This girl is weird. She heard her mother just say that her husband was boring, so she cheated on him every chance she got and got knocked up twice and didn't know who the father was each time. Admittedly the 1st and 2nd child wasn't his and because of what she said he thought the 3rd one wasn't his either. So he went about his life! That is not his fault. It's her momma's...🤷🏾♀️
Right! She's mad at the dad when her momma was running around in the streets having babies with men who WEREN'T her husband. I was kinda hoping he wasn't her father bc her whole attitude towards him is very toxic. She blames her life on him when it was all her loose mothers doing..smh..
The Judge was throwing so much shade, she asked multiple times in so many words why did your mother solely go after Lyndon and not tell the courts there are multiple possibilities... 🤣🤣😂
Mom was hoping he was the father because if not, she’s been with so many men and doing drugs during that time,she would not know where to start looking.
What is the daughter so upset with the dad when mom has said she was a party girl sleeping around with multiple men she don’t even know who the daughter’s dad is flip a coin unbelievable
The only thing that ever stood between her and knowing who her father was is her mother. He was right, if she went for child support back then then the law would definitely find him if that was actually the problem. Blame your mammy!
This is the first time I heard an African American man saying you should have gotten the hand of the law to find me and bring me to justice. He is an honourable man.
Is this sarcasm? Why can't people be responsible outside of the court system? all You doing is adding extra fees and jail penalties. He so honorable he ignored this woman every time she reached out. The mama dead wrong but I wouldn't classify the dad as honorable. If he was taking care of step kids why leave her out? Doubt or no doubt
Moms was bogus as they come. She's the sole reason behind that man's doubt. She wasn't sure he was the father. How can a man be the father his child needs when he sees his child he sees doubt and past hurt? Moms didnt hold her own self accountable for any wrongdoing regarding his lack of presence in their daughter's life. Baby girl blamed a lot of her own struggles on him which is tough knowing the circumstances. Dad was wrong for trying to establish something his heart wouldn't allow w/out certainty. Moms comments after the results were blasphemy! Men get a raw deal sometimes...and demonized with their actions even after being wronged.
What were her struggles , in her opening statement she said no one in school liked her . I’m her closing statement , she said she was homecoming queen . Guess who elected her ? Her peers , so that was a lie . She said she can’t hood onto friendships ,how is that the dads fault . He tried to have a relationship with her when she was 17 , and she said nope , I’m about to be 18 and party . This is a female playing victim . She and the momma need to do better .
@@RayneZaleska She told him he was not. The first child where he thought he was the father he was proven not to be. So, why should he have not believed her?
@@mzzkatrina2954 He was not given proof that the first child was not his. They both stated that she told him he wasn't and that he believed her. I'm guessing she had a paternity test with the other man and it came back positive? He KNEW there was a chance he wasn't the plaintiff's father because he said it himself. But there was still that possibility, so it was up to them both to figure out if he was or was not the father. Just because someone else claims there is a possibility, he is not the child's father does not absolve the man of the responsibility to determine whether or not he is. That is the most serious issue in the majority of these episodes. When the man hears the word "possibility," he automatically assumes it means "I am not" or "I cannot." It's the same with infertility; in most "male infertile" episodes, the man claims his doctor told him he was infertile and can never have a child. When, in reality, the man is told that there is a chance he is infertile and may not be able to father a child.
@@RayneZaleska they did have a paternity test for the first. My question is why does the majority of the blame fall on the man? If a man is told him he was not the father. No man should be able to go through that hurt because the woman doesn’t know. I’ve seen that hurt because of her carelessness. It tears a man to shreds.
The daughter was very one sided at the beginning. The mother is there admitting she was partying, selling drugs and sleeping with multiple men and yet she was directing most of her anger towards her father. I hope they can work thru their differences.
It's usually because that's how the mama frames it for the kids. "He isn't here doing anything. He's a dead beat. He won't stand up as a man and be a father to his child."
@@ButtonsCasey I think with this one it's more than she found him and he still threw her to the curb and neglected to develop a familial relationship with her even though she tried to and wanted one so bad.
Because if you know there’s a possibility, avoiding it for any amount of time is careless. Regardless of the moms promiscuity, you are one of the possibilities, the sooner you get the dna test, the better
@@BigKash320 I did not say he didn't play a role but he wasn't the only one at fault. They both were. With that being that same energy should of equally been directed towards her mother as well.
The father said some powerful words. Yes , we are all Gods children. And we didn’t ask to be born. I’m happy she finally found her earthly father and I’m sure he will shower her with love cause she deserves it.
Good evening PC cousins, hope everyone is enjoying their 4/20 and I apologize for being late... But can ALLLLLLLLLLL the Sista's take a moment to appreciate Mr. Harrison's front swoop?! I can't be the ONLY one who remembers struggling for THAT level of perfection and smoothness. 😂😭😭🥺😌🙌🏾
the mother saying he wasnt there in the past yet SHE was in prison and she CHOSE to live the lifestyle that took her away from her daughter too, the hypocrisy 🤦♀️
I was looking for this comment! She has all this built in anger towards him and talks about how he blew her off at the bus stop YEARS LATER and forgets that he did try at one point to be a father figure in her life but she wasn’t having it. Maybe he also doesn’t take rejection well
No! She is the child. The burden was all on him. All of it. It's not up to the child to say thank you for crumbs of a relationship after 18 years of nothing
That’s what they did back then. My brother doesn’t know who his father is and my mother won’t tell him. She never drank/done drugs from what we have been told our whole life. A lot of the women in my family think like this woman does
Notice how the mom expressed that she saw this dude as a mark, and sleeping with other men, but the daughter only had ill words for one of her mothers victim.
Listen to this mother ¨He give me money, blah, blah, blah, blah, he give me money, blah, blah, blah, blah, he give me money¨ Yeah courting. No, that´s not courting. Nice try judge.
I felt her when she said she grew without him and he was in the same state. I live in the exact home my father purchased in 1992 before I was even born. I have the landline still working with the same number. I have graduated 5 times and I live less than 25 miles from my father and the majority of his family. I don’t see them. I don’t hear from them and I honestly don’t know them. It’s hard. He was in my life daily until I was 11. My mom got rid of him and he decided to get rid of me. Was he a great father, no. The trying. The reaching out. The attempts he didn’t ever make spoke volumes on his character. If a man tries even if there is doubt like this case it shows you care. You at least think about it. My father knows I belong to him. My father taught me how to tie my shoes and how to work on cars and that you can make something out of pretty much nothing yet I was so forgettable. I’m now grown and I thank him for not coming around. It hardened me and made me a better person. I’ve seen my father a total of twice in 13-14ish years. I feel for her so much. I’m so thankful I had an amazing mom in my life and I pray she had someone positive for herself as well. This case got me today. It really got me. He should have tried harder knowing there’s a fatherless girl out there who needs guidance and did NOTHING. I hope they turned that around. I wish we had some update videos.
@@McCalister I don’t plan on speaking to him. I don’t want to be around people or deal with people who don’t want to be around me. I’ve tried and now I’m just done. My brothers feel the same way.
I can so relate to this young woman... I always knew who my father was, but he was never there for me and he never kept his promises. I didn't even feel like I'm a human being to my real dad, I felt like an object that could be tossed to the side. And my stepdad likes me most days.
Her mama voice started shaking too hard talking bout how he wasn't the daddy. She Knew he wasn't the daddy. I aint even finished the video and I'm betting it. Edit: he was the daddy and the mama still ain't take no responsibility. She found him for the divorce but couldn't find him to get A DNA test, that's bs.
Miss Artishia is articulate, eloquent and beautiful! I can see why she won beauty queen, and I’m so happy that she grew into such a well adjusted young woman. I applaud her. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Several times the mother called her daughters potential father a bama, yet at no point did Judge Lake reprimand, or at least correct the woman from using that slur.
@@Bih1stOfAll Sensitive? First off I'm simply speaking facts, and second if a guy had uttered anything remotely close about her previous activities in a derogatory manner he would have gotten reprimanded.
"I tried to find him. The court had to find him for my divorce....". So WHY COULDN'T THE COURT FIND HIM FOR CHILD SUPPORT? Something don't add up in this story. "How DARE YOU" blame my mama for sleeping around and cheating and not knowing who my father was.' How DARE you have doubts. 🤦🤷 Girl. take a seat and take a breath. Did you not hear your mama confessing to being for the streets??? Side note: If you have this problem with ALL the men you have relationships with, the problem might be you.. Just saying. 🤷. The mother is the exact reason the daughter is blaming it all on her father. Mama blamed him all these years. Daughter grew up believing he just ghosted them. Why would he want to get all involved with a person who is a stranger to him, until he finds out for sure she is his daughter?
@@ebenezermamabolo2063 your so right about that, and its becoming a pattern now a days. One of the reasons too is because the courts are so unfair to the father in most cases and the mothers know that so they manipulate the child/ children and tell them all kinds of lies and brainwash them about their father.
@@ebenezermamabolo2063 it is a shame. My father was not the best but one thing I respected about my mom she never tried to keep us away from him nor tell us anything negative. Therefore I always say no way my mom can stop me from having a relationship with my dad. Whatever flaws he have let me figure it out and then decide if I want to have a relationship with him. Not gonna be bitter for the rest of my life either. Bitterness can cause health issues. Dont have no time for that. Dont wanna be bitter I always want to be better!
If I were on this show trying to find my dad, once he started preaching like he did, I would have said, ¨Judge. I change my mind. I don´t want to hear any results. I´m good. ¨
So I was looking for some Black/Latinx videos the other day and I came across your channel. I was like that’s homeboy from the court show comments. Lol just wanted to say I love your content.
Oh now I remember. It was Langston Hughes! I read a poem by him in high school and I have not been able to find it since (2005) so I was looking on RUclips and came across your channel.
@@KPbouj Thanks. I changed my channel up big time. Yep that´s me though. I used to be Black Lit. Black Hist. I got tired of rereading those books to do videos. I had planned on doing a few more books but never got around to it. I am planning on doing some bilingual videos on health because the black and Latino populations are riddled with bad health.
The girl is so beautiful...but sad. Hope and pray her heart heals and she realizes the jewel that she is...A person’s value is not diminished just because others do not see it. Wishing her the best!
She may have a sad life that she didn’t deserve….but she is NOT beautiful physically or mentally LOL. Her & the mom have terrible personalities & attitudes. She blames the dad for her past issues….but she showed that she was clearly just one of those difficult females who push people away with they bad attitude & entitlement.
This mother made a mess of her life and her daughter's as well and both mother and daughter are trying to make the man look bad, but mother take the blame for your actions and apologize to them both
The mother is trying to take the credit for the daughter’s achievements at the end yet all she has to thank is she had a mother who brought up her granddaughter right while she was busy Partying.
I do appreciate that both parents admit what the didl was wrong and they both take responsibility for their wrongness the child is the only one who is feeling the pain and she was not choosen to be here and the man says very powerful words that not so many people will admit what they have done is wrong.
People like to say a man is taking care of children that aren't his, sometimes that man is just there but he's doesn't support those children ,secondly he's there because he chose to be. Get over it.
I really feel sorry for the dad...what a nice man he is . All this mess is because of her mother but she is not seeing no wrong done by her mother. I was so dissapointed when she didnt want to hug her father...if i was in this man position i was never gonna have no relation ship with her .She is going to be is a big trouble in this man s life.I dont think she will even respect her step mother. She must go with her mama period
@@Kensington2714 Any man that was interested in this young lady and saw her attitude to her father would send them running for the hills; clearly she is one-tracked and can only pin blame on men.
Be mad at your mother because who gets married and cheats on their husband and the child is not his, y’all work it out and she does it again so eventually he leaves after the third baby turns out to no be his this is crazy! How can you be married and all the kids turn out to not be your husband’s kids no wonder he left I would have left to.
This girl is weird. She heard her mother just say that her husband was boring, so she cheated on him every chance she got and got knocked up twice and didn't know who the father was each time. Admittedly the 1st and 2nd child wasn't his and because of what she said he thought the 3rd one wasn't his either. So he went about his life! That is not his fault. It's her momma's...🤷🏾♀️
Right! She's mad at the dad when her momma was running around in the streets having babies with men who WEREN'T her husband. I was kinda hoping he wasn't her father bc her whole attitude towards him is very toxic. She blames her life on him when it was all her loose mothers doing..smh..
Down low Stockholm Syndrome 🤦🏾♀️
She should focus on meeting her siblings.
Yep! Most definitely
Sister Code
I can’t stand when the mothers hold zero accountability!!!!
It is COMPLETELY the mother’s fault. She’s a horrible, horrible woman.
@@Ohgrowup1 horrible!!
It's like saying it's the man's fault for the thing to happen.
I wouldn’t say she held zero , but she definitely didn’t take on even half .
Agree 💯💯💯💯💯! How hard is it to say “I’m sorry”?
He scared the mess outta me when he started Preaching 😂 I was like, where’d that come from? 😆
Lol
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Same here! That turned quick fast!
Me too🤣🤣🤣😱
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The Judge was throwing so much shade, she asked multiple times in so many words why did your mother solely go after Lyndon and not tell the courts there are multiple possibilities... 🤣🤣😂
Another mother never taking accountability for issues they created. Its really sad
Exactly 💯 you're right
Mom was hoping he was the father because if not, she’s been with so many men and doing drugs during that time,she would not know where to start looking.
She said that at the end..I had captions on..only way to understand what she said
Pops was close to speaking in tongues during that outburst. 🤣🤣🤣🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Yassssss 😂
lol
Sooooo the daughter's grandma was a T.H.O.T too 🤔🙄😂😂
I think he did cause i didn’t understand a word.
Amen 🙏
What is the daughter so upset with the dad when mom has said she was a party girl sleeping around with multiple men she don’t even know who the daughter’s dad is flip a coin unbelievable
I think she was upset because he strung her along when she did try to reach out to him one she was older.
Because those two are exactly the same! Rotten to the core!
Seriously, you have no right to be angry with your dad
because always the men was wrong. a the mother don blame her
The only thing that ever stood between her and knowing who her father was is her mother. He was right, if she went for child support back then then the law would definitely find him if that was actually the problem. Blame your mammy!
💯 Like you can find me for a divorce but not for a DNA test. Smh
She is a mammy
@@mr.culturefreedom2073 not nice
@@richmac7212 right, she could’ve handled both of those at the same time *if she wanted to*
This is the first time I heard an African American man saying you should have gotten the hand of the law to find me and bring me to justice. He is an honourable man.
🙄 or any other race I hope 😂😂
@@Troubledmilinda1 they said what they said 😒
That's right 👋
Exactly that's a real man right there.
Is this sarcasm? Why can't people be responsible outside of the court system? all
You doing is adding extra fees and jail penalties. He so honorable he ignored this woman every time she reached out. The mama dead wrong but I wouldn't classify the dad as honorable. If he was taking care of step kids why leave her out? Doubt or no doubt
Moms was bogus as they come. She's the sole reason behind that man's doubt. She wasn't sure he was the father. How can a man be the father his child needs when he sees his child he sees doubt and past hurt? Moms didnt hold her own self accountable for any wrongdoing regarding his lack of presence in their daughter's life. Baby girl blamed a lot of her own struggles on him which is tough knowing the circumstances. Dad was wrong for trying to establish something his heart wouldn't allow w/out certainty. Moms comments after the results were blasphemy! Men get a raw deal sometimes...and demonized with their actions even after being wronged.
What she saying just didn't make sense to me so I just clicked off
McCalister Nicholas - Your words are Perfect!! and said
with respect.
@@Mikesbabygurl7 thank you
@@McCalister You are very welcome :).
What were her struggles , in her opening statement she said no one in school liked her . I’m her closing statement , she said she was homecoming queen . Guess who elected her ? Her peers , so that was a lie . She said she can’t hood onto friendships ,how is that the dads fault . He tried to have a relationship with her when she was 17 , and she said nope , I’m about to be 18 and party . This is a female playing victim . She and the momma need to do better .
And... The mother is still not willing to own her mess. That daughter is something. He has his hands full!!!
If this was Judge Mathis he would have called the Momma a crackhead by now 😂😭 All that mumbling and stuttering, knowing she’s lying.
He sure would have🤣🤣
LOL!
I’m weak 😭😭
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did she just say that should have been done a long time ago blaming him. wow you need to grow up and realize this was your mother's doing
This. right here.
It was both of their doing. He knew there was a possibility from the beginning but did nothing to find out if she was indeed his child.
@@RayneZaleska She told him he was not. The first child where he thought he was the father he was proven not to be. So, why should he have not believed her?
@@mzzkatrina2954 He was not given proof that the first child was not his. They both stated that she told him he wasn't and that he believed her. I'm guessing she had a paternity test with the other man and it came back positive?
He KNEW there was a chance he wasn't the plaintiff's father because he said it himself. But there was still that possibility, so it was up to them both to figure out if he was or was not the father.
Just because someone else claims there is a possibility, he is not the child's father does not absolve the man of the responsibility to determine whether or not he is.
That is the most serious issue in the majority of these episodes. When the man hears the word "possibility," he automatically assumes it means "I am not" or "I cannot." It's the same with infertility; in most "male infertile" episodes, the man claims his doctor told him he was infertile and can never have a child. When, in reality, the man is told that there is a chance he is infertile and may not be able to father a child.
@@RayneZaleska they did have a paternity test for the first. My question is why does the majority of the blame fall on the man? If a man is told him he was not the father. No man should be able to go through that hurt because the woman doesn’t know. I’ve seen that hurt because of her carelessness. It tears a man to shreds.
Did he start preaching at the end… I done stood up and said “ praise the Lord” 🙌🏾
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All I could think of was the five heartbeats 😂😂😂😂 “My business hours are from nine to five” 😂
Omg 🛑 it messed around and almost killed me I see it too 🤣🤣🤣👍🏾
I can't unsee it 😳
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lool where is that?
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BRAVO!!!! Stand up Dad, the Mother had the nerve to call him a Bama and boring.What a mess.
Right, like her sleeping with half the city was any better
When he started preaching y’all I lost it! 🤣
The daughter was very one sided at the beginning. The mother is there admitting she was partying, selling drugs and sleeping with multiple men and yet she was directing most of her anger towards her father. I hope they can work thru their differences.
It's always that way because they see it as mama was there for me raising me. He wasn't. That's the logic. I don't agree with it but yeah.
It's usually because that's how the mama frames it for the kids. "He isn't here doing anything. He's a dead beat. He won't stand up as a man and be a father to his child."
@@ButtonsCasey I think with this one it's more than she found him and he still threw her to the curb and neglected to develop a familial relationship with her even though she tried to and wanted one so bad.
Because if you know there’s a possibility, avoiding it for any amount of time is careless. Regardless of the moms promiscuity, you are one of the possibilities, the sooner you get the dna test, the better
@@BigKash320 I did not say he didn't play a role but he wasn't the only one at fault. They both were. With that being that same energy should of equally been directed towards her mother as well.
The father said some powerful words. Yes , we are all Gods children. And we didn’t ask to be born. I’m happy she finally found her earthly father and I’m sure he will shower her with love cause she deserves it.
There is no god. There are plenty of suckers who think there is.
Good evening PC cousins, hope everyone is enjoying their 4/20 and I apologize for being late... But can ALLLLLLLLLLL the Sista's take a moment to appreciate Mr. Harrison's front swoop?! I can't be the ONLY one who remembers struggling for THAT level of perfection and smoothness. 😂😭😭🥺😌🙌🏾
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The mother, by her own testimony, is responsible for this situation. I dont see why she is blaming the father. The parents were a mismatch.
The first thing he said after the results was "Congratulations" 😆 🤣 😂 😹
The daughter should be placing more anger towards her "mom"!
the mother saying he wasnt there in the past yet SHE was in prison and she CHOSE to live the lifestyle that took her away from her daughter too, the hypocrisy 🤦♀️
......The mom is still bout that life.
I feel sorry for the Dad. The mom was using him.
I was like, if she says HE WAS GIVING ME MONEY one more time 🙄
I did too until he started preaching.
@@jasonito23 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@jasonito23 Yea, he lost me right there 😂😂😂
@@jasonito23 So? She still did him wrong.
The mom said "he was giving me money" so many times.
Exactly!!
Is she blaming HIM for nit being there when she was in jail, on drugs. Abd out sleeping around leaving her parents to raise her kids
Can't understand why the girl is blaming the man, after hearing all what her Mum just said
The mother brainwashed the daughter but the daughter grown now and she still can’t see that her mom was the true reason she had no father growing up
But didn't she say, when she was 18 he came to look for her but she blew him off to go party? Talk about double standards.
I was looking for this comment! She has all this built in anger towards him and talks about how he blew her off at the bus stop YEARS LATER and forgets that he did try at one point to be a father figure in her life but she wasn’t having it. Maybe he also doesn’t take rejection well
Like mother, like daughter. Parties were more important than knowing her father.
No! She is the child. The burden was all on him. All of it. It's not up to the child to say thank you for crumbs of a relationship after 18 years of nothing
The mother was a party girl and sleeping around. You can’t blame it all on the man.
Huh all i see is ppl blaming the the woman but ok....
@@livingdollnextdoor … the woman that tried to pass off 2 other children as the “father’s” before #3 came along.
That’s what they did back then. My brother doesn’t know who his father is and my mother won’t tell him. She never drank/done drugs from what we have been told our whole life. A lot of the women in my family think like this woman does
Notice how the mom expressed that she saw this dude as a mark, and sleeping with other men, but the daughter only had ill words for one of her mothers victim.
This man hair is taking me all the way out!! 😂😂
At least he doesn't have the stache that goes with hit😂
Listen to this mother ¨He give me money, blah, blah, blah, blah, he give me money, blah, blah, blah, blah, he give me money¨ Yeah courting. No, that´s not courting. Nice try judge.
The judge was trying to be respectful.
His fried, dyed, laid to the side hair-do did it for me 🤦🏽♀️
Asia
I heard dat!
His look is correct...who is the hairdresser, I need a 'do.😊
Good thing he doesn't have the stache that comes with it😂
The daughter can't be on her mom side only she needs to understands the father side of story as well
Fact dr
She was towards the end of testimony. She said she grew up thinking her married parents were IN LOVE...they never explained the situation to her.
That lady was tooo fast for that man
I felt her when she said she grew without him and he was in the same state. I live in the exact home my father purchased in 1992 before I was even born. I have the landline still working with the same number. I have graduated 5 times and I live less than 25 miles from my father and the majority of his family. I don’t see them. I don’t hear from them and I honestly don’t know them. It’s hard. He was in my life daily until I was 11. My mom got rid of him and he decided to get rid of me. Was he a great father, no. The trying. The reaching out. The attempts he didn’t ever make spoke volumes on his character. If a man tries even if there is doubt like this case it shows you care. You at least think about it. My father knows I belong to him. My father taught me how to tie my shoes and how to work on cars and that you can make something out of pretty much nothing yet I was so forgettable. I’m now grown and I thank him for not coming around. It hardened me and made me a better person. I’ve seen my father a total of twice in 13-14ish years. I feel for her so much. I’m so thankful I had an amazing mom in my life and I pray she had someone positive for herself as well. This case got me today. It really got me. He should have tried harder knowing there’s a fatherless girl out there who needs guidance and did NOTHING. I hope they turned that around. I wish we had some update videos.
Sounds like you need to talk to your father and speak with a counselor...🙏🏾
@@McCalister I don’t plan on speaking to him. I don’t want to be around people or deal with people who don’t want to be around me. I’ve tried and now I’m just done. My brothers feel the same way.
I grew up with my father in the home, but he wasn't really there for me emotionally! 😩
Girl, I got you! I don't even know which is worse💔❤️🩹
Exactly. Some people grew up with dads and wished they had a different one. It goes both ways.
I can so relate to this young woman...
I always knew who my father was, but he was never there for me and he never kept his promises.
I didn't even feel like I'm a human being to my real dad, I felt like an object that could be tossed to the side.
And my stepdad likes me most days.
Her mama voice started shaking too hard talking bout how he wasn't the daddy. She Knew he wasn't the daddy. I aint even finished the video and I'm betting it.
Edit: he was the daddy and the mama still ain't take no responsibility. She found him for the divorce but couldn't find him to get A DNA test, that's bs.
Miss Artishia is articulate, eloquent and beautiful! I can see why she won beauty queen, and I’m so happy that she grew into such a well adjusted young woman. I applaud her. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
No tears came out of her eyes in her opening monologue
The potential father with that "light skin girl swoop" in the front of his head😂😂😂😂
I can’t believe how that man yells, I can’t handle people yelling like that, it’s immature behavior. Why would she want him to be her father..
Several times the mother called her daughters potential father a bama, yet at no point did Judge Lake reprimand, or at least correct the woman from using that slur.
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whats a bama?
A "bama" isn't a slur...just means he's country....ya'll so sensitive 🙄
@@Bih1stOfAll exactly!!
@@Bih1stOfAll Sensitive? First off I'm simply speaking facts, and second if a guy had uttered anything remotely close about her previous activities in a derogatory manner he would have gotten reprimanded.
Lawd when he started hollering I clutched invisible pearls. He had the sudden urge to preach?? 😳🥴😂🤦🏾♀️
Lol
Your mom chose the streets instead of her marriage and you’re mad at the father?🤦🏽♂️
The daughter must be mad that someone ( the Dad) didn’t rescue her from the mother.,,
"I tried to find him. The court had to find him for my divorce....". So WHY COULDN'T THE COURT FIND HIM FOR CHILD SUPPORT? Something don't add up in this story.
"How DARE YOU" blame my mama for sleeping around and cheating and not knowing who my father was.' How DARE you have doubts. 🤦🤷 Girl. take a seat and take a breath. Did you not hear your mama confessing to being for the streets???
Side note: If you have this problem with ALL the men you have relationships with, the problem might be you.. Just saying. 🤷.
The mother is the exact reason the daughter is blaming it all on her father. Mama blamed him all these years. Daughter grew up believing he just ghosted them. Why would he want to get all involved with a person who is a stranger to him, until he finds out for sure she is his daughter?
She was taught to hate him and blame him for everything even though the mother caused this herself.
@@ebenezermamabolo2063 your so right about that, and its becoming a pattern now a days. One of the reasons too is because the courts are so unfair to the father in most cases and the mothers know that so they manipulate the child/ children and tell them all kinds of lies and brainwash them about their father.
@@arnellataylor3310 what a shame that is
@@ebenezermamabolo2063 it is a shame. My father was not the best but one thing I respected about my mom she never tried to keep us away from him nor tell us anything negative. Therefore I always say no way my mom can stop me from having a relationship with my dad. Whatever flaws he have let me figure it out and then decide if I want to have a relationship with him. Not gonna be bitter for the rest of my life either. Bitterness can cause health issues. Dont have no time for that. Dont wanna be bitter I always want to be better!
Feels so good and emotional when he grabbed her hand at the ends! Enjoy your dad girl
She is GORGEOUS 💕
SHE DID NOT KNOW WHO YOUR DAD WAS! SO BE HAPPY
Does anybody else say thank you Jerome with her LOL
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The only one the daughter has to blame is her mother, no one else.
The daughter in this situation is beautiful. I hate that she had to chase him so many times for answers. :(
If I were on this show trying to find my dad, once he started preaching like he did, I would have said, ¨Judge. I change my mind. I don´t want to hear any results. I´m good. ¨
😂😂😂 agreed!
So I was looking for some Black/Latinx videos the other day and I came across your channel. I was like that’s homeboy from the court show comments. Lol just wanted to say I love your content.
Oh now I remember. It was Langston Hughes! I read a poem by him in high school and I have not been able to find it since (2005) so I was looking on RUclips and came across your channel.
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@@KPbouj Thanks. I changed my channel up big time. Yep that´s me though. I used to be Black Lit. Black Hist. I got tired of rereading those books to do videos. I had planned on doing a few more books but never got around to it. I am planning on doing some bilingual videos on health because the black and Latino populations are riddled with bad health.
She found him for the divorce but didn't ask for child support as part of the divorce??
Why is the daughter fully blaming the father
Everything aside, I would like to have a drink with the mom. She seems like the type to tell you all of her mistakes (and throw in a few lies).
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Off topic but his eyebrows are on point & his hair is laid okay 💅🏾
This guy's hair is too much LOLOLOL... Glad he is the father though lol.
Mom you are the problem 😢
Like mother, like daughter!
What kinda grown man gotta ask his lady for permission for his daughter to come see him
The girl is so beautiful...but sad. Hope and pray her heart heals and she realizes the jewel that she is...A person’s value is not diminished just because others do not see it. Wishing her the best!
I don't know about beautiful, but she okay I guess.
@@mjareacts2731 her spirit isn't beautiful...blames her Father but no looking at how much her Mother is to blame!
She may have a sad life that she didn’t deserve….but she is NOT beautiful physically or mentally LOL. Her & the mom have terrible personalities & attitudes. She blames the dad for her past issues….but she showed that she was clearly just one of those difficult females who push people away with they bad attitude & entitlement.
This mother made a mess of her life and her daughter's as well and both mother and daughter are trying to make the man look bad, but mother take the blame for your actions and apologize to them both
That gorgeous young lady looks just like her father. May God richly bless this family.❤
She the daughter said he tried to be there when she was 18 but she didn’t want him around, she was eighteen and wanted to party and with her friends.
Clearly the mother is at fault for this situation. The children always see that their mother can do no wrong.
Daughter : my daddy wasn't around
Mom: I am a 304
mama ain't never wrong, the daughter staying on code regardless of historical facts.
Crazy
The mother is trying to take the credit for the daughter’s achievements at the end yet all she has to thank is she had a mother who brought up her granddaughter right while she was busy Partying.
I do appreciate that both parents admit what the didl was wrong and they both take responsibility for their wrongness the child is the only one who is feeling the pain and she was not choosen to be here and the man says very powerful words that not so many people will admit what they have done is wrong.
The child-child passionately enjoys placing blame, she wants to grind it in for profit.
Good! Her father ows her!
Trifling. Trifling. Trifling.
Mom.....Know what I'm just gonna be quiet...
People like to say a man is taking care of children that aren't his, sometimes that man is just there but he's doesn't support those children ,secondly he's there because he chose to be. Get over it.
I really feel sorry for the dad...what a nice man he is . All this mess is because of her mother but she is not seeing no wrong done by her mother.
I was so dissapointed when she didnt want to hug her father...if i was in this man position i was never gonna have no relation ship with her .She is going to be is a big trouble in this man s life.I dont think she will even respect her step mother. She must go with her mama period
Oh I feel the same way..she's going to try to crush this man's soul every opportunity she gets. She's just as toxic as her garden tool mom
@@Kensington2714 Any man that was interested in this young lady and saw her attitude to her father would send them running for the hills; clearly she is one-tracked and can only pin blame on men.
Poor guy. He threw pearls to a swine !
Mama was the village watering hole !
Again, the father gets blamed.
Lol
You can't help these swine! Man should have just left that rotten path alone. What vile creatures I have seen today!
THE MOTHER HAS NERVE ! WHAT ABOUT YOU CHEATING ON YOUR HUSBAND! YOU WERE AND STILL ARE A HOT MESS ! Shame on you !
I'm really trying to understand his hairstyle 😩
The dude is rocking a 1940s hairstyle.
@@cherylcarampot3268 😁
It's the latest...
Soon to be copied by many😂
@@cariciaangela3052,yeah if" we were in the 1940s when the loved their slick hair oil.
@@cherylcarampot3268 Didn’t Young Joc do this to his hair? 😂 Had a lil public bus driver swoop.
Little Richard looks so nervous😅😆
I’m trying to figure out how they made him out to be the bad guy.
Mama calling him a bama because he goes to work and church AND keep the kids???
I must have the wrong definition of a bama...bc he clearly wasn't
I feel for this man.
Be mad at your mother because who gets married and cheats on their husband and the child is not his, y’all work it out and she does it again so eventually he leaves after the third baby turns out to no be his this is crazy! How can you be married and all the kids turn out to not be your husband’s kids no wonder he left I would have left to.
This is some testimony that I don't want to here... I was selling drugs, partying...omg
The mother never wants to take accountability for anything.
I don't like those two women. I hope Mr Harrison doesn't allow these two to trash him because they are that type.
Moma was for the streets
When old street walkers doesn't know who their baby daddy is but get mad when in fact the woman was loose
Mom takes no responsibility at all.
Young Lady mad at Him what about Her Mama she was doing the do she maded a mess of the relationship nt him he was real 💯 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Bless your heart young lady. Try to let your pa love on you. You are Wonderful
Girl u mama was the one bussing it down not him
That was a Happy Ending and Congratulations 👏
Why do the kids always get mad at the dad? Girl u can’t say those things about him bcz he didn’t even know for sure and ur mom was loose !!!