My BIGGEST MISTAKES in MARRIAGE

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  • Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024
  • I made a few mistakes my first few years of marriage and in this video i discuss them in details plus I added bloopers to this vlog for the first time.
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Комментарии • 256

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 4 года назад +8

    In a healthy and functional marriage, the smaller things stop mattering because the friendship grows(we tend to be more forgiving towards our friends) you build more memories together, you focus on bigger and more important things like raising of healthy children etc and you get used to each other. that's what I think 😄

  • @nkysdynamickitchen2987
    @nkysdynamickitchen2987 4 года назад +6

    In marriage we learn, tolerate, hard to change sometimes. Thanks for sharing

  • @Banigostv
    @Banigostv 4 года назад +8

    When you have money make your life comfy. That drying machine is bae.

  • @ritaokigbo1297
    @ritaokigbo1297 4 года назад +7

    Marriage is made up of accepting each other’s behaviour and not making a big fuss about them. Especially when it is about dressing. As you have found out at the end of the day it is what the person feels comfortable to wear. No person is perfect and marriage is not about who is right or wrong. It is a partnership. Nice dryer bought by oga Francis as you have been saying you need one.

  • @coolislandbreeze9906
    @coolislandbreeze9906 4 года назад +7

    I’m liking this vlog much.
    The interaction with the kids by both you and your King man ( all men who queen their partner are King Men😊) nice real flow . Love is sweet ❤️👌.

  • @ExtraStepsCeo
    @ExtraStepsCeo 4 года назад +7

    I can relate with fighting over small things, 😀 and laughing over big issues. Thank God for growth.

  • @WendyNwajiufor
    @WendyNwajiufor 4 года назад +2

    Honestly marriage is one institution that needs lot of grace for one to keep moving..... I can relate to this becos sometimes we fail to overlook somethings that doesn’t really matter. But those things we should be angry about, we will now over look them. It’s normal my dear Nelo but I pray for Gods Grace for us to keep moving no matter what. Am loving it becos we have a lot to learn here.

  • @maamearabaaggrey-fynn4778
    @maamearabaaggrey-fynn4778 4 года назад +4

    Editsss!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 i like the you keep looking for ways to improve you channel. Kobi is a Mummy's boy😂😂

  • @BanterWithNj
    @BanterWithNj 4 года назад +8

    My Koko is just too sweet, and, adorable!!!!😍😍😍😍❤

  • @JESUSFORALL
    @JESUSFORALL 4 года назад +1

    You need to pay attention to that short of breath ! Don't ignore it, as it happened about three times or more while you were filming . Get medical check up. Check your bp, bmi, etc. You need to stay healthy for your family dear.

  • @linamabitor522
    @linamabitor522 4 года назад +3

    My lovely Nelo ! You are doing a great job! It is always nice to tune in here! Big brother told on you! Hahaaaaaaa! Hugs and kisses to the children!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @TwinkleOrujuba
    @TwinkleOrujuba 4 года назад +6

    In marriage we keep learning .. We just have to consciously learn how not to allow little things bring problems and quarrels .. 70 percent of things that cause problems in marriages are things they could have overlooked ..

  • @DORCASMorounmubo
    @DORCASMorounmubo 4 года назад +4

    Kaito is so cute.Everytime I see him in your vlogs,I can't help gushing over his handsomeness.

  • @enemachidiebere3592
    @enemachidiebere3592 4 года назад +2

    I'm glad you get to share these experiences with us that are yet to marry...we learn everyday patience is key I have learnt few points and its really helpful to me...please allow Kaobi to always be around you cos there is always this secured feelings kids get while been around their parents...I used to be like that while growing up too ..its with time he will out grow that stage..

  • @Wakagirl
    @Wakagirl 4 года назад +7

    The bloopers!! 😂😂 Thank you to Oga for the dryer! Looks so good. Thanks for sharing the mistake you’ve learnt. Ada J is growing so fast! Good to see the boys! Enjoyed the vlog

  • @bennysexperience3274
    @bennysexperience3274 4 года назад +5

    Nelo I'll make sure to watch all the ads on your videos till the very end and I'll keep using people's phone to subscribe to your channel. You're just a darling. Thanks for uploading this video I appreciate you so much I've been bored now I can cruise. My sisters love you too.

    • @NeloOkeke
      @NeloOkeke  4 года назад

      Awww 🤗🤗🤗 thank you

  • @Debbywin
    @Debbywin 4 года назад +1

    We all quarreled over almost everything at the beginning of marriage. It's a learning process

  • @LindaFrankv
    @LindaFrankv 4 года назад +16

    Women like good things.😂nelo today your dryer made you call your husband babe.you realize you always call him francis

  • @igbinx
    @igbinx 3 года назад

    Bless God that your home was not broken. You are now sharing testimonies. Glory be to God

  • @adaonyeocha
    @adaonyeocha 4 года назад +4

    I really can relate to this Nelo, although in my own case reverse was the case, i will prefer to by from Ariaria market i know even send, while hubby will want to shop overseas...Its well.

  • @oluchimercy1115
    @oluchimercy1115 4 года назад +4

    When it comes to that buying clothing, you are just me and your husband is like my husband.

  • @Mitchysworld11
    @Mitchysworld11 4 года назад +3

    Kaito is so cute and handsome. I really enjoyed 2days vlog. Thanks once again

  • @changminoppa5262
    @changminoppa5262 4 года назад +3

    Aunty Tega chin chin ad is following me...it’s on all Nigerian RUclipsrs Chanel. This temptation is real.

  • @africanqueenmo
    @africanqueenmo 4 года назад

    Nelo don't beat your children. Stop immediately. Use positive reinforcement and removal of privilages instead. Btw you look stunning in that makeup and wig.

  • @Banigostv
    @Banigostv 4 года назад +1

    Quarreling over small thing is normal I don't think it ever goes away self. I love your husband style of shopping balogun market is bae.

  • @Theonyeka
    @Theonyeka 4 года назад +1

    In my one year of marriage am guilty of mistake 1&2...God will help me cos marriage is work

  • @treasuredesire8250
    @treasuredesire8250 4 года назад +4

    Kaito is such a handsome little guy! 🥰

  • @IjeomaGloriaAnopueme
    @IjeomaGloriaAnopueme 4 года назад +2

    Nice intro from Kobi.
    I'm can relate to that hubby's style initially.
    Those small quarrels always occur in the early years of marriage

  • @bennymealsfamily4668
    @bennymealsfamily4668 4 года назад +1

    Wow,Nelo,I'm happy seeing exactly my washing machine both 7 & 10kg. So nice.

  • @BeyondSightNetwork
    @BeyondSightNetwork 4 года назад +1

    Kaito is just so cute 🥰🥰🥰. I’m learning from these mistakes oh, thank you for sharing Nelo

  • @bieziebie4259
    @bieziebie4259 4 года назад

    I'm just starting to watch this video. I keep wondering what Nelo would share. Can't wait.

  • @africandiamond4472
    @africandiamond4472 4 года назад

    It's true at the beggining you fight with small things, but later on you start to adjust,i was the same ,but i am learning every single day to be patient, and when am upset not to say anything. Until

  • @awesomeprincess9581
    @awesomeprincess9581 4 года назад

    You're seriously on point dear, it's little things that makes me and my husband argue or quarrel which is sometimes surprising to me but i have learned to over look those little things.😄

  • @nenyelicioustv
    @nenyelicioustv 4 года назад +1

    Kaobi did a dancing intro for us.. .. l like that LG dryer...Nice make-up👍 Nelo🤰 l can't wait for the pregnancy test good news.🤱

    • @Lydiahector
      @Lydiahector 4 года назад

      Pregnancy kwa....nelo has closed shop ooo

  • @maymary9191
    @maymary9191 4 года назад +1

    To be honest, I'm with your husband on this....N1,500 Jean from Balogun market isn't all that different from Asos jean. Label is the difference :)

  • @NazorEzeh
    @NazorEzeh 4 года назад +1

    Kaito is too Cute!😍
    Marriage is indeed an institution....we keep growing, we keep learning.

  • @graceadamo7567
    @graceadamo7567 3 года назад

    Your second boy looks so much like your mother in law

  • @anuoluwapoomotayo7433
    @anuoluwapoomotayo7433 4 года назад +2

    See nelo I have been refreshing to see if there is a new vlog from ADAEZE and you love the 2 of you so much, GOD ALMIGHTY bless us all in JESUS MIGHTY name amen.

    • @NeloOkeke
      @NeloOkeke  4 года назад

      Amen 🙏🏽 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @NosagirlTV
    @NosagirlTV 4 года назад +2

    That was a cute intro kaobi 😍😍. Nelo you should have titled this video “bloopers Vlog “ 😁😁😁

    • @NeloOkeke
      @NeloOkeke  4 года назад

      🤣🤣 ok let me add it to the tittle

  • @ChibuikeUlasi
    @ChibuikeUlasi 4 года назад +18

    Good job Kaobi with the intro! You are so cute.

    • @ChibuikeUlasi
      @ChibuikeUlasi 4 года назад +2

      @@deeyregs3807 I am not single but thank you so much 🤗

    • @ChibuikeUlasi
      @ChibuikeUlasi 4 года назад +2

      @@deeyregs3807 I knew you were kidding. I have three kids too. Two teenagers and one eight year old. God bless you and your beautiful family ❤️.

    • @ChibuikeUlasi
      @ChibuikeUlasi 4 года назад +3

      @@deeyregs3807 Awesome. Thank you for the invite. I will definitely take you up for it. It's been two years since we last visited California. My wife and I are from Nnewi in Anambra State. It's great to meet you.

    • @moongoddess9313
      @moongoddess9313 4 года назад +1

      Wow 😂😂😂😂

    • @lindapeter6408
      @lindapeter6408 3 года назад +1

      Bro Chibuike I've met u again. Nice one bro

  • @ladyphlora
    @ladyphlora 4 года назад +1

    Amazing content Nelo...I love your vlogs

  • @graceeze6717
    @graceeze6717 4 года назад

    lol...he will always be by your side cos it's normal for first sons and moms.
    So enjoy....

  • @naturalinspirationsbynekod2143
    @naturalinspirationsbynekod2143 4 года назад +4

    Wow *Nelo,* I can totally relate to what you're saying. 😉 With time and experience we learn and grow, those little silly things just don't bother us anymore. It's like who has that time right? 🙄 Anyways great video, I enjoyed watching and all that good stuff. 😄 Take care until and bye! 👋🏼

  • @AdaezesSpace
    @AdaezesSpace 4 года назад +21

    Aww...the dryer looks so nice.
    Just imagine if you hubby starts shopping latest styles from big designers. He wakes up in the moring, has his bath, applies his skin care products, wears his drips and start snapping and posting pics on IG? Won't you go and collect divorce papers immediately?🤣🤣

    • @NeloOkeke
      @NeloOkeke  4 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣 asin sharp sharp oo.. God no go grre that kind husband sha 🤣

    • @officialblessingoTvcooks
      @officialblessingoTvcooks 4 года назад +1

      😁😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @joylm9108
    @joylm9108 4 года назад

    You are a very blessed woman to have a husband like Francis.

  • @tina09eg
    @tina09eg 4 года назад +1

    Oh lord nelo my life right now.. my first son is a gum body ehn..lol but thats d joy of motherhood.

  • @SibusisiweMdletshe
    @SibusisiweMdletshe 4 года назад +1

    Nelo leave kobi for us I beg to let him be don't beat our kobi or will come for you❤❤❤....he is your bestie that's why he follows you around. The first child is always the mothers pride.

  • @AsyDarlyn
    @AsyDarlyn 4 года назад +4

    Hahaha. Love the intro.
    Kaobi is still a baby, allow him to gum you😂😝😝
    Very true, in marriage, little things can cause quarrel.

  • @Theonyeka
    @Theonyeka 4 года назад +4

    I cannot laugh when nelo said maybe I should go and do pregnancy test 🤣🤣😂😂

  • @dinahanorh2092
    @dinahanorh2092 4 года назад +2

    Kobi did a good job in the intro. Nelo your skin is beautiful

  • @ZIKKIESWORLD
    @ZIKKIESWORLD 4 года назад

    It’s so funny how we quarrel over little things and laugh over big things,the dry looks so nice,I can remember wanting it o change how my hubby dress but it didn’t work at all,now I realize I don’t have to chance how he look or dress

  • @silinaforrester5462
    @silinaforrester5462 3 года назад

    I love your boys,they are super cute. Yes never try to change a man dress sense, my husband will always asked if I bought it for him or me . Now I show him want I wish to get him and go for it . Keep bless hon ♥

  • @idixxxe
    @idixxxe 4 года назад +2

    I like this marriage mistakes, points to pick and try not to make this same mistake. I like to mix the Balogun and online shopping 😂 I prefer the balogun sha but the stress ehhh 🥺

    • @NeloOkeke
      @NeloOkeke  4 года назад

      Me sef i like balogun now 🤣

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 4 года назад +2

    I miss Adanna's chunky look😭😭 why do they grow so fast😭😭

  • @OlasticViews
    @OlasticViews 4 года назад +4

    Woww! I’ve always loved your personality mama Nelo. Haha I’m not married yet but thank youu for sharing! Honestly so so true, the basis of these tips are to appreciate everyone as they are and not try to force or change anything & also to not just be agitated over small things for nothing! This is honestly so helpful & when people stop forcing their ways on others, things just go smoother and everyone is happier and performing at their best ❤️ I talk about some of these things in my channel as well! Thanks again mama & also Thankyouu for shouting my good youtube sis Adanma out 😍 You’re so sweet! Keep shining 🤩

  • @nenyespecial3440
    @nenyespecial3440 4 года назад

    My dear i can relate to this, i still quarrel with my husband up till now over little things, but we overlook our big mistakes, why is it so dear nelo?

  • @julieuzoju
    @julieuzoju 4 года назад +3

    Look at kaito my manchi’s hair style just ship him to Dallas

  • @FabianAndMom
    @FabianAndMom 4 года назад +3

    I’m actually guilty of the little fights so funny how we make up after fights

  • @glambeauty30blackboldbeautiful
    @glambeauty30blackboldbeautiful 4 года назад +2

    Am just laughing at the beginning😁😁😁🤗🥰❤️ but I really enjoy the vlog 🤗👌🙌 ❤️ may God continue to bless you and your family ijn 🙏 ❤️🤗 🤗 I can't love you less 🤗❤️❤️

  • @eleanorberinyuy9738
    @eleanorberinyuy9738 4 года назад +5

    😂😂😂self-acclaimed family and early gang please gather here.😍

  • @morenikequadri7858
    @morenikequadri7858 4 года назад

    The more you are together the better

  • @BanterWithNj
    @BanterWithNj 4 года назад +3

    NELO!!!!!! See the way you just shunned Koko!!!!! YES, you beat him!!!!!!! STOP denying it!!🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

  • @officialblessingoTvcooks
    @officialblessingoTvcooks 4 года назад +1

    OMG see cutee kaito is tooo fine jor I was just praying he should stay till the video ends 😍😍😘

  • @okaforblessingifunanya3328
    @okaforblessingifunanya3328 4 года назад +1

    Cute sons 🥰 God bless you son for helping mummy with the intro

  • @africanfolktalesbyada
    @africanfolktalesbyada 4 года назад +3

    I am so guilty of the quarrelling part o 🤣🤣

  • @Immaagada
    @Immaagada 4 года назад +3

    I just love all your contents this is the earliest I have been to your video no kidding and I'm so happy

  • @beabszone6782
    @beabszone6782 4 года назад

    Allow Kobi o,before you know it he will become a big boy and all he would want to do is hang out with his friends

  • @olaniketimothy417
    @olaniketimothy417 4 года назад +1

    Awwn Kaito, your kids are super cute.

  • @queenmaryoworldwideTV
    @queenmaryoworldwideTV 4 года назад +1

    Nice vlog, so effortless!

  • @blackieojo7493
    @blackieojo7493 3 года назад

    Your children are beautifully handsome

  • @jennychukuibi
    @jennychukuibi 4 года назад +3

    Thumbnail woh!!! The frown got me to click 😹

  • @TashaYorks
    @TashaYorks 4 года назад +11

    Waiting for the day I'd get 1k views an hour after posting
    Blessings to you Nelo

    • @Propella
      @Propella 4 года назад

      Me too! 😫😂

    • @Sandymodest_
      @Sandymodest_ 4 года назад

      Same here o.. Let's visit each other

    • @lovedonatv2020
      @lovedonatv2020 4 года назад +1

      Me too dear, it is gradually

  • @ChiChi_Shaw
    @ChiChi_Shaw 3 года назад +1

    Hey Nelo, recently subscribed to your channel. I'm catching up on your videos from the past, that way I can know who Nelo really is. I enjoyed this video, a lot of people can learn from this. Stay blessed ❤

    • @NeloOkeke
      @NeloOkeke  3 года назад +1

      Awww Thanks for subbing and getting to know me 🤗

    • @ChiChi_Shaw
      @ChiChi_Shaw 3 года назад

      @@NeloOkeke ❤❤❤❤🙏

  • @Lydiahector
    @Lydiahector 4 года назад +4

    Oga Francis is looking very chubby now,this lockdown gave him some extra cheeks lol

  • @nellychris9914
    @nellychris9914 3 года назад

    For a second I thought I saw Nj in the baby

  • @nomsyemmanuel2717
    @nomsyemmanuel2717 4 года назад +1

    Aww! Look at, kaobi reciting the intro👏👏 😀

  • @favoursspace322
    @favoursspace322 4 года назад

    Is true sis is alway the little things that bring arguement but the important thing is the growth that is marriage for u

  • @ebubechipassion3870
    @ebubechipassion3870 4 года назад +1

    So u hv been beaten my Angel mummy take timeooo

  • @mummychampions5003
    @mummychampions5003 4 года назад

    Your children are quite, ibo men are like that in Nigeria they are the best to take care of their wife your husband is a good man respect him and love him thanks

  • @oliviaanthony1487
    @oliviaanthony1487 4 года назад

    Kaito is the carbon copy of oga fransis

  • @estherjulius7414
    @estherjulius7414 4 года назад

    The cuteness on Kaobis face is on another level love you're boys so much

  • @momahoprah6871
    @momahoprah6871 4 года назад +2

    🥰 awww you inspired me to open my own RUclips channel 🙏🙏🙏 after I watched one of your videos lol... love you mama😍

  • @umujoneblessing7172
    @umujoneblessing7172 4 года назад

    Nelo here as always
    our intro as always

  • @saturdaysspace2546
    @saturdaysspace2546 4 года назад

    So so true nelo😂 I'm not married yet oh, but my relationship right now we just quarrel over little issues imagine 🤷 like food hmm,

  • @mfonobongnoah3521
    @mfonobongnoah3521 4 года назад

    The dryer is so good

  • @FeliciasCraft
    @FeliciasCraft 4 года назад +7

    Lmaooooo... kobs eh😂. Meanwhile I also need the suggestion ooo. Nobi is always attached to my umbilical cord😫

  • @EversmilingChy
    @EversmilingChy 4 года назад

    U guys just dey big up inside that house....see oga Francais....na waoo so much money

  • @cabekschannels5631
    @cabekschannels5631 4 года назад

    I can relate to quarrelling about little things nelo.

  • @gospelaffairs7141
    @gospelaffairs7141 2 года назад

    Looks so much like daddy

  • @learnwithmsifyo
    @learnwithmsifyo 4 года назад

    Oga Francis has shown there no age limit for caprisonne😂😂😂😂😂😂 beautiful video 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @joydavid5428
    @joydavid5428 4 года назад

    Hi Nelo and handsome son👑,normally washing machine have to be on the floor.

  • @Sandymodest_
    @Sandymodest_ 4 года назад +1

    I can relate on that food own.. My hubby does that alot😂😂

  • @ocity5905
    @ocity5905 4 года назад +1

    This Kaito is such a fine boy😘

  • @LindaFrankv
    @LindaFrankv 4 года назад

    I have a solution for you.even my own son is always annoying me bfo I start my vlog

  • @ugochitorialstv6224
    @ugochitorialstv6224 4 года назад

    I just love this lady so much

  • @vivian.eni.official
    @vivian.eni.official 4 года назад

    Hi Nelo

  • @vivian.eni.official
    @vivian.eni.official 4 года назад

    Kids and playing 😂😂😂 the dryer box is the new toy abi 😂

  • @morenikequadri7858
    @morenikequadri7858 4 года назад

    I am guilty of the same, but now it's better. I ca relate.

  • @realtrealt3786
    @realtrealt3786 4 года назад +2

    Ok sorry if I may ask why do you need a drying machine hmmm or is there no sun in Nigeria any more. Pls correct me if am wrong

    • @Hnaomi180
      @Hnaomi180 4 года назад

      It’s the raining season and she’s mentioned in a previous video how they have a lot to wash

    • @realtrealt3786
      @realtrealt3786 4 года назад +1

      Hanni . Thanks now I understand

    • @Hnaomi180
      @Hnaomi180 4 года назад

      You’re welcome 😇

  • @Theonyeka
    @Theonyeka 4 года назад +2

    Notification gang, kobi did amazing with the intro... Lemme balance and watch