People should not encourage people to be fat, its simple to know that being obese is unhealthy, people shouldn't bully them but advise them to get healthier.
then again dont go up to a random ass fat guy you dont know and try telling him to eat healthy. it aint none of your business lol. unless its your freind
@@jayjay-cl1eo I thought they were going for a meme template judging from the poor punctuation and lack of cohesion. I seriously cannot tell you what was going through their mind when they wrote this shit. It probably reads"imagine blaming other people" but again it seems too incomplete and rushed right.
Yeah they can’t blame other people when they are the one that decided to stay that way like I’m fat but i don’t use my fatness for attention and sympathy I just feels cringe seeing a fat person use their fatness as a Personality, just have an actual personality doesn’t matter how big or small your are just be comfortable with your body no matter the weight
People just don’t understand how it feels to lose weight. I went from being 225 pounds a year and a half ago to 160 today. Even though I still don’t have my dream physique, the difference in how people view me and my confidence when talking to women has gone up. Just gotta learn that you come first in your life.
I don’t know… but bullying people for being fat definitely isn’t . I’d say to encourage healthiness, but unless they’re in serious conditions, I’d say to mind your business.
@@officialcouncilofbaf1activ613u got a youngboy profile pic, u prolly have no friends a non existent relationship w ur father and the only escape from reality is going on the internet to get roasted so sit down
In my opinion, there is not really any excuses. I don’t have anything against fat people, but people shouldn’t use dumb excuses. Even some diseases/conditions aren’t excuses. (This is a bit of a bad example because she isn’t “fat” but I’ll use it anyways) my mother has severe asthma, and when I say severe, I MEAN SEVERE. But although she can’t run, or barely even jog, she stills goes for walks as much as possible and he is in great condition! I’m so proud of her. Even little things, like lifting 1 pound weights or going for a half a mile walk does more than you think. If you are overweight and reading this, don’t be ashamed or sad because of it. Use it as a lesson or motivation to keep doing as much as you can to better yourself as a person.
I personally see it as not saying it's okay to be fat, but not shaming them or bullying them, because that can lead to people having eating disorders, or getting depressed (many cases are already caused by depression), and many times won't help people lose weight because they already know it's bad, of course that's not always the case, but it's still kind of messed up how many people treat people who are overweight.
Ngl as someone who went from so underweight it was a threat to my health, to becoming incredibly sick and slowly losing weight, I want y’all to know that I’m with y’all in spirit, we won’t give up. You be with me as I try to keep working despite health complications, and I’ll be with y’all while you work to achieve healthier bodies. We in this together
I was obese from 5th grade to sophomore year of high school, and it sucked. The constant roasts, body dysmorphia, terrible self esteem, and just general self hatred was crazy at times. Being fat is definitely not a good thing and unless you have an actual medical problem, better yourself. Join some school sports teams, or go to the gym about 3 times a week if you're not in school, and eat right. I do believe that bullying fat people is wrong ( unless it's with your very close friends, and even then, not harshly ). Instead, try and lead them towards a better lifestyle.
i don’t agree with bullying, people should encourage others to get fit instead but most people don’t even care about other people’s health, they only care about their looks and the fact that it might inconvenience the fit person. people are so close minded about how being fit is supposed to look, it’s different for everyone and i get that you can usually tell if someone is morbidly obese but bullying can be counterproductive. there’s so many better ways to go about it. Don’t come at me, this is just my thoughts on it
Bro thank you. You just inspired me to start running. It hurts rn but that’s because I’m out of shape. I promise you bro. I’m doing my best. Just know you have made my day.
As someone who lived their childhood on the heavier side and now lives as a complete specimen of unrivaled power, I say: meh, who cares. I've learned that people would rather play mental gymnastics than actually get on the rings. It's not that hard, but some don't even want to try.
I personally dont really mind a little bit of chub, but as long as youre still healthy and are eating balanced youre fine imo as long as youre doing well mentally
Man, I wasn't really fat ever, so I don't know how it is for people that get slandered for being 'slightly overweight.' But I can tell for sure, you'll feel a lot happier when you start working out. I started 5 months ago, and I wasn't fat or anything; I was actually underweight. But I can definitely tell that I'm happier than I was before. Back then, I didn't really look at myself in the mirror. But now, there's not a day I don't look at it, even if it's just a quick glance, like "Who's that hottie." Before I started, I never bothered to look at my mirror. So yeah, I feel like my self-worth has improved a decent amount. I also started eating healthy since then and even learned to cook some meals just so I could keep going at it. You'll never know if you don't start. I also received a lot of praise. I'm sure everyone has a kink for praise, even if they don't know how to accept the compliment. It just makes me happy that people notice your progress and all the hard effort you put into yourself. Though I'm not saying this was just for other people's sake. I looked good enough; it was more for my sake, like "there are a few spots I could improve upon to be a better me" that sort of mindset.
I used to be 260 from highschool to age 23 until i finally made a effort to eat healthier and going to the gym after work. Got to around 210 until the pandemic hit and i gained most of it back. I got it back down to 225ish, but here are some things I noticed when i started losing weight: Back pain went away, my allergies never came back ( used to have seasonal allergies but haven't had them for over 5 year), never got sick, i dont struggle standing up anymore, acne went WAY down, got into new hobbies (biking, hiking, and recently boxing), sleep much better, and my self esteem went from rock bottom to actually have confidence in my self. The thing is, even before i decided to lose weight, i never once believed that I was healthy. I knew drinking soda on a daily basis and parking my ass on the couch was entirely my own choice and i was paying the consequences for it. There where times where my doctor told me i was close to being diabetic if i didn't shape up. My father went through a similar situation and got his weight in check. Its one thing to know your fat, its another to deny being healthy and improving your body.
My take is: Don’t feel like you are a mistake because you are overweight. I was always the biggest kid growing up and I would’ve been mentally healthier if I stopped seeing my appearance as I constant problem. However, be healthy too. You can accept your body but also take care of yourself, maybe find a good physical hobby too. I started football a few years ago and although im still a big dude, i have a lot of muscle on me now and my weight is made up of high proteins and a lot of fruits too. So accept yourself for who you are, but push yourself to be even better if you can. I also highly disagree with the promotion of fat empowerment though and do think if we promote having a healthier lifestyle we would all benefit.
im kind of in my fat era rn and i think fully accepting being fat is kinda messed up because it could encourage super unhealthy diets which could give you lifelong problems like diabetes and high cholesterol. im not saying that fully bullying someone for being heavy is good but nudging someone or pushing someone in the right direction sometimes can change someones life for the better.
My opinion is that you should not bully someone because of there fat but tell them to work out and being fat and you know you could do something about it is worse then anything
I honestly am neutral in the whole fat debate. People are People. I absolutely do not accept any type of bullying or harrassment when it comes to the other people's body type, but I do see that there are clear cons to an unhealthy lifestyle. Idk, maybe I'm just talking out my ass and don't really know whatever the fuck but that's kinda my two sense on the subject.....
In my opinion, I feel like in some parts of the video he’s saying some truth, but at the same time he isn’t because I feel like it’s OK to want to improve how you look and want other people to improve as well, especially if they’re very unhealthy, but where I draw the line is when you make fun of people for being fat. the whole terminology of fat acceptance has change meaning various times, but what it actually means, is just too ACCEPT fat people for example, another way to use fat acceptance in a way that makes sense to you is thinking how it is for other people for example, back when I was in seventh grade, I remember kids used to bully me a lot for being fat, and everybody hated me ONLY because I was fat, no matter how nice I was no matter how much I try to fit in. I never did because I was fat and I feel like that’s the reason fat acceptance is a thing because back then in seventh grade, I remember when nobody wanted to be my friend there was only a certain group of people I could be friends with because they didn’t hate me solely on the reason that I was fat. I feel like the guy who made the video didn’t try to look into fat acceptance more because he was bashing Lizzo, but the reason Lizzo does all of this isn’t necessarily to only support fat people it’s for everybody, anybody who feels insecure about their body because this guy he hates fat people so much for what reason exactly? As he mentioned he used to be fat too, so he may know the struggle or he may not but a lot of people go through bullying because of being fat and even though they should become healthier, and even though they want to become healthier, it is a process you can’t just go from fat to skinny by night. That is why fat acceptance exist, because fat people should not feel like they don’t fit in in certain places just because they’re fat. And fat people should not be bullied just because they’re fat not to mention that they also shouldn’t be discriminated against because again they are fat. I just feel like he doesn’t really get it because it’s it was a process and still is a process for me to become more fit but in the meanwhile, it’s good to see people in the media who are like me because who knows this may in fact, help somebody it may help somebody feel happy and feel more included and represented in the media because they don’t see a lot of people like that and they think that they are not pretty and no matter fat or skinny. You should feel beautiful and that’s the point of fat acceptance again I feel like this guy should look more into what he was talking about.
The only thing being fat gave me was a eating disorder ( im trying to lose weight now but with my ed it’s so hard I’m still going to try either way I’m not that big I lost some weight so im very happy)
I’m a 240 pound male and I’m happy with my body i’m chubby but I carry it out my body pretty decently no where near someone like nikado avacado. I don’t need other people trying to convince me I should hate myself and my body. No one should tell me how I feel. Do I want to lose weight? Yes because I want to live a happy healthy life. But it’s no one else’s business to tell me what pace I should go. (Also I think that encouraging being overweight isn’t good but people should not be bullied for it or reminded constantly that they’re fat. Trust me, they know.) Also also, KEEP IN MIND SOME PEOPLE HAVE EATING DISORDERS AND SOME HAVE HEALTH CONDITIONS DON’T JUDGE ESPECIALLY IF YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT THEY ARE GOING THROUGH! (Binge eating disorder, PCOS, multiple Liver Diseases to name a few)
i am a bit fat but i have a stuff to help like Squats, Green apples and Oranges and walk 2.5 miles from school to home every day cause when i was younger my mother walked me to school and we lived miles away so that is how she lost all her weight but the sad part is that my mother keeps on saying "your not fat" when i literally have a stomach and people calling me fat so i exercise anyways :/
As someone who is about exactly 6 feet tall, My weight is on the border between healthy and overweight. But genuinely impresses me when people Weighing upwards of 800 pounds are still able to walk.
7:23 Imma be honest. In the 2 countries i've lived for a decade each, i've seen so many "fat" people but they work all day and do everything like the next person, no health issues or anything, but only in America have i seen so many people like that (other countries have it too but very rare)
Imo, I see fat being ok in 2 scenarios: actual illness, or when people know they are fat, but are working on it (staring to do exercises, healthy diet etc.)
No. As a society, we should discourage unhealthy behavior. We also shouldn’t be encouraging unhealthy behavior. Fat acceptance is the embodiment of the latter.
Tbh I agree w this, and it sadly even spreads to children in most the u.s and pacific island countries and states etc. Because, come on we shouldn’t be seeing kids in like 5th grade that can hardly even run a few minutes because they weigh like 180-200 lbs and when someone tries to talk w the, it’s seen as rude or inappropriate even though you’re trying to help with their mental and physical state and the. You have the other fat people who know they’re a fat chubby blubber back bubba kush body, but still don’t want to lose weight and either blame it on others or just simply ignore the fact that it can kill them if they keep it up. But instead of going outside and walking and jogging or even going to the gym, they go on to or on social media and spread their own propaganda to make themselves feel better about the fact that they’re at higher chance of dying to health issues and then proceed to call people “fat phobic”. Or worse, even make videos like that one fat acceptance song - “There’s nothing wrong with my body, fat is not a dirty word”. And tbh in all seriousness, they just need to stop being lazy and get up and also stop saying “I’ll do it tomorrow” *which turns into never*. It’s just sad.
As a fat person I can confirm that fat acceptance is wrong, and even though tommy was joking he is right, we need to get our lazy asses and take walks, run, work out, play a big variety of sports and be active, that might not make people shredded but at least it would us more confident and better looking
I hit 100 pounds not to long ago (I’m 14) and I kid you not it’s difficult for me (personally) to gain weight. I’ve always been skinny and I also started to go to the gym as well as try to bulk and in the last few months (maybe like 3-4) after eating all the time and going to the gym I’ve still only gained like 15 pounds as well as going through the “teenager thing that I don’t know If I can say”. My metabolism is super effective and I can eat a lot of stuff and barely gain 0.1 pounds I’m pretty sure it’s a genetic thing.
the only reason i was fat was because of covid. since i couldn't go outside i couldn't get a lot of exercise, and staying inside is really boring so i just ate a lot of food, but ever since then I've been working out more i still am a little fat but not obese.
I think that eating so much you get obese is disordered eating and that it should be treated with the same emotional delicacy anorexia is treated with. Both are mental battles. This is coming from someone who dealt with BED that turned into anorexia.
12:08 my mother can’t even let me go around the houses corner fearing I’ll get kidnapped, then she gets mad when I jokingly say know one would want to kidnap someone like me, the only reason I can go to the gym is thanks to my older sister
In 7th grade I was 210 pounds, and 5 foot 4, now I’m in high school and i weight 150 and am 6’1, everyone made fun of me for being fat, and I was never mad. They were right and I used their words to help myself become the best me
I already feel wounded as soon as I got to the video reaction part cause at leart you Tommy, you make it clear you're joking. Bro *started off* saying fat people piss em off. Its not as if every single human being was subject to making themselves that way mate. Like both my parents got health issues that relate to weight and whatnot, you really gonna get mad at me cause I wasnt blessed with the specific genes to avoid it? Update, Sorta: Bro's term for fat is straight up a blob bro, thats not how the whole term works? Like just say you dont like straight up blobs bro, I dont like em either.
Bro I'm glad we got like minded people who think fat acceptance is not okay. Big W for those people cause it's understandable that it is never okay. You can tell when they're fat they don't take care of themselves. They get irritated more quickly. And depression. (Not gonna go into specific's) I'm against bullying the fat but accepting it is a different story. Alright, I don't want our future to look like BNL. (If you know, you know.)
Does it really matter? If it's not getting to a point where their health is at stake then it isn't your business. Not to mention not everyone's body is meant to be slim too.
What I'm about to say has nothing to do with weight, but during my first year of uni I kept getting McDonalds because it was near my university and I would get myself something to eat there. Before I didn't eat McDonalds much and it was quite rare for me to get it tbh, but I was spending money on fast food as soon as my loans came in. I realised what I was doing to myself months later and made a challenge for myself where I stay away from eating fast food and only eat food from home, and within a month my body started to feel better. I no longer felt like I was rotting from the inside. Home cooked meals are way better.
I started working out couple weeks ago and I can gladly confirm that I feel better mentally and physically it’s hard yes but it’s better than a heart attack
As a fat dude myself I see other fat people who make me realize how weird weight is considered. Cuz the range of obesity is too broad. I've just got a gut and low stamina but i see people whose legs have turned purple from trying to support their weight or people in a mobility scooter loading up on diet coke like its a healthy alternative. But when you see these people who look like amorphous blobs calling for fat acceptance y'all ain't fat y'all are morbidly obese. there is nothing wrong so long as you have the ability to live and function. if you can't walk not because you're handicapped cuz of injury or illness but because you have too much mass for your bones to support there is a problem.
It’s a public health issue that’s getting way too out of hand and having people promoting obesity and saying “it’s ok to be fat” is destroying society. Especially when you live in a country with a socialised health care system the amount of money spent on people who are having health issues due to being overweight is a joke
Everyone should try to be healthy. Your physical health is something that you can control a lot of. Of course you can’t control getting sick, or breaking a bone, but being able to control your muscular system is a huge advantage. You obviously have to be careful because overworking can damage your muscle, to the point you can never work it out again, but not enough people realize that this is one of the aspects of health we are in control of.
Honestly I’ve started fasting every Tuesday and Thursday and working out then and I feel a lot better on those days knowing I’m one step closer to taking care of the issue rather than taking 50 steps back ( or lack there of)
When I was 13 I weighed around 150 pounds 3 years later after quarantine and all that I’m 16 and 135 I think I’m the average weight for 16 year old male now hopefully and being a fat lazy bum is not acceptable
Last year i was kinda killing it with my fat loss a bit I was running every day but one day my feet cramped so badly i couldn't really run but i quit when my feet recovered :( i regret it
We shouldn't enconrage people to be eating sugar we should encourage them to hit the gym because they keep on complaining on tiktok on how they need bigger aisles on airplanes then you got people saying omg this person is fat phobic.
Gained so much muscle within a month and a half lost weight too and tbh i was just a little chubby not even fat or wide but i wanted to be buff and now i am gym is really the best therapy
I wouldn't call myself "fat" but I am definitely on the chubbier side (5 foot 6 and around 160 pounds), and I have to say, that I mostly agree with this video. First, this "fat acceptance" stuff is very similar to feminism, and (some) LGBTQ groups/people, in the sense that people in these groups seem really entitled, and they pretend that them being the way that they are is something special, when it really isn't. Just like being fat, being a woman, or gay, isn't special, and won't win you any awards. You are a person, and that is it. If you are seriously fat, get out and do some exercise. Like I said, I'm not exactly "fat" but chubby, mostly for two reasons: 1. I am pretty lazy 2. A few years ago, I ate too much junk food, and drank way too much soda. Now I eat a normal amount of calories, and have pretty much completely cut drinking soda. However, this has still caused me to be on the bigger side today. However, I have previously tried to lose weight, but couldn't really keep it up, because I wasn't able to keep up with counting calories, and wasn't always able to do 30 minutes of Beat Saber (which is my main form of exercise). This being my main form of exercise is because: 1. I don't really own any gym equipment 2. I don't like gyms (mostly bc the whole subscription thing, and the fact that I am 14, which I feel is too young to be going to a gym) 3. I live in the Pacific Northwest, which has very extreme weather, so in the summer, it get's up to 90 F, and I hate the heat. In the winter, it gets to cold to go outside and do stuff. But, I recently got my first job at a local grocery store, where I do about 6 hours of mostly being up and around a few times a day, so, that's 6 hours of constant exercise, ranging from simply standing around and bagging groceries, to some strength exercise in the form of pushing carts back into the store. Anyways, basically what I'm trying to say is that I agree with this video, although bullying people for being fat isn't okay. However, this "big is beautiful" bullshit is just fat people coping with them being too lazy to commit to losing weight. Also being a girl isn't an excuse.
0:48 ik it's a joke but there is people with that mindset fr and it's just sad because literally there are desises that literally make you fat it's not that easy
short answer no, its not okay. its not like they cant change the amount of fat they have(in most cases), its generally unhealthy to be fat, its genuinely weird to act like you have no control over your body
People should not encourage people to be fat, its simple to know that being obese is unhealthy, people shouldn't bully them but advise them to get healthier.
Agreed
We should start a end obesity movement
then again dont go up to a random ass fat guy you dont know and try telling him to eat healthy. it aint none of your business lol. unless its your freind
Agreed
I was starting to get fat but I stoped eating like big serving and I lost weight
No. Fat acceptance is not a good thing. I’m a fatass myself and I hate myself. I have been working hard and I have been feeling better
It’s great to hear that you’re willing to work for it. Wishing for the best for you 🙏
Hopefully you meet your goal
You got this 😘
Don’t hate yourself if you know you’re doing better for yourself. 💪
That amazing man dont hate yourself but pushing yourself to be better is amazing thing keep up the good work
As a fat mf trying to get exercise this is a W from tommy
Good luck!
Keep it up, brother.
you can do this buddy get those reps in
Your dropped this 👑
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Doing exercise is basically gaining exp for you own body.
Protein bars are like the small monsters, the gym is like a boss fight, and both of them give you exp for your body.
Defeating the gym is like slaying the ender dragons in discord mod terms
And eating healthy are exp boosts
Yeah but it won't change my ugly character
They do have EX in there name
As an employee of the Grim Reaper, I support this "fat acceptance" movement
deadass?
@@Acemam2 hes aliveass
@@Acemam2 literally
@@Acemam2bro did not understand the joke
Oh that was good lmfao
Imagine blaming others for something you inflected on yourself.
Why do ya'll think I'm joking in the comments?
Where's the irony? This ain't funny.
Bro when ur fat I’m gonna tell you this same thing
@@efrains2538don't think it's supposed to be funny
@@jayjay-cl1eo I thought they were going for a meme template judging from the poor punctuation and lack of cohesion. I seriously cannot tell you what was going through their mind when they wrote this shit. It probably reads"imagine blaming other people" but again it seems too incomplete and rushed right.
Yeah they can’t blame other people when they are the one that decided to stay that way like I’m fat but i don’t use my fatness for attention and sympathy I just feels cringe seeing a fat person use their fatness as a Personality, just have an actual personality doesn’t matter how big or small your are just be comfortable with your body no matter the weight
People just don’t understand how it feels to lose weight. I went from being 225 pounds a year and a half ago to 160 today. Even though I still don’t have my dream physique, the difference in how people view me and my confidence when talking to women has gone up. Just gotta learn that you come first in your life.
I have barely even started my journey
@@ernie9538You got this bro
Yes I can be healthy but my ugliness won't change :(
@@PixP6i felt this
Based anime pfp man right here. Based.
I don’t know… but bullying people for being fat definitely isn’t . I’d say to encourage healthiness, but unless they’re in serious conditions, I’d say to mind your business.
True I mean it is their life, if they want to ruin it and their reputation then that’s on them
If bullying is the only way to make them change then it is ok
Bullying builds character
@@officialcouncilofbaf1activ613 Sheeesh look at this andrew tate fan
@@officialcouncilofbaf1activ613u got a youngboy profile pic, u prolly have no friends a non existent relationship w ur father and the only escape from reality is going on the internet to get roasted so sit down
There’s a difference between being healthy and not liking your body vs being very unhealthy and not liking your body
There's also a difference between being fat and obese. Being slightly overweight isn't unhealthy.
@@cultreader9751Exactly
In my opinion, there is not really any excuses. I don’t have anything against fat people, but people shouldn’t use dumb excuses. Even some diseases/conditions aren’t excuses. (This is a bit of a bad example because she isn’t “fat” but I’ll use it anyways) my mother has severe asthma, and when I say severe, I MEAN SEVERE. But although she can’t run, or barely even jog, she stills goes for walks as much as possible and he is in great condition! I’m so proud of her. Even little things, like lifting 1 pound weights or going for a half a mile walk does more than you think. If you are overweight and reading this, don’t be ashamed or sad because of it. Use it as a lesson or motivation to keep doing as much as you can to better yourself as a person.
I got in a fight cuz I said a fat person telling a fat person to eat a bit better was based.
I AM NOT JOKING!
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@@momelendez9691 I wanna say I did, but they will keep saying how friendly fire kills.
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I personally see it as not saying it's okay to be fat, but not shaming them or bullying them, because that can lead to people having eating disorders, or getting depressed (many cases are already caused by depression), and many times won't help people lose weight because they already know it's bad, of course that's not always the case, but it's still kind of messed up how many people treat people who are overweight.
Exactly.
Heck, I see people calling people fat wend they are not.
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you don't even have to be extremally ripped just try to keep your body very healthy
Ngl as someone who went from so underweight it was a threat to my health, to becoming incredibly sick and slowly losing weight, I want y’all to know that I’m with y’all in spirit, we won’t give up. You be with me as I try to keep working despite health complications, and I’ll be with y’all while you work to achieve healthier bodies. We in this together
I was obese from 5th grade to sophomore year of high school, and it sucked. The constant roasts, body dysmorphia, terrible self esteem, and just general self hatred was crazy at times. Being fat is definitely not a good thing and unless you have an actual medical problem, better yourself. Join some school sports teams, or go to the gym about 3 times a week if you're not in school, and eat right. I do believe that bullying fat people is wrong ( unless it's with your very close friends, and even then, not harshly ). Instead, try and lead them towards a better lifestyle.
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i don’t agree with bullying, people should encourage others to get fit instead but most people don’t even care about other people’s health, they only care about their looks and the fact that it might inconvenience the fit person. people are so close minded about how being fit is supposed to look, it’s different for everyone and i get that you can usually tell if someone is morbidly obese but bullying can be counterproductive. there’s so many better ways to go about it. Don’t come at me, this is just my thoughts on it
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I will spread ur cheeks lil bro 😭🙏🏾🙏🏾I betta not catch you in my comments again or it’s finna gon be OVER for you 👾
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@@KohenXYZsorry zaddy :3
Bro thank you. You just inspired me to start running. It hurts rn but that’s because I’m out of shape. I promise you bro. I’m doing my best. Just know you have made my day.
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i started working out just because of fat acceptance cringe. I am still a fatass but i do an hour on treadmill a day and go outside more
Keep working brother you’ll get there soon hope you reach your goal!
@@Mr.ankylo345 thanks
Same
@@Mr.ankylo345 I already lost 5 pound from the first month
Keep up the good work, bro!
As someone who lived their childhood on the heavier side and now lives as a complete specimen of unrivaled power, I say: meh, who cares. I've learned that people would rather play mental gymnastics than actually get on the rings. It's not that hard, but some don't even want to try.
I personally dont really mind a little bit of chub, but as long as youre still healthy and are eating balanced youre fine imo as long as youre doing well mentally
I think its okay to be fat, but not okay to KEEP being fat for health reasons, OBVIOUSLY
Man, I wasn't really fat ever, so I don't know how it is for people that get slandered for being 'slightly overweight.' But I can tell for sure, you'll feel a lot happier when you start working out. I started 5 months ago, and I wasn't fat or anything; I was actually underweight. But I can definitely tell that I'm happier than I was before. Back then, I didn't really look at myself in the mirror. But now, there's not a day I don't look at it, even if it's just a quick glance, like "Who's that hottie." Before I started, I never bothered to look at my mirror. So yeah, I feel like my self-worth has improved a decent amount. I also started eating healthy since then and even learned to cook some meals just so I could keep going at it. You'll never know if you don't start. I also received a lot of praise. I'm sure everyone has a kink for praise, even if they don't know how to accept the compliment. It just makes me happy that people notice your progress and all the hard effort you put into yourself. Though I'm not saying this was just for other people's sake. I looked good enough; it was more for my sake, like "there are a few spots I could improve upon to be a better me" that sort of mindset.
I used to be 260 from highschool to age 23 until i finally made a effort to eat healthier and going to the gym after work. Got to around 210 until the pandemic hit and i gained most of it back. I got it back down to 225ish, but here are some things I noticed when i started losing weight:
Back pain went away, my allergies never came back ( used to have seasonal allergies but haven't had them for over 5 year), never got sick, i dont struggle standing up anymore, acne went WAY down, got into new hobbies (biking, hiking, and recently boxing), sleep much better, and my self esteem went from rock bottom to actually have confidence in my self.
The thing is, even before i decided to lose weight, i never once believed that I was healthy. I knew drinking soda on a daily basis and parking my ass on the couch was entirely my own choice and i was paying the consequences for it. There where times where my doctor told me i was close to being diabetic if i didn't shape up. My father went through a similar situation and got his weight in check.
Its one thing to know your fat, its another to deny being healthy and improving your body.
My take is:
Don’t feel like you are a mistake because you are overweight. I was always the biggest kid growing up and I would’ve been mentally healthier if I stopped seeing my appearance as I constant problem. However, be healthy too. You can accept your body but also take care of yourself, maybe find a good physical hobby too. I started football a few years ago and although im still a big dude, i have a lot of muscle on me now and my weight is made up of high proteins and a lot of fruits too. So accept yourself for who you are, but push yourself to be even better if you can. I also highly disagree with the promotion of fat empowerment though and do think if we promote having a healthier lifestyle we would all benefit.
im kind of in my fat era rn and i think fully accepting being fat is kinda messed up because it could encourage super unhealthy diets which could give you lifelong problems like diabetes and high cholesterol. im not saying that fully bullying someone for being heavy is good but nudging someone or pushing someone in the right direction sometimes can change someones life for the better.
My opinion is that you should not bully someone because of there fat but tell them to work out and being fat and you know you could do something about it is worse then anything
shrek isn’t fat he’s built out of pure muscle
real
that's Kingpin
I honestly am neutral in the whole fat debate. People are People. I absolutely do not accept any type of bullying or harrassment when it comes to the other people's body type, but I do see that there are clear cons to an unhealthy lifestyle. Idk, maybe I'm just talking out my ass and don't really know whatever the fuck but that's kinda my two sense on the subject.....
In my opinion, I feel like in some parts of the video he’s saying some truth, but at the same time he isn’t because I feel like it’s OK to want to improve how you look and want other people to improve as well, especially if they’re very unhealthy, but where I draw the line is when you make fun of people for being fat. the whole terminology of fat acceptance has change meaning various times, but what it actually means, is just too ACCEPT fat people for example, another way to use fat acceptance in a way that makes sense to you is thinking how it is for other people for example, back when I was in seventh grade, I remember kids used to bully me a lot for being fat, and everybody hated me ONLY because I was fat, no matter how nice I was no matter how much I try to fit in. I never did because I was fat and I feel like that’s the reason fat acceptance is a thing because back then in seventh grade, I remember when nobody wanted to be my friend there was only a certain group of people I could be friends with because they didn’t hate me solely on the reason that I was fat. I feel like the guy who made the video didn’t try to look into fat acceptance more because he was bashing Lizzo, but the reason Lizzo does all of this isn’t necessarily to only support fat people it’s for everybody, anybody who feels insecure about their body because this guy he hates fat people so much for what reason exactly? As he mentioned he used to be fat too, so he may know the struggle or he may not but a lot of people go through bullying because of being fat and even though they should become healthier, and even though they want to become healthier, it is a process you can’t just go from fat to skinny by night. That is why fat acceptance exist, because fat people should not feel like they don’t fit in in certain places just because they’re fat. And fat people should not be bullied just because they’re fat not to mention that they also shouldn’t be discriminated against because again they are fat. I just feel like he doesn’t really get it because it’s it was a process and still is a process for me to become more fit but in the meanwhile, it’s good to see people in the media who are like me because who knows this may in fact, help somebody it may help somebody feel happy and feel more included and represented in the media because they don’t see a lot of people like that and they think that they are not pretty and no matter fat or skinny. You should feel beautiful and that’s the point of fat acceptance again I feel like this guy should look more into what he was talking about.
2 of my favorite creators coming together in another banger of a video good job for keeping up high quality content
“You can’t walk? Where do you live?” In a wheelchair
“I’m not fat, I’m big-boned” the big bones in question
Man back to back vids we might be in a new Era for tommy lol
No kidding this video gotta be one of the funniest react segments I ever seen on stream
this video change led me physically and mentally, thank you tommy
I was a literal skeleton and depressed af and working out definitely improved my depression a bit
The only thing being fat gave me was a eating disorder ( im trying to lose weight now but with my ed it’s so hard I’m still going to try either way I’m not that big I lost some weight so im very happy)
I’m a 240 pound male and I’m happy with my body i’m chubby but I carry it out my body pretty decently no where near someone like nikado avacado. I don’t need other people trying to convince me I should hate myself and my body. No one should tell me how I feel. Do I want to lose weight? Yes because I want to live a happy healthy life. But it’s no one else’s business to tell me what pace I should go. (Also I think that encouraging being overweight isn’t good but people should not be bullied for it or reminded constantly that they’re fat. Trust me, they know.) Also also, KEEP IN MIND SOME PEOPLE HAVE EATING DISORDERS AND SOME HAVE HEALTH CONDITIONS DON’T JUDGE ESPECIALLY IF YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT THEY ARE GOING THROUGH! (Binge eating disorder, PCOS, multiple Liver Diseases to name a few)
i am a bit fat but i have a stuff to help like Squats, Green apples and Oranges and walk 2.5 miles from school to home every day cause when i was younger my mother walked me to school and we lived miles away so that is how she lost all her weight
but the sad part is that my mother keeps on saying "your not fat" when i literally have a stomach and people calling me fat so i exercise anyways :/
As someone who is about exactly 6 feet tall, My weight is on the border between healthy and overweight. But genuinely impresses me when people Weighing upwards of 800 pounds are still able to walk.
7:23 Imma be honest. In the 2 countries i've lived for a decade each, i've seen so many "fat" people but they work all day and do everything like the next person, no health issues or anything, but only in America have i seen so many people like that (other countries have it too but very rare)
Imo, I see fat being ok in 2 scenarios: actual illness, or when people know they are fat, but are working on it (staring to do exercises, healthy diet etc.)
No. As a society, we should discourage unhealthy behavior. We also shouldn’t be encouraging unhealthy behavior. Fat acceptance is the embodiment of the latter.
Fat acceptance should be accepting someone as fat, and helping them better themselves.
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Tbh I agree w this, and it sadly even spreads to children in most the u.s and pacific island countries and states etc.
Because, come on we shouldn’t be seeing kids in like 5th grade that can hardly even run a few minutes because they weigh like 180-200 lbs and when someone tries to talk w the, it’s seen as rude or inappropriate even though you’re trying to help with their mental and physical state and the. You have the other fat people who know they’re a fat chubby blubber back bubba kush body, but still don’t want to lose weight and either blame it on others or just simply ignore the fact that it can kill them if they keep it up. But instead of going outside and walking and jogging or even going to the gym, they go on to or on social media and spread their own propaganda to make themselves feel better about the fact that they’re at higher chance of dying to health issues and then proceed to call people “fat phobic”. Or worse, even make videos like that one fat acceptance song - “There’s nothing wrong with my body, fat is not a dirty word”. And tbh in all seriousness, they just need to stop being lazy and get up and also stop saying “I’ll do it tomorrow” *which turns into never*. It’s just sad.
As a fat person I can confirm that fat acceptance is wrong, and even though tommy was joking he is right, we need to get our lazy asses and take walks, run, work out, play a big variety of sports and be active, that might not make people shredded but at least it would us more confident and better looking
I hit 100 pounds not to long ago (I’m 14) and I kid you not it’s difficult for me (personally) to gain weight. I’ve always been skinny and I also started to go to the gym as well as try to bulk and in the last few months (maybe like 3-4) after eating all the time and going to the gym I’ve still only gained like 15 pounds as well as going through the “teenager thing that I don’t know If I can say”. My metabolism is super effective and I can eat a lot of stuff and barely gain 0.1 pounds I’m pretty sure it’s a genetic thing.
I'm Fatphobic?
Nah, you're just Fitphobic.
😂
Knowing your fat is okay, doing nothing to work on and improve on it isn’t.
the only reason i was fat was because of covid. since i couldn't go outside i couldn't get a lot of exercise, and staying inside is really boring so i just ate a lot of food, but ever since then I've been working out more i still am a little fat but not obese.
I think that eating so much you get obese is disordered eating and that it should be treated with the same emotional delicacy anorexia is treated with. Both are mental battles. This is coming from someone who dealt with BED that turned into anorexia.
12:08 my mother can’t even let me go around the houses corner fearing I’ll get kidnapped, then she gets mad when I jokingly say know one would want to kidnap someone like me, the only reason I can go to the gym is thanks to my older sister
In 7th grade I was 210 pounds, and 5 foot 4, now I’m in high school and i weight 150 and am 6’1, everyone made fun of me for being fat, and I was never mad. They were right and I used their words to help myself become the best me
Its okay to be fat, its not okay to be obese. Its worse to think being obese is normal and we should accept it.
It’s not about respecting fat people, it’s about forcing others to follow their twisted world view without consequences.
I already feel wounded as soon as I got to the video reaction part cause at leart you Tommy, you make it clear you're joking. Bro *started off* saying fat people piss em off. Its not as if every single human being was subject to making themselves that way mate. Like both my parents got health issues that relate to weight and whatnot, you really gonna get mad at me cause I wasnt blessed with the specific genes to avoid it?
Update, Sorta: Bro's term for fat is straight up a blob bro, thats not how the whole term works? Like just say you dont like straight up blobs bro, I dont like em either.
I dont judge anything for anything and i just feel like nobody should feel like they get to tell someone how to live their lives.
Bro I'm glad we got like minded people who think fat acceptance is not okay. Big W for those people cause it's understandable that it is never okay. You can tell when they're fat they don't take care of themselves. They get irritated more quickly. And depression. (Not gonna go into specific's)
I'm against bullying the fat but accepting it is a different story. Alright, I don't want our future to look like BNL. (If you know, you know.)
Does it really matter? If it's not getting to a point where their health is at stake then it isn't your business. Not to mention not everyone's body is meant to be slim too.
"Self work is better than self love."
I used to be 217 pounds 8 months ago and im still on my grind to lose weight
What I'm about to say has nothing to do with weight, but during my first year of uni I kept getting McDonalds because it was near my university and I would get myself something to eat there. Before I didn't eat McDonalds much and it was quite rare for me to get it tbh, but I was spending money on fast food as soon as my loans came in. I realised what I was doing to myself months later and made a challenge for myself where I stay away from eating fast food and only eat food from home, and within a month my body started to feel better. I no longer felt like I was rotting from the inside. Home cooked meals are way better.
i mean.. being obese and overweight is obviously not healthy, but every human needs some fat for warmth, energy, and protection of organs
I'm 400 pounds and I can agree that I am a certified human body shield
@@PixP6ain't no way bro
Everyone has fat for warmth however skinny they are
What I have learned recently is that you need to be more uncomfortable. For it you are always in comfort, then you become lazy
Comfort the afflicted and afflict the comforted.
Short answer. NO, FAT ACCEPTANCE IS NOT OKAY
I started working out couple weeks ago and I can gladly confirm that I feel better mentally and physically it’s hard yes but it’s better than a heart attack
good job man keep it up 👍
“Fat acceptance is not 4 guys”
PREACH🙏
It’s for the suicidal.
We need roblox bully stories pt.2
Nikocado avocado maxed out his defense stats
As a fat dude myself I see other fat people who make me realize how weird weight is considered. Cuz the range of obesity is too broad. I've just got a gut and low stamina but i see people whose legs have turned purple from trying to support their weight or people in a mobility scooter loading up on diet coke like its a healthy alternative. But when you see these people who look like amorphous blobs calling for fat acceptance y'all ain't fat y'all are morbidly obese. there is nothing wrong so long as you have the ability to live and function. if you can't walk not because you're handicapped cuz of injury or illness but because you have too much mass for your bones to support there is a problem.
I love men
Same
Ok
It’s a public health issue that’s getting way too out of hand and having people promoting obesity and saying “it’s ok to be fat” is destroying society. Especially when you live in a country with a socialised health care system the amount of money spent on people who are having health issues due to being overweight is a joke
Being fat is okay as long as the person wants to change the fact that he or she is fat.
I would say we need a live action Wall-E. But there already is one, it’s the sequel called Wall-Mart.
The way he just completely disregards the feelings of fat people
Everyone should try to be healthy. Your physical health is something that you can control a lot of. Of course you can’t control getting sick, or breaking a bone, but being able to control your muscular system is a huge advantage. You obviously have to be careful because overworking can damage your muscle, to the point you can never work it out again, but not enough people realize that this is one of the aspects of health we are in control of.
Tommy is one of the few people who have some sort of sanity when he discusses topics😅
Honestly I’ve started fasting every Tuesday and Thursday and working out then and I feel a lot better on those days knowing I’m one step closer to taking care of the issue rather than taking 50 steps back ( or lack there of)
When I was 13 I weighed around 150 pounds 3 years later after quarantine and all that I’m 16 and 135 I think I’m the average weight for 16 year old male now hopefully and being a fat lazy bum is not acceptable
9:07 Bro stop holding back🤣
20:27 you may lose armor, but you gain way more hp so its worth it
Heavy armor reduces stamina
As soon as I found out that I was underweight, I started working out because being underweight isn’t healthy
Last year i was kinda killing it with my fat loss a bit
I was running every day but one day my feet cramped so badly
i couldn't really run but i quit when my feet recovered :(
i regret it
Its not too late to start again
We shouldn't enconrage people to be eating sugar we should encourage them to hit the gym because they keep on complaining on tiktok on how they need bigger aisles on airplanes then you got people saying omg this person is fat phobic.
5:16 Damn they probally got more exercise walking over to the line then they have in their entire life 😂
Lmao
Get my boy shrek out of the thumbnail hes bulking🤬
I've never felt this early, but I've been watching Tommy for a long time👍
Gained so much muscle within a month and a half lost weight too and tbh i was just a little chubby not even fat or wide but i wanted to be buff and now i am gym is really the best therapy
I want to be skinny, not buff. It's too late for that though. I spent years lifting heavy boxes as a job and gained too much muscle.
The goat tommy
answer to the title: fuck no get on the treadmill
As a member of being Chubby (I’m working on not being chubby) I am in noo way proud of being Chubby
Chubby is fine. There's no health risks. And chubby girls are cute.
@@cultreader9751chubby men can also give off a sort of charm.
I wouldn't call myself "fat" but I am definitely on the chubbier side (5 foot 6 and around 160 pounds), and I have to say, that I mostly agree with this video. First, this "fat acceptance" stuff is very similar to feminism, and (some) LGBTQ groups/people, in the sense that people in these groups seem really entitled, and they pretend that them being the way that they are is something special, when it really isn't. Just like being fat, being a woman, or gay, isn't special, and won't win you any awards. You are a person, and that is it. If you are seriously fat, get out and do some exercise. Like I said, I'm not exactly "fat" but chubby, mostly for two reasons:
1. I am pretty lazy
2. A few years ago, I ate too much junk food, and drank way too much soda. Now I eat a normal amount of calories, and have pretty much completely cut drinking soda. However, this has still caused me to be on the bigger side today.
However, I have previously tried to lose weight, but couldn't really keep it up, because I wasn't able to keep up with counting calories, and wasn't always able to do 30 minutes of Beat Saber (which is my main form of exercise). This being my main form of exercise is because:
1. I don't really own any gym equipment
2. I don't like gyms (mostly bc the whole subscription thing, and the fact that I am 14, which I feel is too young to be going to a gym)
3. I live in the Pacific Northwest, which has very extreme weather, so in the summer, it get's up to 90 F, and I hate the heat. In the winter, it gets to cold to go outside and do stuff.
But, I recently got my first job at a local grocery store, where I do about 6 hours of mostly being up and around a few times a day, so, that's 6 hours of constant exercise, ranging from simply standing around and bagging groceries, to some strength exercise in the form of pushing carts back into the store.
Anyways, basically what I'm trying to say is that I agree with this video, although bullying people for being fat isn't okay. However, this "big is beautiful" bullshit is just fat people coping with them being too lazy to commit to losing weight. Also being a girl isn't an excuse.
Really doing dream dirty with that thumbnail 😂
0:48 ik it's a joke but there is people with that mindset fr and it's just sad because literally there are desises that literally make you fat it's not that easy
Absolutely W video as always
I started my workout weight loss journey 2 weeks ago and still going💪
short answer no, its not okay. its not like they cant change the amount of fat they have(in most cases), its generally unhealthy to be fat, its genuinely weird to act like you have no control over your body
Another thing is if they're truly ok with their lifestyle and aren't making these "I'm fat and you should embrace me" TikTok bs
@BLET_55artem55 oh I should embrace you?
Embrace the treadmill
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@@PixP6i love this comment
Why is shrek there...
Why wouldn’t shrek be there
people should lose weight frfr
This video really helped me get back on the grind thank you tommy👍
Tommy lemme prove I’m black bro 🙏🙏🙏
I’m technically classed as obese (220 6’0) and I do have some minor grievances with my size, but getting offended over the word fat is crazy.