Tahir's Unbelievable Ordeal

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  • Опубликовано: 4 дек 2024

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  • @LiberianGbanna
    @LiberianGbanna Год назад +45

    Tahir, you did absolutely everything right that you could. I can't imagine the fear, you preserved your dignity and freedom when it could have gone so badly.

    • @justjo510
      @justjo510 Год назад +3

      I knoooooow!! I'm so glad he's ok, that story stressed me tf out. I bet she was on something or has major mental health issues or both!! Super scary either way 😵

    • @jarvisdunn2933
      @jarvisdunn2933 Год назад

      Wowww 😯

    • @emartinez7733
      @emartinez7733 Год назад

      If Tahir was home with his wife instead of attempting to get buns from an ex he wouldn't be in that situation 🤣

  • @VChilds1
    @VChilds1 Год назад +56

    Pat it's time to give us some awkward Uncle dealing with a baby videos 🤣🤣 I'm ready to see how you act out both roles.

  • @MasutaMJ
    @MasutaMJ Год назад +1

    "Intrusive thoughts, don't let them win" is a fire tag line. Keep that or apply it to everyday life.

  • @s777jm
    @s777jm Год назад +15

    Tahir should've driven to the police station and made them do their job.

  • @custom_realityX0
    @custom_realityX0 Год назад +20

    She definitely needed "Better Help" in her life, sorry you had to deal with that Tahir.

  • @user-oy2ud5gw8h
    @user-oy2ud5gw8h Год назад +9

    I totally get Pat. Why is it so hard for people to understand some people just don’t want kids! I love being an auntie

  • @indi.element
    @indi.element Год назад +9

    Hey Tahir, I really commend you. I recently experienced a partner who shot a gun at my head, in the dark, while pregnant, simply because I closed the window blinds after he said he would “do it later”. I thank God I’m still alive. But to think that there are men like you who can still keep their composure even through the irrational behavior you experienced, really makes me have faith in life again. This almost made me shed a tear. Thank you for sharing your story and I’m glad you made it out safe. 🙏🏽

    • @ashleyj4159
      @ashleyj4159 Год назад +7

      Oh my God!! I’m glad you’re safe and hopefully don’t have to interact with that partner again

    • @indi.element
      @indi.element Год назад +1

      @@ashleyj4159 They’re the father of my child so I unfortunately do, but I’ve taken precautionary measures to ensure nothing even close to that will ever happen again. Thank you so much for your words. I thank God everyday that I made it out of that. “Protected” is an understatement!!!

    • @TheBwil32
      @TheBwil32 Год назад +2

      You definitely have purpose! So happy you’re here to tell your story! 🙏🏽

    • @indi.element
      @indi.element Год назад

      @@TheBwil32 Thank you, love 🫶🏽

    • @jk2171
      @jk2171 Год назад +1

      Glad you're safe 🙏

  • @cjfresh8811
    @cjfresh8811 Год назад +32

    Tahir the reverse kidnapping story is wild,
    I’ve been in a similar situation, she was drunk and kept threatening to cut herself and call the police and blame it on me, I had to find a way to remover her from the car, so I called road side assistance and said I needed a tire changed and explained to him I was trynna get rid of her, so when he got there he had get out my car and to sit in his truck while he changed the tire. I called an Uber to her house and left her in the tow truck and tipped the tow truck driver for helping me out in getting her away from me.
    Glad you got out tahir, those type of woman are scary manipulative and the reason why protect black woman has a negative stain with some black woman because who gonna protect black men from those type of woman

    • @vc6218
      @vc6218 Год назад +1

      Thats smart as hell

    • @jessicaevans2564
      @jessicaevans2564 Год назад

      Great tip that I will share with my son.

    • @g..._anthony27
      @g..._anthony27 4 месяца назад

      🍪🍪🍪🍪 you don't call Uber

  • @ThaKenMan
    @ThaKenMan Год назад +33

    First of all damn Tahir I’m so sorry you went through this! Bro I feel like you’ve been through the absolute worst shit in your life but I’m glad that you’ve been able to make it out. Also congratulations uncle Pat!!!!!

  • @chocolaterose2976
    @chocolaterose2976 Год назад +8

    I’m sorry you went through that. I’ve been in situations like that and it’s so frustrating. I hope you never deal with that behavior again.

  • @dre_withwithout
    @dre_withwithout Год назад +51

    Hey Tahir as a man that has dealt with something similar to this.. it is not your fault.. Her actions were her own. What you did or didn’t do played no part in her choosing to act that way…
    It is great to be aware of the role you played in the situation but don’t say it’s your fault for that. Once you start taking blame you start allowing the culprit to be justified unquestioned.. be aware of yourself but don’t blame yourself

    • @RonDonProductions
      @RonDonProductions Год назад +1

      Exactly! Calling the police was the right situation. I've been here all too many times with a spouse and that helpless feeling is sickening. As a man, it's tough to even talk about these situations and the courts/police rarely take it seriously.

    • @Cj3rdcoast
      @Cj3rdcoast Год назад

      ❤ 98p7aw❤aa

  • @melissa8580
    @melissa8580 Год назад +11

    Tahir needs a car that you can unlock ONLY the driver door. All cars should have this option. One door or all doors as separate options. This way any driver can get in their car safely when alone or in these kinds of wild situations.

  • @pmccray551
    @pmccray551 Год назад +5

    First of all, Tahir you did nothing wrong. I have a sneaking suspicion that this person had something other on her mind and she was hoping you would lose your temper so she could possibly harm you in some type of way and be justified in doing so. You have a very high and prosperous presence online and it's probably bothering this person that you've gone on with your life and you're doing so well. You are blessed dude just stay blessed and not stressed 💜

  • @Yurrr823
    @Yurrr823 Год назад +90

    U think pat not holding his nephew is crazy ...then imagine him with an actual child 😂😂 my boy a bachelor till the end!!

    • @naturalscratcher9498
      @naturalscratcher9498 Год назад +8

      I completely understand where he’s coming from because my mom feels the same way with her own grandkids when they first came out she didn’t hold them!! She gave them a month or month and a half before she felt comfortable!! Because before me I was the only baby that she ever really held when I first came out and that was 30 years ago so now she feels like babies are so fragile and they didn’t come from her and she can’t give them back if something happens lol

    • @cr5cc
      @cr5cc Год назад +7

      Just imagine seeing pat in public period…niggas like him are unicorns

    • @itsmisscece3075
      @itsmisscece3075 Год назад +2

      He don’t want no kids. 😂 probably a good thing.

    • @tiffanygibson3040
      @tiffanygibson3040 Год назад

      I was like this with my little sister. I was too scary to hold her during the first year or so.

  • @uniquedanell
    @uniquedanell Год назад +12

    So sorry you went through this Tahir. Situations like that are what concerns me about my children being out here in the dating world. some ppl seem so nice and level headed but turn out to be complete monsters.

  • @lexxzhane
    @lexxzhane Год назад +27

    She definitely wasnt being honest about why she was upset. Her reaction had nothing to do with what she was telling you & everything to do with the fact that you wanted/chose to leave her. So her response to that was “well since you dont want what i want, ima punish you by making you stay for as long as i can make you stay.” All she had to do was admit that she wanted you to wait on her instead of trying to test you by saying “if you want to” lol. Sorry you had to experience that Tahir.

    • @jetradaniels9528
      @jetradaniels9528 Год назад

      This is the one! Her night didn't go the way she wanted! I would also have been concerned about a setup. You never know what's on people's minds.

  • @Brittal009
    @Brittal009 Год назад +55

    Hold him while sitting down Pat. Someone can place him in your arms. If toddlers and little kids can hold a baby, so can you 😂

  • @lord.6th659
    @lord.6th659 Год назад +9

    Ik exactly what tahir means by the feeling of helplessness. Currently in a similar ordeal and As a man, we’re just expected to deal with the bs from women. Literally had to leave my own home bc no matter how I would have reacted in the situation I’d be deemed the one in the wrong

  • @Lowtiergecko
    @Lowtiergecko Год назад +1

    2:43 Pat's nephew
    6:09 baby eyes
    8:51 quarantine babies
    9:43 hand sanitizer
    10:21 Buffets after the pandemic
    11:56 Tahir's unbelievable ordeal
    39:53 Sponsor
    43:40 Tahir's story
    48:46 squatters
    55:20 Sponsor
    58:29 Air bnb robbery
    1:03:29 Paris bedbugs & Tahir tour

  • @ThaKenMan
    @ThaKenMan Год назад +5

    Just what I needed to keep my morning going!!

  • @princereg3000
    @princereg3000 Год назад +5

    I use to be Pat... I had that same feeling at 13 and I TOLD my cousin..nah I don't know..and I'm forgetful....maaaaannn my lil cousin was on my lap. Quiet, hardly weighed a thing...and yeah...I got up and he went on the floor.😮.Now he grown and everytime I hear his deep ass voice go" so I heard you dropped me"😂😂😂

  • @sarahturtle3270
    @sarahturtle3270 Год назад +11

    After calling the police and them not showing up, I would have went back to my house and let them figure out how to get home. I would have called the cops again and told them what happened and that they are harassing me at this point. Smh as a woman we don’t claim her 😂😂😂

  • @bringonthefandom248
    @bringonthefandom248 Год назад +5

    Y’all already know we here sending those daily positive vibes from Houston everyone!

  • @ashleyzviitei
    @ashleyzviitei Год назад +16

    Pat is terrified of holding baby Legend....freshly minted. Congrats😅😊.

  • @juanla5243
    @juanla5243 Год назад +18

    I was not ready for this episode at all....I would've played along and went upstairs bt then pretended to need something out the car then left. Bt that person clearly was use to playing toxic type games and you gtta stand clear of them.

  • @ThComedy_
    @ThComedy_ Год назад +3

    Tahir should have told that story to Meg Scoop because Pat was not asking the right questions 😂😂

  • @ThisThatNdThird
    @ThisThatNdThird Год назад +6

    Congratulations Uncle Pat!👏🏾

  • @mutespittah2051
    @mutespittah2051 Год назад +13

    On some crazy shit, just like Tahir said, I broke up with someone for all the right reasons. I was living wrong, they were in the military. Long story short, the end all came because she caught me smoking a blunt lol. Told her I wasn't gonna change. Cut to a few months later. She hits me up and asks do I wanna get some ice cream. She wants to sit and eat it in her car, and everything seems cool. Then she starts screaming and punching her steering wheel saying, "What's wrong with me?!". Boooooy, she started the car up, and the doors locked, but i manually unlocked that thing and jumped out while she was backing up. Ran to my ride, and jumped on 35. Goneeeee. We haven't spoken since.

  • @GiftedJon
    @GiftedJon Год назад +1

    Pat taking all the knives is hilarious

  • @imfamouskyng309
    @imfamouskyng309 Год назад +7

    Its real, my.mother in law called the cops on her husband countless of times for bs just because she got upset about anything...i told my fiance she got one time to do me like that and we are over

    • @RonDonProductions
      @RonDonProductions Год назад

      Bro if it ever gets to that, stick to your statement. Speaking from experience, the justice system is a joke on these matters 🙏🏽

  • @LinkynRoss623
    @LinkynRoss623 Год назад +1

    Wild ass names, I went to school with a kid named Tim Sopha. He had a daughter and named her Layona....Layona Sopha.

  • @Whitn3y3nigma
    @Whitn3y3nigma Год назад +4

    On second thought I'm GLAD the police didn't come... because she would have definitely played victim

  • @InsertCuteNameHere562
    @InsertCuteNameHere562 Год назад +4

    Aw! I’m so sorry you went through that! I’m disgusted at her actions smh

  • @BOO4EVA
    @BOO4EVA Год назад +6

    I'm actually glad the police didn't show up as crazy as she was actin she could have spun that situation so fast and anything coulda happened to you brutha 🙏🙏🙏

  • @ms.branch1207
    @ms.branch1207 Год назад +1

    Tahir story is crazy😂 I agree with you Pat. That girl wanted more than a ride home and it probably upset her that he wasn't pushing up.😮

  • @reginaldprice446
    @reginaldprice446 11 месяцев назад

    When he started doing that better health ad i thought he was about to say "if youve ever thought about...not getting out of somebody's car when they want you to, call better health"

  • @Thtguyfry
    @Thtguyfry Год назад +2

    Tahir, ive been in the same situation, this woman wouldn’t leave my car so I tricked her. I got out of the car, she got out after me, I locked my door then we walked to her apt door, I turned around & jogged back to my car hit my alarm once so ONLY the driver door unlocked, then I started my car & drove off 😭 bro I was held HOSTAGE! no joke.

  • @1ClassiMa
    @1ClassiMa Год назад +9

    I'm sorry that you had to go through that smh if the shoe was on the other foot it would've been a major problem! People like her are the fuel to my trust issues. Sending love and positivity to you❤❤❤

  • @InsertCuteNameHere562
    @InsertCuteNameHere562 Год назад +4

    Next time drive straight to the police station

  • @latoyak20
    @latoyak20 Год назад +1

    The squatter segment is so funny because I recently saw Tahir play a squatter on a show called Johnson. Lol

  • @pamelasmith6778
    @pamelasmith6778 Год назад +3

    I feel like she was trying to set Tahir up, one way or another. I’m so sorry you felt unsafe.

  • @c1simone
    @c1simone Год назад

    Thanks 4 sharing tahir

  • @melissa8580
    @melissa8580 Год назад

    52:24 as soon as a tenant refuses the landlord entry to do the repairs needed on the place based on the complaint the tenant filed…. They should automatically be evicted and barred from collecting/demanding any moving fees etc. You can’t complain about a place being unfit to live in/having severe issues and then prevent it from being repaired and stay living there. Either a place is unlivable or not, there is no in between.

  • @jadebirk5957
    @jadebirk5957 Год назад +1

    You have to go through an eviction process in the courts when someone claims squatter rights and gets mail there

  • @tanniliya
    @tanniliya Год назад +1

    Good for you T for holding your composure. I am immensely proud of you black man. Podcast to young men on how to handle difficult situations with women. I would file a restraining order, hold her accountable Tahir. How violating on a multitude of levels. Sick!

  • @iamjro
    @iamjro Год назад +1

    1:27:21 Pat, I didn’t know that about the pin either lol Like I saw it but never paid it any mind

  • @MiataShanay
    @MiataShanay Год назад +2

    That’s actually terrifying, Tahir. Like…

  • @courtney8736
    @courtney8736 Год назад +2

    Pat acting like he diffusing a bomb 😂 it’s just a baby 😂

  • @noblehausv
    @noblehausv Год назад

    Your level of calm in the midst of her explosion is proof of how GOOD a man you are (let alone how good a comic). I pray, when you are ready, the you roast the situation (not the woman) to the end of itself - whenever, if ever.

  • @MissCheryl810
    @MissCheryl810 Год назад +1

    Lesson: Have your wife choose your ladies

  • @BrianJones-dq5rh
    @BrianJones-dq5rh Год назад +1

    You aren’t alone Tahir. A lot of us have been in similar type situations.

  • @Thtguyfry
    @Thtguyfry Год назад +1

    this episode gave me flashbacks

  • @eastzoobridge
    @eastzoobridge Год назад +4

    I feel Pat. I never held my nieces or nephews for the same reason Pat just said. First baby I held was my own son 😅

  • @sunkissdj5608
    @sunkissdj5608 Год назад +1

    I'm with Pat. I refuse to hold babies. They're soooo fragile. Nope

  • @simone10214
    @simone10214 Год назад +3

    I worked for a state office that was closed for confederate memorial day...and yes, it was in the South.🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @SNAB1987
    @SNAB1987 Год назад +4

    I had to fake call the police to get a woman to leave once. It was like she couldn’t register what was happening.

  • @drewauguste6034
    @drewauguste6034 Год назад

    The same thing happened to me. We had some ex-friends staying in our basement, we had an issue with them and asked them to leave AND THEY REFUSED. They didn’t leave for another month. They held our basement hostage and we legally couldn’t do much because we originally agreed to let them stay until a certain date over text. 😭😭 They also left their dried cat vomit in our basement in multiple spots.

  • @boonienieman8970
    @boonienieman8970 Год назад +2

    Tahir the Candied Yam! Lol, PatThickkk! Wudduppp! You guys keeping the podcast game on SMASH...

  • @carlottamarie
    @carlottamarie Год назад

    The transition from bed bugs to sexxy reds tape was WILD 😭😂😂😂

  • @jayrell3131
    @jayrell3131 Год назад +4

    Tahir shorty tried to set you up on the life tip…….you took good steps

  • @krack7797
    @krack7797 Год назад +1

    Tahir was fumbles Magee in this one 😂😂

  • @LinkynRoss623
    @LinkynRoss623 Год назад +1

    Tahir should see that "feeling of being helpless" as a good thing. I've watched Tahirs stuff for years, and the maturation he may or may not see in himself. Your "feeling of being helpless" was actually you being considerate and responsible for not only them, but for yourself and what you built. They might've seen you as a "BAN" but you could've just been a hood ass nigga and this would be a whole different video. Coming from someone who usually makes the mistake and does the wrong thing, you did what they tell us what we should do. Just got to be proud of yourself and be prepared to not let that situation happen to you again.

  • @blazinboi031
    @blazinboi031 Год назад

    This was a great episode

  • @Glitter.Is.Meta87
    @Glitter.Is.Meta87 Год назад

    Pat and the kitchen knife story was funny 😂 yoooo pat said speaking of bed bugs 😂

  • @joshiiiiiiiiiiii
    @joshiiiiiiiiiiii Год назад +1

    MANNN Tahir!!!! i went through thee same exact shit about 2 months ago!!!!! im sorry you had to go through this but i’m happy that you were able to rise up and overcome despite the absolute bs you were being dragged through! i swear the person in my story was about to get knocked smmmmooooooooth TF OUT. phuck her though

  • @iamjro
    @iamjro Год назад +1

    Option 1: Forcefully remove her. Call someone if you don’t feel comfortable
    Option 2: Do what Pat said, spray her lol
    Option 3: Drive home and leave her in the car 😂

  • @ashtameria7341
    @ashtameria7341 Год назад

    Tahir's ordeal was crazy but happens a lot. Ive been a hostage outside of my car before trying to keep someone from jumping in, its wild

  • @kas19891
    @kas19891 Год назад

    Tahir hinting at his story in the intro would've been fire

  • @kandyedwards1376
    @kandyedwards1376 Год назад

    This was definitely different, but informative!!! Thanks I'm 41 idk if I want to date

  • @RhythmAndPoetryWorld
    @RhythmAndPoetryWorld Год назад +1

    "I've never felt so helpless in my life" I CALL CAP!!!!! nigga Tahir been kidnapped and shot before.

  • @gaetanadixon333
    @gaetanadixon333 Год назад +7

    Tahir should have said he would take her somewhere then went to a bar and when you parked and she got out, just pulled off 😂😂

    • @dre_withwithout
      @dre_withwithout Год назад +7

      She would of been screaming, “You gonna leave a black woman!!!!??!!!??!!” As he skirts off 😂

    • @BOO4EVA
      @BOO4EVA Год назад +2

      That's actually a good idea to go somewhere public with a bunch of witnesses but hopefully u escape the scene lol

  • @wendysmith6556
    @wendysmith6556 Год назад +1

    Tahir, The police weren't supposed to show up. She would have made sure you went to jail. Thank God they didn't come.

  • @pagm4n
    @pagm4n Год назад

    Don't know how wide-eyed I got when I heard Gwinnett County! This aint the story you wanna hear about your old home town area!
    My heart goes out to you Tahir, that's one of the worst instances to find yourself in and you do have to be very aware of all of the possible scenarios. That sucks to high heaven my boy.

  • @breezy_afternoon
    @breezy_afternoon Год назад

    It's crazy, my 16 year old nephew just came to me about feeling like he'll hurt my other nephew (1 yr) just holding him or by accident. I told him, with much love and honesty, that protection will come naturally to him around his baby cousin and there's no need to worry ❤ 💯

  • @autibee69
    @autibee69 Год назад +2

    Tahir! I write this with all love: She was an Ex for a reason! That type of toxicity is vile

  • @andrebelfon6738
    @andrebelfon6738 Год назад +1

    😂😂😂 the things that Pat don’t know.

  • @Whitn3y3nigma
    @Whitn3y3nigma Год назад +8

    I'm sorry this happened to you Tahir.
    The cops should have come. They want us to handle things the "correct" way and got no help. They would have been mad if you called a homegurl from the hood t drag her out by her hair.

  • @Wtrpodcast
    @Wtrpodcast Год назад +5

    I had this same situation happen to me with a man who refused to get out of my car . It was scary . I did not remain calm though lol you’re better than me Tahir 😂

  • @FarmerReLa
    @FarmerReLa Год назад

    THAT STORY TAHIR TOLD MAD ME SOOOOO MAD!!! Like she was so unhinged and then to play the victim is grosssss!!! That night got progressively alarming. Because she seems like the type to injure herself then blame the guy for abuse. I hope she seeks help!!!

  • @killa9cam
    @killa9cam Год назад

    Dude is "living in a van DOWN BY THW RIVER!!!" 😂😂😂😂😂 shoutout to Chris Farley R.I.P.

  • @uriahkabemba5798
    @uriahkabemba5798 Год назад

    Sorry that you went through this Tahir

  • @CASHABILLION
    @CASHABILLION Год назад +1

    49:36 she FINESSED THE FUCK OUT THAT FOOL 😂

  • @Burciaga96
    @Burciaga96 Год назад +1

    IPhone users really be impressed about simple features that Samsung done had since 2011 😂

  • @artmieseelizabeth8074
    @artmieseelizabeth8074 Год назад +1

    She behaved like a child. Hopefully he leaves her alone for good.

  • @kandyedwards1376
    @kandyedwards1376 Год назад

    I grew up poor, we did buffets didn't think about it as a kid. Now working in food service professionally 26 yrs all types of kitchens different titles, exc. Sous, cruise ship, chains, exc. Chef. Buffets turn me off completely

  • @chucknthewild
    @chucknthewild Год назад

    52:33 cut the power and water to that specific part of the house

  • @cjfresh8811
    @cjfresh8811 Год назад +2

    Pat said what if I threw the baby (all I can see is issa Rae punting the baby) and tahir dangling the bowling ball by the baby’s head wtf y’all be doing around babies 🤣🤣🤣

  • @angelh6345
    @angelh6345 Год назад

    Love and blessings to all of the scary squad Moore mob
    Please be safe y'all ❤❤🙏🙏

  • @tpacback
    @tpacback Год назад

    51:30 It’s still his property, he can dismantle the home, tear down the doors and windows then the walls. She’ll leave eventually.

  • @katrinajohnson1128
    @katrinajohnson1128 Год назад

    As a woman who has been in situations where a man wouldn't leave me alone, sometimes you just have to play along. If I was in Tahir's situation I would've played like I was gonna go inside just to get her out of the car.

  • @thegeneral75o
    @thegeneral75o Год назад

    Okay the whole running joke of "PAt dont be knowing stuff" might have more truth to it than i thought lmaoo. I know i brought that from SquaddCast to here but not knowing about pins is crazy

  • @hotchocolategirl1der
    @hotchocolategirl1der Год назад +1

    That's awful Tahir. I'm sorry you went through that. I've had a man not want to leave and I didn't want to call the cops bc my first thought was if them people come, they might merk him. In your case calling the cops could lead to you being merked. It's a catch 22. It might be a blessing in disguise that they didn't come. That AirBnB lady sounds like a professional squatter.

  • @halo-august3452
    @halo-august3452 Год назад +1

    Either Tahir Is Making All Of That Up Or He Ignored EVERY Sign That She Was Extremely Bipolar.

  • @StrengthFromWithinLLC
    @StrengthFromWithinLLC Год назад

    Pat said St.Louis smell like cedar, or pine, maybe a little sandlewood😂

  • @azalemartin3114
    @azalemartin3114 Год назад +2

    That’s a scary scenario to be in bruh

  • @rikacole
    @rikacole Год назад

    Tahir! We do not negotiate with terrorists. Never get back in the car.

  • @kelvinadams3390
    @kelvinadams3390 Год назад +1

    Tahir better than me cause either I’m calling my sister/cousin or I’m removing her myself

  • @illmaticvol5120
    @illmaticvol5120 Год назад

    Idk how you can Segway into a prize pick advertisement like that after Sharing a vulnerable moment

  • @Alishaspieces
    @Alishaspieces Год назад

    I taught sewing last year in 189… I’m in St. Louis

  • @chamgra
    @chamgra Год назад

    I don't hold kids until they turn one