Navigating Separation and Divorce from a Mother and Child's Perspective. Episode 2

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  • Опубликовано: 11 дек 2023
  • Navigating the breaking point in a toxic relationship is a nuanced journey, shaped by numerous factors influencing the decision to leave. The challenges persist through the separation/divorce process, creating a difficult path as you grapple with the aftermath and figure out the next steps, especially when children are involved. In today's episode, our special guests shed light on the divorce experience from both a mother's and a child's perspective, providing valuable insights and empathy for those facing similar challenges. Join us as we explore this important conversation.
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Комментарии • 68

  • @FlorenceKohlase-gw7eh
    @FlorenceKohlase-gw7eh 7 месяцев назад +7

    Wow! Im so impressed with mom and daughter, sharing their divorce experience. I relate a lot with their story and feel its gonna help a lot of women, who are in the same situation and are conflicted whether to leave or stay for the sake of the children. I did the same, chose my children and left, than to stay in a toxic environment.

  • @lubimo9810
    @lubimo9810 7 месяцев назад +9

    Kesi is so smart, Lydia got it from her mama

  • @gracebanyu6863
    @gracebanyu6863 7 месяцев назад +13

    The fear of doing marriage counseling or therapy and end up going back to the situation..😮‍💨😮‍💨

  • @yvonneochieng5291
    @yvonneochieng5291 7 месяцев назад +6

    Well said Mama Lydia.Peace is more important than Chaos in a childs life .

  • @faithnyambura245
    @faithnyambura245 7 месяцев назад +5

    Having parents who can hold and host when at breaking point it's a blessing ❤,......I wish I had such parents

  • @esthermutahi2811
    @esthermutahi2811 7 месяцев назад +6

    The Day I learnt that I matter my life matters and No one has me except me is the day I learnt to always put myself 1st regardless. Am a single mum and never a single day did is ever blame myself for anything because I asked myself who cared for me. Who asked me if I was okay or not? Who asked me if I was happy or sad? Since that day I have shut down society's noise and unnecessary life pressure.
    So, I worked on myself to give my best to my child and I would want to give my child the best version of me emotionally, Mentally and Finacially so far good am so happy. Co-parenting well

  • @ritawanjohi5621
    @ritawanjohi5621 7 месяцев назад +12

    I follow this whole family Aggie, Lydia, and mom and let me tell you the confidence and ability to articulate is on another level. Good job mama girls, I pray for God's guidance to do the same for my little girl.

  • @MaAndMe101
    @MaAndMe101 7 месяцев назад +3

    Lydia has an awesome mum.Very wise.I can see why Lydia is so charismatic ❤

  • @perismkala4275
    @perismkala4275 7 месяцев назад +3

    Wow Lidya and your mamaa you are so wonderful and you have same looks 🤍💜🤍💜 Clare 👏👏👏 thanks for the guests

  • @rhodabyoga
    @rhodabyoga 7 месяцев назад

    Look at you ladies making me cry especially at the end😭You are all so amazing! I thank God for this platform...Clare, thank you so much for partnering with God to bring healing to the world 🥰

  • @catenduati8493
    @catenduati8493 6 месяцев назад +1

    I left too.. and it is the best decision I made for myself. I thank God who has been with me because family did not receive me well.. My mum ni wale wa 'as a wise woman you got to stick it out'.

  • @mimoPendo
    @mimoPendo 7 месяцев назад +1

    Wow this was so amazing and impactful 🎉🎉 Thank you for this ❤

  • @bilhahnjeri6427
    @bilhahnjeri6427 7 месяцев назад +1

    Wow great listening to Lyd n her mum love them ❤❤

  • @sheilanyakinyua9649
    @sheilanyakinyua9649 7 месяцев назад +7

    wow....what an insightful and wholesome conversation. I truly loved everything about it. Amazing guests. I just loved the energy. To many more.

  • @missblessedbellablessed
    @missblessedbellablessed 7 месяцев назад +3

    Anywhere Lydia is...we subscribe baby🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤😍😍😍😍

  • @luciamuasya987
    @luciamuasya987 7 месяцев назад +1

    Just subscribed to your channel.. What excellent conversations here!!!! Keep doing this. I love this so much.

  • @nthulijoan6741
    @nthulijoan6741 4 месяца назад

    Learning alot...thanks Claire, Lydia and Kesi.

  • @Life.Seasons
    @Life.Seasons 7 месяцев назад +1

    such great insights!!!! Looooooove it!!!

  • @annkangethe3943
    @annkangethe3943 7 месяцев назад +1

    Such an inspiring conversation to listen to. So many nuggets to take home. kudos Mum Lydia you're the best❤

  • @emmanyokabi6350
    @emmanyokabi6350 7 месяцев назад +2

    Whoa..what an affirmation this conversation is..key takeaway, focus on the present..

  • @lilliangithui
    @lilliangithui 7 месяцев назад +1

    When Mama Lyd said "I could kiss him on the mouth😂😂😂" watched that thrice. However, very true. What is out there is grand compared to the peanuts you get in a toxic marriage. Also what I have noticed from toxic marriages is that there is usually the blessing (?) Of more and more children. Many women I know who stick to toxic marriages get 4-6 children. Happier marriages tend to have less number of children. You should discuss next time about family planning/celibacy after divorce because the next tragedy that can follow is more children when you're already on your own and in a make or break economic situation.

  • @user-pg2rs1jh3t
    @user-pg2rs1jh3t 7 месяцев назад

    Interesting conversation here ❤i love it three amazing ladies

  • @ruthwambui7656
    @ruthwambui7656 7 месяцев назад +2

    OMG so glad to find this podcast ❤️

  • @e.s.t.a.r
    @e.s.t.a.r 7 месяцев назад +1

    The conversation was very insightful. I love the energy in the room!

  • @evelynmbithe
    @evelynmbithe 7 месяцев назад +3

    Such a wholesome conversation. Had a great time watching 3 of my favs and I have gotten such gems and insights. Thank you for being vulnerable.

  • @RosaliaShiweva
    @RosaliaShiweva 7 месяцев назад +1

    What a beautiful conversation. God bless you all for opening up. To us .🖤🖤

  • @meshmesh1840
    @meshmesh1840 7 месяцев назад +3

    mama lyd is sooo good.kudos

  • @lyntwinomugisha
    @lyntwinomugisha 7 месяцев назад +1

    This was a blessing in every way thank you

  • @graciakinyanjui6937
    @graciakinyanjui6937 7 месяцев назад +3

    Die hard fun on Lydia anywhere she goes i follow now her mum wow...

  • @janembuko8774
    @janembuko8774 7 месяцев назад

    Amazing ❤Lyd's mum is lovely and strict. I can tell from this far

  • @eliaikankini3826
    @eliaikankini3826 7 месяцев назад +1

    The conversation was so insightful ❤

  • @SO-xi6vm
    @SO-xi6vm 7 месяцев назад +1

    I hope I reach this point with my mother and family …❤️

  • @jjwmki
    @jjwmki 7 месяцев назад +1

    I love Anna so much 😍

  • @brendahodongo1727
    @brendahodongo1727 7 месяцев назад +1

    Three powerful and gorgeous women❤❤❤

  • @joycemwangi9180
    @joycemwangi9180 4 месяца назад

    I did try therapy but on my very first session my therapist said that she would like for me to come with my ex during the next session and that was the end of therapy for me.

  • @thealuway
    @thealuway 7 месяцев назад +1

    Claire's laugh is beautiful

  • @faithnyambura245
    @faithnyambura245 7 месяцев назад +2

    I love mama Lydia

  • @missreche
    @missreche 7 месяцев назад

    Good conversation

  • @vionamoraa9982
    @vionamoraa9982 7 месяцев назад +1

    Am here❤❤❤

  • @sheilamarangu
    @sheilamarangu 7 месяцев назад +1

    Am present ❤❤❤

  • @ruthmwanza
    @ruthmwanza 7 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful!

  • @estherchibutia3283
    @estherchibutia3283 7 месяцев назад

    Wise woman

  • @Gloriakerry
    @Gloriakerry 7 месяцев назад +1

    Present

  • @estherchibutia3283
    @estherchibutia3283 7 месяцев назад

    Hey claire

  • @mlawinancy
    @mlawinancy 7 месяцев назад +2

    This was wholesome and relatable on many levels. Let's learn to extend grace to people going through it. 🩷

  • @nthulijoan6741
    @nthulijoan6741 4 месяца назад

    Learning alot...thanks Claire, Lydia and Kesi.