Excellent video. Just to give a man's position, I could say that if my wife joined forces with someone or led the way in mocking me or making me the butt of jokes or any put downs in front of other people, that would be just about the worst thing she could do. I would even go so far as to say, to never contradict your husband in front of other people. Even if he is saying something you don't agree with to someone, just keep silent and bring it up sometime later at home. And of course doing these things behind his back are just as bad. Also you are spot on, that talking about private things to others should never be done. Unless your husband may say in a particular case that it is ok.
Thank you so much for sharing Jack! Everything you shared is spot on! I totally agree! Thank you so much for giving a man’s perspective. It’s so necessary and greatly appreciated 😊.
I've been working on prioritizing my husband lately. I have found that, much like the Lord, most of what he wants from me is for me to do my job. Cooking, cleaning, caring for/educating/disciplining the children...these are all things I do to help my husband. Just as he goes to work every day to afford me to do so. The more I can get done during the day while he is working, the more attention I can give him when he is home. I've been waking up 30-60 minutes before him this week and it has been amazing! I feel so good sending him off with fresh muffins or biscuits. I love how the Holy Spirit speaks so clearly through you. Your videos have convicted me and made me a better wife and mother since I found your channel nearly two years ago. Honestly, I started slipping last year and I've struggled to get back on track. I am very thankful to see you posting videos again! I wrote down your 8 tips for productivity and put it on my fridge 🥰 Thank you for sharing the wisdom the Lord has given you. May He continue to bless you and your family.
I always say to myself, "how would I feel if my husband did that to me" and if I would be hurt, offended or whatever I don't do it. In German we have an adage.. "what you don't want to be done to you, don't do it to anyone else" and this is how i guide my life ❤️
That is true about the love language! You might as well invite them into your personal business. I am a private person for a reason. I think people don’t understand the importance of private moments and privacy. People are so in tuned with what people think and feel.great video I look forward to many more.💛🌻
As you're speaking, scriptures are coming to my head. Mainly 1 Timothy 2:9-13, Colossians 3:18, 1 corinthians 11:12, Ephesians 5:21, 1 Peter 3:1, Ephesians 5:22.....just to name a few. I love how your studies of the word shine through when you speak. I see why the holy spirit is using you sis. Keep it up. 👏🏽👏🏽
1. Stop sharing your spouse's love language 2. Stop talking negative about your spouse 3. Stop posting private images on social media 4. Stop sharing what your spouse tells you with other people 5. putting your family or kids before your spouse 6. Withholding sex and intimacy 7. Trying to lead your husband 8. Making your spouse d center of the joke 10. trying to find your identity in your spouse
Sis! I haven’t even watched the video yet (I’m waiting until quiet time), but I just had to tell you that I am motivated by you and how you are posting these videos! You are much appreciated.
Wow, thank you so much!❤️ So glad that you are encouraged and motivated. You can do anything you set your mind to sis! Whatever it is!😊❤️ Praying you have a wonderful day! 😘
I absolutely love these, thank you so much for taking the time to make. The amount of value and effect on each individual viewer is so magnified with the wholesomeness and informativeness of your content, it’s the same effect as if you had 1M views.
Love, love this.... As I continue to watch your videos I'm so encouraged by the wisdom you are sharing to young wives. I've seen everything you are sharing over the years and I always cringe when these things happen. Cherish your marriage, love your husband... Proverbs 31:11 The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain. …. The gain is a relationship of trust and love .. this all builds strong marriages and thriving families. -Crystal 🙂
You Are An Awesome Young Lady! Don’t pay attention to any negative comments. You Are Definitely Helping Many Women and there will always Be Haters, we don’t know how to recognize and compliment each other instead we’d rather criticize . Keep Inspiring Women and Men and letting God use you tremendously!!
I recently discovered your channel through the collab you did with Bindi Marc, and boy, what a blessing your videos have been to me! It is a joy to listen to your wisdom and experience. Thank you for pouring the Christ in you out into the world. Blessings to you and your family. 💕🌺
THANK YOU ..YOU ARE SO WISE young lady! Number 2 and 3 made me like this video without finishing...keep it coming hunny the world needs this! I need it too lol
I gotta be honest, I didn’t think I’d learn much from this video. Not because my marriage is perfect but because I’m always on the defensive end, ready to justify my actions 🙈 But wow! Sis you blew me away and I’m walking away with so much knowledge and understanding. There are certainly some things on that list I gotta take care of….thank you!
The last one was helpful. I quickly fell into that one fast. So fast I did lose myself. Slowly coming back. And you are right! Your spouse can’t meet every need. Not like the Lord can and when this happened I drew nigh to Him. Glory to God for helping me realize who I am to Him and getting me through a rough season and blessing me with some great wisdom.
Hey Amber! 😊 I will definitely uplift you in prayer concerning that. ❤️ I would encourage you to look up scriptures in regards to your tongue, and study those. Ask The Holy Spirit to help you😊. I love Proverbs 31:26 “She opens her mouth in [skillful and godly] wisdom, And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue [giving counsel and instruction]. Also, meditate on Ephesians 4:29 “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” God can transform anyone and any situation. He’s got you sis!😀
Not married...YET, but ma'am! This is SO good! I hollered when you said, "how he's been sinning for x amount of years!!" YES! People should totally remember EVERYONE can read your comments AND if they are your friend on Social Media, that platform brings your comment up out of all of the other 340,085 comments. So your actual friend list has access to YOUR business! -Love the tip of being a safe space for your partner! Whew! So, so, so good! -tip # 10, love it! And so true! I appreciate your transparency sis! Keep these videos coming. 10 YEARS!! That's a big deal! 10 years down and forever to go!
Great video and great points!! Thank you for sharing these things with the world - your perspectives are soooo counter culture and exactly the type of content I’m looking for - our culture has so much so wrong … living for likes on social media, and living for self… that doesn’t work!!! ❤
Sis. Yes. I love it. You have articulated these points so well. Ladies we are the plug/outlet for our husbands to recharge from the world/work/demonic attacks. Like Angel said we are their safe place/ their peace. Sis you are so wise.
Well that's fine. But my question is: where do we find OUR peace & safe space? It isn't with the husbands, and if we don't fill back up we'll be unable to meet their needs. I'm at that place now, constantly used as the "safe space", then becoming drained because nothing's being poured back in. Emotional labor is very real.
@@silvernblack21 it truly is and that's where communication comes in. We have to communicate our needs with our spouses and not expect them to know. Another thing that works is when tending to his needs, try to do something that may relax you both. Or whenever you have a moment or when you cooking/cleaning listening to something inspirational and uplifting really helps like Angel mentioned. I like Dappytkeys on RUclips, he has piano worship music or I'm listening to a lesson from my elders or uplifting "truth" music. Find a hobby that's relaxing. Pray/meditate in scripture. Or if you don't have time for yourself during the day, you may need to get started earlier or have some late night me time. Don't neglect yourself, then you won't be strong and energized for him. That's the duty we are charged with by Our Father.
I just found your videos this evening. (It is 12/10/2022) I have been struggling with being a submissive wife and trying to find something to help me, someone who can explain things to me in a way where I can understand what I'm doing and how to change it. I absolutly love my husband and do not want to lose him because of my lack of ability to submit to him. Your videos have helped me see where I am falling short and I believe the Lord led me to your videos. I have been searching for over a year to find something and just today I found you. Thank you! And praise God for leading me to you. I will be looking for you on Instagram. Thank you again!!
You are gorgeous.. great point I hate when people make jokes out to be babies or part of the problem.. he is to be elevated and celebrated ..even when he may be in error or at fault.. its not to be pointed out.. thats private too PERIOD!!
Excellent video. Just to give a man's position, I could say that if my wife joined forces with someone or led the way in mocking me or making me the butt of jokes or any put downs in front of other people, that would be just about the worst thing she could do. I would even go so far as to say, to never contradict your husband in front of other people. Even if he is saying something you don't agree with to someone, just keep silent and bring it up sometime later at home. And of course doing these things behind his back are just as bad. Also you are spot on, that talking about private things to others should never be done. Unless your husband may say in a particular case that it is ok.
Thank you so much for sharing Jack! Everything you shared is spot on! I totally agree! Thank you so much for giving a man’s perspective. It’s so necessary and greatly appreciated 😊.
Great comment, thank you Sir 🙏🏾🌻🌞🌈🦄🌠🇿🇦
I've been working on prioritizing my husband lately. I have found that, much like the Lord, most of what he wants from me is for me to do my job. Cooking, cleaning, caring for/educating/disciplining the children...these are all things I do to help my husband. Just as he goes to work every day to afford me to do so. The more I can get done during the day while he is working, the more attention I can give him when he is home. I've been waking up 30-60 minutes before him this week and it has been amazing! I feel so good sending him off with fresh muffins or biscuits.
I love how the Holy Spirit speaks so clearly through you. Your videos have convicted me and made me a better wife and mother since I found your channel nearly two years ago.
Honestly, I started slipping last year and I've struggled to get back on track. I am very thankful to see you posting videos again! I wrote down your 8 tips for productivity and put it on my fridge 🥰
Thank you for sharing the wisdom the Lord has given you. May He continue to bless you and your family.
I always say to myself, "how would I feel if my husband did that to me" and if I would be hurt, offended or whatever I don't do it. In German we have an adage.. "what you don't want to be done to you, don't do it to anyone else" and this is how i guide my life ❤️
That is true about the love language! You might as well invite them into your personal business. I am a private person for a reason. I think people don’t understand the importance of private moments and privacy. People are so in tuned with what people think and feel.great video I look forward to many more.💛🌻
You better preach! Lol. Thank you sis!😊💕
As you're speaking, scriptures are coming to my head. Mainly 1 Timothy 2:9-13, Colossians 3:18, 1 corinthians 11:12, Ephesians 5:21, 1 Peter 3:1, Ephesians 5:22.....just to name a few. I love how your studies of the word shine through when you speak. I see why the holy spirit is using you sis. Keep it up. 👏🏽👏🏽
Glory to God!! Thank you sis! Yessss…share the scriptures girlie! I love it!😄 God bless you!🥰
1. Stop sharing your spouse's love language
2. Stop talking negative about your spouse
3. Stop posting private images on social media
4. Stop sharing what your spouse tells you with other people
5. putting your family or kids before your spouse
6. Withholding sex and intimacy
7. Trying to lead your husband
8. Making your spouse d center of the joke
10. trying to find your identity in your spouse
Sis! I haven’t even watched the video yet (I’m waiting until quiet time), but I just had to tell you that I am motivated by you and how you are posting these videos! You are much appreciated.
Wow, thank you so much!❤️ So glad that you are encouraged and motivated. You can do anything you set your mind to sis! Whatever it is!😊❤️ Praying you have a wonderful day! 😘
@@HabitsofaHomemaker 💕
I absolutely love these, thank you so much for taking the time to make. The amount of value and effect on each individual viewer is so magnified with the wholesomeness and informativeness of your content, it’s the same effect as if you had 1M views.
Love, love this.... As I continue to watch your videos I'm so encouraged by the wisdom you are sharing to young wives. I've seen everything you are sharing over the years and I always cringe when these things happen. Cherish your marriage, love your husband... Proverbs 31:11 The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain. …. The gain is a relationship of trust and love .. this all builds strong marriages and thriving families. -Crystal 🙂
Amen my sister! Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and taking the time to watch 🥰💕.
You Are An Awesome Young Lady! Don’t pay attention to any negative comments. You Are Definitely Helping Many Women and there will always Be Haters, we don’t know how to recognize and compliment each other instead we’d rather criticize . Keep Inspiring Women and Men and letting God use you tremendously!!
Aww, thank you so much mommy! I love you and always appreciate your support and encouragement ❤️😘🤗
I recently discovered your channel through the collab you did with Bindi Marc, and boy, what a blessing your videos have been to me! It is a joy to listen to your wisdom and experience. Thank you for pouring the Christ in you out into the world. Blessings to you and your family. 💕🌺
Aww, thank you so much! God bless you! I’m so delighted that you are here!🥰🌻
THANK YOU ..YOU ARE SO WISE young lady! Number 2 and 3 made me like this video without finishing...keep it coming hunny the world needs this! I need it too lol
Thank you so much! 😊So glad you are enjoying the content!❤️
I gotta be honest, I didn’t think I’d learn much from this video. Not because my marriage is perfect but because I’m always on the defensive end, ready to justify my actions 🙈 But wow! Sis you blew me away and I’m walking away with so much knowledge and understanding. There are certainly some things on that list I gotta take care of….thank you!
The last one was helpful. I quickly fell into that one fast. So fast I did lose myself. Slowly coming back. And you are right! Your spouse can’t meet every need. Not like the Lord can and when this happened I drew nigh to Him. Glory to God for helping me realize who I am to Him and getting me through a rough season and blessing me with some great wisdom.
Girl, you are speaking to me right now because my mouth can't hold anything. I don't even realize what I've said until I said it.😳
Hey Amber! 😊 I will definitely uplift you in prayer concerning that. ❤️ I would encourage you to look up scriptures in regards to your tongue, and study those. Ask The Holy Spirit to help you😊.
I love Proverbs 31:26 “She opens her mouth in [skillful and godly] wisdom, And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue [giving counsel and instruction].
Also, meditate on Ephesians 4:29 “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.”
God can transform anyone and any situation. He’s got you sis!😀
@@HabitsofaHomemaker Thank you so much!🥰😇
My pleasure sis!❤️😊
You are such a beautiful soul, inspiring rare women left in our generation! Much love and respect! :)
Not married...YET, but ma'am! This is SO good! I hollered when you said, "how he's been sinning for x amount of years!!" YES! People should totally remember EVERYONE can read your comments AND if they are your friend on Social Media, that platform brings your comment up out of all of the other 340,085 comments. So your actual friend list has access to YOUR business!
-Love the tip of being a safe space for your partner! Whew! So, so, so good!
-tip # 10, love it! And so true! I appreciate your transparency sis! Keep these videos coming.
10 YEARS!! That's a big deal! 10 years down and forever to go!
Great video and great points!!
Thank you for sharing these things with the world - your perspectives are soooo counter culture and exactly the type of content I’m looking for - our culture has so much so wrong … living for likes on social media, and living for self… that doesn’t work!!! ❤
I'm new too your channel please keep me in prayer I enjoy your videos very helpful thank you for making these videos God bless you and your family.
Thank you so much! Welcome to our community! I’m so glad to have you sis 😊💕. Praying for you and your family.
I appreciate your unique perspectives, good points.
Sis. Yes. I love it. You have articulated these points so well. Ladies we are the plug/outlet for our husbands to recharge from the world/work/demonic attacks. Like Angel said we are their safe place/ their peace. Sis you are so wise.
Thank you so much Aisha 😊.
Well that's fine. But my question is: where do we find OUR peace & safe space? It isn't with the husbands, and if we don't fill back up we'll be unable to meet their needs. I'm at that place now, constantly used as the "safe space", then becoming drained because nothing's being poured back in. Emotional labor is very real.
@@silvernblack21 it truly is and that's where communication comes in. We have to communicate our needs with our spouses and not expect them to know. Another thing that works is when tending to his needs, try to do something that may relax you both. Or whenever you have a moment or when you cooking/cleaning listening to something inspirational and uplifting really helps like Angel mentioned. I like Dappytkeys on RUclips, he has piano worship music or I'm listening to a lesson from my elders or uplifting "truth" music. Find a hobby that's relaxing. Pray/meditate in scripture. Or if you don't have time for yourself during the day, you may need to get started earlier or have some late night me time. Don't neglect yourself, then you won't be strong and energized for him. That's the duty we are charged with by Our Father.
Wise words! Love it!
Thank you so much! To God be the glory!❤️
I just found your videos this evening. (It is 12/10/2022) I have been struggling with being a submissive wife and trying to find something to help me, someone who can explain things to me in a way where I can understand what I'm doing and how to change it. I absolutly love my husband and do not want to lose him because of my lack of ability to submit to him. Your videos have helped me see where I am falling short and I believe the Lord led me to your videos. I have been searching for over a year to find something and just today I found you. Thank you! And praise God for leading me to you. I will be looking for you on Instagram. Thank you again!!
Excellent advice Angel ❤️✝️❤️✝️
Thank you so much Caroline. Glory be to God!😊❤️
Very wise words!! New subby over here!! I am about to binge watch your videos sis! Enjoying your channel!
Thank you so much! So glad you are enjoying the videos!🥰
I like before I even watch . 👍
Aww, thank you Rebecca! 🎀🥰
Hey hey...
New to your channel. So glad to be here
Welcome! So glad to have you!😊
You are gorgeous.. great point I hate when people make jokes out to be babies or part of the problem.. he is to be elevated and celebrated ..even when he may be in error or at fault.. its not to be pointed out.. thats private too PERIOD!!
So true! Thank you so much for the sweet compliment and for sharing 😊.
First things first .