard. There is nothing more tragic than the realization that you never met the full measure of your creation after a lifetime of "love's labour lost."
I hear you! I am so so sorry you have come to that place! I worry about the same. Thank you for your eloquent words and your raw transparency in sharing your experiences and grief. Sending love and hope, that you may still meet the one who truly cherishes you like you deserve! ❤
Never late. Turn over a new leaf and move on ❤❤❤❤
I love Jordan Peterson, such an honest and loving spirit. I am reading his magnum opus Maps of Meaning. If you haven’t read it I recommend checking it out. It’s soooooo goood.
😊warms my heart. At the end of the day that’s what Loves is all about. Everyone wants to be seen, heard, valued & understood.
I agree… when I look at my wife, I can see the young woman I married, progressively with each child born, and as our lives have grown together.
Brother,YOUR INSIGHT, ANALICAL ABILITY'S ACCOMPANIED WITH SO MUCH PASSION AND SO MUCH INSPIRATION!!! IS VERY THOUGHT PROVOCKING AND EDUCATIONAL!!!
Leading thinker of the free world 2024
He always makes so much sense! I love to listen to him speak!
To see someone, in your love for them, you see their whole, not their faults or parts of them. Love, unconditional, is beautiful! This is the way Father God looks at us now, through His Son Jesus Christ’s blood lens!
Amen. Jordan truly gives the care and love to his wife and young men! And by feeling this emotional deep pain in some sense he by proxy does for young women too, because when you love your female friend and give her gifts, the man who married her, he feels better too because he gets some of those gifts!
I've noticed in tender moments with parents I have seen them with the eyes I had for them as a child.
a good insight that can be applied to a closer understanding of how much God loves us and how he can see all of time at once
All love, religious or not, requires devotion.
I look up to this man like a father figure. I can’t derive enough knowledge from him, I hope I get the chance to meet him one day and express my gratitude for his work and his courage to stand where he does in this world and give so much.
He is so right. Everyone needs to listen to him because people dont fight for their relationships anymore, and it's sad. It can't always be rainbows and butterflies, but that is what people expect, and run at the first sign of trouble.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
It's still really fresh for you, give it time and overtime the wounds will heal… And this I can promise you with complete certainty, there will always be someone else.
In the meantime, think about what went wrong, why did the person leave, What was it both of you could have improved on even if you feel the person leaving was at fault, we could always improve for the next person.
Depth of knowledge accompanied by his fervor just makes for great lessons.
Thanks JP ❤
Jordan is a GIFT to humanity ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
He saved some lives too.
It's true! I see my husband this way. Even my ex-husband. When we interact, i do see him at all the stages; good and bad. Love, no doubt, remains, even though we no longer have the same kind of relationship.
if i may speak of all ? “ Seeing “ how lovely ones were especially as a child , teen, then adult ? in my humble opinion in my senior years , for me the blossoming of “ I see you “ how truly lovely it was that their personality shone n’ sprouted as the adorable child and some children kept that adorableness into their adulthood lol . revelation of paradise it is and such beauty of your words Jordan , thank you
I think one of the most common things we all want that we never admit is we want something constant in our lives. Some might like some excitement, but at the end of the day, we feel at peace with the ones who we trust dearest to us. One of the reasons we want a life partner, to share so many experiences with and to grow and nurture one another. It is such a blessing to grow old, and it’s a privilege to find that someone whom together has made life joyful, even in those mundane days.
Sadly, with our society’s high expectations, a long relationship is now a testament to one’s dedication to another person. And so many never planned to grow old, avoided it, and made so many mistakes that led to little maturing. So it’s a blessing to have that partner who is able to get past those barriers and see the partner deep down inside to connect directly to them.
Dr. Peterson it is so true ✨️I wish the world really saw through my eyes 👀 ✨️💖✨️
I remember us at every age met at 17 fell in love 58 now. Make it a priority ✨️
I do that all the time with total strangers... I see the Love in you.
There is no level of frustration I can express to parallel my feelings about people laughing when Peterson expresses truth.
Like a revelation of paradise.... divine. 🌺
A revelation of paradise??? I’m swooning.
I really love your depth, Jordan, authenticity & dedication. A man of wonderful insight ♥️
This why i love being single, looking at these people that think they have to be in love and have a life partner. .you don't. It's fabulous being single.
I often view everyone through an Eternal perspective. I hope I can always keep that perspective! ❤️❤️❤️
Yes, that is how I loved my mother, until I found out she was a narcissist, who was trying to destroy me. Then, without even trying, I started to see her as dead. She did later die. But, it just goes to show how that love, where you can see someone at every age, because you’re empathetic about what they’ve gone through in life, can fade.
This really takes Peterson's point further. Must have been a great loss the day you "woke up", having held her in high esteem. Sad that her insecurities totally blinded her to seeing who you really are.
Let that go but set yourself the goal to recapture who you are in essence. Will be quite a journey but will be worth the work once you have healed enough. Some paths are like dense jungles, kinda made for us to walk out of, better and stronger for the experience. You will get to the open fields eventually...
@@sarahyip2825 it, most definitely, was. Like taking an escalator into Hell, yet seeing light, at the same time. One thing to wrap your mind around coming to the rude realization, that your mother doesn’t love you. Yet another, to find out she wants you to die and to suffer, while doing so, after you’ve been the biggest supporter, for her, your whole life. Further sad, to find out how ignorant the world is, when you find that, with person after person, the message is, “See but, that’s your mother do, whatever you did or did not do to her, she has the right to destroy you. So, get back in there an embrace it.” Even from people who are victims, themselves.
I’m well aware of this dense jungle. Because one or more narcissists arrive, before the last, I handle it and they walk away, disappointed, limping or dead (of natural causes), from waiting, working and hoping I’d never catch on, when I’ve been looking through them, like a freshly-Windexed plate glass window, all along. I’d feel pity and empathy, if it were reciprocated. But, it isn’t.
I breath unity love peace understanding joy commitment equally yoked into all marriage chosen after birth blessings for me quantum leap in jesus christ name and it is so amen hallelujah glory yes lord thanks lord hallelujah hallelujah glory hallelujah hallelujah glory yes lord thanks lord hallelujah hallelujah amen!
that's so sweet & i've never experienced this in my 58 years.
In a really great (old time) relationship you relate to the other’s childhood. That’s how you know you’re getting the whole person.
Love is Beautiful when it’s right yet so BRUTAL when things go wrong.
Love (God) = subconscious (father) truth (son) I.e. holy (unconditional) spirit (life)
I agree so much!! I see my siblings at every age, my children, my husband and some people from my childhood. Love really is seeing someone at every age 😮❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Omg beautiful relationship. You see them as love. ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉
Stress robs us of our true selves. Don’t stress me out and I’ll be the person you fell in love with 😂
Life can do that as well...But remembering and caring for that. should be part of loving someone, People go thru really hard things, Loss, pain heartache, sickness. depression, not always directly related to the partner, In the last couple years, I suffered a trauma, and a painful heart wrenching miscarriage, My husband lost both his parents. We have to give each other alot of love and grace, as sometimes we dont show up As our perky 20 year old selves (the age we met)
Doctor to every negative there is a positive they wanted to hurt you by removing you from teaching and they gave you a blessing because now you can be out there teaching everyone not just a small group in a classroom they gave you the freedom to be outside with everyone that believes in you That you and your wife are and how much you love God bless wishes🙏☮️❤️
I can see alot of people.even when they no longer see theirselves. .i may not be in love wth them,but its because i love wthout judgement
This man is intelligent and smart
"Both?"
@@jayt8532yes , this man is intelligent and smart. Also loving and graceful. Though sometimes he curses , it's at the liberals and rightfully so. Amen at that rate he won't become saintly but that's okay.
The woman on stage looking at JP like "Damn, I need a man that thinks like him" 😂
This man is wanderfull ❤
I needed this right now.
Wow! This is really phenomenal!❤
Seeing this really made my day
Heart and soul in the eyes. Doesn't matter age. Soul h not age
Thank you Jesus for you love us daily
This happened to me for the first time ever when I looked at my 3 year old granddaughter. I saw many faces of relatives in very quick succession. It was beautiful!
I love listening to this man🤍🤍🤍
Just think if we all could be so ounest,and kind in our life..,how much easier would living be😔❤️
Never forget ❤ it's just like it was yesterday can see when first met my Husband will remember all the love we shared 💞
💯💕Awe!! He's Sooo RiGHT!!🥰
As always brilliant
He's like "can you stop emoting for 30 seconds and have a conversation?"
Thank you 💜 Yes that is beautiful!!
Love is A Gift a Gift That never expires God's Sees Us and Knows We are Love I See You to
Absolutely beautiful..🙏🤍✨⚖️
Lol if he wasn't married he would absolutely slay with lines like that lol
I hear certain phrases a lot, “get back to what you once had” or “take the time to remember who you fell in love with.” I understand the concept. But I struggle because my husband and I never had that. We had a kid right away, a beautiful and difficult surprise. It’s been duty and sacrifice for the most part.
This as well as...
If you can remember the feeling n spark anytime you reminisce of when you first fell in love with them.
It takes specific templates dependent on the individual.
The issue today is that with so much chemical engineering many need to be made chemically stable to be able to get that person back.
I love listening to him. He always offers the opportunity for me to rethink and reflect on how I perceieve things and maybe trying it from a different perspective.
This man is genius 👏 🙌
I am respecting you, doc. Much respect. I am messing around and joking around in others but not here. 😁. I'm fine don't worry. At least I am a dexter 😆. No no no it is all because I'm a Warrior. A real Warrior
Unfortunately, not my wife left me a long time ago, and even now, after all these years, I still see as the woman I fell in love with when we were young.
I’m sorry, man!
Thats deep man ❤
wow. i said this to myself almost 2 months ago. I see the child, the adolecent, the young woman and the mature women at the same time. this is one more reason i'm in love with her and i do believe she is my soul mate.
Beautifully said. So true. You can rekindle a dead marriage or relationship. My husband sees me and I see him.
That really is beautiful.
When someone ive known for a very long time says something positive or negative that catches me off guard i often try to dissect the entiee relationship we had to see what might have made them draw such a conclusions...but ill never ask them where such assumptions are stemming from because guessing is rude and people want to be seen as they are today...they dont want you trying to understand specifics into how their journy molded them into what they are today unless THEY ARE THE ONES TO TELL YOU. We all like to pretend like our stories and experiences are so much more sophisticated than anyone can imagine 😂 Ego is not your Amigo folks, peace ✌️ love ❤️
Repeat this!!! " Ego is NOT your amigo."
He's so romantic, unintentionally
So beautiful and very romantic!❤😙