Kelly Rowland I Angie Martinez IRL Podcast
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- Опубликовано: 31 май 2024
- IRL is back and we’re excited to bring you two new interviews a month. In this episode, Angie pivots from conversations surrounding mortality and superpowers to tap into a recent and defining real life life moment. Singer, Actress, Wife and Mother of 2, Kelly Rowland joins Angie to discuss generational trauma, risk, rejection and keeping your sanity through it all.
Their conversation about parenting styles and breaking generational cycles lead them both to unpack their lingering daddy issues. Kelly shares how a 23 And Me ancestry kit led her to connecting with her father and opens up the space for Angie to share her own recent experience of finding her biological father. These two women are able to hold up a mirror to each other that allows for an episode full of vulnerability and honesty.
After years of standing side by side with one of the world’s bigger stars, Kelly Rowland finally feels confident in her own light. And her light that shines so bright in this interview, you won't want to miss it.
► Timestamps
00:00 Intro
02:00 - Kelly Rowland on her family experience
04:30 - Kelly Rowland has breakdowns too
09:08 - Kelly Rowland on gentle parenting
12:04 - Kelly Rowland on finding her father
13:09 - Evelyn Lozada helps Angie Martinez find her biological father
17:00- Angie Martinez breaks down
18:51 - Kelly Rowland’s take on rejection, boundaries, and love
21:00 - Angie and Kelly’s Daddy Issues show up in their dating lives
41:35- Kelly Rowland on Beyoncé's work ethic
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I love how Kelly spoke life into Angie and help her process her father's rejection. She's just so sweet and nurturing.
Beyonce is the mother of group lol every destinychild member said that
Honestly, I feel like it would be Michelle.
@@bluedalia1114 You're right! I got them mixed up. Went ahead and edited my comment.
And that's what confuses me about people saying Aquarius is blunt and heartless. We support everyone's light.
"Rejection sucks, especially when it's flowing through your veins" Powerful.
When Kelly said that I was like wow!!
@@nikevabrown6614 That line had me in Awe🙏🏾
Yes, that was really powerful. 💯😌✨
Yeah i had to write that one down ✨
That phrase spoke volumes 🙌🏾
Kelly for me is the standard. She is just pure positive energy
I love me some kelly rowland 💕
Exactly! I like her and I like the video with her and Ayra Starr. That's video show is so dope. I love seeing the beauty of these two women.
EXACTLY!!!
Facts
Absolutely
When Beyoncé said Kelly’s voice is like water and rain, she hit the nail on the head. Kelly’s speaking and singing voice is so soothing and pure. I could listen to her talk all day.
where Beyonce said that?
@@JefersonSantos-bt1ef the Survivor album outro’s. The last track on the album. You should listen to it.
She said that about Michelle. But don’t worry she had so much love for Kelly too.
Beyoncé said Kelly’s voice is clear, it’s just so easy going
No, Kelly said that about Michelle
Kelly is ageing extremely well. She looks more beautiful and happy as the years go on. I'm really enjoying Angie's podcasts, I wish her all the success, she deserves it.
Kelly is so pretty to me. Her personality absolutely matches her looks. Even her size, her voice, her gestures, she’s evenly beautiful inside and out.
just gorgeous!
Well said!!! I was trying to say it and you summed it up.
Kelly has this quiet confidence that is out of this world! Wisdom, confidence, and chill all at the same time!
I'm so glad Angie complimented the way Kelly shines next to Beyonce without sinking or competing. She's a true friend and gem to be able to shine in her lane alot of ppl probably couldn't handle it.We stan Kelly and wish her nothing but the best
Shouldn’t she want to compete with Beyoncé
@@angels8920 no.
And I hope Kelly KNOWS how bright she shines next to B or on her own.
@@chamarioc but Beyoncé is very successful shouldn’t she want the success that Beyoncé has
@@angels8920 No. That's her family. Some things are more important than career. Kelly seems to have a Me vs Me mentality, which is the healthiest kind of goals.
Angie said it better than i have been trying to say it for YEARS... Kelly stood next to one of/ if not the biggest stars in the WORLD and still shined.. THAT in itself is worth being proud of
Yes but that’s also because Kelly had the first solo #1 out of the group, so she knew what she could bring.
@@cartersoshady What was it? Was it Dilemma?
yes kelly was Bigger than beyonce First solo
@@niveaxospeak it!! First Grammy as a solo artist out of the group as well
Finally an interview that didn't allow Beyoncé & Destiny's Child to over shadow the interview. Love to see it!!
Kelly is aging better than a fine wine. She has such poise and elegance about her.
Drink lots of water
That’s it. It’s the poise and elegance that puts her in a totally different class. You can’t buy that.
Kelly really shines at interviews… she’s so smart and speaks so eloquently.
It’s amazing. She’s genuinely a nice person.
Yes though I miss her short natural hair . Like when she first came out! The natural hair made her stand apart .
Once latavia and letoya left the group Kelly was appointed the spokesperson of the group for the most part because of eloquence during interviews.
Kelly is such a beautiful spirit and person
I absolutely 💯% AGREE inside and out 😊
My favorite.... her and Latoya Luckett 🥰
Toya is dope, indeed
@@rnbfreak74 YES! Love both of them!
Kelly and Ari Lennox share the same energy!
I met Kelly one time at a club, she was with Michelle and Beyonce was in a separate section with Jay-Z,...Kelly was so so sweet and willing to spend time and give me advice about the industry, her advice, stay true to you! ☺️seems she does just that. She is so lovely💕
Kelly’s face card is on POINT 😍 she’s beautiful
what about your face
@@mecaa6780 idk, ask your mom
Face card never declines my gawd
Always been
She is beautiful her skin is flawless
When Kelly said Tim told her he wanted to share his family with her I cried. That’s beautiful!
She is literally one of the most beautiful women in the industry. It’s refreshing to know that her spirit and personality matches her outer beauty
Yeah!! Her, Ashanti and Christina Malian have the prettiest faces ever!!!
This felt more like a conversation than an interview. Beautiful conversation!
I agree.
I don’t think there’s one Kelly interview where I can’t stop smiling. She’s so angelic, so wise and a real gem to black and brown people. We love you Kelly! ❤❤ p.s. We need that talk show lol! She has a unique ability to heal others, thats her God given talent, I can feel it.
Kelly is a great listener. I learned something just watching how she listened to Angie and gave her uninterrupted space to have her moment about her father. I had the pleasure of meeting her briefly once and her good energy is so obvious and palpable.
Me too! I saw that! Kelly was actually going to say something in the moment, then caught herself, sat back and let Angie just talk and feel. It was beautiful. Listening is underrated.
she is literally media trained so perfect
To literal perfection!
I think most of its natural
kelly needs her own podcast, she's awesome!!!!
DaMn. What I love that as a man I can sit here and listen to this at 4:41am with my daughters and wife (they’re 😴) and laugh 😂, shed 😢a couple tears, genuinely take things in, integrate things and ultimately understand myself better.
To be a better person for me…
A better father
A better Son ⛅️
A better husband
A friend and a better man Man to my community.
🙏🏾 you all for being vulnerable 🎉
Kelly is so WARM, just listening to her you can hear the compassion in her voice. This conversation was so lovely to witness.💛
I LOVE that you Interviewed Kelly. Ppl seem to forget about her and I LOVE watching her. Ppl like her and Ciara just seems positive at all times to us. She comes off non judgmental and a vibe to be around.
I agree,I like them both Kelly n Ciara
These women are doing the necessary inner work. lt's so beautiful. This blessed me.
Perfect description. Inner work.
It's so refreshing to listen to women talk about life experiences and getting in touch with their soul themselves. No gossips and nastiness.
It’s interesting how we give parents who leave so much empathy. We make up stories to help us to deal with the truth which in many cases they just walked away. But on the other hand we give the parent who stayed and raised us the roughest time. And I think we do that because we know no matter how bad we treat them they will never walk away
I believe we romanticize abandonment. For the parent who stays, we get to experience them in full capacity. We see them happy, angry, frustrated, tired, ya know what I mean? For the absent one we don't experience them that way and we create the image of them that we need in order to cope with their absence. It's usually a happy one because we need to believe that we would be better suited where the absentee parent is. We should be nice to the parent that stays because we understand how hard it is to raise a child when they're impacted by the abandonment too.
@@cyensmith6788 You hit everything spot on😘
@@cyensmith6788 oof. This was difficult to read 💔. Thank you
@@cyensmith6788 This was deep like I read this finished and my mouth was opened damn near on the floor. I didn't have my dad in my life when I was 9 my mom moved from Jersey to N.Carolina. I seen my father again at the age of 18&22 due to my uncle and brother passing away. After that my father came in my life again May 22,2020 and our relationship has grown greatly. We talked about his absence and why he choice that path but at the tender age of 37 I was able to understand. I thank God for this part of my life and I wouldn't want it no other way!
This is no interview. It’s two Queens talking about life 💜🤲🏿
My favorite Child of Destiny since day one. This was beautiful. Angie I appreciate you for creating this space that allows us to see them In Real Life
Me too
Me three
Me four!!!
Kelly knew what she was doing when she said that she thought, "What if he doesn't want meet me because he doesn't want to revisit that part of his life?"
She did it with grace in order to give Angie something to think about while she is processing her dad's rejection.
I totally agree. Kelly blessed Angie and she was the guest.
Im in tears rn. Tried to find my dad at 13 too and he wanted nothing to do with me but guess what we made it without them
💔I lost my dad a few months ago. He wasn't perfect, and I gave him a hard time sometimes. But one day he told me "I'm sorry for my mistakes, but at least I never abandoned you, or rejected you. I always claimed you, and did my best". This episode made me cry so much! I'm so thankful for my dad & miss him so much 💔💔💔
As a 44 yr old who grew up listening/watching these two ladies I want to say thank for this.
You are both amazing ❤️
I CRIED THROUGH THE PART OF ANGIE'S POPS NOT WANTING TO CONNECT with her. that must have been SUPER HEART BREAKING. glad that ANGIE is vulnerable enough to share her own stories makes the pod balanced/authentic 👏 ... The reality of how moments are similar all over the globe just makes you understand that we are one despite color, race or nationality. imagine i am all the way deep down IN Kampala UGANDA, Eastern part of AFRICA & i connect to the stories
I wonder why he wouldn’t be proud of his very successful daughter .
Kelly just therapized all of us... I am not crying phuck it, yes I am😭
Kelly is EVERYTHING!!!! 🥰😍
If Kelly's grandma sang background for Lena Horne, Cab Calloway and other REAL singers in that era, she really had a voice. People back then were authentic in their vocals and range.
Wow Angie!!!! Thank you for being so vulnerable. Each episode reminds me of your impact on our culture, your grace, and longevity!!!
I love this new genre of social media long-form one on one interviews. This is the new reality tv for me. Dave Letterman is doing it, Katie Couric is doing it. Angie, you truly are one of the great conversational interviewers of our time. 💐
Social media is good-hearted when it's use positively but most of Social media is negative
Kells is intelligent, intellectually knowledgeable & honest. Her heart seems humongous 💜
It's the Aquarius in her ❤
Kelly is the essence of sweet beauty
WOW Kelly, "it is rejection Angie." Very profound acknowledgement of Angie's pain. Kelly is a woman with emotional empathy.
This episode really hit home for me. It’s nice to see that I’m not alone in some of the things I’ve experienced and to see two beautiful, successful, SELF-AWARE women that I’ve always admired growing up validate the feelings I’ve struggled with means a lot to me. ❤
Amen 💯 I grew up listening to Hot 97
I’m so glad you don’t feel alone anymore, because you never was sis. However, I just want to say that you don’t need anyone to validate your feelings. They are yours and you get to feel your feelings, sit with your feelings, and move through them. As long as you don’t let them dictate your life, it’s all about growth.
@@Khadijah_time thank you for that ❤️ that’s been something I have learned over the past 3 years. I moved out of the country, did a lot of traveling, a lot of soul searching and found my inner peace and joy. Much love to you
@@KpTheG You’re very welcome sis. Love to hear it! Live in power. Much love to you and your loved ones… ❤️
Angie, you are love. Even when others couldn’t see it. Thank you for this vulnerability, it will serve many whose name you’ll never even know ❤
Angie is just amazing WOW ✨🌟💐
Beautifully stated
❤❤❤❤
When Angie said she chose people who would disappoint her, I burst into tears. Huge aha moment for me. That was the part of my early 20’s and 30’s where I chose people who were unavailable. Thank God for healing and growth. 🥺
Kelly has blossomed so much over the years. Shes never been more beautiful, confident and at peace with herself. Her TAGG era was a bit heavy for her so I understand the hiatus, but I need all of this energy in album #5 🔥
I love the whole album… still play it like it just came out…
@@jessiahwilson8298 Same here! 💎
TAGG still gets bumped to this day. That was a Grammy worthy album with so many hit singles
To. This. Day. 👏@@CourageofFaithLLC
Prayers for Angie!!! That story about her father is crazy. That’s a really said story…
How can you not love Kelly Rowland!
I absolutely love & adore me some Kelly! I will always stand on the fact that she is underrated and overshadowed in her abilities & talents. She really is that freakin girl! I’m sooo proud of how far she’s come even going through the abusive relationship she was in before her husband she handled with dignity. Her spirit is beautiful & bright. I love this podcast because it’s always just open dialogue, no forced & awkward questions, just authentic conversation. Another great one for the books Angie! ❤👏🏾
I had such an amazing relationship with my father that it broke my heart listening to Angie’s story of trying to reconnect with hers.
Me too. I could never imagine my daddy doing that.
Me too! I realize that I have a true true true blessing in my father and him being my best friend
@@sitc.1577 Exactly ❤️
Don’t ever sink for anybody!
You stand straight.
You put your head and face forward.
And you KNOW exactly what YOU bring to the table.
The shine is bigger. You look better together!
SAY IT KELLY!! 🙌🏾🧘🏾♀️
Why do I feel like this is the first time we’ve EEEEVVVER truly gotten a view of Kelly and Kelly alone in all her singularity. Just an amazing interview.
She deserves the life she got now! She went throw a lot… but when you start loving yourself you attract that… love Kelly she is the best!!
5:20 Anxiety attacks are no joke. God bless her, she's just awesome.
Kelly’s essence reminds me a lot of if we were able to experience Aaliyah today. Elegant and graceful women forsure
Kelly always been my chosen one of the destiny's child. Gracious indeed
I absolutely love the way Angie interviews people. She is phenomenal. This interview was amazing & so warm. Kelly is such a bright light. I love how she lets her guard down and just relaxes into the convo. This was beautiful to watch & felt like 2 really good girlfriends having a chat. 💜
I never realized I how much Kelly looks like Aaliyah . Maybe the beauty and grace in the two is what I’m picking up on. Or maybe it’s the unit but she reminded me of her and how she’d be like if she were still here 😢
She doesn't tf
Kelly Rowland's voice is just so soothing and pure almost like you could listen to her talk all day. She looks so ravishing and seeing her smile is just heartwarming to witness. It was a beautiful conversation to be had.
Thank you Kelly for being so open and vulnerable.
The fact that Kelly, a guest, held space and compassion for Angie, mind blown. It's interesting that as a guest she had to hold space for her when she was there to be interviewed.
That’s the way women who are comfortable in their skin, treat , communicate and genuinely have compassion for our sameness. Both Angie & Kelly are great communicators . And aren’t afraid to show vulnerability. Great conversation just happened . Not a interview vibe. Most artist love participating in Angie’s plateformes.. she genuinely gifted & knows much about who’s across from her . No petty mess happens, all truth & positive 🦋🤲🏾🪽
I LOVE how Angie made this interview about KELLY and Kelly only. I (and I'm sure others may have) clicked on this interview hoping I was going to get stories about Destiny's Child and what it's like to work with Beyonce. But I love that Angie really wanted Kelly to tell HER story, did not do anything for click bait and made sure to redirect the conversation back to Kelly whenever it did take a detour into talking about other people. I've learnt alot and it's so great.
First off Kelly Rowland is freaking BEAUTIFUL!!! Second off, I LOVED this interview ❤
Kelly's energy is so amazing...she's being so honest ..open and vulnerable....it's refreshing❤
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I hate seeing Angie cry 😭 but I love her vulnerability! ❤️ Honestly, it’s her dad’s loss. Angie seems like a great person & she’s a living legend on top of that. One day he’ll regret pushing her away.. mark my words!
Her speaking voice is so calming and beautifully perfect. Beyoncé has said how clear and perfect her voice is.
Kelly’s light and grace shines so bright. I love how she explained the her/Beyoncé dynamic- incredible! Keep shining Kelly❤
Kelly looks so youthful.❤
Not being a "podcast person", this has been my favorite show/series by far. It has truly helped me realized things about myself and how I need to heal or handle life situations bc bruuuuuhhhh....
Thank you to Angie and her guest for being so vulnerable, real, and open and for just sharing these experiences with us.
Mrs. Kelendria Trené Rowland Witherspoon 🙌🏿
I'm so sorry Angie its your dads loss. You are so amazing and accomplished, and he should be honored to have you as a daughter. You are love and light and anyone who doesn't see that is not someone who needs to be apart of your life. ❤
Kelly is such a compassionate, beautiful (inside and out) and talented soul.
Kelly voice is beyond perfection it’s like speaking to yr guardian angel. The only other person I can honestly say this about is Whitney Houston
This entire podcast is amazing! Every episode is better than the next. Angie truly is the voice of NY, she just has a blessing to speak and reach people.
This was refreshing… and Kelly speaks so well she should do voice acting or children’s reading.
This was so light and healing. Her confidence and secure attitude has always been such a light. 💛
Your children will mirror everything we haven't resolved in our childhood
Somehow I felt like the interview was a bit more about Angie but I didn’t mind. Hopefully this helps her heal. I appreciate her being vulnerable. A lot of times people are encouraged to rekindle with absent parents because there’s this idea that it’ll be hugs and rainbows but it’s not always the case. I love how reassuring Kelly was. What a sweet soul!
I could listen to Kelly all day. She has such a beautiful spirit. She has a healing presence.
It will always be a treat to see moments with the children of destiny. We got LeToya on the R&B Money podcast this summer, we have this fantastic conversation with Kelly, and of course we have the phenomenal Renaissance act l (praying DC is part of act ll or lll). Kelly looks stunning as always.
Side note: Say My Name (Timbaland Remix) at Coachella….. soul left my body.
Not happening
Kelly Rowland is seriously one of
The most beautiful women on this earth. Her glow is ridiculous. These women could neverrrr. Skin is FLAWLESS
Kelly is so Healthy and Grounded. ✨ What a refreshing, uplifting, and REAL conversation. ❤
I grew up listening to Angie on Hot97. I actually wanted to be her lol. Listening to her speak about her dad and the rejection made me want to hug her through the screen. I cried with her. She’s phenomenal and he’s missing out!
We love you Kelly! Never think you are less than. You are number one, in your own lane, a beautiful spirit based on your life and experiences. Never try and measure yourself against another person, always be the best version of you. That is what you will be measured by. May God bless you and your family.
You can see she didn't she was never for sale. Sis sold nothing she was always on her lane and spoke her truth 😌😍
Amen
I love the way Angie shares her experience and incorporates the tidbits of Kelly's experience within her own. She knows how to share while also making the person feel understood and seen.
There should have been a trigger warning at the beginning of this. This had me deep in my feelings regarding absent fathers. Great episode! Kelly is such a light! Blessing to you both.
Sometimes we just need a good cry. We hold it in & every once in a while we just need to allow ourselves to feel and cry.
Kelly is STUNNING!!! Like wow
Kelly is a 10+ very beautiful inside and out.
Kelly Rowland is one of the most beautiful genuine persons ever ❤❤
Kelly is absolutely STUNNING. A NATURAL BEAUTY ✨️ 😍
Drink that water and moisturize
Kelly is gorgeous and hasn’t aged at all!
Kelly Rowland is such a Legend! Love her new EP "K"
Also she spazzed on the Bloody Samaritan remix 🔥🔥
The EP is so good
This went past interview to two compassionate women taking time to nurture each other in similar experiences. It was special to watch.
Oh, Angie!! She has such a sweet soul. I’m so sorry that her father turned out to be a total jerk. She deserves to know her father and his family. To top it all off, she never judged that man, and always showed him grace. I pray that God shows him the error of his ways and he comes to her💜🙏🏾💜🙏🏾
Wow…. I’m sorry that happened to Angie…but at least she did get closure for finding her father and that he’s alive… and who knows maybe one day he will reach back out to her…if not then it’s his loss….
Kelly is GLOWING! So radiant and beautiful! ✨
OMG! Kelly is such a healer. The therapy in this interview is worth its weight in gold. What a blessing this 44:19 minutes was to my life. My heart is full
The was great!!! Kelly Rowland is genuine, down to earth underrated artist. I love how Angie makes people she interview feel comfortable❤❤❤
I really really appreciate this conversation especially Angie’s side… I realize that I don’t have to carry the shame of my Father’s abandonment. I know that I have literally tired EVERYTHING in my power to amend this relationship, but I’m realizing maybe he just doesn’t have the capacity to love me the way I need. It hurts and sucks. But underneath it I feel free
I relate to that too. I've never seen my father, the only picture I've ever seen of him was his high school ID card that he had left in my mom's backpack. I was a teen pregnancy. I look back now & give my mom grace bc she didn't know what she was doing, she was a child w/ a child & had no help. Dad left her after she said I'm pregnant. I found an address of his online, showed up & found out from a neighbor he got evicted & has a bad drug problem. 😔 I need to let it go & find peace. Sorry 4 my long reply & thanks 4 your comment. I'll pray for your peace too 💖
@@internetenjoyer1002 This conversation and your reply helps validates my feelings, so I truly appreciate your reply! I wish you peace and healing in your process of letting go! 🙏🙏🙏