SAME MY STORY , 💔I can't have words , I have been through so much like this mental+financial+ physical torture abuse, so after 1.5 year i decided to take stand for myself and file for separation. And Alhamdulillah i m living my life happily in my parents home, i completed my studies, doing Job and Business, i am a confident, independent woman now. We must know our worth ♥️ Allah sab larkion k naseeb Achay karay ameen (Edit after 1 year: i am married now and have a beautiful baby boy and preparing for CSS exams, my husband is supportive Alhamdulillah) ❤ thankyou everyone for appreciation
We always tell our daughters to compromise, but had we taught them to stand up for themselves, their lives could have been so beautiful. It's not wise to tell our daughters to adjust in stubborn houses where they are not acknowledged and respected. Things may fall into place at some point but the damage that is done in terms of her well being and mental health cannot come back.
@@PreetiSharma-wq9lk Kudos queen for taking stand for yourself and walking away from a toxic house. I'm sure you'll achieve greater heights and make yourself and your parents prouder. I wish you the best of all. Much respect. :)
This was my same story my husband was mama's boy only his family was imp to him not me i realised this very soon and i left him and my parents and family supported me i am very happy that i took right decision to get out of toxic people's house....
Agar yeh kahani dekh ke chup rahungi toh qudgarzi hogi Wah likhne wale ne apna dil nikaal ke rakh diya hai is kahani me.ek bhi episode Bina roye dekha nahi.
I'm living separately from my in laws since 3 years now... I'm watching this drama for the first time. I can see those 5 years of my life again that I spent with my in laws. I was even more quite than shehwar here. I cried more than shehwar here... because my parents passed away long ago.. I didn't meet my only brother and khalla for 7 years and didn't even hear from them.. my husband never stood by me. And to everyone's surprise it was a love marriage, a marriage no one was agreeing for, a marriage we fought for, even his dad didn't bother attending the marriage, its where he asked me if there would be no one supporting from his side will I still stand with him and I said he'll YES. I always will. And I stood by my words but he never kept his promises. I cried and cried and cried for everything his family did to me but I always asked for Allah's rehem. Then one day alot of drama was going on with me in his parents house and he kept quite all that time. Then he stood up and said I hope you guys are done and here I'm to inform you that me and my family is shifting to our own house this weekend. I was shocked surprised over the moon and what not... I forgot everything and started packing... we finally shifted and I thanked my Allah and my husband... but trust me the story doesn't I mean never stops.. my mother in law can't see me happy... and she has all the control of my husband... my khalla started coming over to my house since 2021 Ramadan but a month back all of sudden my husband said ask your khalla to not to come over for sometime.. it was for no reason......... and my this khalla helped us every time, she was the one who did all the arrangements for our marriage and what not there was she didn't do, long story.... Allah madad kare.. I think one day I'll pass away just thinking that things will be fine one day.... 😔
Feeling like it's my story. Bcoz even I've gone through all these things as shahwar is going through. A man can never value his wife but he needs a wife who should do all her duties soulfully.
Right.... even l relate to this episode.So true it reminds of my earlier days of my marriage, these in laws r heartless,more over when the husband is mama's boy😭
Dont worry sis Allah is the best disposer of affairs i have being through more than this but Allah never dissappoints me today im an officer in well reputed organisation n i dont care what they think of me😡
I can relate to this whole episode....same things my parents and i faced few months ago...these in laws are very cruel everywhere...Allah har beti ka naseeb acha kre....can't stop my tears.......
@@Majidkhan-rj2gi sare inlaws aise hi hote h aur sbse zyada kasoor to husbnds ka hota h jo apni biwi ko izzat nhi de skte, meri Zindagi bhi aisi hi hell h allah se dua h ki meri Zindagi me asani ho
@nishat zareen Allah se yahi dua hai ki woh app k husband ko taoufeeq de k woh app ko izzat de or pyaar de jis k app qabil ho or app ki in laws ko samajh or ahsas de k app in sab ki kitni kidmat krti ho,kitne saal hogaye hain app ki shaadi ko
Phle mujhe lgta tha that working women are strong because i am handling both things without any house help .. but after pregnancy i quit my job and believe me the most difficult work house wife's ka hai 24'7 ka work hai without any pay and without any appreciation... The golden words milnte hai sunne ko .. tum krti hi kya ho .. sb yhi krete hai 🥺
What about those millions of women who work ?? Working women doesn't mean that she doesn't have child or household...they do extra work they go outside plus take care of house....we should appreciate them aswell....this is sick mentality to call working women that they don't do work as house wifes
I never face these pains and troubles because my in laws are very good people. But i can fully understand those people who suffered from these pains and troubles
Shehwar's dialogue Pata nahi ye mard tna jaldi badal kiun jaatay hen ya badalty nahi hen wese hi hotay hen humen der se pata chalta he... Accuracy level 1000000%
OMG.... Believe me when I see every single scene between shehwar and Mansoor it's just reminds me my married life.... One of The Bitter phase of my life Mano jaise shaadi k beete hue shuruwati 5-6 saal... Har pal... Sab kuch fir samne aa gya ho😥😥😥
Maybe he is tensed or worried but she is HIS wife, he should be the one to ask her to eat or if somethings wrong.. he promised her that tell take her with him but he broke it and told her to go to her parents instead...
This is my story and I can relate to each and every episode, feel iam watching my story on screen. I felt iam the only one women who is living a life like this but after watching this serial every vwomen who lives in joint families face the similar life, Allah tala ladkiyo ko achi mother-in-law de
U r right sister.mera phla reshta jahan huwa tha wahan b SAS sahiba asay h jalad or lalchi thy .to mrry parents ne redhta torh deya dosrey jgha sal bad mngni huwe SAS achi hm tang nhi kirty mgar husbnd ka mizajh bht ageeb ha..kahin susral.
I'm surprised that how the absolutely true observation this drama writer has...Umaira Ahmad has shown true story of thousands of Pakistani women..being a mother in law and being a daughter in law .
I can't stop my tears.... Still daughters are in deep pain... Even in this so called modern era... Or ispe humari govt. Kehti he Beti bachao... Inko kaun samjhaye ki betiyaan kab bhoojh hui apne maa baap ki...maa baap to apne dil k tukde ki in takalifon se darte he.... Koi mera apna hi inhi halato se gujar raha he.. Jiska koi solution nahi, 😔😔😔
I don't understand why Shehwar's father didn't ask her to leave Mansoor and come back to her father's house. I'm really not getting why he's not able to see the pain, trauma, and torture Shehwar's in-laws and her husband are causing her. Mansoor is a red flag. She should have left him immediately after realizing how he behaves. Her father should have taken all the dowry items and even filed a mental violence case against her in-laws. I believe it's because of these reasons that today's girls prefer a guy who lives separately from their family, so they don't have to go through such torture.
Leaving husband's home and returning back to father's home is not the solution of every thing the best thing in this drama is that she bear a lot and then she got a lot too ...
@@Azhaan-f6p you should not have to bear the torture to get bare minimum at the end. This line of thinking is the reason for suffering in this world. The lesson is you should be independent and have a good support system to go back to rather than suffer with a shitty husband.
@@hln6821 being independent doesn't means to get apart from husband it is the system of our society most of our men are not so trained and even not our girls both of them should have time to understand each other...it's my personal experience that I'm sharing ...if girls bear a little they can get a lot in their life .
I really like this serial a lot. Don’t know how many times I watched. I always listen the words of shehwar’s Abbu, his guidelines. No doubt it’s not easy to get settled in such kind of family but still he always guide her to get settled over there. I don’t know how many times I cried while watching this serial.....
Main ye serial dekh ke bahot royi meri story isse bhi kahin dardnak hai mere uper jo bhi guzri wo sab yaad aa gya mujhe Allah aisa kisi dushman ke saath bhi na kare😭😭😭😭
I hate these typical fathers who always admit the faults of their daughters in front of the law family... hate this culture of dominating families of boys.. pity
If he is going to fight the in laws will make her life hell it is already hell and he does not want to make it more complicated. Muskhil mein gaday ko bhi baap banana padta hai. And more over they knew that once her husband who is other idiot will take her with him. Our society needs to change these in laws behave like girl side people are not worth it😡😡😡😡
@@PreetiSharma-wq9lk hamari society ne mardon k dimag me ye feed kar dia hai ki sari galtiyan auraton ki hoti hai.....lekin ye feed karne wali bhi him auraten hi hoti hain jo apne bachchin k dimag me dalti hain......aurat hi aurat ki dushman hoti hai
@@asmaazmi2937 you are right may be.but parents should totally support their kids anyway.now I am a mother too,I will always stand with my kids come what may.atleast any outsider cannot influence me.when one day my father said ki tumhare inlaws ki baatein sun k muje sharm aati hai.that thing broke me completely from within.
I was came from very educated family , even I m very qualified , I had my own car at the age of 18, did computer diploma but no one had valued me even my sister in law taunted me that I didn't get job of rs.2000 , my mother in law didn't allow me to touch the car, small town but my father-in-law and husband were good and supportive but never argue with my mother in law, now time has changed I m living independent with my beautiful childern in a big city, now no one has daring to insult me...it took 20 years...
Ye deakh kr apni bacchion ki yaad a gyi... Itna pdhaya likhaya kbhi kisi se koi galat baat nhi suni kbhi Lekin dono ki burai unki Saas se suni... Ladki hone se Dar nhi lgta bs unki kismat se Dar lgta h..
That 100% my story i am from well off family but khula khana pena... but my in law’s are from Middle class with limited resourses... i can feel shahwar my heart... i really have hard time adjusting in inlaws
My mother in law loves me like her daughter....she always cares me....she helps me in every household chores...im so lucky...and my husband also loves me so much🥰
@@Raza__12 ek ghar ko ghar banane k liye bahot kuch bardasht karna padta hai.....bahot kuch sacrifice karna padta hai.......bahot lafzon k teer jhelne hote hain.....lekin agar shauhar sath dene wala ho to aurat ye sab sah leti hai...but ye saas ye bhi kahan hone deti hai......unko to ye bardasht hi nahi hota ki uska beta apni biwi se muhabbat kare.......lagai bujhai kar k dil se utaar dena chahti hai......aur humari society bhi kuch is tarah ki hai......agar biwi se muhabbat kare....use ek glass pani bhi de de to JORU KA GULAM ban jata hai......I just fade up from this sasurali enviornment and society......aurat hi aurat ki dushman hoti hai......for instance ....saas hi bahu ki dushman hoti hai....and both r woman....ALLAH hame buri saas ban ne se bachaye.....aameen
Pakistan really got some jewels in their industry....Sanam Baloch, Mahira Khan, Sanam Saeed, Maya Ali, Sajal Ali, Yumna Zaidi and many more ...no one can beat their acting skills ❤️
He was a lier as he committed promise to take her along with him. He was a cheater and whole family also. So how can a female live with a deceived person. Very wrong decesion taken by shahwar and his parents. I am totally disagree with the main idea of this drama.
Main idea of the drama yehi ha k ak aurat hi apna ghar banati ha chahy wo compromise kr k hi ku na banay, and my mother has also gone through these things but her patience and compromise becomes the result the result of her children happy and successful life
Fault lies with Shehwar abbo. Girls like shehwar must not b married to the guys belong to the low status. Mansoor mother seems a bit greedy woman. She wants girl frm upper class on her own terms
@@rubyanand3367 wish u best of luck. U may learn from Shehwar and her Father, how they gracefully, slowly and gradually tackled the situation and time has changed in their favour.
It still hurts that such people and such thinkings still exist .😞. Becoz of Such kind of in-laws ,parents are scared of giving birth to girls. God bless all the girls with good in-laws.
Ye chair py beithny wala scene dekh kr... uffffffffff.. mi b bht ratien aisy e jaag k rooti rehti thi.. fajar k baad ja k kahin neend ati thi. Mere husband so jaty thy.unki ankh khulti b thi mujhy dekh k muu mor k so jaty thy
I remember when I faced brutal domestic violence. From my husband....my parents still told me....dekh lo thoda Seh lo sabar kar lo.....I was more disappointed with my parents then my husband
Amazing drama👏👏 the place, the music, the characters, the actors, the vibe everythng is so good.. watching it for the second time.. 🙌🙌👍👍 a must watch..
Whenever I watch this serial how husband misunderstand his wife always and dont support her..in old age they understand that life partner is only important person of life whn it's too late and all the bad behaviour can't be forget
The moment 14:27 saase ese hi kitchen me aake chillati hai aur hamare sar per dance karti hai..kitni reality batai he isme..and the way saas raise her voice is just so relatable..😥😥muje apne sab din yaad aa rahe..crying
mere papa mummy bhi ek din aise hi bethe the mujrim ki tarha.unka gunah tha ki wo beti wale the.muje bhi laga the ki mere papa ka sarr jhuk gaya meri wajah se.
I know someone who does not let her mother visit her in laws because she knows how innocent her mom is and how bitter is her sas. These stories are still relatable even in 2022
2023 I’m again watching this absolutely amazing drama .. my heart aches for sharwar .. sending love and hugs 🤗 from Canada . I hope no girls ever face this !
There are good marriages too, always remember it. Whatever they are showing should never be accepted as a norm. This is not what a standard marriage is.
@@archnarawat1416 sahi hua? Lol what a joke? Burhapay me sahi hua? Woh burhapa jab dur-e-shehwar bar bar apne mazi ki talkhion ko yad krti ha, the prime period of life she spent in utter disgrace and mental agony!
Can you believe hiw much I am crying right now. It's 2:30am and I am crying like i am dureshhwar. I just can't explain my feelings😭😭😭. It's not a drama it's reality. I have seen families like these
Ufffh mjhy apna time yaad agaya mery sathb same yehi hoa tha meri saas ny b mery ma baap ko apny ghr bula k zaleel kia tha aur meri jo kefiat thi ya mery Allah kesa waqt tha
Alhamdulillah Allah ny mery sary badly ly liye meri saas k sath buht kuch bura hoa jo sb ma ny dekha bt ma ny unhy maaf kardia lekin shayed Allah ny nahi kia wo abhi b hain bt buht bury haal ma me buht achi hoon Allah ny mjhy naik aulad sy nawaza ha jitna shukr karo km ha
Watching this & reading the comments makes me think I should be so grateful to my in-laws & my husband they never gave me hard time maybe just a little bit when I wasn't able to go outside when ever I wanted lol.
I live in US. I got married in India. My Saas was also an extremely domineering woman. Often I thought, she was insane. Anyway, that's ancient history. In my opinion, intellectual and social compatibilities are extremely important for any relationship to flourish.
Beta haq ki bt krne wala ho to bivia aise rulti ni ae . Mansur jese bete to hmesha maa ke pallu se bandhe rhe to thk rhte ae bivia ni lani chahye inke lye .
G insan majbore hota hai rishtey nahi miltey Kya ho gay parents ko jitna Dard hota hai otna kisi ko b nahi hai jab ap hod Mother phir pata Chaley gay mokamil zaat srif Allah kiy hai Zindagi main sab Koch ak sath mil jata Jo ap k naseeb main ho gay wo zaroor milay ga cheazey bad main b mil jati hai but achey log nahi miltey waqet or halath insan ko asa bana daytey hai
@@ayeshamehmood68 Jo ap k sath Bora karta hai os ka Amal os k sath hai ap Allah per chor do wasey os ki saas b bori nahi hai bus waqet or halath nai asa os ko bana diy kisi k Barey main Bora sochney c pahley os ki jaga hod ko rakh k soch lo
I feel so hurt to see when your in-laws always try to humiliate you and your husband doesn't even support you, why do husbands become blind and can't even see negativity in their family, I love to watch this drama cause I have been going through such situations.
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SAME MY STORY , 💔I can't have words , I have been through so much like this mental+financial+ physical torture abuse, so after 1.5 year i decided to take stand for myself and file for separation. And Alhamdulillah i m living my life happily in my parents home, i completed my studies, doing Job and Business, i am a confident, independent woman now. We must know our worth ♥️ Allah sab larkion k naseeb Achay karay ameen (Edit after 1 year: i am married now and have a beautiful baby boy and preparing for CSS exams, my husband is supportive Alhamdulillah) ❤ thankyou everyone for appreciation
Sach me?
Same here i tolerate 30 years and last 9year i live with my children living my life independent and happily
Sab k ap jesi kismat nahi hoti
@@shuguftaashraf540 kisi ki bhi na ho 30 years maine नर्क भरी जिंदगी काटी है
😢😢
Saood jaise person deserves soo much respect.... His wife and family will be sooo fortunate to have him ❤️🙏
Same here.. Husband is on duty and i am working at home like a maid... It is like my real life story..
But Saoot jaise ladko ko aksar ekdum chalaak ladkiyan milti hai jo unka jeena haram kar deti hai😢
100 percent true ..saood is good person
I don't know but kuch Dewar bhabhi se to connected rhte h pr apni wife ke sath same sulook krte h jaise unke bhai apni wife se krte h.
@@sarita_pandit maybe… I hope that’s not the case with saood
We always tell our daughters to compromise, but had we taught them to stand up for themselves, their lives could have been so beautiful. It's not wise to tell our daughters to adjust in stubborn houses where they are not acknowledged and respected.
Things may fall into place at some point but the damage that is done in terms of her well being and mental health cannot come back.
@@PreetiSharma-wq9lk Kudos queen for taking stand for yourself and walking away from a toxic house. I'm sure you'll achieve greater heights and make yourself and your parents prouder. I wish you the best of all. Much respect. :)
Shewars story is 70,s
True but it was not possible before
Exactly but who understands this neither husband neither n laws and even parents
This was my same story my husband was mama's boy only his family was imp to him not me i realised this very soon and i left him and my parents and family supported me i am very happy that i took right decision to get out of toxic people's house....
Agar yeh kahani dekh ke chup rahungi toh qudgarzi hogi
Wah likhne wale ne apna dil nikaal ke rakh diya hai is kahani me.ek bhi episode Bina roye dekha nahi.
Real story h zhayad
Same here sister
Yes m also weping
Durre shahwar is the story of my mother and I am continuously crying and there are no words for her courage ♥️
My mothet had way more worse condition even still now
@@anonymous25800 more power to her🤧❤️
Meri bhi ammi ki ye kahani ha main bhi roti rahi ye dekh kr
I'm continuously crying too😭
Mri b mama ki yhi khani thi bhht rona aya dkh k aj wo es dunia m ni h ab😢😢😢😢
Sanam baloch❤
Even mahira, sajal & saba can't beat her acting. Such a gorgeous, elegant & talented she is!
You're absolutely right....she's so underrated
Ye saas jab budi hogi tab
But I dnt knw why she is so under rated
True
Very nice drama and her acting 😊beautiful girl sanam Baloch
Sanam Baloch is a great actress ✨💖
Her acting is more more better than any other actresses of Indian serials❣️
I'm living separately from my in laws since 3 years now... I'm watching this drama for the first time. I can see those 5 years of my life again that I spent with my in laws. I was even more quite than shehwar here. I cried more than shehwar here... because my parents passed away long ago.. I didn't meet my only brother and khalla for 7 years and didn't even hear from them.. my husband never stood by me. And to everyone's surprise it was a love marriage, a marriage no one was agreeing for, a marriage we fought for, even his dad didn't bother attending the marriage, its where he asked me if there would be no one supporting from his side will I still stand with him and I said he'll YES. I always will. And I stood by my words but he never kept his promises. I cried and cried and cried for everything his family did to me but I always asked for Allah's rehem. Then one day alot of drama was going on with me in his parents house and he kept quite all that time. Then he stood up and said I hope you guys are done and here I'm to inform you that me and my family is shifting to our own house this weekend. I was shocked surprised over the moon and what not... I forgot everything and started packing... we finally shifted and I thanked my Allah and my husband... but trust me the story doesn't I mean never stops.. my mother in law can't see me happy... and she has all the control of my husband... my khalla started coming over to my house since 2021 Ramadan but a month back all of sudden my husband said ask your khalla to not to come over for sometime.. it was for no reason......... and my this khalla helped us every time, she was the one who did all the arrangements for our marriage and what not there was she didn't do, long story.... Allah madad kare.. I think one day I'll pass away just thinking that things will be fine one day.... 😔
Hey stay strong dear..God bless u
@@ruchimaru5599 thank you so much dear. But the pain never ends..
Sending u hugs💞and prayers...
Same situation with me
well said,true true
I CAN'T STOP MY TEARS WATCHING THIS DRAMA, IT REMINDS ME MY AGONY MY PAIN IN MY IN LAW'S HOUSE... 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Same here 😢😢😢😢😢
Every girl feeling da same..
Same here😭😭😭😭
Same here
At least she has her brother in law to support sometimes one don’t have anyone , she suffers alone
exactly like I've my sister in law
This serial exactly 💯 depicts the life of every daughter in law..
Her Father feels so helpless. His expressions bring tears in my eyes.
Helpless aur sharminda
Har father ka ye he haal hota h..
Every girls father seems so helpless...reallyy hurt a lot...😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😭😭
Yeah... 😭
Mere paas koi dandh ki job hoti to laat maar deti yese susraal ko
Feeling like it's my story. Bcoz even I've gone through all these things as shahwar is going through. A man can never value his wife but he needs a wife who should do all her duties soulfully.
Mri b yehi story ri hai 😭
Right.... even l relate to this episode.So true it reminds of my earlier days of my marriage, these in laws r heartless,more over when the husband is mama's boy😭
Really dear what happened to you
Dont worry sis Allah is the best disposer of affairs i have being through more than this but Allah never dissappoints me today im an officer in well reputed organisation n i dont care what they think of me😡
Right
True lines - ससुराल वाले कभी नही मानते कि उनकी बहू काम करती है, घर के हर सदस्य को यही लगता है कि बहू बिल्कुल काम नही करती ।
True
I can relate to this whole episode....same things my parents and i faced few months ago...these in laws are very cruel everywhere...Allah har beti ka naseeb acha kre....can't stop my tears.......
Right..ap bi apne in laws ko suna diya kro tbi akl thikane pr ayegi
Wht abt now..wht abt ur husband
@@Majidkhan-rj2gi sare inlaws aise hi hote h aur sbse zyada kasoor to husbnds ka hota h jo apni biwi ko izzat nhi de skte, meri Zindagi bhi aisi hi hell h allah se dua h ki meri Zindagi me asani ho
@nishat zareen Allah se yahi dua hai ki woh app k husband ko taoufeeq de k woh app ko izzat de or pyaar de jis k app qabil ho or app ki in laws ko samajh or ahsas de k app in sab ki kitni kidmat krti ho,kitne saal hogaye hain app ki shaadi ko
Phle mujhe lgta tha that working women are strong because i am handling both things without any house help .. but after pregnancy i quit my job and believe me the most difficult work house wife's ka hai 24'7 ka work hai without any pay and without any appreciation... The golden words milnte hai sunne ko .. tum krti hi kya ho .. sb yhi krete hai 🥺
Without any appreciate
Ufffff 😭😭😭🥺
What about those millions of women who work ?? Working women doesn't mean that she doesn't have child or household...they do extra work they go outside plus take care of house....we should appreciate them aswell....this is sick mentality to call working women that they don't do work as house wifes
I never face these pains and troubles because my in laws are very good people.
But i can fully understand those people who suffered from these pains and troubles
Har ladki ne Kahi na Kahi apni life Mai shehwar ko jiya hai. Har ladki Mai shehwar basti hai
Right
Absolutely 👍 Meri to abhi bhi asi hi chal rhi h life😢
@@sumeraaleemvlogs2374 Allah Pak ap k liy asaniya paida kre Ameen
Sahi baat hai
True
Can't stop tears, happened with many of us
Same happened with me🥺
True
Happened with almost every women of India and Pakistan
@@sophiashaikh2012 me to😭
I love serial my favRite
Shehwar's dialogue
Pata nahi ye mard tna jaldi badal kiun jaatay hen ya badalty nahi hen wese hi hotay hen humen der se pata chalta he...
Accuracy level 1000000%
Dogs have more respect in their owners houses than the daughter in laws in the houses of worst mother in laws....😡😡😡😡
Evn if u kick a servant or animals so many tyms they don't return but daughter in law hav to inspire of all torture & disrespect
Best comment
Agreed
Pakistani mardo ko islam ki aur deen ki parhai ki dhadeed zarurat hai khaas tor pe unki maaon ko
It’s not mother Inlaw …. It’s the husband… who shouldn’t let anyone in between him and his wife
OMG.... Believe me when I see every single scene between shehwar and Mansoor it's just reminds me my married life.... One of The Bitter phase of my life
Mano jaise shaadi k beete hue shuruwati 5-6 saal... Har pal... Sab kuch fir samne aa gya ho😥😥😥
Yes story of most of us.... Even the dialogs mairii saas bhi aisi hi batain krti hain... Can't stop tears... Every sentence match to my story... 😭😢
Apky bachay hen??
@@dietspicesandsweets6808 Yaa why??
@@afshankhattak6583 oh 😮
behen ek din Allah hisab lega
Apki shadi ko kitna time hua
That part when shahwar and her mother was crying 😭💔
i cried too 😢
😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😢😢😢😢😢😢
Mansoor se acha tu us ka Bhai sauood hai 🙂
Agreed.
Maybe he is tensed or worried but she is HIS wife, he should be the one to ask her to eat or if somethings wrong.. he promised her that tell take her with him but he broke it and told her to go to her parents instead...
Dur e shahwar is just like my story , I really shed many tears after my marriage 😭😭😭😭😭
This is my story and I can relate to each and every episode, feel iam watching my story on screen.
I felt iam the only one women who is living a life like this but after watching this serial every vwomen who lives in joint families face the similar life,
Allah tala ladkiyo ko achi mother-in-law de
Mine also
L bura to kahin husbnd bura.
U r right sister.mera phla reshta jahan huwa tha wahan b SAS sahiba asay h jalad or lalchi thy .to mrry parents ne redhta torh deya dosrey jgha sal bad mngni huwe SAS achi hm tang nhi kirty mgar husbnd ka mizajh bht ageeb ha..kahin susral.
I'm surprised that how the absolutely true observation this drama writer has...Umaira Ahmad has shown true story of thousands of Pakistani women..being a mother in law and being a daughter in law .
Not only Pakistani women also Indian women are facing same problem sad 😞😔
Not only Pakistani women.....this is the story of almost all women
That scene between mother and daughter…..uuuffff made me Cry whole night 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Recite darood shareef as much as u can in difficult times, inshaa Allah everything will get better
Bahut natural acting hai. Bahut achchha serial hai. aaj ke daur me ghar basa rahne ke liye ese dekh ke kafi kuch sikhne ko milta hai. Thanku so much
This is not just for muslim... Being an hindu i have faced every bit of what she faced... No support..this is so relatable.. 🥺🥺🥺
But this is not allowed in islam, husband has to give separate home to wife and its not wife's duty to serve her in laws
@@kimiko6732in desi Muslim families 2-3 married sons live with wife in his parents house
Excellent story. Every girl should see the dramma Durr e Shahwar. Credit goes to great Umaira Ahmad
yes umaira ji done great job ,
I can't stop my tears.... Still daughters are in deep pain... Even in this so called modern era... Or ispe humari govt. Kehti he Beti bachao... Inko kaun samjhaye ki betiyaan kab bhoojh hui apne maa baap ki...maa baap to apne dil k tukde ki in takalifon se darte he.... Koi mera apna hi inhi halato se gujar raha he.. Jiska koi solution nahi, 😔😔😔
Saud got more sense than rest of the family
I don't understand why Shehwar's father didn't ask her to leave Mansoor and come back to her father's house. I'm really not getting why he's not able to see the pain, trauma, and torture Shehwar's in-laws and her husband are causing her. Mansoor is a red flag. She should have left him immediately after realizing how he behaves. Her father should have taken all the dowry items and even filed a mental violence case against her in-laws. I believe it's because of these reasons that today's girls prefer a guy who lives separately from their family, so they don't have to go through such torture.
Leaving husband's home and returning back to father's home is not the solution of every thing the best thing in this drama is that she bear a lot and then she got a lot too ...
@@Azhaan-f6p you should not have to bear the torture to get bare minimum at the end. This line of thinking is the reason for suffering in this world. The lesson is you should be independent and have a good support system to go back to rather than suffer with a shitty husband.
@@hln6821 being independent doesn't means to get apart from husband it is the system of our society most of our men are not so trained and even not our girls both of them should have time to understand each other...it's my personal experience that I'm sharing ...if girls bear a little they can get a lot in their life .
I really like this serial a lot. Don’t know how many times I watched. I always listen the words of shehwar’s Abbu, his guidelines. No doubt it’s not easy to get settled in such kind of family but still he always guide her to get settled over there. I don’t know how many times I cried while watching this serial.....
Your comment feels like I have written it myself
How old is this drama?
Maryam Daneen don’t know
@@dr.navneetkaur02 i can talk to you
I appreciate your pain, I understand ,because I have sister, I don't know, her marry with to who, I also married person,
Main ye serial dekh ke bahot royi meri story isse bhi kahin dardnak hai mere uper jo bhi guzri wo sab yaad aa gya mujhe Allah aisa kisi dushman ke saath bhi na kare😭😭😭😭
I hate these typical fathers who always admit the faults of their daughters in front of the law family... hate this culture of dominating families of boys.. pity
If he is going to fight the in laws will make her life hell it is already hell and he does not want to make it more complicated. Muskhil mein gaday ko bhi baap banana padta hai. And more over they knew that once her husband who is other idiot will take her with him. Our society needs to change these in laws behave like girl side people are not worth it😡😡😡😡
I think Mansoor has proved to be better father .. betyon ke liye maan baap hi hotay hain ab wo bhi beja kamzori dikhaen tau betyan kahan jayen
I remember my father even believed what my in laws said about me.It created gap between me and parents.
@@PreetiSharma-wq9lk hamari society ne mardon k dimag me ye feed kar dia hai ki sari galtiyan auraton ki hoti hai.....lekin ye feed karne wali bhi him auraten hi hoti hain jo apne bachchin k dimag me dalti hain......aurat hi aurat ki dushman hoti hai
@@asmaazmi2937 you are right may be.but parents should totally support their kids anyway.now I am a mother too,I will always stand with my kids come what may.atleast any outsider cannot influence me.when one day my father said ki tumhare inlaws ki baatein sun k muje sharm aati hai.that thing broke me completely from within.
Wah kya bna diya writer ne, this is happening in my relationship even before marriage....
I was came from very educated family , even I m very qualified , I had my own car at the age of 18, did computer diploma but no one had valued me even my sister in law taunted me that I didn't get job of rs.2000 , my mother in law didn't allow me to touch the car, small town but my father-in-law and husband were good and supportive but never argue with my mother in law, now time has changed I m living independent with my beautiful childern in a big city, now no one has daring to insult me...it took 20 years...
Respect for you
Ye deakh kr apni bacchion ki yaad a gyi... Itna pdhaya likhaya kbhi kisi se koi galat baat nhi suni kbhi Lekin dono ki burai unki Saas se suni... Ladki hone se Dar nhi lgta bs unki kismat se Dar lgta h..
The way she crys by hiding herself ... I used to go at terrace and cry by seeing the sky .. and seek help from Allah SWT
Same here
I like that shehwar is speaking up for herself
That 100% my story i am from well off family but khula khana pena... but my in law’s are from
Middle class with limited resourses... i can feel shahwar my heart... i really have hard time adjusting in inlaws
My mother in law loves me like her daughter....she always cares me....she helps me in every household chores...im so lucky...and my husband also loves me so much🥰
Allah's Blessings
Same here❤ Alhamdulillah
You are blessed
🛑Please remember : Jab shohar biwi ko izzat aur ehmiyat na de, to uss ki family bhi apni bahu ko kabhi izzat aur ehmiyat nahi denge!!! 🚨🚧
Exactly
Same happening with me
Cent per cent right....I agree
U r absolutely right
Yes
Duniya me agar koi sachhi NAFRAT karta hai toh wo saas apni bahu se😡
Nhi meri saas mujhe apni betiyo Se ziyada karti h m bhot lucky ho
@@anabiyakhan322 nafal perha kro
Allah ka shukar bi aada karti ho apni jaidat m hisaa bi diya h our apna jigar ka tokra bi 😘😘😘
@@wajihashakeel9951 💞
Not always true
Soooooooooo much reality..every married girl faced these situation in our society......
Agreed
So much reality ufffff feeling like my story
Exactly ......most of us faced the same situation.......saas log itni zalim q hoti hain?
@@asmaazmi2937 Aisi saas ko maza chakhana chahiye. Bilkul bhi chup chap yeh toxicity bardahsht nai karni chaiye.
@@Raza__12 ek ghar ko ghar banane k liye bahot kuch bardasht karna padta hai.....bahot kuch sacrifice karna padta hai.......bahot lafzon k teer jhelne hote hain.....lekin agar shauhar sath dene wala ho to aurat ye sab sah leti hai...but ye saas ye bhi kahan hone deti hai......unko to ye bardasht hi nahi hota ki uska beta apni biwi se muhabbat kare.......lagai bujhai kar k dil se utaar dena chahti hai......aur humari society bhi kuch is tarah ki hai......agar biwi se muhabbat kare....use ek glass pani bhi de de to JORU KA GULAM ban jata hai......I just fade up from this sasurali enviornment and society......aurat hi aurat ki dushman hoti hai......for instance ....saas hi bahu ki dushman hoti hai....and both r woman....ALLAH hame buri saas ban ne se bachaye.....aameen
Pakistan really got some jewels in their industry....Sanam Baloch, Mahira Khan, Sanam Saeed, Maya Ali, Sajal Ali, Yumna Zaidi and many more ...no one can beat their acting skills ❤️
You forgot Saba Qamar....n Sanam Jung
He was a lier as he committed promise to take her along with him. He was a cheater and whole family also. So how can a female live with a deceived person. Very wrong decesion taken by shahwar and his parents. I am totally disagree with the main idea of this drama.
Exactly
Main idea of the drama yehi ha k ak aurat hi apna ghar banati ha chahy wo compromise kr k hi ku na banay, and my mother has also gone through these things but her patience and compromise becomes the result the result of her children happy and successful life
But this happens in real life also. It's a similar story of mine.
It's reality.
Totally correct
Main achchi mehman ban bhi jau, to o log achche mejban kabhi nahi ban sakte....
What a line
Heart 💔 when she says she doesn’t feel like going back and misses her family so much
Put such inlaws and husband in dustbin🪣 my suggestion to every sister who's going through this. Every sister has right to live her life peacefully
Exactly
بے شک اللہ صبر کرنے والوں کے ساتھ ہے❤❤❤
I litterally am continuously crying, this drama is so lit.
Hugz
This episode made me cry ,exactly same happened to me in my life when first time my mum and brother came to visit me ,
Exact same words
Fault lies with Shehwar abbo.
Girls like shehwar must not b married to the guys belong to the low status.
Mansoor mother seems a bit greedy woman. She wants girl frm upper class on her own terms
I'm also in this situation
@@rubyanand3367 wish u best of luck.
U may learn from Shehwar and her Father, how they gracefully, slowly and gradually tackled the situation and time has changed in their favour.
@@fkhan1204 Thanks for ur wishes and encouragement
@@rubyanand3367 pleasure 😊
No Asa nahi boltey waqet or halath insan ko Asa. bana daytey hai
Same as my husband's mother this drama pushed me back in those days...
My husband's mother is also same as shewars
Devar is so sweet
This is my fav drama and I am watching this 4th time...I feel this is a story of my mother and I feel her so closely while watching these episodes
It still hurts that such people and such thinkings still exist .😞. Becoz of Such kind of in-laws ,parents are scared of giving birth to girls. God bless all the girls with good in-laws.
Yeah rt .... they want educated dil just to boost up their societal status..... and then put her down to boost their own ego
😭
Ye chair py beithny wala scene dekh kr... uffffffffff.. mi b bht ratien aisy e jaag k rooti rehti thi.. fajar k baad ja k kahin neend ati thi. Mere husband so jaty thy.unki ankh khulti b thi mujhy dekh k muu mor k so jaty thy
The way in which her saas treated her is very heart broken
I remember when I faced brutal domestic violence. From my husband....my parents still told me....dekh lo thoda Seh lo sabar kar lo.....I was more disappointed with my parents then my husband
Did you divorce him? Please say you did.
Ya Allah!! Hope you're safe and happy now 😭
How are you aditi now?
This is every girl story I guess
Amazing drama👏👏 the place, the music, the characters, the actors, the vibe everythng is so good.. watching it for the second time.. 🙌🙌👍👍 a must watch..
Each and every dialogue / scenes of this drama makes me cry 😢
Praise for saba faisal for playing so beautifully the role of a SaaS.
Yes, she played good saas role आईना दुल्हन का
Yes she looked a proper witch
Whenever I watch this serial how husband misunderstand his wife always and dont support her..in old age they understand that life partner is only important person of life whn it's too late and all the bad behaviour can't be forget
Yesss🙂
@@meherunnissa3602I have seen some old men also talking to wife rudely after 30-40 years of marriage and telling ‘ go to your father’s house’ .
Same happened with me for so many years
The moment 14:27 saase ese hi kitchen me aake chillati hai aur hamare sar per dance karti hai..kitni reality batai he isme..and the way saas raise her voice is just so relatable..😥😥muje apne sab din yaad aa rahe..crying
Be strong
mere papa mummy bhi ek din aise
hi bethe the mujrim ki tarha.unka gunah tha ki wo beti wale the.muje bhi laga the ki mere papa ka sarr jhuk gaya meri wajah se.
So said 4 you dear
😔
Mere sath bhi hua hai Or ho rha hai
@@aslam9546 this too shall pass dear. One day you will be free
Mere saath bhi aisa hi hua h ladki k parents bahut majboor hote h
I know someone who does not let her mother visit her in laws because she knows how innocent her mom is and how bitter is her sas. These stories are still relatable even in 2022
Repeatable
I am going through the same... Even I forbid my parents to come to my place.. & feel extremely bad..
@@amritak1978 it is alright, at least we protect our parents from hurtful comments of in laws
2023 I’m again watching this absolutely amazing drama .. my heart aches for sharwar .. sending love and hugs 🤗 from Canada . I hope no girls ever face this !
Story of every woman but the way it has been executed is excellent hats off to the artists writer nd director
Background Music And Murree vibes is a whole mood 🎶❤️ So peaceful
Everyone deserves a devar like Saud
It's very sad.. where ever you go. Mindset never change.. I still remember and it still hurts...
They want upper class girls because she will bring expensive gifts. And that gift will be utilised at their daughter's marriage.
Bilkul sahi
I watched this serial above 5 times, still can't stop myself from watching it again
Me too.. I have watched it countless times.. still watching it
Really muje bhi superb 😘
Seems like every newlywed girls faces all these stuffs... so sad to see that how life change after marriage. Exactly same happened 😢
There are good marriages too, always remember it. Whatever they are showing should never be accepted as a norm. This is not what a standard marriage is.
Yes cuz in real life the fathers of girls are not as idiotic as Shehwars father is.
This is exactly the standard of marriage in Pakistan what are you talking about? 95 percent marriages are like this what else is a standard for you?
@@theultimatebrowngirl It might the the first standard of your family and khandan but everyone is like this. Speak for yourself only.
So true... This is such a well written and enacted...... Happened with soo many of married women...
My favorite series. I have seen it 3 times and cry every times. Sanam baloch 👌👌👌 superb performance
Happy ending drma name btye
every bhabi needs a brother like Saud ❣
Real culprit is shawar dad ,who is turning blind eye on every thing
No he's always on right point
Unhi ki wjh se Shehwar aur Mansoor ka relation sahi hua tha.
@@archnarawat1416 sahi hua? Lol what a joke? Burhapay me sahi hua? Woh burhapa jab dur-e-shehwar bar bar apne mazi ki talkhion ko yad krti ha, the prime period of life she spent in utter disgrace and mental agony!
Can you believe hiw much I am crying right now. It's 2:30am and I am crying like i am dureshhwar. I just can't explain my feelings😭😭😭. It's not a drama it's reality. I have seen families like these
Devar ka rol acha h 😌
yes
Isliye Rasulullah SAW ne kaha k apne kuf me shadi kro
Aur ye serial ek perfect example h is bat ka
Ufffh mjhy apna time yaad agaya mery sathb same yehi hoa tha meri saas ny b mery ma baap ko apny ghr bula k zaleel kia tha aur meri jo kefiat thi ya mery Allah kesa waqt tha
So sad 😭
Haaayeeee. Ab aap theek hain? 😭
Yes mry 7 b but ab SAS achi h
same my story too for 13 years.but my husband always supported me.so I survived
Alhamdulillah Allah ny mery sary badly ly liye meri saas k sath buht kuch bura hoa jo sb ma ny dekha bt ma ny unhy maaf kardia lekin shayed Allah ny nahi kia wo abhi b hain bt buht bury haal ma me buht achi hoon Allah ny mjhy naik aulad sy nawaza ha jitna shukr karo km ha
Beautiful drama on girls life.. Very well portrayed sanam baloch acting is just woww👌
Watching this & reading the comments makes me think I should be so grateful to my in-laws & my husband they never gave me hard time maybe just a little bit when I wasn't able to go outside when ever I wanted lol.
Same here
I'm literary crying and seeing my life....
I live in US. I got married in India. My Saas was also an extremely domineering woman. Often I thought, she was insane.
Anyway, that's ancient history.
In my opinion, intellectual and social compatibilities are extremely important for any relationship to flourish.
May almighty bestow his blessings to each daughter, Best of luck to all besties ❤
Beta haq ki bt krne wala ho to bivia aise rulti ni ae . Mansur jese bete to hmesha maa ke pallu se bandhe rhe to thk rhte ae bivia ni lani chahye inke lye .
Deewar ji is soo gentle man
ماحول کا فرق ۔۔زندگی تباہ۔ کیوں نہیں سمجھتے ماں باپ ۔۔۔۔۔زندگی کے حالات دیکھ کر لگتا ھے واقعی بیٹیاں زحمت ھوتی ھیں
G insan majbore hota hai rishtey nahi miltey Kya ho gay parents ko jitna Dard hota hai otna kisi ko b nahi hai jab ap hod Mother phir pata Chaley gay mokamil zaat srif Allah kiy hai Zindagi main sab Koch ak sath mil jata Jo ap k naseeb main ho gay wo zaroor milay ga cheazey bad main b mil jati hai but achey log nahi miltey waqet or halath insan ko asa bana daytey hai
@@nehadar7644 jo zondgi khrb hoi?
@@ayeshamehmood68 koi bat nahi Yah dunayia hai Ahrat ki fikar karo k wo harab. na ho
@@nehadar7644 g
@@ayeshamehmood68 Jo ap k sath Bora karta hai os ka Amal os k sath hai ap Allah per chor do wasey os ki saas b bori nahi hai bus waqet or halath nai asa os ko bana diy kisi k Barey main Bora sochney c pahley os ki jaga hod ko rakh k soch lo
I feel so hurt to see when your in-laws always try to humiliate you and your husband doesn't even support you, why do husbands become blind and can't even see negativity in their family, I love to watch this drama cause I have been going through such situations.
Shaadi waha Karo, jahan izzat aur ehmiyat mile...
Jaha v shadi ho izzat nhi milti
@Monika Garg yeha to suxh h phely kch phr kxh
Aur yeh kaise pata chalega ki izzat aur ehmiyat milegi? Shaadi se pehele kuch aur phir shaadi ke baad kuch aur hi rang badal lete hai
I don't know how many times i have watched this drama..loved it
I know