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  • Опубликовано: 29 янв 2025

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  • @Stretch3002
    @Stretch3002 4 года назад +184

    Watching this channel has gotten me to realize all of my shortcomings. Now, I'm up at 5:45 every morning including weekends. I've started therapy to deal with my anxiety issues. I make $53,000 a year and I realize that is nothing. So I got a part time job as well to pay off my debts and I'm working on my credit. I read and study everyday so I can take my professional Network engineer certification within the next 2 months. I'm already in really good shape but I'm working out harder and eating better so I can be in optimal shape. I don't sleep if I haven't done what I need to do to better my life and become the man I want to be. It's hard work but after only a month it is paying off. I really needed this reality check. Thank you for what you're doing Kevin!

    • @Stretch3002
      @Stretch3002 4 года назад +1

      @DocChie thank you brother!

    • @YahknoMaximillian
      @YahknoMaximillian 4 года назад +6

      See you at the top

    • @Stretch3002
      @Stretch3002 4 года назад +1

      @@YahknoMaximillian definitely man!

    • @thegolferguys9920
      @thegolferguys9920 4 года назад +2

      Good stuff Chris! I am pulling for you, brother!

    • @SocaScents
      @SocaScents 4 года назад +2

      Blessings brotha! I'm on the same path! We got this ❤️

  • @tstewart1963
    @tstewart1963 4 года назад +272

    I'm halfway through, and I have to admit as a Muslim man, that your grasp of male / female dynamics is masterful. I wish everyone listening would take note.

    • @TheAdamSmasherMultiverse
      @TheAdamSmasherMultiverse 3 года назад +10

      As a fellow Muslim, salute.

    • @somalipirate20
      @somalipirate20 3 года назад +10

      Most of what he’s saying he’s on point with Islam. Except for the cheating aspect well in that case we can get 4 wives😭

    • @CrisisCoreMC
      @CrisisCoreMC 3 года назад +1

      @@somalipirate20 The halal flex is ridiculous lol

    • @djaran13
      @djaran13 3 года назад +2

      @@somalipirate20 Not cheating. Exercising options.

    • @531greyghost
      @531greyghost 3 года назад

      @@somalipirate20 That is too much of a crazy thing

  • @shawnbrown4485
    @shawnbrown4485 4 года назад +234

    Why the hell do women have such a hard time answering simple questions directly?

    • @willia3r
      @willia3r 4 года назад +72

      because they are trying to come up with a narrative that doesn’t make themselves look bad.
      They will literally change their story within a whole conversation when you talk to them long enough.

    • @bobbygreens8984
      @bobbygreens8984 4 года назад +33

      If their lips are moving, they’re lying

    • @essieux2227
      @essieux2227 4 года назад +3

      @@bobbygreens8984 congrats on coming out 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈

    • @essieux2227
      @essieux2227 4 года назад +1

      @The Duke lol niggas like you are so easy to finesse

    • @coleworld904
      @coleworld904 4 года назад +21

      Cognitive dissonance...she doesn’t want to take responsibility for her being single. They all love to say in gods time and god bring me a man. So blame lies on god and not them for being single

  • @barryw8011
    @barryw8011 4 года назад +156

    40 years old, 3 kids and still talking to her ex-husband on a daily basis....no thank you ma'am. No man of any value wants to sign up for that headache.

    • @thespiritualartofwar
      @thespiritualartofwar 4 года назад +17

      I know a girl just like this about to be 40 and she looks 30, a solid 8 on a bad day but she has 3 kids and her ex husband lives in the same town. She even admitted that even if she found a new man she couldn't guarantee that she wouldn't sleep with her ex husband.

    • @yvonnef6240
      @yvonnef6240 4 года назад +6

      @@thespiritualartofwar Why did she bother divorcing him if that's where she is mentally? No man is signing up for that foolishness.

    • @thespiritualartofwar
      @thespiritualartofwar 4 года назад +9

      Yvonne F Some guys sign up for it because they are desperate and they believe lies some of these women say like “I’m no longer attracted to my ex, we just try and stay cool with each other for kids sake”

    • @outtogetyou72
      @outtogetyou72 4 года назад +5

      @@yvonnef6240 Dang, even a female could see what's wrong with that logic or lack thereof and it's a female we're talking about....But then again, I'm only going by your avatar pic

    • @yvonnef6240
      @yvonnef6240 4 года назад +7

      @@outtogetyou72 Yes, im a female and I see the foolishness on both sides.

  • @jamesbreedlove233
    @jamesbreedlove233 4 года назад +90

    And in that day seven women will take hold of one man, saying, “We will eat our own food and wear and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name; take away our shame of being unmarried.”-Isaiah 4:1

    • @kannot1
      @kannot1 4 года назад +15

      Oh my goodness 😨 the Bible is so accurate today!

    • @striderryugo9177
      @striderryugo9177 4 года назад +9

      @James Breedlove 💯 Facts, and only real wives who live by the gospel will truly understand the significant importance of this verse

    • @mrvisionaryseekinoftruth3862
      @mrvisionaryseekinoftruth3862 3 года назад +7

      That spiritual food my brother. They don't know nothing about that, bcuz it's like kryptonite to the majority of them...
      I a 144% agree with ya...

  • @byKevinSamuels
    @byKevinSamuels  4 года назад +76

    _Please be respectful in my comment section. What is your biggest takeaway from this video? _*_Comment below_*_ ._

    • @kevinlee9929
      @kevinlee9929 4 года назад +25

      Biggest take away is when women get pressed and asked the right questions. Alot of them will reveal that they aren't the victims they portray themselves to be.

    • @cellymegie8880
      @cellymegie8880 4 года назад +7

      We need to stop pointing the finger and heal each other there seems to be a lot of miscommunication and misunderstanding and learned behavior that needs to be unlearned. We need to come together as a people

    • @Nu_Syllabus
      @Nu_Syllabus 4 года назад +1

      Could you please link the article on the impact analysis of Covid?

    • @kingjoethegreat
      @kingjoethegreat 4 года назад +14

      Celly Megie We have to hold people accountable. Calling out b.s is a necessity for changes.

    • @msch3891
      @msch3891 4 года назад +12

      Last caller had what seemed to be that "good man"- But calling asking how to get companionship now? 1. She did not have to work! Stay home with kids. 2. "No one cheated" 3. Said nothing bad about him 4. She filed for divorce bc she was young/immature and wanted to work on being a struggling single mom? 5. Man pays child support 6. She still talks to him everyday and says they are still married, very good friends? A lot has to be missing.. Unbelievable Confusion!

  • @paulgame4727
    @paulgame4727 4 года назад +217

    Caller,"I was young and dumb at 31 years old."😳

    • @byKevinSamuels
      @byKevinSamuels  4 года назад +91

      Exactly

    • @Mcdowells
      @Mcdowells 4 года назад +27

      I've heard that line so much from people her age it's NUTS. Kevin said it sistas wait too long to get started in life and boom it's too late and they are scrambling. I've literally dated women who had her mindset but also something Kevin hit on...the pride to not admit they were wrong because they'll get in trash relationships just to not do it! That lady called in trying to get into something NEW! But ended up realizing after KS raked her over hot coals that she was out of order. She had been living a karmaic lie the entire time and couldn't see it.

    • @October3074
      @October3074 4 года назад +5

      She was truly a a-hole and I think she was probably cheating on him. She had a lot of unmitigated gall 2 call in period 2 LIE! Who r they deluding?! I knew she was lying off the rip just like Kevin 2. She also sounds fat.

    • @Newerafather
      @Newerafather 3 года назад

      Hotep lmao smh clown

    • @CurserTV
      @CurserTV 3 года назад +2

      I hate when people say that. We ain’t dumb if you know right from wrong

  • @benjones621
    @benjones621 4 года назад +115

    Lots of people claim Christianity and have no idea what that entails. They don't want Jesus, they want the grace and forgiveness while being satisfied living in sin. Watch her actions instead of listening to her words to see if she is an actual Christ follower.

    • @DC-qk8ue
      @DC-qk8ue 4 года назад +11

      Spot on!!

    • @elegancworld4452
      @elegancworld4452 4 года назад +9

      Correct! I pay attention to the fruit not your words🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @sharonphelps4300
      @sharonphelps4300 4 года назад +4

      Amen Ben. You are right. Sometimes the truth hurts, but it still needs to be said.

    • @YahknoMaximillian
      @YahknoMaximillian 4 года назад +2

      Preach.

    • @nikiaharvell27
      @nikiaharvell27 3 года назад +1

      You can't obtain God's grace, forgiveness or any other spiritual blessings while living in sin. All spiritual blessings are found in Christ. Folks need to read and study their bible.

  • @cancerjourneybiggboss6426
    @cancerjourneybiggboss6426 4 года назад +90

    Kevin this is a hellava show bro ,so true so sad ,women are very masculine these days in a relationship ,they know what the scripture says about what a man is suppose to do and be but ask them what a women suppose to do and their role ,they don't have a clue ,keep up the good work fam,

    • @tom11zz884
      @tom11zz884 4 года назад +23

      Oh they know what their role is, they just have difficulty doing it for a Black man, ..even decent earning, middle-class ones.
      They have no issues doing it for any marginal, low-level White guy though..

    • @tom11zz884
      @tom11zz884 4 года назад

      @sunnyD 22
      It is " There's"...not " Their"
      Silly and can't even spell at that...lol

    • @cancerjourneybiggboss6426
      @cancerjourneybiggboss6426 4 года назад

      @@tom11zz884 you are right they seem to want to always challenge the bm even not total submitting with sex, some ww and other races seem to want to please and support their man,women don't realize what it takes to slay dragons for a bm and to come home and get beat down more with out any support ?

    • @cancerjourneybiggboss6426
      @cancerjourneybiggboss6426 4 года назад

      @GodLoveFreedom that's not true if a women can't and won't submit before marriage and is so use to being masculine ,what button can she push to submit after marriage ? You have to already be in that frame of mind ,because you can only play a role for so long I have experience this with my first wife

  • @atumhotep833
    @atumhotep833 4 года назад +21

    Awesome show sir!!! I see your frustration.......it's a sinking ship and your pitching as much water as you can. Much respect to you Kevin!!!!

  • @TheDCGuitar13
    @TheDCGuitar13 4 года назад +61

    What I got out of this is that a woman can kick a beta male baby daddy to the curb and still string him along while simultaneously looking for something better while trying to blame the world for acting in such a disgusting matter. She said “we love each other”. Where’s your love ma’am? Where’s your love?... Smdh. I almost shed a tear for that brother. ALMOST. But the man needs to have some self respect and walk away as well.

    • @TheDCGuitar13
      @TheDCGuitar13 4 года назад +23

      She also confirmed the fact that baby mommas can’t leave their BDs alone either. Further more cementing how poisonous they truly are.

  • @jamesbreedlove233
    @jamesbreedlove233 4 года назад +84

    The wise woman builds her house [on a foundation of godly precepts, and her household thrives], But the foolish one [who lacks spiritual insight] tears it down with her own hands [by ignoring godly principles].-Proverbs 14:1

  • @Stillswingingforthefences
    @Stillswingingforthefences 4 года назад +60

    This woman was hanging on to her husband because she know he is a good man and would hate to see him with someone else. I think her husband is too good for her!

  • @jamesbreedlove233
    @jamesbreedlove233 4 года назад +92

    Many women forget that having to work by the “sweat of your brow” was the CURSE God placed on ADAM the man for listening to the woman and eating the fruit with her. I believe the stress they feel may be because they’ve taken on the full curse (Adams and Eves) God placed on humanity. They’re trying to carry the weight of both curses and it’s destroying them.

    • @mylesanderson2861
      @mylesanderson2861 4 года назад +4

      @@uoenoho9426 Christianity makes good slaves. I thought I was Christian whole life but now decide I might be a mixture of religions.

    • @1230mkelly
      @1230mkelly 4 года назад +2

      @@uoenoho9426 apples and oranges.

    • @gregb7337
      @gregb7337 4 года назад +2

      Uoeno Ho Bible isn’t a slavery book fool

    • @mylesanderson2861
      @mylesanderson2861 4 года назад +1

      @@uoenoho9426 Ok 😆

    • @outtogetyou72
      @outtogetyou72 4 года назад +3

      @@uoenoho9426 Except it's not slavery bc you have the free will to curse yourselves. Bad decisions equals bad results. You have the free will to make good and bad decisions

  • @taylorjones1696
    @taylorjones1696 4 года назад +15

    This is a conversation that needed to be had! It stings but it’s real. Thanks Kevin.

  • @yessedossou5530
    @yessedossou5530 3 года назад +8

    That is the game many female play. She hits the wall at 37 and now she is telling women not to look for love... so they all can be single like herself

  • @STLTRUCKER54
    @STLTRUCKER54 4 года назад +16

    Kudos to you Brother for being a Cancer Survivor. May your Future be Prosperous and Fulfilling Bro.

  • @SlimmDrea
    @SlimmDrea 4 года назад +96

    Ima need Tiffany to make another point other than “don’t come down on yourself if you haven’t found love”. Kevin made several points and that’s all she had to say throughout the whole conversation. lol

    • @TheDCGuitar13
      @TheDCGuitar13 4 года назад +5

      This comment gives me hope lol

    • @mylesanderson2861
      @mylesanderson2861 4 года назад +11

      Her deflection game was on point like a boxer who keeps parrying punches but doesn't throw any punches 😁

    • @TheDCGuitar13
      @TheDCGuitar13 4 года назад +3

      Clear4ort if that Kayla strawberry chick can be worn down by Kevin, ANY “strong, independent” woman can be as well!

    • @SlimmDrea
      @SlimmDrea 4 года назад

      Clear4ort can you leave me alone. Stop harassing me.

    • @lnb252
      @lnb252 10 месяцев назад +1

      so many women like her

  • @traviswhite8809
    @traviswhite8809 4 года назад +21

    I've dealt with this 1st hand. The clues were there. I just saw them as motivation and inspiration. She kept pushing me to get promoted, get the higher position more more more. Wanted to over buy in all areanas. Clearly I wasnt enough. Young men if you have patience to be in a relationship with women always know you are enough because if you were not she wouldnt be there. Stand firm.

  • @SweetestMapleMami
    @SweetestMapleMami 2 года назад +14

    I miss you so much, Kevin. Rest Easy💔🕊

  • @bryannelson3989
    @bryannelson3989 4 года назад +24

    Blk ppl of substance please share this we need this platform like AIR and it’s getting more useful show by show thank you Kevin God bless !!!!

    • @STeroidsnicca
      @STeroidsnicca 4 года назад +2

      Alot of blacks folks especially women don’t want to hear it.

  • @greglismonjr1368
    @greglismonjr1368 Год назад +13

    Lord do I miss this brother 🙏🏾 Gone too soon but his purpose was fulfilled

  • @janice3086
    @janice3086 4 года назад +18

    So true Kevin....you hit it on the nail!! Men can’t find women who are submitted to God they’re rebels!! Like you said a lot of women are not living up to Godly standards, they’ve adopted worldly practices! I’m a woman...and I see this firsthand!!

  • @DannielleElliott
    @DannielleElliott 4 года назад +12

    This is Kevin's best show to date when it comes to helping and reaching black women AND men! For the first time, I feel I can call him "Godfather". I was married to a successful man and was a stay at home mother and I have probably aged out of the game at this point. However, I am pro-black family and I care deeply about our community and our children having strong black families. I support doing the hard work to help our younger generation stay together and be strong. Thank you Kevin!

  • @ebonneenelson2325
    @ebonneenelson2325 2 года назад +5

    God bless this show 🙏🏾. I thought it was too late but after listening to that 40 year old with the 3 kids talking to her ex husband I knew this show came right on time. The younger version of me thought that I can leave my husband at anytime and there will be another man waiting on me with 2 kids in tow. Now I really realize that ain’t the case. Thank you so so much Godfather. RIP 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @lowbo47omsascotave
      @lowbo47omsascotave 2 года назад +1

      *Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !*
      Unfortunately a lot of women think that's the case...until they eventually find out it's NOT. Glad to see SOMEBODY has sense.
      🤜🏾💥🤛🏾

    • @jackdeniston59
      @jackdeniston59 Год назад

      ....and the way you behave will cause him to leave you. You cause this.

  • @chandlerc4606
    @chandlerc4606 3 года назад +4

    Kevin is right... I'm a woman and I too could not come under the leadership of a woman in the church. The church I once attended had a female co- pastor that kept up so much mess that
    I, along with half the other members, left.

  • @Mizrahim777
    @Mizrahim777 4 года назад +11

    POWERFUL show brother...

  • @turkaslan2075
    @turkaslan2075 4 года назад +15

    I love this Music in the Beginning. Even these choice is Style Bro.

  • @naomimitchell8858
    @naomimitchell8858 4 года назад +7

    Always a good night! Learn a lot and thank you for the gems you continue to bring! God bless you continuously! ❤️

  • @NikNik0123
    @NikNik0123 4 года назад +99

    Mr. Samuels...your presentation is A1! Very impressive.

    • @flewis02
      @flewis02 4 года назад +11

      Image consultant = top level professional presentation

    • @NikNik0123
      @NikNik0123 4 года назад +1

      DaBlackStar 🤔makes since

    • @October3074
      @October3074 4 года назад

      @@NikNik0123 *sense

  • @roolyfe
    @roolyfe 4 года назад +16

    The attorney is being honest and can hear the pain of not being married with kids. I am 41 years old and feel the same way.

    • @jayschipp7529
      @jayschipp7529 4 года назад +1

      She sounds like it hurt her a bit to be so single. She’s teachable, and if she has her physical in order, she will most likely end up with a good man.

  • @coolyungdru
    @coolyungdru 3 года назад +2

    Damn! This show is a monument. It's possibly the most profound broadcasted program I have ever experienced.

  • @123pb
    @123pb 4 года назад +1

    Wow that was powerful. Always keep the discussion open so we all can learn, heal and prosper.

  • @bigmos187
    @bigmos187 4 года назад +2

    Kevin..you are on point as always. I’m going to catch you live and donate.

  • @timfields7213
    @timfields7213 4 года назад +2

    Very important and interesting discussion. Thank you Kevin for a high quality, professional, pointed discussion.
    I thoroughly appreciate you and your platform.

  • @trodrigu13
    @trodrigu13 4 года назад +3

    Mr Samuels, you are doing a public service. My God I wish someone like you in my life when I was growing up.

  • @daxhill2807
    @daxhill2807 4 года назад +3

    lol Kevin, you are far more patient than I am. "Should a woman stay in an abusive relationship" that one came out of wayyyyyyyyy left field #SnappleDapple!!!!

  • @natashafreeman2220
    @natashafreeman2220 4 года назад +22

    The first caller is a real one. She takes responsibility for following an incorrect narrative that woman are to be independent from men. The second caller avoids responsibility, deflects, and is preaching a script that single women shouldn’t feel bad. They go to church wearing a mask & not the mask you wear to protect from COVID. It’s a mask that conceals their true self which is one who avoids mastering the skills and qualities needed to be a man’s help mate.

  • @msch3891
    @msch3891 4 года назад +23

    🤔🤯Caller @ 2:08:54++. "I filed for divorce fom my HS sweetheart bc it was stupid...young and immature.... thought I could find somebody else later....no one cheated"
    Intro:"I'm 40, done the stay at home mom thing, 3kids(his), divorced, don't wanna have anymore kids, don't need the HVM just a GOOD man, want companionship, I'm a Christian, want a man that is a Christian, know I'm in the danger zone or whatever you call it, I did not have to work while married."
    Later: I went on to focus on work and being a SINGLE mom struggling to raise young kids. Divorced 12 years....oh um 8 years. He pays child support and I still talk to him everyday. "We're still "married" and have a good co-parenting relationship.... We're still very good friends. I have done that(try to go back to him)🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

    • @kevinlee9929
      @kevinlee9929 4 года назад +7

      @You Do 2 Much Yup. Ask the right questions and they expose themselves.

    • @blacktothefuture6230
      @blacktothefuture6230 4 года назад +16

      @@kevinlee9929 She cheated on him, I guarantee it. Kevin slipped up & asked her a 2nd question before she could answer the 1st & she capitalised on that by simply answering "No".

    • @MRKOCAINN
      @MRKOCAINN 4 года назад +7

      This a perfect example of playing games and then hitting the wall. The wall and Kevin are undefeated 💯

    • @TURBOBEATZZZ
      @TURBOBEATZZZ 4 года назад +2

      She tried to monkey branch but grabbed a snake and fell on top of her ex lol.

    • @TheDCGuitar13
      @TheDCGuitar13 4 года назад +1

      I feel like Kevin was about to go in on that but didn’t wanna humiliate her like the Lisa del Sol chick who said she was 24 and engaged looking every bit of 40.

  • @-draulacroz7312
    @-draulacroz7312 4 года назад +5

    Hey Kevin, Love your platform and it’s content! Can you think about occasionally listing the fragrances you mention so that we can check them out. Thanks!

  • @TURBOBEATZZZ
    @TURBOBEATZZZ 4 года назад +1

    Your shows just keep on getting better and better!!! Brotha you are on 🔥👍🏾!

  • @frankieiconoclast4942
    @frankieiconoclast4942 4 года назад

    Your zeal is much appreciated, Mr. Samuels.

  • @alabastergreen7444
    @alabastergreen7444 Год назад +2

    Open to what god has for me and not chase something=i dont want to have to actually put in any effort so ill hope god does the work for me

  • @ronaldjohnson8676
    @ronaldjohnson8676 4 года назад +1

    Always droppin knowledge and changing perspectives...thanks

  • @lowbo47omsascotave
    @lowbo47omsascotave 2 года назад +2

    *Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !*
    _Tappin' in from South Central LA_
    The Godfather is undefeated !
    Facts over feelings.
    Rest easy KS. 🙏🏾 You are appreciated.
    🤜🏾💥🤛🏾

  • @ladeiajoyce
    @ladeiajoyce 4 года назад +1

    This was a very good show! Much needed conversation and dialogue. Definitely enjoyed this. It put things in perspective.

  • @emmanuelale4868
    @emmanuelale4868 4 года назад +33

    When it comes to religion, one of the criticisms that I have towards religious institutions, specifically Christianity and Church, is that it doesn't seem to be a place where men can be fulfilled in their identity and it doesn't give men a sense of identity. The reason for why I say that is because for the most part, in terms of the congregation and attendance members, church is a female-dominated institution. 85% of the people that attend church and are part of the congregation are women. The head Pastors might be man along with his wife but beneath that, the leadership team and congregation is mostly full of women. Because of that, there are times to where the Pastor will just have to adjust to and give out certain propaganda in order to keep his female-dominated congregation happy even though it lies for the most part and men aren't down with that. Another thing is that Christianity and Church also does nothing but get you emotionally rowed up rather than just tell you the upfront truth, which is much more suited for women since they are ruled by their emotions. Another thing is that with Christianity and Church, it gives out this notion of passivity where you're told to not defend yourself if you are attacked and by nature men aren't like that and aren't down with that. In basic words, there is nothing about Christianity and Church that gives off a sense of 'Masculinity'. That's the reason I personally think why very few men are in it or why there is a very high but quiet rate of men leaving it. From my personal observation, the men that are in it for the most part, they're either very effeminate or they're very weak and docile. This is part of the reason why I joined MGTOW in the first place. MGTOW for me personally, also gives off that sense of 'Masculinity' and 'Identity' that I've been looking for most of my life, which I never found being raised up in Christianity and Church.

    • @divery4eyes
      @divery4eyes 4 года назад +9

      could not have said it better myself
      i see it all the time. especially after i was told i was not black enough to go to a black church.
      really
      i still hear from black women that i might not be suitable to go to their chruch. When did it become their's? i thought God was over the church.

    • @V00d00-Child
      @V00d00-Child 4 года назад +10

      Good job. You touched on the very important point of how the cancer of feminity has been intertwined in scripture to appeal, appease, and consequently retain the current gynocentric demographic of the black church.

    • @benjones621
      @benjones621 4 года назад +7

      I think it is important for people to find a church that fits their needs. I understand where you are coming from but there are churches out there with a large male presence. The one I attend has more men in leadership roles than women, including the volunteers. Keep searching and you can find a church that both uplifts and tells you the truth.

    • @raouljoseph1411
      @raouljoseph1411 4 года назад +4

      I only attended my church because of the pastor. He doesn't sugar coat the scriptures and that piss off a lot of people. Sadly not alot of men like my pastor are out there because they are dying breed. When the time comes for him to go with God, I am leaving the church.

    • @emmanuelale4868
      @emmanuelale4868 4 года назад +3

      @@raouljoseph1411 I completely understand that. Good decision Bro

  • @BlackJezuzBaby
    @BlackJezuzBaby 4 года назад +27

    Yikes! The caller that dumped her high school sweetheart. She got the jackpot of life and threw it away. Geez! She should just go back to her ex husband.

    • @jamar8401
      @jamar8401 3 года назад +4

      Why should he take her back?

  • @rocketgogetter
    @rocketgogetter 7 месяцев назад +1

    Watching this years later this was one of his best shows

  • @tljalexis
    @tljalexis 4 года назад +2

    I adore your show even though at times the truth may hurt. I appreciate the unadulterated truth!

  • @thecurlyfitchick9926
    @thecurlyfitchick9926 4 года назад +11

    His subscriber count is doing NUMBERS. CONSISTENCY IS KEY🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @donnell8402
    @donnell8402 4 года назад +14

    One of the biggest problems I see between men and women is “the need to be right” instead of coming together to find a solution. All the finger pointing regarding who’s more right or wrong won’t change a thing. What we need is accountability and honesty and then maybe we can try to move forward. If relationships are bad now, can you imagine what’s it’s going to be like in the future. We are living in a fallen world that lacks morality, spirituality, respect, love and character. I question whether or not people really love each other.

  • @iamnati_g
    @iamnati_g 3 года назад +4

    This woman is rebellious af. When I was in church, a lot of women were heavy in that opposition area. A lot. This lady needs a good rebuking. I mean, sheesh. How unfortunate.

  • @Always_Leveling_Up
    @Always_Leveling_Up 4 года назад +1

    1:34:00 sounds like he was at IBOC or possibly OCBF. I’m leaning toward IBOC since he mentioned Mondays. It’s a whole slew of Mega churches around that Westmoreland, Wheatland, camp wisdom, Cockrell Hill area- basically any exit of Highway 67

  • @deonsmith4658
    @deonsmith4658 4 года назад +15

    Sad to say, she's not willing to change anything and that's where we will always fall short.

    • @willia3r
      @willia3r 4 года назад

      The _"Lilith"_ spirit has taken over. She belongs to _"the streets,"_ now...

  • @mikelowry5061
    @mikelowry5061 3 года назад +3

    And I say again. The culture needs this man.👊🏿

  • @lindaann768
    @lindaann768 4 года назад +1

    Thank You Kevin

  • @mamatheregothatman3834
    @mamatheregothatman3834 4 года назад +16

    If Tiffany is still married then she basically called this show looking for advice to cheat? 🤦‍♀️ You can tell she lies about everything.

  • @kaglekoa
    @kaglekoa 4 года назад +3

    This was an interesting discussion.

  • @artlife6022
    @artlife6022 4 года назад +42

    I lost it when the last woman said “we still live together..” 😑😑😑😑 after SHE divorced him “12” years ago for no reason.
    Embarrassing
    Ridiculous

    • @DC-qk8ue
      @DC-qk8ue 4 года назад +13

      Basically SHE is the issue. I’m not gonna myself a high value man BUT I’m a very direct communicator and high performing. If I went on a dinner date with this lady I’d ask very detailed questions and almost immediately excuse myself to the restroom and leave her with the bill. She doesn’t Listen, she doesn’t Hear, she doesn’t Cooperate, and she IS MOST DEFINITELY the issue. Poor guy man. We need Parental Custody reform because these feminist are ruining lives, including their own children’s lives. Smh

    • @jham3124
      @jham3124 4 года назад +5

      @@DC-qk8ue Straight Facts.

    • @October3074
      @October3074 4 года назад +2

      She didn't say they still lived 2gether. She said they still talk 2 each other every day and they were discussing getting back 2gether.

    • @graylinsapp6138
      @graylinsapp6138 4 года назад

      Unbelievable! . . . . can't make this shit up!

    • @thehoneybunempress1664
      @thehoneybunempress1664 3 года назад

      She said they still love each other, not live together.

  • @olieantonetti7393
    @olieantonetti7393 4 года назад +4

    Mr. Samuels, please continue doing the LORD's work. I said this already in one of your videos, I wish I was taught what he is teaching and showing us when I was younger. And keep in mind, I am not black!

  • @johnmaddern3519
    @johnmaddern3519 3 года назад +2

    Even if it offends women or men, this man speaks truth

  • @sylvesterbell9645
    @sylvesterbell9645 4 года назад

    This is a great show for educating women n men

  • @ronaldmorris496
    @ronaldmorris496 4 года назад

    I'm on my way. But now I'm learning how to be right my damn self, by listening to your program

  • @lynne4948
    @lynne4948 4 года назад

    This show was everything!! 🗣🗣I especially liked how he broke down the hustle and bustle concept!! That was a whole prophecy 🙌🏾🗣

  • @Century2008
    @Century2008 4 года назад +2

    Since does not want to feel bad, how can they find remorse and let the healing start to be begin a new?

  • @KCoopp9
    @KCoopp9 4 года назад +9

    People have left the church because of poor discipleship! Men have no other masculine men to follow in the church. Women have gotten away from our reasons for being here. Genesis 2:18 women are here to be a helpmate to our husbands but most women that are in the “danger zone” were NOT taught to get a husband. Education was on the TOP of my moms list along with cooking. Looking for a husband was not priority. Kevin is giving free game! I have learned to stay in my lane and be content with a middle class man.

    • @jhur_doc
      @jhur_doc 4 года назад +2

      Like the comment Alike. But I've noticed some moms don't teach there daughters anything but look pretty in this generation. No college education. They don't have to cook, drive, clean at minimum, work for minimum, etc. Make them lazy to the fact she depends on them only with no reciprocity to get or keep a man. Then the girl just say GOD send her a good man to treat her like a queen. But not working on wife skills.

    • @KCoopp9
      @KCoopp9 4 года назад +1

      Brandon Clark I understand its frustrating. What age group of women are you talking about? Social media has played a MAJOR role in today’s youth. You right some women don’t know the basics but show a little grace they probably weren’t taught.

    • @jhur_doc
      @jhur_doc 4 года назад +1

      @@KCoopp9 24 - 30 age groups. They have married parents that just pampered them and 5 years I see me and other guys just leave because they blow it. As kevin say they misinterpreted the church versus then would say God send them a good men when they had one but put no effort.

    • @mcole4425
      @mcole4425 4 года назад

      Good points:
      There are good examples of men in the church....and poor examples also, but the Bible says a good tree bears good fruit: just stick to the good trees!🤣
      A lot of the women in church started out ok, but when they got grown, they started doin "their own thing": that's where Leotis came into the picture...
      10-15 and 3 kids down the road, they wake up and realize they're 35, and they ain't gettin nowhere with him.......🙄
      So now, they turn to church, with their club attire still on, lookin for God to send them a good man, when in actuality, God has been sending good men their way for the last 20 years: They were with Leotis (and they still with him)....
      And this is why a lot of the men have left church.....between the confusion and all the carnality, u cant go to church in peace anymore!!!!😂

  • @valeriethebeautifulsoultv4179
    @valeriethebeautifulsoultv4179 4 года назад

    Thank you Kevin❤️

  • @kmgent666
    @kmgent666 4 года назад +1

    very good show

  • @stanleyrichardson8866
    @stanleyrichardson8866 3 года назад +3

    KS is so patient with these women...cause at points most men would have been in the sunset 🌇 trying to talk to these women!!!!!! Smh,WOW!!

  • @AB-ze2ho
    @AB-ze2ho 4 года назад +2

    I agree. Church isnt helping that man gain "high value". His hard work and dedication

  • @JJBone-fc1lr
    @JJBone-fc1lr 4 года назад

    Great Show

  • @LadyVenusThaGoddess
    @LadyVenusThaGoddess 4 года назад +5

    Married BW to BM here. ... I love, honor and recognize the plight of my brothers & could/ would never bring myself to marry outside my race for they could never truly get us the way we should get each other. Having a child by one seems like I'm subjecting myself and the child to an identity crisis also Ive known swirling relationships go thru so many miscarriages etc as its like the bodies natural defense to reject "foreign objects" 🤷🏿‍♀️. I love you black men. Please understand that our current actions & divisiveness towards each other is the psychological effect of Willie Lynch passed on from generation to generation. We all need to be re-taught the miseducation we were given & recognize where this "misunderstanding" comes from. BW need to submit more to our BM letting them lead& guide the family but BM need to be more understanding, compassionate & dare I say PATIENT on why BW are this way (again Willie Lynch) for it took generations to get us here and may take us generations to overcome. We need to start teaching our children (boys and girls) black unity and love of one another... in hopes this divisiveness we have today strengthens into what it should be.

  • @carapo66
    @carapo66 4 года назад +3

    Off-topic there: What's the name and artist played at the opening of this video?

  • @kennetheilor
    @kennetheilor 4 года назад +1

    Thank you!

  • @shawnbrown4485
    @shawnbrown4485 4 года назад +2

    I came across a video yesterday by someone saying KEVIN SAMUELS IS A FRAUD. The guy was saying he wasn't a real business owner and all this other shit about how he isn't who he said he is. My thing is let's say all that is true. He's STILL inspiring niggas to get their shit together. Inspiring niggas to clean up their image. Inspiring niggas to make more money. There's NOTHING wrong with what this man is preaching. Keep doing what you're doing Kevin

  • @ArmyWolves
    @ArmyWolves 3 года назад +2

    LoL...
    I love how Kevin is a refined, educated, well spoken, charismatic, articulate etc etc... until he gets mad then he goes full gangsta!!!

  • @Passport-X
    @Passport-X 4 года назад +3

    Do your thing fam.

  • @devohnmitchell
    @devohnmitchell 4 года назад +16

    Kevin I know you a Christian but you move like the Brothers in the NOI with the work you do in the Black Community. You sound like an FOI. I salute your hard work in the Black Community!!
    A Salaam Alaikum my Brother!!

    • @legitimeprocessor8901
      @legitimeprocessor8901 4 года назад +1

      Yes definitely, Islam principles will be back as the main standard, it’s inevitable.
      When a society falls down into chaos, the Islamic «System » becomes the necessity tool to rebuild & restructure a civilization.
      No wonder why many redpillers refers to Islam as the best «Patriarchal » model to consider.
      When the Zulu Nation has failed to bring Hip-Hop at its best as a culture & fell into «Chaos », edonism, & drug consumption, it was the 5% nation (with Islamic principles) who’ve done the work to bring Hip hop at the standard of decency (such as Knowledge Supreme, Supreme Mathematics etc... even tho we can disagree on some doctrines but the base foundation is Islamic)... & i can go on & on with many examples.

    • @devohnmitchell
      @devohnmitchell 4 года назад +3

      Legitime Processor Yes sir the Honorable Elijah Muhammad once stated, “Islam Comes When All Else Fails”

    • @AdultSupervision.
      @AdultSupervision. 4 года назад +2

      They all meet at the lodge at the end of the day and sometimes they great each other with "Aslaam Alahcum"

    • @devohnmitchell
      @devohnmitchell 4 года назад

      Adult Supervision yep the Shriners do give that greeting

    • @whywhywhywhy7559
      @whywhywhywhy7559 3 года назад

      As Muslims myself, who is Elijah. We can't have a prophet after the last prophet Muhammad may peace and blessing be upon him.

  • @blacktothefuture6230
    @blacktothefuture6230 4 года назад +24

    Listening to Kevin's show is like the conversation Franklin & Simeon had in GTA V
    *Simeon* / *Kevin* : You tell me exactly what it is that you want & I will very carefully explain to you why it cannot be.
    *Franklin* / *Female Callers* : What?!

    • @kevinlee9929
      @kevinlee9929 4 года назад +4

      But he's bang on with most of them. He's telling the truth 😂

    • @tayemongreen3377
      @tayemongreen3377 4 года назад +2

      @@kevinlee9929 He goes easy on them until they start the bs, that's when it's show time lol

    • @kgmgo313
      @kgmgo313 4 года назад

      Basically lmao

  • @stfjonz
    @stfjonz 4 года назад

    KS, you're right again!

  • @cgillyard
    @cgillyard 4 года назад +3

    @2:05:19 absolutely! This next wave which may be the real thing is going to humble folks in particularly women. It's not what is was last year. Pride is going to be humbled in the times we're living in. Expect them unexpected texts, dms and phone calls your way.

    • @jasonphillips2204
      @jasonphillips2204 4 года назад +1

      You are not kidding. That happened to me (received txts & phone calls) in April and May. It will be worse when the eviction freeze is lifted.

    • @cgillyard
      @cgillyard 4 года назад +1

      @@jasonphillips2204 yessir. They weren't too serious but that day will come when they'll seek your help and may not want to help them.

  • @rogerblakely7453
    @rogerblakely7453 4 года назад +13

    Here is what I would say to the woman that Kevin was talking to about a woman's purpose being a man:
    You are single, and you have no prospect of getting a man. You are calling in on Kevin's show because doing it your way has not worked. In fact, men have been trying to do it your way for two generations, because that's what you said that you wanted, and it has not worked.

  • @DutchessKay
    @DutchessKay 4 года назад +17

    I don’t understand the last caller, why would you rather struggle than have a family house hold? That woman is toying with her ex husband’s emotions and that’s not fair on him. why put him through all of that for what?

  • @rogeroxford3554
    @rogeroxford3554 4 года назад +7

    I’m never getting married to be honest I came to deal with the fact that I never got chosen. I’ve seen too many attractive women pick evil men. I’m living my life to the fullest I’m not worrying about being alone.

  • @frankieiconoclast4942
    @frankieiconoclast4942 4 года назад +2

    Ecclesiastes 7:27-28 KJV
    [27] Behold, this have I found, saith the preacher, counting one by one, to find out the account: [28] Which yet my soul seeketh, but I find not: one man among a thousand have I found; but a woman among all those have I not found.

  • @twettiethehappygardner5728
    @twettiethehappygardner5728 3 года назад

    Anybody. What is the title of Kevin's theme song?

  • @goodmen2973
    @goodmen2973 4 года назад +4

    About to get this episode in. This channel 🚀

  • @sharifshabazz834
    @sharifshabazz834 3 года назад

    This song always puts me in a happy place 😃

  • @jlarios80
    @jlarios80 3 года назад

    what is the name of the song?

  • @ronaldmorris496
    @ronaldmorris496 4 года назад

    WOW! YOU GOT AN HONEST ONE! THANK YOU JESUS!

  • @hawkeyes2814
    @hawkeyes2814 4 года назад +13

    These are the types of women i had to deal with when i was looking for a wife in the church. They dont believe anything the bible says and everything about the scriptures is an argument. Sometimes i have to wonder are you really a Christian or just religious. They place their pastors, rituals and traditions over the word of God. This is why i left church and nonlonger deal with women who are heavy church goers and in church every day of the week except saturdays. They are the most combative and their ideologies are based on feminism which is contrary to God's words. Look at how many of these black women in the church who are Pastors and single. Its crazy how far they have gone. When i date women who arent christian its funny how i get less push back and they are even more interested in my Faith and beliefs. Christian women I have dated they think they know the bible because they attend church everyday and they cant be taught. The purpose of a man is to teach his wife the word of God. This why the scriptures aay a woman shouldnt be teaching men and if they dont understand the word they should ask their husbands at home. The man is to cleanse is wife by the washing and watering of the word. They dont want to listen to their husbands though, they rather obey the Pastor their Massa.

    • @hawkeyes2814
      @hawkeyes2814 4 года назад +3

      @GodLoveFreedom thats feminism and have nothing to do with God or his purpose for mankind when it comes to marriage. Submission is not a religious or spiritual commandment, marriage is natural Law. It has nothing to do with a man knowing Gods words or even believing in God. God calls all women of creation to submit to their husbands
      1 Peter 3:1-2
      *Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word,* they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, 2 when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear.

    • @hawkeyes2814
      @hawkeyes2814 4 года назад +5

      @GodLoveFreedom nothing you say is biblical. Again. You need submit to men. You have a problem with authority. A woman need to submit to her husband whether he proved himself before God or not. It has nothing to do with a man being obedient to God and his words first because you are commanded to submit to your unbelieving husband
      1 Peter 3:12
      *Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word,* they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, 2 when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear.

    • @hawkeyes2814
      @hawkeyes2814 4 года назад +3

      @GodLoveFreedom you are creating a strawman. Your belief isnt about submission to husbands. Your belief is ONLY submitting to a man that has proved he is worthy of submission. Thats not biblical. Thats feminisms and worldly. Listen feminisms is just that age old Jezebel Spirit. You are in error and rather than admitting you are, you want to argue. This is why black men have left the church. You are delusional. Get filled with the Holy Spirit and submit to a man. You have problem with authority.
      Again 1 Peter 3:1-2
      *Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word,* they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, 2 when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear.

    • @Lilfacebignose
      @Lilfacebignose 4 года назад +2

      @GodLoveFreedom Not true. Adam did not have to build anything, he just needed to take care of the Garden. God gave Adam everything he needed to survive.

    • @hawkeyes2814
      @hawkeyes2814 4 года назад

      @GodLoveFreedom you making sure the man that offers his covenant to you as your head and covering is a fit for you has nothing to do with submitting to your husband. You aren't even married to dictate who you will and will not submit to. If you have that mindset before the marriage, it isnt going to change after the marriage, hence why you aren't chosen

  • @davee7060
    @davee7060 3 года назад +3

    Emotional/mental abuse is never talked about and it's way more prevalent. Especially by women

  • @rahkeemthegreat360
    @rahkeemthegreat360 4 года назад

    good show

  • @SgtMattBaker1
    @SgtMattBaker1 4 года назад

    which episode is the one with the drunk/high lady. i havent laughed like that in a while?

  • @ojoseph8591
    @ojoseph8591 3 года назад

    Name of the intro song? I need a grown soul playlists lol

  • @paullewisii4212
    @paullewisii4212 4 года назад

    You speak straight facts

  • @BoudoirBoutiqueNC
    @BoudoirBoutiqueNC 4 года назад +4

    I think we all fell for the independent woman hustle because many people benefited and it did not come from the black community. It came from the industrial revolution. They needed workers after the war, etc. etc. Problem is we were disproportionately affected by that mess. Then there is this mess about housewives were being abused. SOME were...some.

    • @BoudoirBoutiqueNC
      @BoudoirBoutiqueNC 4 года назад

      @@uoenoho9426 Oh my God. I am so sorry to hear that. Thank you for sharing such a difficult personal experience.

    • @mylesanderson2861
      @mylesanderson2861 4 года назад

      @@uoenoho9426 Wow that's horrible

  • @kbusmcvet
    @kbusmcvet 4 года назад +2

    A woman’s pastor is not her covering. She either has a husband, or is it at home with her father until marriage.

  • @da4494
    @da4494 4 года назад +2

    Powerful