Nothing is more attractive than a religious man .That being said most parents dont want to get their kids married they want them to look for husband/wife by themselves and most are approaching there 30s and are straying away from the teaching of the deen !
However in this day and age u get those who are fake. After marriage u find put they aren't even praying and didn't even know their religion but they put a very good front on. May Allah swt protect us ameen
U should look for religion and character someone may seem religious but can treat u as if ur trash so make sure to look for red flags as some guys can hide it very well
@@786SID SubhanAllah that is really scary. This is one of the main reasons we should pray istikhara before marriage. And always ensure we are asking around about that individual
2:35 when translating the verse please mention that your paraphrasing when your adding “don’t you dare” so that the people don’t mix between the verse and your way of explaining it. Jazakallahu Khair
Well the most common reason for me being rejected for marriage is because not of my wealth, not of my religion/deen, not even my age (37) its because of being Pathan, despite going to 11 muslim marriage events since 2019, on muslim databases to find a potential spouse. Its very difficult for me to find some one tbh.
Does your husband not have protective jealousy over you? Does he not mind showing you or letting you talk to his friends and non mehram relatives? Does he not mind you leaving your house without covering properly or having a face full of makeup? Does he not mind that thousands of other men can see your photos on social networking sites such as facebook and the like? If not then there is a huge problem with his imaan as the obligation of hijab isnt just on your head, its on your husbands head too because if he doesnt have protective jealous of you he is a Dayyooth and prohibited from junnah.
So please seriously before considering someone or if you are already in a marriage advice them or leave, bc this is a serious attribute a husband must have and it’s honestly disgusting if it’s not there, SubhanAllah how does he feel comfortable with you outside without hijab? Allahu’mustan. May Allah guide us
“Three people will not enter paradise, and Allaah will not look to them on the Day of Judgement: the one who is disobedient to his parents, the woman who imitates men and the ad-Dayooth.” (Ahmad)
@@mohamedismail6273 no, she means that as in it's a man's responsibility to protect his wife and look after her, to help her in he deen. So if he lets her go out with makeup and tight etc without advising her, without trying to help her with deen then he will also get sinned for it. But Inshallah if he keeps advising her and she still does not listen then she for him is a test and he must remain patient and have trust in Allah. And also maybe he may not be doing right by her. As in she is lacking in feeling affection, love and attention from him and seeking else where. But just have trust in Allah and always try to fulfil your duty man or woman.
I dont believe this is right for a few reasons. There are brothers who are (GOOD PRACTICING) who can't get married. they are 30+ year old incels who can't find a women because she doesn't fit this criteria Another reason is lots of marriages from my family side who are really religious and did it the right Islamic halal way failed. Also my parents marriage was terrible even though they were both religious, praying 5 times a day. as a kid they put me through madrasa they argued and fought almost everyday and night about the smallest things. I dont believe the women this brother is trying to sell us EXISTS. People are horrible. relationships can be toxic. nobody is perfect i would love to meet a sister who was so perfect and religious but she simply doesn't exist in this current dunya. and if she does she will be 1 out of 10 million. Be realistic bro stop selling the brothers pipe dreams. I know many brothers who are in their 30s and are incels. While Muslim women chase western men with money marriage in islam should be easy. simple stop making it so hard and complicated like you have to jump through 100 hoops. when haram is so much easier
Brother you might have faced hardship but don’t paint every woman with one brush. Just like you/those brothers, the’re righteous women out their also facing a hard time finding the right spouse, but we all just have to get rid of that negative energy of what we have seen and put your trust in Allah, and also preparing yourself to be that perfect guy for that perfect woman your looking for because many of us both men and women claim to want perfect spouses yet we ourselves are not perfect ie; we have false Aqeedah, we want women that fear Allah but we ourselves don’t fear Allah, we want hafidhul Qur’an but we have never made an effort to become one ourselves, we want hijabis but our phones book/social media is full of non mahram women, we want traditional women but we ourselves are not traditional men (we need to be real) like Allah said in Surat Nur:26; “impure women are for impure men and impure men are for impure women pure women are for pure men and pure men are for pure women.………..…” And remember, Allah tests each of us differently some people out their have seen the worst of the worst but they still have their heads up high (trust in Allah) Do not despair but again do not blame someone else for the mistakes of others. A muslim should always think good of others Jazaka’Allahu khair
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Literally crying at how you described Allah's mercy towards us, at the end
Nothing is more attractive than a religious man .That being said most parents dont want to get their kids married they want them to look for husband/wife by themselves and most are approaching there 30s and are straying away from the teaching of the deen !
However in this day and age u get those who are fake. After marriage u find put they aren't even praying and didn't even know their religion but they put a very good front on. May Allah swt protect us ameen
U should look for religion and character someone may seem religious but can treat u as if ur trash so make sure to look for red flags as some guys can hide it very well
@@786SID SubhanAllah that is really scary. This is one of the main reasons we should pray istikhara before marriage. And always ensure we are asking around about that individual
2:35 when translating the verse please mention that your paraphrasing when your adding “don’t you dare” so that the people don’t mix between the verse and your way of explaining it. Jazakallahu Khair
May Allah Bless You
Correct
Love from Australia! Barakallahu feekum.
Jazakhullahkhayr keep up the uploads!
بارك الله فيك
Very beneficial talk here akhi May Allah preserve you and keep you firm in this dawah, and keep benefiting the youth.
AssalamuAlaikum, this is a beautiful lecture. May Allah (Subhanawata'ala) bless you for your efforts. Ameen
wa alaykomus-salam wa rahmato Allahi wa barakatuh
JazakhAllah Khair for uploading this!
جزاك الله خيرا
Powerful reminder
all those lectures you advertise on your ig brother please put them on yt
Well the most common reason for me being rejected for marriage is because not of my wealth, not of my religion/deen, not even my age (37) its because of being Pathan, despite going to 11 muslim marriage events since 2019, on muslim databases to find a potential spouse. Its very difficult for me to find some one tbh.
May Allah grant us Alll a righteous partner Aameen…I’m looking in shaa Allah
can you put the madting in the masjid series on the podcast app
Yes brudda ! Keeping it real
Respect is Given whether your Naked or Dressed. You can see your Mom accidentally Naked. But you Respect her. What a mindset These religion Have.
Will there be a video for what to look for in a man ?
He mentioned that within the video too
He has those Videos in his channel
May Allah preserve ustadh!!
May Ask where and who did Ustadh Yasir study under?
15:40 May Allah forgive our (qawwam) parents and brothers, if only they knew how a big of a test and fitnah this is
Does your husband not have protective jealousy over you? Does he not mind showing you or letting you talk to his friends and non mehram relatives? Does he not mind you leaving your house without covering properly or having a face full of makeup? Does he not mind that thousands of other men can see your photos on social networking sites such as facebook and the like? If not then there is a huge problem with his imaan as the obligation of hijab isnt just on your head, its on your husbands head too because if he doesnt have protective jealous of you he is a Dayyooth and prohibited from junnah.
So please seriously before considering someone or if you are already in a marriage advice them or leave, bc this is a serious attribute a husband must have and it’s honestly disgusting if it’s not there, SubhanAllah how does he feel comfortable with you outside without hijab? Allahu’mustan.
May Allah guide us
“Three people will not enter paradise, and Allaah will not look to them on the Day of Judgement: the one who is disobedient to his parents, the woman who imitates men and the ad-Dayooth.” (Ahmad)
What does it. Mean on husband head too
Does it mean u r telling ur hubby to water headscarf
@@mohamedismail6273 no, she means that as in it's a man's responsibility to protect his wife and look after her, to help her in he deen. So if he lets her go out with makeup and tight etc without advising her, without trying to help her with deen then he will also get sinned for it. But Inshallah if he keeps advising her and she still does not listen then she for him is a test and he must remain patient and have trust in Allah. And also maybe he may not be doing right by her. As in she is lacking in feeling affection, love and attention from him and seeking else where. But just have trust in Allah and always try to fulfil your duty man or woman.
haqq!
6:30 😂😂😂
33:50
Wa alaykumu s-salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh ustadh
As salamu 3aleykum can your tell me the logical that you use for your thumbnails
But we're all Allah's slave arent we 6:10
he's talking about those who were slaves of other men
First
Makeup is haram?
Assalamu Alaikum. Yes it is haram to wear makeup outside as it attracts men and cause fitna. I can answer any other questions IN-SHA-ALLAH
@@thehourglassfan3515 Islam will win wherever you try to stop it or not. May Allah guide you.
I dont believe this is right for a few reasons.
There are brothers who are (GOOD PRACTICING) who can't get married. they are 30+ year old incels who can't find a women because she doesn't fit this criteria
Another reason is lots of marriages from my family side who are really religious and did it the right Islamic halal way failed.
Also my parents marriage was terrible even though they were both religious, praying 5 times a day. as a kid they put me through madrasa
they argued and fought almost everyday and night about the smallest things.
I dont believe the women this brother is trying to sell us EXISTS. People are horrible. relationships can be toxic. nobody is perfect
i would love to meet a sister who was so perfect and religious but she simply doesn't exist in this current dunya. and if she does she will be 1 out of 10 million.
Be realistic bro stop selling the brothers pipe dreams. I know many brothers who are in their 30s and are incels. While Muslim women chase western men with money
marriage in islam should be easy. simple stop making it so hard and complicated like you have to jump through 100 hoops. when haram is so much easier
Brother you might have faced hardship but don’t paint every woman with one brush.
Just like you/those brothers, the’re righteous women out their also facing a hard time finding the right spouse, but we all just have to get rid of that negative energy of what we have seen and put your trust in Allah, and also preparing yourself to be that perfect guy for that perfect woman your looking for because many of us both men and women claim to want perfect spouses yet we ourselves are not perfect ie; we have false Aqeedah, we want women that fear Allah but we ourselves don’t fear Allah, we want hafidhul Qur’an but we have never made an effort to become one ourselves, we want hijabis but our phones book/social media is full of non mahram women, we want traditional women but we ourselves are not traditional men (we need to be real) like Allah said in Surat Nur:26; “impure women are for impure men and impure men are for impure women pure women are for pure men and pure men are for pure women.………..…”
And remember, Allah tests each of us differently some people out their have seen the worst of the worst but they still have their heads up high (trust in Allah)
Do not despair but again do not blame someone else for the mistakes of others.
A muslim should always think good of others
Jazaka’Allahu khair
The screams I haven’t left the west. If you want to a Muslim country you’d see hundreds of Niqbis in the streets tens of them a day.