Beautifully honest and i feel so many woman understand her message. Relationships are complicated and take a lot of personal work individually and together.
"With these struggles there's something to be learned. What is blocking the Truth--the Love between us?" This is such a powerful way to look at a relationship.
Thank you for your open beautiful strong hearted sharing. This really is the female perspective and this perspective and this strength is what we and what the world really needs in my opinion. By this way of interacting from the female to the male and the other way around I think this is what real transformation is all about. Thank you for showing and telling me….
Thank you for this talk Mrs. Maté. Obviously we have enough kinship so my light is kindled by your light. It is a wonderful thing to have an independent mind, even if one‘s demanded constantly to rise a lot of energy . It seems the way to live a life of meaning 🙏
Beautiful. Reminds me of how Hedy Schleifer has taught me and my husband to BUILDING THE BRIDGE to eachother and have the toxic space become sacred again. Martin Buber.
I do often wonder how Gabor Mate has managed to stay married for 55 years...don't get me wrong as I am a big fan of his but I can't help but feel that on an individual level Gabor isn't as good at practicing what he preaches.I can't help but feel that if it was not for Rae he would not have remained in a safe nurturing marriage that has enabled him to go out in the world and be this world class expert on trauma. I can't help but feel it has always been the woman who maintain these relationships and enable men to become "great"...I think this is changing and that women might not be so ready to stay with a husband now as they have their own careers and aspirations. I am sure Gabor loves Rae and needs her and she him....sometimes I think love is just about "need"and that if we need someone enough then we can make a relationship work...is it love thats kept them together or just need ? I do wonder this ...whether love is just about need and when someone has got something that we need so much because we don't have it sufficiently then we call it love ??? not sure
sometimes we feel we need someone but we dont necessarily like or love them and we struggle to be together * some stay ın but feel detached.. others leave.
It’s all about attachment styles… Secure attachment is what we all long for. And it is possible to transition from insecurely to securely attached (no matter the gender)…
You're right, he states so in his books that's it's mainly thanks to his wife's emotional intelligence they made it so far, AND he greatly appreciates her for that.
Beautifully honest and i feel so many woman understand her message. Relationships are complicated and take a lot of personal work individually and together.
She is very beautiful soft and speaks elegantly. They balance each other out. God bless them❤️
"With these struggles there's something to be learned. What is blocking the Truth--the Love between us?" This is such a powerful way to look at a relationship.
Thank you for your openness and honesty Rae. This is a very enlightening podcast.
How honest & enlightening. I've listened to Gabor so many times but my first time listening to Rae, an amazing person too. Her painting...WOW. 😍...
Beautiful couple, and a beautiful heartfelt tuition. Always guiding humanity.
BRAVO Rae!!! I love what you are speaking of and the way you do that! Can we hear more of you pls? 💗
What a beautiful woman ❤❤❤
Thank you for your open beautiful strong hearted sharing. This really is the female perspective and this perspective and this strength is what we and what the world really needs in my opinion. By this way of interacting from the female to the male and the other way around I think this is what real transformation is all about. Thank you for showing and telling me….
I love this! Thank you!❤
I love Rae! First time seeing her and ❤❤❤
BOY DIDI THIS VIDEO HIT HOME WITH RAE'S TALK ON HER RELATIONSHIP. PLEASE GIVE US MORE. THE HEART MIND IS WAKING UP. TY.
So beautiful ❤ Thankyou.
Wise insightful woman
Look at Mr. Mate's shiny eyes! Almost like in a teenager. This speaks to me even more than the wise words...
Beautiful Thank you
Profound and so practically!!!!!!
I got more knowledge day after day by listening such amazing people 👏🏼❤️
Loved listening to this ❤
Thank you for this talk Mrs. Maté. Obviously we have enough kinship so my light is kindled by your light. It is a wonderful thing to have an independent mind, even if one‘s demanded constantly to rise a lot of energy . It seems the way to live a life of meaning 🙏
Full video?
What a wonderful couple! 💗
Thank You Both
Beautiful. Reminds me of how Hedy Schleifer has taught me and my husband to BUILDING THE BRIDGE to eachother and have the toxic space become sacred again. Martin Buber.
I do often wonder how Gabor Mate has managed to stay married for 55 years...don't get me wrong as I am a big fan of his but I can't help but feel that on an individual level Gabor isn't as good at practicing what he preaches.I can't help but feel that if it was not for Rae he would not have remained in a safe nurturing marriage that has enabled him to go out in the world and be this world class expert on trauma.
I can't help but feel it has always been the woman who maintain these relationships and enable men to become "great"...I think this is changing and that women might not be so ready to stay with a husband now as they have their own careers and aspirations.
I am sure Gabor loves Rae and needs her and she him....sometimes I think love is just about "need"and that if we need someone enough then we can make a relationship work...is it love thats kept them together or just need ? I do wonder this ...whether love is just about need and when someone has got something that we need so much because we don't have it sufficiently then we call it love ??? not sure
sometimes we feel we need someone but we dont necessarily like or love them and we struggle to be together * some stay ın but feel detached.. others leave.
It’s all about attachment styles… Secure attachment is what we all long for. And it is possible to transition from insecurely to securely attached (no matter the gender)…
You're right, he states so in his books that's it's mainly thanks to his wife's emotional intelligence they made it so far, AND he greatly appreciates her for that.
I couldn’t have said it better. Thank you!❤❤
Interesring, been thinking about this, it takes dedication doesn't it, to stay together xx
dedication, and self reflection. To know that we can all grow and heal conflict. It's beautiful really.
Thank u for the power inspiration🙏👊🤍
Sometimes the partner is a beast and you have to run, though.
He could never have done or achieved a fraction of what he has without you.
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Studying under Gabor, we experienced him as a bully often.
His wife is so warm and human,how wonderful!!